Sexual Addiction Counselling in West Wickham

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Debbie M Wright
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
I am an EMDR therapist, Counsellor and Trauma informed Therapist, with 20 years expereince. I offer psychological support across a variety of issues and my specilist areas are Trauma, complex PTSD, Grief and Loss, with an additional focus on Women’s health and the Menopause. I offer support on a short or long-term basis dependent on your specific needs. Whether your concern is in relation to recent or past events I offer you a safe and confidential environment to explore your issues working together to find solutions to help manage them better. I am BUPA and EAP recgisterred.
I am an EMDR therapist, Counsellor and Trauma informed Therapist, with 20 years expereince. I offer psychological support across a variety of issues and my specilist areas are Trauma, complex PTSD, Grief and Loss, with an additional focus on Women’s health and the Menopause. I offer support on a short or long-term basis dependent on your specific needs. Whether your concern is in relation to recent or past events I offer you a safe and confidential environment to explore your issues working together to find solutions to help manage them better. I am BUPA and EAP recgisterred.
020 4538 7147 View 020 4538 7147
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Bethany Ashley-Smith
Counsellor, COSRT General
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Do you struggle with ADHD, Addiction or Trauma? Have you tried ways of managing any of these aspects and felt that its not working, not sustainable or just to painful? Maybe you dont know where to start or really what the problem is. Therapy or coaching is a great place to start your journey and make sense of how you feel, what you would like to achieve and what this may look like. Sometimes life can feel complicated and feeling heard and making sense of why you may be feeling like you do can be a great starting place.
Do you struggle with ADHD, Addiction or Trauma? Have you tried ways of managing any of these aspects and felt that its not working, not sustainable or just to painful? Maybe you dont know where to start or really what the problem is. Therapy or coaching is a great place to start your journey and make sense of how you feel, what you would like to achieve and what this may look like. Sometimes life can feel complicated and feeling heard and making sense of why you may be feeling like you do can be a great starting place.
020 3835 5605 View 020 3835 5605
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Irma Tarlarini
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
I provide therapy for anxiety, stress, & burn-out: if you’re constantly overwhelmed or emotionally exhausted, I’ll support you in a calm environment where you can talk openly, make sense of what you’re experiencing, and begin to feel better; physically and mentally. I provide Couples therapy, helping you both with communication, sex problems, affairs & betrayals, supporting Monogamous, ENM couples and Poly relationships. I work with Family Issues; conflicts with parents, siblings, or adult children, & estrangement, which can leave you feeling misunderstood or isolated. I’ll help to make sense of your family dynamic to move forward
I provide therapy for anxiety, stress, & burn-out: if you’re constantly overwhelmed or emotionally exhausted, I’ll support you in a calm environment where you can talk openly, make sense of what you’re experiencing, and begin to feel better; physically and mentally. I provide Couples therapy, helping you both with communication, sex problems, affairs & betrayals, supporting Monogamous, ENM couples and Poly relationships. I work with Family Issues; conflicts with parents, siblings, or adult children, & estrangement, which can leave you feeling misunderstood or isolated. I’ll help to make sense of your family dynamic to move forward
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David Poynor
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Serves Area
Life can be overwhelming, and whether you’re feeling stuck, anxious, or weighed down by past experiences, seeking support is a powerful first step toward change. Many of my clients come to me feeling lost, unsure of their next move, and often exhausted by the pressures of daily life. You might be wrestling with feelings of isolation, frustration, or a sense of “not being enough.” Therapy offers a safe and confidential space where you can slow down and work through challenges in a meaningful way. I work collaboratively with clients to overcome challenges like anxiety, depression, trauma, and self-esteem issues.
Life can be overwhelming, and whether you’re feeling stuck, anxious, or weighed down by past experiences, seeking support is a powerful first step toward change. Many of my clients come to me feeling lost, unsure of their next move, and often exhausted by the pressures of daily life. You might be wrestling with feelings of isolation, frustration, or a sense of “not being enough.” Therapy offers a safe and confidential space where you can slow down and work through challenges in a meaningful way. I work collaboratively with clients to overcome challenges like anxiety, depression, trauma, and self-esteem issues.
020 8059 2143 View 020 8059 2143

More Therapists Nearby

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Eoli Halatsa-Kalian
Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
Online Only
You may address issues as an Individual or within a Family or Relationship setting; or your concerns may be more intimate entailing a Psychosexual or Sexual Addiction/Compulsivity issue
Negative feelings are often rooted in past trauma causing anxiety, sadness, low self-esteem and resentment. Together we can explore any thoughts and emotions which make you feel uncomfortable and find effective, practical ways to reduce their voltage and impact on your daily life. 'You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf' - Jon Kabat-Zinn (1944-)
You may address issues as an Individual or within a Family or Relationship setting; or your concerns may be more intimate entailing a Psychosexual or Sexual Addiction/Compulsivity issue
Negative feelings are often rooted in past trauma causing anxiety, sadness, low self-esteem and resentment. Together we can explore any thoughts and emotions which make you feel uncomfortable and find effective, practical ways to reduce their voltage and impact on your daily life. 'You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf' - Jon Kabat-Zinn (1944-)
01895 547655 View 01895 547655
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Anthony Frost
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
London SW15
I am a Psychosexual (Sex) and Relationship Therapist with additional training in Sex Addiction Counselling for compulsive sexual behaviour. I am a Gender, Sexuality & Relationship Diversity affirming practitioner, offering a non-judgemental, supportive space where I encourage openness and honesty and embrace the diversity and uniqueness of my clients. I have an MSc in Psychosexual (Sex) Therapy, a Post Graduate Diploma in Relationship Counselling and an Advanced Diploma in Sex Addiction Counselling. My original training was as a Psychotherapist & CBT therapist and I have been been working in private practice and the NHS since 2012.
I am a Psychosexual (Sex) and Relationship Therapist with additional training in Sex Addiction Counselling for compulsive sexual behaviour. I am a Gender, Sexuality & Relationship Diversity affirming practitioner, offering a non-judgemental, supportive space where I encourage openness and honesty and embrace the diversity and uniqueness of my clients. I have an MSc in Psychosexual (Sex) Therapy, a Post Graduate Diploma in Relationship Counselling and an Advanced Diploma in Sex Addiction Counselling. My original training was as a Psychotherapist & CBT therapist and I have been been working in private practice and the NHS since 2012.
020 3835 4641 View 020 3835 4641
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Hannah Chrystal
Verified Verified
Online Only
I’m Hannah Chrystal, a psychotherapist and holistic practitioner specialising in trauma and addictive behaviours, with over 15 years of experience supporting individuals and couples through challenging and transformative moments in their lives. I’ve worked across both private and community settings, including managing and delivering specialist programmes such as Amy’s Place with the Amy Winehouse Foundation, supporting young women affected by addiction. I also spent five years working at the Priory Group on Harley Street, providing high-quality therapeutic support in a leading clinical environment.
I’m Hannah Chrystal, a psychotherapist and holistic practitioner specialising in trauma and addictive behaviours, with over 15 years of experience supporting individuals and couples through challenging and transformative moments in their lives. I’ve worked across both private and community settings, including managing and delivering specialist programmes such as Amy’s Place with the Amy Winehouse Foundation, supporting young women affected by addiction. I also spent five years working at the Priory Group on Harley Street, providing high-quality therapeutic support in a leading clinical environment.
020 3962 1275 View 020 3962 1275
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Eva Nogales - EN - sex and relationship therapy
Counsellor, MSc, COSRT General
Online Only
I’m a psychosexual therapist specializing in relationships and sexual wellbeing. I meet people who feel stuck—wanting to understand themselves better, shift unhelpful patterns, and find direction in their sex lives or relationships. Together, we create a space for curiosity and honesty, where even difficult conversations can feel natural and open. This is a place to make sense of what’s going on and begin to create change.
I’m a psychosexual therapist specializing in relationships and sexual wellbeing. I meet people who feel stuck—wanting to understand themselves better, shift unhelpful patterns, and find direction in their sex lives or relationships. Together, we create a space for curiosity and honesty, where even difficult conversations can feel natural and open. This is a place to make sense of what’s going on and begin to create change.
01767 669826 View 01767 669826
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Elisa Cosac
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
Online Only
I specialize in the emotional world of men navigating masculinity, fatherhood, and partnerships while carrying high levels of responsibility. If you're reading this, you're likely capable and outwardly functioning well. But internally something feels off: disconnection, repeating patterns, distance in your close relationships. You want deeper connection, renewed intimacy and a grounded way of relating that's real, not performed. You may be navigating painful patterns you can't break, balancing leadership demands with emotional presence at home or rebuilding after years of drift.
I specialize in the emotional world of men navigating masculinity, fatherhood, and partnerships while carrying high levels of responsibility. If you're reading this, you're likely capable and outwardly functioning well. But internally something feels off: disconnection, repeating patterns, distance in your close relationships. You want deeper connection, renewed intimacy and a grounded way of relating that's real, not performed. You may be navigating painful patterns you can't break, balancing leadership demands with emotional presence at home or rebuilding after years of drift.
020 4572 4926 View 020 4572 4926
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Louis Carruthers
Counsellor, MBACP
London E1
I am an Integrative Counsellor (MBACP) and I work with adults and couples both in-person and online on a wide range of behavioural, emotional, and relationship issues. I am here to provide a safe and non-judgmental space for individuals to explore their thoughts and feelings and facilitate self-awareness and movement towards healing and growth. I have been trained in a number of modalities including person-centred, psychodynamic, existential, cognitive, and relational approaches. My practice also draws on embodied/somatic approaches to trauma. My approach is tailored to the client and what works best for each individual.​
I am an Integrative Counsellor (MBACP) and I work with adults and couples both in-person and online on a wide range of behavioural, emotional, and relationship issues. I am here to provide a safe and non-judgmental space for individuals to explore their thoughts and feelings and facilitate self-awareness and movement towards healing and growth. I have been trained in a number of modalities including person-centred, psychodynamic, existential, cognitive, and relational approaches. My practice also draws on embodied/somatic approaches to trauma. My approach is tailored to the client and what works best for each individual.​
020 3949 7725 View 020 3949 7725
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Dr Lizaveta van Munsteren
Psychotherapist, PhD, BPC
London WC1E
I work with a wide spectrum of psychological and emotional challenges, ranging from common life difficulties and temporary crises to more severe and persistent mental health disturbances. This includes feelings of unhappiness, low self-esteem, anxiety, depression, and a sense of being stuck, as well as deeper emotional distress caused by traumatic experiences and long-standing inner conflicts. I also provide a space to explore intimate and relational concerns, including those that may feel difficult to talk about. This includes looking into complex aspects of sexuality, desire, and personal identity.
I work with a wide spectrum of psychological and emotional challenges, ranging from common life difficulties and temporary crises to more severe and persistent mental health disturbances. This includes feelings of unhappiness, low self-esteem, anxiety, depression, and a sense of being stuck, as well as deeper emotional distress caused by traumatic experiences and long-standing inner conflicts. I also provide a space to explore intimate and relational concerns, including those that may feel difficult to talk about. This includes looking into complex aspects of sexuality, desire, and personal identity.
020 4572 8595 View 020 4572 8595
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Nathan Jones
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
London W1W
I am currently completing my professional doctorate degree, specialising in the compulsive sexual behaviour disorder and sexual addiction.
Are you struggling with sexual urges or behaviours that feel out of control? Perhaps you’ve tried to stop but keep returning to patterns of secrecy, guilt or shame-affecting your relationships, confidence and wellbeing. You’re not alone, and recovery is possible. I specialise in sex addiction therapy and support for Compulsive Sexual Behaviour Disorder (CSBD), including porn addiction, infidelity and intimacy difficulties. My approach is compassionate, confidential and evidence-based, helping you understand what drives these behaviours and build tools for lasting change. After completing my own rehabilitation programme, I founded
I am currently completing my professional doctorate degree, specialising in the compulsive sexual behaviour disorder and sexual addiction.
Are you struggling with sexual urges or behaviours that feel out of control? Perhaps you’ve tried to stop but keep returning to patterns of secrecy, guilt or shame-affecting your relationships, confidence and wellbeing. You’re not alone, and recovery is possible. I specialise in sex addiction therapy and support for Compulsive Sexual Behaviour Disorder (CSBD), including porn addiction, infidelity and intimacy difficulties. My approach is compassionate, confidential and evidence-based, helping you understand what drives these behaviours and build tools for lasting change. After completing my own rehabilitation programme, I founded
020 8106 4749 View 020 8106 4749
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Keith Fowler
Psychotherapist, COSRT Reg.
Online Only
I specialise in helping individuals with sexual behaviour they feel is compulsive or out of control, including problematic porn use and sex addiction. I offer an empathic and non-shaming environment to explore what is going in for you. I know how important it is to work at your pace. Of course, I also help with sex problems, including disappointing erections (ED), rapid or delayed ejaculation, as well as low libido.
I specialise in helping individuals with sexual behaviour they feel is compulsive or out of control, including problematic porn use and sex addiction. I offer an empathic and non-shaming environment to explore what is going in for you. I know how important it is to work at your pace. Of course, I also help with sex problems, including disappointing erections (ED), rapid or delayed ejaculation, as well as low libido.
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Cornetta Williams Walker Msc Mbacp. Ap
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
Serves Area
I have also had the privilege of supporting individuals and families dealing with addiction, trauma, and life transitions, including divorce and separation, parental alienation, and bereavement. My therapeutic approach is integrative, drawing on a range of modalities such as cognitive-behavioural therapy, mindfulness practices, and person-centered techniques to foster healing and growth. I also specialize in ADHD screening, offering non-drug approaches to manage symptoms, as well as sleep coaching to promote better rest and overall well-being. I strive to create a safe, non-judgmental space where clients can grow!
I have also had the privilege of supporting individuals and families dealing with addiction, trauma, and life transitions, including divorce and separation, parental alienation, and bereavement. My therapeutic approach is integrative, drawing on a range of modalities such as cognitive-behavioural therapy, mindfulness practices, and person-centered techniques to foster healing and growth. I also specialize in ADHD screening, offering non-drug approaches to manage symptoms, as well as sleep coaching to promote better rest and overall well-being. I strive to create a safe, non-judgmental space where clients can grow!
07380 316330 View 07380 316330
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Lauren Cook
Psychologist, MSc, HCPC - Forensic Psych.
Online Only
I am a Registered and Chartered Forensic Psychologist; with over 12 years of experience working with individuals facing a wide range of emotional, behavioural, and sexual challenges. My work centres on providing a confidential, warm, and non-judgmental space for you to explore your thoughts, feelings, and behaviours in a supportive environment.
I am a Registered and Chartered Forensic Psychologist; with over 12 years of experience working with individuals facing a wide range of emotional, behavioural, and sexual challenges. My work centres on providing a confidential, warm, and non-judgmental space for you to explore your thoughts, feelings, and behaviours in a supportive environment.
020 4572 2422 View 020 4572 2422
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Sylvia Anim Psychosexual therapist
Psychotherapist, COSRT Accred
Online Only
My goal is to give my clients the safe space to express their sexual concerns, to feel empowered and to see themselves as the star and director in their own show, with self compassion and autonomy at the forefront of every interaction. I take a pluralistic approach that necessitates collaborating with my clients to help them achieve their goals in an open, non judgmental and empathetic safe space. I predominantly work with people of all genders and sexualities and relationship constellations from the black community, LGBTQIA and other minority ethnic groups with a wide range of relationship and intimacy concerns.
My goal is to give my clients the safe space to express their sexual concerns, to feel empowered and to see themselves as the star and director in their own show, with self compassion and autonomy at the forefront of every interaction. I take a pluralistic approach that necessitates collaborating with my clients to help them achieve their goals in an open, non judgmental and empathetic safe space. I predominantly work with people of all genders and sexualities and relationship constellations from the black community, LGBTQIA and other minority ethnic groups with a wide range of relationship and intimacy concerns.
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Joanne Arnold
Psychotherapist, MNCPS Acc.
London WC1B
Life is dynamic and as such we must, at various stages of our lives, transform in order to grow and cope with the spectrum of experiences that we will encounter. The many difficulties (and often traumas) of childhood can play major roles in our adult life, often without us being consciously aware of their influence. Unexamined habits and outdated thought patterns can cause havoc in our daily lives and really affect our relationships with ourselves and others. These difficulties and traumas can manifest as blockages to our potential. My aim is to assist you in locating these blocks, understand them and to work through them with you.
Life is dynamic and as such we must, at various stages of our lives, transform in order to grow and cope with the spectrum of experiences that we will encounter. The many difficulties (and often traumas) of childhood can play major roles in our adult life, often without us being consciously aware of their influence. Unexamined habits and outdated thought patterns can cause havoc in our daily lives and really affect our relationships with ourselves and others. These difficulties and traumas can manifest as blockages to our potential. My aim is to assist you in locating these blocks, understand them and to work through them with you.
020 4538 1949 View 020 4538 1949
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Joanne Mander
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
Online Only
Hello there …my name is Joanne and I specialise in Couples Therapy, Psychosexual Therapy and Sex/Porn addiction. All relationships have up’s and downs, this is quite normal and we have to re-adjust when life throws up new challenges. If you are experiencing any of the following difficulties and are finding it hard to resolve, then it may be time to seek experienced support: Do you no longer feel able to talk to your partner or conversations always end in an argument? Or maybe you are experiencing sexual difficulties loss of desire, erectile dysfunction, vaginismus, which are causing you a great deal of distress.
Hello there …my name is Joanne and I specialise in Couples Therapy, Psychosexual Therapy and Sex/Porn addiction. All relationships have up’s and downs, this is quite normal and we have to re-adjust when life throws up new challenges. If you are experiencing any of the following difficulties and are finding it hard to resolve, then it may be time to seek experienced support: Do you no longer feel able to talk to your partner or conversations always end in an argument? Or maybe you are experiencing sexual difficulties loss of desire, erectile dysfunction, vaginismus, which are causing you a great deal of distress.
01538 712308 View 01538 712308
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Ian Richards
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Serves Area
I am a fully qualified Psychotherapist and hold the ATSAC professional Certificate for Treating Sexual Addiction.
If you are feeling nervous about entering therapy I can assure you that this is quite normal and there is nothing to worry about and after the initial session this will pass. I am also a qualified Supervisor for Counsellors and Psychotherapists who work within this area of expertise, and I currently have availability for Supervisee's.
I am a fully qualified Psychotherapist and hold the ATSAC professional Certificate for Treating Sexual Addiction.
If you are feeling nervous about entering therapy I can assure you that this is quite normal and there is nothing to worry about and after the initial session this will pass. I am also a qualified Supervisor for Counsellors and Psychotherapists who work within this area of expertise, and I currently have availability for Supervisee's.
01789 331276 View 01789 331276
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Hope and Success counselling
Psychotherapist, MBACP
77 Endorsed
Online Only
In my opinion a free consultation is a must so you can get a chance to discuss what’s going on for you and how counselling could help. It’s also a chance to get a feel if we are a good match with no obligation to continue. I would be glad to hear from you to see if I can help you. "What to expect? I have a flexible approach to our sessions, I offer brief intervention work for short term problems which may be a reaction to a life event. Longer term therapy for difficulties you may have been experiencing over a long period of time.
In my opinion a free consultation is a must so you can get a chance to discuss what’s going on for you and how counselling could help. It’s also a chance to get a feel if we are a good match with no obligation to continue. I would be glad to hear from you to see if I can help you. "What to expect? I have a flexible approach to our sessions, I offer brief intervention work for short term problems which may be a reaction to a life event. Longer term therapy for difficulties you may have been experiencing over a long period of time.
020 4634 8717 View 020 4634 8717
Sexual Addiction Counsellors
When should someone seek treatment for sex addiction?
People should seek treatment for sex addiction if they cannot control their sexual thoughts or behaviours to the point that it disrupts their ability to function in daily life, for example by threatening their finances, career, or relationships. This may include spending an excessive amount of time obsessing over sex, planning sex, watching pornography, or masturbating, as well as consistently engaging in risky sexual activities, using sex to escape distressing feelings, or attempting yet failing to control sexual behaviour.

What are the most common treatment options for sex addiction?
Psychotherapy is the most common treatment for sex addiction; therapy helps patients better understand their compulsive thoughts and behaviours and develop strategies to manage their desires. Therapy may be supplemented by medications, such as antidepressants, mood stabilizers, anti-androgens, alcohol and substance use medications, as well as support groups, such as 12-step programs.

How long does therapy take for sex addiction?
Recovering from compulsive behaviour takes time and effort. There’s no precise timeline for treatment, but research suggests 12 therapy sessions may be enough to see change. Treatment for sexual compulsions requires honesty in therapy, a commitment to understanding triggers and developing coping skills, and potential lifestyle changes such as cutting out alcohol or drugs.

What if sex addiction is left untreated?
Compulsive sexual behaviour can have serious repercussions if left unaddressed. For example, if sexual obsessions consume the vast majority of a person’s time, they may lose their job. If they can’t stop paying for sex, their finances may suffer. If they’re dishonest in their relationships, their partner may leave them. If they consistently feel shame, they may struggle with anxiety, depression, or loneliness. Therapy can help people develop the tools to manage sexual thoughts and behaviours that feel uncontrollable.