Domestic Abuse Counselling in Warlingham

Faye Starr
Counsellor, BACP
All children can experience trauma, abuse, loss, bullying, illness, family, relationship & friendship issues, gender curiosity, stress & loneliness etc.
I am an experienced and fully qualified (PG diploma, Level 7) integrative young person counsellor, psychotherapist and supervisor specifically trained to work with 5-25 year olds, their families, and CYP therapists. I offer long-term and short-term individual therapy and supervision from my garden room in Warlingham, Surrey (near Croydon, Caterham and Purley) or online.
All children can experience trauma, abuse, loss, bullying, illness, family, relationship & friendship issues, gender curiosity, stress & loneliness etc.
I am an experienced and fully qualified (PG diploma, Level 7) integrative young person counsellor, psychotherapist and supervisor specifically trained to work with 5-25 year olds, their families, and CYP therapists. I offer long-term and short-term individual therapy and supervision from my garden room in Warlingham, Surrey (near Croydon, Caterham and Purley) or online.
07403 936060 View 07403 936060
Jacqueline Doman
Counsellor, BACP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Whatever brings you here, you don't have to face it alone. I offer a warm, supportive space to explore what's going on and what you need. Whether you're struggling with anxiety, low self-worth, relationship difficulties, or grief, I'll help you make sense of things and move forward in a way that feels right for you.
Whatever brings you here, you don't have to face it alone. I offer a warm, supportive space to explore what's going on and what you need. Whether you're struggling with anxiety, low self-worth, relationship difficulties, or grief, I'll help you make sense of things and move forward in a way that feels right for you.
020 3006 8749 View 020 3006 8749
Chloe Afferson
Psychotherapist, MSc, BPC
4 Endorsed
Serves Area
As human beings we have natural, healthy needs, to feel seen, understood, valued, and included. When these needs go unmet, either in childhood or as adults it can cause deep psychological wounds, leading to a range of difficulties including depression, anxiety, low self-esteem and relational challenges. Change can be daunting even when wanted and needed, it can be difficult to make the step towards something new and unknown. Successful therapy acknowledges this and gently questions the, often unconscious, habits keeping us stuck. It opens up new possibilities and perspectives, empowering authentic and lasting change.
As human beings we have natural, healthy needs, to feel seen, understood, valued, and included. When these needs go unmet, either in childhood or as adults it can cause deep psychological wounds, leading to a range of difficulties including depression, anxiety, low self-esteem and relational challenges. Change can be daunting even when wanted and needed, it can be difficult to make the step towards something new and unknown. Successful therapy acknowledges this and gently questions the, often unconscious, habits keeping us stuck. It opens up new possibilities and perspectives, empowering authentic and lasting change.
01883 779628 View 01883 779628
Mags Giza | EMDR, CBT, Supervision
Psychotherapist, MA, MBABCP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
I specialise in complex PTSD and trauma processing, with particular interest in recovery from narcissistic abuse, overcoming childhood trauma, as well as challenges related to adult ADHD.
Hi, I’m Mags. I'm a BABCP Accredited Senior CBT Therapist, EMDR Practitioner, Interpersonal Psychotherapist (IPT-UK Accred) and Clinical Supervisor with over 17 years of experience with the NHS, as well as offering trauma-informed psychotherapy in private practice. A lot of my clients come to therapy when the emotional pain or anxiety have taken over their life. Whether you’re struggling with low self esteem, anxiety, post traumatic stress, C-PTSD or interpersonal problems, I will always strive to put all my knowledge and experience into our shared effort to help you heal
I specialise in complex PTSD and trauma processing, with particular interest in recovery from narcissistic abuse, overcoming childhood trauma, as well as challenges related to adult ADHD.
Hi, I’m Mags. I'm a BABCP Accredited Senior CBT Therapist, EMDR Practitioner, Interpersonal Psychotherapist (IPT-UK Accred) and Clinical Supervisor with over 17 years of experience with the NHS, as well as offering trauma-informed psychotherapy in private practice. A lot of my clients come to therapy when the emotional pain or anxiety have taken over their life. Whether you’re struggling with low self esteem, anxiety, post traumatic stress, C-PTSD or interpersonal problems, I will always strive to put all my knowledge and experience into our shared effort to help you heal
01883 771350 View 01883 771350
Therapy Works Surrey
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Serves Area
Specialising in Trauma, PTSD, C-PTSD, domestic abuse, sexual violation, CSA, pre trial therapy, childhood abuse, addiction, loss.
Therapy Works Surrey, provides a private Counselling and Psychotherapy service Old Coulsdon, previously Caterham. In general, counselling and psychotherapy can help you achieve a happier and more fulfilling life by bringing about changes in the way you think and behave. Improving your Mental Health, balancing mind and Wellbeing. Offering short and longer-term individual counselling, psychotherapy & couples counselling; to help with your personal issues by tailoring her integrative skills to meet your needs & goals.The practice ensures you are provided with the best standard of care.
Specialising in Trauma, PTSD, C-PTSD, domestic abuse, sexual violation, CSA, pre trial therapy, childhood abuse, addiction, loss.
Therapy Works Surrey, provides a private Counselling and Psychotherapy service Old Coulsdon, previously Caterham. In general, counselling and psychotherapy can help you achieve a happier and more fulfilling life by bringing about changes in the way you think and behave. Improving your Mental Health, balancing mind and Wellbeing. Offering short and longer-term individual counselling, psychotherapy & couples counselling; to help with your personal issues by tailoring her integrative skills to meet your needs & goals.The practice ensures you are provided with the best standard of care.
01883 772965 View 01883 772965
Rebecca Gooden
Psychotherapist, MA, HCPC-Drama Therap.
Serves Area
Hello and welcome, Well done for taking your first steps on this journey. I am a mum of three and have over ten years of experience working in various settings as a psychotherapist and arts therapist. I have extensive experience working one-to-one and in small groups, both online and face-to-face. I bring creativity, empathy, and extensive therapeutic experience working with adults, couples, young people and families to my work as a talk psychotherapist and Art Therapist. I totally understand how reaching out for therapy can feel daunting and sometimes quite scary. I'm here when you are ready.
Hello and welcome, Well done for taking your first steps on this journey. I am a mum of three and have over ten years of experience working in various settings as a psychotherapist and arts therapist. I have extensive experience working one-to-one and in small groups, both online and face-to-face. I bring creativity, empathy, and extensive therapeutic experience working with adults, couples, young people and families to my work as a talk psychotherapist and Art Therapist. I totally understand how reaching out for therapy can feel daunting and sometimes quite scary. I'm here when you are ready.
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Lisa Newnham
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
London SW19
You may be navigating loss, difficult relationships, family pressures, low self-worth, trauma, domestic abuse, questions around identity or a period of change.
My Humanistic approach is flexible and tailored to you as an individual. Together we can explore your experiences, relationships and patterns, while noticing what is happening emotionally and physically in the here and now. I offer in-person, online, telephone and Walk & Talk therapy, with specialist training in online and telephone counselling.
You may be navigating loss, difficult relationships, family pressures, low self-worth, trauma, domestic abuse, questions around identity or a period of change.
My Humanistic approach is flexible and tailored to you as an individual. Together we can explore your experiences, relationships and patterns, while noticing what is happening emotionally and physically in the here and now. I offer in-person, online, telephone and Walk & Talk therapy, with specialist training in online and telephone counselling.
01929 501293 View 01929 501293
Laura Manifold
Counsellor, MBACP
London SE15
I have specialist experience in sexual violence and childhood abuse, gained through working in a dedicated trauma service.
I support adults and young people who feel overwhelmed, anxious, stuck in unhelpful patterns or disconnected from themselves or others. Many people I work with struggle with self-doubt, intense emotions, overthinking, boundaries, or relationship difficulties. Others sense something isn’t right but can’t put it into words. I offer a calm, steady space to explore what’s been happening, understand your experiences more clearly and develop grounded ways of coping, always at a pace that feels safe for you.
I have specialist experience in sexual violence and childhood abuse, gained through working in a dedicated trauma service.
I support adults and young people who feel overwhelmed, anxious, stuck in unhelpful patterns or disconnected from themselves or others. Many people I work with struggle with self-doubt, intense emotions, overthinking, boundaries, or relationship difficulties. Others sense something isn’t right but can’t put it into words. I offer a calm, steady space to explore what’s been happening, understand your experiences more clearly and develop grounded ways of coping, always at a pace that feels safe for you.
020 4634 9420 View 020 4634 9420
Amber Sheikh
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I am a qualified psychotherapeutic counsellor and have experience working in a number of organisations and charities providing psychotherapy and counselling in areas such as: Bereavement, Domestic Abuse, Emotional Abuse, Sexual Abuse, Stress and Anxiety, Depression, Divorce, Relationship issues, Childhood Trauma, Cultural Diversity, Racial Identity.
At times life can be challenging and we can get to point where we may feel a bit stuck and need to make sense of things. I seek to create a safe, culturally sensitive and non judgmental space for you to feel heard and understood. I’m here to support you to achieve the changes that you desire for yourself by helping you to process your feelings, gain greater clarity and to build more self awareness.
I am a qualified psychotherapeutic counsellor and have experience working in a number of organisations and charities providing psychotherapy and counselling in areas such as: Bereavement, Domestic Abuse, Emotional Abuse, Sexual Abuse, Stress and Anxiety, Depression, Divorce, Relationship issues, Childhood Trauma, Cultural Diversity, Racial Identity.
At times life can be challenging and we can get to point where we may feel a bit stuck and need to make sense of things. I seek to create a safe, culturally sensitive and non judgmental space for you to feel heard and understood. I’m here to support you to achieve the changes that you desire for yourself by helping you to process your feelings, gain greater clarity and to build more self awareness.
020 4634 1076 View 020 4634 1076
Elaheh Akbari
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
1 Endorsed
London NW7
I specialise in supporting people facing trauma, domestic abuse, family conflict and couples difficulties.
Does your home feel tense or distant? Are you seeking guidance, support, and empowerment to navigate life's challenges and achieve your goals? With over 25 years supporting vulnerable adults and young people I am dedicated to helping you overcome obstacles, unlock your potential, and thrive in your life. I offer specialised support for anxiety, complex trauma, family issues, couples issues, PTSD and many more. Are mental barriers holding you back from moving forward? I understand how relentless that can feel, the spirals, the self-doubt, the pressure to hold it together. You don’t have to carry this alone. We’ll go at your pace.
I specialise in supporting people facing trauma, domestic abuse, family conflict and couples difficulties.
Does your home feel tense or distant? Are you seeking guidance, support, and empowerment to navigate life's challenges and achieve your goals? With over 25 years supporting vulnerable adults and young people I am dedicated to helping you overcome obstacles, unlock your potential, and thrive in your life. I offer specialised support for anxiety, complex trauma, family issues, couples issues, PTSD and many more. Are mental barriers holding you back from moving forward? I understand how relentless that can feel, the spirals, the self-doubt, the pressure to hold it together. You don’t have to carry this alone. We’ll go at your pace.
020 3763 8563 View 020 3763 8563
Kristin Ramsey
Counsellor, MBACP
London SW6
I have a specialist interest in working with survivors of abuse, violence and human-trafficking.
I offer clients a warm, collaborative space to be heard and understood. The therapeutic relationship I aim to create is that of respect, non-judgement and strict confidentiality. This safe foundation allows us to bring clarity and insight to thoughts and feelings, and an environment for exploring positive, lasting change. The pace of the therapy is attuned to individual client needs and experiences.
I have a specialist interest in working with survivors of abuse, violence and human-trafficking.
I offer clients a warm, collaborative space to be heard and understood. The therapeutic relationship I aim to create is that of respect, non-judgement and strict confidentiality. This safe foundation allows us to bring clarity and insight to thoughts and feelings, and an environment for exploring positive, lasting change. The pace of the therapy is attuned to individual client needs and experiences.
020 8059 9452 View 020 8059 9452
Beccy Jackson
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP
Online Only
I specialise in supporting, survivors of domestic abuse (including emotional, physical, and coercive control), People experiencing low self-esteem, self-doubt, and difficulty trusting themselves and empowerment: building self-worth, confidence, and self-love but work with whatever your reasons for coming to therapy, as they are as unique as you are.
Helping make sense of your world. Are you feeling overwhelmed, anxious, sad, or struggling to make sense of life right now? Perhaps you’re finding it hard to trust your own judgment, struggling with low self-esteem, or carrying the impact of a negative or abusive relationship. If so, you’re not alone — and you don’t have to face it alone either. As a qualified Humanistic and Integrative Counsellor, I offer a safe, confidential, and supportive space where you can explore your thoughts, feelings, and experiences at your own pace. Sessions are available via telephone, online video, or live chat (Teams) — whichever feels best for you.
I specialise in supporting, survivors of domestic abuse (including emotional, physical, and coercive control), People experiencing low self-esteem, self-doubt, and difficulty trusting themselves and empowerment: building self-worth, confidence, and self-love but work with whatever your reasons for coming to therapy, as they are as unique as you are.
Helping make sense of your world. Are you feeling overwhelmed, anxious, sad, or struggling to make sense of life right now? Perhaps you’re finding it hard to trust your own judgment, struggling with low self-esteem, or carrying the impact of a negative or abusive relationship. If so, you’re not alone — and you don’t have to face it alone either. As a qualified Humanistic and Integrative Counsellor, I offer a safe, confidential, and supportive space where you can explore your thoughts, feelings, and experiences at your own pace. Sessions are available via telephone, online video, or live chat (Teams) — whichever feels best for you.
01622 234665 View 01622 234665
Therapeutic Nurture Ltd
Counsellor, MBACP
London SE1
My specialist area is working with trauma; domestic abuse, sexual abuse, anxiety and depression.
Counselling is a therapeutic space that can offer you the opportunity to explore the dynamics of your life, privately and confidentially. Below are some questions that my resonate with you. Do you feel numb, detached, or overwhelmed with emotions; such as anger, sadness or loneliness? Have you ever felt as if those around you don't understand what you're going through? Do you feel stuck, not knowing who to turn to or what direction to take in life? Are those that are close to you the cause of or contributing to your distress?
My specialist area is working with trauma; domestic abuse, sexual abuse, anxiety and depression.
Counselling is a therapeutic space that can offer you the opportunity to explore the dynamics of your life, privately and confidentially. Below are some questions that my resonate with you. Do you feel numb, detached, or overwhelmed with emotions; such as anger, sadness or loneliness? Have you ever felt as if those around you don't understand what you're going through? Do you feel stuck, not knowing who to turn to or what direction to take in life? Are those that are close to you the cause of or contributing to your distress?
020 3962 1252 View 020 3962 1252
Dr Craig Newman
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Online Only
I wrote the book 'Get Out Get Love' to support people to escape and recover from domestic abuse.
I offer a compassionate, collaborative space to help adults facing past trauma, anxiety, burnout, relationship difficulties, chronic pain, ADHD, sleep problems, and life transitions. My evidence-based approach focuses on practical solutions and meaningful change that fit your goals, helping you build resilience and move forward. I also have extensive experience supporting clients recovering from trauma, including the effects of abusive relationships. I come with over 25 years of experience as a Clinical Psychologist and published trauma recovery author, I work remotely.
I wrote the book 'Get Out Get Love' to support people to escape and recover from domestic abuse.
I offer a compassionate, collaborative space to help adults facing past trauma, anxiety, burnout, relationship difficulties, chronic pain, ADHD, sleep problems, and life transitions. My evidence-based approach focuses on practical solutions and meaningful change that fit your goals, helping you build resilience and move forward. I also have extensive experience supporting clients recovering from trauma, including the effects of abusive relationships. I come with over 25 years of experience as a Clinical Psychologist and published trauma recovery author, I work remotely.
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Dr Haline Schendan
Psychologist, DCounsPsych, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
1 Endorsed
London EC1V
I'm a psychologist, neuroscientist & neuropsychotherapist specialized in trauma, dissociation, abuse, insecurity, relationships, stress & highly sensitive persons.
I offer fast, lasting, gentle evidence-based change. As a learning & memory neuroscientist, I understand how your brain wired up & how this wiring can affect you in ways that make life feel distressing. I know how to change this wiring. These changes can improve feelings & experiences of yourself & your life & enable joy, fulfilment & warm relationships.
I'm a psychologist, neuroscientist & neuropsychotherapist specialized in trauma, dissociation, abuse, insecurity, relationships, stress & highly sensitive persons.
I offer fast, lasting, gentle evidence-based change. As a learning & memory neuroscientist, I understand how your brain wired up & how this wiring can affect you in ways that make life feel distressing. I know how to change this wiring. These changes can improve feelings & experiences of yourself & your life & enable joy, fulfilment & warm relationships.
020 4572 3138 View 020 4572 3138
Pinar Demir
Psychotherapist, MBACP
London N21
Welcome to my profile. I’m Pinar, an Integrative Psychotherapist working with children, adults, and couples. I draw on a range of evidence-based approaches to offer tailored, effective support for whatever you may be facing—whether it’s anxiety, stress, relationship difficulties, low mood, or a sense of feeling overwhelmed or stuck. Therapy with me is a collaborative process. Together, we explore the patterns influencing your emotional world, helping you gain clarity, develop healthier coping strategies, and move toward greater confidence and wellbeing. I offer a calm, confidential, and non-judgemental space.
Welcome to my profile. I’m Pinar, an Integrative Psychotherapist working with children, adults, and couples. I draw on a range of evidence-based approaches to offer tailored, effective support for whatever you may be facing—whether it’s anxiety, stress, relationship difficulties, low mood, or a sense of feeling overwhelmed or stuck. Therapy with me is a collaborative process. Together, we explore the patterns influencing your emotional world, helping you gain clarity, develop healthier coping strategies, and move toward greater confidence and wellbeing. I offer a calm, confidential, and non-judgemental space.
07723 449546 View 07723 449546
Lucas Honeysett
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Online Only
All those seeking help are welcome, however, I have specialised in working with male and female survivors of domestic abuse.
Hello I am a person-centred therapist. Does life feel stuck or just a little too rigid? Do you need help dealing with feelings of distress, maybe you are living with a mental health issue or struggling with low self-esteem and confidence. Is it time for change, to feel more positive, do you feel ready to become your authentic self? During person-centred counselling clients can experience a journey of self-discovery and personal growth while reigniting trust and believe in themselves.
All those seeking help are welcome, however, I have specialised in working with male and female survivors of domestic abuse.
Hello I am a person-centred therapist. Does life feel stuck or just a little too rigid? Do you need help dealing with feelings of distress, maybe you are living with a mental health issue or struggling with low self-esteem and confidence. Is it time for change, to feel more positive, do you feel ready to become your authentic self? During person-centred counselling clients can experience a journey of self-discovery and personal growth while reigniting trust and believe in themselves.
01564 335086 View 01564 335086
Erica Coe
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Online Only
If you’re carrying anxiety, old wounds, or a sense that life feels heavier than it should, you don’t have to hold it alone. Many people I work with have spent years being “strong,” pushing through without a space to pause and be honest. In our sessions, you can slow down, breathe, and speak freely. I listen closely to what feels difficult and important. My role is to offer a space where you feel safe, supported, and genuinely seen. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or simply ready to stop carrying everything alone, reach out when you feel ready. I’d be glad to meet you where you are.
If you’re carrying anxiety, old wounds, or a sense that life feels heavier than it should, you don’t have to hold it alone. Many people I work with have spent years being “strong,” pushing through without a space to pause and be honest. In our sessions, you can slow down, breathe, and speak freely. I listen closely to what feels difficult and important. My role is to offer a space where you feel safe, supported, and genuinely seen. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or simply ready to stop carrying everything alone, reach out when you feel ready. I’d be glad to meet you where you are.
01277 674984 View 01277 674984
Filiz Benli
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
London E8
Life brings challenges to all of us from time to time and we might feel loss or overwhelmed by them. I offer a safe and confidential space to address and explore these issues. I am open to work with variety issues such as depression, anxiety, trauma, relationship issues, addiction, finding meaning in life, low self esteem. My aim is not advising you, but to help you to find your own path and to look at yourself and your own issues with more compassion and understanding.
Life brings challenges to all of us from time to time and we might feel loss or overwhelmed by them. I offer a safe and confidential space to address and explore these issues. I am open to work with variety issues such as depression, anxiety, trauma, relationship issues, addiction, finding meaning in life, low self esteem. My aim is not advising you, but to help you to find your own path and to look at yourself and your own issues with more compassion and understanding.
01992 929920 View 01992 929920
Laura Hine
Psychotherapist, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Alongside private practice I have worked with an agency that specialises in domestic abuse and trauma.
Offering reduced fees. moving my practice online has enbaled me to pass these savings on to my clients. People generally look for a counsellor because they feel stuck or unable to move forward from unhelpful thoughts and behaviour patterns. You could struggle to connect with others and maintain healthy relationships. You may also feel like you can’t keep up with the people around you; as though everyone is doing better than you are. Self-acceptance and self-worth may be a problem, especially if you are suffering from anxiety and depression. Do you want to move forward and build yourself a sustainable future?
Alongside private practice I have worked with an agency that specialises in domestic abuse and trauma.
Offering reduced fees. moving my practice online has enbaled me to pass these savings on to my clients. People generally look for a counsellor because they feel stuck or unable to move forward from unhelpful thoughts and behaviour patterns. You could struggle to connect with others and maintain healthy relationships. You may also feel like you can’t keep up with the people around you; as though everyone is doing better than you are. Self-acceptance and self-worth may be a problem, especially if you are suffering from anxiety and depression. Do you want to move forward and build yourself a sustainable future?
01822 668347 View 01822 668347
Domestic Abuse Counsellors
What are the most effective ways to recover from domestic abuse?
Leaving an abusive relationship requires tremendous courage, so survivors in treatment should recognise that they have already completed the most important step. Still, the trauma of physical or emotional abuse can be difficult to process and overcome. Therapy can help survivors process trauma, grief, and difficult emotions, treat relevant mental health symptoms, and create a new framework for boundaries and relationships in the future. For some, support groups can also be an invaluable outlet for healing.

When should an individual seek help for domestic abuse?
Victims of intimate partner violence should seek help immediately. It can take substantial time, planning, energy, and courage to leave an abusive relationship, but starting the process—by seeking therapy, calling the domestic violence hotline, or simply confiding in a loved one—will help them get there. Those who have left abusive relationships but haven’t sought treatment can also greatly benefit from therapy to process and heal from the experience.

What are the consequences of staying in an abusive relationship?
Remaining in an abusive relationship has serious repercussions. In addition to the ongoing threat of physical danger and emotional abuse, research shows that intimate partner violence is associated with a range of mental health disorders including depression, post-traumatic stress disorder, anxiety, and substance abuse. Therefore it’s important for individuals in an abusive relationship to seek help as soon as possible.

How can you get domestic abuse treatment for someone else?
It can be very complicated to identify and leave an abusive relationship; barriers include the threat of violence, financial instability, and family pressures. Those concerned about a loved one in an abusive relationship should talk to them about the situation, provide them with resources such as the domestic violence hotline, and introduce the idea of seeing a therapist due to their concern for the person’s safety and well-being.