Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Counselling in Wakefield

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Danny Ford
Psychotherapist, MA, SNCPS Acc.
1 Endorsed
Waitlist for new clients
Hi, I'm a queer, non-binary, Integrative Psychotherapist specialising in Gender, Sexual and Relationship Diversity with 14 years as a therapist in private practice. I work with clients from across the whole of the UK online. I also see clients in person at my office in Wakefield and outdoors in a beautiful nature reserve near York.
Hi, I'm a queer, non-binary, Integrative Psychotherapist specialising in Gender, Sexual and Relationship Diversity with 14 years as a therapist in private practice. I work with clients from across the whole of the UK online. I also see clients in person at my office in Wakefield and outdoors in a beautiful nature reserve near York.
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Esther Mahle
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP Accred
1 Endorsed
Hello, life can feel overwhelming at times. Anxiety, fear, depression and other emotional struggles are part of being human — yet when they become too heavy, it can be difficult to cope alone. As a trauma-informed integrative counsellor, I provide a safe and supportive space to help you explore your thoughts, feelings, and behaviours, so you can develop a deeper understanding of yourself and begin to make sense of what’s happening beneath the surface. Together, we’ll work towards uncovering what you need to feel more balanced, connected, and in control of your life.
Hello, life can feel overwhelming at times. Anxiety, fear, depression and other emotional struggles are part of being human — yet when they become too heavy, it can be difficult to cope alone. As a trauma-informed integrative counsellor, I provide a safe and supportive space to help you explore your thoughts, feelings, and behaviours, so you can develop a deeper understanding of yourself and begin to make sense of what’s happening beneath the surface. Together, we’ll work towards uncovering what you need to feel more balanced, connected, and in control of your life.
0113 519 0611 View 0113 519 0611
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Rachel H Hayes
Counsellor, BACP
I’m a person-centred Counsellor offering a warm, non-judgemental space where you can explore your thoughts and feelings at your own pace, in a way that feels right for you. You are not a problem to be solved. You are a person to be supported. I work with adults facing a wide range of issues, including: anxiety, low self-esteem, relationship difficulties, loss, trauma and life transitions I also have experience working with young people aged 15–18 and have found that the person-centred approach is especially effective for this age group. It offers a supportive space to explore thoughts and feelings without pressure or judgement.
I’m a person-centred Counsellor offering a warm, non-judgemental space where you can explore your thoughts and feelings at your own pace, in a way that feels right for you. You are not a problem to be solved. You are a person to be supported. I work with adults facing a wide range of issues, including: anxiety, low self-esteem, relationship difficulties, loss, trauma and life transitions I also have experience working with young people aged 15–18 and have found that the person-centred approach is especially effective for this age group. It offers a supportive space to explore thoughts and feelings without pressure or judgement.
0113 519 7258 View 0113 519 7258
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Empathy understanding counselling
Counsellor, MBACP
Online Only
Counselling is a widely used talking therapy. I am Marco, a fully qualified counsellor who works in an integrative way with a range of therapeutic theories including Person Centred, EFT and Mindfulness, to find the best approach for you. The goal is to help you address your issues and help you identify your options. How do you eat an elephant? The answer is to cut it into bite sized chunks. I do the same to help you break down your issues easily. I am a certified counsellor and a registered member of the BACP. (Stay at home is not cut off socialization, join our online group to cope with depression) contact me for more information.
Counselling is a widely used talking therapy. I am Marco, a fully qualified counsellor who works in an integrative way with a range of therapeutic theories including Person Centred, EFT and Mindfulness, to find the best approach for you. The goal is to help you address your issues and help you identify your options. How do you eat an elephant? The answer is to cut it into bite sized chunks. I do the same to help you break down your issues easily. I am a certified counsellor and a registered member of the BACP. (Stay at home is not cut off socialization, join our online group to cope with depression) contact me for more information.
0113 733 7415 View 0113 733 7415
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Joshua Carter
Psychotherapist, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Hi, I am Joshua, a professional counsellor and a registered member of the BACP. I understand how daunting it can feel to look for a counsellor and to work out whether someone will feel like the right fit. My aim is to offer a calm, transparent, and supportive starting point, so you have a clear sense of how I work and what you can expect. My approach is relational and integrative, with the therapeutic relationship at the centre of meaningful change. I work both somatically and relationally, recognising that our experiences are held not only in our thoughts, but also in our bodies and in our patterns of relating to others.
Hi, I am Joshua, a professional counsellor and a registered member of the BACP. I understand how daunting it can feel to look for a counsellor and to work out whether someone will feel like the right fit. My aim is to offer a calm, transparent, and supportive starting point, so you have a clear sense of how I work and what you can expect. My approach is relational and integrative, with the therapeutic relationship at the centre of meaningful change. I work both somatically and relationally, recognising that our experiences are held not only in our thoughts, but also in our bodies and in our patterns of relating to others.
01924 950697 View 01924 950697
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Holly Tootell | The Anger Therapist
Psychotherapist, SNCPS Acc.
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
You've probably been working hard to manage your anger, and are finding yourself more frustrated than ever. The problem with anger is that the harder you try to manage it, the more stubborn it gets. But it's also incredibly misunderstood and there is so much more to learn about it. I don't work only with anger, in fact, a lot of my work with anger has come out of working around something else entirely.
You've probably been working hard to manage your anger, and are finding yourself more frustrated than ever. The problem with anger is that the harder you try to manage it, the more stubborn it gets. But it's also incredibly misunderstood and there is so much more to learn about it. I don't work only with anger, in fact, a lot of my work with anger has come out of working around something else entirely.
0113 519 1624 View 0113 519 1624
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Jeana Hallas at Barnsley Hypnosis & Counselling
Psychotherapist, MSc, MNCPS Acc.
Serves Area
Most clients contact us with surface negative symptoms or challenges. Every client is totally unique, therefore our truly one-off, made-to-measure approach is needed and always provided. Most clients help us to slowly identify the real current trigger(s), creating the negative presenting symptoms or challenges. Finally, our last step in helping you gain a positive, confident and happier future, is to discover your deepest root causes, which created the very first trigger(s). To put it simply, our driving force from day one is to help you quickly ensure you gain much improved: thinking, feeling and behaviour.
Most clients contact us with surface negative symptoms or challenges. Every client is totally unique, therefore our truly one-off, made-to-measure approach is needed and always provided. Most clients help us to slowly identify the real current trigger(s), creating the negative presenting symptoms or challenges. Finally, our last step in helping you gain a positive, confident and happier future, is to discover your deepest root causes, which created the very first trigger(s). To put it simply, our driving force from day one is to help you quickly ensure you gain much improved: thinking, feeling and behaviour.
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Shauna Bruce
Counsellor, BACP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Central Sheffield location for face to face sessions. EMDR therapy is now available as part of the services I provide. EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing) is a well-established therapeutic approach used to treat trauma, anxiety, and other emotional difficulties by helping the mind and body safely process unresolved experiences. Life can be hard and in our most challenging moments it can be difficult to reach out to those around us for help. That's where counselling comes in. I offer an unbiased, empathetic, warm, non-judgemental space to explore what is holding you back from reaching your true potential.
Central Sheffield location for face to face sessions. EMDR therapy is now available as part of the services I provide. EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing) is a well-established therapeutic approach used to treat trauma, anxiety, and other emotional difficulties by helping the mind and body safely process unresolved experiences. Life can be hard and in our most challenging moments it can be difficult to reach out to those around us for help. That's where counselling comes in. I offer an unbiased, empathetic, warm, non-judgemental space to explore what is holding you back from reaching your true potential.
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Shanne Evans
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, BACP
Serves Area
Do you struggle to overcome loss or grieve after a bereavement? Is worry, overthinking, anxiety or depression stopping you? Are you stuck in your life or relationship and need to find a way to move forward or do you seem to have lost sight of each other? Perhaps you struggle to find the motivation, or simply want to talk about anything your would to change or understand. Then why not give counselling, hypnotherapy or coaching with me a chance.
Do you struggle to overcome loss or grieve after a bereavement? Is worry, overthinking, anxiety or depression stopping you? Are you stuck in your life or relationship and need to find a way to move forward or do you seem to have lost sight of each other? Perhaps you struggle to find the motivation, or simply want to talk about anything your would to change or understand. Then why not give counselling, hypnotherapy or coaching with me a chance.
01977 801636 View 01977 801636
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Tracy Simpson
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
I am an experienced, well-established BACP registered and NCPS accredited counsellor and supervisor with 15 years of experience in private practice in Barnsley, South Yorkshire. I accept private clients, including those covered by BUPA and AVIVA, offering face-to-face and online sessions. Whilst my focus is on anxiety and stress management, I have extensive experience in supporting clients through issues related to abuse, addiction, and bereavement. I use Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) and other therapeutic modalities to help clients develop practical strategies to regain control of their lives and find peace.
I am an experienced, well-established BACP registered and NCPS accredited counsellor and supervisor with 15 years of experience in private practice in Barnsley, South Yorkshire. I accept private clients, including those covered by BUPA and AVIVA, offering face-to-face and online sessions. Whilst my focus is on anxiety and stress management, I have extensive experience in supporting clients through issues related to abuse, addiction, and bereavement. I use Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) and other therapeutic modalities to help clients develop practical strategies to regain control of their lives and find peace.
01226 448214 View 01226 448214
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Jamie Calvert
Counsellor, MBACP
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
Hello, I'm Jamie, a qualified therapeutic counsellor, looking forward to understanding and supporting you on your counselling journey. I work with adult individuals and couples. I invite you to bring your whole authentic self, free from judgement or assumption. At its core, my approach centres on understanding and affirming your identity and how you relate to the world around you. Together, we will work collaboratively to alleviate your distress, build healthier, more meaningful relationships with yourself and others, and empower you to feel more certain of who you truly are.
Hello, I'm Jamie, a qualified therapeutic counsellor, looking forward to understanding and supporting you on your counselling journey. I work with adult individuals and couples. I invite you to bring your whole authentic self, free from judgement or assumption. At its core, my approach centres on understanding and affirming your identity and how you relate to the world around you. Together, we will work collaboratively to alleviate your distress, build healthier, more meaningful relationships with yourself and others, and empower you to feel more certain of who you truly are.
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Kayleigh Fletcher
Counsellor, BACP
Bingley BD16
What I offer: Trauma & Sexual Abuse Men’s Mental Health Anxiety & Depression Anger & Emotional Regulation LGBTQ+ Support & Kink-Aware Counselling Relationships & Family Challenges Self-Esteem & Confidence Mindfulness & Coping Strategies Youth & Knife Crime Support Rehabilitation & Probation Support
I support people from all walks of life who may be struggling with anxiety, depression, grief, relationship difficulties, trauma, or low self-esteem. Many seek a safe, non-judgemental space to talk, explore emotions, and find healthier ways forward. While my practice is open to everyone, I have a specialist focus on men’s mental health, offering a space where men can speak freely about pressures, identity, or past experiences. Together, we work towards greater clarity, resilience, and confidence in life.
What I offer: Trauma & Sexual Abuse Men’s Mental Health Anxiety & Depression Anger & Emotional Regulation LGBTQ+ Support & Kink-Aware Counselling Relationships & Family Challenges Self-Esteem & Confidence Mindfulness & Coping Strategies Youth & Knife Crime Support Rehabilitation & Probation Support
I support people from all walks of life who may be struggling with anxiety, depression, grief, relationship difficulties, trauma, or low self-esteem. Many seek a safe, non-judgemental space to talk, explore emotions, and find healthier ways forward. While my practice is open to everyone, I have a specialist focus on men’s mental health, offering a space where men can speak freely about pressures, identity, or past experiences. Together, we work towards greater clarity, resilience, and confidence in life.
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Lou Goodwin
Psychotherapist, MSc, COSRT General
Leeds LS12
I am a therapist specialising in kink-aware and sex-positive support for individuals, couples, and those in open or polyamorous relationships.
My therapeutic philosophy is rooted in partnership. I provide a secure space for exploration, questioning, and rebuilding, while working with you to identify and clarify your values.
I am a therapist specialising in kink-aware and sex-positive support for individuals, couples, and those in open or polyamorous relationships.
My therapeutic philosophy is rooted in partnership. I provide a secure space for exploration, questioning, and rebuilding, while working with you to identify and clarify your values.
0113 519 4468 View 0113 519 4468
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Abbie Rhodes
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Hi, it can be hard to share your feelings, so I offer a relaxed approach to therapy in a welcoming private safe space and the option to work remotely by telephone or video call. With the right support and guidance we can start to make your world more manageable through achieving your personal goals, problem solving, alleviation of stress, low mood and anxieties. We can explore your life dynamics, past, present and future by using different therapy approaches to make long term changes, realisations and maintainable improvements. Your first time or not, we will go along at your pace and for your duration.
Hi, it can be hard to share your feelings, so I offer a relaxed approach to therapy in a welcoming private safe space and the option to work remotely by telephone or video call. With the right support and guidance we can start to make your world more manageable through achieving your personal goals, problem solving, alleviation of stress, low mood and anxieties. We can explore your life dynamics, past, present and future by using different therapy approaches to make long term changes, realisations and maintainable improvements. Your first time or not, we will go along at your pace and for your duration.
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Jonathan Hills | UKCP Trainee Psychotherapist
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Online Only
relationship issues or emotional difficulty? > Low-cost online counselling & therapy > Online booking > spaces Mon, Weds & Thurs
relationship issues or emotional difficulty? > Low-cost online counselling & therapy > Online booking > spaces Mon, Weds & Thurs
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Therapy with Asher
Counsellor
Online Only
I’m Asher (he/they). I work with queer, trans, and neurodivergent (ASD, ADHD, AuDHD, etc) adults around self-worth, anxiety, depression, identity, long term and/or complex mental health circumstances, and trauma. I work online with people across the UK. I’m from a working-class background, am AFAB and queer, and have lived experience of mental health issues and disability. I’m trained in counselling, psychotherapy, and psychology. I offer adjusted fees for queer clients struggling with affordability. A breakdown of these is available on my website.
I’m Asher (he/they). I work with queer, trans, and neurodivergent (ASD, ADHD, AuDHD, etc) adults around self-worth, anxiety, depression, identity, long term and/or complex mental health circumstances, and trauma. I work online with people across the UK. I’m from a working-class background, am AFAB and queer, and have lived experience of mental health issues and disability. I’m trained in counselling, psychotherapy, and psychology. I offer adjusted fees for queer clients struggling with affordability. A breakdown of these is available on my website.
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Naeem Akhtar
Counsellor, BACP
Rochdale OL12
Counselling offers a space to talk about the issues in your life and there are many reasons for coming. Talking things through with a supportive and non-judgemental therapist can help you gain clarity and make sense out of where you currently find yourself. This in itself can provide some relief and open up the potential for positive change. Whether you are having difficulties at work, have anxiety or depression, have had a major life event/trauma, an addiction, experienced loss, or just need to make sense of your current situation I can offer you a warm, confidential and welcoming space where you feel safe, respected and supported.
Counselling offers a space to talk about the issues in your life and there are many reasons for coming. Talking things through with a supportive and non-judgemental therapist can help you gain clarity and make sense out of where you currently find yourself. This in itself can provide some relief and open up the potential for positive change. Whether you are having difficulties at work, have anxiety or depression, have had a major life event/trauma, an addiction, experienced loss, or just need to make sense of your current situation I can offer you a warm, confidential and welcoming space where you feel safe, respected and supported.
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Dr Sheeba Ehsan
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Serves Area
I am a Chartered Clinical psychologist (HCPC registered), providing assessment and therapy in Manchester. I have over 20 years of experience working with a range of psychological presentations e.g. anxiety, depression, OCD, personality disorder, trauma, PTSD etc. I have worked with adults, young people and families. If you are looking for that individualised, tailored approach look no further, give me a call to see if I can help you. The initial consultation is free of charge as I believe it is important to find the right therapist for you.
I am a Chartered Clinical psychologist (HCPC registered), providing assessment and therapy in Manchester. I have over 20 years of experience working with a range of psychological presentations e.g. anxiety, depression, OCD, personality disorder, trauma, PTSD etc. I have worked with adults, young people and families. If you are looking for that individualised, tailored approach look no further, give me a call to see if I can help you. The initial consultation is free of charge as I believe it is important to find the right therapist for you.
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Kayleigh Townsend Art Psychotherapy
Psychotherapist, MA, HCPC-Art Therap.
Leeds LS1
I'm Kayleigh an Art Psychotherapist working in Leeds city centre. I know that finding the right therapist for you can be daunting and time consuming. If you are reading this, you may be looking for a different approach or a meaningful outlet. Art Psychotherapy offers the space to explore yourself and life's challenges in ways that words alone can’t. Creative expression allows you to uncover and discover the feelings, fears, and strengths shaping your inner life. You may be experiencing anxiety, self-esteem issues or difficult emotions that you may struggle to articulate.
I'm Kayleigh an Art Psychotherapist working in Leeds city centre. I know that finding the right therapist for you can be daunting and time consuming. If you are reading this, you may be looking for a different approach or a meaningful outlet. Art Psychotherapy offers the space to explore yourself and life's challenges in ways that words alone can’t. Creative expression allows you to uncover and discover the feelings, fears, and strengths shaping your inner life. You may be experiencing anxiety, self-esteem issues or difficult emotions that you may struggle to articulate.
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EMDR Therapy
Verified Verified
Online Only
You’re successful on paper, but inside you’re exhausted. Many women in leadership find themselves struggling with self doubt, an inner critic that never switches off, or the fear of being found out. Burnout and exhaustion can creep in when you’re expected to excel at work while also holding everything together at home. Past experiences of being overlooked or underestimated may resurface in the workplace, leaving you second guessing your voice or decisions. And the constant balancing act between ambition and wellbeing or resilience and vulnerability can leave you feeling depleted, stretched thin, and alone.
You’re successful on paper, but inside you’re exhausted. Many women in leadership find themselves struggling with self doubt, an inner critic that never switches off, or the fear of being found out. Burnout and exhaustion can creep in when you’re expected to excel at work while also holding everything together at home. Past experiences of being overlooked or underestimated may resurface in the workplace, leaving you second guessing your voice or decisions. And the constant balancing act between ambition and wellbeing or resilience and vulnerability can leave you feeling depleted, stretched thin, and alone.
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Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Counsellors
Why might an individual want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
A sex-positive or kinky individual may want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist because the client may feel safer and more supported discussing their experiences and challenges. A therapist who identifies as kink-friendly will have experience with clients having diverse sexual preferences and will likely be nonjudgmental and supportive about issues brought to the table. It is important to note that sex-positive, kink-allied individuals may find equal success with therapists who do not have such specialised knowledge and background. The most important factor in the success of therapy is for the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond.

Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in sex-positive, kink-allied treatment?
Generally, no. There are limited training programs and unofficial accreditations that therapists can pursue, but a therapist’s expertise will ultimately come from their previous experience with similar clients, their engagement with organisations that promote sex positivity or kink-allied lifestyles, and the importance they place on safety and cultural sensitivity.

How can individuals recognise a good sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
An experienced therapist is able to help clients explore their sexual identity and expression and relieve any discomfort or stigma attached to discussing such matters and the client’s overall challenges. A therapist who is sex-positive and kink-allied is able to create an environment that honors a client’s experience and sexual preferences. To recognise a good therapist, clients can simply ask directly about topics and issues important to them and gauge their comfort level and connection with a clinician based on the responses.

Can clients benefit from having a therapist with a focus on sex positivity and alternative sexual lifestyles?
Some individuals may feel most comfortable knowing that the clinician they’re working with has a commitment to creating an atmosphere of sex positivity and has experience with relationship diversity and alternative relationship structures. Working with a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist may help clients respect their own challenges and improve identity-affirming treatment.