Domestic Abuse Counselling in Virginia Water

Daniel Rubinstein
Counsellor, PhD, MUKCP
Serves Area
Imagine waking up feeling refreshed, with a clear mind and a sense of purpose. Picture yourself navigating relationships with calm and confidence, living a life where you're not just coping, but thriving. Does this feel out of reach? It doesn’t have to be. Perhaps you lie awake at night, your mind racing with anxious thoughts. Or feel trapped in a relationship that brings more pain than joy. Or dream of writing that book or making art, yet find yourself procrastinating. Or feel unsure of your next steps, longing for a life that feels more fully your own.
Imagine waking up feeling refreshed, with a clear mind and a sense of purpose. Picture yourself navigating relationships with calm and confidence, living a life where you're not just coping, but thriving. Does this feel out of reach? It doesn’t have to be. Perhaps you lie awake at night, your mind racing with anxious thoughts. Or feel trapped in a relationship that brings more pain than joy. Or dream of writing that book or making art, yet find yourself procrastinating. Or feel unsure of your next steps, longing for a life that feels more fully your own.
01424 619114 View 01424 619114
Mandy Mitchell
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
Serves Area
As we begin to emerge from this challenging time, many relationships will be feeling the strain. Couple or individual counselling, either face to face or online can make such a difference, as we explore concerns and find effective ways forward.
As we begin to emerge from this challenging time, many relationships will be feeling the strain. Couple or individual counselling, either face to face or online can make such a difference, as we explore concerns and find effective ways forward.
07481 339974 View 07481 339974
Gemma Autumn
Counsellor, MBABCP
Serves Area
I work with grief, relationships, divorce, life direction, stress, burnout, trauma, attachment, creative blocks, insecurity, intimacy, abuse, sexuality, OCD, religion, body issues, family problems, money, spiritual disconnection, psychedelic integration, retirement, living abroad, IVF and fertility including the decision to become a solo mother by choice.
As an integrative therapist I have various healing modalities to draw from including art therapy, drama therapy, attachment theory, person-centred approach, Gestalt, body work, existential therapy, body awareness, visualisation, neuro-linguistic programming, EFT Tapping and breathwork. My training in Wild Therapy means I am qualified to work outdoors.
I work with grief, relationships, divorce, life direction, stress, burnout, trauma, attachment, creative blocks, insecurity, intimacy, abuse, sexuality, OCD, religion, body issues, family problems, money, spiritual disconnection, psychedelic integration, retirement, living abroad, IVF and fertility including the decision to become a solo mother by choice.
As an integrative therapist I have various healing modalities to draw from including art therapy, drama therapy, attachment theory, person-centred approach, Gestalt, body work, existential therapy, body awareness, visualisation, neuro-linguistic programming, EFT Tapping and breathwork. My training in Wild Therapy means I am qualified to work outdoors.
020 4538 2317 View 020 4538 2317
Dr Anna Norris - Clinical Psychologist; HCPC; Bps
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
1 Endorsed
Online Only
If you're here, chances are something isn't feeling quite right. You might be exploring ADHD, finding anxiety overwhelming, recovering from trauma, struggling with low mood, or facing challenges that are difficult to put into words. We work with late teens (16-18) and adults across a wide range of psychological difficulties, helping you understand what's going on, find practical ways forward and make changes that improve everyday life.
If you're here, chances are something isn't feeling quite right. You might be exploring ADHD, finding anxiety overwhelming, recovering from trauma, struggling with low mood, or facing challenges that are difficult to put into words. We work with late teens (16-18) and adults across a wide range of psychological difficulties, helping you understand what's going on, find practical ways forward and make changes that improve everyday life.
0118 230 0342 View 0118 230 0342
Sophie Cockell
Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
Serves Area
I work with all age groups whatever your issues and offer a safe therapeutic space in which you are able to identify and explore these issues, needs and goals. I have extensive experience of working with clients living with Identity problems including gender identity and couples and families who are fostering and adopting children. I also work with neuro-diversity, physical and mental wellbeing, bullying and the feeling of not fitting in which can contribute to low self esteem and low mood. I also offer support to significant others both therapeutically and practically.
I work with all age groups whatever your issues and offer a safe therapeutic space in which you are able to identify and explore these issues, needs and goals. I have extensive experience of working with clients living with Identity problems including gender identity and couples and families who are fostering and adopting children. I also work with neuro-diversity, physical and mental wellbeing, bullying and the feeling of not fitting in which can contribute to low self esteem and low mood. I also offer support to significant others both therapeutically and practically.
01483 940035 View 01483 940035
Natasha Gill
Psychotherapist, MNCPS Acc.
Serves Area
I support South Asian women, who come to therapy feeling disconnected, anxious, emotionally exhausted, or unsure of who they are outside of the roles they've always played. You may struggle with people-pleasing, setting boundaries, overthinking, low confidence, or feeling guilty for wanting something different for yourself. Whether you're navigating a career change, marriage, motherhood, relationships, or another life transition, therapy offers you a space where you don't have to keep carrying it all on your own. Together, we'll explore what's holding you back and make sense of the thoughts and emotions that feel overwhelming.
I support South Asian women, who come to therapy feeling disconnected, anxious, emotionally exhausted, or unsure of who they are outside of the roles they've always played. You may struggle with people-pleasing, setting boundaries, overthinking, low confidence, or feeling guilty for wanting something different for yourself. Whether you're navigating a career change, marriage, motherhood, relationships, or another life transition, therapy offers you a space where you don't have to keep carrying it all on your own. Together, we'll explore what's holding you back and make sense of the thoughts and emotions that feel overwhelming.
01708 596608 View 01708 596608
Mike Freeman
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
I work with adult men and women of all ages anywhere in the UK offering online video and telephone counselling. Quite a lot of us, at some stage in our lives, have been in a situation where we have nobody around us we can talk to. Even though you may have family and friends who care about you, you can still feel alone and isolated or feel that you do not want to ‘bother’ or ‘burden’ them with your feelings.
I work with adult men and women of all ages anywhere in the UK offering online video and telephone counselling. Quite a lot of us, at some stage in our lives, have been in a situation where we have nobody around us we can talk to. Even though you may have family and friends who care about you, you can still feel alone and isolated or feel that you do not want to ‘bother’ or ‘burden’ them with your feelings.
01202 125025 View 01202 125025

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Online Only
My trauma informed practice is focused on anxiety, bereavement, depression, complex post traumatic stress disorder (C-PTSD) domestic abuse, racial-cultural identity, childhood, racial and sexual trauma.
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Haleh's Counselling Room
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
London E11
To date I have worked with clients who experience: deep loneliness and isolation; anxiety and/or depression which takes up so much of their life and stops them from connecting with what they want to do and how they want to be; who want to change their outlook of their life; who have an inability to cope with recent or continual change; who experience unhappiness with their work/life balance or relationship issues; who are impacted by or have been impacted by domestic violence.
My role as a therapist is to give yourself permission to voice your thoughts and feelings and how you react to situations to understand yourself better and explore alternative options that fit you and your needs. Part of this is about helping you find ways of coping and be OK when things become really difficult.
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My role as a therapist is to give yourself permission to voice your thoughts and feelings and how you react to situations to understand yourself better and explore alternative options that fit you and your needs. Part of this is about helping you find ways of coping and be OK when things become really difficult.
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Carrie Pollard
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
I am experienced working with trauma specifically domestic abuse, sexual abuse and adults who experienced childhood abuse.
Hello and welcome. I'm Carrie. I wonder why now feels the right time for you to start your therapy? Does life feel heavy? Or relationships feel difficult? Perhaps you are finding you are experiencing anxiety in your day to day life. Or experiences from your past feel so difficult. Whatever has prompted you to make your way here today, rest assured I provide a non judgemental, confidential and safe space to explore emotions, relationships and life experiences. We can think about your past and present, creating a feeling of safety and processing the pain.
I am experienced working with trauma specifically domestic abuse, sexual abuse and adults who experienced childhood abuse.
Hello and welcome. I'm Carrie. I wonder why now feels the right time for you to start your therapy? Does life feel heavy? Or relationships feel difficult? Perhaps you are finding you are experiencing anxiety in your day to day life. Or experiences from your past feel so difficult. Whatever has prompted you to make your way here today, rest assured I provide a non judgemental, confidential and safe space to explore emotions, relationships and life experiences. We can think about your past and present, creating a feeling of safety and processing the pain.
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Martha Blackwell
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
2 Endorsed
I also have experience of working with trauma, particularly historic or recent/current sexual abuse, sexual assault and domestic abuse.
I believe we all find life challenging at one time or another. We all experience relationships and life events that affect how we feel about ourselves, the world around us and our place in that world. By making sense of the difficult thoughts, feelings and stuck patterns of behaviour that grow out of these experiences I believe we can start to see how we’d like things to be different and how to move towards change. This is where counselling can help. Together we can create a space where you feel supported to explore whatever you need, to gain insights that it might be hard to reach alone.
I also have experience of working with trauma, particularly historic or recent/current sexual abuse, sexual assault and domestic abuse.
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Amy Engleman
Psychotherapist, MNCPS Acc.
Serves Area
Welcome — I’m Amy, a trauma-informed psychotherapist with over 10 years’ experience supporting adults through trauma, anxiety, relationship difficulties, and major life transitions. If you’re feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or repeating patterns that no longer make sense, therapy can offer a space to slow things down and understand what’s really going on. I help clients make sense of their inner world, reduce emotional distress, and create meaningful, lasting change. My style is warm, collaborative, and gently direct — supportive without being vague.
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Brigitta Rab
Counsellor, MBACP
Online Only
I’m an integrative counsellor with a focus on relationship difficulties and the effects of emotional abuse, domestic violence, and childhood trauma.
You may be finding relationships difficult, questioning your feelings, or struggling to express what you need. Perhaps you put others first, feel responsible for their reactions, or repeat patterns that leave you hurt or disconnected. You may be in, or have left, a controlling or emotionally abusive relationship and find it hard to trust yourself again. Together, we can make sense of your experiences and work towards greater self-trust, clearer boundaries, and relationships where your needs have a place.
I’m an integrative counsellor with a focus on relationship difficulties and the effects of emotional abuse, domestic violence, and childhood trauma.
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Amber Sheikh
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Online Only
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At times life can be challenging and we can get to point where we may feel a bit stuck and need to make sense of things. I seek to create a safe, culturally sensitive and non judgmental space for you to feel heard and understood. I’m here to support you to achieve the changes that you desire for yourself by helping you to process your feelings, gain greater clarity and to build more self awareness.
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020 4634 1076 View 020 4634 1076
Lucy Smith
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
I have nearly 10 years experience from numerous therapeutic settings, from alcohol and substance misuse to mental health charities, as well as sexual violence and domestic abuse services.
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I have nearly 10 years experience from numerous therapeutic settings, from alcohol and substance misuse to mental health charities, as well as sexual violence and domestic abuse services.
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Kiara Naidoo
Psychotherapist, MSc, UKCP Trainee
Online Only
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Darren Dwayne Peters
Psychotherapist, MBACP
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2 Endorsed
Online Only
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Hello, I’m Charlotte, I am a qualified counsellor dedicated to supporting individuals as they navigate life’s challenges and reconnect with their sense of wellbeing and themselves. I believe that every person has the capacity for growth, healing, and meaningful change, and my role is to provide a safe, compassionate space where those possibilities can unfold. I support people experiencing depression, anxiety, grief and relationship challenges to name a few and I specialise in working with people with trauma. I would love to share that journey with you, please contact me if you would like to discuss your challenges further.
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Michelle Marquis-Wood
Counsellor, MBACP
Perhaps you are quietly carrying the invisible, heavy weight of past trauma, or trying to rebuild your sense of self after the confusion of narcissistic or domestic abuse.
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Perhaps you are quietly carrying the invisible, heavy weight of past trauma, or trying to rebuild your sense of self after the confusion of narcissistic or domestic abuse.
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Nav Heer
Counsellor, MBACP
Online Only
I have been qualified for 16 years, working alongside community organisations, working with individuals, building their self worth and confidence, particularly with Domestic Abuse (understanding power and control dynamic); Depression; Bereavement with local hospices and the NHS.
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I have been qualified for 16 years, working alongside community organisations, working with individuals, building their self worth and confidence, particularly with Domestic Abuse (understanding power and control dynamic); Depression; Bereavement with local hospices and the NHS.
In the current world of uncertainty and change, counselling explores difficulties you are having, distress you may be experiencing, dissatisfaction with life or loss of a sense of direction & purpose. Anxiety and stress impact all areas of life, at home, work and relationships. I will listen attentively, in a non-judgemental way, provided in a professional and respectful manner, counselling will begin to bring awareness and help you to see things more clearly, possibly from a different perspective. I have worked with children & adults, giving equal respect and treatment, regardless of their background or beliefs.
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Domestic Abuse Counsellors
What are the most effective ways to recover from domestic abuse?
Leaving an abusive relationship requires tremendous courage, so survivors in treatment should recognise that they have already completed the most important step. Still, the trauma of physical or emotional abuse can be difficult to process and overcome. Therapy can help survivors process trauma, grief, and difficult emotions, treat relevant mental health symptoms, and create a new framework for boundaries and relationships in the future. For some, support groups can also be an invaluable outlet for healing.

When should an individual seek help for domestic abuse?
Victims of intimate partner violence should seek help immediately. It can take substantial time, planning, energy, and courage to leave an abusive relationship, but starting the process—by seeking therapy, calling the domestic violence hotline, or simply confiding in a loved one—will help them get there. Those who have left abusive relationships but haven’t sought treatment can also greatly benefit from therapy to process and heal from the experience.

What are the consequences of staying in an abusive relationship?
Remaining in an abusive relationship has serious repercussions. In addition to the ongoing threat of physical danger and emotional abuse, research shows that intimate partner violence is associated with a range of mental health disorders including depression, post-traumatic stress disorder, anxiety, and substance abuse. Therefore it’s important for individuals in an abusive relationship to seek help as soon as possible.

How can you get domestic abuse treatment for someone else?
It can be very complicated to identify and leave an abusive relationship; barriers include the threat of violence, financial instability, and family pressures. Those concerned about a loved one in an abusive relationship should talk to them about the situation, provide them with resources such as the domestic violence hotline, and introduce the idea of seeing a therapist due to their concern for the person’s safety and well-being.