Counselling in Tonbridge
Have you reached a point in life where you feel invisible, or unsure of your place in the world? Perhaps your children have grown up, your career has shifted, or relationships have changed, leaving you questioning your purpose and where you fit in now.
Do you have older relatives who you are responsible for, or has someone you love died and you're struggling with grief?
If so, you’re not alone – and you don’t need to navigate this chapter by yourself.
Have you reached a point in life where you feel invisible, or unsure of your place in the world? Perhaps your children have grown up, your career has shifted, or relationships have changed, leaving you questioning your purpose and where you fit in now.
Do you have older relatives who you are responsible for, or has someone you love died and you're struggling with grief?
If so, you’re not alone – and you don’t need to navigate this chapter by yourself.
I work with people who want to understand themselves more deeply, not only to reduce anxiety or low mood, but to make sense of who they are, their relationships, and how they want to live.
Often, this includes people who are already quite reflective, but find that thinking alone hasn’t led to the clarity or change they’re looking for. There may be a sense of feeling stuck, unsettled, or unsure of direction, even when things appear to be functioning on the surface.
I work with people who want to understand themselves more deeply, not only to reduce anxiety or low mood, but to make sense of who they are, their relationships, and how they want to live.
Often, this includes people who are already quite reflective, but find that thinking alone hasn’t led to the clarity or change they’re looking for. There may be a sense of feeling stuck, unsettled, or unsure of direction, even when things appear to be functioning on the surface.
I didn't become a counsellor because life was easy. I became a counsellor through my own journey with addiction, trauma, ADHD, and never feeling good enough. I know what it’s like to live in fear, hate yourself, to feel angry, sad, lost and overwhelmed. Therapy only started to work when I found someone who really got me—no judgment, just real connection. Now I offer that space to others. I’m down-to-earth, honest, and I do things differently. I am passionate about my job and am very real.
If life feels too much, you don’t have to face it alone. I’m here to walk alongside you as you find your way back to yourself, heal and grow.
I didn't become a counsellor because life was easy. I became a counsellor through my own journey with addiction, trauma, ADHD, and never feeling good enough. I know what it’s like to live in fear, hate yourself, to feel angry, sad, lost and overwhelmed. Therapy only started to work when I found someone who really got me—no judgment, just real connection. Now I offer that space to others. I’m down-to-earth, honest, and I do things differently. I am passionate about my job and am very real.
If life feels too much, you don’t have to face it alone. I’m here to walk alongside you as you find your way back to yourself, heal and grow.
I have over 15 years experience in providing psychotherapy for problems including depression, anxiety, relationship difficulties, trauma, eating disorders, obsessive compulsive disorder, panic, phobias and problems related to autism. Although I primarily use Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT) in my work, I also draw on a variety of other therapy approaches so that I can tailor my therapy to your individual needs. I work privately with individuals and couples and I am also experienced at working with children from the age of 13 years.
I have over 15 years experience in providing psychotherapy for problems including depression, anxiety, relationship difficulties, trauma, eating disorders, obsessive compulsive disorder, panic, phobias and problems related to autism. Although I primarily use Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT) in my work, I also draw on a variety of other therapy approaches so that I can tailor my therapy to your individual needs. I work privately with individuals and couples and I am also experienced at working with children from the age of 13 years.
Hello, I'm Dom, and I specilise in helping adults facing ADHD, attention, organizational, and emotional challenges, including trauma and complex PTSD. My focus is on restoring a sense of balance, enhancing confidence, and promoting wellbeing. Are you navigating emotions, battling distractions, or overwhelmed by your past? My clients seek clarity amidst chaos, aiming to process trauma, conquer ADHD traits, anxiety, and depression, reclaiming peace and purpose. Through a trauma-informed approach, I integrate eye movement reprocessing methods, providing a secure environment for healing and growth.
Hello, I'm Dom, and I specilise in helping adults facing ADHD, attention, organizational, and emotional challenges, including trauma and complex PTSD. My focus is on restoring a sense of balance, enhancing confidence, and promoting wellbeing. Are you navigating emotions, battling distractions, or overwhelmed by your past? My clients seek clarity amidst chaos, aiming to process trauma, conquer ADHD traits, anxiety, and depression, reclaiming peace and purpose. Through a trauma-informed approach, I integrate eye movement reprocessing methods, providing a secure environment for healing and growth.
I provide counselling for adults experiencing a wide range of challenges, including anxiety, relationship difficulties, low self-esteem, stress, and feelings of overwhelm. My approach is integrative, meaning I draw on a range of therapeutic approaches to meet each client's individual needs. I offer a compassionate, non-judgemental space where we can work together to explore whatever is on your mind and identify practical tools to support positive change.
I provide counselling for adults experiencing a wide range of challenges, including anxiety, relationship difficulties, low self-esteem, stress, and feelings of overwhelm. My approach is integrative, meaning I draw on a range of therapeutic approaches to meet each client's individual needs. I offer a compassionate, non-judgemental space where we can work together to explore whatever is on your mind and identify practical tools to support positive change.
My clients like the informal, friendly approach, tailored to their individual needs. My work is informed by the highly effective Human Givens framework, embodying thorough scientific but holistic understandings of how to help people make good changes. I've been a solution-focused psychotherapist/counsellor and clinical hypnotherapist for more than two decades. For the past four decades, I've also been a professional storyteller, chaired the Society for Storytelling in the 'nineties, often tell appropriate stories as part of therapy sessions with both adults and children.. Clients work with me to achieve specific goals.
My clients like the informal, friendly approach, tailored to their individual needs. My work is informed by the highly effective Human Givens framework, embodying thorough scientific but holistic understandings of how to help people make good changes. I've been a solution-focused psychotherapist/counsellor and clinical hypnotherapist for more than two decades. For the past four decades, I've also been a professional storyteller, chaired the Society for Storytelling in the 'nineties, often tell appropriate stories as part of therapy sessions with both adults and children.. Clients work with me to achieve specific goals.
You may be navigating a period of challenge, transition, or uncertainty. Perhaps you or your child are seeking a deeper understanding of autism, ADHD, trauma, displacement, or experiences that have shaped your sense of identity, belonging, or wellbeing. You may be looking for greater clarity, emotional balance, stronger relationships, or a space where your experiences can be understood with curiosity, respect, and care.
You may be navigating a period of challenge, transition, or uncertainty. Perhaps you or your child are seeking a deeper understanding of autism, ADHD, trauma, displacement, or experiences that have shaped your sense of identity, belonging, or wellbeing. You may be looking for greater clarity, emotional balance, stronger relationships, or a space where your experiences can be understood with curiosity, respect, and care.
I see clients with a range of difficulties across the lifespan who find themselves in psychological distress and are looking for an understanding and solution to their difficulties. These difficulties may have been lifelong or more recently acquired. They may be showing clinical symptoms such as depression, anxiety, post traumatic stress, or OCD as a result. They may want longer term therapy to work on themselves more deeply or they may want short term therapy that is focussed on resolving more specific issues.
I see clients with a range of difficulties across the lifespan who find themselves in psychological distress and are looking for an understanding and solution to their difficulties. These difficulties may have been lifelong or more recently acquired. They may be showing clinical symptoms such as depression, anxiety, post traumatic stress, or OCD as a result. They may want longer term therapy to work on themselves more deeply or they may want short term therapy that is focussed on resolving more specific issues.
I am an experienced and highly professional counselling psychologist working in Tonbridge. I provide a safe, warm and confidential space where you can explore and work through the issues that are bothering you.
At different times of our lives we can all experience difficulties – or we may describe it as ‘not feeling at peace’. Counselling psychology suggest that whatever the nature of the problem that is bothering you, it is always helpful and useful to talk to someone to seek resolution.
I am an experienced and highly professional counselling psychologist working in Tonbridge. I provide a safe, warm and confidential space where you can explore and work through the issues that are bothering you.
At different times of our lives we can all experience difficulties – or we may describe it as ‘not feeling at peace’. Counselling psychology suggest that whatever the nature of the problem that is bothering you, it is always helpful and useful to talk to someone to seek resolution.
I am a clinical psychologist providing short and long-term therapy and autism assessments to children and adults in a private practice Kent. I provide a safe and non-judgmental space where we can develop an understanding of your difficulties. I draw on a variety of psychological approaches including psychodynamic, cognitive-behavioural (CBT), and systemic (including narrative and solution-focused). I have 9 years of experience working with a variety of difficulties including depression, anxiety and trauma. I have worked with children diagnosed with Autism (including PDA profile) and supported them their families for many years.
I am a clinical psychologist providing short and long-term therapy and autism assessments to children and adults in a private practice Kent. I provide a safe and non-judgmental space where we can develop an understanding of your difficulties. I draw on a variety of psychological approaches including psychodynamic, cognitive-behavioural (CBT), and systemic (including narrative and solution-focused). I have 9 years of experience working with a variety of difficulties including depression, anxiety and trauma. I have worked with children diagnosed with Autism (including PDA profile) and supported them their families for many years.
As an integral, person centred counsellor I offer safe, non-judgemental therapy. Working in-person or online and can help with anxiety, depression, anger and low self-esteem. I also have training and extensive experience in addiction recovery as well as OCD.
Please call, text or email to arrange a free initial phone call or to arrange a consultation session.
As an integral, person centred counsellor I offer safe, non-judgemental therapy. Working in-person or online and can help with anxiety, depression, anger and low self-esteem. I also have training and extensive experience in addiction recovery as well as OCD.
Please call, text or email to arrange a free initial phone call or to arrange a consultation session.
I am passionate about working with children and young people and have spent many years working within the educational sector. As adults we sometimes have better coping mechanisms or ways in which to self help, however children do not always have those skills. So I feel it is extremely important to be there to help guide and listen, to help better understand themselves and situations that may appear. I also work with adults helping to explore anxieties and stresses of every day life, within home, work or personally.
I am passionate about working with children and young people and have spent many years working within the educational sector. As adults we sometimes have better coping mechanisms or ways in which to self help, however children do not always have those skills. So I feel it is extremely important to be there to help guide and listen, to help better understand themselves and situations that may appear. I also work with adults helping to explore anxieties and stresses of every day life, within home, work or personally.
I am an experienced and highly professional Integrative Psychotherapist with a First-Class BSc (Hons) Psychology and Counselling, I have over 10 years of psychotherapy experience working in the NHS, the Private Sector at The Priory, in Education, at the Mental Health Charity Mind, in the Corporate Sector and now in Private Practice. This means I have a broad understanding of the mental healthcare landscape, which will significantly benefit you, as I have developed a comprehensive 'toolkit' that I can draw upon to help you better understand yourself, feel less overwhelmed by your problems and feel truly great, not just OK.
I am an experienced and highly professional Integrative Psychotherapist with a First-Class BSc (Hons) Psychology and Counselling, I have over 10 years of psychotherapy experience working in the NHS, the Private Sector at The Priory, in Education, at the Mental Health Charity Mind, in the Corporate Sector and now in Private Practice. This means I have a broad understanding of the mental healthcare landscape, which will significantly benefit you, as I have developed a comprehensive 'toolkit' that I can draw upon to help you better understand yourself, feel less overwhelmed by your problems and feel truly great, not just OK.
I often work with adults who appear to cope well on the outside, but internally feel overwhelmed, stuck in overthinking, emotionally exhausted or disconnected from themselves. Many come with anxiety, OCD, trauma-related difficulties, burnout, low mood or relationship patterns they are struggling to change. I aim to provide a supportive and collaborative space where we build a shared understanding of what may be keeping difficulties going, while tailoring therapy to the individual so that change feels meaningful, practical and lasting.
I often work with adults who appear to cope well on the outside, but internally feel overwhelmed, stuck in overthinking, emotionally exhausted or disconnected from themselves. Many come with anxiety, OCD, trauma-related difficulties, burnout, low mood or relationship patterns they are struggling to change. I aim to provide a supportive and collaborative space where we build a shared understanding of what may be keeping difficulties going, while tailoring therapy to the individual so that change feels meaningful, practical and lasting.
Hello, I am Sophie and I am an experienced BACP accredited counsellor with a special interest in grief and loss. Although grief is a natural and healthy process, it can be overwhelming and it affects us in different ways. Experiencing loss can leave you feeling confused, anxious, sad, angry and distant from your normal sense of self. Counselling can help you process and make sense of your loss and also adapt to your grief. Grief isn't just about the death of a loved one. It is also a natural human response to the loss of an animal, object or life transition.
Hello, I am Sophie and I am an experienced BACP accredited counsellor with a special interest in grief and loss. Although grief is a natural and healthy process, it can be overwhelming and it affects us in different ways. Experiencing loss can leave you feeling confused, anxious, sad, angry and distant from your normal sense of self. Counselling can help you process and make sense of your loss and also adapt to your grief. Grief isn't just about the death of a loved one. It is also a natural human response to the loss of an animal, object or life transition.
People seek therapy for many different reasons, including:
Anxiety
Depression
Relationship difficulties
Bereavement and loss
Childhood experiences
Trauma
Stress and burnout
Low self-esteem
Life transitions
Identity and belonging
Emotional regulation
Chronic illness including cancer
People seek therapy for many different reasons, including:
Anxiety
Depression
Relationship difficulties
Bereavement and loss
Childhood experiences
Trauma
Stress and burnout
Low self-esteem
Life transitions
Identity and belonging
Emotional regulation
Chronic illness including cancer
Most of my clients are neurodivergent and/or queer and want to explore what that means for them with someone who understands. Are you living with anxiety, emotional overwhelm, or the impact of past experiences that still affect how safe you feel in relationships?
Maybe you struggle with low self-esteem, overthinking, trauma responses, or patterns linked to neurodivergence such as burnout or masking? Some clients come questioning their identity, sexuality, or sense of self; others feel stuck using coping behaviours that no longer help. You don’t need a diagnosis, just the sense that something needs understanding.
Most of my clients are neurodivergent and/or queer and want to explore what that means for them with someone who understands. Are you living with anxiety, emotional overwhelm, or the impact of past experiences that still affect how safe you feel in relationships?
Maybe you struggle with low self-esteem, overthinking, trauma responses, or patterns linked to neurodivergence such as burnout or masking? Some clients come questioning their identity, sexuality, or sense of self; others feel stuck using coping behaviours that no longer help. You don’t need a diagnosis, just the sense that something needs understanding.
I offer you empathy, compassionate and a non-judgemental approach where we can build trust to explore whatever you're facing. I have experience of developing and maintaining strong and trusting relationships with people from a range of different backgrounds, cultures and experiences, supporting them with a wide range of issues. I have a particular interest in loss, grief and bereavement; men's issues; family, marriage and relationship concerns; anxiety and depression; going through transitional stages; ageing; and sexual and emotional abuse.
I offer you empathy, compassionate and a non-judgemental approach where we can build trust to explore whatever you're facing. I have experience of developing and maintaining strong and trusting relationships with people from a range of different backgrounds, cultures and experiences, supporting them with a wide range of issues. I have a particular interest in loss, grief and bereavement; men's issues; family, marriage and relationship concerns; anxiety and depression; going through transitional stages; ageing; and sexual and emotional abuse.
Starting counselling can feel daunting, so I aim to offer a warm, calm and confidential space where you feel safe, heard and respected. I work gently and at your pace, with empathy and without judgement, helping you explore your thoughts and feelings in a way that feels manageable. Alongside private practice, I volunteer and freelance with West Kent Mind in Sevenoaks and previously supported clients through Crossroads Care Counselling. I have experience with grief, domestic abuse, depression, anxiety, relationship difficulties and substance issues, and hope to build a trusting relationship to support you with your needs.
Starting counselling can feel daunting, so I aim to offer a warm, calm and confidential space where you feel safe, heard and respected. I work gently and at your pace, with empathy and without judgement, helping you explore your thoughts and feelings in a way that feels manageable. Alongside private practice, I volunteer and freelance with West Kent Mind in Sevenoaks and previously supported clients through Crossroads Care Counselling. I have experience with grief, domestic abuse, depression, anxiety, relationship difficulties and substance issues, and hope to build a trusting relationship to support you with your needs.
How does your Counsellor compare?
Number of Counsellors in Tonbridge
100+
Average cost per session
£69
Counsellors in Tonbridge who prioritize treating:
| 89% | Anxiety |
| 88% | Depression |
| 79% | Self Esteem |
| 79% | Stress |
| 73% | Relationship Issues |
| 66% | Bereavement |
| 61% | Trauma and PTSD |
Average years in practice
8 Years
Top 3 insurances accepted
| 61% | Aviva |
| 57% | Vitality |
| 54% | AXA PPP |
How Counsellors in Tonbridge see their clients
| 92% | In Person and Online | |
| 8% | Online Only |
Gender breakdown
| 82% | Female | |
| 17% | Male | |
| 1% | Non-Binary |
FAQs - About Therapy and Counselling
How can I find a therapist in Tonbridge?
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Is everyone in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory a licensed therapist?
Counsellors and Psychotherapists listed in the directory are members of the main professional associations, mainly the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and the UK Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP). Most Psychologists in the directory are accredited members of the British Psychological Society (BPS) and/or are registered in the Health and Care Professions Council (HPCP).
Providers whose professional membership or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Given that professional memberships are not a statutory requirement for psychotherapists and counsellors in the UK, certain qualified professionals or organisations may choose not to maintain such memberships despite possessing the necessary qualifications. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
Providers whose professional membership or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Given that professional memberships are not a statutory requirement for psychotherapists and counsellors in the UK, certain qualified professionals or organisations may choose not to maintain such memberships despite possessing the necessary qualifications. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
What’s the difference between a psychologist, a therapist, and a counsellor?
Counsellors, psychotherapists and psychologists can all provide counselling or talking therapy and have credentials and experience that enable them to do so in the UK. Psychologists have earned a degree in psychology and many are members of the British Psychological Society (BPS) and have completed a postgraduate qualification in a specialism. Counsellors and Psychotherapists are not required to have a psychology degree, but to belong to a professional organisation such as the BACP or UKCP, they are required to have completed a training course as well as clinical and supervision hours.
What type of therapy is right for me?
The type of therapy best suited to a particular individual depends on several factors, including their primary reason for seeking therapy, their preferred timeline (some therapy types last for a set number of sessions, while others are open-ended), and their personality and preferences—some may prefer a more structured approach. For many individuals, multiple types of therapy could provide a good fit.
How much does therapy cost?
The cost of therapy depends on a number of variables, including location and the therapist’s experience and training. On average, a therapy session in the UK could be between £30 - £60 when seeing a counsellor and £60 - £150 and up when seeing a clinical psychologist. If you have private insurance, your plan may cover some if not all of your sessions. You should contact your insurance provider to determine if they provide coverage for therapy sessions and to determine what, if any, requirements they might have in order for your sessions to be covered, such as a referral from your GP or medical specialist.
What are more affordable or low cost therapy solutions?
Many therapists offer sliding scale payments, usually on a limited number of slots, which consists in an agreement between the therapist and a client to pay a reduced rate. Therapists who provide such arrangements often consider the client's income or ability to pay, but the extent of the discount is ultimately at the therapist's discretion. Furthermore, while group therapy may have different goals and benefits compared to individual therapy, it can be a more affordable solution to address certain types of issues.
If you are struggling to access therapy due to budget constraints, you could also consider public funded mental health services. The NHS Talking therapies programme offers free of charge counselling for common mental health problems like anxiety and depression. The service is available to anyone registered with a GP, though you do not necessarily need to be referred by your GP and can refer yourself directly to a Talking therapies service. The service will provide different solutions, including group and individual therapy, for a limited number of sessions which are generally up to six.
If you are struggling to access therapy due to budget constraints, you could also consider public funded mental health services. The NHS Talking therapies programme offers free of charge counselling for common mental health problems like anxiety and depression. The service is available to anyone registered with a GP, though you do not necessarily need to be referred by your GP and can refer yourself directly to a Talking therapies service. The service will provide different solutions, including group and individual therapy, for a limited number of sessions which are generally up to six.
Is online therapy cheaper than in-person therapy?
Many therapists charge the same amount for online therapy as they do for in-person therapy—though clients may still find this cost-effective if it cuts down on their transportation costs. Health insurance plans often offer equivalent coverage for online and in-person therapy; indeed, in many places, they are legally required to do so. Text-based or on-demand therapy apps may be cheaper than traditional one-on-one psychotherapy; however, the practice may be less effective and is not likely to be covered by insurance.
Is online therapy a good option?
Therapy conducted online can be just as effective as in-person therapy, as long as there is a strong alliance between the client and the therapist. To find a therapist who provides telehealth services to clients in your area, click “Online Therapy” on the directory homepage and search by your city or town or your postcode.
Are therapy sessions confidential?
Therapists who are part of a professional organisation such as the BACP, the UKCP, or BPS are bound by an ethical framework that requires them to uphold a confidentiality agreement. Confidentiality is a crucial part of the therapeutic relationship and only under specific circumstances, such as when there has been participation in a criminal act or act of terror, or if there is potential or known harm to the client or others, will a therapist be obligated to break the agreement. These exceptions to the confidentiality agreement are usually discussed during the initial consultation.