Marriage Counselling in Thaxted

Lee Bernard
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Thaxted CM6
90-minute sessions, including couples therapy and initial consultations, are £180.
Many people I work with are capable, thoughtful and highly responsible adults who have spent years supporting others and managing significant demands. From the outside, life may appear successful, yet privately they may feel disconnected, emotionally exhausted, or uncertain about what they need. They often come to therapy when familiar ways of coping no longer feel sustainable, seeking a deeper understanding of themselves, their relationships and direction in life. Through depth-oriented psychodynamic psychotherapy, I offer a reflective space to explore the patterns and experiences that shape your inner world and relationships.
90-minute sessions, including couples therapy and initial consultations, are £180.
Many people I work with are capable, thoughtful and highly responsible adults who have spent years supporting others and managing significant demands. From the outside, life may appear successful, yet privately they may feel disconnected, emotionally exhausted, or uncertain about what they need. They often come to therapy when familiar ways of coping no longer feel sustainable, seeking a deeper understanding of themselves, their relationships and direction in life. Through depth-oriented psychodynamic psychotherapy, I offer a reflective space to explore the patterns and experiences that shape your inner world and relationships.
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Claire Wallace
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
I offer 1:1 therapy, couples therapy & EFT - Emotional Freedom Techniques (Tapping) either face to face in my private practice or via zoom.
Hi, I'm an intergrate CBT, Humanistic & Psychodynamic therapist, I individually cater the way I work to the need of my client. I'm a therapist that will hold you emotionally throughout your process, i provide and incorporating exploration by different methods . I'm Trauma, PTSD & Complex PTSD trained.
I offer 1:1 therapy, couples therapy & EFT - Emotional Freedom Techniques (Tapping) either face to face in my private practice or via zoom.
Hi, I'm an intergrate CBT, Humanistic & Psychodynamic therapist, I individually cater the way I work to the need of my client. I'm a therapist that will hold you emotionally throughout your process, i provide and incorporating exploration by different methods . I'm Trauma, PTSD & Complex PTSD trained.
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Charmaine Dunmow Ukcp
Counsellor
Serves Area
I enjoy working individually, with couples and with small groups.
I work with people who feel stuck, empty, low, anxious, sad, numb, lost, frightened, confused, betrayed, guilty, ashamed. I work with people who are at a cross roads, who want to know more. I am also trained in Somatic Trauma work and I have experience working with those suffering with emotional and physical pain.
I enjoy working individually, with couples and with small groups.
I work with people who feel stuck, empty, low, anxious, sad, numb, lost, frightened, confused, betrayed, guilty, ashamed. I work with people who are at a cross roads, who want to know more. I am also trained in Somatic Trauma work and I have experience working with those suffering with emotional and physical pain.
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Madeleine Mansfield
Counsellor, PhD, MBACP
Serves Area
Waitlist for new clients
Offering individual and couples therapy in Saffron Walden, I work with adults and partners who feel anxious, overwhelmed, disconnected or stuck.
I am interested in you as a whole person, not just a label or a list of symptoms. I draw from several approaches so that together we can explore patterns, past experiences, and the stories you tell yourself about who you are, while finding practical ways to steady your nervous system.
Offering individual and couples therapy in Saffron Walden, I work with adults and partners who feel anxious, overwhelmed, disconnected or stuck.
I am interested in you as a whole person, not just a label or a list of symptoms. I draw from several approaches so that together we can explore patterns, past experiences, and the stories you tell yourself about who you are, while finding practical ways to steady your nervous system.
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FAQ - Marriage Counselling
What issues does marriage counselling help with?
Marriage counselling can address common relationship concerns, including ongoing conflict, communication challenges, emotional distance, or difficulty making decisions together. It may also be helpful for couples who are not currently experiencing major problems but want to prepare for future life changes. For more specific concerns affecting one individual in the relationship, such as trauma, depression, or significant substance use concerns, individual therapy may be more appropriate than marriage counselling.

When is the right time to start marriage counselling?
There is no single “right” time to start marriage counselling, but certain signs may suggest that counselling could be helpful. For example, a couple may benefit from counselling if many conversations end in conflict, if negative interactions are becoming more frequent, or if relationship stress is affecting other areas of life, such as sleep, work, parenting, or friendships. Some couples also seek counselling proactively. Premarital counselling, for instance, allows couples to discuss communication styles, finances, family dynamics, and future goals before getting married. Other couples may start counselling before a major life change, such as becoming parents, relocating, or navigating a stressful career transition.

Is marriage counselling effective if only one partner wants to go?
Marriage counselling may still help even if one partner is more hesitant to attend, as long as both people are ultimately willing to participate in sessions. Once counselling is underway, the more hesitant partner may become more open to sessions that can strengthen the relationship and build coping skills and communication strategies. If one partner refuses to attend, individual therapy may still help the other partner understand their needs, set boundaries, and decide how to approach the relationship.

Is online marriage counselling as effective as in-person?
There are differing opinions on the best format for marriage counselling. While some studies show that online marriage counselling can be as effective as in-person counselling, some argue that in-person counselling is more effective because it allows the therapist to better pick up on context and body language cues. In addition, in-person counselling may be a better fit for couples who are working through high-conflict issues. Ultimately, the “best” format depends on the couple’s specific needs and concerns.

What is faith-based marriage counselling and how is it different?
Faith-based marriage counselling incorporates a couple’s religious or spiritual beliefs into counselling. It may be a good fit for couples who want to discuss their relationship, values, and marriage within the context of their faith. For example, Christian marriage counselling may appeal to couples who want a counsellor familiar with Christian beliefs about marriage. Other forms of faith-based counselling may incorporate Jewish, Muslim, Hindu, Buddhist, or other religious perspectives into sessions.

How much does marriage counselling cost and is it covered by insurance?
Marriage counselling is usually paid for privately in Great Britain, rather than through the NHS, and sessions often cost around £60 to £120 or more. Fees depend on location, with costs generally higher in the London area, as well as counsellor experience, session length, and practice setting. However, lower-cost options may be available through sliding scale fees, which adjust the cost of counselling based on income, as well as through community clinics or non-profit organisations that offer reduced-cost services.