Domestic Abuse Counselling in Thames Ditton

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Rachel Herbert
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
I believe therapy offers a safe, warm, non-judgemental and confidential space where people can pause, reflect, and truly be heard. It is a place to explore what feels difficult, understand yourself more deeply, and begin creating the change you desire. I know how hard it can be to sit opposite someone and talk about the things that feel overwhelming, painful, or confusing. It takes courage. For me it’s a true privilege to build a therapeutic relationship and connection, to genuinely walk alongside my clients on their unique journeys. As Carl Rogers said, “Change begins by being fully heard and accepted.”
I believe therapy offers a safe, warm, non-judgemental and confidential space where people can pause, reflect, and truly be heard. It is a place to explore what feels difficult, understand yourself more deeply, and begin creating the change you desire. I know how hard it can be to sit opposite someone and talk about the things that feel overwhelming, painful, or confusing. It takes courage. For me it’s a true privilege to build a therapeutic relationship and connection, to genuinely walk alongside my clients on their unique journeys. As Carl Rogers said, “Change begins by being fully heard and accepted.”
020 4634 7378 View 020 4634 7378
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Katarina Anderson
Counsellor, MBACP
Life can sometimes feel overwhelming, confusing, or lonely - even when things appear fine on the surface. If you’re experiencing stress, anxiety, low mood, relationship difficulties or feeling stuck, therapy can help you to slow down and make sense of what you’re going through. I offer a safe and non-judgmental space where you can explore the parts of yourself that may feel painful, confusing, or difficult to put into words. Being able to talk openly and feel truly heard can often be the first step towards meaningful change. I will be alongside you, offering support and understanding at a pace that feels right for you.
Life can sometimes feel overwhelming, confusing, or lonely - even when things appear fine on the surface. If you’re experiencing stress, anxiety, low mood, relationship difficulties or feeling stuck, therapy can help you to slow down and make sense of what you’re going through. I offer a safe and non-judgmental space where you can explore the parts of yourself that may feel painful, confusing, or difficult to put into words. Being able to talk openly and feel truly heard can often be the first step towards meaningful change. I will be alongside you, offering support and understanding at a pace that feels right for you.
020 3697 5349 View 020 3697 5349
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Rebecca Otero Smith Therapy
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Working with adult survivors of abuse, complex PTSD (CPTSD), and emotional dysregulation.
Psychodynamic & Humanistic, BACP accredited. With a background in arts, offering genuine caring support, where your unique journey is fully respected. Drawing from methods, such as Somatic IFS, Gestalt, and attachment theory and polyvagal-informed somatic work. I am also trained by MAPS and offer integration therapy non-ordinary states of consciousness.
Working with adult survivors of abuse, complex PTSD (CPTSD), and emotional dysregulation.
Psychodynamic & Humanistic, BACP accredited. With a background in arts, offering genuine caring support, where your unique journey is fully respected. Drawing from methods, such as Somatic IFS, Gestalt, and attachment theory and polyvagal-informed somatic work. I am also trained by MAPS and offer integration therapy non-ordinary states of consciousness.
020 3910 8540 View 020 3910 8540
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Louise Ann Becker-Murphy
Counsellor, MA, MBACP Snr. Accred
Serves Area
Please call if you are suffering from: Anxiety, Relationship Issues, Depression, Stress, Panic disorder, Feeling sad, Family Issues, Separation and Divorce including affairs and betrayals, Anger Management, Abuse and PTSD, work related issues and Addictions.
Located next to Surbiton mainline train station. I have appointments available during the day, evenings and weekends. I offer both one to one counselling and couples counselling.
Please call if you are suffering from: Anxiety, Relationship Issues, Depression, Stress, Panic disorder, Feeling sad, Family Issues, Separation and Divorce including affairs and betrayals, Anger Management, Abuse and PTSD, work related issues and Addictions.
Located next to Surbiton mainline train station. I have appointments available during the day, evenings and weekends. I offer both one to one counselling and couples counselling.
07756 902911 View 07756 902911
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Geordie Gronn
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
I offer a compassionate, down-to-earth space where you can explore what's going on for you, without judgment. As a qualified Integrative Counsellor, I draw from a range of therapeutic approaches, tailoring the work to your specific needs. Therapy with me is collaborative and flexible- online or in person in South West London, and I offer a free 15-minute consultation to see if we're a good fit.
I offer a compassionate, down-to-earth space where you can explore what's going on for you, without judgment. As a qualified Integrative Counsellor, I draw from a range of therapeutic approaches, tailoring the work to your specific needs. Therapy with me is collaborative and flexible- online or in person in South West London, and I offer a free 15-minute consultation to see if we're a good fit.
020 4538 4327 View 020 4538 4327
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Judith Pearmain
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
It may be that you have something specific you want to talk about, you may want to calm the negative thoughts that are going around your head or you may be looking to find help for someone you care about. Perhaps when you just want someone who will listen to you, a space to off-load where there is no worry about saying the wrong thing, the fear of being judged or where feeling like you are being an imposition. I am here to help you when you are ready to take the next step.
It may be that you have something specific you want to talk about, you may want to calm the negative thoughts that are going around your head or you may be looking to find help for someone you care about. Perhaps when you just want someone who will listen to you, a space to off-load where there is no worry about saying the wrong thing, the fear of being judged or where feeling like you are being an imposition. I am here to help you when you are ready to take the next step.
020 7101 7761 View 020 7101 7761
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Lynda Anderson
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Serves Area
I work with individuals and couples, helping them find ways to live a more fulfilled and satisfying life. Over time, we develop ways of behaving, thinking and feeling that work well enough to get by, but sometimes get ‘stuck’; I’m trained and experienced in finding and understanding those patterns and, without judgement, getting to the heart of how to put things right. I’ve worked in private practice, charities and the NHS with a range of individual issues, particularly depression, anxiety, post-traumatic stress and historical trauma; couples work includes relationship breakdown, affairs, communication and conflict challenges.
I work with individuals and couples, helping them find ways to live a more fulfilled and satisfying life. Over time, we develop ways of behaving, thinking and feeling that work well enough to get by, but sometimes get ‘stuck’; I’m trained and experienced in finding and understanding those patterns and, without judgement, getting to the heart of how to put things right. I’ve worked in private practice, charities and the NHS with a range of individual issues, particularly depression, anxiety, post-traumatic stress and historical trauma; couples work includes relationship breakdown, affairs, communication and conflict challenges.
020 4634 1968 View 020 4634 1968
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Dee Burns
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
If you’re struggling with anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, relationship difficulties, or past trauma, it can feel isolating and overwhelming. I offer a safe, compassionate space where you can be heard and understood. Together, we’ll explore your experiences, uncover what’s holding you back, and work towards greater self-understanding, resilience, and confidence—so you can feel more at peace with yourself and your life.
If you’re struggling with anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, relationship difficulties, or past trauma, it can feel isolating and overwhelming. I offer a safe, compassionate space where you can be heard and understood. Together, we’ll explore your experiences, uncover what’s holding you back, and work towards greater self-understanding, resilience, and confidence—so you can feel more at peace with yourself and your life.
020 3892 9544 View 020 3892 9544
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Liz Goldspink
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Serves Area
When you know you can’t go on as you are, something needs to change. You might be feeling stuck in a relationship or a job which just isn’t working anymore. Maybe you’re faced with a big life transition and feel lost and uncertain about your future. All these issues show up as anxiety, depression, relationship problems and low self esteem. By raising your self-awareness I will help you explore these issues and find the root causes of the symptoms you're experiencing. For me, counselling is a vocation not a job and I am passionate about making a difference in people’s lives. I hope I can make a difference in yours.
When you know you can’t go on as you are, something needs to change. You might be feeling stuck in a relationship or a job which just isn’t working anymore. Maybe you’re faced with a big life transition and feel lost and uncertain about your future. All these issues show up as anxiety, depression, relationship problems and low self esteem. By raising your self-awareness I will help you explore these issues and find the root causes of the symptoms you're experiencing. For me, counselling is a vocation not a job and I am passionate about making a difference in people’s lives. I hope I can make a difference in yours.
01372 233813 View 01372 233813

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Cindy Barbour
Counsellor, MSc, BACP
Online Only
Finding a counsellor can feel quite overwhelming, especially when you may already be feeling overwhelmed by your own emotions. Counselling can be very helpful when we prioritise our well-being and personal growth.
Finding a counsellor can feel quite overwhelming, especially when you may already be feeling overwhelmed by your own emotions. Counselling can be very helpful when we prioritise our well-being and personal growth.
020 4634 6469 View 020 4634 6469
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Sabina Miah. Online counselling therapy.
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Serves Area
I have experience in counselling for many issues such as bereavement, abuse and trauma; working in counselling organisations and private practice.
Hello and welcome. My name is Sabina and I am an NCPS accredited counsellor. I work with individuals and couples, helping build compassionate connection with own self and within relationships. Most people I see have experienced being mistreated or had negativelife experiences, leaving them either being hard on themselves or having low self esteem, often alongside trying to manage health issues. I offer open ended counselling sessions, where you can choose a weekly or fortnightly slot. Services are offered via phone call, online video or in person from my office in Market Street, Wigan.
I have experience in counselling for many issues such as bereavement, abuse and trauma; working in counselling organisations and private practice.
Hello and welcome. My name is Sabina and I am an NCPS accredited counsellor. I work with individuals and couples, helping build compassionate connection with own self and within relationships. Most people I see have experienced being mistreated or had negativelife experiences, leaving them either being hard on themselves or having low self esteem, often alongside trying to manage health issues. I offer open ended counselling sessions, where you can choose a weekly or fortnightly slot. Services are offered via phone call, online video or in person from my office in Market Street, Wigan.
0161 524 8344 View 0161 524 8344
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Martina Vaclavova
Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
London EC2A
I am also a Somatic Experiencing practitioner and have worked with a broad range of issues including anxiety, depression, bereavement and loss, domestic abuse, developmental trauma, gender identity issues and more.
I am an integrative psychotherapist and a qualified Somatic Experiencing practitioner. My clients include adults, young people and children. I see each person as an individual with their unique needs and create a bespoke treatment plan to help with the specific issues. I offer a non-judgemental space so you can feel heard and understood, and begin to experience meaningful change. I also incorporate somatic work, informed by the Somatic Experiencing model, alongside neuroscience to support mind–body awareness and nervous system regulation. When working with younger clients, I use art and other creative media.
I am also a Somatic Experiencing practitioner and have worked with a broad range of issues including anxiety, depression, bereavement and loss, domestic abuse, developmental trauma, gender identity issues and more.
I am an integrative psychotherapist and a qualified Somatic Experiencing practitioner. My clients include adults, young people and children. I see each person as an individual with their unique needs and create a bespoke treatment plan to help with the specific issues. I offer a non-judgemental space so you can feel heard and understood, and begin to experience meaningful change. I also incorporate somatic work, informed by the Somatic Experiencing model, alongside neuroscience to support mind–body awareness and nervous system regulation. When working with younger clients, I use art and other creative media.
020 4652 2120 View 020 4652 2120
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Kirsten Stoyell
Psychologist, MA, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
5 Endorsed
Online Only
I help people navigate the complexity of emotional, psychological and domestic abuse.
My clients often arrive in therapy wondering if anyone would believe them. Sometimes their experiences feel 'like a movie script' and that nobody would understand them. Through therapy, we unpack their experiences, and place a vocabulary to what they have gone through, ultimately leading to healthier patterns of interaction in their lives and relationships.
I help people navigate the complexity of emotional, psychological and domestic abuse.
My clients often arrive in therapy wondering if anyone would believe them. Sometimes their experiences feel 'like a movie script' and that nobody would understand them. Through therapy, we unpack their experiences, and place a vocabulary to what they have gone through, ultimately leading to healthier patterns of interaction in their lives and relationships.
01794 331117 View 01794 331117
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Yesenia De Caires
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP Accred
London N19
I offer a safe and non-judgemental space for you to explore difficult and even traumatic events in your life. A place to process sudden changes in your life, or a place to grieve. A place to discover the patterns that you might have developed over time as a way to try protect yourself, and a place that facilitates change to get you closer to your true self, where you will be able to find harmony between what you think, feel and do. A place to explore your feelings and find a way of being that works for you, which might help to relieve symptoms of depression, anxiety, and feelings of anger and fear.
I offer a safe and non-judgemental space for you to explore difficult and even traumatic events in your life. A place to process sudden changes in your life, or a place to grieve. A place to discover the patterns that you might have developed over time as a way to try protect yourself, and a place that facilitates change to get you closer to your true self, where you will be able to find harmony between what you think, feel and do. A place to explore your feelings and find a way of being that works for you, which might help to relieve symptoms of depression, anxiety, and feelings of anger and fear.
020 3728 8339 View 020 3728 8339
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Hope Bastine
Psychotherapist, PhD, GMBPsS
1 Endorsed
London N13
I heal complex PTSD from childhood abuse, coercive control, narcissistic abuse, & high-control groups/religions.
You're exhausted but can't sleep - your mind races with past trauma or tomorrow's worries. Sleep apps/AI give generic advice that doesn't work long-term because: 1) Nightmares/flashbacks need trauma processing (not just 'sleep hygiene'), 2) Your nervous system needs co-regulation (not pre-recorded meditations), 3) Complex PTSD requires personalised care (no algorithm understands your story). I help with trauma issues to finally sleep & lead a rich life through caring somatic/humanistic treatment that addresses the root cause, not just symptom pacification. Together, we rebuild your sense of safety so authenticity comes naturally.
I heal complex PTSD from childhood abuse, coercive control, narcissistic abuse, & high-control groups/religions.
You're exhausted but can't sleep - your mind races with past trauma or tomorrow's worries. Sleep apps/AI give generic advice that doesn't work long-term because: 1) Nightmares/flashbacks need trauma processing (not just 'sleep hygiene'), 2) Your nervous system needs co-regulation (not pre-recorded meditations), 3) Complex PTSD requires personalised care (no algorithm understands your story). I help with trauma issues to finally sleep & lead a rich life through caring somatic/humanistic treatment that addresses the root cause, not just symptom pacification. Together, we rebuild your sense of safety so authenticity comes naturally.
01992 945273 View 01992 945273
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Counselling E2E London Ltd
Counsellor, MBACP
London SW16
Issues of infidelity, substance use, illness, loss and all its elements, disconnection, re-connection, domestic violence, trauma, anxieties, depression, PTSD are common.
My skills and experience allow me to open doors at the client's pace. I can help them look at the dynamics of their issues providing a backdrop to additional understanding and growth. My speciality is psychodynamic therapy. Exploring and reviewing the motivations, influences, conscious or not, that may support their life story, knowing change can happen.
Issues of infidelity, substance use, illness, loss and all its elements, disconnection, re-connection, domestic violence, trauma, anxieties, depression, PTSD are common.
My skills and experience allow me to open doors at the client's pace. I can help them look at the dynamics of their issues providing a backdrop to additional understanding and growth. My speciality is psychodynamic therapy. Exploring and reviewing the motivations, influences, conscious or not, that may support their life story, knowing change can happen.
020 4538 2537 View 020 4538 2537
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Clare Elizabeth Blanch
Counsellor, MBACP
Reading RG1
I have worked in the domestic/sexual abuse sector for nearly 20 years, supporting both adults and children before qualifying as a counsellor.
Life can present us with unexpected and difficult challenges. Like anyone else, I have had my own life transitions that have been hard to navigate. I see my role as being alongside you while you navigate your own life, giving you the tools to find the answers or articulate feelings. I consider it a privilege to support my clients and a relaxed, warm, and non-judgmental approach is central to my work. I'm interested in you, your experiences, and your goals.
I have worked in the domestic/sexual abuse sector for nearly 20 years, supporting both adults and children before qualifying as a counsellor.
Life can present us with unexpected and difficult challenges. Like anyone else, I have had my own life transitions that have been hard to navigate. I see my role as being alongside you while you navigate your own life, giving you the tools to find the answers or articulate feelings. I consider it a privilege to support my clients and a relaxed, warm, and non-judgmental approach is central to my work. I'm interested in you, your experiences, and your goals.
0118 230 5001 View 0118 230 5001
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Kirsty - Echo Counselling
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I specialise in narcissistic abuse in relationships and the workplace.
I can help by psycho-educating you on the traits of narcissism and the potential effects upon self; helping you to gain awareness to alleviate anxiety and confusion and lead a happier life. I work well with anxiety and emotional intelligence, allowing you to make positive change and reframe how you think, feel and behave within your cognition and emotions.
I specialise in narcissistic abuse in relationships and the workplace.
I can help by psycho-educating you on the traits of narcissism and the potential effects upon self; helping you to gain awareness to alleviate anxiety and confusion and lead a happier life. I work well with anxiety and emotional intelligence, allowing you to make positive change and reframe how you think, feel and behave within your cognition and emotions.
01277 289640 View 01277 289640
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Siran He
Counsellor, MSc, MNCPS Acc.
London E16
I’m an integrative counsellor supporting individuals through life transitions, relationship patterns, and the impact of past experiences. Many of my clients seem independent and capable on the outside, yet inside they feel overwhelmed, self-doubting, or exhausted from holding everything together for others. Therapy with me offers a safe space where you don’t have to be the “strong” one. Together, we slow down, explore the roots of what’s shaping you, and make sense of your experiences with warmth and care.
I’m an integrative counsellor supporting individuals through life transitions, relationship patterns, and the impact of past experiences. Many of my clients seem independent and capable on the outside, yet inside they feel overwhelmed, self-doubting, or exhausted from holding everything together for others. Therapy with me offers a safe space where you don’t have to be the “strong” one. Together, we slow down, explore the roots of what’s shaping you, and make sense of your experiences with warmth and care.
01492 552160 View 01492 552160
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Berith Ngangombo
Psychologist, MSc, GMBPsS
London W14
I mainly offer trauma-informed counselling to adults who have experienced domestic abuse/(DV).
Hiya, I'm Berith and thank you for being here. My aim is to help you discover and embrace yourself, while navigating the challenges that led you to seek counselling. Life can be overwhelming, with lots of thoughts; both positive and negative which affect our emotions and actions. But know your feelings are valid, and deserve to be acknowledged and validated. Knowing this, everything will be done at your pace. I understand that seeking counselling can be intimidating, but I'm here to offer a safe and supportive space where our energies match and you feel at ease to go through this process. It’s a safe space!
I mainly offer trauma-informed counselling to adults who have experienced domestic abuse/(DV).
Hiya, I'm Berith and thank you for being here. My aim is to help you discover and embrace yourself, while navigating the challenges that led you to seek counselling. Life can be overwhelming, with lots of thoughts; both positive and negative which affect our emotions and actions. But know your feelings are valid, and deserve to be acknowledged and validated. Knowing this, everything will be done at your pace. I understand that seeking counselling can be intimidating, but I'm here to offer a safe and supportive space where our energies match and you feel at ease to go through this process. It’s a safe space!
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Domestic Abuse Counsellors
What are the most effective ways to recover from domestic abuse?
Leaving an abusive relationship requires tremendous courage, so survivors in treatment should recognise that they have already completed the most important step. Still, the trauma of physical or emotional abuse can be difficult to process and overcome. Therapy can help survivors process trauma, grief, and difficult emotions, treat relevant mental health symptoms, and create a new framework for boundaries and relationships in the future. For some, support groups can also be an invaluable outlet for healing.

When should an individual seek help for domestic abuse?
Victims of intimate partner violence should seek help immediately. It can take substantial time, planning, energy, and courage to leave an abusive relationship, but starting the process—by seeking therapy, calling the domestic violence hotline, or simply confiding in a loved one—will help them get there. Those who have left abusive relationships but haven’t sought treatment can also greatly benefit from therapy to process and heal from the experience.

What are the consequences of staying in an abusive relationship?
Remaining in an abusive relationship has serious repercussions. In addition to the ongoing threat of physical danger and emotional abuse, research shows that intimate partner violence is associated with a range of mental health disorders including depression, post-traumatic stress disorder, anxiety, and substance abuse. Therefore it’s important for individuals in an abusive relationship to seek help as soon as possible.

How can you get domestic abuse treatment for someone else?
It can be very complicated to identify and leave an abusive relationship; barriers include the threat of violence, financial instability, and family pressures. Those concerned about a loved one in an abusive relationship should talk to them about the situation, provide them with resources such as the domestic violence hotline, and introduce the idea of seeing a therapist due to their concern for the person’s safety and well-being.