Counselling in Surbiton
Specialist in trauma recovery, delivered with compassion and care.
You may feel weighed down by past experiences, stuck in painful relationship patterns, or overwhelmed by anxiety. I offer a compassionate, trauma-sensitive space where you can explore your story safely and at your own pace. Together, we can work toward recovery, helping you reconnect with yourself, find emotional balance, and build healthier, more fulfilling relationships.
Specialist in trauma recovery, delivered with compassion and care.
You may feel weighed down by past experiences, stuck in painful relationship patterns, or overwhelmed by anxiety. I offer a compassionate, trauma-sensitive space where you can explore your story safely and at your own pace. Together, we can work toward recovery, helping you reconnect with yourself, find emotional balance, and build healthier, more fulfilling relationships.
I support adults, children and young people when they are feeling stuck, overwhelmed or confused by their experiences and emotions, to help discover a sense of relief, ease and hopefulness about the future. My compassionate approach engages curiosity, imagination and playfulness to untangle conflicts and gain fresh perspective on self, issues and relationships.
I support adults, children and young people when they are feeling stuck, overwhelmed or confused by their experiences and emotions, to help discover a sense of relief, ease and hopefulness about the future. My compassionate approach engages curiosity, imagination and playfulness to untangle conflicts and gain fresh perspective on self, issues and relationships.
My name is Helen Ross and I am a professional counselor and psychotherapist. I offer a friendly down-to-earth approach to therapy, providing a safe, confidential, and non-judgmental space to talk. I work flexibly and collaboratively, tailoring therapy to your needs My therapy room is in my home where I can offer a supportive environment
My name is Helen Ross and I am a professional counselor and psychotherapist. I offer a friendly down-to-earth approach to therapy, providing a safe, confidential, and non-judgmental space to talk. I work flexibly and collaboratively, tailoring therapy to your needs My therapy room is in my home where I can offer a supportive environment
Do you feel overwhelmed with anxiety, gripped by a panic attack that paralyses and robs you of your natural confidence? Or are you feeling the heavy weight of depression, that leaves you without any energy and wanting just to stay in bed and hide under the duvet?
Do you feel overwhelmed with anxiety, gripped by a panic attack that paralyses and robs you of your natural confidence? Or are you feeling the heavy weight of depression, that leaves you without any energy and wanting just to stay in bed and hide under the duvet?
I support people to live happier, healthier and more fulfilling lives, by reducing emotional distress and challenging unhelpful or rigid thought patterns. I have practiced privately for a number of years, and have also worked at the Priory Hospital, an addiction support agency and within numerous colleges. I work with individuals and with couples. Perhaps you are fed up with feeling, living or thinking in a certain way, and this is affecting your work life, your romantic relationships, your friendships or your self-esteem.
I support people to live happier, healthier and more fulfilling lives, by reducing emotional distress and challenging unhelpful or rigid thought patterns. I have practiced privately for a number of years, and have also worked at the Priory Hospital, an addiction support agency and within numerous colleges. I work with individuals and with couples. Perhaps you are fed up with feeling, living or thinking in a certain way, and this is affecting your work life, your romantic relationships, your friendships or your self-esteem.
I’m a BACP-registered integrative psychotherapist in private practice, with previous experience working within an NHS GP practice. I offer a warm, collaborative space where you can pause, reflect and feel understood.
You may be feeling anxious, overwhelmed, low in confidence, stuck, or facing a period of change or loss. Together, we can explore what may be happening beneath these difficulties, understand patterns that are no longer helping, and reconnect with your strengths, needs and inner resources, creating space for greater self-understanding and a way forward that feels more aligned with you.
I’m a BACP-registered integrative psychotherapist in private practice, with previous experience working within an NHS GP practice. I offer a warm, collaborative space where you can pause, reflect and feel understood.
You may be feeling anxious, overwhelmed, low in confidence, stuck, or facing a period of change or loss. Together, we can explore what may be happening beneath these difficulties, understand patterns that are no longer helping, and reconnect with your strengths, needs and inner resources, creating space for greater self-understanding and a way forward that feels more aligned with you.
Life is difficult sometimes and managing thoughts, feelings, or situations without support can be overwhelming. As an integrative-relational counsellor, I use a variety of approaches which allows me to tailor my approach to best support you, your experiences, and your needs. Whether you are dealing with stress, anxiety, relationship issues, or seeking personal growth, my goal is to provide a safe, non-judgmental space where you can explore your thoughts and emotions.
Life is difficult sometimes and managing thoughts, feelings, or situations without support can be overwhelming. As an integrative-relational counsellor, I use a variety of approaches which allows me to tailor my approach to best support you, your experiences, and your needs. Whether you are dealing with stress, anxiety, relationship issues, or seeking personal growth, my goal is to provide a safe, non-judgmental space where you can explore your thoughts and emotions.
I'm the psychotherapist behind Embracing Emotions based in Surbiton, Greater London. I am a registered member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP); I meet their high standards of proficiency, professionalism and ethical practice. I work online and in person. I help adults and adolescents with a variety of difficulties such as anxiety, depression and grief. I am neurodiversity affirming.
I have experience working with charities such as Express CIC, an autism charity, and the Grace Dear Trust who work to prevent suicide. I also work for an NHS commissioned and BACP Accredited mental health service.
I'm the psychotherapist behind Embracing Emotions based in Surbiton, Greater London. I am a registered member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP); I meet their high standards of proficiency, professionalism and ethical practice. I work online and in person. I help adults and adolescents with a variety of difficulties such as anxiety, depression and grief. I am neurodiversity affirming.
I have experience working with charities such as Express CIC, an autism charity, and the Grace Dear Trust who work to prevent suicide. I also work for an NHS commissioned and BACP Accredited mental health service.
I work with individuals and couples, helping them find ways to live a more fulfilled and satisfying life. Over time, we develop ways of behaving, thinking and feeling that work well enough to get by, but sometimes get ‘stuck’; I’m trained and experienced in finding and understanding those patterns and, without judgement, getting to the heart of how to put things right. I’ve worked in private practice, charities and the NHS with a range of individual issues, particularly depression, anxiety, post-traumatic stress and historical trauma; couples work includes relationship breakdown, affairs, communication and conflict challenges.
I work with individuals and couples, helping them find ways to live a more fulfilled and satisfying life. Over time, we develop ways of behaving, thinking and feeling that work well enough to get by, but sometimes get ‘stuck’; I’m trained and experienced in finding and understanding those patterns and, without judgement, getting to the heart of how to put things right. I’ve worked in private practice, charities and the NHS with a range of individual issues, particularly depression, anxiety, post-traumatic stress and historical trauma; couples work includes relationship breakdown, affairs, communication and conflict challenges.
Do you or your child struggle with anxiety and/or depression? Have you ever experienced trauma and it’s had a lasting impact on you? Do you or your child find it hard to handle difficult thoughts and feelings? Do you or your child find it hard to get up in the morning or that you’re not finding pleasure in the things you once enjoyed? Do you find work stressful or you’re having difficulties navigating your relationships? If you answered yes to any of these questions then I can help. I can help you to handle those difficult thoughts and feelings. I can help you live a life that’s rich and meaningful working on goals set by you.
Do you or your child struggle with anxiety and/or depression? Have you ever experienced trauma and it’s had a lasting impact on you? Do you or your child find it hard to handle difficult thoughts and feelings? Do you or your child find it hard to get up in the morning or that you’re not finding pleasure in the things you once enjoyed? Do you find work stressful or you’re having difficulties navigating your relationships? If you answered yes to any of these questions then I can help. I can help you to handle those difficult thoughts and feelings. I can help you live a life that’s rich and meaningful working on goals set by you.
Located next to Surbiton mainline train station. I have appointments available during the day, evenings and weekends. I offer both one to one counselling and couples counselling.
Located next to Surbiton mainline train station. I have appointments available during the day, evenings and weekends. I offer both one to one counselling and couples counselling.
Hi,
There are times in life when things can feel heavy and overwhelming, whether you’re living with anxiety, low mood, depression, grief, loneliness, or difficulties in relationships. You don’t have to carry it all on your own. As a person‑centred counsellor, I offer a warm, caring, and confidential space where your thoughts and feelings truly matter, where you feel deeply heard and understood, and where together we can gently explore what’s been weighing on you. Alongside my counselling work, I have a background in teaching speech and drama, volunteering with Home-Start, and leading workshops for people living with depression.
Hi,
There are times in life when things can feel heavy and overwhelming, whether you’re living with anxiety, low mood, depression, grief, loneliness, or difficulties in relationships. You don’t have to carry it all on your own. As a person‑centred counsellor, I offer a warm, caring, and confidential space where your thoughts and feelings truly matter, where you feel deeply heard and understood, and where together we can gently explore what’s been weighing on you. Alongside my counselling work, I have a background in teaching speech and drama, volunteering with Home-Start, and leading workshops for people living with depression.
Are you feeling drained in a relationship where you are not seen, heard, or valued? You may be experiencing emotional or narcissistic abuse, or feeling confused in ways that are hard to explain. Many of the women I support feel stuck between who they are and who they have been expected to be. I offer a calm, safe space where you can make sense of your experience, rebuild your self-worth, and reconnect with yourself at your own pace.
I support women who feel unheard, unseen, and emotionally drained in their relationships.
Are you feeling drained in a relationship where you are not seen, heard, or valued? You may be experiencing emotional or narcissistic abuse, or feeling confused in ways that are hard to explain. Many of the women I support feel stuck between who they are and who they have been expected to be. I offer a calm, safe space where you can make sense of your experience, rebuild your self-worth, and reconnect with yourself at your own pace.
I support women who feel unheard, unseen, and emotionally drained in their relationships.
I am a HCPC registered Clinical Psychologist and EMDR Europe Accredited Practitioner. Alongside extensive experience in child and family psychology, I also work with adults experiencing anxiety, low mood, trauma, relationship difficulties and the lasting impact of difficult life experiences.
I offer a warm, compassionate and collaborative therapeutic space, tailoring therapy to each individual using evidence-based approaches including EMDR and CBT. I work online and in person in Surbiton, with some flexibility for daytime, evening or weekend sessions. For more information please see my website.
I am a HCPC registered Clinical Psychologist and EMDR Europe Accredited Practitioner. Alongside extensive experience in child and family psychology, I also work with adults experiencing anxiety, low mood, trauma, relationship difficulties and the lasting impact of difficult life experiences.
I offer a warm, compassionate and collaborative therapeutic space, tailoring therapy to each individual using evidence-based approaches including EMDR and CBT. I work online and in person in Surbiton, with some flexibility for daytime, evening or weekend sessions. For more information please see my website.
I’m an integrative psychotherapist with a background in somatic therapy, movement, and embodied approaches to healing. My work is rooted in the understanding that our sense of self is shaped not only by conscious thought, but by the stories, archetypes, relational patterns, and subconscious programmes carried within the body and nervous system.
I’m an integrative psychotherapist with a background in somatic therapy, movement, and embodied approaches to healing. My work is rooted in the understanding that our sense of self is shaped not only by conscious thought, but by the stories, archetypes, relational patterns, and subconscious programmes carried within the body and nervous system.
If you’re struggling with anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, relationship difficulties, or past trauma, it can feel isolating and overwhelming. I offer a safe, compassionate space where you can be heard and understood. Together, we’ll explore your experiences, uncover what’s holding you back, and work towards greater self-understanding, resilience, and confidence—so you can feel more at peace with yourself and your life.
If you’re struggling with anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, relationship difficulties, or past trauma, it can feel isolating and overwhelming. I offer a safe, compassionate space where you can be heard and understood. Together, we’ll explore your experiences, uncover what’s holding you back, and work towards greater self-understanding, resilience, and confidence—so you can feel more at peace with yourself and your life.
My practice is a safe and welcoming space in Surbiton, where we can make sense of difficult feelings and think about what has brought you here. I have many years of experience working with adults from all walks of life and I understand it can be difficult to reach out for help. If you're struggling and would like someone to talk to, get in touch to arrange a confidential phone call to see if psychotherapy feels right for you.
My practice is a safe and welcoming space in Surbiton, where we can make sense of difficult feelings and think about what has brought you here. I have many years of experience working with adults from all walks of life and I understand it can be difficult to reach out for help. If you're struggling and would like someone to talk to, get in touch to arrange a confidential phone call to see if psychotherapy feels right for you.
Hi there, I work with clients seeking understanding and resolution in the areas of anxiety, relational issues, addiction, motivation, negative repetitive cycles, eating disorder, work related stress, affairs and betrayal, low mood and loneliness.
Therapy with me will offer a unique relationship where you can better understand the root causes of your issues emotionally and behaviorally. With better understanding we can then work towards appropriate solution.
Hi there, I work with clients seeking understanding and resolution in the areas of anxiety, relational issues, addiction, motivation, negative repetitive cycles, eating disorder, work related stress, affairs and betrayal, low mood and loneliness.
Therapy with me will offer a unique relationship where you can better understand the root causes of your issues emotionally and behaviorally. With better understanding we can then work towards appropriate solution.
In a confidential, welcoming space, we talk about sex. I offer a safe, compassionate place to talk about intimacy, relationships, sexual behaviours, erotic and sexual orientations, sexual bodies, and real vs. fantasised experiences. We look for a positive way forward to deal with something that feels stuck or unmanageable, in a therapy space that welcomes and understands sexual differences and experiences, and treats you with respect.
In a confidential, welcoming space, we talk about sex. I offer a safe, compassionate place to talk about intimacy, relationships, sexual behaviours, erotic and sexual orientations, sexual bodies, and real vs. fantasised experiences. We look for a positive way forward to deal with something that feels stuck or unmanageable, in a therapy space that welcomes and understands sexual differences and experiences, and treats you with respect.
Are anxiety, intrusive thoughts, panic attacks, perfectionism, trauma, or feelings of disconnection from yourself affecting your daily life? I am a BABCP-accredited Cognitive Behavioural Therapist with experience across NHS and private mental health services. I specialise in helping adults and young people overcome anxiety disorders, OCD, trauma, low self-esteem, perfectionism, and depersonalisation/derealisation. Using evidence-based CBT, I help clients understand and change unhelpful patterns so they can feel more confident, resilient, and in control of their lives.
Are anxiety, intrusive thoughts, panic attacks, perfectionism, trauma, or feelings of disconnection from yourself affecting your daily life? I am a BABCP-accredited Cognitive Behavioural Therapist with experience across NHS and private mental health services. I specialise in helping adults and young people overcome anxiety disorders, OCD, trauma, low self-esteem, perfectionism, and depersonalisation/derealisation. Using evidence-based CBT, I help clients understand and change unhelpful patterns so they can feel more confident, resilient, and in control of their lives.
Nearby Searches for Surbiton
- Chessington
- Claygate
- East Molesey
- Esher
- Hampton
- Hampton Hill
- Kingston upon Thames
- New Malden
- Teddington
- Thames Ditton
- West Molesey
- Worcester Park
How does your Counsellor compare?
Number of Counsellors in Surbiton
90+
Average cost per session
£72
Counsellors in Surbiton who prioritize treating:
| 93% | Anxiety |
| 85% | Depression |
| 85% | Self Esteem |
| 82% | Stress |
| 81% | Relationship Issues |
| 67% | Bereavement |
| 62% | Trauma and PTSD |
Average years in practice
9 Years
Top 3 insurances accepted
| 79% | Aviva |
| 66% | AXA PPP |
| 66% | Vitality |
How Counsellors in Surbiton see their clients
| 84% | In Person and Online | |
| 16% | Online Only |
Gender breakdown
| 86% | Female | |
| 14% | Male |
FAQs - About Therapy and Counselling
How can I find a therapist in Surbiton?
Search for nearby therapists or counsellors by inputting your city, postcode, or a provider’s name into the search bar. From there, you can filter providers by the issues they treat, cost, insurance, gender, and other factors to find providers who are well-suited to your needs. To navigate between locations within the same country, enter a new city or postcode into the search bar.
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Is everyone in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory a licensed therapist?
Counsellors and Psychotherapists listed in the directory are members of the main professional associations, mainly the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and the UK Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP). Most Psychologists in the directory are accredited members of the British Psychological Society (BPS) and/or are registered in the Health and Care Professions Council (HPCP).
Providers whose professional membership or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Given that professional memberships are not a statutory requirement for psychotherapists and counsellors in the UK, certain qualified professionals or organisations may choose not to maintain such memberships despite possessing the necessary qualifications. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
Providers whose professional membership or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Given that professional memberships are not a statutory requirement for psychotherapists and counsellors in the UK, certain qualified professionals or organisations may choose not to maintain such memberships despite possessing the necessary qualifications. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
What’s the difference between a psychologist, a therapist, and a counsellor?
Counsellors, psychotherapists and psychologists can all provide counselling or talking therapy and have credentials and experience that enable them to do so in the UK. Psychologists have earned a degree in psychology and many are members of the British Psychological Society (BPS) and have completed a postgraduate qualification in a specialism. Counsellors and Psychotherapists are not required to have a psychology degree, but to belong to a professional organisation such as the BACP or UKCP, they are required to have completed a training course as well as clinical and supervision hours.
What type of therapy is right for me?
The type of therapy best suited to a particular individual depends on several factors, including their primary reason for seeking therapy, their preferred timeline (some therapy types last for a set number of sessions, while others are open-ended), and their personality and preferences—some may prefer a more structured approach. For many individuals, multiple types of therapy could provide a good fit.
How much does therapy cost?
The cost of therapy depends on a number of variables, including location and the therapist’s experience and training. On average, a therapy session in the UK could be between £30 - £60 when seeing a counsellor and £60 - £150 and up when seeing a clinical psychologist. If you have private insurance, your plan may cover some if not all of your sessions. You should contact your insurance provider to determine if they provide coverage for therapy sessions and to determine what, if any, requirements they might have in order for your sessions to be covered, such as a referral from your GP or medical specialist.
What are more affordable or low cost therapy solutions?
Many therapists offer sliding scale payments, usually on a limited number of slots, which consists in an agreement between the therapist and a client to pay a reduced rate. Therapists who provide such arrangements often consider the client's income or ability to pay, but the extent of the discount is ultimately at the therapist's discretion. Furthermore, while group therapy may have different goals and benefits compared to individual therapy, it can be a more affordable solution to address certain types of issues.
If you are struggling to access therapy due to budget constraints, you could also consider public funded mental health services. The NHS Talking therapies programme offers free of charge counselling for common mental health problems like anxiety and depression. The service is available to anyone registered with a GP, though you do not necessarily need to be referred by your GP and can refer yourself directly to a Talking therapies service. The service will provide different solutions, including group and individual therapy, for a limited number of sessions which are generally up to six.
If you are struggling to access therapy due to budget constraints, you could also consider public funded mental health services. The NHS Talking therapies programme offers free of charge counselling for common mental health problems like anxiety and depression. The service is available to anyone registered with a GP, though you do not necessarily need to be referred by your GP and can refer yourself directly to a Talking therapies service. The service will provide different solutions, including group and individual therapy, for a limited number of sessions which are generally up to six.
Is online therapy cheaper than in-person therapy?
Many therapists charge the same amount for online therapy as they do for in-person therapy—though clients may still find this cost-effective if it cuts down on their transportation costs. Health insurance plans often offer equivalent coverage for online and in-person therapy; indeed, in many places, they are legally required to do so. Text-based or on-demand therapy apps may be cheaper than traditional one-on-one psychotherapy; however, the practice may be less effective and is not likely to be covered by insurance.
Is online therapy a good option?
Therapy conducted online can be just as effective as in-person therapy, as long as there is a strong alliance between the client and the therapist. To find a therapist who provides telehealth services to clients in your area, click “Online Therapy” on the directory homepage and search by your city or town or your postcode.
Are therapy sessions confidential?
Therapists who are part of a professional organisation such as the BACP, the UKCP, or BPS are bound by an ethical framework that requires them to uphold a confidentiality agreement. Confidentiality is a crucial part of the therapeutic relationship and only under specific circumstances, such as when there has been participation in a criminal act or act of terror, or if there is potential or known harm to the client or others, will a therapist be obligated to break the agreement. These exceptions to the confidentiality agreement are usually discussed during the initial consultation.