Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Counselling in Stoke-on-Trent

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Lucy Prokic
Counsellor, MBACP
Life can be hard right? Ever feel like your struggling to cope with the day to day, like you don't feel like yourself. Maybe you've experienced trauma and need a safe place to work through that. Or are you experiencing mental health difficulties for the first time such as anxiety or depression. Well these are some of the many things that therapy can help with.
Life can be hard right? Ever feel like your struggling to cope with the day to day, like you don't feel like yourself. Maybe you've experienced trauma and need a safe place to work through that. Or are you experiencing mental health difficulties for the first time such as anxiety or depression. Well these are some of the many things that therapy can help with.
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Heidi Francis
Psychotherapist, MNCPS Acc.
Online Only
Taking that first step to seek support from a therapist can be a daunting experience and many people can feel anxious discussing their struggles. Experiencing feelings of anxiety, depression, sadness, anger and stress or suffering from a constant low mood, can often lead to feeling bewildered and alone. So my aim is to provide a safe, warm and caring space in which together we can explore your struggles and you can gain a better understanding of yourself and your feelings, Together we can discover a way forward to a happier, calmer place, enabling you to build new beginnings.
Taking that first step to seek support from a therapist can be a daunting experience and many people can feel anxious discussing their struggles. Experiencing feelings of anxiety, depression, sadness, anger and stress or suffering from a constant low mood, can often lead to feeling bewildered and alone. So my aim is to provide a safe, warm and caring space in which together we can explore your struggles and you can gain a better understanding of yourself and your feelings, Together we can discover a way forward to a happier, calmer place, enabling you to build new beginnings.
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Robert Dawson
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
Online Only
I am passionate about working alongside those who might feel different, left behind or marginalised. There is no concern too big or small for counselling and I will work compassionately with whatever you wish to explore and will always put your goals at the forefront of our time together. I have a speech disability, and this gives me a particular interest in working with disabled or marginalised people who want to feel more empowered. I am very interested in working with individuals who see improved communication as a way to improve their mental wellbeing.
I am passionate about working alongside those who might feel different, left behind or marginalised. There is no concern too big or small for counselling and I will work compassionately with whatever you wish to explore and will always put your goals at the forefront of our time together. I have a speech disability, and this gives me a particular interest in working with disabled or marginalised people who want to feel more empowered. I am very interested in working with individuals who see improved communication as a way to improve their mental wellbeing.
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Nathaniel (Nat) Grant
Psychotherapist, MSc, BACP
In my view, the most important part of therapy is trust. It should be a place where you can feel safe letting your guard down, and say anything without feeling embarrassed or ashamed. I know from having my own counselling (yes, I've struggled too), that finding someone you 'click with' makes a big difference. I'm told that I'm easy-going, warm, and people say that my calm nature is contagious. I also hope you'll find me to be compassionate, open-minded, and affirming.
In my view, the most important part of therapy is trust. It should be a place where you can feel safe letting your guard down, and say anything without feeling embarrassed or ashamed. I know from having my own counselling (yes, I've struggled too), that finding someone you 'click with' makes a big difference. I'm told that I'm easy-going, warm, and people say that my calm nature is contagious. I also hope you'll find me to be compassionate, open-minded, and affirming.
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Daniel Knowles
Counsellor, MBACP
I specialise in sexual concerns, relationships counselling and identity-focused work, with a particular focus on LGBTQ+ clients, neurodivergent individuals, and those in polyamorous, ENM or kink-positive relationships and communities.
I work with a wide range of concerns: identity exploration, sexual anxiety, low or mismatched desire, vaginismus, unreliable erections, sexual shame, intimacy difficulties, & the impact of trauma on sexuality and relationships. I also work extensively with those navigating non-monogamous or ENM relationships, and with clients from kink and BDSM communities.
I specialise in sexual concerns, relationships counselling and identity-focused work, with a particular focus on LGBTQ+ clients, neurodivergent individuals, and those in polyamorous, ENM or kink-positive relationships and communities.
I work with a wide range of concerns: identity exploration, sexual anxiety, low or mismatched desire, vaginismus, unreliable erections, sexual shame, intimacy difficulties, & the impact of trauma on sexuality and relationships. I also work extensively with those navigating non-monogamous or ENM relationships, and with clients from kink and BDSM communities.
01782 983826 View 01782 983826
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Sherwin Psychological Therapies
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP
Online Only
Hi, my name is Gemma and I have been a therapist for over 15 years. I have experience clients with a variety of mental health concerns. There are no issues that are too big or too small for therapy. I can work with you for a short period of time, or for more long term therapy, depending on your needs. I am empathic, supportive, responsive and dynamic. I have a strong history of helping both children and adults overcome their difficulties and achieve their life goals, whatever they may be. I have a specialist interest in womens health, anxiety, menopause, ASD, ADHD and managing chronic illness.
Hi, my name is Gemma and I have been a therapist for over 15 years. I have experience clients with a variety of mental health concerns. There are no issues that are too big or too small for therapy. I can work with you for a short period of time, or for more long term therapy, depending on your needs. I am empathic, supportive, responsive and dynamic. I have a strong history of helping both children and adults overcome their difficulties and achieve their life goals, whatever they may be. I have a specialist interest in womens health, anxiety, menopause, ASD, ADHD and managing chronic illness.
07723 490507 View 07723 490507

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Rebecca Fox
Psychotherapist, MBACP
2 Endorsed
Online Only
I am also kink-aware and sex positive.
Hello, I’m Rebecca. I will be by your side as you explore whatever you wish to share, accepting all parts of you and bringing all parts of myself. As a person-centred therapist I offer a space that is non-judgemental, open and supportive. I offer you space that is just for you, to have the time to be heard and express yourself. I'm passionate about social justice and embed this in my practice, curious about how your identities and life experiences are felt and perceived. It feels like a really hard time to be queer and/or trans at the moment, I'm here to hold you and have understanding and experience. You are welcome and accepted.
I am also kink-aware and sex positive.
Hello, I’m Rebecca. I will be by your side as you explore whatever you wish to share, accepting all parts of you and bringing all parts of myself. As a person-centred therapist I offer a space that is non-judgemental, open and supportive. I offer you space that is just for you, to have the time to be heard and express yourself. I'm passionate about social justice and embed this in my practice, curious about how your identities and life experiences are felt and perceived. It feels like a really hard time to be queer and/or trans at the moment, I'm here to hold you and have understanding and experience. You are welcome and accepted.
0161 524 6947 View 0161 524 6947
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Sarah Kathryn Pettifer
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Are you someone who wants to get to know themselves better? Someone who is ready to explore and understand some of the patterns that might be shaping your life. Maybe curious about gender,sexuality,identity,relationships,neurodivergence,processes around emotions or thoughts... I might be able to help... As I understand it, some challenges to good mental health come from tensions between what you are/want/need and what's actually happening in your reality, it might make you feel low or anxious.
Are you someone who wants to get to know themselves better? Someone who is ready to explore and understand some of the patterns that might be shaping your life. Maybe curious about gender,sexuality,identity,relationships,neurodivergence,processes around emotions or thoughts... I might be able to help... As I understand it, some challenges to good mental health come from tensions between what you are/want/need and what's actually happening in your reality, it might make you feel low or anxious.
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Caroline Feldon Therapy
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
LGBTQIA+, CNM/Polyam, SW and Kink friendly.
If you need relationship/couples counselling, family therapy, individual therapy, or sex therapy, you've come to the right place. I work in person and via webcam/phone with couples, partners, families and individuals to help clients improve communication, manage conflict, deal with family problems, improve sex lives, cope with separation/divorce, and manage fallout from infidelity or affairs. All of these can cause anxiety and depression. I work with adults of all ages, up to and beyond retirement, offering a safe space where you can talk confidentially about any relationships, with partners, friends, work colleagues or family.
LGBTQIA+, CNM/Polyam, SW and Kink friendly.
If you need relationship/couples counselling, family therapy, individual therapy, or sex therapy, you've come to the right place. I work in person and via webcam/phone with couples, partners, families and individuals to help clients improve communication, manage conflict, deal with family problems, improve sex lives, cope with separation/divorce, and manage fallout from infidelity or affairs. All of these can cause anxiety and depression. I work with adults of all ages, up to and beyond retirement, offering a safe space where you can talk confidentially about any relationships, with partners, friends, work colleagues or family.
07476 553029 View 07476 553029
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Donita Rodrigues
Psychologist, MA, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Serves Area
If you’ve been wondering whether ADHD might be part of your life, you’re not alone & we’re here to help you explore it. At the UK Practice, our neuroaffirmative approach to ADHD assessment & diagnosis means that we take time to understand how ADHD shows up in your life, whether it’s affecting your work, relationships, or personal sense of self. Once diagnosed, our comprehensive reports and feedback can guide post-diagnostic services, including gaining access to medical services. You’re not just left with a label but equipped with practical strategies and coping tools that empower you to thrive.
If you’ve been wondering whether ADHD might be part of your life, you’re not alone & we’re here to help you explore it. At the UK Practice, our neuroaffirmative approach to ADHD assessment & diagnosis means that we take time to understand how ADHD shows up in your life, whether it’s affecting your work, relationships, or personal sense of self. Once diagnosed, our comprehensive reports and feedback can guide post-diagnostic services, including gaining access to medical services. You’re not just left with a label but equipped with practical strategies and coping tools that empower you to thrive.
020 7123 9240 View 020 7123 9240
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Amy Durrant
Psychotherapist, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Waitlist for new clients
Hello, I'm Amy. I recognise that life can sometimes be complex, confusing, and difficult. Our anxieties and worries can feel overwhelming, and have a real impact on our day to day experience, our relationships with others, and the way we see ourselves. I'm here to listen to you, warmly and without judgement, and to help you to develop an understanding of you are. Together we can explore ways in which we can make changes in order to relieve discomfort, make sense of how your history may have impacted you, and free you of any processes that don't serve you well. We will work on putting yourself at the centre of your narrative.
Hello, I'm Amy. I recognise that life can sometimes be complex, confusing, and difficult. Our anxieties and worries can feel overwhelming, and have a real impact on our day to day experience, our relationships with others, and the way we see ourselves. I'm here to listen to you, warmly and without judgement, and to help you to develop an understanding of you are. Together we can explore ways in which we can make changes in order to relieve discomfort, make sense of how your history may have impacted you, and free you of any processes that don't serve you well. We will work on putting yourself at the centre of your narrative.
0161 524 6694 View 0161 524 6694
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Stephen Griffiths
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
I am a Counsellor based in Manchester offering In person and online sessions. Life can be challenging, and in places it can feel intolerable and overwhelming it can be difficult to know where to start unravelling this, how to make changes, what changes, if any, we need to make, and to try to make sense of why we feel the way that we do. This can be a very painful experience but however dark it may be today, doesn't mean tomorrow won't be lighter, counselling can offer an opportunity to be heard and to be understood. I work with clients from all backgrounds but have particular experience working with Addiction and with LGBT+ issues.
I am a Counsellor based in Manchester offering In person and online sessions. Life can be challenging, and in places it can feel intolerable and overwhelming it can be difficult to know where to start unravelling this, how to make changes, what changes, if any, we need to make, and to try to make sense of why we feel the way that we do. This can be a very painful experience but however dark it may be today, doesn't mean tomorrow won't be lighter, counselling can offer an opportunity to be heard and to be understood. I work with clients from all backgrounds but have particular experience working with Addiction and with LGBT+ issues.
01707 247146 View 01707 247146
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Alex Sanderson-Shortt
Counsellor, MA, PNCPS Acc.
1 Endorsed
Waitlist for new clients
I work in a sex positive way with sexual issues as part of relationship therapy and work with kink clients and sex workers.
I offer ongoing and in depth therapy, where the focus is very much on working with clients to understand what is important to you and what and how you want to make change.
I work in a sex positive way with sexual issues as part of relationship therapy and work with kink clients and sex workers.
I offer ongoing and in depth therapy, where the focus is very much on working with clients to understand what is important to you and what and how you want to make change.
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Christian Chalfont
Counsellor, MBACP
Lymm WA13
Ninety percent of the work I do is with men. Over the past 4 years, my work has focused heavily on men's issues, trauma, sex, sexuality, identity, purpose, stress, anxiety, overwhelm and burnout. I also have a particular focus on identity, self-worth and boundaries. I frequently work with men in the following sectors- Business Owners, Executives, Founders, Entrepreneurs, Legal Professionals, Medical Practitioners, Financial Industry, Tech Leaders, Professional Athletes, Entertainment Industry, Media Personalities and Influencers. I offer a free 15-minute consultation call should you have any questions.
Ninety percent of the work I do is with men. Over the past 4 years, my work has focused heavily on men's issues, trauma, sex, sexuality, identity, purpose, stress, anxiety, overwhelm and burnout. I also have a particular focus on identity, self-worth and boundaries. I frequently work with men in the following sectors- Business Owners, Executives, Founders, Entrepreneurs, Legal Professionals, Medical Practitioners, Financial Industry, Tech Leaders, Professional Athletes, Entertainment Industry, Media Personalities and Influencers. I offer a free 15-minute consultation call should you have any questions.
01707 246855 View 01707 246855
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Stevie Bea
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
Hi, I'm Stevie. I offer integrative, trauma-informed counselling that adapts to your individual needs. A lot of my work focuses on helping people heal from trauma, especially sexual abuse, and the many ways it can affect daily life, relationships, and self-worth by drawing from several approaches to create a safe, grounded space for reflection and growth. Together, we explore your experiences, build emotional resilience, and find ways to move forward with greater confidence, balance, and self-understanding.
Hi, I'm Stevie. I offer integrative, trauma-informed counselling that adapts to your individual needs. A lot of my work focuses on helping people heal from trauma, especially sexual abuse, and the many ways it can affect daily life, relationships, and self-worth by drawing from several approaches to create a safe, grounded space for reflection and growth. Together, we explore your experiences, build emotional resilience, and find ways to move forward with greater confidence, balance, and self-understanding.
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Agnieszka Magdalena Maj
Psychotherapist, DCounsPsych, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Come as you are, I offer a space where you can truly be yourself. There will be no judgement, just honest human to human interaction with a deep respect for your autonomy and uniqueness.
Come as you are, I offer a space where you can truly be yourself. There will be no judgement, just honest human to human interaction with a deep respect for your autonomy and uniqueness.
01902 953370 View 01902 953370
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Breathing Space
Counsellor, MBACP
In my practice I aim to provide a breathing space for those who need it; a space to reflect, to catch your breath, to work through or to just be. To create a breathing space, I will work to make you feel safe and understood, by offering empathy, boundaries, compassion and clarity. Every breathing space is a unique co-creation between me and the person or group I’m working with.
In my practice I aim to provide a breathing space for those who need it; a space to reflect, to catch your breath, to work through or to just be. To create a breathing space, I will work to make you feel safe and understood, by offering empathy, boundaries, compassion and clarity. Every breathing space is a unique co-creation between me and the person or group I’m working with.
01773 483135 View 01773 483135
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Sonya Carra Psychotherapy
Psychotherapist, MSc, UKCP Trainee
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
By working with you to understand your learned thoughts, feelings and behaviours, I will help you to locate your own power to make meaningful, authentic change. Together, we will explore with compassion what you want to change about your life. We will look at the decisions you have made about yourself and the world and how these might be holding you back, and take active steps towards doing things differently. I offer a non-judgemental, open minded approach with my clients.
By working with you to understand your learned thoughts, feelings and behaviours, I will help you to locate your own power to make meaningful, authentic change. Together, we will explore with compassion what you want to change about your life. We will look at the decisions you have made about yourself and the world and how these might be holding you back, and take active steps towards doing things differently. I offer a non-judgemental, open minded approach with my clients.
0161 870 7038 View 0161 870 7038
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Newid Integrated Counselling & Psychotherapy
Counsellor, MBACP
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
Newid pronounced "Nowed" is Welsh for change. I chose this name not only to reflect my heritage but also to reflect that change is the only constant in life. We all travel with it, yet all our experiences can be profoundly different. I believe that counselling is a collaborative process in which we work together on what you want to change or explore in a safe non-judgemental environment. I offer an integrative approach where we work side-by-side to understand your past and help you discover new ways of coping and moving forward. I recognise that courage is not fearless and making the 1st step can be challenging in it's self.
Newid pronounced "Nowed" is Welsh for change. I chose this name not only to reflect my heritage but also to reflect that change is the only constant in life. We all travel with it, yet all our experiences can be profoundly different. I believe that counselling is a collaborative process in which we work together on what you want to change or explore in a safe non-judgemental environment. I offer an integrative approach where we work side-by-side to understand your past and help you discover new ways of coping and moving forward. I recognise that courage is not fearless and making the 1st step can be challenging in it's self.
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Dr Victoria Williams
Counsellor, PsychD, MBACP
Psychodynamic counselling or psychotherapy is effective in allowing you to make positive changes to your life, so you can deal with any overwhelming issues that are causing you emotional pain, unhappiness, or stress now. Perhaps you're feeling trapped or blocked by the past, feeling stuck in survival mode with old patterns that keep resurfacing. Maybe you are recently grieving from a loss of some kind, or can’t make sense of a general flatness or despair with feelings of depression, and anxiety. I provide a non-judgemental, inclusive space to explore these difficult parts, thoughts and feelings to gain greater understanding.
Psychodynamic counselling or psychotherapy is effective in allowing you to make positive changes to your life, so you can deal with any overwhelming issues that are causing you emotional pain, unhappiness, or stress now. Perhaps you're feeling trapped or blocked by the past, feeling stuck in survival mode with old patterns that keep resurfacing. Maybe you are recently grieving from a loss of some kind, or can’t make sense of a general flatness or despair with feelings of depression, and anxiety. I provide a non-judgemental, inclusive space to explore these difficult parts, thoughts and feelings to gain greater understanding.
01543 399050 View 01543 399050

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Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Counsellors
Why might an individual want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
A sex-positive or kinky individual may want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist because the client may feel safer and more supported discussing their experiences and challenges. A therapist who identifies as kink-friendly will have experience with clients having diverse sexual preferences and will likely be nonjudgmental and supportive about issues brought to the table. It is important to note that sex-positive, kink-allied individuals may find equal success with therapists who do not have such specialised knowledge and background. The most important factor in the success of therapy is for the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond.

Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in sex-positive, kink-allied treatment?
Generally, no. There are limited training programs and unofficial accreditations that therapists can pursue, but a therapist’s expertise will ultimately come from their previous experience with similar clients, their engagement with organisations that promote sex positivity or kink-allied lifestyles, and the importance they place on safety and cultural sensitivity.

How can individuals recognise a good sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
An experienced therapist is able to help clients explore their sexual identity and expression and relieve any discomfort or stigma attached to discussing such matters and the client’s overall challenges. A therapist who is sex-positive and kink-allied is able to create an environment that honors a client’s experience and sexual preferences. To recognise a good therapist, clients can simply ask directly about topics and issues important to them and gauge their comfort level and connection with a clinician based on the responses.

Can clients benefit from having a therapist with a focus on sex positivity and alternative sexual lifestyles?
Some individuals may feel most comfortable knowing that the clinician they’re working with has a commitment to creating an atmosphere of sex positivity and has experience with relationship diversity and alternative relationship structures. Working with a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist may help clients respect their own challenges and improve identity-affirming treatment.