Codependency Counselling in Stoke-on-Trent

Natalie Quinlan
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
Hello to you and thank you for reading my profile. I want you to know that however you feel right now, you deserve to feel better. People I have helped tell me they feel anxious but they’re not sure why. They never feel good enough, often ‘wearing a mask’, and feel like they’re just don't 'fit in'. If you feel the same, I assure you, you are not going crazy. Maybe you’re just experiencing being neurodivergent in a world not made for you. I'm really pleased you're here. I’m Natalie an Autistic, Integrative Psychotherapist and Counsellor with a passion for helping you heal from life's traumas and challenges.
Hello to you and thank you for reading my profile. I want you to know that however you feel right now, you deserve to feel better. People I have helped tell me they feel anxious but they’re not sure why. They never feel good enough, often ‘wearing a mask’, and feel like they’re just don't 'fit in'. If you feel the same, I assure you, you are not going crazy. Maybe you’re just experiencing being neurodivergent in a world not made for you. I'm really pleased you're here. I’m Natalie an Autistic, Integrative Psychotherapist and Counsellor with a passion for helping you heal from life's traumas and challenges.
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Natalie Jane Brayford
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP
Hi, I'm Natalie. I am a BACP registered Counsellor with a MSc in Counselling Psychology. Asking for help is not a sign of weakness, it's a sign of strength and I am here to help. I am friendly and down to earth and offer a 20 minute free telephone consultation, we can have a chat and you can use this time to ask any questions, as I know how daunting counselling can be.
Hi, I'm Natalie. I am a BACP registered Counsellor with a MSc in Counselling Psychology. Asking for help is not a sign of weakness, it's a sign of strength and I am here to help. I am friendly and down to earth and offer a 20 minute free telephone consultation, we can have a chat and you can use this time to ask any questions, as I know how daunting counselling can be.
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Heidi Francis
Psychotherapist, MNCPS Acc.
Online Only
Taking that first step to seek support from a therapist can be a daunting experience and many people can feel anxious discussing their struggles. Experiencing feelings of anxiety, depression, sadness, anger and stress or suffering from a constant low mood, can often lead to feeling bewildered and alone. So my aim is to provide a safe, warm and caring space in which together we can explore your struggles and you can gain a better understanding of yourself and your feelings, Together we can discover a way forward to a happier, calmer place, enabling you to build new beginnings.
Taking that first step to seek support from a therapist can be a daunting experience and many people can feel anxious discussing their struggles. Experiencing feelings of anxiety, depression, sadness, anger and stress or suffering from a constant low mood, can often lead to feeling bewildered and alone. So my aim is to provide a safe, warm and caring space in which together we can explore your struggles and you can gain a better understanding of yourself and your feelings, Together we can discover a way forward to a happier, calmer place, enabling you to build new beginnings.
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Relight Counselling
Counsellor, MBACP
You understand your patterns, so why are you still stuck? You’ve done the thinking. You can see where it comes from. You might recognise the impact of past relationships or even childhood experiences. You are self-aware but still feel stuck! You might find yourself; replaying conversations, questioning your reactions, feeling emotionally pulled back into old dynamics, struggling to fully trust yourself Because insight alone doesn’t create change.
You understand your patterns, so why are you still stuck? You’ve done the thinking. You can see where it comes from. You might recognise the impact of past relationships or even childhood experiences. You are self-aware but still feel stuck! You might find yourself; replaying conversations, questioning your reactions, feeling emotionally pulled back into old dynamics, struggling to fully trust yourself Because insight alone doesn’t create change.
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I am a BACP accredited, fully insured counsellor, supervisor and support group facilitator with over 20 years experience of working with clients both in an organisational setting and in private practice. I currently have availability Monday to Friday and sessions are now available online via secure video platforms. I am well-versed in providing both long and short-term counselling arrangements, covering many issues from addiction, bereavement and abuse to anxiety to relationship concerns and sexuality and gender.
I am a BACP accredited, fully insured counsellor, supervisor and support group facilitator with over 20 years experience of working with clients both in an organisational setting and in private practice. I currently have availability Monday to Friday and sessions are now available online via secure video platforms. I am well-versed in providing both long and short-term counselling arrangements, covering many issues from addiction, bereavement and abuse to anxiety to relationship concerns and sexuality and gender.
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Leanne Sumnall
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, BACP
Do you find yourself grappling with relationship issues or navigating the complexities of having a narcissistic parent? Are you struggling to set boundaries and seeking clarity in your life and relationships? Imagine taking control of your life, shedding the weight of guilt, and envisioning healthy, fulfilling relationships? Imagine taking control of your life, shedding the weight of guilt, and envisioning healthy, fulfilling relationships. This is where Leanne steps in.
Do you find yourself grappling with relationship issues or navigating the complexities of having a narcissistic parent? Are you struggling to set boundaries and seeking clarity in your life and relationships? Imagine taking control of your life, shedding the weight of guilt, and envisioning healthy, fulfilling relationships? Imagine taking control of your life, shedding the weight of guilt, and envisioning healthy, fulfilling relationships. This is where Leanne steps in.
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Hayley Ibbs
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Waitlist for new clients
People come to see me because a relationship is affecting how they feel every day. It might be happening now, have ended badly, or be from a part of your life you thought you had moved on from. You may feel hurt, guilty, angry, confused, trapped, heartbroken, or worn out. You may keep replaying what was said, what was not said, what happened, or why you were treated that way. I work with adults and couples trying to make sense of complicated relationships, including partners, family, friendships, breakups, affairs, betrayal, grief and abuse. My work goes deeper than tips for better communication. We look at your whole relationship
People come to see me because a relationship is affecting how they feel every day. It might be happening now, have ended badly, or be from a part of your life you thought you had moved on from. You may feel hurt, guilty, angry, confused, trapped, heartbroken, or worn out. You may keep replaying what was said, what was not said, what happened, or why you were treated that way. I work with adults and couples trying to make sense of complicated relationships, including partners, family, friendships, breakups, affairs, betrayal, grief and abuse. My work goes deeper than tips for better communication. We look at your whole relationship
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With over 20 years' experience as a counsellor, I can offer a calm, safe space for you to explore your feelings and begin to make changes toward the life you would like. If you feel anxious, depressed, are suffering from PTSD or feel suicidal, have general low mood or feel that the time is right to seek support please contact me for an initial chat. I work with a person-centred approach, integrating other ways of working to suit your needs. I offer a free consultation so that you can find out if you would like to begin your journey with me. Free parking and disabled access. Face to face, telephone or online appointments.
With over 20 years' experience as a counsellor, I can offer a calm, safe space for you to explore your feelings and begin to make changes toward the life you would like. If you feel anxious, depressed, are suffering from PTSD or feel suicidal, have general low mood or feel that the time is right to seek support please contact me for an initial chat. I work with a person-centred approach, integrating other ways of working to suit your needs. I offer a free consultation so that you can find out if you would like to begin your journey with me. Free parking and disabled access. Face to face, telephone or online appointments.
01782 493932 View 01782 493932
Matthew Robert Starkey
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Online Only
I support clients with; Depression, Anxiety, stress, Life transitions, struggling with change, as well as, low self worth and self esteem, loss and grief. I also support clients who are neurodivergant and also from the LGBTQ community. The aim of my practice is to create a safe, nonjudgemental and confidential relationship with each other, so that you can feel safe to explore and express your needs, goals and experiences.
I support clients with; Depression, Anxiety, stress, Life transitions, struggling with change, as well as, low self worth and self esteem, loss and grief. I also support clients who are neurodivergant and also from the LGBTQ community. The aim of my practice is to create a safe, nonjudgemental and confidential relationship with each other, so that you can feel safe to explore and express your needs, goals and experiences.
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Blooming Humans Counselling and Psychotherapy
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP
1 Endorsed
I believe that human beings are naturally wired to grow and flourish but at times life presents challenges that feel overwhelming or difficult to navigate alone. I provide a space to pause and begin to make sense of your experiences; creating the conditions from which change, and healing can occur. I believe that we are all doing our best, often carrying stories that the world may never hear and that sometimes what we need most is simply a space to breathe, to feel heard without judgement. I offer a collaborative, trauma- informed approach that is rooted in humanistic values and shaped by the power of narrative.
I believe that human beings are naturally wired to grow and flourish but at times life presents challenges that feel overwhelming or difficult to navigate alone. I provide a space to pause and begin to make sense of your experiences; creating the conditions from which change, and healing can occur. I believe that we are all doing our best, often carrying stories that the world may never hear and that sometimes what we need most is simply a space to breathe, to feel heard without judgement. I offer a collaborative, trauma- informed approach that is rooted in humanistic values and shaped by the power of narrative.
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Daniel Knowles
Psychotherapist, COSRT Reg.
I'm Dan, a psychosexual and relationships therapist and person-centred counsellor registered with the BACP and COSRT. I specialise in sexual concerns, relationships counselling and identity-focused work, with a particular focus on LGBTQ+ clients, neurodivergent individuals, and those in polyamorous, ENM or kink-positive relationships and communities. My work is rooted in anti-oppressive practice, which means actively working to understand how power, identity and systemic inequality shape the experiences people bring to therapy. My practice is sex-positive and kink-aware, whatever your identity, sexuality or relationship structure.
I'm Dan, a psychosexual and relationships therapist and person-centred counsellor registered with the BACP and COSRT. I specialise in sexual concerns, relationships counselling and identity-focused work, with a particular focus on LGBTQ+ clients, neurodivergent individuals, and those in polyamorous, ENM or kink-positive relationships and communities. My work is rooted in anti-oppressive practice, which means actively working to understand how power, identity and systemic inequality shape the experiences people bring to therapy. My practice is sex-positive and kink-aware, whatever your identity, sexuality or relationship structure.
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I am an experienced counsellor who is client-led. I have worked across private, charitable, educational, and voluntary sectors with adults, families, and teenagers. Issues I have helped my clients with include: loss, bereavement, illness, anxiety, trauma, anger, domestic abuse, family dynamics, neurodiversity, relationship issues, self-esteem, self-harm, stress, and work-life balance.
I am an experienced counsellor who is client-led. I have worked across private, charitable, educational, and voluntary sectors with adults, families, and teenagers. Issues I have helped my clients with include: loss, bereavement, illness, anxiety, trauma, anger, domestic abuse, family dynamics, neurodiversity, relationship issues, self-esteem, self-harm, stress, and work-life balance.
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Lenna Lanza CBT
Psychotherapist, MBABCP
2 Endorsed
Is Anxiety, Trauma, OCD, low mood, or low self esteem a problem. You can make meaningful change with my help. I am Lenna, an Accredited Cognitive Behavioral Therapist (CBT), Mental Health Nurse, CBT supervisor, & Mindfulnes Based Cognitive Therapy teacher. I work online with clients nation wide & in Europe. I create a supportive, comfortable, safe, confidential, therapeutic space to help you explore & understand your challenges. We will work together to successfully achieve your health & wellbeing goals. CBT will help you to develop skills & tools that are tailored to you & your lifestyle for you use to thrive in life.
Is Anxiety, Trauma, OCD, low mood, or low self esteem a problem. You can make meaningful change with my help. I am Lenna, an Accredited Cognitive Behavioral Therapist (CBT), Mental Health Nurse, CBT supervisor, & Mindfulnes Based Cognitive Therapy teacher. I work online with clients nation wide & in Europe. I create a supportive, comfortable, safe, confidential, therapeutic space to help you explore & understand your challenges. We will work together to successfully achieve your health & wellbeing goals. CBT will help you to develop skills & tools that are tailored to you & your lifestyle for you use to thrive in life.
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Welcome. Are you here because you are struggling with something in your life and need some help and support? Perhaps you are experiencing some symptoms of depression, anxiety, stress, trauma or addiction? Or something else? Would you like someone to listen to you in a confidential, safe place, without judgement? Are you interested in improving your confidence and increasing your self-esteem? Life can really test us at times and we may be unable to find the answers within ourselves or indeed from our family and friends.
Welcome. Are you here because you are struggling with something in your life and need some help and support? Perhaps you are experiencing some symptoms of depression, anxiety, stress, trauma or addiction? Or something else? Would you like someone to listen to you in a confidential, safe place, without judgement? Are you interested in improving your confidence and increasing your self-esteem? Life can really test us at times and we may be unable to find the answers within ourselves or indeed from our family and friends.
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Diane Earl
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
We all struggle to make sense of experiences at times, especially when our life is in transition or we have unwanted changes. Perhaps you are going through the menopause, have a new job, responsibilities or are retiring, bereaved or divorced? Change can shake our sense of who we are. Therapy with me will provide the space to think about what is important to you, what do you value and what is stopping you living the life you want? Uncertainty often brings stress and anxiety. I know how this impacts the body and mind. I can talk through calming strategies. I want you to discover your vitality and life force again .
We all struggle to make sense of experiences at times, especially when our life is in transition or we have unwanted changes. Perhaps you are going through the menopause, have a new job, responsibilities or are retiring, bereaved or divorced? Change can shake our sense of who we are. Therapy with me will provide the space to think about what is important to you, what do you value and what is stopping you living the life you want? Uncertainty often brings stress and anxiety. I know how this impacts the body and mind. I can talk through calming strategies. I want you to discover your vitality and life force again .
07480 540068 View 07480 540068
Jessica Reed
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Is life getting on top of you and you feel as though you can’t catch a break? Maybe your past is coming up for you in ways that affect you today and continue to make you feel stuck, despite overcoming challenges on the surface. Self limiting beliefs holding you back? Let’s talk- I’m here to help, I understand how difficult it can be to embark on a journey of self healing and discovery such as counselling- whether you are ready to pick up the phone right this second or you are just browsing for now, the fact that you have made it this far is a huge step. I believe that no two individuals are the same and my practice reflects this.
Is life getting on top of you and you feel as though you can’t catch a break? Maybe your past is coming up for you in ways that affect you today and continue to make you feel stuck, despite overcoming challenges on the surface. Self limiting beliefs holding you back? Let’s talk- I’m here to help, I understand how difficult it can be to embark on a journey of self healing and discovery such as counselling- whether you are ready to pick up the phone right this second or you are just browsing for now, the fact that you have made it this far is a huge step. I believe that no two individuals are the same and my practice reflects this.
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Are you constantly adrift in a sea of chaos ? with adhds internal chatter and inability to focus on one thing and you just cant turn the restless motor off to the whirlwind of thoughts, ideas,concerns,distractions,impulses etc, adhd therapy and coaching offers a lifeline, offering standard therapy and coaching sessions but also a bespoke 6 week reset programme and a 10 week Mastery programme with personalised tools, therapy,coaching including a whats app support group and online support group(out of session) and education to anchor your life, click the website for further details and book a 20 minute complimentary ADHD audit call
Are you constantly adrift in a sea of chaos ? with adhds internal chatter and inability to focus on one thing and you just cant turn the restless motor off to the whirlwind of thoughts, ideas,concerns,distractions,impulses etc, adhd therapy and coaching offers a lifeline, offering standard therapy and coaching sessions but also a bespoke 6 week reset programme and a 10 week Mastery programme with personalised tools, therapy,coaching including a whats app support group and online support group(out of session) and education to anchor your life, click the website for further details and book a 20 minute complimentary ADHD audit call
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Deb Smith Therapy
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
My name is Deb, pronouns she/her, and I offer a range of therapy services designed for individuals aged 16 and over. I have supported many clients and colleagues over the years with their wellbeing and mental health, along with having my own past lived experience. Exploration of who we are and how we empower ourselves is something I am passionate about and want to debunk the myth that therapy is only something to reach for in crisis, mental and emotional wellbeing maintenance is as important as physical maintenance.
My name is Deb, pronouns she/her, and I offer a range of therapy services designed for individuals aged 16 and over. I have supported many clients and colleagues over the years with their wellbeing and mental health, along with having my own past lived experience. Exploration of who we are and how we empower ourselves is something I am passionate about and want to debunk the myth that therapy is only something to reach for in crisis, mental and emotional wellbeing maintenance is as important as physical maintenance.
01260 544537 View 01260 544537
Nigel Cadman
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
Serves Area
I work in a person-centred manner which means that I value building a positive relationship with clients; working to create a safe and comfortable therapeutic environment. This means that I want you to feel able to talk and express yourself about anything that may be troubling you. We talk about whatever you chose, and you can do so without fear of judgement. This enables you to become more comfortable with things as you discuss your thoughts freely, giving you an opportunity to consider things from different perspectives and over time building your confidence to explore different options and possibilities that are open to you.
I work in a person-centred manner which means that I value building a positive relationship with clients; working to create a safe and comfortable therapeutic environment. This means that I want you to feel able to talk and express yourself about anything that may be troubling you. We talk about whatever you chose, and you can do so without fear of judgement. This enables you to become more comfortable with things as you discuss your thoughts freely, giving you an opportunity to consider things from different perspectives and over time building your confidence to explore different options and possibilities that are open to you.
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Dominic McCabe
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Serves Area
Has life begun to feel like a constant cycle of getting through the day, only to wake up and do it all again? Does your mind feel stuck on repeat, replaying conversations, worrying about what comes next, or struggling to switch off even when you are exhausted? Has work started to feel like a prison of stress and anxiety, while people and social situations leave you irritated, drained, or wanting to be left alone? Over time, this can begin to affect relationships, confidence, boundaries, and how you feel about yourself.
Has life begun to feel like a constant cycle of getting through the day, only to wake up and do it all again? Does your mind feel stuck on repeat, replaying conversations, worrying about what comes next, or struggling to switch off even when you are exhausted? Has work started to feel like a prison of stress and anxiety, while people and social situations leave you irritated, drained, or wanting to be left alone? Over time, this can begin to affect relationships, confidence, boundaries, and how you feel about yourself.
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Codependency Counsellors
What therapy types help with codependency problems?
Both couples and family therapy and cognitive and behavioral therapy (CBT) can help with the relationship difficulties referred to as codependency. Such problems typically include inappropriate feelings of responsibility for a loved one’s destructive behavior, irrational patterns of thinking about such behavior, and family interaction patterns in which the needs of one troubled member override the needs of others in a household.

What happens in therapy for codependency?
Spouses and family members learn and practice how to interact and support each other in a healthy way without sacrificing their own needs or well-being. They learn the limits of their responsibility for their loved ones and correct faulty patterns of thinking and feeling that underlie codependent behavior. Individuals may be encouraged to nurture an array of social relationships and to cultivate their own talents and interests so that they develop a healthy sense of self outside the family.

How does therapy help a person or couple overcome codependency?
Therapy helps people establish healthy ways of being in a relationship. Spouses and family members learn how to nurture and support one another without sacrificing their own needs or allowing the needs of one person to dominate the dynamic. Individuals learn how to say no and set boundaries, and how to maintain their own identity and self-esteem. Therapy helps people understand that they are not responsible for the feelings and actions of others. It also helps individuals deal with the turbulence that can come from living with a person suffering from such conditions as substance abuse and mental illness.

What is the goal of therapy for codependency?
One goal of therapy for codependency is to alleviate feelings of responsibility for and correct irrational patterns of thinking about loved ones whose behavioral problems override the needs of others in a household. Therapy helps people establish healthy boundaries of behavior and speak up for their own needs in a relationship. In addition, people learn how to maintain a healthy relationship, one in which both parties give and receive equally and are able to retain their own identity.