Emotionally Focused Counselling in Stanmore
With over 40 years’ counselling experience and 30 years of training other professionals, I help people struggling with anxiety, grief, low self-esteem, relationship issues, ADHD and abuse.
I'm friendly and empathetic, and I offer a safe, compassionate space to be heard and understood. I can provide clarity, emotional healing, and help you move forward with greater confidence and self-worth.
With over 40 years’ counselling experience and 30 years of training other professionals, I help people struggling with anxiety, grief, low self-esteem, relationship issues, ADHD and abuse.
I'm friendly and empathetic, and I offer a safe, compassionate space to be heard and understood. I can provide clarity, emotional healing, and help you move forward with greater confidence and self-worth.
I am an experienced counsellor and psychotherapist. I believe that the most important part of therapy is that we build a strong and therapeutic relationship together so that you can feel safe to explore your feelings and concerns. We all have times in our life when we need support and it is not always possible to sort things out with the help of family and friends. I would be there to listen and not judge, in a confidential and caring environment. Counselling can feel daunting but can help to empower you to explore and reflect on ways of making changes and moving forward with your life.
I am an experienced counsellor and psychotherapist. I believe that the most important part of therapy is that we build a strong and therapeutic relationship together so that you can feel safe to explore your feelings and concerns. We all have times in our life when we need support and it is not always possible to sort things out with the help of family and friends. I would be there to listen and not judge, in a confidential and caring environment. Counselling can feel daunting but can help to empower you to explore and reflect on ways of making changes and moving forward with your life.
Hey! What brings you here? What hurts? What are your struggles? What keeps you stuck? Is it a relationship with a loved one? A parent, a child, a partner or a friend? Is it depression, overwhelming feelings of sadness, loss of joy, sleepless nights, no desire to get out of bed, avoiding friends or family members? Is it anxiety or panic attacks, intrusive thoughts, constantly worrying, creating worst scenarios? Is it a sense of not feeling good enough, comparing yourself to others in a negative light, second guessing your actions, feeling judged, having a sense that your existence is a waste of time?
Hey! What brings you here? What hurts? What are your struggles? What keeps you stuck? Is it a relationship with a loved one? A parent, a child, a partner or a friend? Is it depression, overwhelming feelings of sadness, loss of joy, sleepless nights, no desire to get out of bed, avoiding friends or family members? Is it anxiety or panic attacks, intrusive thoughts, constantly worrying, creating worst scenarios? Is it a sense of not feeling good enough, comparing yourself to others in a negative light, second guessing your actions, feeling judged, having a sense that your existence is a waste of time?
Therapy that meets you where you are, with warmth, curiosity, and respect.
I work with individuals, couples, families, and young people who are finding life a bit heavy, whether that’s anxiety, stress, relationship challenges, identity questions, or the sense of being overwhelmed by everyday demands. My approach is calm, collaborative, and centred on helping people feel understood, supported, and able to move at a pace that feels right for them.
A core part of my practice is neuroaffirming work and an appreciation for the ways culture, identity, and lived experience shape how we navigate the world.
Therapy that meets you where you are, with warmth, curiosity, and respect.
I work with individuals, couples, families, and young people who are finding life a bit heavy, whether that’s anxiety, stress, relationship challenges, identity questions, or the sense of being overwhelmed by everyday demands. My approach is calm, collaborative, and centred on helping people feel understood, supported, and able to move at a pace that feels right for them.
A core part of my practice is neuroaffirming work and an appreciation for the ways culture, identity, and lived experience shape how we navigate the world.
This time of the year can be a struggle and a challenging time for many of us for so many reasons; it can remind us of loss or we can have difficulty connecting with family or friends. I offer a professional counselling service for Teenagers and Adults in Hertfordshire (Radlett), working in person or online/phone sessions. I have a certified therapy dog (Labrador) to assist in sessions if you would like. Working with children and parents in schools for 20 year, specialising in neurodiversity and SEND, I hold an enhanced DBS (Disclosure and Barring Checking Service) Certificate.
This time of the year can be a struggle and a challenging time for many of us for so many reasons; it can remind us of loss or we can have difficulty connecting with family or friends. I offer a professional counselling service for Teenagers and Adults in Hertfordshire (Radlett), working in person or online/phone sessions. I have a certified therapy dog (Labrador) to assist in sessions if you would like. Working with children and parents in schools for 20 year, specialising in neurodiversity and SEND, I hold an enhanced DBS (Disclosure and Barring Checking Service) Certificate.
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A Principal Clinical Psychologist with 16 years of experience of working in and leading NHS Psychology Services, and an expert in CBT, Psychodynamic psychotherapy, Emotion-focused therapy, EMDR, Acceptance-commitment Therapy and Mindfulness approaches. I offer incisive, experiential, and highly effective treatments designed to help you overcome your distress and effect lasting changes. Seeking help is a major life step. I commit to providing a safe, professional and personalized treatment experience to sensitively support and empower you, deepen your self-understanding and create positive changes for a life that you can truly value.
A Principal Clinical Psychologist with 16 years of experience of working in and leading NHS Psychology Services, and an expert in CBT, Psychodynamic psychotherapy, Emotion-focused therapy, EMDR, Acceptance-commitment Therapy and Mindfulness approaches. I offer incisive, experiential, and highly effective treatments designed to help you overcome your distress and effect lasting changes. Seeking help is a major life step. I commit to providing a safe, professional and personalized treatment experience to sensitively support and empower you, deepen your self-understanding and create positive changes for a life that you can truly value.
If you are feeling low, anxious or stuck and unable to change things yourself, or repeating difficult or destructive patterns of behaviour, working with and talking with someone not involved in your life can really help. If you are struggling to cope with how life is at the moment or with something from the past, then getting support from me is the first step to feeling supported and heard and looking at how we can work together to help you make changes in behaviour, relationships, communication and ways of thinking and processing what you are facing. Your emotional and mental well-being matters and you don't have to struggle alone.
If you are feeling low, anxious or stuck and unable to change things yourself, or repeating difficult or destructive patterns of behaviour, working with and talking with someone not involved in your life can really help. If you are struggling to cope with how life is at the moment or with something from the past, then getting support from me is the first step to feeling supported and heard and looking at how we can work together to help you make changes in behaviour, relationships, communication and ways of thinking and processing what you are facing. Your emotional and mental well-being matters and you don't have to struggle alone.
I am a qualified and registered Person Centred psychotherapist and Counsellor (Higher Professional Diploma in Counselling and Psychotherapy), Gestalt ( graduate Diploma) and I am a member of the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy. I understand each client to be unique and so is my approach. I have worked both as part of a team (One Vision Counselling and Wandsworth Association of Psychotherapists) and in private practice. I am in regular Supervision with a more experienced Psychotherapist and regularly attend Continued Professional Development. I work closely with a distinguished award-winning psychiatrist.
I am a qualified and registered Person Centred psychotherapist and Counsellor (Higher Professional Diploma in Counselling and Psychotherapy), Gestalt ( graduate Diploma) and I am a member of the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy. I understand each client to be unique and so is my approach. I have worked both as part of a team (One Vision Counselling and Wandsworth Association of Psychotherapists) and in private practice. I am in regular Supervision with a more experienced Psychotherapist and regularly attend Continued Professional Development. I work closely with a distinguished award-winning psychiatrist.
I'm a humanistic counsellor with over six years of experience working with people of diverse gender identities, relationship styles and sexualities, and, in particular, gay men. I am a trans and nonbinary ally, anti-fascist, anti-racist and a feminist. I work towards an anti-oppressive and decolonial practice, and educate myself around intersectionality.
I'm Queer and Autistic and I work with anyone who feels I'm a good match for them, regardless of identity - you don't need to be part of a specific group. I work with people 18+ one to one. This can be for a fixed period, or until you feel the work is complete.
I'm a humanistic counsellor with over six years of experience working with people of diverse gender identities, relationship styles and sexualities, and, in particular, gay men. I am a trans and nonbinary ally, anti-fascist, anti-racist and a feminist. I work towards an anti-oppressive and decolonial practice, and educate myself around intersectionality.
I'm Queer and Autistic and I work with anyone who feels I'm a good match for them, regardless of identity - you don't need to be part of a specific group. I work with people 18+ one to one. This can be for a fixed period, or until you feel the work is complete.
Feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or not like yourself lately?
When your mind is constantly busy or your mood feels low, even everyday things can start to feel difficult.
I specialise in helping people break free from cycles of trauma, worry, & self doubt so they can feel in control & start living more fully again.
Using Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), we’ll work together to understand what keeps these patterns going & develop practical, evidence-based strategies to help you move forward. This might include learning how to manage anxious thoughts, reduce avoidance, build confidence, & respond differently to difficult emotions.
Feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or not like yourself lately?
When your mind is constantly busy or your mood feels low, even everyday things can start to feel difficult.
I specialise in helping people break free from cycles of trauma, worry, & self doubt so they can feel in control & start living more fully again.
Using Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), we’ll work together to understand what keeps these patterns going & develop practical, evidence-based strategies to help you move forward. This might include learning how to manage anxious thoughts, reduce avoidance, build confidence, & respond differently to difficult emotions.
As a psychotherapist with over nine years of experience, I’m here to offer a safe and supportive space where you can unpack your thoughts, process your emotions, and find your way forward.
I love helping people build deep meaningful connections, whether that’s making new friendships, strengthening relationships, or navigating tough conversations with loved ones.
As a psychotherapist with over nine years of experience, I’m here to offer a safe and supportive space where you can unpack your thoughts, process your emotions, and find your way forward.
I love helping people build deep meaningful connections, whether that’s making new friendships, strengthening relationships, or navigating tough conversations with loved ones.
Real counselling. Real life experience. Real change. £55 per session.
I'm Karla, 47, a Trauma-informed Counsellor/Therapist, with expertise and genuine care. 25+ years work across the NHS, charities, corporate, community, youth-work, and private settings. I support people who want genuine understanding, not judgement or surface-level solutions. Whether you feel stuck, overwhelmed, disconnected, questioning yourself or others, carrying experiences that affect how you live and relate, or simply want someone to listen, support and maybe help with coping and decisions. This is your space to move at your pace. Ages 12 to Adulthood.
Real counselling. Real life experience. Real change. £55 per session.
I'm Karla, 47, a Trauma-informed Counsellor/Therapist, with expertise and genuine care. 25+ years work across the NHS, charities, corporate, community, youth-work, and private settings. I support people who want genuine understanding, not judgement or surface-level solutions. Whether you feel stuck, overwhelmed, disconnected, questioning yourself or others, carrying experiences that affect how you live and relate, or simply want someone to listen, support and maybe help with coping and decisions. This is your space to move at your pace. Ages 12 to Adulthood.
Feeling overwhelmed, frustrated, anxious, worn out, depressed and stressed are just some of the many ways we might react to what is happening around us and within us. Looking for help is not a sign of defeat, not now and not ever; it should be seen as one of many ways we can look after ourselves in these trying times. If you think talking might help you to process what you are going through, then please, get in touch. During our sessions I aim to provide a safe, supportive and non-judgemental space for you to explore your issues.
Feeling overwhelmed, frustrated, anxious, worn out, depressed and stressed are just some of the many ways we might react to what is happening around us and within us. Looking for help is not a sign of defeat, not now and not ever; it should be seen as one of many ways we can look after ourselves in these trying times. If you think talking might help you to process what you are going through, then please, get in touch. During our sessions I aim to provide a safe, supportive and non-judgemental space for you to explore your issues.
You may have landed on this page because something isn't feeling right. You may be feeling anxious, depressed, or stuck. Perhaps, you’re struggling with finding your voice, exploring your identity or trying to navigate the intricate terrain of emotions, trauma, and loss. The world can be a tough place. Having a space to sit and turn inwards is essential. In therapy, we will look at who you are, what you want, and what you need.
You may have landed on this page because something isn't feeling right. You may be feeling anxious, depressed, or stuck. Perhaps, you’re struggling with finding your voice, exploring your identity or trying to navigate the intricate terrain of emotions, trauma, and loss. The world can be a tough place. Having a space to sit and turn inwards is essential. In therapy, we will look at who you are, what you want, and what you need.
I'm also trained in: Integrative psychotherapy, and NVR-Non Violent Resistance, and EFT- Emotionally Focused Therapy, IFS- Internal Family Systems
I am an IFS informed Systemic and Family therapist, providing a collaborative empathic tailored support for individuals, couples, and families who wish to relate differently to past life experiences or proactively explore future life decisions. I am experienced in a diverse range of services having supported those in need of help understanding their life relating to cultural difference, identity, grief, ambiguous loss, racial trauma, community trauma, anxiety, depression, and those experiencing significant life transitions (parenthood, relationship changes, diagnosis etc)
I'm also trained in: Integrative psychotherapy, and NVR-Non Violent Resistance, and EFT- Emotionally Focused Therapy, IFS- Internal Family Systems
I am an IFS informed Systemic and Family therapist, providing a collaborative empathic tailored support for individuals, couples, and families who wish to relate differently to past life experiences or proactively explore future life decisions. I am experienced in a diverse range of services having supported those in need of help understanding their life relating to cultural difference, identity, grief, ambiguous loss, racial trauma, community trauma, anxiety, depression, and those experiencing significant life transitions (parenthood, relationship changes, diagnosis etc)
I am a caring, kind, compassionate and easy to talk to therapist. I work with you to support you in exploring your difficulties and goals. I will provide a safe, confidential environment. in-person or online, to talk about and work on any worries, issues or thoughts affecting you. The time we spend together will be responsive to and guided by you. I don't shy away from challenge in helping you explore and understand yourself, your thoughts and actions but do this always in a gentle, collaborative investigative way, helping you to challenge and understand yourself. Therapy will be directed towards your goals, aims and wishes.
I am a caring, kind, compassionate and easy to talk to therapist. I work with you to support you in exploring your difficulties and goals. I will provide a safe, confidential environment. in-person or online, to talk about and work on any worries, issues or thoughts affecting you. The time we spend together will be responsive to and guided by you. I don't shy away from challenge in helping you explore and understand yourself, your thoughts and actions but do this always in a gentle, collaborative investigative way, helping you to challenge and understand yourself. Therapy will be directed towards your goals, aims and wishes.
You've been through a life change/transition and no one tells you how hard this is. You are trying to settle into a new life and find a sense of belonging while navigating anxiety and identity.
I work with expat and international clients on a variety of experiences including anxiety, belonging, depression, stress, burnout, identity, relationships and relational conflict, loneliness, low self esteem, trauma, self harm, body dysmorphia and more.
I am an integrative psychotherapist and counsellor offering therapy in person in Angel, Islington and online. I offer short term or longer term open ended therapy to adults over 18.
You've been through a life change/transition and no one tells you how hard this is. You are trying to settle into a new life and find a sense of belonging while navigating anxiety and identity.
I work with expat and international clients on a variety of experiences including anxiety, belonging, depression, stress, burnout, identity, relationships and relational conflict, loneliness, low self esteem, trauma, self harm, body dysmorphia and more.
I am an integrative psychotherapist and counsellor offering therapy in person in Angel, Islington and online. I offer short term or longer term open ended therapy to adults over 18.
During difficult times its useful to explore our thoughts and feelings with an experienced therapist who can listen, understand and help us make sense of whats happening.
I offer a space where we can work together, a place to slow down and stop overthinking,
Especially now, as you are looking for a way to navigate: burnout, anxiety, anger, panic, sadness, trauma relationship, identity, sexuality, body image issues, numbness, adhd..or something not listed.
During difficult times its useful to explore our thoughts and feelings with an experienced therapist who can listen, understand and help us make sense of whats happening.
I offer a space where we can work together, a place to slow down and stop overthinking,
Especially now, as you are looking for a way to navigate: burnout, anxiety, anger, panic, sadness, trauma relationship, identity, sexuality, body image issues, numbness, adhd..or something not listed.
Are you feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected? I provide a safe and supportive space to explore your emotions, identify patterns, and create meaningful change. Drawing from an integrative approach, including psychodynamic therapy, I help uncover how the past influences the present, while using CBT to build practical tools for managing challenges. My person-centered approach ensures you feel heard and empowered throughout. Whether you’re facing anxiety, relationship struggles, or life transitions, Contact me and let’s start your journey
Are you feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected? I provide a safe and supportive space to explore your emotions, identify patterns, and create meaningful change. Drawing from an integrative approach, including psychodynamic therapy, I help uncover how the past influences the present, while using CBT to build practical tools for managing challenges. My person-centered approach ensures you feel heard and empowered throughout. Whether you’re facing anxiety, relationship struggles, or life transitions, Contact me and let’s start your journey
I am an experienced HCPC-registered Clinical Psychologist and Director of Wise Mynd Ltd. For more than a decade, I've effectively supported individuals, teams and organisations achieve meaningful change and enhanced well-being. I offer evidence-based psychological therapy, consultation, and training, tailored to support motivated individuals who are ready to invest in their personal growth and development. In particular, I work with clients to help them understand, process and overcome their experiences of stress, anxiety, trauma, low mood, or life transitions, working holistically to align with your values, needs and ambitions.
I am an experienced HCPC-registered Clinical Psychologist and Director of Wise Mynd Ltd. For more than a decade, I've effectively supported individuals, teams and organisations achieve meaningful change and enhanced well-being. I offer evidence-based psychological therapy, consultation, and training, tailored to support motivated individuals who are ready to invest in their personal growth and development. In particular, I work with clients to help them understand, process and overcome their experiences of stress, anxiety, trauma, low mood, or life transitions, working holistically to align with your values, needs and ambitions.
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Who is emotionally focused therapy for?
Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.
Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?
People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.
What happens in emotionally focused therapy?
Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.
What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?
EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.