Male Counselling in Spalding, ENG

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Shining Light Counselling
Counsellor, BACP
Verified Verified
Spalding PE11
I'm a easy to talk to, with a down-to-earth approach sort of guy, trained in various approaches and theories, with a lot of experience from many mental health issues to bereavement.
Hello and welcome, I'm David, I wonder, if your Feeling unsure, anxious, scared, angry, confused? Have you had to experience loss and the pain of losing someone you love and care about. All that can be hard to live with, on a daily basis, contact me so we can talk it through, to see if its something we can work together to help you with.
I'm a easy to talk to, with a down-to-earth approach sort of guy, trained in various approaches and theories, with a lot of experience from many mental health issues to bereavement.
Hello and welcome, I'm David, I wonder, if your Feeling unsure, anxious, scared, angry, confused? Have you had to experience loss and the pain of losing someone you love and care about. All that can be hard to live with, on a daily basis, contact me so we can talk it through, to see if its something we can work together to help you with.
01775 668829 View 01775 668829
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David Langdown
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Spalding PE12
In 40 years of management, I worked with many people who faced tough mental health challenges.
We dream of success, money, holidays, happy families and good health, but life doesn't always go to plan. When we are hit with the unexpected, a loss, a relationship that goes wrong, unbearable work pressures, troubled by unresolved experiences of the past or hopelessness about the future, our mental health is affected. We can feel sad, overwhelmed, fearful. We lose confidence and self-esteem. Our physical health suffers too and we can become dependent on medication, alcohol or other non-prescribed solutions. Counselling is a way out, providing support in a confidential, non-judgmental, understanding and empathetic relationship.
In 40 years of management, I worked with many people who faced tough mental health challenges.
We dream of success, money, holidays, happy families and good health, but life doesn't always go to plan. When we are hit with the unexpected, a loss, a relationship that goes wrong, unbearable work pressures, troubled by unresolved experiences of the past or hopelessness about the future, our mental health is affected. We can feel sad, overwhelmed, fearful. We lose confidence and self-esteem. Our physical health suffers too and we can become dependent on medication, alcohol or other non-prescribed solutions. Counselling is a way out, providing support in a confidential, non-judgmental, understanding and empathetic relationship.
01778 309974 View 01778 309974
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Philip Boddey Counselling
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Spalding PE11
Due to my BACP affiliation and accreditation I have undergone continual annual assessment for my CPD across many numerous styles and theoretical approaches enabling me to respond in differing ways dependent on the needs of the individual/s in the room.
I have been a qualified psycotherapist and counsellor for in the region of 30 years to 2020 and have, during this time worked with ages 5 and upwards both individually, as couples, groups and families. I have worked alongside local authorities social services, education establishments, foster agencies, Police, CAMH, Health Insurance companies, the NHS and others.
Due to my BACP affiliation and accreditation I have undergone continual annual assessment for my CPD across many numerous styles and theoretical approaches enabling me to respond in differing ways dependent on the needs of the individual/s in the room.
I have been a qualified psycotherapist and counsellor for in the region of 30 years to 2020 and have, during this time worked with ages 5 and upwards both individually, as couples, groups and families. I have worked alongside local authorities social services, education establishments, foster agencies, Police, CAMH, Health Insurance companies, the NHS and others.
01780 430698 View 01780 430698
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Breakthrough2Change
Counsellor, MSc, PNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Spalding PE12
Reaching out to a therapist, to manage or resolve psychological/emotional distress is a courageous step indeed.
If you are struggling with anxiety (worry), low mood or depression, relationship problems or distress, or suffering from the effects of trauma, I might be able to help you. I am a psychotherapist (person-centred experiential therapist) with additional training in Emotion Focused Individual therapy & Emotionally Focused Couple therapy. As my approach is emotion focused, my ideal client (individual or couple) would be willing to explore & work-through their painful emotions/feelings within therapy sessions by working with the therapist to achieve better mental, emotional relational well-being & resolution of problematic experiences.
Reaching out to a therapist, to manage or resolve psychological/emotional distress is a courageous step indeed.
If you are struggling with anxiety (worry), low mood or depression, relationship problems or distress, or suffering from the effects of trauma, I might be able to help you. I am a psychotherapist (person-centred experiential therapist) with additional training in Emotion Focused Individual therapy & Emotionally Focused Couple therapy. As my approach is emotion focused, my ideal client (individual or couple) would be willing to explore & work-through their painful emotions/feelings within therapy sessions by working with the therapist to achieve better mental, emotional relational well-being & resolution of problematic experiences.
01205 336971 View 01205 336971

Online Therapists

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Alex Dalziel
Psychotherapist, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Rickmansworth WD3
I work from an attractive and peaceful location near Rick mansworth.
I am an experienced, qualified and approachable psychotherapist working with individual adults. Feelings of depression, anxiety or a lack of direction or meaning in life need to be understood in a broad context. By looking at our whole life we can uncover who we really are and where we wish to go. I offer a safe space where troublesome, dark and difficult feelings can be examined and explored - by bringing them into the light we open up the possibility of facing and understanding them.
I work from an attractive and peaceful location near Rick mansworth.
I am an experienced, qualified and approachable psychotherapist working with individual adults. Feelings of depression, anxiety or a lack of direction or meaning in life need to be understood in a broad context. By looking at our whole life we can uncover who we really are and where we wish to go. I offer a safe space where troublesome, dark and difficult feelings can be examined and explored - by bringing them into the light we open up the possibility of facing and understanding them.
01923 961223 View 01923 961223
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Colin David Ogdon
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Manchester M19
If you're struggling right now, you truly can be helped. Anxiety and depression are extremely common and in a world of pressure many of us are suffering in ways that don't fit a label and often others can't see. You deserve better than that and I built my practice to ensure hope and help is available to anyone.
If you're struggling right now, you truly can be helped. Anxiety and depression are extremely common and in a world of pressure many of us are suffering in ways that don't fit a label and often others can't see. You deserve better than that and I built my practice to ensure hope and help is available to anyone.
0161 694 8751 View 0161 694 8751
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Alex Monk
Psychotherapist, MA, HCPC-Art Therap.
Verified Verified
London E8
Psychotherapy can help you to gently gain a new perspective on your relationships, without judgement, in a confidential space. Although relational patterns may have served you well in the past, perhaps you feel they are not helpful to you any longer. You may feel that things are just not working out, without ever really understanding why. Perhaps you keep choosing particular people as friends or partners that you know are not healthy but can't resist anyway. Perhaps this makes you feel anxious, depressed, and well meaning advice from friends of family doesn't seem to help.
Psychotherapy can help you to gently gain a new perspective on your relationships, without judgement, in a confidential space. Although relational patterns may have served you well in the past, perhaps you feel they are not helpful to you any longer. You may feel that things are just not working out, without ever really understanding why. Perhaps you keep choosing particular people as friends or partners that you know are not healthy but can't resist anyway. Perhaps this makes you feel anxious, depressed, and well meaning advice from friends of family doesn't seem to help.
020 3948 6487 View 020 3948 6487
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Dr Axel Löfgren, Consultant Clinical Psychologist
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
London W1W
Feeling stuck, overwhelmed, sad or worried? Maybe you’re struggling to juggle the many de mands of life and feel like everything is getting to you. Taking the first step to getting help is a brave one and often one of the hardest parts. Together we will unpick what is going on for you and identify a way forward to help you get your life back on track. I know how difficult it can be finding a therapist who works with your schedule so I offer evening and weekend appointments.
Feeling stuck, overwhelmed, sad or worried? Maybe you’re struggling to juggle the many de mands of life and feel like everything is getting to you. Taking the first step to getting help is a brave one and often one of the hardest parts. Together we will unpick what is going on for you and identify a way forward to help you get your life back on track. I know how difficult it can be finding a therapist who works with your schedule so I offer evening and weekend appointments.
020 4538 9103 View 020 4538 9103
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Taner Paul Hassan
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Colchester CO4
I also hold a Level 5 Diploma in Leadership Management in Health & Social care.
Integrative Counsellor & Psychotherapist. I work with Couples, Adults, Teenagers, Professional Athletes & People in the public eye. Assisting in many presenting issues. Specialist Area of Expertise: Sex & Porn Addiction, Substance Misuse & Alcohol, Addiction. It is important that whoever you seek help from you give yourself the chance to work through your issues and become your own scientist. I will never tell you what to do but help guide you and explore your issues together to help you achieve your goals.
I also hold a Level 5 Diploma in Leadership Management in Health & Social care.
Integrative Counsellor & Psychotherapist. I work with Couples, Adults, Teenagers, Professional Athletes & People in the public eye. Assisting in many presenting issues. Specialist Area of Expertise: Sex & Porn Addiction, Substance Misuse & Alcohol, Addiction. It is important that whoever you seek help from you give yourself the chance to work through your issues and become your own scientist. I will never tell you what to do but help guide you and explore your issues together to help you achieve your goals.
01206 489711 View 01206 489711
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Marc Freeman
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Rayleigh SS6
com/free mantherapy1976 where I upload free videos giving advice, tools and tips etc.
If you are finding life difficult, or struggling to understand or change the way you feel, talking to somebody can really help. Sometimes reaching out is the best thing you can do, and it can really help you put things into perspective and learn new ways of coping and dealing with the difficulties in your life. I have linked an example of how I work in this video: https://youtu.be/g4YMqJdPoj0
com/free mantherapy1976 where I upload free videos giving advice, tools and tips etc.
If you are finding life difficult, or struggling to understand or change the way you feel, talking to somebody can really help. Sometimes reaching out is the best thing you can do, and it can really help you put things into perspective and learn new ways of coping and dealing with the difficulties in your life. I have linked an example of how I work in this video: https://youtu.be/g4YMqJdPoj0
01702 680152 View 01702 680152
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David Poynor
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Beckenham BR3
Life can be overwhelming, and whether you’re feeling stuck, anxious, or weighed down by past experiences, seeking support is a powerful first step toward change. Many of my clients come to me feeling lost, unsure of their next move, and often exhausted by the pressures of daily life. You might be wrestling with feelings of isolation, frustration, or a sense of “not being enough.” Therapy offers a safe and confidential space where you can slow down and work through challenges in a meaningful way. I work collaboratively with clients to overcome challenges like anxiety, depression, trauma, and self-esteem issues.
Life can be overwhelming, and whether you’re feeling stuck, anxious, or weighed down by past experiences, seeking support is a powerful first step toward change. Many of my clients come to me feeling lost, unsure of their next move, and often exhausted by the pressures of daily life. You might be wrestling with feelings of isolation, frustration, or a sense of “not being enough.” Therapy offers a safe and confidential space where you can slow down and work through challenges in a meaningful way. I work collaboratively with clients to overcome challenges like anxiety, depression, trauma, and self-esteem issues.
020 8059 2143 View 020 8059 2143
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Tim Peal
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Braintree CM7
Hello, You will find Counselling with me to be a warm and comfortable environment in which you can talk about your life safely. I believe that developing an honest and trusting relationship between counsellor and client is essential. My therapy is based on building an understanding of how your life up to today, has influenced how you feel, think and behave now. We will also look at understanding how the mind and body connection is working for you now and how you can improve that connection.
Hello, You will find Counselling with me to be a warm and comfortable environment in which you can talk about your life safely. I believe that developing an honest and trusting relationship between counsellor and client is essential. My therapy is based on building an understanding of how your life up to today, has influenced how you feel, think and behave now. We will also look at understanding how the mind and body connection is working for you now and how you can improve that connection.
01371 708254 View 01371 708254
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Dan Jones
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
London W1W
Sometimes, people have come to me to explore their gender identity; often, gender identity is not the focus of the work, but knowing that I am a trans man can help clients feel a level of safety as a starting point.
I trained as an Integrative Counsellor at the Minster Centre in London. Being integrative means that I draw on several different therapeutic approaches. These may include ways to help us to make sense of your current patterns of relating to others and yourself in terms of past experiences; It may involve ways to understand how painful memories can be locked away in your body. I also bring an appreciation of the socio-political context in which we live, and the impact of structural oppression, particularly on people with minoritised experience.
Sometimes, people have come to me to explore their gender identity; often, gender identity is not the focus of the work, but knowing that I am a trans man can help clients feel a level of safety as a starting point.
I trained as an Integrative Counsellor at the Minster Centre in London. Being integrative means that I draw on several different therapeutic approaches. These may include ways to help us to make sense of your current patterns of relating to others and yourself in terms of past experiences; It may involve ways to understand how painful memories can be locked away in your body. I also bring an appreciation of the socio-political context in which we live, and the impact of structural oppression, particularly on people with minoritised experience.
020 3828 7672 View 020 3828 7672
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Paul Berry (Mbacp)
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Sudbury CO10
As an experienced counsellor and psychotherapist specializing in Emotion-Focused Therapy, I'll help you understand and manage your emotions, build resilience, and create lasting positive change.
Short-notice appointments or an introductory Zoom session can be booked directly through the website link. Finding the right therapist can be a challenge! I'm here to offer a safe and supportive space where you can explore your experiences, develop coping mechanisms, and find a path towards healing and growth. Whether you're struggling with anxiety, depression, relationship issues, or simply feeling stuck, I'll work alongside you to navigate those difficult emotions and empower you to create a more fulfilling life. Embrace the convenience and comfort of online therapy. Connect with me from a location that suits you.
As an experienced counsellor and psychotherapist specializing in Emotion-Focused Therapy, I'll help you understand and manage your emotions, build resilience, and create lasting positive change.
Short-notice appointments or an introductory Zoom session can be booked directly through the website link. Finding the right therapist can be a challenge! I'm here to offer a safe and supportive space where you can explore your experiences, develop coping mechanisms, and find a path towards healing and growth. Whether you're struggling with anxiety, depression, relationship issues, or simply feeling stuck, I'll work alongside you to navigate those difficult emotions and empower you to create a more fulfilling life. Embrace the convenience and comfort of online therapy. Connect with me from a location that suits you.
01787 322339 View 01787 322339
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Francesco Rinaldi
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
Verified Verified
London NW1
If you are struggling with unresolved emotions, anxiety, depression, or patterns in your life that seems beyond your control, Psychodynamic Psychotherapy is a powerful tool for investigating the impact of our past and present experiences on our feelings, behaviours, and intentions in life. Psychodynamic Psychotherapy is a relational journey of self-exploration. As a compassionate and experienced psychotherapist, I offer a safe and non-judgmental space where to understand deep-rooted issues and foster lasting change.
If you are struggling with unresolved emotions, anxiety, depression, or patterns in your life that seems beyond your control, Psychodynamic Psychotherapy is a powerful tool for investigating the impact of our past and present experiences on our feelings, behaviours, and intentions in life. Psychodynamic Psychotherapy is a relational journey of self-exploration. As a compassionate and experienced psychotherapist, I offer a safe and non-judgmental space where to understand deep-rooted issues and foster lasting change.
020 3780 3189 View 020 3780 3189
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Jeremy Steven Slaughter
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
London W2
So I built Psycnav as an evidence-based life map from many approaches, & Journeybuilding as a universal story of growth.
As my ideal client, you're a professional, facing tricky obstacles at work or at home, who knows that you've got to grow to live better. You know about personal development, but are unconvinced by the usual solutions. You want to know how all your problems fit together, and develop a step by step programme for personal change, that addresses the difficulties you face in priority order. You don't see yourself as "mentallly ill"; rather, you're stuck in a difficult place on the journey of life. You're looking for the support, knowledge and skills to get to a better place, a map and a straightforward guide on the path to wellbeing.
So I built Psycnav as an evidence-based life map from many approaches, & Journeybuilding as a universal story of growth.
As my ideal client, you're a professional, facing tricky obstacles at work or at home, who knows that you've got to grow to live better. You know about personal development, but are unconvinced by the usual solutions. You want to know how all your problems fit together, and develop a step by step programme for personal change, that addresses the difficulties you face in priority order. You don't see yourself as "mentallly ill"; rather, you're stuck in a difficult place on the journey of life. You're looking for the support, knowledge and skills to get to a better place, a map and a straightforward guide on the path to wellbeing.
020 3105 2251 View 020 3105 2251
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Aman Johal
Psychotherapist, MBABCP
Verified Verified
Leamington Spa CV32
Hi I'm A man. Welcome to my page. I understand it can take immense courage to engage in therapy to confront emotional pain and distress. I know it is common to avoid anxiety provoking situations to stop those painful feelings from arising. However, this can be adverse for you in the long term. I offer Cognitive Behavioural Psychotherapy which will give you the opportunity to identify and challenge negative patterns of thoughts and behaviours. I can enable you to learn new strategies so you manage your distress and life situations better.
Hi I'm A man. Welcome to my page. I understand it can take immense courage to engage in therapy to confront emotional pain and distress. I know it is common to avoid anxiety provoking situations to stop those painful feelings from arising. However, this can be adverse for you in the long term. I offer Cognitive Behavioural Psychotherapy which will give you the opportunity to identify and challenge negative patterns of thoughts and behaviours. I can enable you to learn new strategies so you manage your distress and life situations better.
01953 665969 View 01953 665969
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Anthony Furlong
Psychotherapist, PhD, BACP
Verified Verified
London SW9
Hello, I'm Tony and I'm an integrative therapist originally from Yorkshire. I pride myself on my warm, present and calm nature. I am passionate about working in a way that allows you to explore your relationships with yourself and others, and healing in the process. I work integratively, which essentially means that I'm trained to use different approaches and tools based on you and your needs. This brings flexibility to our collaborative online therapy sessions. I am trained to work across different areas such as anxiety, depression, attachment, sexual health, sexual addiction, gender, sexuality body image and relationships.
Hello, I'm Tony and I'm an integrative therapist originally from Yorkshire. I pride myself on my warm, present and calm nature. I am passionate about working in a way that allows you to explore your relationships with yourself and others, and healing in the process. I work integratively, which essentially means that I'm trained to use different approaches and tools based on you and your needs. This brings flexibility to our collaborative online therapy sessions. I am trained to work across different areas such as anxiety, depression, attachment, sexual health, sexual addiction, gender, sexuality body image and relationships.
020 4538 8527 View 020 4538 8527
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Ben Macqueen
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
London SW1E
Why? Because being a gay man myself I "get it".
Feeling confused? Anxious? Depressed? Or maybe you are overwhelmed with what life is throwing at you right now? I'm an LGBT+ counsellor specialising in working with gay men. Together we can explore and unpack where you are in your life right now. This will give you a better understanding of who you are so that you can grow and live the life you deserve. I have experience supporting gay men with anxiety, depression, stress, family and relationship difficulties, low self-esteem, and those feeling "stuck".
Why? Because being a gay man myself I "get it".
Feeling confused? Anxious? Depressed? Or maybe you are overwhelmed with what life is throwing at you right now? I'm an LGBT+ counsellor specialising in working with gay men. Together we can explore and unpack where you are in your life right now. This will give you a better understanding of who you are so that you can grow and live the life you deserve. I have experience supporting gay men with anxiety, depression, stress, family and relationship difficulties, low self-esteem, and those feeling "stuck".
020 3974 1382 View 020 3974 1382
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Zsolt Kertai
Counsellor, MSc, BACP
Verified Verified
Nottingham NG9  (Online Only)
As a bilingual culture-sensitive counsellor I work with feelings, thoughts, attachments in a person-centered way, exploring the issues/difficulties that clients presented with. The Transtheoretical Model gives a perfect frame that enables us to measure progress and also assists us to identify issues at multiple levels. With my 5 years experience in mental health and my qualifications (BSc in Psychology and MSc in Psychotherapy) offers me a good understanding and an appropriate set of skills to work with clients. Being emphatic, approachable, friendly and positive are essential to good practice.
As a bilingual culture-sensitive counsellor I work with feelings, thoughts, attachments in a person-centered way, exploring the issues/difficulties that clients presented with. The Transtheoretical Model gives a perfect frame that enables us to measure progress and also assists us to identify issues at multiple levels. With my 5 years experience in mental health and my qualifications (BSc in Psychology and MSc in Psychotherapy) offers me a good understanding and an appropriate set of skills to work with clients. Being emphatic, approachable, friendly and positive are essential to good practice.
0115 647 7450 View 0115 647 7450

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Male Counsellors

As a man, why might I want to see a male therapist?

There are many reasons a man might wish to work with a male therapist, including a degree of shared identity, which may help client and therapist connect to each other and allow for a more free-flowing discussion of issues that can be deeply personal. Some men may feel more comfortable talking to a male therapist about relationship concerns, the pressures they feel around the roles society and family place on men, career or job challenges, self-esteem, or anger problems. For some men who have not had a male role models in their lives, a good male therapist may be especially helpful.

How can I find out about a therapist’s experience treating men?

Individuals looking for treatment should feel comfortable directly asking a therapist about their history treating men overall and the issues that arise in therapy with men. A good therapist will be happy to discuss such matters as well as their educational background, approach to treatment, and how they think they can aid a prospective client. Prospective clients should also ask what the expectation is for treatment, and what the fee structure is, and whether and which insurance plans are accepted.

Can clients benefit from having a therapist of the same gender?

Therapy is not gender-specific, but some men as well as women feel more comfortable opening up about their experiences and history with a male therapist. An individual may feel that they have to explain less background information and be on the same page more quickly, particularly when discussing gender-specific challenges, in the case of male clients. Some women have prior negative experiences with women that predispose them to prefer working with a male in therapy. That said, a good clinician can transcend most if not all gender concerns. Ultimately, the most important factor in therapy is the connection and trust the client is able to build with the practitioner.

Would a male therapist have specific training in treating men?

Generally, no. There are no certifications for treating men specifically, but there are continuing education classes that therapists may take that focus on treating men as a group. There are many therapists who focus on men and male issues in their treatment and therefore have experience and expertise in this domain.