Marriage Counselling in Southampton

Photo of Clair O'Donovan - Clair O'Donovan (ReConnect Family Counselling), Counsellor, MBACP
I strive to offer a warm, empathic, and reassuring space where you can explore your challenges and find a path forward. I believe that everyone deserves to feel heard, understood, and empowered to create positive change in their lives. I adhere to the BACP Ethical Framework for Counselling Professions, ensuring confidentiality and a strong therapeutic relationship. Whether you're seeking individual support, family therapy, or help for your child or adolescent, I am here to walk alongside you on your journey towards well-being.
I strive to offer a warm, empathic, and reassuring space where you can explore your challenges and find a path forward. I believe that everyone deserves to feel heard, understood, and empowered to create positive change in their lives. I adhere to the BACP Ethical Framework for Counselling Professions, ensuring confidentiality and a strong therapeutic relationship. Whether you're seeking individual support, family therapy, or help for your child or adolescent, I am here to walk alongside you on your journey towards well-being.
023 9433 0337 View 023 9433 0337
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Sarvin Nouroozi
Psychotherapist, MBABCP
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I support clients struggling with a range of difficulties including; depression, OCD, social phobia, health anxiety, anger, low self-esteem, phobias, difficulties regulating emotions, PTSD, complex trauma, living with neurodiversity, and any difficulties relating to childhood or adverse life events. I am looking to work with clients who feel like they are ready to address these issues and take back control of their life by learning skills and techniques to support themselves and make positive changes.
I support clients struggling with a range of difficulties including; depression, OCD, social phobia, health anxiety, anger, low self-esteem, phobias, difficulties regulating emotions, PTSD, complex trauma, living with neurodiversity, and any difficulties relating to childhood or adverse life events. I am looking to work with clients who feel like they are ready to address these issues and take back control of their life by learning skills and techniques to support themselves and make positive changes.
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Ben Frayne
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
www.Liberationpsychology.co.uk. A highly experienced Consultant Clinical Psychologist specialising in Adult Mental Health for over 20 years.
www.Liberationpsychology.co.uk. A highly experienced Consultant Clinical Psychologist specialising in Adult Mental Health for over 20 years.
01722 445775 View 01722 445775
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Kirsty van Lieshout
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
1 Endorsed
Need to talk to someone as you feel stuck? I might be able to help you.
Need to talk to someone as you feel stuck? I might be able to help you.
023 8214 8308 View 023 8214 8308
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Dr Hubert Fanka
Psychotherapist, MBABCP
Sensation of being stuck, depressed, worried, struggling to cope with your feelings, mood changes, trauma memories, hearing distressing voices, suicidal thoughts and urges, adjustment difficulties, addiction, being different and interpersonal difficulties, and willing to move forward and find new ways of coping effectively, “YES i can help". In our sessions, we will use an integrative approach, a mixture Cognitive, Dialectical Behaviour Therapy, (DBT CBT), Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing, (EMDR), Compassionate Focused Therapy, (CFT) and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, (ACT) depending on your individual needs.
Sensation of being stuck, depressed, worried, struggling to cope with your feelings, mood changes, trauma memories, hearing distressing voices, suicidal thoughts and urges, adjustment difficulties, addiction, being different and interpersonal difficulties, and willing to move forward and find new ways of coping effectively, “YES i can help". In our sessions, we will use an integrative approach, a mixture Cognitive, Dialectical Behaviour Therapy, (DBT CBT), Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing, (EMDR), Compassionate Focused Therapy, (CFT) and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, (ACT) depending on your individual needs.
023 9431 1717 View 023 9431 1717
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Alina Vyslynska
Psychotherapist, MSc, BACP
Online Only
Starting personal therapy is a big decision and it makes sense to wonder where to start and which psychotherapist to choose. How would you know what’s right for you? Making the decision to tell someone about the things that bother you most is not an easy one. However, if you are here, I would guess there’s a need to talk. Whatever it is - whether it is problems in the present, memories of the past or worries about the future - I can promise you a safe and confidential space to talk about it. A journey to find out what can make things better for you is a lot easier if you’re not alone in it.
Starting personal therapy is a big decision and it makes sense to wonder where to start and which psychotherapist to choose. How would you know what’s right for you? Making the decision to tell someone about the things that bother you most is not an easy one. However, if you are here, I would guess there’s a need to talk. Whatever it is - whether it is problems in the present, memories of the past or worries about the future - I can promise you a safe and confidential space to talk about it. A journey to find out what can make things better for you is a lot easier if you’re not alone in it.
023 9431 1944 View 023 9431 1944
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Helen Rose
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
I offer a professional, confidential and friendly space for you to explore whatever is troubling you. I am open, honest and laid back and provide a safe, non-judgmental environment to explore any difficulties in your life. Talking about and exploring your emotions and feelings will help you come to your own conclusions and empower you to take your next steps in life. Talking to a counsellor can feel daunting, but can help you resolve and understand any challenges or difficulties you may be facing. Counselling can help you make sense of your emotions bringing about positive change in your life.
I offer a professional, confidential and friendly space for you to explore whatever is troubling you. I am open, honest and laid back and provide a safe, non-judgmental environment to explore any difficulties in your life. Talking about and exploring your emotions and feelings will help you come to your own conclusions and empower you to take your next steps in life. Talking to a counsellor can feel daunting, but can help you resolve and understand any challenges or difficulties you may be facing. Counselling can help you make sense of your emotions bringing about positive change in your life.
023 8214 9877 View 023 8214 9877
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Davis Deen
Verified Verified
UK/EU Fully Accredited EMDR Therapist and Supervisor, NET Therapist & MH Nurse. I Will Support You to Heal and Move Forward. Sometimes life is tough and your resilience feels stretched. Painful memories, constant worry, or self-doubt can keep you feeling stuck, no matter how hard you try to move forward. You don’t have to face this alone. I offer a safe, understanding space where you can gently begin to release what’s been weighing you down. Using EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing), we’ll help your mind heal naturally from distressing experiences so you can feel lighter, calmer, and more in control of your life.
UK/EU Fully Accredited EMDR Therapist and Supervisor, NET Therapist & MH Nurse. I Will Support You to Heal and Move Forward. Sometimes life is tough and your resilience feels stretched. Painful memories, constant worry, or self-doubt can keep you feeling stuck, no matter how hard you try to move forward. You don’t have to face this alone. I offer a safe, understanding space where you can gently begin to release what’s been weighing you down. Using EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing), we’ll help your mind heal naturally from distressing experiences so you can feel lighter, calmer, and more in control of your life.
023 9433 1025 View 023 9433 1025
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Claire Wain
Counsellor, MBACP
I work with both individuals and couples, and offer an initial session which is free of charge.
Hello there and welcome. Sometimes life can be overwhelming for all sorts of reasons and we may need a little help to try and work our way through it. Counselling can give us the help we need, by offering a safe place to sit with someone who is there to help you through those tough times. I understand that the decision to have counselling can perhaps be a difficult one, but I believe that together we can ease those fears and anxieties. Then, as we begin to develop a therapeutic and healing relationship, you will hopefully begin to feel more able to share all that is on your mind.
I work with both individuals and couples, and offer an initial session which is free of charge.
Hello there and welcome. Sometimes life can be overwhelming for all sorts of reasons and we may need a little help to try and work our way through it. Counselling can give us the help we need, by offering a safe place to sit with someone who is there to help you through those tough times. I understand that the decision to have counselling can perhaps be a difficult one, but I believe that together we can ease those fears and anxieties. Then, as we begin to develop a therapeutic and healing relationship, you will hopefully begin to feel more able to share all that is on your mind.
01489 357193 View 01489 357193
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Greenleaves Psychological Services
Psychotherapist, MA, MBABCP
Online Only
Your life has taken a direction you did not choose: someone hurt you, or you have developed a physical health problem. You have tried hard to ignore your suffering until you can’t do it anymore. Things that used to be easy now feel impossible. You don’t recognise yourself anymore and you know you cannot carry on like this. This has left you feeling depressed, stressed, angry or even scared. You want to feel less overwhelmed and more in control. You want to go back to the person you once were, or maybe even find out who YOU are. But mostly you just want to be seen and heard and know that someone is on your side.
Your life has taken a direction you did not choose: someone hurt you, or you have developed a physical health problem. You have tried hard to ignore your suffering until you can’t do it anymore. Things that used to be easy now feel impossible. You don’t recognise yourself anymore and you know you cannot carry on like this. This has left you feeling depressed, stressed, angry or even scared. You want to feel less overwhelmed and more in control. You want to go back to the person you once were, or maybe even find out who YOU are. But mostly you just want to be seen and heard and know that someone is on your side.
023 9387 7477 View 023 9387 7477
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Gerry Dowds
Counsellor, MBACP
I understand that it may be difficult to reach out when you are struggling with anxiety, depression or how you live your current way in life. I offer a safe, non judgemental space for you to offload and explore any issues that you may have.
I understand that it may be difficult to reach out when you are struggling with anxiety, depression or how you live your current way in life. I offer a safe, non judgemental space for you to offload and explore any issues that you may have.
023 9433 0205 View 023 9433 0205
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Simon James Carpenter
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
I am BACP, EMDR Europe accredited Consultant for adults and children and young people. I work within the professional standards required for these professional bodies. I have 19 years experience providing therapeutic intervention for adults, children and young people who have experienced trauma from a wide range of difficulties, such as bereavement, abuse, relationship issues, depression, anxiety . This enables me to be creative and flexible in relation to the way my clients wish to work. I recognise the importance of working within the BACP ethical framework, which informs me of best practice and professional integrity.
I am BACP, EMDR Europe accredited Consultant for adults and children and young people. I work within the professional standards required for these professional bodies. I have 19 years experience providing therapeutic intervention for adults, children and young people who have experienced trauma from a wide range of difficulties, such as bereavement, abuse, relationship issues, depression, anxiety . This enables me to be creative and flexible in relation to the way my clients wish to work. I recognise the importance of working within the BACP ethical framework, which informs me of best practice and professional integrity.
023 8214 8966 View 023 8214 8966
Photo of Ellen Bainbridge, Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Ellen Bainbridge
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Many of my clients present to me with anxiety, low-confidence or specific mental health issues. Goals are often to feel happier, cope better at work or in relationships. Steps to achieving this tend to centre around better understanding of self and identifying what barriers we have constructed that keep us stuck. Instead of seeing an insurmountable wall, in many cases there's an opportunity for growth. My job is to help you figure out how to take your first steps and overcome fear and negativity. Often, the very first is asking for help.
Many of my clients present to me with anxiety, low-confidence or specific mental health issues. Goals are often to feel happier, cope better at work or in relationships. Steps to achieving this tend to centre around better understanding of self and identifying what barriers we have constructed that keep us stuck. Instead of seeing an insurmountable wall, in many cases there's an opportunity for growth. My job is to help you figure out how to take your first steps and overcome fear and negativity. Often, the very first is asking for help.
023 9433 0684 View 023 9433 0684
Photo of Angeline Shepperd, Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Angeline Shepperd
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Certificate in Couples Counselling
Angeline is a fully accredited BACP Therapist and EMDR Europe Accredited Practitioner, offering a compassionate, integrative approach to therapy that is deeply rooted in humanistic values. Angeline believes that every person has the inner strength for healing, growth and change. She will help you to connect with your own inner strength at a pace that suits you. Angeline offers a safe, respectful space where you can explore your thoughts, emotions and experiences without fear of judgement. If you are experiencing trauma, anxiety or low mood or simply feeling stuck she will work collaboratively with you.
Certificate in Couples Counselling
Angeline is a fully accredited BACP Therapist and EMDR Europe Accredited Practitioner, offering a compassionate, integrative approach to therapy that is deeply rooted in humanistic values. Angeline believes that every person has the inner strength for healing, growth and change. She will help you to connect with your own inner strength at a pace that suits you. Angeline offers a safe, respectful space where you can explore your thoughts, emotions and experiences without fear of judgement. If you are experiencing trauma, anxiety or low mood or simply feeling stuck she will work collaboratively with you.
01794 339779 View 01794 339779
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Jenny Phillips
Counsellor, MBACP
Online Only
I have since trained in couples counselling (2021) working with couples and also with parents & children.
Hello I'm Jen and I am a person-centred therapist. I have been in private practice since 2020 where I see clients remotely. I offer person-centred therapy to both adults and children from 12-18. Working as a person-centred therapist I believe the client is very much the driver of their own therapy journey and I am here to offer that safe space required to enable the client to freely explore what is going on for them at a pace which feels natural to the individual. There is no obligation to set goals as the therapy I provide is very fluid and can go in any direction as the therapy offered is all about the person and not targets.
I have since trained in couples counselling (2021) working with couples and also with parents & children.
Hello I'm Jen and I am a person-centred therapist. I have been in private practice since 2020 where I see clients remotely. I offer person-centred therapy to both adults and children from 12-18. Working as a person-centred therapist I believe the client is very much the driver of their own therapy journey and I am here to offer that safe space required to enable the client to freely explore what is going on for them at a pace which feels natural to the individual. There is no obligation to set goals as the therapy I provide is very fluid and can go in any direction as the therapy offered is all about the person and not targets.
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Gina Alpe
Psychotherapist, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Hi, I am an Integrative Relational Psychotherapist working online with individuals and couples (18+), supporting people in their self-discovery journey.
As an Integrative Relational Psychotherapist, I focus on the healing aspect of the counselling relationship. I draw from different approaches (Psychodynamic, Humanistic, CBT, Somatic and Mindfulness-based, Transpersonal) which allows me to work flexibly, considering your uniqueness as a person. My style is is collaborative, curious, intuitive and creative.
Hi, I am an Integrative Relational Psychotherapist working online with individuals and couples (18+), supporting people in their self-discovery journey.
As an Integrative Relational Psychotherapist, I focus on the healing aspect of the counselling relationship. I draw from different approaches (Psychodynamic, Humanistic, CBT, Somatic and Mindfulness-based, Transpersonal) which allows me to work flexibly, considering your uniqueness as a person. My style is is collaborative, curious, intuitive and creative.
023 9421 2854 View 023 9421 2854
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VLAD Outreach CIC
Counsellor, MSc, BACP
V.L.A.D. Outreach CIC is a community-driven initiative focused on supporting some of society's most marginalised and vulnerable groups. Please reach out if you feel overlooked or underserved, are you gamer, individuals with Functional Neurological Disorder (FND), older and bedbound person, affected by addiction, refugees? While our primary focus is on hard-to-reach communities, our services is open to everyone in need of support. ​ At V.L.A.D. Outreach, we believe that mental health care should be accessible to all, regardless of background or circumstances.
V.L.A.D. Outreach CIC is a community-driven initiative focused on supporting some of society's most marginalised and vulnerable groups. Please reach out if you feel overlooked or underserved, are you gamer, individuals with Functional Neurological Disorder (FND), older and bedbound person, affected by addiction, refugees? While our primary focus is on hard-to-reach communities, our services is open to everyone in need of support. ​ At V.L.A.D. Outreach, we believe that mental health care should be accessible to all, regardless of background or circumstances.
023 9433 1204 View 023 9433 1204
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Carole Claire Clifford
Counsellor, MBACP Snr. Accred
I can help resolve partner & relationship issues, emotional &/or sexual.
I welcome working with anyone who is troubled by specific issues, family, work, loss, addiction relationship & sexual issues. There are times in most of our lives when we need some help to make sense of happening to us, to find directions to deal with a specific issues. Often stress, anxiety, loss of confidence, loss of any kind. Talking our issues through with an experienced therapist, confidentially, can help us to resolve the issues, deal with emotions/situations and help us see more clearly, understand feelings & find solutions
I can help resolve partner & relationship issues, emotional &/or sexual.
I welcome working with anyone who is troubled by specific issues, family, work, loss, addiction relationship & sexual issues. There are times in most of our lives when we need some help to make sense of happening to us, to find directions to deal with a specific issues. Often stress, anxiety, loss of confidence, loss of any kind. Talking our issues through with an experienced therapist, confidentially, can help us to resolve the issues, deal with emotions/situations and help us see more clearly, understand feelings & find solutions
023 8235 7288 View 023 8235 7288
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Sally Reid
Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
You might be feeling trapped by past trauma, anxiety, or grief - struggling to move forward despite your best efforts. You want relief from painful emotions, a calmer mind, and a renewed sense of self. You’re looking for a therapist who understands and can help you find lasting change.
You might be feeling trapped by past trauma, anxiety, or grief - struggling to move forward despite your best efforts. You want relief from painful emotions, a calmer mind, and a renewed sense of self. You’re looking for a therapist who understands and can help you find lasting change.
01524 971076 View 01524 971076
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Cheryl Barnes-Tadman
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
I also worked for many years in a large GP Practice, as well as accepting referrals from Essex Police, the NHS, Occupational Health Departments, Further Education Organisations, EAP Work Resources, and, private referrals from individuals and couples.
I have experienced in working with issues, including Abuse, Anger, Anxiety, Bereavement and Loss, Depression and Low Mood, Health and Life Crises, Low Self Worth, Panic, Relationship Difficulties and Stress.
I also worked for many years in a large GP Practice, as well as accepting referrals from Essex Police, the NHS, Occupational Health Departments, Further Education Organisations, EAP Work Resources, and, private referrals from individuals and couples.
I have experienced in working with issues, including Abuse, Anger, Anxiety, Bereavement and Loss, Depression and Low Mood, Health and Life Crises, Low Self Worth, Panic, Relationship Difficulties and Stress.
01329 756689 View 01329 756689

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Marriage Counselling

How does marriage counseling work?

Marriage counseling works by teaching couples concrete skills to communicate with one another and solve disagreements in healthy ways. A trained mental health professional works with both members of a couple to explore difficulties the couple may be having and helps them develop skills to address these matters. Couples who don’t have any difficulties but want to prepare for marriage may develop skills for the future.

How long does marriage counseling typically last?

Marriage counseling is a short-term form of therapy; the process may last between four and eight sessions. Other forms of relationship guidance from mental health professionals, such as couples therapy, are longer lasting, may focus on the past rather than just the present, and are tailored to the individual couple and their emotions, history, and patterns in the relationship. Couples therapy often lasts for 12 weeks or longer.

Is marriage counseling effective?

Marriage counseling helps many couples develop relationship skills that may not have been acquired or tested in a relationship; partners may be better able to communicate and address conflict following counseling. However, there are many different forms of marriage counseling, and this form of counseling does not have as strong an evidence base as other modalities such as couples therapy.

Is marriage counseling effective if only one partner wants to go?

Yes, marriage counseling can still be effective if one partner convinces the other to engage in the process. Of course, whether counseling is effective depends on the couple’s commitment to work on their relationship; however, the short-term, skills-based nature of marriage counseling makes it a relatively easy “ask” of a partner, and the hesitant individual may see its value once counseling begins.