Divorce Counselling in Shenley
Are you feeling low, anxious or stressed? Are you struggling to manage overwhelming emotions or battling with thoughts or behaviours? Would you like to feel understood and supported to explore effective solutions?
Are you feeling low, anxious or stressed? Are you struggling to manage overwhelming emotions or battling with thoughts or behaviours? Would you like to feel understood and supported to explore effective solutions?
Not everybody has been fortunate enough to have been heard. To talk and feel they are being listened to. I would like to be able to give you this opportunity. In a safe, reliable and comfortable setting I will offer you a non-judgemental space in which to explore difficult feelings and share your thoughts. Life is often fast paced and I would like to offer you the opportunity to slow down a little.
Not everybody has been fortunate enough to have been heard. To talk and feel they are being listened to. I would like to be able to give you this opportunity. In a safe, reliable and comfortable setting I will offer you a non-judgemental space in which to explore difficult feelings and share your thoughts. Life is often fast paced and I would like to offer you the opportunity to slow down a little.
Taking that first step, seeking help with difficult feelings, thoughts or experiences takes courage and strength. Offering a non judgemental, compassionate and supportive space I commit to ensuring you have control of the pace and subject matter you bring, and to work with you to find new perspectives, build trust in your own judgement and a stronger sense of self. With experience in hospital, private residential units, charitable organisations and private clients, with adolescents, young adults and adults or varying genders, I work with long and short term clients.
Taking that first step, seeking help with difficult feelings, thoughts or experiences takes courage and strength. Offering a non judgemental, compassionate and supportive space I commit to ensuring you have control of the pace and subject matter you bring, and to work with you to find new perspectives, build trust in your own judgement and a stronger sense of self. With experience in hospital, private residential units, charitable organisations and private clients, with adolescents, young adults and adults or varying genders, I work with long and short term clients.
It may not be visible but you are suffering inside, and you have taken the first courageous step, seeking a therapist. Life may seem OK and up to now you have managed but something inside is stirring, and its hard to carry on as you have been. You have been judged, not heard and felt worthless or invisible, and you may feel anxious, angry, depressed, detached, frightened, vulnerable, low self worth, unmotivated and unable to trust your own judgement right now. I believe you have an innate ability to be more, and can support you to work through these feelings. Take the next brave step if you are ready and call for a consultation.
It may not be visible but you are suffering inside, and you have taken the first courageous step, seeking a therapist. Life may seem OK and up to now you have managed but something inside is stirring, and its hard to carry on as you have been. You have been judged, not heard and felt worthless or invisible, and you may feel anxious, angry, depressed, detached, frightened, vulnerable, low self worth, unmotivated and unable to trust your own judgement right now. I believe you have an innate ability to be more, and can support you to work through these feelings. Take the next brave step if you are ready and call for a consultation.
First 30 minutes Free
Much of what I work with is rooted in shame. A large number of people experience deep feelings of shame and dislike toward themselves. Such emotions can be intensely distressing, create significant inner turmoil, and prevent individuals from seeking support or benefiting from assistance when it is available. This may happen because they believe they are unworthy of feeling better. As a result, shame and self-loathing can become major obstacles to making progress during therapy. Together, we explore shame and anxiety, so you can understand yourself more deeply and become more fully you.
First 30 minutes Free
Much of what I work with is rooted in shame. A large number of people experience deep feelings of shame and dislike toward themselves. Such emotions can be intensely distressing, create significant inner turmoil, and prevent individuals from seeking support or benefiting from assistance when it is available. This may happen because they believe they are unworthy of feeling better. As a result, shame and self-loathing can become major obstacles to making progress during therapy. Together, we explore shame and anxiety, so you can understand yourself more deeply and become more fully you.
More Therapists Nearby
Our Clients at The Echelon Scene are gay men who are seeking a long-term relationship. They come to us because they simply do not have the time to online date or sit in a crowded bar in Soho. They would rather outsource and have us do the filtering so they are only going out on dates they are excited about. Our Clients are typically busy individuals who are passionate about what they do and excel at work, they range in ages from 30-mid 60s and are based all over the world. The common factors are they are all genuinely seeking a monogamous long-term relationship and are in a positive state of mind for dating.
Our Clients at The Echelon Scene are gay men who are seeking a long-term relationship. They come to us because they simply do not have the time to online date or sit in a crowded bar in Soho. They would rather outsource and have us do the filtering so they are only going out on dates they are excited about. Our Clients are typically busy individuals who are passionate about what they do and excel at work, they range in ages from 30-mid 60s and are based all over the world. The common factors are they are all genuinely seeking a monogamous long-term relationship and are in a positive state of mind for dating.
You may be feeling unheard, disconnected, or anxious in your relationship. wondering how things got here and unsure how to move forward. Maybe there’s been a breakdown of trust, a repeating pattern, or emotional distance that’s hard to bridge. Whether you’re an individual or a couple, you’re longing for clarity, connection, and a calmer space to explore your relationship. If that sounds like you, I can help.
You may be feeling unheard, disconnected, or anxious in your relationship. wondering how things got here and unsure how to move forward. Maybe there’s been a breakdown of trust, a repeating pattern, or emotional distance that’s hard to bridge. Whether you’re an individual or a couple, you’re longing for clarity, connection, and a calmer space to explore your relationship. If that sounds like you, I can help.
Being a later in life diagnosed Autistic/ADHD counsellor, I offer genuine empathy & understanding if you're overwhelmed, feel isolated or struggling with life - I've been there too. Are you feeling misunderstood, lost or stuck? Like you don't fit in & nobody really "gets you?" Burntout? Full of anxiety? Struggling with emotional dysregulation, having relationship difficulties, problems with intimacy/sex, or debilitated by PMDD or Menopause? Maybe recently diagnosed & left thinking "now what?" During our sessions, change is absolutely possible. I have experience of Autism/ADHD from both sides of the fence: professional & personal.
Being a later in life diagnosed Autistic/ADHD counsellor, I offer genuine empathy & understanding if you're overwhelmed, feel isolated or struggling with life - I've been there too. Are you feeling misunderstood, lost or stuck? Like you don't fit in & nobody really "gets you?" Burntout? Full of anxiety? Struggling with emotional dysregulation, having relationship difficulties, problems with intimacy/sex, or debilitated by PMDD or Menopause? Maybe recently diagnosed & left thinking "now what?" During our sessions, change is absolutely possible. I have experience of Autism/ADHD from both sides of the fence: professional & personal.
I work with a wide range of problems including communication difficulties, anxiety, depression, divorce, affairs, self esteem, grief, issues of trust, difficulties with the wider family, cultural differences, and changes in the relationship such as a new baby, illness and retirement .
I am a Relate trained counsellor experienced at working with both couples and individuals. I offer a down-to-earth, forward thinking, non-directive approach. I endeavour to create a warm, non-judgemental therapeutic relationship where we can focus on you and your situation. I will work with you to understand your concerns, your deeper needs and how they are affecting your life and relationships.I see my role as supportive of your change, offering change to explore feelings and experiences in a safe, confidential space. I have worked with clients from the LGBT community and from diverse backgrounds.
I work with a wide range of problems including communication difficulties, anxiety, depression, divorce, affairs, self esteem, grief, issues of trust, difficulties with the wider family, cultural differences, and changes in the relationship such as a new baby, illness and retirement .
I am a Relate trained counsellor experienced at working with both couples and individuals. I offer a down-to-earth, forward thinking, non-directive approach. I endeavour to create a warm, non-judgemental therapeutic relationship where we can focus on you and your situation. I will work with you to understand your concerns, your deeper needs and how they are affecting your life and relationships.I see my role as supportive of your change, offering change to explore feelings and experiences in a safe, confidential space. I have worked with clients from the LGBT community and from diverse backgrounds.
Where do you start with addressing your problems and how do you know how to choose the right therapist? The most important factor is the relationship with the therapist we choose. We have to feel safe and confident that we are in good hands in which we can share most private thoughts and feelings. I am a psychoanalytical psychotherapist in private practice based in Kingston, Surrey, I also work and teach psychotherapy students in the Bowlby Centre (Center for attachment based Psychoanalytical Psychotherapy ) in London. Additionally I am a member of The International Psychotherapy Group and Forum for independent psychotherapists.
Where do you start with addressing your problems and how do you know how to choose the right therapist? The most important factor is the relationship with the therapist we choose. We have to feel safe and confident that we are in good hands in which we can share most private thoughts and feelings. I am a psychoanalytical psychotherapist in private practice based in Kingston, Surrey, I also work and teach psychotherapy students in the Bowlby Centre (Center for attachment based Psychoanalytical Psychotherapy ) in London. Additionally I am a member of The International Psychotherapy Group and Forum for independent psychotherapists.
Whether navigating divorce, parenting challenges, relationship tension, or communication breakdowns, I work to ensure all voices are heard and valued.
I provide a safe, compassionate space where everyone’s voice is heard, especially the voices of children, whose needs I hold at the heart of the process. Whether you’re working through relationship issues, parenting concerns, or the complexities of separation and divorce, I am here to guide you towards healing, and stronger connections.
Whether navigating divorce, parenting challenges, relationship tension, or communication breakdowns, I work to ensure all voices are heard and valued.
I provide a safe, compassionate space where everyone’s voice is heard, especially the voices of children, whose needs I hold at the heart of the process. Whether you’re working through relationship issues, parenting concerns, or the complexities of separation and divorce, I am here to guide you towards healing, and stronger connections.
A relationship crisis, divorce or infidelity.
I work online and in person, I offer evening and weekend slots as a standard. I offer discounted rates for couples. I am a counsellor and psychotherapist in advanced stages of training. I use Transactional Analysis (TA) and Somatic Experiencing. I am registered as a trainee member of UKCP.
A relationship crisis, divorce or infidelity.
I work online and in person, I offer evening and weekend slots as a standard. I offer discounted rates for couples. I am a counsellor and psychotherapist in advanced stages of training. I use Transactional Analysis (TA) and Somatic Experiencing. I am registered as a trainee member of UKCP.
Therapy can offer you the opportunity to pause, reflect and understand yourself more deeply. You do not need to have everything figured out before starting. Together, we can explore what is happening for you at a pace that feels comfortable and manageable. You may be here because something in your life no longer feels quite right. Perhaps you are feeling overwhelmed, grieving, anxious, stuck, disconnected or uncertain about what comes next. You may be trying to make sense of your identity, relationships, emotions or experiences, or simply feel that you need a safe space where you can talk openly and be heard without judgement.
Therapy can offer you the opportunity to pause, reflect and understand yourself more deeply. You do not need to have everything figured out before starting. Together, we can explore what is happening for you at a pace that feels comfortable and manageable. You may be here because something in your life no longer feels quite right. Perhaps you are feeling overwhelmed, grieving, anxious, stuck, disconnected or uncertain about what comes next. You may be trying to make sense of your identity, relationships, emotions or experiences, or simply feel that you need a safe space where you can talk openly and be heard without judgement.
The couple and individual work has included working with divorce and separation, affairs, extended family issues, parenting, illness, work pressures, communication issues and sexual problems.
I aim to offer a confidential and safe therapeutic space where issues can be identified and worked through ethically until an agreed ending. I work using an integrative psychodynamic approach tailoring the sessions to each client and their needs. I am a fully qualified supervisor and can supervise trainee or qualified counsellors.
The couple and individual work has included working with divorce and separation, affairs, extended family issues, parenting, illness, work pressures, communication issues and sexual problems.
I aim to offer a confidential and safe therapeutic space where issues can be identified and worked through ethically until an agreed ending. I work using an integrative psychodynamic approach tailoring the sessions to each client and their needs. I am a fully qualified supervisor and can supervise trainee or qualified counsellors.
Integrative Psychotherapist, Highgate · Barnet · Online.
If life feels overwhelming, anxious, or stuck, Maybe you’re scrolling through other people’s careers, relationships, and milestones, feeling pressure. I help to untangle the anxiety, and self‑criticism.
I help you make sense of what’s going on and find a way through. Whether you’re an adult at a crossroads, a parent at capacity, or a young person whose needs don’t fit mainstream approaches.
I’m curious, approachable, creative, and honest. I often use humour and sometimes a touch of colourful language!
Integrative Psychotherapist, Highgate · Barnet · Online.
If life feels overwhelming, anxious, or stuck, Maybe you’re scrolling through other people’s careers, relationships, and milestones, feeling pressure. I help to untangle the anxiety, and self‑criticism.
I help you make sense of what’s going on and find a way through. Whether you’re an adult at a crossroads, a parent at capacity, or a young person whose needs don’t fit mainstream approaches.
I’m curious, approachable, creative, and honest. I often use humour and sometimes a touch of colourful language!
Maclynn is an international award winning matchmaking agency and dating consultancy service. Our clients are successful men and women who seek a compatible long term partner and do not find dating apps an effective way of finding a partner. We work with clients who are based in the UK or internationally - helping them to find a compatible, long term partner, through our matchmaking and date coaching services.
Maclynn is an international award winning matchmaking agency and dating consultancy service. Our clients are successful men and women who seek a compatible long term partner and do not find dating apps an effective way of finding a partner. We work with clients who are based in the UK or internationally - helping them to find a compatible, long term partner, through our matchmaking and date coaching services.
A calm online space for exhausted professional women to put it all down and come back to themselves.
You hold everything together. You're the one who remembers, plans, anticipates and smooths things over — competent on the outside, quietly exhausted underneath. The emotional labour rarely stops, and somewhere along the way you stopped feeling like yourself.
Often there's more underneath — old relationship patterns, a difficult or controlling past, a nervous system stuck on high alert. You don't need to be fixed. You need somewhere safe to finally set it down, and a steady hand to help you find your way back.
A calm online space for exhausted professional women to put it all down and come back to themselves.
You hold everything together. You're the one who remembers, plans, anticipates and smooths things over — competent on the outside, quietly exhausted underneath. The emotional labour rarely stops, and somewhere along the way you stopped feeling like yourself.
Often there's more underneath — old relationship patterns, a difficult or controlling past, a nervous system stuck on high alert. You don't need to be fixed. You need somewhere safe to finally set it down, and a steady hand to help you find your way back.
You might find yourself in pain. Perhaps there is a specific loss, trauma, something that hurts you and makes you want to seek out help. Or perhaps you are looking to address concerns, thoughts or emotions that have caused distress for a while. Maybe you just need help understanding something. I offer a non-judgmental, safe and containing space where the relationship is at the core of all of what we do. Together we will talk, find out what you are looking to achieve, and then we explore your inner world and past together seeking insight that often can help people with emotional growth and help provide answers sought out for so long
You might find yourself in pain. Perhaps there is a specific loss, trauma, something that hurts you and makes you want to seek out help. Or perhaps you are looking to address concerns, thoughts or emotions that have caused distress for a while. Maybe you just need help understanding something. I offer a non-judgmental, safe and containing space where the relationship is at the core of all of what we do. Together we will talk, find out what you are looking to achieve, and then we explore your inner world and past together seeking insight that often can help people with emotional growth and help provide answers sought out for so long
I offer specialised support as a psychotherapist and grief educator, focusing on the complex emotions associated with grief, loss, divorce, relationship breakdown, and bereavement.
I am a person-centred therapist, which means that I truly value and believe in your worth and potential. My main goal is to provide you with a safe and non-judgmental space where you can freely explore your thoughts, feelings, and experiences. I firmly believe that you are the expert of your own life and have the ability to grow and make positive changes. As your therapist, I am committed to working alongside you to help you gain insight, increase self-awareness, and make empowered choices. My aim is to support you on your journey towards greater self-understanding, self-acceptance
I offer specialised support as a psychotherapist and grief educator, focusing on the complex emotions associated with grief, loss, divorce, relationship breakdown, and bereavement.
I am a person-centred therapist, which means that I truly value and believe in your worth and potential. My main goal is to provide you with a safe and non-judgmental space where you can freely explore your thoughts, feelings, and experiences. I firmly believe that you are the expert of your own life and have the ability to grow and make positive changes. As your therapist, I am committed to working alongside you to help you gain insight, increase self-awareness, and make empowered choices. My aim is to support you on your journey towards greater self-understanding, self-acceptance
Problems with a particular relationship is often what brings individuals and couples to relationship counselling and psychotherapy. As an experienced counsellor and psychotherapist I offer a non judgmental space where we can think together about the interaction and the conflicts of this relationship, seek to understand the recurrent patterns of difficulties you are facing and resolve the underlying issues. Counselling and psychotherapy may involve exploring the past to the extent that it influences the present.
Problems with a particular relationship is often what brings individuals and couples to relationship counselling and psychotherapy. As an experienced counsellor and psychotherapist I offer a non judgmental space where we can think together about the interaction and the conflicts of this relationship, seek to understand the recurrent patterns of difficulties you are facing and resolve the underlying issues. Counselling and psychotherapy may involve exploring the past to the extent that it influences the present.
Nearby Divorce Counsellors Searches for Shenley
- Borehamwood
- Bricket Wood
- Bushey
- Cuffley
- Edgware
- London Colney
- Potters Bar
- Radlett
- St Albans
- Stanmore
- Watford
- Wheathampstead
Divorce Counsellors
How does therapy for people affected by a divorce work?
Individuals may feel a number of emotions following a divorce, such as shock, guilt, grief, anger, and fear. Therapists offer a non-judgmental space for individuals to talk about what they’ve experienced and process their emotions. Therapists will help clients develop coping strategies. They can also help a client rebuild their sense of self and self-worth and talk about what a happier future might look like.
What’s the most common type of therapy following a divorce?
There are several types of therapy that may be useful for divorce, including cognitive behavioural, acceptance and commitment, solution-focused brief, and mindfulness-based therapies. Many therapy types are talk-therapy based, which is typically the most popular option for individuals dealing with divorce. Cognitive behavioural therapy is a widely-used talk therapy, however, there’s no specific therapy type that’s designed to help people with divorce, and different types will work depending on the person.
When should an individual seek help due to a divorce?
When the feelings of a divorced individual, or an individual going through the process of divorce, begin to disrupt healthy daily functioning, it may be a good time to look into therapy. If a person finds that they are not performing at work due to problems with anxiety or motivation, if they’re no longer seeing friends due to feelings of shame, or if they’re not properly taking care of themselves as a result of depression, speaking to a professional could help.
How do you encourage someone to go to therapy due to a divorce?
It’s helpful to express concern and love for the individual while framing therapy as a tool for improving their life. Sharing how the individual appears to be suffering, and what effects it has on them or on their children, should be done with compassion and empathy. It may be useful to devise a game plan—breaking the process down into parts, such as finding a therapist, making appointments, and looking into insurance coverage.