Domestic Abuse Counselling in Ruislip
My experience includes working with anxiety, loss, shame, domestic abuse, and identity.
I am an integrative counsellor based in Pinner and Ruislip working with anxiety, relationship difficulties, low self-esteem, trauma, and the impact of past or abusive relationships. Many people come to therapy feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or unseen, carrying things they’ve held inside for a long time. You may be struggling with difficult relationships, motherhood, identity, or life transitions. Therapy offers a space to slow down, feel heard, and reflect at your own pace. You’re very welcome to get in touch to see whether working together feels like the right fit.
My experience includes working with anxiety, loss, shame, domestic abuse, and identity.
I am an integrative counsellor based in Pinner and Ruislip working with anxiety, relationship difficulties, low self-esteem, trauma, and the impact of past or abusive relationships. Many people come to therapy feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or unseen, carrying things they’ve held inside for a long time. You may be struggling with difficult relationships, motherhood, identity, or life transitions. Therapy offers a space to slow down, feel heard, and reflect at your own pace. You’re very welcome to get in touch to see whether working together feels like the right fit.
As a Counsellor I work in a client led approach empathically catering towards the clients needs and goals. My approach is Psychodynamic that means I can help clients deal with the unresolved issues of their past to possibly make sense with the present. Life can be confusing and scary at times making one feel stuck and lost, much like being in a storm .I can help clients find their way through the storm so that they can eventually achieve some sort of clarity and begin to cope with the challenges of every day life.
As a Counsellor I work in a client led approach empathically catering towards the clients needs and goals. My approach is Psychodynamic that means I can help clients deal with the unresolved issues of their past to possibly make sense with the present. Life can be confusing and scary at times making one feel stuck and lost, much like being in a storm .I can help clients find their way through the storm so that they can eventually achieve some sort of clarity and begin to cope with the challenges of every day life.
My area of work includes supporting people with mental health issues such as depression, anxiety disorders, self-harm, social and general anxiety, friendship and relationship difficulties, divorce or separation, emotional difficulties, emotional and physical abuse, trauma, bereavement, loss, post traumatic stress disorder, low self-esteem and bullying.
I’m an integrative counsellor, which means I don’t believe there’s one “right” tool for every person. I draw from a range of therapeutic approaches and tailor our work to you. Sometimes that means talking things through in depth. Other times it means working more creatively or practically, especially when feelings are hard to put into words.
My area of work includes supporting people with mental health issues such as depression, anxiety disorders, self-harm, social and general anxiety, friendship and relationship difficulties, divorce or separation, emotional difficulties, emotional and physical abuse, trauma, bereavement, loss, post traumatic stress disorder, low self-esteem and bullying.
I’m an integrative counsellor, which means I don’t believe there’s one “right” tool for every person. I draw from a range of therapeutic approaches and tailor our work to you. Sometimes that means talking things through in depth. Other times it means working more creatively or practically, especially when feelings are hard to put into words.
My area of interests are personal and cultural identity challenges and concerns, spirituality, trauma and life transition (new job, moving in or out of a relationship, new parent etc.) I work with Individuals, couples and families who are willing to challenge themselves towards becoming their best selves.
My area of interests are personal and cultural identity challenges and concerns, spirituality, trauma and life transition (new job, moving in or out of a relationship, new parent etc.) I work with Individuals, couples and families who are willing to challenge themselves towards becoming their best selves.
I am Dr. Uzaina, a Practitioner Counselling Psychologist with over a decade of experience in evidence-based therapies, including CBT, trauma-informed care, Autism and ADHD assessments. I specialize in supporting individuals, families, and neurodiverse children.
My ideal client seeks support for challenges like anxiety, trauma, or parenting a neurodiverse child. They want a safe space to explore struggles, gain tools, and build resilience.
I empower clients to overcome obstacles, break unhelpful patterns, and achieve meaningful change in a supportive and collaborative environment. Let’s take the first step together.
I am Dr. Uzaina, a Practitioner Counselling Psychologist with over a decade of experience in evidence-based therapies, including CBT, trauma-informed care, Autism and ADHD assessments. I specialize in supporting individuals, families, and neurodiverse children.
My ideal client seeks support for challenges like anxiety, trauma, or parenting a neurodiverse child. They want a safe space to explore struggles, gain tools, and build resilience.
I empower clients to overcome obstacles, break unhelpful patterns, and achieve meaningful change in a supportive and collaborative environment. Let’s take the first step together.
A warm welcome! I am an accredited Relationship, Psychosexual, Trauma Therapist, Supervisor and ATSAC Trustee. You could be looking for an understanding, a solution or a change. I can support you find that in a space where you feel comfortable to express your inner worries, process concerns and choose ways which may serve you better overall. You may address issues as an Individual or within a Family or Relationship setting; or your concerns may be more intimate entailing a Psychosexual or Sexual Addiction/Compulsivity issue. “There is no such thing as a problem without a gift for you in its hands.” ― Richard Bach, author (1936-)
A warm welcome! I am an accredited Relationship, Psychosexual, Trauma Therapist, Supervisor and ATSAC Trustee. You could be looking for an understanding, a solution or a change. I can support you find that in a space where you feel comfortable to express your inner worries, process concerns and choose ways which may serve you better overall. You may address issues as an Individual or within a Family or Relationship setting; or your concerns may be more intimate entailing a Psychosexual or Sexual Addiction/Compulsivity issue. “There is no such thing as a problem without a gift for you in its hands.” ― Richard Bach, author (1936-)
Clinical Telehealth - Video - Audio and Web-Chat Therapy Worldwide.
A safe compassionate and confidential therapeutic space for individuals, couples, families and organisations.
I work with mild, moderate and complex trauma as well as relationship difficulties, mediation, workplace stress, communication skills and personal and professional development.
Specialist Services:
1. Clinical Supervision for trainees and Qualified Practitioners - Fast Track qualifications and accreditation with confidence.
2. AI Therapist Coach : AI Safety, Ethics and AI Obsession and 'Machine-God' delusion mental health restoration.
Clinical Telehealth - Video - Audio and Web-Chat Therapy Worldwide.
A safe compassionate and confidential therapeutic space for individuals, couples, families and organisations.
I work with mild, moderate and complex trauma as well as relationship difficulties, mediation, workplace stress, communication skills and personal and professional development.
Specialist Services:
1. Clinical Supervision for trainees and Qualified Practitioners - Fast Track qualifications and accreditation with confidence.
2. AI Therapist Coach : AI Safety, Ethics and AI Obsession and 'Machine-God' delusion mental health restoration.
I understand that choosing a therapist can be overwhelming, and reaching out for help might feel challenging. I commend your decision to explore counseling, as you truly deserve the support you seek. To ease the process, I offer a free 15-minute consultation with no obligation to continue.
Life can indeed feel heavy at times, but please know that you are not alone. I am here to listen to you without judgment, offering empathy, acceptance and compassion. Together, we will discover a path that feels right for you. My goal is to support you on this journey, nurturing your emotional well-being as you pursue healing and personal growth.
I understand that choosing a therapist can be overwhelming, and reaching out for help might feel challenging. I commend your decision to explore counseling, as you truly deserve the support you seek. To ease the process, I offer a free 15-minute consultation with no obligation to continue.
Life can indeed feel heavy at times, but please know that you are not alone. I am here to listen to you without judgment, offering empathy, acceptance and compassion. Together, we will discover a path that feels right for you. My goal is to support you on this journey, nurturing your emotional well-being as you pursue healing and personal growth.
I work with people experiencing anxiety, stress, anger and burnout. Typically my clients are outwardly coping but internally tense, overthinking or exhausted. This can show up as snapping at family, constant worry, difficulty switching off after work, loss of confidence, panic symptoms, or feeling stuck despite doing everything expected of them. By understanding yourself in terms of thoughts, feelings, and behaviours, you can consider change, and create your own action plan on how you can live your life better, in the way you want to.
I work with people experiencing anxiety, stress, anger and burnout. Typically my clients are outwardly coping but internally tense, overthinking or exhausted. This can show up as snapping at family, constant worry, difficulty switching off after work, loss of confidence, panic symptoms, or feeling stuck despite doing everything expected of them. By understanding yourself in terms of thoughts, feelings, and behaviours, you can consider change, and create your own action plan on how you can live your life better, in the way you want to.
You’re holding it all together, but only just. Maybe you’ve had a panic attack in the toilet at work. Maybe you’ve asked ChatGPT to help untangle your brain.
You feel everything so deeply. The tiniest thing tips you over. Everyone’s got an opinion about what you should do, but you don’t even know who you are anymore. Maybe you've been carrying things alone for a while and masking how hard it’s been just to get through the day. You might feel like you're "too much" and still feel "not good enough". You're not broken. You’ve been thinking about therapy. Now you’re here, wondering if anyone will really get it.
You’re holding it all together, but only just. Maybe you’ve had a panic attack in the toilet at work. Maybe you’ve asked ChatGPT to help untangle your brain.
You feel everything so deeply. The tiniest thing tips you over. Everyone’s got an opinion about what you should do, but you don’t even know who you are anymore. Maybe you've been carrying things alone for a while and masking how hard it’s been just to get through the day. You might feel like you're "too much" and still feel "not good enough". You're not broken. You’ve been thinking about therapy. Now you’re here, wondering if anyone will really get it.
When life feels harder than it looks
Putting on a front just to keep going can be deeply exhausting. Life can take its toll, and the effort of managing strong emotions while navigating day-to-day life can leave you feeling lost, emotionally drained, or disconnected from others - and even from yourself.
Anxiety, intense emotions, or ongoing stress can make it harder to feel close in relationships, affecting your confidence and sometimes leaving you feeling misunderstood. You may also notice that things which once brought you joy no longer feel the same, and everyday life can begin to feel more difficult to manage. It’s not easy.
When life feels harder than it looks
Putting on a front just to keep going can be deeply exhausting. Life can take its toll, and the effort of managing strong emotions while navigating day-to-day life can leave you feeling lost, emotionally drained, or disconnected from others - and even from yourself.
Anxiety, intense emotions, or ongoing stress can make it harder to feel close in relationships, affecting your confidence and sometimes leaving you feeling misunderstood. You may also notice that things which once brought you joy no longer feel the same, and everyday life can begin to feel more difficult to manage. It’s not easy.
Are you existing rather than living?
Not fulfilling your potential?
Is your anxiety holding you back from a more rewarding life?
Therapeutic Coaching could be just the answer. This blends talk therapy with CBT life-coaching techniques to help people heal & thrive.
Who Can It help?
Anyone needing coping strategies for anxiety, relationship issues, grief or ADHD or anyone struggling to feel any joy or hope.
What to Expect:
Honest conversation, a focus on your strengths & values and gentle challenge about negative beliefs. Once you find 'you' again the coaching can open the way towards living the life you were meant to have.
Are you existing rather than living?
Not fulfilling your potential?
Is your anxiety holding you back from a more rewarding life?
Therapeutic Coaching could be just the answer. This blends talk therapy with CBT life-coaching techniques to help people heal & thrive.
Who Can It help?
Anyone needing coping strategies for anxiety, relationship issues, grief or ADHD or anyone struggling to feel any joy or hope.
What to Expect:
Honest conversation, a focus on your strengths & values and gentle challenge about negative beliefs. Once you find 'you' again the coaching can open the way towards living the life you were meant to have.
Struggling with intrusive thoughts, constant worry, panic attacks, health anxiety, or distressing memories that won’t settle? You may feel trapped in cycles of overthinking, reassurance-seeking, avoidance, or emotional exhaustion that are starting to shrink your life and confidence. I’m Michael Paton, a CBT and EMDR-trained psychotherapist with over 10 years’ experience. I help people with OCD, anxiety disorders and trauma. My approach is structured, evidence-based and compassionate—focused on measurable progress, practical tools and lasting change, not just temporary relief.
Struggling with intrusive thoughts, constant worry, panic attacks, health anxiety, or distressing memories that won’t settle? You may feel trapped in cycles of overthinking, reassurance-seeking, avoidance, or emotional exhaustion that are starting to shrink your life and confidence. I’m Michael Paton, a CBT and EMDR-trained psychotherapist with over 10 years’ experience. I help people with OCD, anxiety disorders and trauma. My approach is structured, evidence-based and compassionate—focused on measurable progress, practical tools and lasting change, not just temporary relief.
I specialise in substance misuse, mental illness and Domestic Violence.
Life is an adventure. Only through exploring a new path, the strength you will feel tomorrow will move you forward for that change. Reaching out can be overwhelming, daunting draining & can lead to a downward spiral, of being in a dark place, if you do not have the support, which pushes you to your comfort zone. This can sometimes be more harmful than helpful to your journey of change, if you cannot trust, feel uncomfortable to open up, or have no one that really listens to your cries, as you feel you are seen, but not heard, undervalued or not acknowledged. Let alone checked in, if you are okay. Well guess what? YOU are not alone.
I specialise in substance misuse, mental illness and Domestic Violence.
Life is an adventure. Only through exploring a new path, the strength you will feel tomorrow will move you forward for that change. Reaching out can be overwhelming, daunting draining & can lead to a downward spiral, of being in a dark place, if you do not have the support, which pushes you to your comfort zone. This can sometimes be more harmful than helpful to your journey of change, if you cannot trust, feel uncomfortable to open up, or have no one that really listens to your cries, as you feel you are seen, but not heard, undervalued or not acknowledged. Let alone checked in, if you are okay. Well guess what? YOU are not alone.
I have experience of working with clients experiencing stress, anxiety, low self esteem, overthinking, depression, Trauma/ PTSD, domestic violence, anger (your anger or others) & bereavement.
Welcome, my name is Suzanne. I work with individuals, couples and families. I am a am a straight talking, open minded and warm person. You can discuss anything and I will carefully listen to you and look at issues from your perspective. Together we can explore what is happening for you. For our therapy to work, our relationship, me as a person, and my years of experience in counselling, are key factors enabling me to help you. I am a person who will always work with your unique situation using an Integrative approach. With counselling I feel that it should be one step at a time. Have as many or as few sessions as you like.
I have experience of working with clients experiencing stress, anxiety, low self esteem, overthinking, depression, Trauma/ PTSD, domestic violence, anger (your anger or others) & bereavement.
Welcome, my name is Suzanne. I work with individuals, couples and families. I am a am a straight talking, open minded and warm person. You can discuss anything and I will carefully listen to you and look at issues from your perspective. Together we can explore what is happening for you. For our therapy to work, our relationship, me as a person, and my years of experience in counselling, are key factors enabling me to help you. I am a person who will always work with your unique situation using an Integrative approach. With counselling I feel that it should be one step at a time. Have as many or as few sessions as you like.
I offer a warm, confidential space in my cosy private garden room in Uxbridge, where you can talk openly about how you’re feeling.
We can explore concerns you may find difficult to share with others, including anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, and relationship difficulties. Your experiences are unique, and I will work with you at your own pace.
Life events can leave a lasting emotional impact. Through thoughtful exploration in our sessions, you can begin to make sense of your experiences, helping you process difficult thoughts and emotions and move towards feeling more balanced and supported.
I offer a warm, confidential space in my cosy private garden room in Uxbridge, where you can talk openly about how you’re feeling.
We can explore concerns you may find difficult to share with others, including anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, and relationship difficulties. Your experiences are unique, and I will work with you at your own pace.
Life events can leave a lasting emotional impact. Through thoughtful exploration in our sessions, you can begin to make sense of your experiences, helping you process difficult thoughts and emotions and move towards feeling more balanced and supported.
On the outside, you look calm and capable. Inside, you are running on empty, quietly carrying burnout, anxiety, and the pressure to hold it all together. You may have spent years adapting, coping, or masking, while privately feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, or exhausted underneath. I provide a warm, engaged, and collaborative space for adults navigating anxiety, trauma, and repeating relationship patterns. My approach is deeply relational, trauma-informed, and grounded in understanding the nervous system, paying close attention to how stress and past experiences shape both your mind and body.
On the outside, you look calm and capable. Inside, you are running on empty, quietly carrying burnout, anxiety, and the pressure to hold it all together. You may have spent years adapting, coping, or masking, while privately feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, or exhausted underneath. I provide a warm, engaged, and collaborative space for adults navigating anxiety, trauma, and repeating relationship patterns. My approach is deeply relational, trauma-informed, and grounded in understanding the nervous system, paying close attention to how stress and past experiences shape both your mind and body.
In a fast-paced and often disconnected world, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed or stuck. You might be managing anxiety, navigating a life transition, or questioning your sense of self. Therapy offers a space to reconnect—with yourself, your values, and your capacity for change. I offer a grounded, relational approach to help you move forward with clarity and confidence.
Whether you're seeking support for emotional wellbeing, healing from trauma, or wanting to understand patterns of feelings and behaviours that are affecting your daily life, a confidential space where you can feel heard, understood, and supported.
In a fast-paced and often disconnected world, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed or stuck. You might be managing anxiety, navigating a life transition, or questioning your sense of self. Therapy offers a space to reconnect—with yourself, your values, and your capacity for change. I offer a grounded, relational approach to help you move forward with clarity and confidence.
Whether you're seeking support for emotional wellbeing, healing from trauma, or wanting to understand patterns of feelings and behaviours that are affecting your daily life, a confidential space where you can feel heard, understood, and supported.
Relationships can be difficult, miscommunication & misattunement of emotions can create patterns of behaviour that can lead to a lack of connectiveness & blocks to intimancy. This can trigger a fight or flight response & the cycle continues. In therapy you can learn to communicate your care seeking & care giving needs in a clear way & change the relationship to a more secure & attuned base. You'll learn the skills to listen to each other & navigate the ruptures & repairs that are part of all relationships. I will work to provide a safe & non biased space for you to resolve them together & decide the best way forward.
Relationships can be difficult, miscommunication & misattunement of emotions can create patterns of behaviour that can lead to a lack of connectiveness & blocks to intimancy. This can trigger a fight or flight response & the cycle continues. In therapy you can learn to communicate your care seeking & care giving needs in a clear way & change the relationship to a more secure & attuned base. You'll learn the skills to listen to each other & navigate the ruptures & repairs that are part of all relationships. I will work to provide a safe & non biased space for you to resolve them together & decide the best way forward.
How often do you find yourself thinking..... I don't know who I am any more'....'I just want to feel normal again'....'I feel angry all the time'...'I am a born worrier'... Most of the time we think that we feel this way because of events such as stress at work, problems in relationship, a loss (relationship, financial, job) or bereavement. Whatever the reason, over time you may find yourself thinking 'there must be more to life than this'. Counselling provides a confidential, non-judgemental space where I facilitate a process of self-awareness and understanding and where you feel safe to openly share what is affecting you.
How often do you find yourself thinking..... I don't know who I am any more'....'I just want to feel normal again'....'I feel angry all the time'...'I am a born worrier'... Most of the time we think that we feel this way because of events such as stress at work, problems in relationship, a loss (relationship, financial, job) or bereavement. Whatever the reason, over time you may find yourself thinking 'there must be more to life than this'. Counselling provides a confidential, non-judgemental space where I facilitate a process of self-awareness and understanding and where you feel safe to openly share what is affecting you.
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Domestic Abuse Counsellors
What are the most effective ways to recover from domestic abuse?
Leaving an abusive relationship requires tremendous courage, so survivors in treatment should recognise that they have already completed the most important step. Still, the trauma of physical or emotional abuse can be difficult to process and overcome. Therapy can help survivors process trauma, grief, and difficult emotions, treat relevant mental health symptoms, and create a new framework for boundaries and relationships in the future. For some, support groups can also be an invaluable outlet for healing.
When should an individual seek help for domestic abuse?
Victims of intimate partner violence should seek help immediately. It can take substantial time, planning, energy, and courage to leave an abusive relationship, but starting the process—by seeking therapy, calling the domestic violence hotline, or simply confiding in a loved one—will help them get there. Those who have left abusive relationships but haven’t sought treatment can also greatly benefit from therapy to process and heal from the experience.
What are the consequences of staying in an abusive relationship?
Remaining in an abusive relationship has serious repercussions. In addition to the ongoing threat of physical danger and emotional abuse, research shows that intimate partner violence is associated with a range of mental health disorders including depression, post-traumatic stress disorder, anxiety, and substance abuse. Therefore it’s important for individuals in an abusive relationship to seek help as soon as possible.
How can you get domestic abuse treatment for someone else?
It can be very complicated to identify and leave an abusive relationship; barriers include the threat of violence, financial instability, and family pressures. Those concerned about a loved one in an abusive relationship should talk to them about the situation, provide them with resources such as the domestic violence hotline, and introduce the idea of seeing a therapist due to their concern for the person’s safety and well-being.