Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Counselling in Rugby

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Jay McCarthy
Counsellor, MA, MNCPS Acc.
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I am sex worker allied, kink aware, and poly affirming.
The world feels really heavy right now. War, climate crisis, the rise of the far right, skyrocketing bills. And then there's your own personal struggles that you're trying to weather. If you're depressed, burnt out, or feeling overwhelmed, I offer a space to bring all of that - openly - without judgement. I am experienced in counselling LGBTQ+, neurodivergent (inc. autistic, BPD & ADHD) and chronically ill clients. I take a person-centred approach, not seeing you as broken or in need of fixing, but rather supporting you to make sense of what you're going through, and helping you figure out a way forward that really works for you.
I am sex worker allied, kink aware, and poly affirming.
The world feels really heavy right now. War, climate crisis, the rise of the far right, skyrocketing bills. And then there's your own personal struggles that you're trying to weather. If you're depressed, burnt out, or feeling overwhelmed, I offer a space to bring all of that - openly - without judgement. I am experienced in counselling LGBTQ+, neurodivergent (inc. autistic, BPD & ADHD) and chronically ill clients. I take a person-centred approach, not seeing you as broken or in need of fixing, but rather supporting you to make sense of what you're going through, and helping you figure out a way forward that really works for you.
07737 426052 View 07737 426052
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The Purple House Clinic Rugby
Psychologist, CPsychol
Rugby CV21
Dr Kemp has expertise in working with adults experiencing mental health difficulties including depression, anxiety, post traumatic stress, grief and loss, adjustment difficulties and physical health difficulties (e.g. long term conditions / medical trauma / psychosexual difficulties).
Dr Kemp has expertise in working with adults experiencing mental health difficulties including depression, anxiety, post traumatic stress, grief and loss, adjustment difficulties and physical health difficulties (e.g. long term conditions / medical trauma / psychosexual difficulties).
01788 227939 View 01788 227939
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The Purple House Clinic, Rugby
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Rugby CV21
Dr Poole has expertise in working with adults experiencing mental health difficulties including depression, anxiety, post traumatic stress, stress, grief and loss, relationship issues, adjustment difficulties and physical health difficulties (e.g. long term conditions / medical trauma / psychosexual difficulties).
Dr Poole has expertise in working with adults experiencing mental health difficulties including depression, anxiety, post traumatic stress, stress, grief and loss, relationship issues, adjustment difficulties and physical health difficulties (e.g. long term conditions / medical trauma / psychosexual difficulties).
01788 227957 View 01788 227957
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Sandro @ Crystal Layers Therapy
Psychotherapist, MA, COSRT General
2 Endorsed
Rugby CV21
My philosophy is ' Sex positive', on the topics of health, sexuality and pleasure with respect and NOT shame, NOT guilt,
I am a Clinical Sexologist and Relationship Therapist, aim to provide a safe and secure place to individual, couples and poly-lovers. I work with GSRD (Gender, Sex and Relationship Diversity) & LGTBQ+ individuals. I understand microaggressions on client’s stories and attuned with expressions of distress. The therapy I offer helps to connect with your own narrative, normalising those sexual fears, Shame and Guiltiness learnt from a judgemental society. To create your own relationship rather than mimic others. To Accept the human you are with your own super flaws and super powers - 'Courage is the first step to freedom'
My philosophy is ' Sex positive', on the topics of health, sexuality and pleasure with respect and NOT shame, NOT guilt,
I am a Clinical Sexologist and Relationship Therapist, aim to provide a safe and secure place to individual, couples and poly-lovers. I work with GSRD (Gender, Sex and Relationship Diversity) & LGTBQ+ individuals. I understand microaggressions on client’s stories and attuned with expressions of distress. The therapy I offer helps to connect with your own narrative, normalising those sexual fears, Shame and Guiltiness learnt from a judgemental society. To create your own relationship rather than mimic others. To Accept the human you are with your own super flaws and super powers - 'Courage is the first step to freedom'
020 3597 6732 View 020 3597 6732
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Bea Xu
Psychotherapist, MUKCP
3 Endorsed
Online Only
The service I offer is queer-, kink-, ENM-friendly and culturally sensitive.
As someone who experienced a profound alignment to my artistic path and community in recent years after what felt like a lifetime of painful trial and error, I am particularly invested in helping individuals who wish to self-actualise any frustrated creative potential or uncover a calling. The transpersonal aspect of psychotherapy deals with a spiritual dimension of the human experience (not necessarily one that is religious) and in this capacity I hope to assist with people undergoing spiritual emergency.
The service I offer is queer-, kink-, ENM-friendly and culturally sensitive.
As someone who experienced a profound alignment to my artistic path and community in recent years after what felt like a lifetime of painful trial and error, I am particularly invested in helping individuals who wish to self-actualise any frustrated creative potential or uncover a calling. The transpersonal aspect of psychotherapy deals with a spiritual dimension of the human experience (not necessarily one that is religious) and in this capacity I hope to assist with people undergoing spiritual emergency.
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Charlotte Perry
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
5 Endorsed
Serves Area
If you feel like you're wanting to make changes in your life but aren't sure where to start - or you're trying, but it isn't working out the way you thought it would - I can help. Have you been through something that's still sitting with you, even though you want to move past it? Counselling may be the answer to getting you to where you want to be.
If you feel like you're wanting to make changes in your life but aren't sure where to start - or you're trying, but it isn't working out the way you thought it would - I can help. Have you been through something that's still sitting with you, even though you want to move past it? Counselling may be the answer to getting you to where you want to be.
01926 895918 View 01926 895918
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Swan Counselling Services - Tracey Cooper
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
It can seem like the hardest thing to do to access counselling, but it can be life changing if you take that first step. You may not be entirely clear on what you want but just have a feeling that things don't feel right and you have decided that you want to understand what, why and how to refocus and live the life you feel is best for you. Or perhaps you are very aware of a struggle with difficulties, which may already be formally diagnosed by another professional, and you want to regain some control instead of feeling that these issues take over. I can support people in achieving their goals wherever they are in their journey.
It can seem like the hardest thing to do to access counselling, but it can be life changing if you take that first step. You may not be entirely clear on what you want but just have a feeling that things don't feel right and you have decided that you want to understand what, why and how to refocus and live the life you feel is best for you. Or perhaps you are very aware of a struggle with difficulties, which may already be formally diagnosed by another professional, and you want to regain some control instead of feeling that these issues take over. I can support people in achieving their goals wherever they are in their journey.
01455 247702 View 01455 247702

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Laura Jayne Nice
Counsellor, MBACP
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
I'm sex positive, sex worker allied and have experience of kink dynamics.
I have found that interpersonal relationship issues often intersect with deeper themes, such as patterns of relating formed in childhood, feelings of anxiety or overwhelm, identity exploration, or a sense of being stuck. I aim to provide a safe, non-judgmental space where we can explore these interconnected areas together and work toward positive change.
I'm sex positive, sex worker allied and have experience of kink dynamics.
I have found that interpersonal relationship issues often intersect with deeper themes, such as patterns of relating formed in childhood, feelings of anxiety or overwhelm, identity exploration, or a sense of being stuck. I aim to provide a safe, non-judgmental space where we can explore these interconnected areas together and work toward positive change.
020 3828 7396 View 020 3828 7396
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Kaitlyn Hillier
Psychologist, PhD, CPsychol
Online Only
I have experience working with anxiety, grief, depression, interpersonal-relational issues, intimacy, sexuality, self-confidence, self-esteem, self-awareness, and personality. I am committed to anti-oppressive practice, freedom from judgement or marginalization, and empowerment. I have experience working with the LGBTQIA + community and with issues relating to Sexuality and Alternative sexual lifestyles. I have underwent specialty training in sex therapy. I also have experience with dreams, symbolism, and depth psychologies.
I have experience working with anxiety, grief, depression, interpersonal-relational issues, intimacy, sexuality, self-confidence, self-esteem, self-awareness, and personality. I am committed to anti-oppressive practice, freedom from judgement or marginalization, and empowerment. I have experience working with the LGBTQIA + community and with issues relating to Sexuality and Alternative sexual lifestyles. I have underwent specialty training in sex therapy. I also have experience with dreams, symbolism, and depth psychologies.
01384 437929 View 01384 437929
Photo of Dawn Walters - Andrelax, Psychotherapist, MHGI
Andrelax
Psychotherapist, MHGI
Serves Area
Human givens practitioners offer practical, solution-focused help that deals with mental and emotional distress in the here and now. They won’t waste time just endlessly listening to you or attempting to dredge up real or imagined miserable memories from the past. Nor do they deal in time-wasting so-called voyages of ‘self-discovery’… Their psychotherapy training ensures that they have a sound body of evidence-based knowledge and the proven skills to help both adults and children as quickly as possible with a wide variety of emotional and behavioural difficulties.
Human givens practitioners offer practical, solution-focused help that deals with mental and emotional distress in the here and now. They won’t waste time just endlessly listening to you or attempting to dredge up real or imagined miserable memories from the past. Nor do they deal in time-wasting so-called voyages of ‘self-discovery’… Their psychotherapy training ensures that they have a sound body of evidence-based knowledge and the proven skills to help both adults and children as quickly as possible with a wide variety of emotional and behavioural difficulties.
0115 697 1253 View 0115 697 1253
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Trusted Therapy LTD
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
My name is Leanne and I am an Integrative therapist with a Person-Centred core, offering a warm, non-judgmental space to explore anxiety, overthinking, trauma, grief, and relationship challenges. I draw on CBT, Psychodynamic, Narrative, and Solution-Focused approaches to support adults, children, and young people. I also offer clinical supervision for trainee and qualified therapists. Whether you're feeling overwhelmed or seeking deeper self-understanding, I’m here to help you move forward with compassion and clarity.
My name is Leanne and I am an Integrative therapist with a Person-Centred core, offering a warm, non-judgmental space to explore anxiety, overthinking, trauma, grief, and relationship challenges. I draw on CBT, Psychodynamic, Narrative, and Solution-Focused approaches to support adults, children, and young people. I also offer clinical supervision for trainee and qualified therapists. Whether you're feeling overwhelmed or seeking deeper self-understanding, I’m here to help you move forward with compassion and clarity.
01637 801067 View 01637 801067
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Laurie May Atkinson
Psychotherapist, MSc, MNCPS Acc.
Online Only
My approach is passionately intersectional feminist and anti-oppressive and my practice is trauma informed, sex worker allied, kink aware and neuro-affirmative.
I work in an integrative approach, informed by person-centred principles, and I have completed further specialist training in working with gender, sexuality & relationship diversity, trauma-informed practice, and workplace issues. In my practice I see individuals, couples and non-monogamous partners
My approach is passionately intersectional feminist and anti-oppressive and my practice is trauma informed, sex worker allied, kink aware and neuro-affirmative.
I work in an integrative approach, informed by person-centred principles, and I have completed further specialist training in working with gender, sexuality & relationship diversity, trauma-informed practice, and workplace issues. In my practice I see individuals, couples and non-monogamous partners
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Ian Anderson
Psychologist, PhD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Online Only
I am a Chartered Psychologist registered with the HCPC with over 30 years of experience. I have worked in private practice with over two thousand patients and supervised more than 100 therapists. I am separately qualified in various fields of applied Psychology including Clinical Psychology, Forensic Psychology, Counselling Psychology and Occupational Psychology. I now deliver all my counselling and therapy by the following methods: video conferencing; telephone sessions; real-time online chat; and email. I believe that matching the right therapy delivered by the right therapist to an individual is the key to therapeutic success.
I am a Chartered Psychologist registered with the HCPC with over 30 years of experience. I have worked in private practice with over two thousand patients and supervised more than 100 therapists. I am separately qualified in various fields of applied Psychology including Clinical Psychology, Forensic Psychology, Counselling Psychology and Occupational Psychology. I now deliver all my counselling and therapy by the following methods: video conferencing; telephone sessions; real-time online chat; and email. I believe that matching the right therapy delivered by the right therapist to an individual is the key to therapeutic success.
020 3879 4351 View 020 3879 4351
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Michael Henry
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Serves Area
you have ended up here... so let me just say that whatever you are going through can be surmounted... whatever need, issue or goal you have, you have all the resources you need to reach there... and I am confident that I can collaborate with you and help you get to that 'place' on the other side whereas this need, issue or goal can either be gone, managed or achieved...
you have ended up here... so let me just say that whatever you are going through can be surmounted... whatever need, issue or goal you have, you have all the resources you need to reach there... and I am confident that I can collaborate with you and help you get to that 'place' on the other side whereas this need, issue or goal can either be gone, managed or achieved...
020 8167 3627 View 020 8167 3627
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Abu Joe Mathews
Counsellor, MBACP
Welcome - I'm Abu, an integrative therapist. I offer a warm and supportive space where you can start to find meaning, change and a greater sense of ease. With curiosity and compassion, we can address the challenges you're experiencing at your own pace. I am trained in integrative counselling and work in a person-centred and relational way. My practice is trauma-informed and draws on parts work and creative techniques.
Welcome - I'm Abu, an integrative therapist. I offer a warm and supportive space where you can start to find meaning, change and a greater sense of ease. With curiosity and compassion, we can address the challenges you're experiencing at your own pace. I am trained in integrative counselling and work in a person-centred and relational way. My practice is trauma-informed and draws on parts work and creative techniques.
024 7542 0973 View 024 7542 0973
Photo of Linda Harris, Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
Linda Harris
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Podington NN29
This is popular for those who are unable to access Kink Aware therapists near them, overseas clients or those who travel frequently, clients who require a higher level of privacy due to being in the public eye, and people who are housebound due to disability
I have been working within the field of mental health for almost 30 years, predominantly within the NHS, and have a wealth of training and experience. I provide both long and short term counselling and psychotherapy for individuals and couples, and work to an exceptional standard of confidentiality. I work with a variety of problems and issues such as anxiety, depression, childhood trauma and relationship difficulties. However, if you'd like to discuss what is troubling you, you are very welcome to call or e-mail me before committing to making an appointment.
This is popular for those who are unable to access Kink Aware therapists near them, overseas clients or those who travel frequently, clients who require a higher level of privacy due to being in the public eye, and people who are housebound due to disability
I have been working within the field of mental health for almost 30 years, predominantly within the NHS, and have a wealth of training and experience. I provide both long and short term counselling and psychotherapy for individuals and couples, and work to an exceptional standard of confidentiality. I work with a variety of problems and issues such as anxiety, depression, childhood trauma and relationship difficulties. However, if you'd like to discuss what is troubling you, you are very welcome to call or e-mail me before committing to making an appointment.
01933 426197 View 01933 426197
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Black Psychotherapy
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Online Only
Black Psychotherapy is a Black and Global Majority mental health service based in Brixton and online, providing culturally attuned, low-cost therapy to individuals, couples and groups. We work with all mental health concerns and we specialise in supporting clients with the impact of racism, racial trauma, migration and intergenerational trauma. We're a multi-faith team of practitioners and we welcome those with multiple marginalised identities such as LGBTQ+ communities, neurodivergent and those with disabilities and chronic illness.
Black Psychotherapy is a Black and Global Majority mental health service based in Brixton and online, providing culturally attuned, low-cost therapy to individuals, couples and groups. We work with all mental health concerns and we specialise in supporting clients with the impact of racism, racial trauma, migration and intergenerational trauma. We're a multi-faith team of practitioners and we welcome those with multiple marginalised identities such as LGBTQ+ communities, neurodivergent and those with disabilities and chronic illness.
020 4538 9559 View 020 4538 9559
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Gerry Ritchie
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Serves Area
I am also BDSM/ Kink aware and have experience of working with clients from this community without assuming that their Kink is a pathology.
I have trained in a broad range of counselling and psychotherapy methods including Emotional Therapeutic Counselling (ETC), Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Neuro-linguistic Programming (NLP), Hypnotherapy and Sex Therapy. I believe in matching the therapeutic approach to the client as the client is the centre of the therapy.
I am also BDSM/ Kink aware and have experience of working with clients from this community without assuming that their Kink is a pathology.
I have trained in a broad range of counselling and psychotherapy methods including Emotional Therapeutic Counselling (ETC), Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Neuro-linguistic Programming (NLP), Hypnotherapy and Sex Therapy. I believe in matching the therapeutic approach to the client as the client is the centre of the therapy.
01242 395274 View 01242 395274
Photo of Michael F Harris, Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Michael F Harris
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Online Only
I'm Michael, a fully qualified therapist, governed by BACP, NCPS & BPS accredited counselling bodies. I offer Life and Wellness therapy in Bristol (and beyond) to individuals, couples, groups and companies. My Bristol Counselling practice (and beyond) is online, or by telephone, across English-speaking time zones, at a schedule that works for you. I help you find your Blazing Soul - balance and direction, clarity and focus, increased confidence and self-esteem, and improved mental, physical and emotional wealth.
I'm Michael, a fully qualified therapist, governed by BACP, NCPS & BPS accredited counselling bodies. I offer Life and Wellness therapy in Bristol (and beyond) to individuals, couples, groups and companies. My Bristol Counselling practice (and beyond) is online, or by telephone, across English-speaking time zones, at a schedule that works for you. I help you find your Blazing Soul - balance and direction, clarity and focus, increased confidence and self-esteem, and improved mental, physical and emotional wealth.
01454 803912 View 01454 803912
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Benjamin Stimpson
Counsellor, MBACP
Are you looking for a place you can unpack, vent, and then begin unravelling the issue you are facing? Working integratively, I bring skills to assist clients to engage with your work in a non-judgemental and safe place. I work with a diverse range of clients, but work a great deal with men, LGBTQ+ (particularly Trans and ENBY clients), neurodiverse, members of fetish communities, and North Americans living in the UK. Together we can face, unpack, and start to understand what you are working through.
Are you looking for a place you can unpack, vent, and then begin unravelling the issue you are facing? Working integratively, I bring skills to assist clients to engage with your work in a non-judgemental and safe place. I work with a diverse range of clients, but work a great deal with men, LGBTQ+ (particularly Trans and ENBY clients), neurodiverse, members of fetish communities, and North Americans living in the UK. Together we can face, unpack, and start to understand what you are working through.
01604 913889 View 01604 913889

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Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Counsellors
Why might an individual want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
A sex-positive or kinky individual may want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist because the client may feel safer and more supported discussing their experiences and challenges. A therapist who identifies as kink-friendly will have experience with clients having diverse sexual preferences and will likely be nonjudgmental and supportive about issues brought to the table. It is important to note that sex-positive, kink-allied individuals may find equal success with therapists who do not have such specialised knowledge and background. The most important factor in the success of therapy is for the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond.

Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in sex-positive, kink-allied treatment?
Generally, no. There are limited training programs and unofficial accreditations that therapists can pursue, but a therapist’s expertise will ultimately come from their previous experience with similar clients, their engagement with organisations that promote sex positivity or kink-allied lifestyles, and the importance they place on safety and cultural sensitivity.

How can individuals recognise a good sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
An experienced therapist is able to help clients explore their sexual identity and expression and relieve any discomfort or stigma attached to discussing such matters and the client’s overall challenges. A therapist who is sex-positive and kink-allied is able to create an environment that honors a client’s experience and sexual preferences. To recognise a good therapist, clients can simply ask directly about topics and issues important to them and gauge their comfort level and connection with a clinician based on the responses.

Can clients benefit from having a therapist with a focus on sex positivity and alternative sexual lifestyles?
Some individuals may feel most comfortable knowing that the clinician they’re working with has a commitment to creating an atmosphere of sex positivity and has experience with relationship diversity and alternative relationship structures. Working with a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist may help clients respect their own challenges and improve identity-affirming treatment.