Lesbian Counselling in Royston

Vanessa Gillespie
Psychotherapist, MUKCP
Royston SG8
I am a Jungian Psychoanalyst with a deep commitment to helping individuals navigate life’s transitions, relationship challenges and the journey towards wholeness. Drawing from Carl Jung’s analytical psychology I work with clients to explore the unconscious patterns that shape their lives, integrate shadow aspects of the psyche and discover their authentic path forward. My approach combines traditional Jungian methods with contemporary therapeutic practices, creating a safe and supportive environment where clients can explore dreams symbols and deeper meanings behind their struggles. I believe symptoms often carry important messages
I am a Jungian Psychoanalyst with a deep commitment to helping individuals navigate life’s transitions, relationship challenges and the journey towards wholeness. Drawing from Carl Jung’s analytical psychology I work with clients to explore the unconscious patterns that shape their lives, integrate shadow aspects of the psyche and discover their authentic path forward. My approach combines traditional Jungian methods with contemporary therapeutic practices, creating a safe and supportive environment where clients can explore dreams symbols and deeper meanings behind their struggles. I believe symptoms often carry important messages
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Maureen Park
Counsellor, MBACP
Royston SG8
There are times in our lives when we all need a little help. When things just become to much for us to handle alone. I can help you cope with a wide range of anxiety, emotional problems and relationship issues. From Bereavement, Depression, Stress and Anxiety, Family Issues, Addiction, Eating Disorders, Marriage Counselling to mention only a few. I am a BACP registered Psychodynamic Counsellor also using CBT and Mindfulness. I offer a caring professional and confidential counselling service in Biggleswade and Royston and have worked for many years in commerce and industry so understand the pressures of work place stress.
There are times in our lives when we all need a little help. When things just become to much for us to handle alone. I can help you cope with a wide range of anxiety, emotional problems and relationship issues. From Bereavement, Depression, Stress and Anxiety, Family Issues, Addiction, Eating Disorders, Marriage Counselling to mention only a few. I am a BACP registered Psychodynamic Counsellor also using CBT and Mindfulness. I offer a caring professional and confidential counselling service in Biggleswade and Royston and have worked for many years in commerce and industry so understand the pressures of work place stress.
01767 668784 View 01767 668784
Ruth Parchment
Psychotherapist, MA, MBABCP
Online Only
As a BABCP accredited CBT Therapist I have worked in various NHS and private settings: Anxiety, Depression, Panic, OCD, PTSD, Trauma, Perfectionism, Worry and Low Self Esteem are difficulties I regularly work with. Cultural sensitivity and diversity is important, including: Physical Health, LGBTQIA+, Ethnicity, Religion & other differences. I work with adults, young people and facilitate CBT groups (recently for social anxiety and also substance misuse). I'm open-minded, friendly, warm and approachable. I will help you learn useful strategies, tools and techniques; alongside providing space to process & understand yourself better
As a BABCP accredited CBT Therapist I have worked in various NHS and private settings: Anxiety, Depression, Panic, OCD, PTSD, Trauma, Perfectionism, Worry and Low Self Esteem are difficulties I regularly work with. Cultural sensitivity and diversity is important, including: Physical Health, LGBTQIA+, Ethnicity, Religion & other differences. I work with adults, young people and facilitate CBT groups (recently for social anxiety and also substance misuse). I'm open-minded, friendly, warm and approachable. I will help you learn useful strategies, tools and techniques; alongside providing space to process & understand yourself better
01223 941616 View 01223 941616

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Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy
Psychotherapist, MA, COSRT General
3 Endorsed
Serves Area
Sex and relationship difficulties can feel lonely, painful and hard to name. I am a Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist, often called a sex therapist, supporting couples, throuples and individuals online and in Essex. I work with low desire, mismatched desire, painful sex, erection or ejaculation difficulties, orgasm concerns, porn-related worries, affairs, secrecy, shame and relationship crisis. My approach is warm, practical and direct where helpful.
Sex and relationship difficulties can feel lonely, painful and hard to name. I am a Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist, often called a sex therapist, supporting couples, throuples and individuals online and in Essex. I work with low desire, mismatched desire, painful sex, erection or ejaculation difficulties, orgasm concerns, porn-related worries, affairs, secrecy, shame and relationship crisis. My approach is warm, practical and direct where helpful.
020 3909 9848 View 020 3909 9848
Marion Louise Fensome
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Brentwood CM15
Do you feel stuck, overwhelmed or disconnected? Maybe you are navigating anxiety, depression, bereavement, trauma, self-doubt , struggling to balance life's demands or struggling with your sexuality. Are you ready to take that courageous step towards change, even if it might feel daunting? Whether you are exploring identity, managing relationship challenges, healing from past trauma or trying to make sense of life's complexities , I am here to listen and help you move forward with your life, tailoring a plan to help you take back control and find emotional freedom and peace.
Do you feel stuck, overwhelmed or disconnected? Maybe you are navigating anxiety, depression, bereavement, trauma, self-doubt , struggling to balance life's demands or struggling with your sexuality. Are you ready to take that courageous step towards change, even if it might feel daunting? Whether you are exploring identity, managing relationship challenges, healing from past trauma or trying to make sense of life's complexities , I am here to listen and help you move forward with your life, tailoring a plan to help you take back control and find emotional freedom and peace.
01277 674415 View 01277 674415
Mary Mulherin
Psychotherapist, UKCP Trainee
2 Endorsed
London N20
Hi, I'm Mary (she/her), I'm passionate about supporting people with anxiety, suicidal thoughts, and relationship issues. Is your mind constantly racing, worrying whether you said or did the right thing? Wondering if people like you? Did you make the right decision? Do you find yourself beating yourself up when you feel like you've got something wrong and find it hard to let go of things. Maybe you find it hard to stand up for yourself. Life can be so overwhelming sometimes we can feel like we don't want to be here. It's exhausting isn't it! I'm guessing you're here because you're fed up and want something to change. I can help you.
Hi, I'm Mary (she/her), I'm passionate about supporting people with anxiety, suicidal thoughts, and relationship issues. Is your mind constantly racing, worrying whether you said or did the right thing? Wondering if people like you? Did you make the right decision? Do you find yourself beating yourself up when you feel like you've got something wrong and find it hard to let go of things. Maybe you find it hard to stand up for yourself. Life can be so overwhelming sometimes we can feel like we don't want to be here. It's exhausting isn't it! I'm guessing you're here because you're fed up and want something to change. I can help you.
01245 950493 View 01245 950493
Paula Hennighan-Finlay
Counsellor, MSc, MNCPS Acc.
Online Only
Hi I’m Paula. I offer specialist online counselling for Grief, Bereavement and Trauma. Struggling with sleep, appetite, anxiety or intrusive memories? With the right support you can start to reclaim your nights, learn how to process and manage the traumatic memories and flashbacks, find it easier to be less snappy with loved ones and enjoy your relationships with friends and family and regain the joy in life. It isn't enough to get by, you deserve to thrive and fully engage with life again. You don't have to navigate this alone. Secure online sessions available. I offer a free 20 minute introductory call.
Hi I’m Paula. I offer specialist online counselling for Grief, Bereavement and Trauma. Struggling with sleep, appetite, anxiety or intrusive memories? With the right support you can start to reclaim your nights, learn how to process and manage the traumatic memories and flashbacks, find it easier to be less snappy with loved ones and enjoy your relationships with friends and family and regain the joy in life. It isn't enough to get by, you deserve to thrive and fully engage with life again. You don't have to navigate this alone. Secure online sessions available. I offer a free 20 minute introductory call.
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Blue Room Counselling
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Bedford MK42
Are you feeling sad, lost, or overwhelmed? You might be facing relationship issues, a traumatic experience, or simply feel low without knowing why. It’s not always easy to carry these feelings alone. You may be looking for a space where you can talk openly and honestly, without judgment. My own experience of being in therapy showed me the power of feeling truly heard and accepted. That experience deeply informs how I work—with empathy, authenticity, and a commitment to creating a safe, respectful space.
Are you feeling sad, lost, or overwhelmed? You might be facing relationship issues, a traumatic experience, or simply feel low without knowing why. It’s not always easy to carry these feelings alone. You may be looking for a space where you can talk openly and honestly, without judgment. My own experience of being in therapy showed me the power of feeling truly heard and accepted. That experience deeply informs how I work—with empathy, authenticity, and a commitment to creating a safe, respectful space.
01234 607476 View 01234 607476
Chiltern Talking Therapies / Chiltern ADHD Clinic
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBABCP
Serves Area
Hi, I'm Jennie! I'm a CBT/EMDR Therapist and owner of Chiltern TT/ADHD Clinic. My Associates and I offer face to face or virtual CBT, EMDR, Counselling, Schema, Coaching and Art Therapy sessions and ADHD Assessments. We can support adults and young people with a wide range of difficulties. We are non-judgemental and have a wealth of experience between us, from working with addictions, offenders, children, clients with brain injuries and couples. I pride our team on being non-judgemental and accepting of individuals from a wide range of backgrounds. We all hold DBS checks and indemnity insurance, which you can view at any time.
Hi, I'm Jennie! I'm a CBT/EMDR Therapist and owner of Chiltern TT/ADHD Clinic. My Associates and I offer face to face or virtual CBT, EMDR, Counselling, Schema, Coaching and Art Therapy sessions and ADHD Assessments. We can support adults and young people with a wide range of difficulties. We are non-judgemental and have a wealth of experience between us, from working with addictions, offenders, children, clients with brain injuries and couples. I pride our team on being non-judgemental and accepting of individuals from a wide range of backgrounds. We all hold DBS checks and indemnity insurance, which you can view at any time.
01442 971728 View 01442 971728
Shaheen Walker
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
Hi - are you feeling stuck? Repeating the same patterns of behaviour again and again in your life or relationship and going around in circles? Do you feel a lack of love/respect from your partner or someone close to you? Is sex/intimacy or compulsive sexual behaviour an issue? Perhaps trauma, life changes, neurodiversity (adhd/asc) or difficult times have led to anxiety/depression, the trust has gone, or you're feeling sad, angry, lonely, numb, or not sure what you feel anymore? I provide a safe, non-judgmental space supporting individuals, couples, neurodiverse and enm relationships gain confidence to change and improve wellbeing.
Hi - are you feeling stuck? Repeating the same patterns of behaviour again and again in your life or relationship and going around in circles? Do you feel a lack of love/respect from your partner or someone close to you? Is sex/intimacy or compulsive sexual behaviour an issue? Perhaps trauma, life changes, neurodiversity (adhd/asc) or difficult times have led to anxiety/depression, the trust has gone, or you're feeling sad, angry, lonely, numb, or not sure what you feel anymore? I provide a safe, non-judgmental space supporting individuals, couples, neurodiverse and enm relationships gain confidence to change and improve wellbeing.
01895 545137 View 01895 545137
Amanda Burns
Counsellor, MBACP
Ely CB6
The search for a counsellor can feel overwhelming and it can be difficult to know where to start. I believe that successful counselling is largely determined by the rapport between the client and counsellor. If you would like to message me, we can arrange an initial consultation to discuss your reasons for thinking about counselling, what you hope to achieve and to see how well we are suited to working together.
The search for a counsellor can feel overwhelming and it can be difficult to know where to start. I believe that successful counselling is largely determined by the rapport between the client and counsellor. If you would like to message me, we can arrange an initial consultation to discuss your reasons for thinking about counselling, what you hope to achieve and to see how well we are suited to working together.
01353 885167 View 01353 885167
Claudia Kent
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
3 Endorsed
Serves Area
I’m Claudia (she/her) and I’m here to explore with you all things sex and relationships. As a person-centered psychotherapist and sexologist I work with individuals and couples navigating the messy, beautiful and complex parts of being human, especially sex, sexuality, identity and relationships. I can support you if you feel disconnected from your body, your feelings, or your loved ones. Perhaps you’re struggling with relationship dynamics and expressing needs. I offer a space to explore what’s going on, how it’s impacting you and how we can move towards your desired outcomes from therapy.
I’m Claudia (she/her) and I’m here to explore with you all things sex and relationships. As a person-centered psychotherapist and sexologist I work with individuals and couples navigating the messy, beautiful and complex parts of being human, especially sex, sexuality, identity and relationships. I can support you if you feel disconnected from your body, your feelings, or your loved ones. Perhaps you’re struggling with relationship dynamics and expressing needs. I offer a space to explore what’s going on, how it’s impacting you and how we can move towards your desired outcomes from therapy.
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Deirdre MacGinley
Counsellor, MA, MBACP Accred
Do you feel frightened that your world might fall apart if you look at your sexuality or gender? Maybe you have thoughts going round and round in your head, and feel like you’ve lost track of perspective. Maybe you: don't like sex/like sex 'too much' /wrong kind of sex? Your gender doesn't fit with other people's idea of you. You may feel you are betraying your family, children or culture by expressing yourself. You may believe that what’s inside you is too shocking, or wrong or too much for the people around you. You may feel like there’s no-one you can talk to, which can be very isolating .
Do you feel frightened that your world might fall apart if you look at your sexuality or gender? Maybe you have thoughts going round and round in your head, and feel like you’ve lost track of perspective. Maybe you: don't like sex/like sex 'too much' /wrong kind of sex? Your gender doesn't fit with other people's idea of you. You may feel you are betraying your family, children or culture by expressing yourself. You may believe that what’s inside you is too shocking, or wrong or too much for the people around you. You may feel like there’s no-one you can talk to, which can be very isolating .
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VIVA Therapy
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Online Only
We’re VIVA, a friendly team of experienced, fully qualified therapists and we specialise in helping neurodivergent adults and couples. We provide online therapy that meets you exactly where you are. Our therapists are fully qualified and experienced and work with clients who are neurodivergent, and who also have low self-esteem, depression, anxiety, relationship, or grief and loss. If you're neurodivergent, we can gently explore what that means for you and how it affects your everyday life, your relationships, and how you see yourself. We can also help you work on getting that work-life balance just right, if it feels out of kilter.
We’re VIVA, a friendly team of experienced, fully qualified therapists and we specialise in helping neurodivergent adults and couples. We provide online therapy that meets you exactly where you are. Our therapists are fully qualified and experienced and work with clients who are neurodivergent, and who also have low self-esteem, depression, anxiety, relationship, or grief and loss. If you're neurodivergent, we can gently explore what that means for you and how it affects your everyday life, your relationships, and how you see yourself. We can also help you work on getting that work-life balance just right, if it feels out of kilter.
01223 912494 View 01223 912494
Higher Vibes Corner
Verified Verified
Enfield EN1
Wherever you are in life - whatever you're carrying, whatever you're searching for - you are welcome here. At Higher Vibes Corner, I work with people across all of life's phases, transitions and challenges. Whether you're in the depths of something difficult or simply feeling the call for deeper connection, more balance, more joy - together we'll go beneath the surface, find the root of your imbalances and guide you gently back to centre. Back to yourself. I bring over 20 years of personal therapeutic experience, 8 years of professional training in energy medicine and 8 years working in corporate health and wellbeing.
Wherever you are in life - whatever you're carrying, whatever you're searching for - you are welcome here. At Higher Vibes Corner, I work with people across all of life's phases, transitions and challenges. Whether you're in the depths of something difficult or simply feeling the call for deeper connection, more balance, more joy - together we'll go beneath the surface, find the root of your imbalances and guide you gently back to centre. Back to yourself. I bring over 20 years of personal therapeutic experience, 8 years of professional training in energy medicine and 8 years working in corporate health and wellbeing.
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Annabel Wyatt
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
I am very experienced and have worked with many issues clients bring from relationship problems to work stress and low self esteem. I can help you find a solution, a way of being happier or living life less anxiously. I listen to you and what you want to achieve. 1) Over 24 years experience 2) Relate Trained Couples Therapists 3) Professional, friendly manner.
I am very experienced and have worked with many issues clients bring from relationship problems to work stress and low self esteem. I can help you find a solution, a way of being happier or living life less anxiously. I listen to you and what you want to achieve. 1) Over 24 years experience 2) Relate Trained Couples Therapists 3) Professional, friendly manner.
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Heather Oglesby
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
I work both in-person and online where we can safely explore any issues that you may have in confidence. I strongly believe that everyone can benefit from counselling, provided they have a good connection with their counsellor. That is why the relationship is at the heart of my work. I work with a wide range of people, I am passionate about working with those who identify as LGBTQ+ and those who may be questioning their sexual orientation and/or gender identity. Being queer myself, I have a deep understanding of the different struggles and discrimination we face day to day. I am also kink, poly/open relationship friendly.
I work both in-person and online where we can safely explore any issues that you may have in confidence. I strongly believe that everyone can benefit from counselling, provided they have a good connection with their counsellor. That is why the relationship is at the heart of my work. I work with a wide range of people, I am passionate about working with those who identify as LGBTQ+ and those who may be questioning their sexual orientation and/or gender identity. Being queer myself, I have a deep understanding of the different struggles and discrimination we face day to day. I am also kink, poly/open relationship friendly.
01638 591586 View 01638 591586
Eleni Henderson
Psychotherapist, DCounsPsych, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Enfield EN1
You may be feeling anxious, low, overwhelmed, or unsure how to move forward. Perhaps you're facing challenges in relationships, navigating a life transition, or stuck in patterns that leave you feeling disconnected or frustrated. You might look like you're coping on the outside, but inside, things feel far from ok. You want space to be truly heard, to make sense of what you’re feeling, and to understand yourself more fully. Therapy offers the chance to explore your inner world with support, build emotional resilience, and move toward meaningful and lasting change. Sessions are in-person in Enfield Town or online.
You may be feeling anxious, low, overwhelmed, or unsure how to move forward. Perhaps you're facing challenges in relationships, navigating a life transition, or stuck in patterns that leave you feeling disconnected or frustrated. You might look like you're coping on the outside, but inside, things feel far from ok. You want space to be truly heard, to make sense of what you’re feeling, and to understand yourself more fully. Therapy offers the chance to explore your inner world with support, build emotional resilience, and move toward meaningful and lasting change. Sessions are in-person in Enfield Town or online.
01992 932147 View 01992 932147
Ticky Borriello
Counsellor, MBACP
Enfield EN1
A key part of my practice is supporting people who cannot leave the house, due to agoraphobia, severe anxiety, disability, trauma recovery or overwhelm in unfamiliar spaces. I also work on-line with adults facing trauma, anxiety, identity questions, low mood, relationship patterns, instability or addiction. Many come feeling overwhelmed or disconnected. I offer a calm, safe space, whether in‑home or in‑person, helping clients explore their story, regulate emotions and move toward clarity, stability and confidence.
A key part of my practice is supporting people who cannot leave the house, due to agoraphobia, severe anxiety, disability, trauma recovery or overwhelm in unfamiliar spaces. I also work on-line with adults facing trauma, anxiety, identity questions, low mood, relationship patterns, instability or addiction. Many come feeling overwhelmed or disconnected. I offer a calm, safe space, whether in‑home or in‑person, helping clients explore their story, regulate emotions and move toward clarity, stability and confidence.
020 4538 0087 View 020 4538 0087
Joanne Blythen
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
I support adults and young people (14+) who are navigating ADHD, anxiety, burnout, identity, relationships, trauma or life transitions. Many of my clients are neurodivergent, LGBTQIA+, or have spent years masking and wondering why life feels harder than it should. Our team provides compassionate, neuroaffirming ADHD assessments and therapy that focus on understanding the whole person, not just symptoms. Together, we create practical, personalised strategies that build self-understanding, confidence and lasting wellbeing.
I support adults and young people (14+) who are navigating ADHD, anxiety, burnout, identity, relationships, trauma or life transitions. Many of my clients are neurodivergent, LGBTQIA+, or have spent years masking and wondering why life feels harder than it should. Our team provides compassionate, neuroaffirming ADHD assessments and therapy that focus on understanding the whole person, not just symptoms. Together, we create practical, personalised strategies that build self-understanding, confidence and lasting wellbeing.
01908 103712 View 01908 103712
Lesbian Counsellors
What is lesbian-affirming therapy?
Lesbian-affirming therapy is a type of mental health support that fully affirms and reflects a client's lesbian identity. It is rooted in acceptance and does not attempt to change or question an individual's sexual orientation. In this type of therapy, clients work with a therapist who understands the unique experiences of lesbian women. This support is especially important, as research shows that lesbian individuals face higher rates of anxiety, depression, and other mental health challenges compared to heterosexual populations. Lesbian-affirming therapy acknowledges that lesbian individuals may encounter specific stressors—such as coming out challenges, family rejection, workplace discrimination, and minority stress—that require specialised understanding and intervention. Lesbian-affirming therapists often work with clients across all age groups, from adolescents navigating their emerging identity to adults and older individuals addressing life transitions and relationship concerns. Many therapists also provide couples therapy for lesbian partners, helping them navigate relationship dynamics, communication challenges, or external stressors that may impact their relationship. It is important to note that therapists provide talk therapy and counseling services but do not prescribe medication—if medication is needed for conditions like depression or anxiety, they will coordinate care with a psychiatrist or primary care physician who can provide psychiatric medication management alongside therapeutic support.

Why should I see a lesbian therapist?
Some clients prefer to work with lesbian therapists who may bring personal lived experience to the therapeutic relationship. Choosing to work with a lesbian therapist can offer a deeper sense of connection, comfort, and shared understanding. A therapist who identifies as lesbian may require clients to give less background explanation—whether it’s about navigating romantic relationships, feeling unseen in certain spaces, or processing the impact of past relationship challenges. However, a non-lesbian therapist with strong training and a sincere commitment to LGBTQ+ affirmation can be equally effective. The most important factor is finding a therapist who respects your identity and fosters trust, safety, and understanding. However, a non-lesbian therapist with strong training and a sincere commitment to LGBTQ+ affirmation can be equally effective. The most important factor is finding a therapist who respects your identity and fosters trust, safety, and understanding. Additionally, many lesbian-affirming therapists can connect clients to other providers or community-based resources—such as bisexual support groups or LGBTQ+ organisations—that offer additional affirming spaces for connection.

How do I find a lesbian therapist?
The Psychology Today online directory is a helpful tool for finding lesbian-affirming therapists. You can use search filters to identify therapists who specialise in LGBTQ+ care and work specifically with bisexual clients. You can also filter by clinical specialties, therapeutic approaches, accepted insurance, session costs, and languages spoken to find the right fit. Look for profiles where therapists explicitly mention working with lesbian clients, or where they describe their approach as identity-affirming, inclusive, or trauma-informed. Many providers will also list their own identities, which may help you find someone with shared lived experience if that is important to you. You can also look for credentials or continuing education in areas such as LGBTQ+ mental health, trauma-informed care, and intersectionality.