Marriage Counselling in Rochford
It has led to a passion for working as a therapist to help people improve relationships, to feel connected to, heard and valued by spouses, partners, friends and family.
I am a qualified individual adult, couples and relationship therapist working with a specialisation in sex and relationships. I am also a Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist, working with issues such as; low desire, low libido, vaginismus, dyspareunia, rapid ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, problems with orgasm and relationship conflicts related to sex
It has led to a passion for working as a therapist to help people improve relationships, to feel connected to, heard and valued by spouses, partners, friends and family.
I am a qualified individual adult, couples and relationship therapist working with a specialisation in sex and relationships. I am also a Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist, working with issues such as; low desire, low libido, vaginismus, dyspareunia, rapid ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, problems with orgasm and relationship conflicts related to sex
I help couples and individuals who feel stuck, disconnected or overwhelmed by intimacy challenges.
I offer inclusive, culturally sensitive therapy for individuals and couples facing intimacy issues, sexual concerns, relational conflict, and identity struggles. My holistic approach integrates mind, body, and spirit, addressing how culture, faith, family, trauma, and life transitions impact emotional and sexual well-being.
I help couples and individuals who feel stuck, disconnected or overwhelmed by intimacy challenges.
I offer inclusive, culturally sensitive therapy for individuals and couples facing intimacy issues, sexual concerns, relational conflict, and identity struggles. My holistic approach integrates mind, body, and spirit, addressing how culture, faith, family, trauma, and life transitions impact emotional and sexual well-being.
I help individuals and couples to find a more vibrant and easeful way of life.
I am a registered member of the BACP, accredited by the NCPS and an Anxiety UK approved therapist. I am a certified to work face to face and online. My areas of special interest include: Anxiety and Depression - Couples Counselling - Men's Mental Health - Students/Young Adults - Trauma. I am a LGBTQIA+ ally.
I help individuals and couples to find a more vibrant and easeful way of life.
I am a registered member of the BACP, accredited by the NCPS and an Anxiety UK approved therapist. I am a certified to work face to face and online. My areas of special interest include: Anxiety and Depression - Couples Counselling - Men's Mental Health - Students/Young Adults - Trauma. I am a LGBTQIA+ ally.
Individual therapy £60 Couples £80 per hour after initial starting session.
Testimonial "I would like to thank you for the recent therapy that I undertook with you. I found you a very empathic listener and felt that you let me express my feelings re issues of my concern in my own way. I found the whole session liberating and rewarding. I was surprised as to how non judgemental you were"
Individual therapy £60 Couples £80 per hour after initial starting session.
Testimonial "I would like to thank you for the recent therapy that I undertook with you. I found you a very empathic listener and felt that you let me express my feelings re issues of my concern in my own way. I found the whole session liberating and rewarding. I was surprised as to how non judgemental you were"
We may find that we are becoming over defensive from criticism, have fears of being alone, being hurt, of conflict or of your partner engulfing you as a person.
Do you sometimes feel overwhelmed by the stresses in life? Feel unable to make decisions? Do you condemn yourself for making the 'wrong' decision? We can be good at condemning ourselves and be our worst critic. Discovering what patterns are happening for us over and over again, and preparing yourself for these, knowing what you can and can't do, can feel empowering. Being able to express yourself knowing that you can be heard without fear, embarrassment or shame but with acceptance of you as a person can be life changing. I can help you look at making changes and find bespoke ways to support and establish a way forward for you.
We may find that we are becoming over defensive from criticism, have fears of being alone, being hurt, of conflict or of your partner engulfing you as a person.
Do you sometimes feel overwhelmed by the stresses in life? Feel unable to make decisions? Do you condemn yourself for making the 'wrong' decision? We can be good at condemning ourselves and be our worst critic. Discovering what patterns are happening for us over and over again, and preparing yourself for these, knowing what you can and can't do, can feel empowering. Being able to express yourself knowing that you can be heard without fear, embarrassment or shame but with acceptance of you as a person can be life changing. I can help you look at making changes and find bespoke ways to support and establish a way forward for you.
I am committed to supporting both couples and adults in crisis.
I am committed to providing a safe non judgemental space for you to discuss any issues that may be affecting you life, relationships and general wellbeing. We are all unique individuals facing different life challenges, which we may find difficult to express in our relationships. Therapy can provide a safe space to discuss any issues that you are struggling with. I work from an integrative approach, which means I will endeavour to tailor our sessions to meet your own personal requirements, allowing you to gain the most out of your therapy.
I am committed to supporting both couples and adults in crisis.
I am committed to providing a safe non judgemental space for you to discuss any issues that may be affecting you life, relationships and general wellbeing. We are all unique individuals facing different life challenges, which we may find difficult to express in our relationships. Therapy can provide a safe space to discuss any issues that you are struggling with. I work from an integrative approach, which means I will endeavour to tailor our sessions to meet your own personal requirements, allowing you to gain the most out of your therapy.
I am a couples counsellor / relationship therapist.
The aim of counselling is to feel a positive change in yourself and relationships. I offer a safe, confidential, professional space for individuals & couples to explore their feelings and work towards a more contented life. Working with individuals & couples, I am to change patterns of behaviour that have a negative impact on your relationships.
I am a couples counsellor / relationship therapist.
The aim of counselling is to feel a positive change in yourself and relationships. I offer a safe, confidential, professional space for individuals & couples to explore their feelings and work towards a more contented life. Working with individuals & couples, I am to change patterns of behaviour that have a negative impact on your relationships.
I am a senior professional accredited counsellor, accredited, registered member MNCPS working with clients with a variety of different issues such as relationships and couples, addictions; domestic abuse, depression, anxiety, work related stress, building confidence, self esteem, loss and bereavement.
I offer freedom from all addictive behaviours - this journey starts with a desire to change -This is an opportunity to build healthy relationships - financial security. Hope and self worth - because you are worth it!
I am a senior professional accredited counsellor, accredited, registered member MNCPS working with clients with a variety of different issues such as relationships and couples, addictions; domestic abuse, depression, anxiety, work related stress, building confidence, self esteem, loss and bereavement.
I offer freedom from all addictive behaviours - this journey starts with a desire to change -This is an opportunity to build healthy relationships - financial security. Hope and self worth - because you are worth it!
I offer counselling to adults and teenagers for various different issues including anxiety, stress, depression, grief and loss, trauma, abuse, panic attacks, OCD, couples counselling etc
Most of my clients come to me knowing they are not happy but they don't always know why. Sometimes it is because of the people and circumstances around them and sometimes it is because they keep repeating the same behaviours that are not producing a happy life for them. My job is to help people understand what it is in their lives that they are not happy with, or want to change and to imagine a life with the new changes in it. I work with the client to provide a safe, comfortable environment for them to explore what is going on for them and how they can make the changes to live a happy, fulfilling life.
I offer counselling to adults and teenagers for various different issues including anxiety, stress, depression, grief and loss, trauma, abuse, panic attacks, OCD, couples counselling etc
Most of my clients come to me knowing they are not happy but they don't always know why. Sometimes it is because of the people and circumstances around them and sometimes it is because they keep repeating the same behaviours that are not producing a happy life for them. My job is to help people understand what it is in their lives that they are not happy with, or want to change and to imagine a life with the new changes in it. I work with the client to provide a safe, comfortable environment for them to explore what is going on for them and how they can make the changes to live a happy, fulfilling life.
If you are finding life difficult, or struggling to understand or change the way you feel, talking to somebody can really help. Sometimes reaching out is the best thing you can do, and it can really help you put things into perspective and learn new ways of coping and dealing with the difficulties in your life. I have linked an example of how I work in this video: https://youtu.be/g4YMqJdPoj0
If you are finding life difficult, or struggling to understand or change the way you feel, talking to somebody can really help. Sometimes reaching out is the best thing you can do, and it can really help you put things into perspective and learn new ways of coping and dealing with the difficulties in your life. I have linked an example of how I work in this video: https://youtu.be/g4YMqJdPoj0
I can help you to reach the potential that you want and deserve to reach by helping you to understand your past, present and future. To help you to work through relationship problems, self esteem issues or letting go of the past. To enable you to see past blocks and obstacles so that you can control, minimise and eliminate any anxieties. To work with the negative emotions that you feel so that you can identify quickly what your emotions are telling you and then challenge them so that they do not control you. To magnify the positives and build on them for complete self confidence.
I can help you to reach the potential that you want and deserve to reach by helping you to understand your past, present and future. To help you to work through relationship problems, self esteem issues or letting go of the past. To enable you to see past blocks and obstacles so that you can control, minimise and eliminate any anxieties. To work with the negative emotions that you feel so that you can identify quickly what your emotions are telling you and then challenge them so that they do not control you. To magnify the positives and build on them for complete self confidence.
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We are all unique but our shared humanity means that we all struggle.With over 40yrs experience of working in mental health I have learnt that one of the most helpful interventions for a human in distress is to help them clarify their values and to use this information as leverage to facilitate the inevitable behavioural change that is needed for a life lived well. I have found that combining CBT with Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) promotes symptom reduction but also helps patient's to reconnect with what is important in their lives. If you're reading this I'm guessing you're feeling stuck-maybe I can help with that.
We are all unique but our shared humanity means that we all struggle.With over 40yrs experience of working in mental health I have learnt that one of the most helpful interventions for a human in distress is to help them clarify their values and to use this information as leverage to facilitate the inevitable behavioural change that is needed for a life lived well. I have found that combining CBT with Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) promotes symptom reduction but also helps patient's to reconnect with what is important in their lives. If you're reading this I'm guessing you're feeling stuck-maybe I can help with that.
I believe therapy is a collaborative process, where we will explore the past to make sense of the present, cultivating awareness and coping skills to help you manage what can feel unmanageable. My aim is to support you in a confidential professional manner and together we will try to understand what is going on for you and find some resolve. I work psychodynamically and as an EMDR practitioner I thread this into my work.
I believe therapy is a collaborative process, where we will explore the past to make sense of the present, cultivating awareness and coping skills to help you manage what can feel unmanageable. My aim is to support you in a confidential professional manner and together we will try to understand what is going on for you and find some resolve. I work psychodynamically and as an EMDR practitioner I thread this into my work.
I offer therapy to couples and individuals who wish to talk about their relationships and sexual lives and to explore any difficulties within them.
I can help clients to find ways to achieve what they want from therapy, identify and change habits and behaviours and hopefully improve their relationships and sexual lives by working relationally with them. My approach whether it be with clients or supervisees aims to enable and work in a safe, professional way to explore ways forward and personal goals.
I offer therapy to couples and individuals who wish to talk about their relationships and sexual lives and to explore any difficulties within them.
I can help clients to find ways to achieve what they want from therapy, identify and change habits and behaviours and hopefully improve their relationships and sexual lives by working relationally with them. My approach whether it be with clients or supervisees aims to enable and work in a safe, professional way to explore ways forward and personal goals.
I specialise in working with trauma and C-PTSD, supporting survivors of abuse and neurodivergent adults.
You may feel overwhelmed, emotionally exhausted, or stuck in patterns you don’t fully understand.
You might struggle with anxiety, low mood, emotional dysregulation, or relationship difficulties, feel disconnected from yourself and others.
You may feel shut down, or feel constantly on edge or burnt out.
You may have experienced trauma, loss, stress, or spent years coping, masking, or putting others first.
You may need calm and a greater self-understanding of yourself rather than just pushing through life.
I specialise in working with trauma and C-PTSD, supporting survivors of abuse and neurodivergent adults.
You may feel overwhelmed, emotionally exhausted, or stuck in patterns you don’t fully understand.
You might struggle with anxiety, low mood, emotional dysregulation, or relationship difficulties, feel disconnected from yourself and others.
You may feel shut down, or feel constantly on edge or burnt out.
You may have experienced trauma, loss, stress, or spent years coping, masking, or putting others first.
You may need calm and a greater self-understanding of yourself rather than just pushing through life.
I work with teens, adolescents, adults, couples and families.
You want something to be different, you want to stop feeling the way do, but don't know where or how to start? You've already made the biggest step by reaching out. I can help you to feel better, create balance in your life, leave the past in the past, and start looking forward to your future. I have all the relevant qualifications to be approved by Psychology Today, however, I'm more interested in how I can help you.
I work with teens, adolescents, adults, couples and families.
You want something to be different, you want to stop feeling the way do, but don't know where or how to start? You've already made the biggest step by reaching out. I can help you to feel better, create balance in your life, leave the past in the past, and start looking forward to your future. I have all the relevant qualifications to be approved by Psychology Today, however, I'm more interested in how I can help you.
Therapy can be a place of warmth, exploration, relief, insight and even humour. You may be seeking help during a crisis, grappling with a longstanding issue that seems insurmountable, or simply aiming to delve deeper into self-discovery, or you may be looking for a welcoming, open, and supportive environment where you can express yourself securely and confidentially. I consider therapy a collaborative journey, where we work together to investigate the factors that have brought you to this point and empower you to uncover new paths forward.
Therapy can be a place of warmth, exploration, relief, insight and even humour. You may be seeking help during a crisis, grappling with a longstanding issue that seems insurmountable, or simply aiming to delve deeper into self-discovery, or you may be looking for a welcoming, open, and supportive environment where you can express yourself securely and confidentially. I consider therapy a collaborative journey, where we work together to investigate the factors that have brought you to this point and empower you to uncover new paths forward.
I work with adults, young adults and couples.
Emotion can be overwhelming. You may feel pressure to change or feel unable to be true to yourself. Sometimes, past experiences can pull you down. You may feel shame or guilt, or feel completely lost. How would you feel if I told you that it is ok not to be ok, that your feelings are important and what you want from life matters? I work with people from all walks of life and I have had the privilege to witness the positive transformation and resilience that people have. You are not alone and I know change is possible.
I work with adults, young adults and couples.
Emotion can be overwhelming. You may feel pressure to change or feel unable to be true to yourself. Sometimes, past experiences can pull you down. You may feel shame or guilt, or feel completely lost. How would you feel if I told you that it is ok not to be ok, that your feelings are important and what you want from life matters? I work with people from all walks of life and I have had the privilege to witness the positive transformation and resilience that people have. You are not alone and I know change is possible.
AdvDip Psychotherapy and Counselling Couples Counselling diploma Positive Psychology diploma Mental Health Awareness Training Reiki 1 and 2
Hello, thanks for looking at my profile. My name is Bianca, I am a fully qualified counsellor and psychotherapist, based in Barking, East London, specialized in Anxiety, Stress, Depression and relationship issues. I work in a warm, supportive and holistic way, in a safe and confidential space, to explore whatever difficulties you may be currently experiencing in your life, and to help you find solutions. A holistic view means that I am interested in engaging and developing the whole person. You can think of this as different levels, physical, emotional, mental and spiritual.
AdvDip Psychotherapy and Counselling Couples Counselling diploma Positive Psychology diploma Mental Health Awareness Training Reiki 1 and 2
Hello, thanks for looking at my profile. My name is Bianca, I am a fully qualified counsellor and psychotherapist, based in Barking, East London, specialized in Anxiety, Stress, Depression and relationship issues. I work in a warm, supportive and holistic way, in a safe and confidential space, to explore whatever difficulties you may be currently experiencing in your life, and to help you find solutions. A holistic view means that I am interested in engaging and developing the whole person. You can think of this as different levels, physical, emotional, mental and spiritual.
English & Russian Speaking - I work with adults who may seem capable and “fine” on the outside, while internally feeling anxious, overwhelmed, emotionally exhausted, or disconnected from themselves. Many of my clients struggle with overthinking, self-criticism, people-pleasing, or feeling responsible for everyone else’s needs. Some grew up around criticism, high expectations, or environments where emotions didn’t feel fully safe. Together, we gently explore these patterns, helping you better understand yourself, build self-compassion, and feel more grounded, confident, and emotionally supported.
English & Russian Speaking - I work with adults who may seem capable and “fine” on the outside, while internally feeling anxious, overwhelmed, emotionally exhausted, or disconnected from themselves. Many of my clients struggle with overthinking, self-criticism, people-pleasing, or feeling responsible for everyone else’s needs. Some grew up around criticism, high expectations, or environments where emotions didn’t feel fully safe. Together, we gently explore these patterns, helping you better understand yourself, build self-compassion, and feel more grounded, confident, and emotionally supported.
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FAQ - Marriage Counselling
What issues does marriage counselling help with?
Marriage counselling can address common relationship concerns, including ongoing conflict, communication challenges, emotional distance, or difficulty making decisions together. It may also be helpful for couples who are not currently experiencing major problems but want to prepare for future life changes. For more specific concerns affecting one individual in the relationship, such as trauma, depression, or significant substance use concerns, individual therapy may be more appropriate than marriage counselling.
When is the right time to start marriage counselling?
There is no single “right” time to start marriage counselling, but certain signs may suggest that counselling could be helpful. For example, a couple may benefit from counselling if many conversations end in conflict, if negative interactions are becoming more frequent, or if relationship stress is affecting other areas of life, such as sleep, work, parenting, or friendships. Some couples also seek counselling proactively. Premarital counselling, for instance, allows couples to discuss communication styles, finances, family dynamics, and future goals before getting married. Other couples may start counselling before a major life change, such as becoming parents, relocating, or navigating a stressful career transition.
Is marriage counselling effective if only one partner wants to go?
Marriage counselling may still help even if one partner is more hesitant to attend, as long as both people are ultimately willing to participate in sessions. Once counselling is underway, the more hesitant partner may become more open to sessions that can strengthen the relationship and build coping skills and communication strategies. If one partner refuses to attend, individual therapy may still help the other partner understand their needs, set boundaries, and decide how to approach the relationship.
Is online marriage counselling as effective as in-person?
There are differing opinions on the best format for marriage counselling. While some studies show that online marriage counselling can be as effective as in-person counselling, some argue that in-person counselling is more effective because it allows the therapist to better pick up on context and body language cues. In addition, in-person counselling may be a better fit for couples who are working through high-conflict issues. Ultimately, the “best” format depends on the couple’s specific needs and concerns.
What is faith-based marriage counselling and how is it different?
Faith-based marriage counselling incorporates a couple’s religious or spiritual beliefs into counselling. It may be a good fit for couples who want to discuss their relationship, values, and marriage within the context of their faith. For example, Christian marriage counselling may appeal to couples who want a counsellor familiar with Christian beliefs about marriage. Other forms of faith-based counselling may incorporate Jewish, Muslim, Hindu, Buddhist, or other religious perspectives into sessions.
How much does marriage counselling cost and is it covered by insurance?
Marriage counselling is usually paid for privately in Great Britain, rather than through the NHS, and sessions often cost around £60 to £120 or more. Fees depend on location, with costs generally higher in the London area, as well as counsellor experience, session length, and practice setting. However, lower-cost options may be available through sliding scale fees, which adjust the cost of counselling based on income, as well as through community clinics or non-profit organisations that offer reduced-cost services.