Sex Therapists in Rochester
I have worked as a counsellor and psycho sexual therapist for over 30 years and I still find it as fascinating and rewarding now as when I started. I am COSRT and Relate accredited. I work with individuals, couples, families. I aim to support my clients to clarify the issues that are hindering their development and relationships in an effective way, while developing a greater understanding of the causes of their current problems and issues. In some cases the counselling can be quite specific and goal orientated; yet with others it can be more exploratory and pastoral. Most often it can include both, depending on the need.
I have worked as a counsellor and psycho sexual therapist for over 30 years and I still find it as fascinating and rewarding now as when I started. I am COSRT and Relate accredited. I work with individuals, couples, families. I aim to support my clients to clarify the issues that are hindering their development and relationships in an effective way, while developing a greater understanding of the causes of their current problems and issues. In some cases the counselling can be quite specific and goal orientated; yet with others it can be more exploratory and pastoral. Most often it can include both, depending on the need.
Hi, I’m Tom, and I’m here to walk alongside you on your journey toward healing and growth. I know how difficult it can be to reach out for help, especially when life feels overwhelming. My approach to therapy is all about creating a space where you can feel safe, heard, and understood—without judgment. I work with people facing a variety of challenges, from anxiety and depression to trauma and relationship issues. I’m particularly passionate about supporting men’s mental health and understanding the unique struggles that come with societal pressures and expectations.
Hi, I’m Tom, and I’m here to walk alongside you on your journey toward healing and growth. I know how difficult it can be to reach out for help, especially when life feels overwhelming. My approach to therapy is all about creating a space where you can feel safe, heard, and understood—without judgment. I work with people facing a variety of challenges, from anxiety and depression to trauma and relationship issues. I’m particularly passionate about supporting men’s mental health and understanding the unique struggles that come with societal pressures and expectations.
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As a trained sex therapist I can help with sexual difficulties.
Sometimes we all need additional support to navigate difficult times and making a decision to seek help for our personal problems can be daunting. I believe in creating a safe space to work together, where you are the expert in your own experiences and I have the experience and expertise in psychological theories and techniques. I believe that by bringing together this expertise we can work together to enable you to achieve your unique personal goals. Some of the relationship problems I work with include communication issues, affairs and betrayals, family issues, parenting issues, separation and divorce.
As a trained sex therapist I can help with sexual difficulties.
Sometimes we all need additional support to navigate difficult times and making a decision to seek help for our personal problems can be daunting. I believe in creating a safe space to work together, where you are the expert in your own experiences and I have the experience and expertise in psychological theories and techniques. I believe that by bringing together this expertise we can work together to enable you to achieve your unique personal goals. Some of the relationship problems I work with include communication issues, affairs and betrayals, family issues, parenting issues, separation and divorce.
I believe that sex, intimacy, and love are skills we get to learn and practice.
My intention as your therapist is to witness you, challenge you, and support your growth. This means we can work exploratively, creatively or more pragmatically - depending on what would best support you. If you want to shift your patterns and beliefs and move forward towards full expression in your relationships and your life more broadly, don't hesitate to get in touch.
I work Monday - Friday and offer sliding scale pricing for day-time sessions. All of my work takes place online via Zoom or an equivalent provider.
Please note that I am taking on short-term clients only as I will be pausing my practice from May 2026.
I believe that sex, intimacy, and love are skills we get to learn and practice.
My intention as your therapist is to witness you, challenge you, and support your growth. This means we can work exploratively, creatively or more pragmatically - depending on what would best support you. If you want to shift your patterns and beliefs and move forward towards full expression in your relationships and your life more broadly, don't hesitate to get in touch.
I work Monday - Friday and offer sliding scale pricing for day-time sessions. All of my work takes place online via Zoom or an equivalent provider.
Please note that I am taking on short-term clients only as I will be pausing my practice from May 2026.
I am particularly experienced at seeing people and couples presenting with sexual difficulties, such as painful sex or unreliable erections.
I have completed doctoral-level training in multiple therapeutic approaches: psychodynamic, systemic and cognitive behavioural therapies. This means that I can draw on a wide range of psychological theories and treatments to make sense of your difficulties and plan a tailored treatment plan that is effective.
I am particularly experienced at seeing people and couples presenting with sexual difficulties, such as painful sex or unreliable erections.
I have completed doctoral-level training in multiple therapeutic approaches: psychodynamic, systemic and cognitive behavioural therapies. This means that I can draw on a wide range of psychological theories and treatments to make sense of your difficulties and plan a tailored treatment plan that is effective.
Accredited member of COSRT College of Sex and Relationship Therapists.
Hello, my name is Rose Mazillius (she/her/they) and I am an accredited, queer, integrative Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist working from my office in Shoreditch, East London. If you have found your way to reading this, it is likely you are wondering about making some changes to your life. I offer short, medium and long term therapy for individuals, couples and people in multi-partner or non-monogamous relationships from my office and online. I adopt a relational integrative approach, combining methods from person-centered, psychodynamic, cognitive behaviour therapy (CBT) as well as somatic and mindfulness practice.
Accredited member of COSRT College of Sex and Relationship Therapists.
Hello, my name is Rose Mazillius (she/her/they) and I am an accredited, queer, integrative Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist working from my office in Shoreditch, East London. If you have found your way to reading this, it is likely you are wondering about making some changes to your life. I offer short, medium and long term therapy for individuals, couples and people in multi-partner or non-monogamous relationships from my office and online. I adopt a relational integrative approach, combining methods from person-centered, psychodynamic, cognitive behaviour therapy (CBT) as well as somatic and mindfulness practice.
I bring nearly two decades of experience in mental health & therapy to my practice, specialising in sex & relationship therapy and EMDR trauma therapy.
Hi, I’m Jo, a qualified Integrative Counsellor (BACP/NCPS), EMDR Trauma Therapist, and Clinical Sexologist (COSRT). I specialise in helping people overcome emotional, relational, and sexual challenges. Using EMDR, I support individuals in healing from trauma and regaining control of their lives. As a Clinical Sexologist, I offer compassionate guidance on sexual health, intimacy, desire, identity, and communication, helping you build fulfilling relationships. I provide a safe, affirming space where everyone is welcome and supported.
I bring nearly two decades of experience in mental health & therapy to my practice, specialising in sex & relationship therapy and EMDR trauma therapy.
Hi, I’m Jo, a qualified Integrative Counsellor (BACP/NCPS), EMDR Trauma Therapist, and Clinical Sexologist (COSRT). I specialise in helping people overcome emotional, relational, and sexual challenges. Using EMDR, I support individuals in healing from trauma and regaining control of their lives. As a Clinical Sexologist, I offer compassionate guidance on sexual health, intimacy, desire, identity, and communication, helping you build fulfilling relationships. I provide a safe, affirming space where everyone is welcome and supported.
I offer couple and individual counselling and sex therapy.
My approach is tailored to the couple or individual. Everyone comes to therapy with different needs and the sessions need to feel worth it for you; it's important that once you feel comfortable, you're not just scratching the surface but really feel impowered to have difficult conversations, as well as gain new skills to manage your situation.
I offer couple and individual counselling and sex therapy.
My approach is tailored to the couple or individual. Everyone comes to therapy with different needs and the sessions need to feel worth it for you; it's important that once you feel comfortable, you're not just scratching the surface but really feel impowered to have difficult conversations, as well as gain new skills to manage your situation.
Hello there …my name is Joanne and I specialise in Couples Therapy, Psychosexual Therapy and Sex/Porn addiction.
I work with all styles of relationships and neurodivergence. I will support you to find new healthier ways of relating and rebuilding connection with your partner whether that be communication , trust or an intimate connection. In terms of addiction, I will support you to change unhelpful patterns of behaviour and aid recovery from sex/porn addiction.
Hello there …my name is Joanne and I specialise in Couples Therapy, Psychosexual Therapy and Sex/Porn addiction.
I work with all styles of relationships and neurodivergence. I will support you to find new healthier ways of relating and rebuilding connection with your partner whether that be communication , trust or an intimate connection. In terms of addiction, I will support you to change unhelpful patterns of behaviour and aid recovery from sex/porn addiction.
I work with a wide range of presentations, including erectile difficulties, ejaculation concerns, low desire/loss of sexual desire, vaginismus (difficulty in penetration), dyspareunia (painful sex), orgasm problems, depression, sex anxiety, attachment issues, relationship and communication issues including cultural, religious diversity.
I have experience working in both mental and sexual and mental health as a therapist. I am an integrative therapist applying different therapeutic modalities using proven tools and techniques when working with clients. I have worked with Private organisations, charitable organisations, and psychosexual clinics in the NHS.
I work with a wide range of presentations, including erectile difficulties, ejaculation concerns, low desire/loss of sexual desire, vaginismus (difficulty in penetration), dyspareunia (painful sex), orgasm problems, depression, sex anxiety, attachment issues, relationship and communication issues including cultural, religious diversity.
I have experience working in both mental and sexual and mental health as a therapist. I am an integrative therapist applying different therapeutic modalities using proven tools and techniques when working with clients. I have worked with Private organisations, charitable organisations, and psychosexual clinics in the NHS.
I am a queer trans nonbinary sex & relationship therapist who provides therapy for couples, multiple partnered relationships (ie non monogamy, colleagues, friends, families & groups) & individuals online only.
I offer relationship therapy for couples, families & multiple partnered relationships, as well as sex therapy. I am a diversity-inclusive therapist who works with all clients regardless of ethnicity, religion, gender, sexuality, age (18+), or disability. I work integratively, which means I tailor the therapy to you & your needs.
I am a queer trans nonbinary sex & relationship therapist who provides therapy for couples, multiple partnered relationships (ie non monogamy, colleagues, friends, families & groups) & individuals online only.
I offer relationship therapy for couples, families & multiple partnered relationships, as well as sex therapy. I am a diversity-inclusive therapist who works with all clients regardless of ethnicity, religion, gender, sexuality, age (18+), or disability. I work integratively, which means I tailor the therapy to you & your needs.
I am what is known a Psychotherapist and Sex Therapist.
By gaining insight into how significant relationships and events have shaped your feelings, communication, and actions, you'll develop a deeper understanding of yourself. I don’t offer quick fixes or surface-level solutions, but instead work with clients to gradually understand the deeper patterns and meanings in their emotional lives. Since 2006, I have been committed to helping individuals and couples strengthen their relationships, and improve their mental and sexual health.
Therapy puts words to the feelings, that would otherwise remain painful or unresolved.
I am what is known a Psychotherapist and Sex Therapist.
By gaining insight into how significant relationships and events have shaped your feelings, communication, and actions, you'll develop a deeper understanding of yourself. I don’t offer quick fixes or surface-level solutions, but instead work with clients to gradually understand the deeper patterns and meanings in their emotional lives. Since 2006, I have been committed to helping individuals and couples strengthen their relationships, and improve their mental and sexual health.
Therapy puts words to the feelings, that would otherwise remain painful or unresolved.
In addition to more generalised therapy, I am offering low cost Psychosexual ( sex) therapy and Relationship therapy to individuals and couples whilst I complete this additional training.
Psychosexual ( Sex) therapy - vaginismus and painful sex, anxiety about sex, loss of desire or arousal and inability to orgasm, erectile difficulties including rapid, delayed or absent ejaculation.
Relationship therapy - communication, loss of connection, intimacy, jealousy, infidelity, conflict, cultural and religious issues, pregnancy, children, parenting.
In addition to more generalised therapy, I am offering low cost Psychosexual ( sex) therapy and Relationship therapy to individuals and couples whilst I complete this additional training.
Psychosexual ( Sex) therapy - vaginismus and painful sex, anxiety about sex, loss of desire or arousal and inability to orgasm, erectile difficulties including rapid, delayed or absent ejaculation.
Relationship therapy - communication, loss of connection, intimacy, jealousy, infidelity, conflict, cultural and religious issues, pregnancy, children, parenting.
As a sex and relationship therapist, my aim is to help you find your inner resources to overcome the challenges you are coming with.
With over 8 years in clinical practice, I work with individuals that experience sexual and relationship difficulties: desire issues, orgasm difficulties, rapid or delayed ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, painful sex (such as vulvodynia, vaginismus, dyspareunia), sexual anxiety or aversion, sexual trauma, infidelity, loss, communication, intimacy issues.
As a sex and relationship therapist, my aim is to help you find your inner resources to overcome the challenges you are coming with.
With over 8 years in clinical practice, I work with individuals that experience sexual and relationship difficulties: desire issues, orgasm difficulties, rapid or delayed ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, painful sex (such as vulvodynia, vaginismus, dyspareunia), sexual anxiety or aversion, sexual trauma, infidelity, loss, communication, intimacy issues.
I am a sex and relationship therapist working with individuals, new or long-term couples, and people in multi-partnered relationships.
My approach is embodied and pluralistic. This means we'll look at the whole mind–body system, and we work with sensation, emotion and meaning, rather than just thoughts. It also means there is no one-size-fits-all: I tailor how we work to suit your needs, values and ways of processing, so that therapy genuinely fits you. I am neurodivergence-affirming.
I am a sex and relationship therapist working with individuals, new or long-term couples, and people in multi-partnered relationships.
My approach is embodied and pluralistic. This means we'll look at the whole mind–body system, and we work with sensation, emotion and meaning, rather than just thoughts. It also means there is no one-size-fits-all: I tailor how we work to suit your needs, values and ways of processing, so that therapy genuinely fits you. I am neurodivergence-affirming.
I am a highly experienced psychosexual and relationship therapist and offer talking therapy for the following issues: relationship difficulties, erectile dysfunction, premature or delayed ejaculation, compulsive sexual behaviour, pain during sex, difficulties with orgasm, arousal or desire issues, sexuality or sex education.
Psychosexual therapy is talking therapy specialized in treating sexual issues. I offer time-limited or longer-term sex therapy to individuals or couples. My approach is straightforward and to the point. I offer regular reviews to ensure we meet client's needs and goals.
I am a highly experienced psychosexual and relationship therapist and offer talking therapy for the following issues: relationship difficulties, erectile dysfunction, premature or delayed ejaculation, compulsive sexual behaviour, pain during sex, difficulties with orgasm, arousal or desire issues, sexuality or sex education.
Psychosexual therapy is talking therapy specialized in treating sexual issues. I offer time-limited or longer-term sex therapy to individuals or couples. My approach is straightforward and to the point. I offer regular reviews to ensure we meet client's needs and goals.
Do you struggle with ADHD, Addiction or Trauma? Have you tried ways of managing any of these aspects and felt that its not working, not sustainable or just to painful? Maybe you dont know where to start or really what the problem is. Therapy or coaching is a great place to start your journey and make sense of how you feel, what you would like to achieve and what this may look like. Sometimes life can feel complicated and feeling heard and making sense of why you may be feeling like you do can be a great starting place.
Do you struggle with ADHD, Addiction or Trauma? Have you tried ways of managing any of these aspects and felt that its not working, not sustainable or just to painful? Maybe you dont know where to start or really what the problem is. Therapy or coaching is a great place to start your journey and make sense of how you feel, what you would like to achieve and what this may look like. Sometimes life can feel complicated and feeling heard and making sense of why you may be feeling like you do can be a great starting place.
You may have concerns about your body, weight, appearance, sexuality, drugs or alcohol.
I have been qualified for sixteen years. I work with couples, families and individuals. I also have experience of working with ex-cult or high demand members or coercive relationships. I work with narcissism, trauma and psychosexual clients. I have worked for Mind, the NHS providing short and long term therapy as well as running my own private practice.
You may have concerns about your body, weight, appearance, sexuality, drugs or alcohol.
I have been qualified for sixteen years. I work with couples, families and individuals. I also have experience of working with ex-cult or high demand members or coercive relationships. I work with narcissism, trauma and psychosexual clients. I have worked for Mind, the NHS providing short and long term therapy as well as running my own private practice.
I have completed further training in Trauma, PTSD, Menopause, Couples & Sex Therapy, and I am a GSRD, Kink and BDSM aware counsellor.
Are you feeling anxious, stressed or overwhelmed with the challenges of life, experiencing trauma or other difficulties? Are you finding it difficult to understand and/or communicate how you feel? Struggling with your relationships and/or your own identity? Life getting on top of you? Let’s explore this together ….
I look to offer a safe, confidential and judgement free environment for you to talk and be heard.
I have completed further training in Trauma, PTSD, Menopause, Couples & Sex Therapy, and I am a GSRD, Kink and BDSM aware counsellor.
Are you feeling anxious, stressed or overwhelmed with the challenges of life, experiencing trauma or other difficulties? Are you finding it difficult to understand and/or communicate how you feel? Struggling with your relationships and/or your own identity? Life getting on top of you? Let’s explore this together ….
I look to offer a safe, confidential and judgement free environment for you to talk and be heard.
I am a Senior Accredited Member and Trustee at the College of Sex and Relationship Therapists.
I offer face-to-face or online therapy. I take an integrative approach that incorporates a number of therapeutic schools of thought. I provide a confidential and non-judgmental and is the basis from which I will facilitate a process for you to explore your situation and bring about change if necessary.
I am a Senior Accredited Member and Trustee at the College of Sex and Relationship Therapists.
I offer face-to-face or online therapy. I take an integrative approach that incorporates a number of therapeutic schools of thought. I provide a confidential and non-judgmental and is the basis from which I will facilitate a process for you to explore your situation and bring about change if necessary.
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Sex Therapy Counsellors
Who is sex therapy for?
Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.
Why do people need sex therapy?
Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.
What happens in sex therapy?
People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.
What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?
Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.