Sex Therapists in Rochester

I have worked as a counsellor and psycho sexual therapist for 30 years and I still find it as fascinating and rewarding now as when I started. I am COSRT and Relate accredited. I work with individuals, couples, families. I aim to support my clients to clarify the issues that are hindering their development and relationships in an effective way, while developing a greater understanding of the causes of their current problems and issues. In some cases the counselling can be quite specific and goal orientated; yet with others it can be more exploratory and pastoral. Most often it can include both, depending on the need.
I have worked as a counsellor and psycho sexual therapist for 30 years and I still find it as fascinating and rewarding now as when I started. I am COSRT and Relate accredited. I work with individuals, couples, families. I aim to support my clients to clarify the issues that are hindering their development and relationships in an effective way, while developing a greater understanding of the causes of their current problems and issues. In some cases the counselling can be quite specific and goal orientated; yet with others it can be more exploratory and pastoral. Most often it can include both, depending on the need.

Hi, I’m Tom, and I’m here to walk alongside you on your journey toward healing and growth. I know how difficult it can be to reach out for help, especially when life feels overwhelming. My approach to therapy is all about creating a space where you can feel safe, heard, and understood—without judgment. I work with people facing a variety of challenges, from anxiety and depression to trauma and relationship issues. I’m particularly passionate about supporting men’s mental health and understanding the unique struggles that come with societal pressures and expectations.
Hi, I’m Tom, and I’m here to walk alongside you on your journey toward healing and growth. I know how difficult it can be to reach out for help, especially when life feels overwhelming. My approach to therapy is all about creating a space where you can feel safe, heard, and understood—without judgment. I work with people facing a variety of challenges, from anxiety and depression to trauma and relationship issues. I’m particularly passionate about supporting men’s mental health and understanding the unique struggles that come with societal pressures and expectations.
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I have completed further training in Trauma, PTSD, Menopause, Couples & Sex Therapy, and I am a GSRD, Kink and BDSM aware counsellor.
Are you feeling anxious, stressed or overwhelmed with the challenges of life, experiencing trauma or other difficulties? Are you finding it difficult to understand and/or communicate how you feel? Struggling with your relationships and/or your own identity? Life getting on top of you? Let’s explore this together ….
I look to offer a safe, confidential and judgement free environment for you to talk and be heard.
I have completed further training in Trauma, PTSD, Menopause, Couples & Sex Therapy, and I am a GSRD, Kink and BDSM aware counsellor.
Are you feeling anxious, stressed or overwhelmed with the challenges of life, experiencing trauma or other difficulties? Are you finding it difficult to understand and/or communicate how you feel? Struggling with your relationships and/or your own identity? Life getting on top of you? Let’s explore this together ….
I look to offer a safe, confidential and judgement free environment for you to talk and be heard.

As a sex and relationship therapist, my aim is to help you find your inner resources to overcome the challenges you are coming with.
I work with individuals that experience sexual and relationship difficulties, including: desire issues, orgasm difficulties, rapid or delayed ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, painful sex (such as vulvodynia, vaginismus, dyspareunia), sexual anxiety or aversion, sexual trauma, infidelity, loss, communication, intimacy issues.
As a sex and relationship therapist, my aim is to help you find your inner resources to overcome the challenges you are coming with.
I work with individuals that experience sexual and relationship difficulties, including: desire issues, orgasm difficulties, rapid or delayed ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, painful sex (such as vulvodynia, vaginismus, dyspareunia), sexual anxiety or aversion, sexual trauma, infidelity, loss, communication, intimacy issues.

Accredited member of COSRT College of Sex and Relationship Therapists.
Hello, my name is Rose Mazillius (she/her/they) and I am an accredited, queer, integrative Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist working from my office in Shoreditch, East London. If you have found your way to reading this, it is likely you are wondering about making some changes to your life. I offer short, medium and long term therapy for individuals, couples and people in multi-partner or non-monogamous relationships from my office and online. I adopt a relational integrative approach, combining methods from person-centered, psychodynamic, cognitive behaviour therapy (CBT) as well as somatic and mindfulness practice.
Accredited member of COSRT College of Sex and Relationship Therapists.
Hello, my name is Rose Mazillius (she/her/they) and I am an accredited, queer, integrative Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist working from my office in Shoreditch, East London. If you have found your way to reading this, it is likely you are wondering about making some changes to your life. I offer short, medium and long term therapy for individuals, couples and people in multi-partner or non-monogamous relationships from my office and online. I adopt a relational integrative approach, combining methods from person-centered, psychodynamic, cognitive behaviour therapy (CBT) as well as somatic and mindfulness practice.

Bima Loxley
Psychotherapist, COSRT Accred
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
I am a queer trans nonbinary sex & relationship therapist who provides therapy for couples, multiple partnered relationships (ie non monogamy, colleagues, friends, families & groups) & individuals online only.
I offer relationship therapy for couples, families & multiple partnered relationships, as well as sex therapy. I am a diversity-inclusive therapist who works with all clients regardless of ethnicity, religion, gender, sexuality, age (18+), or disability. I work integratively, which means I tailor the therapy to you & your needs.
I am a queer trans nonbinary sex & relationship therapist who provides therapy for couples, multiple partnered relationships (ie non monogamy, colleagues, friends, families & groups) & individuals online only.
I offer relationship therapy for couples, families & multiple partnered relationships, as well as sex therapy. I am a diversity-inclusive therapist who works with all clients regardless of ethnicity, religion, gender, sexuality, age (18+), or disability. I work integratively, which means I tailor the therapy to you & your needs.

Relationship and sex therapy could be the way forward to heal and strengthen your bond.
I have completed the acclaimed advanced course in Couples Therapy and also the advanced Trauma Diploma with; Naos Institute. I am a qualified Psychosexual therapist trained by the outstanding London Diploma in Psychosexual & Relationship. I am EMDR specialist who uses the holistic approach of the the mind, body & soul.
Relationship and sex therapy could be the way forward to heal and strengthen your bond.
I have completed the acclaimed advanced course in Couples Therapy and also the advanced Trauma Diploma with; Naos Institute. I am a qualified Psychosexual therapist trained by the outstanding London Diploma in Psychosexual & Relationship. I am EMDR specialist who uses the holistic approach of the the mind, body & soul.

I am a qualified and accredited sex and relationship therapist.
I offer face-to-face or online therapy. I take an integrative approach that incorporates a number of therapeutic schools of thought. I provide a confidential and non-judgmental and is the basis from which I will facilitate a process for you to explore your situation and bring about change if necessary.
I am a qualified and accredited sex and relationship therapist.
I offer face-to-face or online therapy. I take an integrative approach that incorporates a number of therapeutic schools of thought. I provide a confidential and non-judgmental and is the basis from which I will facilitate a process for you to explore your situation and bring about change if necessary.

Alvaro Navarro Psychosexual/Relationship Therapy
Counsellor, COSRT General
Verified Verified
Canterbury CT1
I am a sex positive therapist and I am comfortable exploring alternative sexual interests.
I have a postgraduate specialist training as a psychosexual and relationship therapist, which enables me to provide support for specific sexual difficulties, within relationships and for individuals. I hold a Diploma in Gender and Sexual Diversity Therapy and I am used to working with a wide variety of people with different outlooks and sexual practices.
I am a sex positive therapist and I am comfortable exploring alternative sexual interests.
I have a postgraduate specialist training as a psychosexual and relationship therapist, which enables me to provide support for specific sexual difficulties, within relationships and for individuals. I hold a Diploma in Gender and Sexual Diversity Therapy and I am used to working with a wide variety of people with different outlooks and sexual practices.

My passion lies in guiding those navigating personal and relationship complexities, divorce, separation, medical issues, and various psychosexual concerns including painful sex, sexual dysfunctions, challenges with libido and intimacy, and other personal crises.
Hi, I’m Natalie, a compassionate Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist with extensive experience in both NHS and private practice settings. I work with couples and individuals who wish to explore intimacy, relationships, and self-connection in ways that are not only healing but also inspiring and transformative. I understand firsthand how cultural expectations, family dynamics, & societal pressures can impact our sense of self and our connections with others. I offer a safe, supportive, and judgment-free environment where you feel truly seen, heard, & valued helping you to explore these complex experiences openly.
My passion lies in guiding those navigating personal and relationship complexities, divorce, separation, medical issues, and various psychosexual concerns including painful sex, sexual dysfunctions, challenges with libido and intimacy, and other personal crises.
Hi, I’m Natalie, a compassionate Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist with extensive experience in both NHS and private practice settings. I work with couples and individuals who wish to explore intimacy, relationships, and self-connection in ways that are not only healing but also inspiring and transformative. I understand firsthand how cultural expectations, family dynamics, & societal pressures can impact our sense of self and our connections with others. I offer a safe, supportive, and judgment-free environment where you feel truly seen, heard, & valued helping you to explore these complex experiences openly.

I work with clients with a variety of problems: OCD & other anxiety difficulties, relationship & sex difficulties, and issues pertaining to self esteem, sexuality & gender identity.
Hi, I'm Honor. I work with clients who have been experiencing a wide range of issues including anxiety, OCD, depression, stress, relationship, gender and sexual difficulties. I believe each and every client is unique and I feel strongly about providing a space where you feel seen and understood. I am passionate about helping you work towards achieving your own personal goals as well as providing a safe space where you feel comfortable to express yourself and continue your journey to healing. I can support you to change unwanted behaviours that might be impacting your life negatively.
I work with clients with a variety of problems: OCD & other anxiety difficulties, relationship & sex difficulties, and issues pertaining to self esteem, sexuality & gender identity.
Hi, I'm Honor. I work with clients who have been experiencing a wide range of issues including anxiety, OCD, depression, stress, relationship, gender and sexual difficulties. I believe each and every client is unique and I feel strongly about providing a space where you feel seen and understood. I am passionate about helping you work towards achieving your own personal goals as well as providing a safe space where you feel comfortable to express yourself and continue your journey to healing. I can support you to change unwanted behaviours that might be impacting your life negatively.

Hello there and welcome…my name is Joanne and I specialise in Couples Therapy, Psychosexual Therapy and Sex/Porn addiction.
I work with all styles of relationships and neurodivergence. I will support you to find new healthier ways of relating and rebuilding connection with your partner whether that be communication , trust or an intimate connection. In terms of addiction, I will support you to change unhelpful patterns of behaviour and aid recovery from sex/porn addiction.
Hello there and welcome…my name is Joanne and I specialise in Couples Therapy, Psychosexual Therapy and Sex/Porn addiction.
I work with all styles of relationships and neurodivergence. I will support you to find new healthier ways of relating and rebuilding connection with your partner whether that be communication , trust or an intimate connection. In terms of addiction, I will support you to change unhelpful patterns of behaviour and aid recovery from sex/porn addiction.

As an Integrative Sex & Relationship Therapist, I provide a safe, non-judgmental space where we can work together on relationship challenges and intimate concerns.
I tailor all treatments to suit my client’s specific needs. I am eclectic in my approach to therapy to help facilitate a stronger bond between partners, to help clients develop alternative ways of thinking and behaving to reduce psychological distress or help clients to achieve different perspectives and discover new meaning in their lives.
As an Integrative Sex & Relationship Therapist, I provide a safe, non-judgmental space where we can work together on relationship challenges and intimate concerns.
I tailor all treatments to suit my client’s specific needs. I am eclectic in my approach to therapy to help facilitate a stronger bond between partners, to help clients develop alternative ways of thinking and behaving to reduce psychological distress or help clients to achieve different perspectives and discover new meaning in their lives.

I am particularly experienced at seeing people and couples presenting with sexual difficulties, such as painful sex or unreliable erections.
I have completed doctoral-level training in multiple therapeutic approaches: psychodynamic, systemic and cognitive behavioural therapies. This means that I can draw on a wide range of psychological theories and treatments to make sense of your difficulties and plan a tailored treatment plan that is effective.
I am particularly experienced at seeing people and couples presenting with sexual difficulties, such as painful sex or unreliable erections.
I have completed doctoral-level training in multiple therapeutic approaches: psychodynamic, systemic and cognitive behavioural therapies. This means that I can draw on a wide range of psychological theories and treatments to make sense of your difficulties and plan a tailored treatment plan that is effective.

I offer couple and individual counselling and sex therapy.
My approach is tailored to the couple or individual. Everyone comes to therapy with different needs and the sessions need to feel worth it for you; it's important that once you feel comfortable, you're not just scratching the surface but really feel impowered to have difficult conversations, as well as gain new skills to manage your situation.
I offer couple and individual counselling and sex therapy.
My approach is tailored to the couple or individual. Everyone comes to therapy with different needs and the sessions need to feel worth it for you; it's important that once you feel comfortable, you're not just scratching the surface but really feel impowered to have difficult conversations, as well as gain new skills to manage your situation.

Psychosexual Therapy Sexual issues: Sexuality; Impulsive sexual behaviours; Erectile Dysfunction/PE; Vaginismus & sexual pain; Anorgasmia; Dyspareunia; Low sexual desire & arousal; Sexual trauma; Sex after grief
I'm an integrative psychotherapist specialising in psychosexual and relationship therapy. I trained with London Diploma in Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy and am a registered member of COSRT. I'm passionate about my work, supporting individuals and couples from all backgrounds including sexual trauma survivors, migrants, LGBTQ+, and GSRD. I offer therapy for a wide range of sexual and relationship issues. I tailor my therapeutic tools and approaches to individual clients’ needs. These include CBT, attachment theory, psychodynamic therapy, imago therapy and existential therapy in addition to a wide range of psychosexual tools.
Psychosexual Therapy Sexual issues: Sexuality; Impulsive sexual behaviours; Erectile Dysfunction/PE; Vaginismus & sexual pain; Anorgasmia; Dyspareunia; Low sexual desire & arousal; Sexual trauma; Sex after grief
I'm an integrative psychotherapist specialising in psychosexual and relationship therapy. I trained with London Diploma in Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy and am a registered member of COSRT. I'm passionate about my work, supporting individuals and couples from all backgrounds including sexual trauma survivors, migrants, LGBTQ+, and GSRD. I offer therapy for a wide range of sexual and relationship issues. I tailor my therapeutic tools and approaches to individual clients’ needs. These include CBT, attachment theory, psychodynamic therapy, imago therapy and existential therapy in addition to a wide range of psychosexual tools.

I bring nearly two decades of experience in mental health & therapy to my practice, specialising in sex & relationship therapy and EMDR trauma therapy.
Hi, I’m Jo, a qualified Integrative Counsellor (BACP/NCPS), EMDR Trauma Therapist, and Clinical Sexologist (COSRT). I specialise in helping people overcome emotional, relational, and sexual challenges. Using EMDR, I support individuals in healing from trauma and regaining control of their lives. As a Clinical Sexologist, I offer compassionate guidance on sexual health, intimacy, desire, identity, and communication, helping you build fulfilling relationships. I provide a safe, affirming space where everyone is welcome and supported.
I bring nearly two decades of experience in mental health & therapy to my practice, specialising in sex & relationship therapy and EMDR trauma therapy.
Hi, I’m Jo, a qualified Integrative Counsellor (BACP/NCPS), EMDR Trauma Therapist, and Clinical Sexologist (COSRT). I specialise in helping people overcome emotional, relational, and sexual challenges. Using EMDR, I support individuals in healing from trauma and regaining control of their lives. As a Clinical Sexologist, I offer compassionate guidance on sexual health, intimacy, desire, identity, and communication, helping you build fulfilling relationships. I provide a safe, affirming space where everyone is welcome and supported.

As a trained sex therapist I can help with sexual difficulties.
Sometimes we all need additional support to navigate difficult times and making a decision to seek help for our personal problems can be daunting. I believe in creating a safe space to work together, where you are the expert in your own experiences and I have the experience and expertise in psychological theories and techniques. I believe that by bringing together this expertise we can work together to enable you to achieve your unique personal goals. Some of the relationship problems I work with include communication issues, affairs and betrayals, family issues, parenting issues, separation and divorce.
As a trained sex therapist I can help with sexual difficulties.
Sometimes we all need additional support to navigate difficult times and making a decision to seek help for our personal problems can be daunting. I believe in creating a safe space to work together, where you are the expert in your own experiences and I have the experience and expertise in psychological theories and techniques. I believe that by bringing together this expertise we can work together to enable you to achieve your unique personal goals. Some of the relationship problems I work with include communication issues, affairs and betrayals, family issues, parenting issues, separation and divorce.

I believe that sex, intimacy, and love are skills we get to learn and practice.
My intention as your therapist is to both witness you and challenge existing dynamics and beliefs that may not be serving you anymore. All of my training as an integrative therapist and relationship coach are available to you in our sessions. This means we can work exploratively, creatively or more pragmatically - depending on what would best support you.
I currently have daytime availability only and a waitlist for evening sessions. I work Monday - Friday and offer sliding scale pricing.
I believe that sex, intimacy, and love are skills we get to learn and practice.
My intention as your therapist is to both witness you and challenge existing dynamics and beliefs that may not be serving you anymore. All of my training as an integrative therapist and relationship coach are available to you in our sessions. This means we can work exploratively, creatively or more pragmatically - depending on what would best support you.
I currently have daytime availability only and a waitlist for evening sessions. I work Monday - Friday and offer sliding scale pricing.

Some areas treated by my associates and I are: Relationships / Sex & Couples Counselling, Compulsive Sexual Behaviour (including problematic porn use), Anxiety, Depression, Low Self-Confidence & Distressed Eating.
After discussing your challenges in the initial consultation, we will establish a clear treatment plan in line with your goals. Empathy, genuineness and unconditional positive regard are at the heart of our work together. I also offer informative resources and experiments for you to build a toolbox for your own success.
Some areas treated by my associates and I are: Relationships / Sex & Couples Counselling, Compulsive Sexual Behaviour (including problematic porn use), Anxiety, Depression, Low Self-Confidence & Distressed Eating.
After discussing your challenges in the initial consultation, we will establish a clear treatment plan in line with your goals. Empathy, genuineness and unconditional positive regard are at the heart of our work together. I also offer informative resources and experiments for you to build a toolbox for your own success.
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Sex Therapy Counsellors
Who is sex therapy for?
Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.
Why do people need sex therapy?
Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.
What happens in sex therapy?
People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.
What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?
Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.