Self Esteem Counselling in Rochester
I became a therapist because I am passionate about people and improving as well as enhancing mental wellbeing. I understand that life can be a challenge and at times it may be hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel but I want to assure you that you do not have to go through life’s struggles by yourself. I am here for you and I am here with you. With your permission, I would like to come besides you and help you explore and discover events, thoughts, feelings and patterns of behaviour and together support you to make changes.
I became a therapist because I am passionate about people and improving as well as enhancing mental wellbeing. I understand that life can be a challenge and at times it may be hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel but I want to assure you that you do not have to go through life’s struggles by yourself. I am here for you and I am here with you. With your permission, I would like to come besides you and help you explore and discover events, thoughts, feelings and patterns of behaviour and together support you to make changes.
We’re Emily Cheney, a Cognitive Behavioural Psychotherapist, and Emma Mudge, a Coaching Psychologist. Together, we form EmPower You, where we bring a wealth of knowledge and passion for supporting others. Our approach is backed by the latest research, and we ensure that we give you the tools and knowledge to feel in control and reach your goals. At EmPower You, we place you at the heart of everything we do. Our approach is person-centred, compassionate, and tailored to your unique needs. We’re here to support and guide you on your individual journey to becoming your best self, whatever that may look like.
We’re Emily Cheney, a Cognitive Behavioural Psychotherapist, and Emma Mudge, a Coaching Psychologist. Together, we form EmPower You, where we bring a wealth of knowledge and passion for supporting others. Our approach is backed by the latest research, and we ensure that we give you the tools and knowledge to feel in control and reach your goals. At EmPower You, we place you at the heart of everything we do. Our approach is person-centred, compassionate, and tailored to your unique needs. We’re here to support and guide you on your individual journey to becoming your best self, whatever that may look like.
Counselling room (Hoo Peninsula/Medway) Accredited
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Rochester ME3
I'm an experienced Accredited Counsellor. The BACP award says I'm "working to a higher standard as a competent and ethical independent practitioner". I run the private practice following experience with NHS and leading mental health charity MIND; thus, I'm able to provide what is needed. I've worked with low self-esteem, isolation, depression, anxiety (health, claustrophobia, phobias), panic, confusion, bereavement, life changes, relationships, OCD, abuse, trauma, complex trauma, problems with belonging and/or sense of self. I offer face to face, online video and telephone sessions. I will be able to offer a therapy dog soon!
I'm an experienced Accredited Counsellor. The BACP award says I'm "working to a higher standard as a competent and ethical independent practitioner". I run the private practice following experience with NHS and leading mental health charity MIND; thus, I'm able to provide what is needed. I've worked with low self-esteem, isolation, depression, anxiety (health, claustrophobia, phobias), panic, confusion, bereavement, life changes, relationships, OCD, abuse, trauma, complex trauma, problems with belonging and/or sense of self. I offer face to face, online video and telephone sessions. I will be able to offer a therapy dog soon!
Hi, I’m Maisie – a qualified, accredited REBT/CBT therapist and integrative counsellor.
Therapy with me is honest, down-to-earth, and completely human. No pressure to have the right words. You’re allowed to show up exactly as you are – messy bits and all.
I work with people navigating all sorts of things; anxiety, depression, low self-worth, grief, trauma, relationship struggles, or just feeling completely stuck. Whatever’s going on, you don’t have to carry it alone. Together, we’ll unpack it at your pace – with warmth, flexibility and zero judgement.
I work integratively, which means I shape therapy around you.
Hi, I’m Maisie – a qualified, accredited REBT/CBT therapist and integrative counsellor.
Therapy with me is honest, down-to-earth, and completely human. No pressure to have the right words. You’re allowed to show up exactly as you are – messy bits and all.
I work with people navigating all sorts of things; anxiety, depression, low self-worth, grief, trauma, relationship struggles, or just feeling completely stuck. Whatever’s going on, you don’t have to carry it alone. Together, we’ll unpack it at your pace – with warmth, flexibility and zero judgement.
I work integratively, which means I shape therapy around you.
I have extensive training and clinical experience in the treatment of a range of psychological disorders, with a particular focus on trauma and post-traumatic stress disorder and problems caused by adverse childhood experiences including low self esteem, relationship difficulties, and emotional dysregulation.
As a one-size-fits-all approach does not apply to the complexity of human behaviour, I draw from a wide range of approaches based on the needs of the individual and the nature of the presenting problem including EMDR, CBT, Schema Therapy, and somatic psychology.
I have extensive training and clinical experience in the treatment of a range of psychological disorders, with a particular focus on trauma and post-traumatic stress disorder and problems caused by adverse childhood experiences including low self esteem, relationship difficulties, and emotional dysregulation.
As a one-size-fits-all approach does not apply to the complexity of human behaviour, I draw from a wide range of approaches based on the needs of the individual and the nature of the presenting problem including EMDR, CBT, Schema Therapy, and somatic psychology.
Occasionally, we find ourselves experiencing a wide range of difficulties. It could be anxiety, low self-esteem, depression, grief, or just a sense that you do not feel good enough no matter how hard you try. Whatever the reason, I understand that it can feel incredibly isolating and as if no one seems to understand you or how you are feeling. It can reach a point where we begin to recognise that something has got to change; but are just not sure what that is yet. I truly believe that part of the healing power is the ability to untangle your thoughts and feelings freely, without the fear of judgement and being truly heard.
Occasionally, we find ourselves experiencing a wide range of difficulties. It could be anxiety, low self-esteem, depression, grief, or just a sense that you do not feel good enough no matter how hard you try. Whatever the reason, I understand that it can feel incredibly isolating and as if no one seems to understand you or how you are feeling. It can reach a point where we begin to recognise that something has got to change; but are just not sure what that is yet. I truly believe that part of the healing power is the ability to untangle your thoughts and feelings freely, without the fear of judgement and being truly heard.
Do you struggle with self-doubt and anxiety, feel like a fraud or impostor, worry that you're going to be "found out", and despite your successes and achievements you still feel the same. You may find yourself working harder and longer to try and appease the self-doubt, you may avoid opportunities due to the fear of failure, and can struggle with procrastination. Do you find yourself being self-critical, putting yourself under a lot of pressure to achieve, comparing yourself negatively to others, and overthinking. Do you want to break free from the impact of Impostor Syndrome, building confidence in yourself and living life fully?
Do you struggle with self-doubt and anxiety, feel like a fraud or impostor, worry that you're going to be "found out", and despite your successes and achievements you still feel the same. You may find yourself working harder and longer to try and appease the self-doubt, you may avoid opportunities due to the fear of failure, and can struggle with procrastination. Do you find yourself being self-critical, putting yourself under a lot of pressure to achieve, comparing yourself negatively to others, and overthinking. Do you want to break free from the impact of Impostor Syndrome, building confidence in yourself and living life fully?
I understand how daunting it can be to begin counselling. Whatever you’re struggling with, be it depression, grief, self-esteem or relationship issues, we can look at the jigsaw pieces of your life together, to help you gain clarity. This may involve exploring the past to identify patterns in emotions and behaviours which shine a light on current issues. You may be grappling with life’s meaning after bereavement, a relationship breakdown or job loss. Any kind of loss can have a huge impact on our mental wellbeing. I work with you to help you make sense of things & find meaning and purpose in order to move forward and feel less lost.
I understand how daunting it can be to begin counselling. Whatever you’re struggling with, be it depression, grief, self-esteem or relationship issues, we can look at the jigsaw pieces of your life together, to help you gain clarity. This may involve exploring the past to identify patterns in emotions and behaviours which shine a light on current issues. You may be grappling with life’s meaning after bereavement, a relationship breakdown or job loss. Any kind of loss can have a huge impact on our mental wellbeing. I work with you to help you make sense of things & find meaning and purpose in order to move forward and feel less lost.
Rebecca Attwood- Low Cost Counselling
Counsellor, MA, BACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Rochester ME1
We believe that everyone who needs to see a counsellor should be able to do so. Cost should not be the reason that you are not able to access support. Day Time Sessions (7am- 5pm) £28. Evening Sessions (5pm-8pm) £30. Whatever your reasons for seeking support, be assured you will be treated with respect and confidentiality, and given the safe space to be yourself.
We believe that everyone who needs to see a counsellor should be able to do so. Cost should not be the reason that you are not able to access support. Day Time Sessions (7am- 5pm) £28. Evening Sessions (5pm-8pm) £30. Whatever your reasons for seeking support, be assured you will be treated with respect and confidentiality, and given the safe space to be yourself.
I specialise in supporting people experiencing issues surrounding PTSD & trauma, anxiety, stress & panic, low self esteem & depression.
I'm an accredited Cognitive Behavioural Psychotherapist and Counsellor with almost 20yrs experience in mental health. I support Adults and Adolescents (12-17yrs). I have additional training in EMDR Therapy and Supervision, with over 10 years experience Supervising within the NHS and private practice. I have a special interest in PTSD and trauma. I also specialise in anxiety disorders (ie. PTSD, Panic, Health, GAD, Social Anxiety and Phobias) depression and low self-esteem. I Supervise Trainees on the level 7 Masters in CBT as well as other qualified clinicians. F2F and Remote.
I specialise in supporting people experiencing issues surrounding PTSD & trauma, anxiety, stress & panic, low self esteem & depression.
I'm an accredited Cognitive Behavioural Psychotherapist and Counsellor with almost 20yrs experience in mental health. I support Adults and Adolescents (12-17yrs). I have additional training in EMDR Therapy and Supervision, with over 10 years experience Supervising within the NHS and private practice. I have a special interest in PTSD and trauma. I also specialise in anxiety disorders (ie. PTSD, Panic, Health, GAD, Social Anxiety and Phobias) depression and low self-esteem. I Supervise Trainees on the level 7 Masters in CBT as well as other qualified clinicians. F2F and Remote.
My background in working for organisations across London & Kent gave me a particular understanding of the emotional challenges that many of us face including, depression, anxiety, stress, low self-esteem, bereavement, relationship & family issues. I believe that evidence based psychological therapies such as cognitive behaviour therapy (CBT) along with an integrative counselling approach allows flexibility in dealing with each individual’s needs. This, combined with a safe & non-judgemental therapeutic relationship is key for the process of change & recovery.
My background in working for organisations across London & Kent gave me a particular understanding of the emotional challenges that many of us face including, depression, anxiety, stress, low self-esteem, bereavement, relationship & family issues. I believe that evidence based psychological therapies such as cognitive behaviour therapy (CBT) along with an integrative counselling approach allows flexibility in dealing with each individual’s needs. This, combined with a safe & non-judgemental therapeutic relationship is key for the process of change & recovery.
Meet Our Self Esteem Counsellors
Hi, I’m Jade, an Integrated Counselling Psychotherapist based in Rochester, Kent.
Life can be overwhelming, and when anxiety, low mood, or relationship struggles start to take over, it can feel hard to find a way forward. That’s where I come in.
Hi, I’m Jade, an Integrated Counselling Psychotherapist based in Rochester, Kent.
Life can be overwhelming, and when anxiety, low mood, or relationship struggles start to take over, it can feel hard to find a way forward. That’s where I come in.
Hello, and thank you for viewing my page. I am a Cognitive Behavioural Psychotherapist and I help people experiencing depression and anxiety disorders to make positive change in the here and now. I hope to provide you with a safe, warm and confidential space to explore your difficulties and work towards your goals. Perhaps you are struggling with worry, catastrophic thinking, low self-esteem, avoidance, procrastination, feeling low or know things just don't feel right. Are these things stopping you from enjoying life, or living how you want to? If you feel ready to make a positive change, I would love to hear from you.
Hello, and thank you for viewing my page. I am a Cognitive Behavioural Psychotherapist and I help people experiencing depression and anxiety disorders to make positive change in the here and now. I hope to provide you with a safe, warm and confidential space to explore your difficulties and work towards your goals. Perhaps you are struggling with worry, catastrophic thinking, low self-esteem, avoidance, procrastination, feeling low or know things just don't feel right. Are these things stopping you from enjoying life, or living how you want to? If you feel ready to make a positive change, I would love to hear from you.
Marital and Premarital Relationship Issues Self Esteem
I am passionate about working with adults and youths to tackle a range of challenges, including depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, relationship breakdowns, pre-marital and marriage issues, trauma, academic obstacles, decision-making, and parent-child dynamics. A central focus of my work is empowering clients to develop self-esteem and confidence while discovering their true selves. I recognise that life changes can be daunting, often making the future seem uncertain. However, I believe that the answers we seek are often already within us. Together, we can build on your strengths and cultivate the skills needed to thrive.
Marital and Premarital Relationship Issues Self Esteem
I am passionate about working with adults and youths to tackle a range of challenges, including depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, relationship breakdowns, pre-marital and marriage issues, trauma, academic obstacles, decision-making, and parent-child dynamics. A central focus of my work is empowering clients to develop self-esteem and confidence while discovering their true selves. I recognise that life changes can be daunting, often making the future seem uncertain. However, I believe that the answers we seek are often already within us. Together, we can build on your strengths and cultivate the skills needed to thrive.
I specialise in life transitions, anxiety, depression and self esteem issues and I have worked widely with young people struggling with identity issues and gender dysphoria.
Sometimes life can feel like a struggle, provoking anxiety, distress and confusion. You may feel that something needs to change, but are unsure of which direction to take. Maybe you already know what you need but would welcome a little support and clarity to enable you to move forward. Perhaps you have experienced a significant life event, either recently or in the past, that has derailed you? Bereavement, relationships, work and health are among the many concerns that can be de-stabilising. Counselling can help to untangle past or current concerns that are causing you to feel low or isolated.
I specialise in life transitions, anxiety, depression and self esteem issues and I have worked widely with young people struggling with identity issues and gender dysphoria.
Sometimes life can feel like a struggle, provoking anxiety, distress and confusion. You may feel that something needs to change, but are unsure of which direction to take. Maybe you already know what you need but would welcome a little support and clarity to enable you to move forward. Perhaps you have experienced a significant life event, either recently or in the past, that has derailed you? Bereavement, relationships, work and health are among the many concerns that can be de-stabilising. Counselling can help to untangle past or current concerns that are causing you to feel low or isolated.
Dr Esther Cole
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
12 Endorsed
Rochester ME2
Do you need to make sense of, and overcome trauma, feelings of sadness, low- self esteem or burnout?
All therapies are tailor-made for you by my team, and evidence-based. We build connection, trust and authenticity within the therapy relationship. We offer effective therapy strategies that enhance self-awareness and help you achieve your goals for a clearer, happier, positive mindset. We can also help improve the quality of the relationships in your life.
Do you need to make sense of, and overcome trauma, feelings of sadness, low- self esteem or burnout?
All therapies are tailor-made for you by my team, and evidence-based. We build connection, trust and authenticity within the therapy relationship. We offer effective therapy strategies that enhance self-awareness and help you achieve your goals for a clearer, happier, positive mindset. We can also help improve the quality of the relationships in your life.
Do you find yourself feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or stressed? I am here to support you manage and reduce these feelings, while also boosting your self-esteem and confidence. Together, we can work towards rediscovering your true self and finding a sense of peace. It's completely normal to feel lost or confused about your emotions. I provide a judgment-free environment where you can freely express yourself and make positive changes to progress in your life.
Do you find yourself feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or stressed? I am here to support you manage and reduce these feelings, while also boosting your self-esteem and confidence. Together, we can work towards rediscovering your true self and finding a sense of peace. It's completely normal to feel lost or confused about your emotions. I provide a judgment-free environment where you can freely express yourself and make positive changes to progress in your life.
Although relationship counselling and psycho sexual therapy are my specialities, I also have experience and training with depression, bereavement, anxiety, low self esteem, bullying, jealousy, lonliness, postnatal depression and trauma.
I have worked as a counsellor and psycho sexual therapist for 30 years and I still find it as fascinating and rewarding now as when I started. I am COSRT and Relate accredited. I work with individuals, couples, families. I aim to support my clients to clarify the issues that are hindering their development and relationships in an effective way, while developing a greater understanding of the causes of their current problems and issues. In some cases the counselling can be quite specific and goal orientated; yet with others it can be more exploratory and pastoral. Most often it can include both, depending on the need.
Although relationship counselling and psycho sexual therapy are my specialities, I also have experience and training with depression, bereavement, anxiety, low self esteem, bullying, jealousy, lonliness, postnatal depression and trauma.
I have worked as a counsellor and psycho sexual therapist for 30 years and I still find it as fascinating and rewarding now as when I started. I am COSRT and Relate accredited. I work with individuals, couples, families. I aim to support my clients to clarify the issues that are hindering their development and relationships in an effective way, while developing a greater understanding of the causes of their current problems and issues. In some cases the counselling can be quite specific and goal orientated; yet with others it can be more exploratory and pastoral. Most often it can include both, depending on the need.
My name is Kirstie Eames and I’m here to help and support you to gain the skills you need to make a positive move forward. I offer one to one Integrative and Trauma counselling in a safe, confidential, Empathetic, non-judgemental space for you to be able to promote healing, build self-awareness, build self-esteem and to be heard to help you move forward in your life. As a trauma informed therapist I can provide a grounded presence where you can begin to explore your trauma while feeling safe, listened to, and held. I also work with more generalised mental health such as depression, all anxiety, PD's, behaviour disorders and OCD
My name is Kirstie Eames and I’m here to help and support you to gain the skills you need to make a positive move forward. I offer one to one Integrative and Trauma counselling in a safe, confidential, Empathetic, non-judgemental space for you to be able to promote healing, build self-awareness, build self-esteem and to be heard to help you move forward in your life. As a trauma informed therapist I can provide a grounded presence where you can begin to explore your trauma while feeling safe, listened to, and held. I also work with more generalised mental health such as depression, all anxiety, PD's, behaviour disorders and OCD
This impacts on relationships, self esteem, and health.
I help clients whose anxiety affects their relationships, to reduce their anxiety, and increase their self confidence. Developing a deeper understanding of who they are and how they want to live, my clients also restore a sense of purpose. Working on their childhood issues, they also find it offers clarity and ability to heal, improving their relationships.
This impacts on relationships, self esteem, and health.
I help clients whose anxiety affects their relationships, to reduce their anxiety, and increase their self confidence. Developing a deeper understanding of who they are and how they want to live, my clients also restore a sense of purpose. Working on their childhood issues, they also find it offers clarity and ability to heal, improving their relationships.
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Self Esteem Counsellors
When should a person seek therapy for low self-esteem?
When self-esteem problems begin to disrupt the healthy daily functioning of an individual, it may be a good time to look into therapy. If a person finds that they are not engaging with friends for fear of being judged, not completing work assignments because they don’t think they’re capable, or not finding romantic love because they don’t feel they’re worthy of it, a therapist may be able to help.
What are the signs of low self-esteem?
Low self-esteem is a common issue that can affect a person's mental and emotional well-being. Some common signs of low self-esteem include negative self-talk, perfectionism, social anxiety, difficulty making decisions, an inability to set boundaries, people-pleasing, and others. A lack of belief in oneself or one’s abilities and a feeling of not being worthy or deserving underlie most of these characteristics.
What causes low self-esteem?
Feelings of low self-worth can begin in childhood or adulthood. Being raised by a highly critical parent or growing up feeling constant disapproval can stay with a person well into adulthood. Specific issues in adulthood may also be a cause of low self-esteem. An unhappy relationship, a dysfunctional work or school experience can impact a person’s feelings of self-worth.
How can therapy improve self-esteem?
Therapists can help identify negative thought patterns that keep the client stuck in a loop of destructive self-talk and develop coping skills to change the voice in their head. A therapist can help with goal-setting, so that clients are better able to stay on task and build confidence from successfully completing work they’re proud of. Coaching a client on how to better communicate can improve relationships. These skills can result in someone with low self-esteem feeling empowered and living with less fear.