Attachment-based Counselling in Rochester
I like to describe life as an intricate tapestry woven from the threads of time, experiences, and emotions within relationships. Sometimes these relationships bring fulfilment and happiness. Sometimes they bring heartbreak, confusion, grief and a sense of deep loss. This can leave you feeling anxious, depressed, fearful, guilty, confused, and overwhelmed by life or 'stuck' and unable to move on. If you have experienced grief, past trauma or loss. Or you feel held back by feelings and emotions of past experiences. Perhaps you have tried to carry on with life as usual, but are struggling to keep it together.
I like to describe life as an intricate tapestry woven from the threads of time, experiences, and emotions within relationships. Sometimes these relationships bring fulfilment and happiness. Sometimes they bring heartbreak, confusion, grief and a sense of deep loss. This can leave you feeling anxious, depressed, fearful, guilty, confused, and overwhelmed by life or 'stuck' and unable to move on. If you have experienced grief, past trauma or loss. Or you feel held back by feelings and emotions of past experiences. Perhaps you have tried to carry on with life as usual, but are struggling to keep it together.
Many of the people I work with appear to be coping well on the outside—but internally feel overwhelmed, anxious, or disconnected.
I specialise in supporting high-achieving professionals who are used to performing at a high level, yet find themselves struggling with stress, burnout, or difficulties in their relationships.
You may be feeling constantly under pressure, overthinking everything, or noticing that your work is starting to impact your personal life. In relationships, this can show up as repeated arguments, emotional distance, or a sense that you and your partner are no longer on the same page.
Many of the people I work with appear to be coping well on the outside—but internally feel overwhelmed, anxious, or disconnected.
I specialise in supporting high-achieving professionals who are used to performing at a high level, yet find themselves struggling with stress, burnout, or difficulties in their relationships.
You may be feeling constantly under pressure, overthinking everything, or noticing that your work is starting to impact your personal life. In relationships, this can show up as repeated arguments, emotional distance, or a sense that you and your partner are no longer on the same page.
I treat a broad range of mental health conditions and worked as a senior psychotherapist in the NHS for many years. I have worked extensively with sexual and domestic abuse, anxiety and borderline personality issues as well as depression and Post-traumatic Stress conditions. I am experienced interculturally in helping people with racial and discrimination issues. I work in both English and Spanish. Hablo Espanol y Ingles y ofrezco terapia en los dos idomas.
I treat a broad range of mental health conditions and worked as a senior psychotherapist in the NHS for many years. I have worked extensively with sexual and domestic abuse, anxiety and borderline personality issues as well as depression and Post-traumatic Stress conditions. I am experienced interculturally in helping people with racial and discrimination issues. I work in both English and Spanish. Hablo Espanol y Ingles y ofrezco terapia en los dos idomas.
Whether you are struggling with mental health, wanting to process your story or need support making some changes, I offer a space to explore your story and what has made you who you are today. Together, we sit compassionately with whatever pain, struggle or issue is brought, bringing awareness to how things are and what lies behind it. I see a range of clients from all walks of life, ethnicities, and beliefs.
As a Christian, I understand wanting a therapist who appreciates faith as an important aspect of your life. I specialise in incorporating what this means to you and how you would like to include it in our work together.
Whether you are struggling with mental health, wanting to process your story or need support making some changes, I offer a space to explore your story and what has made you who you are today. Together, we sit compassionately with whatever pain, struggle or issue is brought, bringing awareness to how things are and what lies behind it. I see a range of clients from all walks of life, ethnicities, and beliefs.
As a Christian, I understand wanting a therapist who appreciates faith as an important aspect of your life. I specialise in incorporating what this means to you and how you would like to include it in our work together.
COUNSELLING AND WHAT YOU CAN EXPECT FROM ME:...……………I'm a person centred counsellor. My approach is non-directive and you are the expert of our own life. I work in a non-judgemental and respective way. I'm a caring, empathic and friendly person. Sometimes we need to step back and review our life and refocus and look at what matters which will then enable you to make new decisions. I will offer you a safe and confidential space where you will feel listened to without any criticism or judgment.
COUNSELLING AND WHAT YOU CAN EXPECT FROM ME:...……………I'm a person centred counsellor. My approach is non-directive and you are the expert of our own life. I work in a non-judgemental and respective way. I'm a caring, empathic and friendly person. Sometimes we need to step back and review our life and refocus and look at what matters which will then enable you to make new decisions. I will offer you a safe and confidential space where you will feel listened to without any criticism or judgment.
I understand how daunting it can be to begin therapy. Whatever you’re struggling with, be it depression, anxiety, trauma, relationship or attachment issues, we can look at the jigsaw pieces of your life together, to help you gain clarity. This may involve exploring the past to identify patterns in emotions and behaviours which shine a light on current issues. You may be grappling with life’s meaning after bereavement or a relationship breakdown. Any kind of loss can have a huge impact on our mental wellbeing. I work with you to help you make sense of things & find meaning and purpose in order to move forward and feel less lost.
I understand how daunting it can be to begin therapy. Whatever you’re struggling with, be it depression, anxiety, trauma, relationship or attachment issues, we can look at the jigsaw pieces of your life together, to help you gain clarity. This may involve exploring the past to identify patterns in emotions and behaviours which shine a light on current issues. You may be grappling with life’s meaning after bereavement or a relationship breakdown. Any kind of loss can have a huge impact on our mental wellbeing. I work with you to help you make sense of things & find meaning and purpose in order to move forward and feel less lost.
Many of us walk around being self-critical, dissatisfied, and unsure of who we are and what we want. It can take time to discover the answers. I can help you to build emotional resilience so you can live life to the full. I am someone you can speak openly to, and with whom you can feel safe to work.
Many of us walk around being self-critical, dissatisfied, and unsure of who we are and what we want. It can take time to discover the answers. I can help you to build emotional resilience so you can live life to the full. I am someone you can speak openly to, and with whom you can feel safe to work.
Counselling room (Hoo Peninsula/Medway) Accredited
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP Accred
1 Endorsed
Rochester ME3
I'm an experienced Accredited Counsellor. The BACP award says I'm "working to a higher standard as a competent and ethical independent practitioner". I run the private practice following experience with NHS and leading mental health charity MIND; thus, I'm able to provide what is needed. I've worked with low self-esteem, isolation, depression, anxiety (health, claustrophobia, phobias), panic, confusion, bereavement, life changes, relationships, OCD, abuse, trauma, complex trauma, problems with belonging and/or sense of self. I offer face to face, online video and telephone sessions. I will be able to offer a therapy dog soon!
I'm an experienced Accredited Counsellor. The BACP award says I'm "working to a higher standard as a competent and ethical independent practitioner". I run the private practice following experience with NHS and leading mental health charity MIND; thus, I'm able to provide what is needed. I've worked with low self-esteem, isolation, depression, anxiety (health, claustrophobia, phobias), panic, confusion, bereavement, life changes, relationships, OCD, abuse, trauma, complex trauma, problems with belonging and/or sense of self. I offer face to face, online video and telephone sessions. I will be able to offer a therapy dog soon!
Our goal is to provide a premium service at a fraction of the cost. It's managed by an accredited counsellor Susan Badham, founder of Counselling Room and Low Cost Counselling Room. Susan selected 4 counsellors for their ability, welcoming nature, care and dedication to the counselling profession. They are newly qualified and trainee counsellors who have passed level 4/5 assessments minimum and are now working with clients.
Assessments are taken all week. The counselling is Thursday, Friday and Saturday.
Online and Face to Face Sessions.
Trainee: £25
Qualified: £35
Our goal is to provide a premium service at a fraction of the cost. It's managed by an accredited counsellor Susan Badham, founder of Counselling Room and Low Cost Counselling Room. Susan selected 4 counsellors for their ability, welcoming nature, care and dedication to the counselling profession. They are newly qualified and trainee counsellors who have passed level 4/5 assessments minimum and are now working with clients.
Assessments are taken all week. The counselling is Thursday, Friday and Saturday.
Online and Face to Face Sessions.
Trainee: £25
Qualified: £35
I work integratively, drawing on person-centred, attachment-based, and Imago approaches.
Many of my clients seek support during times of change, uncertainty, or disconnection. You may be feeling anxious, overwhelmed, or distant from yourself or others. Perhaps communication has become difficult, or you are navigating loss, low self-esteem, or family challenges. Whether you are an individual wanting to understand yourself better, a couple hoping to rebuild trust and connection, or a young person finding ways to express emotions, I provide a calm, supportive space to explore your experiences and move toward greater clarity and well-being.
I work integratively, drawing on person-centred, attachment-based, and Imago approaches.
Many of my clients seek support during times of change, uncertainty, or disconnection. You may be feeling anxious, overwhelmed, or distant from yourself or others. Perhaps communication has become difficult, or you are navigating loss, low self-esteem, or family challenges. Whether you are an individual wanting to understand yourself better, a couple hoping to rebuild trust and connection, or a young person finding ways to express emotions, I provide a calm, supportive space to explore your experiences and move toward greater clarity and well-being.
You are not alone. There are many reasons why people seek counselling such as anxiety, bereavement or relationships and it can be a combination of things that makes someone feel overwhelmed. I work with all age groups, genders and cultures; with individuals, couples and families. Talking can be difficult for anyone so I also offer creative and animal assisted therapies to enable clients to express their feelings and experiences in a less challenging way. I am experienced in different life issues: If you are Deaf I can sign BSL or you might be on the Autistic Spectrum. If appropriate I can also work with clients in a home setting.
You are not alone. There are many reasons why people seek counselling such as anxiety, bereavement or relationships and it can be a combination of things that makes someone feel overwhelmed. I work with all age groups, genders and cultures; with individuals, couples and families. Talking can be difficult for anyone so I also offer creative and animal assisted therapies to enable clients to express their feelings and experiences in a less challenging way. I am experienced in different life issues: If you are Deaf I can sign BSL or you might be on the Autistic Spectrum. If appropriate I can also work with clients in a home setting.
I am an experienced Clinical Psychologist who has been working in NHS mental health services for over 10 years. I am currently working in a specialist Perinatal Mental Health Service within the NHS. I have specialised in providing therapy for individuals and couples who are struggling with their feelings during pregnancy and/or parenthood. This might be changes in mood, struggles processing a previous loss, traumatic birth, unexpected feelings during parenthood and/or difficulties with bonding with your baby/babies.
I am an experienced Clinical Psychologist who has been working in NHS mental health services for over 10 years. I am currently working in a specialist Perinatal Mental Health Service within the NHS. I have specialised in providing therapy for individuals and couples who are struggling with their feelings during pregnancy and/or parenthood. This might be changes in mood, struggles processing a previous loss, traumatic birth, unexpected feelings during parenthood and/or difficulties with bonding with your baby/babies.
Hi, I’m Lynda, a counsellor based in Rochester. You might be feeling overwhelmed, stuck, anxious, or carrying a grief that’s hard to explain. Maybe something has changed in your life, or perhaps it’s been building for a while. I offer a calm, steady space where you don’t have to hold it all alone. We’ll take things at your pace. Sometimes we may sit with what’s heavy; other times, we might begin to gently untangle it. Together, we’ll explore ways to cope and feel more grounded in who you are.
Hi, I’m Lynda, a counsellor based in Rochester. You might be feeling overwhelmed, stuck, anxious, or carrying a grief that’s hard to explain. Maybe something has changed in your life, or perhaps it’s been building for a while. I offer a calm, steady space where you don’t have to hold it all alone. We’ll take things at your pace. Sometimes we may sit with what’s heavy; other times, we might begin to gently untangle it. Together, we’ll explore ways to cope and feel more grounded in who you are.
Are you feeling exhausted, stressed and overwhelmed? Are you in physical or emotional pain, working relentlessly in different areas of your life: at work, home or study, in relationships, caring or parental roles? Do you need to make sense of, and overcome trauma, feelings of sadness, low-self esteem or burnout? As a third generation British Jamaican Psychologist, managing long-term conditions whilst being a mother of three, I warmly welcome clients of all ages and walks of life, and have a passion for supporting people living alongside mental, physical or neurological difficulties and trauma.
Are you feeling exhausted, stressed and overwhelmed? Are you in physical or emotional pain, working relentlessly in different areas of your life: at work, home or study, in relationships, caring or parental roles? Do you need to make sense of, and overcome trauma, feelings of sadness, low-self esteem or burnout? As a third generation British Jamaican Psychologist, managing long-term conditions whilst being a mother of three, I warmly welcome clients of all ages and walks of life, and have a passion for supporting people living alongside mental, physical or neurological difficulties and trauma.
I support you to see the change you need and reach the goals you want. I'm patient giving adults and children space to explore their current situation and accept or change it. Reduce social anxiety and start liking your true self. Have you experienced sexual, emotional, bullying abuse in the past? Struggling with menopause, retirement, parental estrangement? Sleeping or your appetite has changed due depression stress? You want to stop overthinking past experiences? Its time to talk about it so we can start to sort it out. You are unique and you deserve the understanding and acceptance i offer. thats when the healing begins.
I support you to see the change you need and reach the goals you want. I'm patient giving adults and children space to explore their current situation and accept or change it. Reduce social anxiety and start liking your true self. Have you experienced sexual, emotional, bullying abuse in the past? Struggling with menopause, retirement, parental estrangement? Sleeping or your appetite has changed due depression stress? You want to stop overthinking past experiences? Its time to talk about it so we can start to sort it out. You are unique and you deserve the understanding and acceptance i offer. thats when the healing begins.
Good rapport with your Counsellor's the first step towards achieving change. My Counselling approach is different to anything my clients (both Adults & Children) have experienced before and it's because of this, they've felt at ease quickly and gained maximum benefit from their sessions. I've Counselled since 2019 and have a diverse range of additional skills that I integrate into my Counselling work. I work with Victims of Crime within Kent, as well as Children & Families who've been bereaved. I have over 10yrs experience working with Children & Young People, including those with additional needs, so my approach is inclusive.
Good rapport with your Counsellor's the first step towards achieving change. My Counselling approach is different to anything my clients (both Adults & Children) have experienced before and it's because of this, they've felt at ease quickly and gained maximum benefit from their sessions. I've Counselled since 2019 and have a diverse range of additional skills that I integrate into my Counselling work. I work with Victims of Crime within Kent, as well as Children & Families who've been bereaved. I have over 10yrs experience working with Children & Young People, including those with additional needs, so my approach is inclusive.
Feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected? You don’t have to navigate it alone.
Counselling isn’t just about talking—it’s about being truly heard, feeling understood, and discovering a way forward that makes sense for you.
Whether you’re experiencing anxiety, depression, stress, low self-esteem, relationship issues, or a general sense that life has lost direction, I’m here to support you. When everything feels too much, it can be hard to think clearly or know what to do next. Together, we can make sense of what you're feeling, uncover what’s holding you back, and start building the life you want.
Feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected? You don’t have to navigate it alone.
Counselling isn’t just about talking—it’s about being truly heard, feeling understood, and discovering a way forward that makes sense for you.
Whether you’re experiencing anxiety, depression, stress, low self-esteem, relationship issues, or a general sense that life has lost direction, I’m here to support you. When everything feels too much, it can be hard to think clearly or know what to do next. Together, we can make sense of what you're feeling, uncover what’s holding you back, and start building the life you want.
Hi, I’m Jo. I offer a calm, compassionate space where you can gently explore whatever feels challenging in your life. We take things at a pace that feels right for you, with no pressure or judgment. I’m here to help you make sense of how past experiences may shape your feelings and relationships today, and to support you in reconnecting with what you truly need. My work is rooted in kindness, helping you build self‑esteem, self‑worth, and a more caring relationship with yourself.
Hi, I’m Jo. I offer a calm, compassionate space where you can gently explore whatever feels challenging in your life. We take things at a pace that feels right for you, with no pressure or judgment. I’m here to help you make sense of how past experiences may shape your feelings and relationships today, and to support you in reconnecting with what you truly need. My work is rooted in kindness, helping you build self‑esteem, self‑worth, and a more caring relationship with yourself.
I am a qualified counsellor and psychotherapist working with children and young people, and adults. Prior to being a counsellor and psychotherapist, I worked in education and local authorities, before embarking upon my own intensive personal therapy journey for many years, which transformed my life. I draw upon my life experiences and training, and aim to provide useful insight during sessions.
“Human beings have a basic tendency to fulfill their potential, to be positive, forward looking, to grow, improve, and protect their existence.”
I am a qualified counsellor and psychotherapist working with children and young people, and adults. Prior to being a counsellor and psychotherapist, I worked in education and local authorities, before embarking upon my own intensive personal therapy journey for many years, which transformed my life. I draw upon my life experiences and training, and aim to provide useful insight during sessions.
“Human beings have a basic tendency to fulfill their potential, to be positive, forward looking, to grow, improve, and protect their existence.”
As a Relate-trained and experienced Relationship & Sex Therapist, I specialise in working with couples and individuals navigating various stages of intimate relationships. Whether you're currently in a relationship, single, or going through a separation, therapy can be a valuable tool for finding closure and moving forward. My approach prioritises creating a safe and non-judgmental space where clients feel valued, respected, and empowered to explore their own resources and ideas for change. I focus on promoting healthier communication techniques and providing an unbiased, impartial perspective on relationship dynamics.
As a Relate-trained and experienced Relationship & Sex Therapist, I specialise in working with couples and individuals navigating various stages of intimate relationships. Whether you're currently in a relationship, single, or going through a separation, therapy can be a valuable tool for finding closure and moving forward. My approach prioritises creating a safe and non-judgmental space where clients feel valued, respected, and empowered to explore their own resources and ideas for change. I focus on promoting healthier communication techniques and providing an unbiased, impartial perspective on relationship dynamics.
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Attachment-based Counsellors
Is attachment-based therapy the same as attachment therapy?
Attachment-based therapy may be confused with what is called “attachment therapy” (sometimes called “holding therapy”), a discredited and dangerous approach to treating children with attachment disorders, autism, or other mental health concerns. Attachment therapy—not attachment-based therapy—may involve restraining a child, forcing eye contact, and other coercive or abusive techniques. None of these practices are used in attachment-based therapy and the two modalities are in no way related.
What should I expect from attachment-based therapy?
Attachment-based therapy is based on attachment theory, which posits that children’s early relationships with their caregivers strongly influence their ability to navigate the world later in life. Thus, adults who seek attachment-based therapy should expect to deeply explore their childhood, identifying the dynamics or experiences that disrupted their attachment and the steps necessary to overcome challenges that arose as a result. Parents and children should expect to explore the possible factors that disrupted the parent-child relationship and work toward restoring trust and connection.
How long does attachment-based therapy last?
Certain forms of attachment-based therapy, especially those designed for parents and children, last for a set number of sessions; for example, Attachment and Biobehavioural Catch-Up, a specific attachment-based approach for young children who have undergone early adversity, unfolds over 10 one-hour sessions. When attachment-based therapy is practiced on adults or combined with other modalities, it may not last a specific length of time; clients may wish to ask prospective therapists how long they expect treatment to take.
Does attachment-based therapy work?
Most of the research on attachment-based therapy focuses on children and adolescents. Some of this research shows a positive effect, especially for attachment-based family therapy (ABFT). Other studies, however, have found that attachment-based therapy is no more effective than other approaches to childhood depression, anxiety, or suicidality. Less is known about the therapy’s efficacy on adult populations.