Male Counsellors in Retford
Hi, I’m Gareth – and I’m really glad you’ve found your way here.
Rainbow Hearts Counselling is a place where the whole you is welcomed. Whether you're feeling overwhelmed, stuck, grieving, anxious, or simply in need of someone to walk alongside you, I offer a warm and grounded space where you can feel safe, heard, and respected. As a queer therapist, I’m deeply committed to creating a practice that is inclusive and affirming of LGBTQ+ identities – but more than that, it’s a space for everyone. People come to therapy for all kinds of reasons, and no two stories are the same.
Hi, I’m Gareth – and I’m really glad you’ve found your way here.
Rainbow Hearts Counselling is a place where the whole you is welcomed. Whether you're feeling overwhelmed, stuck, grieving, anxious, or simply in need of someone to walk alongside you, I offer a warm and grounded space where you can feel safe, heard, and respected. As a queer therapist, I’m deeply committed to creating a practice that is inclusive and affirming of LGBTQ+ identities – but more than that, it’s a space for everyone. People come to therapy for all kinds of reasons, and no two stories are the same.
People who I see have had problems in their relationships, suffered with depression and anxiety, difficulty in managing emotions, have suffered bereavements, work related stress and burnout as well as many other issues that impact on people & their psychological health. I provide weekly psychotherapy as well as Eye Movment Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) to help people who have been exposed to traumatic events/suffered trauma, this is also effective for treating phobias.
People who I see have had problems in their relationships, suffered with depression and anxiety, difficulty in managing emotions, have suffered bereavements, work related stress and burnout as well as many other issues that impact on people & their psychological health. I provide weekly psychotherapy as well as Eye Movment Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) to help people who have been exposed to traumatic events/suffered trauma, this is also effective for treating phobias.
I provide individual, couples and young persons therapy. I am a specialist rape, sexual assault and trauma specialist therapist. Currently working with clients with many presentations, particularly EUPD, ADHD, Neurodivergence, RSD, Autism and Transgender. Do you need some space and time to collect your thoughts, find some perspective? Are you wrestling with something which seems difficult to understand and accept? Do you need someone to hear and understand you? Someone to help you to make sense of things and give you the confidence to move through it and beyond? Please get in touch so I may begin to understand your situation.
I provide individual, couples and young persons therapy. I am a specialist rape, sexual assault and trauma specialist therapist. Currently working with clients with many presentations, particularly EUPD, ADHD, Neurodivergence, RSD, Autism and Transgender. Do you need some space and time to collect your thoughts, find some perspective? Are you wrestling with something which seems difficult to understand and accept? Do you need someone to hear and understand you? Someone to help you to make sense of things and give you the confidence to move through it and beyond? Please get in touch so I may begin to understand your situation.
You may be feeling anxious, overwhelmed, stuck in negative patterns, or held back by past experiences. Perhaps you're functioning on the outside but struggling inside, and you're ready for change. You want to feel calm, confident and in control again - to reconnect with a sense of meaning and direction in your life.
You may be feeling anxious, overwhelmed, stuck in negative patterns, or held back by past experiences. Perhaps you're functioning on the outside but struggling inside, and you're ready for change. You want to feel calm, confident and in control again - to reconnect with a sense of meaning and direction in your life.
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Hi, I am Joshua, a professional counsellor and a registered member of the BACP.
I understand how daunting it can feel to look for a counsellor and to work out whether someone will feel like the right fit. My aim is to offer a calm, transparent, and supportive starting point, so you have a clear sense of how I work and what you can expect.
My approach is relational and integrative, with the therapeutic relationship at the centre of meaningful change. I work in a way that recognises how our experiences are held not only in our thoughts, but also in our bodies and in our patterns of relating to others.
Hi, I am Joshua, a professional counsellor and a registered member of the BACP.
I understand how daunting it can feel to look for a counsellor and to work out whether someone will feel like the right fit. My aim is to offer a calm, transparent, and supportive starting point, so you have a clear sense of how I work and what you can expect.
My approach is relational and integrative, with the therapeutic relationship at the centre of meaningful change. I work in a way that recognises how our experiences are held not only in our thoughts, but also in our bodies and in our patterns of relating to others.
I take the fact that you are looking at the possibility of entering therapy as a good sign. You may have struggled with your particular issue for years and found some temporary relief from it but now you are hoping that therapy could help you and have an open mind to possibilities to making some permanent changes and acquiring skills to deal with your difficulties going forwards and improving your relationships. If this sounds like your view of change then I have a wide range of experience with both individuals and couples to accompany you on your journey and have a encouraging and supportive approach.
I take the fact that you are looking at the possibility of entering therapy as a good sign. You may have struggled with your particular issue for years and found some temporary relief from it but now you are hoping that therapy could help you and have an open mind to possibilities to making some permanent changes and acquiring skills to deal with your difficulties going forwards and improving your relationships. If this sounds like your view of change then I have a wide range of experience with both individuals and couples to accompany you on your journey and have a encouraging and supportive approach.
Are you struggling or feeling lost and overwhelmed in your journey of life. You may have faced difficult challenges in your past or are currently facing difficulties navigating your life right now. . What would it be like for someone to see the world through your eyes, to offer a space where there is no judgements or criticism. Therapy offers a ‘safe’ space where you are heard, acknowledged and a space where you can explore your emotions. By reaching out for help can be a daunting task, however it takes courage to contact a therapist, by taking that step can lead to a positive outcome in your time of need. If you have any question
Are you struggling or feeling lost and overwhelmed in your journey of life. You may have faced difficult challenges in your past or are currently facing difficulties navigating your life right now. . What would it be like for someone to see the world through your eyes, to offer a space where there is no judgements or criticism. Therapy offers a ‘safe’ space where you are heard, acknowledged and a space where you can explore your emotions. By reaching out for help can be a daunting task, however it takes courage to contact a therapist, by taking that step can lead to a positive outcome in your time of need. If you have any question
Hello, I'm Alex. I am a qualified Clinical Psychologist . I work predominantly in mental health services with people who have a number of difficult experiences (including depression, anxiety, low self-esteem and emotion regulation). Although I'd be happy to discuss with you any presenting difficulties you may be experiencing.
Hello, I'm Alex. I am a qualified Clinical Psychologist . I work predominantly in mental health services with people who have a number of difficult experiences (including depression, anxiety, low self-esteem and emotion regulation). Although I'd be happy to discuss with you any presenting difficulties you may be experiencing.
Are anxiety, stress, low self-esteem, or unwanted habits holding you back?
Many of us face challenges that can feel overwhelming, affecting not only our own well-being but also our relationships and daily lives. You don’t have to navigate these difficulties alone. Whether you are seeking relief from anxiety, depression, trauma, or simply pursuing personal growth, we will work collaboratively to explore your concerns and develop practical strategies for change. Together, we can help you move toward a more balanced, fulfilling life.
Are anxiety, stress, low self-esteem, or unwanted habits holding you back?
Many of us face challenges that can feel overwhelming, affecting not only our own well-being but also our relationships and daily lives. You don’t have to navigate these difficulties alone. Whether you are seeking relief from anxiety, depression, trauma, or simply pursuing personal growth, we will work collaboratively to explore your concerns and develop practical strategies for change. Together, we can help you move toward a more balanced, fulfilling life.
As a counsellor, I have experience working with teenagers, young adults and people of all ages struggling with anxiety, depression, relationship issues and substance and behavioural addictions. I believe that counselling can be beneficial to anyone, but it is also a very individual experience and each person will enter counselling with different goals and find different ways in which they achieve those goals. My intention with every client is to build a supportive and non-judgemental relationship in which they can build an understanding of themselves and make informed and conscious decisions to benefit their lives.
As a counsellor, I have experience working with teenagers, young adults and people of all ages struggling with anxiety, depression, relationship issues and substance and behavioural addictions. I believe that counselling can be beneficial to anyone, but it is also a very individual experience and each person will enter counselling with different goals and find different ways in which they achieve those goals. My intention with every client is to build a supportive and non-judgemental relationship in which they can build an understanding of themselves and make informed and conscious decisions to benefit their lives.
Sometimes it feels like everyone says that men have it easy. If that’s so, then why are three quarters of all suicides men? We've been taught to tough it out and to go it alone, and that it’s weak to ask for help when things get on top of us – even if there is someone we can turn to. I work with the issues around the difficulty of being male in a society that creates unrealistic and often contradictory ideals of masculinity that are impossible to live up to, and stops men connecting meaningfully with themselves and others.
Sometimes it feels like everyone says that men have it easy. If that’s so, then why are three quarters of all suicides men? We've been taught to tough it out and to go it alone, and that it’s weak to ask for help when things get on top of us – even if there is someone we can turn to. I work with the issues around the difficulty of being male in a society that creates unrealistic and often contradictory ideals of masculinity that are impossible to live up to, and stops men connecting meaningfully with themselves and others.
I’ve supported hundreds of amazing people and teams across all sectors of society, offering an exploratory space and neuro-affirming framework to deepen insight and raise self-awareness.
Do you want to reconnect with your true self, increase self-knowledge and compassion, live with greater authenticity and lead with more clarity? If so, I will support you. Together, we will identify, clarify, and align your values and purpose for genuine, lasting growth. If you’re looking for a non-judgemental space where you don’t have to mask, over-explain, or apologise for sensory or emotional needs, you’re welcome here.
I’ve supported hundreds of amazing people and teams across all sectors of society, offering an exploratory space and neuro-affirming framework to deepen insight and raise self-awareness.
Do you want to reconnect with your true self, increase self-knowledge and compassion, live with greater authenticity and lead with more clarity? If so, I will support you. Together, we will identify, clarify, and align your values and purpose for genuine, lasting growth. If you’re looking for a non-judgemental space where you don’t have to mask, over-explain, or apologise for sensory or emotional needs, you’re welcome here.
I work with adults, particularly LGBTQ+ clients who feel stuck, anxious, overwhelmed, or unsure how to be fully themselves. You might be navigating identity, relationships, shame, family dynamics or just feel tired of holding everything in. Therapy can offer space to slow down, reconnect, and come home to yourself. I bring a person-centred, relational, and somatically informed approach - helping you work gently with whatever’s present. I work online with clients across the UK, Ireland and Europe
I work with adults, particularly LGBTQ+ clients who feel stuck, anxious, overwhelmed, or unsure how to be fully themselves. You might be navigating identity, relationships, shame, family dynamics or just feel tired of holding everything in. Therapy can offer space to slow down, reconnect, and come home to yourself. I bring a person-centred, relational, and somatically informed approach - helping you work gently with whatever’s present. I work online with clients across the UK, Ireland and Europe
relationship issues or emotional difficulty? -> Low-cost online counselling & therapy -> Online booking -> spaces Mon, Weds & Thurs
relationship issues or emotional difficulty? -> Low-cost online counselling & therapy -> Online booking -> spaces Mon, Weds & Thurs
You might look like you’re coping... high-functioning, thoughtful, maybe even successful on the outside. But inside, something doesn’t feel quite right. You second-guess yourself. You try hard to be good, perfect, liked. You feel like you have to earn your place, and the fear of getting it wrong never quite leaves. You’re exhausted, and no one sees it. Beneath it all, you suspect the real struggle might be deeper. Shame, maybe? Even if you wouldn’t use that word, you know what it’s like to feel not good enough. If that sounds familiar, we can start there.
You might look like you’re coping... high-functioning, thoughtful, maybe even successful on the outside. But inside, something doesn’t feel quite right. You second-guess yourself. You try hard to be good, perfect, liked. You feel like you have to earn your place, and the fear of getting it wrong never quite leaves. You’re exhausted, and no one sees it. Beneath it all, you suspect the real struggle might be deeper. Shame, maybe? Even if you wouldn’t use that word, you know what it’s like to feel not good enough. If that sounds familiar, we can start there.
You're holding everything together — work, relationships, responsibilities — and doing it well enough that nobody would guess the effort it actually takes. But privately something won't shift. The anxiety that appears for no obvious reason. The relationships that follow the same exhausting patterns. The flatness that success hasn't touched.
You've probably tried to address it. Got some tools, felt better for a while. But something underneath keeps reasserting itself — and you're right that it does.
I've spent 30 years helping people understand what's actually driving their experience, not just manage the symptoms.
You're holding everything together — work, relationships, responsibilities — and doing it well enough that nobody would guess the effort it actually takes. But privately something won't shift. The anxiety that appears for no obvious reason. The relationships that follow the same exhausting patterns. The flatness that success hasn't touched.
You've probably tried to address it. Got some tools, felt better for a while. But something underneath keeps reasserting itself — and you're right that it does.
I've spent 30 years helping people understand what's actually driving their experience, not just manage the symptoms.
I can help people who are experiencing all levels of distress and unhappiness. You may have feelings of dissatisfaction and a sense that you are not getting all that you want in your life. At the other end of the spectrum you may be finding that every day is a real struggle with strong, even overwhelming, feelings of depression, anxiety, stress, anger etc. I believe that all of us want to strive to feel happier and more fulfilled than we currently are. We want to feel a connection with other people and to have a sense that we are leading meaningful, enjoyable lives - even when at times we feel at a loss as to how to achieve this.
I can help people who are experiencing all levels of distress and unhappiness. You may have feelings of dissatisfaction and a sense that you are not getting all that you want in your life. At the other end of the spectrum you may be finding that every day is a real struggle with strong, even overwhelming, feelings of depression, anxiety, stress, anger etc. I believe that all of us want to strive to feel happier and more fulfilled than we currently are. We want to feel a connection with other people and to have a sense that we are leading meaningful, enjoyable lives - even when at times we feel at a loss as to how to achieve this.
I am an experienced integrative therapist, supervisor, teacher/trainer, and registered MNCPS (Acc.) based in Barnsley, working face-to-face and online. A naturally relaxed, warm, and reflective individual, I aim to provide non-judgemental, encouraging support, and to assist in exploring and moving forward with issues causing you difficulty. I provide short and long-term therapy.
I have worked for services within the charity sector, and I currently work as a psychotherapist and clinical supervisor in private practice. I also deliver teaching on a L4 therapeutic diploma course.
I am an experienced integrative therapist, supervisor, teacher/trainer, and registered MNCPS (Acc.) based in Barnsley, working face-to-face and online. A naturally relaxed, warm, and reflective individual, I aim to provide non-judgemental, encouraging support, and to assist in exploring and moving forward with issues causing you difficulty. I provide short and long-term therapy.
I have worked for services within the charity sector, and I currently work as a psychotherapist and clinical supervisor in private practice. I also deliver teaching on a L4 therapeutic diploma course.
Being open and honest is all I could ask for in a client. The rest will come over time to be able to work through goals or challenges currently being faced. I'm interested in the motivation of what initiates the contact from a client to a counsellor and how this motivation can be harnessed to bring about positive change.
Being open and honest is all I could ask for in a client. The rest will come over time to be able to work through goals or challenges currently being faced. I'm interested in the motivation of what initiates the contact from a client to a counsellor and how this motivation can be harnessed to bring about positive change.
Hello, thanks for visiting my profile. I’m Chris, a BACP registered and qualified counsellor, Mediator and former Youth worker and for over 17 years have gained a wealth of experience in supporting people through a variety of roles.
I Wonder what's brought you here and what's going on for you, are you ok? No, really, how are you? I am here to listen.
I recognise that life can be difficult and we can sometimes find it hard to have a safe space to work through, challenge and let things out. I can provide a safe space and truly hear you.
Hello, thanks for visiting my profile. I’m Chris, a BACP registered and qualified counsellor, Mediator and former Youth worker and for over 17 years have gained a wealth of experience in supporting people through a variety of roles.
I Wonder what's brought you here and what's going on for you, are you ok? No, really, how are you? I am here to listen.
I recognise that life can be difficult and we can sometimes find it hard to have a safe space to work through, challenge and let things out. I can provide a safe space and truly hear you.
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FAQ - Therapist Gender
As a man, why might I want to see a male therapist?
There are many reasons a man might wish to work with a male therapist, including a degree of shared identity, which may help client and therapist connect to each other and allow for a more free-flowing discussion of issues that can be deeply personal. Some men may feel more comfortable talking to a male therapist about relationship concerns, the pressures they feel around the roles society and family place on men, career or job challenges, self-esteem, or anger problems. For some men who have not had a male role models in their lives, a good male therapist may be especially helpful.
How can I find out about a therapist’s experience treating men?
Individuals looking for treatment should feel comfortable directly asking a therapist about their history treating men overall and the issues that arise in therapy with men. A good therapist will be happy to discuss such matters as well as their educational background, approach to treatment, and how they think they can aid a prospective client.
Can clients benefit from having a therapist of the same gender?
Therapy is not gender-specific, but some men as well as women feel more comfortable opening up about their experiences and history with therapists of a specific gender. An individual may feel that they have to explain less background information and be on the same page more quickly, particularly when discussing gender-specific challenges. That said, a good clinician can transcend most if not all gender concerns. Ultimately, the most important factor in therapy is the connection and trust the client is able to build with the practitioner.
Would a male therapist have specific training in treating men?
Generally, no. There are no certifications for treating men specifically, but there are continuing education classes that therapists may take that focus on treating men as a group. There are many therapists who focus on men and male issues in their treatment and therefore have experience and expertise in this domain.