Counselling in Redhill

I offer play therapy sessions for individuals or groups, with sessions tailored to helping overcome trauma, abuse, low self esteem and helping improve emotional regulation.

I have always genuinely cared for others and their wellbeing. I am a Senior Clinical Psychologist and a qualified Mindfulness teacher/practitioner. I provide a warm, welcoming therapeutic atmosphere where you can feel safe to talk. For over 15 years, I have worked in the NHS and independently and have extensive training to enable me to offer a range of research-based therapies for a range of difficulties that you may be experiencing. We all experience difficult life transitions; such as stresses at work, within relationships, physical health problems, bereavements and more. With attention, compassion and empathy, I can support you.

As a qualified Play Therapist I work with school aged children, providing a safe supportive non-judgmental space to facilitate child-led play, using a toolkit including a sand tray, musical instruments and creative art materials. Children can often express and explore their feelings through play more naturally than through language. Our sessions enable clients to work through a range of difficulties including conflicts with friends, difficulties at school, family changes or bereavement; to begin to recognise and regulate their emotions, reduce anxiety, build self-esteem and confidence to find their own resolutions and way forward.

I provide assessment and treatment for adults and teenagers for a wide range of emotional issues. You can expect professional, clinically effective & evidence-based input from an experienced (over 20 years in NHS & then private practise), well-qualified Clinical Psychologist, providing sensitive, collaborative and thoughtful therapy. All input is in line with The National Institute for Clinical Excellence, (NICE) guidelines, utilising well researched established psychotherapeutic methods. Main modalities used are EMDR (particularly effective for trauma), CBT and ACT (particularly effective for long term health issues).

Life is a challenge, at times we are woken up to the impact of emotional and psychological stress on our personal and professional lives which can suddenly hit us or, creep upon us in the cold light of day. I can help you to explore and take action to cope with those feelings of anxiety, depression, anger, stress and self-esteem. My experience with parenting issues, bullying or childhood sexual abuse recognises the challenges this presents to live authentically and experience genuine relationships lifting the cloud of despair. Together we can explore, identify goals to transform and help you live your life more successfully.

I work with people who are struggling with different life situations such as addictive behaviours, fertility concerns, alcoholism, chronic illness, depression, anxiety, miscarriage and bereavement and many more. I help you to empower and resource yourself so that change feels possible. I am here to listen and encourage you to become more attuned to your inner needs, providing you with greater freedom of choice and creativity. I am passionate about providing a safe space where you feel comfortable and heard.

When life stresses become all consuming you can feel vulnerable, lost or frustrated. Talking it through with a trusted, non-biased counsellor is an opportunity for you to feel less overwhelmed, gain awareness of what is going on for you, move forward and gain a sense of control in your life. It could be that your lifestyle is stressful, work, family or financial pressures. You may have suffered trauma or loss that you are struggling to cope with or experiencing relationship difficulties. There a million different reasons where a counsellor can help, you don't need to feel alone in whatever you are facing.

'Counselling, a step in the right direction' Are you experiencing difficulties In your life and need someone to talk to about how you are feeling? Needing help and support through challenging times? I am a qualified, experienced Counsellor and Psychotherapist with experience in a wide range of issues from depression, stress, anxiety, trauma, relationship issues, low self-esteem, anger and bereavement.

I am a qualified Individual, Relationship & Sex Therapist, as your therapist I aim to help you change the aspects of your life that are preventing you from living in a more fulfilling way. I will help you gain insight into your thoughts and feelings and together we can look at new ways of approaching those difficulties.

When you choose to work with a counsellor or therapist you have taken an important step towards self care. I can offer time-limited therapy to help you focus on a particular problem or open-ended counselling to work through issues which may have been with you for some time. I welcome enquiries from individuals and couples in Reigate and Redhill, Dorking and Leatherhead for in-person relational work. Call me on : 07944 738214.

Are you facing challenges in your personal or work life or issues over which you have no control such as loss, health, or any crisis, (big or small)? Are you looking for a therapist who offers respect, understanding, validation of you and your unique circumstances and who provides an environment of trust where you can both work collaboratively to explore your way of 'being in the world' and where you will gain and develop your inner resources and resilience and where together you will discuss different perspectives and choices to make to improve your quality of life? Your therapeutic journey is an opportunity for transformation!

If you are feeling anxious, depressed, stuck or are having difficulties with relationships, I offer a safe, confidential environment to explore these problematic issues which prevent you from getting the most out of your life. Whatever difficulties you’re feeling, working with a counsellor can give you the opportunity to talk and understand yourself, your life and your relationships better. Gaining this insight puts you in a stronger position to begin growing in confidence and start to make the changes or find the peace you want in your life.

Most people at some point in their lives will struggle with painful feelings or may feel overwhelmed by past or present experiences. These can make us feel lost, anxious, confused, helpless, distressed or angry, sometimes without us knowing why. Counselling is also not just for supporting people through a crisis. Many people come to counselling to explore and get a better understanding of themselves and their lives. Whatever you are experiencing, it can be difficult to explain how we feel to the people who are closest to us. Sometimes it is easier to talk to someone who is separate from your everyday life.

Your reason for seeking therapy is unique, I recognize your courage in taking that step. I will not judge you, I want to support you to reach your full potential. I believe in the person centred approach and the healing property's of the therapeutic relationship. I offer a safe space to work with you, exploring your thoughts, feelings, behaviours and worldview. We will work at your pace and with your content. Sessions are open ended allowing the opportunity for self growth and awareness improving areas in your life currently holding you back and equipping you with the power to manage both present and future challenges.

Deciding to start therapy with a new therapist can be a daunting prospect. I think that it is important to spend time developing a safe and genuine therapeutic relationship to build understanding about the problem and think together about ways to process this and to move forward. I support people with anxiety, low mood, identity or adjustment issues related to their physical health condition or life experiences and the impact that this has on different areas of their lives. I provide a space to think through these issues together and come up with joint approaches and different ways of thinking.

Sometimes we lose touch with ourselves and grow numb, perhaps because we didn’t have the right environment growing up, or because things have happened in our lives and we have become stuck. Difficult things happen in our lives but when we feel isolated and alone with them these experiences can become traumatic. You may already have a sense of what you want from counselling, or you may just feel something's not right in your life. You may feel distressed, or you may simply want to be curious about who you are and who you hope to be. Even if you have a supportive circle, it may be easier to talk with an independent therapist.

I have been working with people experiencing mental health difficulties since 2004. This has primarily been in the NHS (within community mental health teams as well as inpatient services) but I have also contributed to mental health research. I am experienced in carrying out detailed psychological assessments as well as delivering therapeutic interventions carefully tailored around your needs. I have worked to support people experiencing difficulties such as low mood, anxiety (such as social phobia, specific phobia and panic disorder), psychosis, emotion regulation difficulties, loss and obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD).