Personality Disorders Counselling in Reading

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Dr Mandeep Bachu
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Serves Area
My background includes extensive work within the NHS with children and adults, treating a range of psychological difficulties such as anxiety, depression, and personality disorders.
We'll work together to help you understand not only where your difficulties have stemmed from but also what's currently maintaining them (the 'cycles'). By gaining this clarity, we can collaboratively make lasting changes at your pace. I offer a safe, confidential, and non-judgemental space where your individual needs are the focus.
My background includes extensive work within the NHS with children and adults, treating a range of psychological difficulties such as anxiety, depression, and personality disorders.
We'll work together to help you understand not only where your difficulties have stemmed from but also what's currently maintaining them (the 'cycles'). By gaining this clarity, we can collaboratively make lasting changes at your pace. I offer a safe, confidential, and non-judgemental space where your individual needs are the focus.
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Gordon Gunnarsen
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
1 Endorsed
Reading RG31
Clients come with diverse problems and needs. What matters to my clients, matters to me. Generally, I have found problems which manifest in current life relationships (romantic, family, work, with services or with ourself) but which originate in our past experiences are those which can be worked on helpfully using the ways I work. A measure of openness to explore other perspectives and to really think about describing issues is very important as is a commitment to think outside sessions about things that may be the causes of distress.
Clients come with diverse problems and needs. What matters to my clients, matters to me. Generally, I have found problems which manifest in current life relationships (romantic, family, work, with services or with ourself) but which originate in our past experiences are those which can be worked on helpfully using the ways I work. A measure of openness to explore other perspectives and to really think about describing issues is very important as is a commitment to think outside sessions about things that may be the causes of distress.
0118 214 8650 View 0118 214 8650
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Andreea Arsene
Psychologist, PhD, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
1 Endorsed
Reading RG1
I am working with adults and children in NHS and private setting. I am a senior mental health practitioner qualified in families and couples systemic psychotherapy and counselling psychology. As a person with strong values in supporting my clients, I am solution focused clinician, acknowledging the benefits of MDT work environment, capable to coordinate compex casess, to work individual and to be dedicated to my patients. I am mindful about clients needs along with the time managing, keeping in mind the goals and the outcome of therapy intervention, including the other agencies and professional involved in the clients care. I belie
I am working with adults and children in NHS and private setting. I am a senior mental health practitioner qualified in families and couples systemic psychotherapy and counselling psychology. As a person with strong values in supporting my clients, I am solution focused clinician, acknowledging the benefits of MDT work environment, capable to coordinate compex casess, to work individual and to be dedicated to my patients. I am mindful about clients needs along with the time managing, keeping in mind the goals and the outcome of therapy intervention, including the other agencies and professional involved in the clients care. I belie
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Laura Mellor
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
1 Endorsed
Reading RG7
Whatever your reasons for seeking therapy, I believe it is paramount for you to feel safe, heard and understood. You may know what you need or you may be more uncertain. No matter, it is your unique perspective and experience which is important. Having the space to explore this, free of judgement, can build self-awareness and bring clarity.
Whatever your reasons for seeking therapy, I believe it is paramount for you to feel safe, heard and understood. You may know what you need or you may be more uncertain. No matter, it is your unique perspective and experience which is important. Having the space to explore this, free of judgement, can build self-awareness and bring clarity.
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David Allen
Counsellor, MBACP
Reading RG5
We might all experience times in our life when we're struggling to cope, and when we do, talking our problems through with someone who understands us can be just the thing that lifts the weight from our shoulders and allows us to find a new path forward. Although I try to shy away from labels and diagnosis, I've helped people suffering from anxiety, depression, grief, relationship and anger management issues, and more. It's vital that you feel comfortable talking to your counsellor, and so I offer a discounted first session to help you decide if I'm the right person for you.
We might all experience times in our life when we're struggling to cope, and when we do, talking our problems through with someone who understands us can be just the thing that lifts the weight from our shoulders and allows us to find a new path forward. Although I try to shy away from labels and diagnosis, I've helped people suffering from anxiety, depression, grief, relationship and anger management issues, and more. It's vital that you feel comfortable talking to your counsellor, and so I offer a discounted first session to help you decide if I'm the right person for you.
0118 338 3934 View 0118 338 3934
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Toni Doyle
Psychologist, MSc, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Reading RG1
My name is Toni and I am an HPCP Registered and BPS Chartered Counselling Psychologist working in Reading, Berkshire and online. In addition to my private practice, I worked in the NHS for over fifteen years where I gained experience working with adults and elders who struggled with a wide variety of issues including anxiety and panic, depression, stress, trauma, psychosis, substance misuse, bereavement, domestic violence, rape, personality issues, self-harm and suicidality. The knowledge and the experience I gained throughout the years enables me to adapt my approach to suit the needs of each individual that I meet.
My name is Toni and I am an HPCP Registered and BPS Chartered Counselling Psychologist working in Reading, Berkshire and online. In addition to my private practice, I worked in the NHS for over fifteen years where I gained experience working with adults and elders who struggled with a wide variety of issues including anxiety and panic, depression, stress, trauma, psychosis, substance misuse, bereavement, domestic violence, rape, personality issues, self-harm and suicidality. The knowledge and the experience I gained throughout the years enables me to adapt my approach to suit the needs of each individual that I meet.
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Michelle Daniels
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Reading RG8
I'm an HCPC- and British Psychoanalytic Council (BPC)-registered Clinical Psychologist and Psychodynamic Psychotherapist with over 12 years of experience working in the NHS. I have worked across a variety of settings, primarily in specialist NHS outpatient psychotherapy services, with individuals, couples and families experiencing emotional and relational difficulties including anxiety, depression, personality disorder, chronic grief, early / childhood trauma, and eating disorder, amongst others. I offer psychotherapy with adults across the age range either individually or together as parents of young adult (18-25yr old) children.
I'm an HCPC- and British Psychoanalytic Council (BPC)-registered Clinical Psychologist and Psychodynamic Psychotherapist with over 12 years of experience working in the NHS. I have worked across a variety of settings, primarily in specialist NHS outpatient psychotherapy services, with individuals, couples and families experiencing emotional and relational difficulties including anxiety, depression, personality disorder, chronic grief, early / childhood trauma, and eating disorder, amongst others. I offer psychotherapy with adults across the age range either individually or together as parents of young adult (18-25yr old) children.
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SB Psychological Therapies
Psychotherapist, MBABCP
Online Only
Are you waking up feeling deep darkness, trapped by worries or overwhelmed from relationship dynamics. Together we step into courageous vulnerability, seeking active meaningful change! I emulate the trustworthiness & efficacy of the NHS & evidenced therapies, without restrictions. Therapy is: empowering & enabling you to become your own therapist. I create a safe, authentic & non-judgmental space to explore your agenda, at your pace. Typically, we meet for 50 minute appointments & for 12-20+ sessions. I maintain Continuing Professional Development, Ethical Competence & Supervision from experts in the field evidenced by the BABCP.
Are you waking up feeling deep darkness, trapped by worries or overwhelmed from relationship dynamics. Together we step into courageous vulnerability, seeking active meaningful change! I emulate the trustworthiness & efficacy of the NHS & evidenced therapies, without restrictions. Therapy is: empowering & enabling you to become your own therapist. I create a safe, authentic & non-judgmental space to explore your agenda, at your pace. Typically, we meet for 50 minute appointments & for 12-20+ sessions. I maintain Continuing Professional Development, Ethical Competence & Supervision from experts in the field evidenced by the BABCP.
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Amreeta Chapman
Counsellor, PsychD, MBACP
Reading RG5
My Clients over the last 18 years have ranged from having simple symptoms ( i.e. sleep disturbances, anxiety about interviews or social anxiety ) to severe symptoms (i.e. severe depression, insomnia, PTSD, OCD, Borderline Personality or sexual abuse). My clients are looking for tools that will help them reduce or eliminate those symptoms but they are also wanting to develop long term functional habits that will help them lead a healthier life. Most of my clients are highly functional but they are struggling with emotional issues in their relationships with childhood abuse, addictions, fears, self-esteem and others.
My Clients over the last 18 years have ranged from having simple symptoms ( i.e. sleep disturbances, anxiety about interviews or social anxiety ) to severe symptoms (i.e. severe depression, insomnia, PTSD, OCD, Borderline Personality or sexual abuse). My clients are looking for tools that will help them reduce or eliminate those symptoms but they are also wanting to develop long term functional habits that will help them lead a healthier life. Most of my clients are highly functional but they are struggling with emotional issues in their relationships with childhood abuse, addictions, fears, self-esteem and others.
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Sophie Bungey
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
2 Endorsed
Reading RG5
I'm a body-positive, LGBTQIA+ inclusive, and neurodivergent-affirming counsellor. I'll provide a judgement and shame-free space where you can explore your thoughts and feelings; with the opportunity to use creativity through art, music, or movement. As an ally, I welcome and support people of all gender identities and sexualities with compassion. I believe that all bodies are worthy of care. I respect and value neurodivergent people and their experiences. I am qualified to work with people aged 11+
I'm a body-positive, LGBTQIA+ inclusive, and neurodivergent-affirming counsellor. I'll provide a judgement and shame-free space where you can explore your thoughts and feelings; with the opportunity to use creativity through art, music, or movement. As an ally, I welcome and support people of all gender identities and sexualities with compassion. I believe that all bodies are worthy of care. I respect and value neurodivergent people and their experiences. I am qualified to work with people aged 11+
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Dr Anna Norris - Clinical Psychologist; HCPC; Bps
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Online Only
I am a Clinical Psychologist, registered with the HCPC (Health and Care Professions Council), and a chartered member/associate fellow of the BPS (British Psychological Society). I have over 20 years of experience of working with a wide range of presenting difficulties, including anxiety, burnout and work-related stress, depression, low self-esteem, emotion regulation difficulties, ADHD, trauma and PTSD and relationship difficulties. I have worked in a number of NHS services and settings over the years, working directly with clients with longstanding difficulties, in addition to offering consultation, supervision and training.
I am a Clinical Psychologist, registered with the HCPC (Health and Care Professions Council), and a chartered member/associate fellow of the BPS (British Psychological Society). I have over 20 years of experience of working with a wide range of presenting difficulties, including anxiety, burnout and work-related stress, depression, low self-esteem, emotion regulation difficulties, ADHD, trauma and PTSD and relationship difficulties. I have worked in a number of NHS services and settings over the years, working directly with clients with longstanding difficulties, in addition to offering consultation, supervision and training.
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Catherine Walford Smith
Counsellor, MBACP
Reading RG31
Reaching out for help can be tough but it’s an important first step to feeling better. You don't have to cope alone, I'm a fully qualified individual and couples counsellor offering a place to explore, understand and share your difficulties. I work with adult clients who are struggling with various mental and emotional challenges. This includes anxiety, low self-esteem, work stress, relationship and confidence issues. I can provide you with a warm, non judgemental space where you can feel heard and understood. Having dedicated time to reflect on your life with a trained counsellor can help you make sense of why you might be feeling.
Reaching out for help can be tough but it’s an important first step to feeling better. You don't have to cope alone, I'm a fully qualified individual and couples counsellor offering a place to explore, understand and share your difficulties. I work with adult clients who are struggling with various mental and emotional challenges. This includes anxiety, low self-esteem, work stress, relationship and confidence issues. I can provide you with a warm, non judgemental space where you can feel heard and understood. Having dedicated time to reflect on your life with a trained counsellor can help you make sense of why you might be feeling.
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Kam Gillar
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBABCP
1 Endorsed
Reading RG1
Is there something in your life you want to change? Do you feel lost, unable to get on with your life? Are you looking to conquer a fear, break a habit, make a change in your life or simply want to manage the stresses of everyday living. Take a look at my website and make the first step in creating the positive changes you want in your life. Given the current COVID - 19 situation and also our busy lives and hectic schedules I offer confidential online therapy using Skype or Zoom. I am also seeing clients face to face both in my Reading and London locations.
Is there something in your life you want to change? Do you feel lost, unable to get on with your life? Are you looking to conquer a fear, break a habit, make a change in your life or simply want to manage the stresses of everyday living. Take a look at my website and make the first step in creating the positive changes you want in your life. Given the current COVID - 19 situation and also our busy lives and hectic schedules I offer confidential online therapy using Skype or Zoom. I am also seeing clients face to face both in my Reading and London locations.
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Amber Johnston
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Reading RG2
Hi there! I am Amber, the Director of Healthy Mind Psychology. We aim to be a different type of practice. Our focus includes work with those people trying to cope with all the stresses and strains of unprecedented times upon us. But many struggle with issues outside of the normal narrative of mental health, or physical health too. Our practice aims to explain the stress response (whether that be from overdue bills, a critical family system, a harsh workplace, current or previous traumas, or a host of other things!) and the science behind how the mind/body interact to create physical symptoms, emotional distress, or bad habits!
Hi there! I am Amber, the Director of Healthy Mind Psychology. We aim to be a different type of practice. Our focus includes work with those people trying to cope with all the stresses and strains of unprecedented times upon us. But many struggle with issues outside of the normal narrative of mental health, or physical health too. Our practice aims to explain the stress response (whether that be from overdue bills, a critical family system, a harsh workplace, current or previous traumas, or a host of other things!) and the science behind how the mind/body interact to create physical symptoms, emotional distress, or bad habits!
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Rob Palterman
Counsellor, MBACP
Reading RG1
Sometimes we feel overwhelmed by life,  feelings of anxiety and depression disrupting our wellbeing, making us feel less than acceptable to ourselves and others.  Difficult or traumatising experiences in the past can leave us feeling stuck, alone, fearful or angry. We might be stuck in a flight/flight/freeze response blighting our ability to be in the present moment unable to lean into the people in our lives.
Sometimes we feel overwhelmed by life,  feelings of anxiety and depression disrupting our wellbeing, making us feel less than acceptable to ourselves and others.  Difficult or traumatising experiences in the past can leave us feeling stuck, alone, fearful or angry. We might be stuck in a flight/flight/freeze response blighting our ability to be in the present moment unable to lean into the people in our lives.
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Christine Boyd
Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
Reading RG4
My name is Christine and I have been a practising counsellor and psychotherapist in the Thames Valley, (Sonning Common) near Reading, RG4 and in Paddington, London W2 for over twenty years. I am fully committed to providing counselling and psychotherapy in a safe, confidential and non-judgemental environment.
My name is Christine and I have been a practising counsellor and psychotherapist in the Thames Valley, (Sonning Common) near Reading, RG4 and in Paddington, London W2 for over twenty years. I am fully committed to providing counselling and psychotherapy in a safe, confidential and non-judgemental environment.
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Kate Walker
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBABCP
Reading RG1
Welcome to my profile. It may be daunting to first reach out for therapy but I can assure you, you are taking the right steps to feeling better, managing your symptoms and moving forwards with all aspects of your daily life. Life can be difficult and we all experience challenges with our mental, physical or emotional health. Through exploration together in a safe environment, we can uncover difficulties and start to make valuable discoveries and positive changes.
Welcome to my profile. It may be daunting to first reach out for therapy but I can assure you, you are taking the right steps to feeling better, managing your symptoms and moving forwards with all aspects of your daily life. Life can be difficult and we all experience challenges with our mental, physical or emotional health. Through exploration together in a safe environment, we can uncover difficulties and start to make valuable discoveries and positive changes.
0118 230 2004 View 0118 230 2004
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Sophie Camilla Abel Clarkin
Psychotherapist, BACP
Reading RG1
Integrative Transpersonal Psychotherapist in Training at CCPE with Private Practice. I offer a warm, compassionate and holistic approach to psychotherapy. I have a deep commitment to helping individuals navigate life’s challenges. I specialise in working with grief, anxiety, depression, mood disorders, eating disorders, addiction, self harm, victims (survivors) of abuse, narcissistic abuse, co- dependency, PTSD, trauma and relational issues. I use traditional therapeutic techniques with transpersonal insights, such as dream work, guided visualisations and the creative imagination, body and breath work.
Integrative Transpersonal Psychotherapist in Training at CCPE with Private Practice. I offer a warm, compassionate and holistic approach to psychotherapy. I have a deep commitment to helping individuals navigate life’s challenges. I specialise in working with grief, anxiety, depression, mood disorders, eating disorders, addiction, self harm, victims (survivors) of abuse, narcissistic abuse, co- dependency, PTSD, trauma and relational issues. I use traditional therapeutic techniques with transpersonal insights, such as dream work, guided visualisations and the creative imagination, body and breath work.
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Dr Kristina Todorova
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Online Only
I am a clinical psychologist registered with the Health and Care Professions Council (HCPC) and the British Psychological Society (BPS). I provide comprehensive psychological services to individuals and families, including assessment and therapy which enable clients to identify and work through mental health and relational difficulties. I am experienced in working with children and families, and am currently employed on a part-time basis within a Specialist Child and Adolescent Mental Health Team within the NHS.
I am a clinical psychologist registered with the Health and Care Professions Council (HCPC) and the British Psychological Society (BPS). I provide comprehensive psychological services to individuals and families, including assessment and therapy which enable clients to identify and work through mental health and relational difficulties. I am experienced in working with children and families, and am currently employed on a part-time basis within a Specialist Child and Adolescent Mental Health Team within the NHS.
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Matthew Tinker
Psychotherapist, MUKCP
Reading RG4
People often come to me when they feel stuck in patterns —especially in relationships, emotions, or how they cope with life. You might look as if you’re managing on the outside, but inside feel anxious, low, overwhelmed, or disconnected. Many people I work with are living with the impact of trauma, struggling with relationship difficulties, or feeling that life has lost meaning or direction, I have worked in mental health since the late 1990s, initially as a registered mental health nurse, and later as a psychotherapist. Therapy helps you understand these patterns, so you can start changing how you relate to yourself and others.
People often come to me when they feel stuck in patterns —especially in relationships, emotions, or how they cope with life. You might look as if you’re managing on the outside, but inside feel anxious, low, overwhelmed, or disconnected. Many people I work with are living with the impact of trauma, struggling with relationship difficulties, or feeling that life has lost meaning or direction, I have worked in mental health since the late 1990s, initially as a registered mental health nurse, and later as a psychotherapist. Therapy helps you understand these patterns, so you can start changing how you relate to yourself and others.
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Personality Disorders Counsellors
What are the common treatment options for personality disorders?
Personality disorders are typically treated with psychotherapy, sometimes in conjunction with medication. Therapy can help people with personality disorders develop skills to tolerate difficult emotions, navigate interpersonal relationships, and solidify their sense of self. Medications can treat symptoms that co-occur with the disorder, such as depression, anger, aggression, and impulsivity.

When to seek treatment for personality disorders?
Even though treatment for personality disorders can be an uphill battle, it’s best to seek help if you suspect that you or a loved one is struggling with one, because personality disorders can create substantial problems in life. Symptoms depend on the specific disorder, but overall signs of personality disorders include consistent difficulty maintaining close relationships, dramatic variations in self-esteem, and an unstable sense of identity.

How long does therapy take for personality disorders?
The timeline for treating personality disorders isn’t as clear-cut as it is for other disorders. Change can be difficult, taking from around one year to five, 10, or more. The key is finding a therapist who has extensive experience treating the relevant disorder. For example, a psychologist who specialises in narcissistic personality disorder has specific communication strategies that allow them to sustain the relationship and be more effective with narcissistic patients.

Can therapy help people with personality disorders?
Research suggests that for those who are motivated to address concerns or interpersonal conflict related to a personality disorder, therapy is far more effective than no treatment, and that most people in therapy see improvements. However, since personality disorders involve entrenched elements of identity, they are less responsive to treatment than are other mental health conditions. Finding an expert who has extensive experience working with a given personality disorder is one factor that increases the likelihood of successful treatment.