Divorce Counselling in Rainham
How many minutes, hours, days, weeks, months or years have you spent wanting to change the way you live your life? How many different methods have you tried to silence your inner critic ? But failed because self doubt, guilt, anger, shame, procrastination or fear has kept you psychologically paralysed? How many times have you told yourself that you are going to stop your self destructive behaviour, only to find yourself embroiled in the same self defeating habits the next day, week or month? Do you see yourself ebbing further and further away from your life goals, dreams and ambitions?
How many minutes, hours, days, weeks, months or years have you spent wanting to change the way you live your life? How many different methods have you tried to silence your inner critic ? But failed because self doubt, guilt, anger, shame, procrastination or fear has kept you psychologically paralysed? How many times have you told yourself that you are going to stop your self destructive behaviour, only to find yourself embroiled in the same self defeating habits the next day, week or month? Do you see yourself ebbing further and further away from your life goals, dreams and ambitions?
I am an integrative Counsellor and Cognitive Behavioural Psychotherapist with over 10 years clinical experience of working in the NHS, voluntary organisations and private practice. I have extensive training in a range of different approaches ; this gives me a choice of ways of helping you and adapting my approach to best meet your individual needs. I have worked effectively with a broad range of clients from various background with their issues and treatment of different psychological disorders and help people identify the causes of problem; reduce symptoms ; advance self-understanding ; improve relationships and live more fully.
I am an integrative Counsellor and Cognitive Behavioural Psychotherapist with over 10 years clinical experience of working in the NHS, voluntary organisations and private practice. I have extensive training in a range of different approaches ; this gives me a choice of ways of helping you and adapting my approach to best meet your individual needs. I have worked effectively with a broad range of clients from various background with their issues and treatment of different psychological disorders and help people identify the causes of problem; reduce symptoms ; advance self-understanding ; improve relationships and live more fully.
We all face challenges and dilemmas that can leave us feeling confused, overwhelmed, or stuck. If you are ready to make changes, whatever you are experiencing right now, counselling may help.
I offer a safe, confidential, and non-judgemental space where you can explore your thoughts, feelings, and experiences openly. Together, we can reflect on what is happening in your life, gain a deeper understanding of your emotions, identify unhelpful patterns, and consider alternative perspectives. This can help increase self-awareness,
Through our work together, I can help you consider alternative perspectives, develop new ways of coping.
We all face challenges and dilemmas that can leave us feeling confused, overwhelmed, or stuck. If you are ready to make changes, whatever you are experiencing right now, counselling may help.
I offer a safe, confidential, and non-judgemental space where you can explore your thoughts, feelings, and experiences openly. Together, we can reflect on what is happening in your life, gain a deeper understanding of your emotions, identify unhelpful patterns, and consider alternative perspectives. This can help increase self-awareness,
Through our work together, I can help you consider alternative perspectives, develop new ways of coping.
I am an integrative psychotherapist and EMDR practitioner with over seventeen years experience. I have extensive training and clinical experience in the treatment of a range of psychological disorders, with a particular focus on trauma and post-traumatic stress disorder and problems caused by adverse childhood experiences including low self esteem, relationship difficulties, and emotional dysregulation. In addition, I have worked extensively with first responders and military veterans, giving me a deep understanding of the stressors unique to the these communities.
I am an integrative psychotherapist and EMDR practitioner with over seventeen years experience. I have extensive training and clinical experience in the treatment of a range of psychological disorders, with a particular focus on trauma and post-traumatic stress disorder and problems caused by adverse childhood experiences including low self esteem, relationship difficulties, and emotional dysregulation. In addition, I have worked extensively with first responders and military veterans, giving me a deep understanding of the stressors unique to the these communities.
I am an Accredited Integrative adult & child counsellor, clinical supervisor and positive psychology coach. Myself and the team are integrative counsellors, working with several approaches. We also support clients who are ADHD or Autistic, to navigate life's daily challenges. Are you tense, anxious worried on edge, unable to concentrate, experiencing negative thought patterns, feeling overwhelmed. Do you have a Low self-esteem, no confidence, no motivation or anxiety. Are you or have you experienced narcissistic abuse and gaslighting! We can support you with your mental health and coping strategies. Ask about 1/2 price Sundays!
I am an Accredited Integrative adult & child counsellor, clinical supervisor and positive psychology coach. Myself and the team are integrative counsellors, working with several approaches. We also support clients who are ADHD or Autistic, to navigate life's daily challenges. Are you tense, anxious worried on edge, unable to concentrate, experiencing negative thought patterns, feeling overwhelmed. Do you have a Low self-esteem, no confidence, no motivation or anxiety. Are you or have you experienced narcissistic abuse and gaslighting! We can support you with your mental health and coping strategies. Ask about 1/2 price Sundays!
You have taken the first steps in moving forward by visiting this page. It is not an easy task to seek help, you show courage, through your recognition of needing counselling . I am a fully qualified counsellor and a member of British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP).
You have taken the first steps in moving forward by visiting this page. It is not an easy task to seek help, you show courage, through your recognition of needing counselling . I am a fully qualified counsellor and a member of British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP).
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My name is David, and I offer outcome-focused therapy for complex challenges such as depression, anxiety, addiction, and relationship difficulties, whether these arise at home or at work. I believe lasting change comes from understanding where difficulties originated and how they continue to shape your life today. Our work may involve exploring past experiences and the emotions linked to them in a compassionate, empathic, and non-judgmental way. This helps uncover how earlier experiences inform how you think, feel, and respond in the present, creating the conditions for meaningful, lasting, and sustainable change over time.
My name is David, and I offer outcome-focused therapy for complex challenges such as depression, anxiety, addiction, and relationship difficulties, whether these arise at home or at work. I believe lasting change comes from understanding where difficulties originated and how they continue to shape your life today. Our work may involve exploring past experiences and the emotions linked to them in a compassionate, empathic, and non-judgmental way. This helps uncover how earlier experiences inform how you think, feel, and respond in the present, creating the conditions for meaningful, lasting, and sustainable change over time.
I support clients aged 9-21 through family separation, divorce, and care transitions, offering a space in which they can feel heard, process complex emotions such as grief, anxiety and guilt, and build coping skills, trust, and resilience as they navigate change.
My work focuses on helping young people make sense of changes at home, process difficult emotions, and feel heard and supported during unsettling transitions. My practice is trauma-informed, LGBTQ+ and neuro-affirming.
I support clients aged 9-21 through family separation, divorce, and care transitions, offering a space in which they can feel heard, process complex emotions such as grief, anxiety and guilt, and build coping skills, trust, and resilience as they navigate change.
My work focuses on helping young people make sense of changes at home, process difficult emotions, and feel heard and supported during unsettling transitions. My practice is trauma-informed, LGBTQ+ and neuro-affirming.
A calm online space for exhausted professional women to put it all down and come back to themselves.
You hold everything together. You're the one who remembers, plans, anticipates and smooths things over — competent on the outside, quietly exhausted underneath. The emotional labour rarely stops, and somewhere along the way you stopped feeling like yourself.
Often there's more underneath — old relationship patterns, a difficult or controlling past, a nervous system stuck on high alert. You don't need to be fixed. You need somewhere safe to finally set it down, and a steady hand to help you find your way back.
A calm online space for exhausted professional women to put it all down and come back to themselves.
You hold everything together. You're the one who remembers, plans, anticipates and smooths things over — competent on the outside, quietly exhausted underneath. The emotional labour rarely stops, and somewhere along the way you stopped feeling like yourself.
Often there's more underneath — old relationship patterns, a difficult or controlling past, a nervous system stuck on high alert. You don't need to be fixed. You need somewhere safe to finally set it down, and a steady hand to help you find your way back.
You may be feeling unheard, disconnected, or anxious in your relationship. wondering how things got here and unsure how to move forward. Maybe there’s been a breakdown of trust, a repeating pattern, or emotional distance that’s hard to bridge. Whether you’re an individual or a couple, you’re longing for clarity, connection, and a calmer space to explore your relationship. If that sounds like you, I can help.
You may be feeling unheard, disconnected, or anxious in your relationship. wondering how things got here and unsure how to move forward. Maybe there’s been a breakdown of trust, a repeating pattern, or emotional distance that’s hard to bridge. Whether you’re an individual or a couple, you’re longing for clarity, connection, and a calmer space to explore your relationship. If that sounds like you, I can help.
I provide support with an extensive range of issues including: bereavement, depression, stress, anxiety, employee assistance, relationships, self harm and suicide, marital issues, divorce, mental health disorders, work related issues, abuse, identity, parenthood, menopause and life challenges.
My expertise enables me to work in an empathetic, culturally and gender sensitive way, in order to provide a unique service that fills a gap in the profession. I work with a diverse range of clients including individuals, couples and families. I have unique interpersonal skills and I also speak fluent Urdu and Punjabi.
I provide support with an extensive range of issues including: bereavement, depression, stress, anxiety, employee assistance, relationships, self harm and suicide, marital issues, divorce, mental health disorders, work related issues, abuse, identity, parenthood, menopause and life challenges.
My expertise enables me to work in an empathetic, culturally and gender sensitive way, in order to provide a unique service that fills a gap in the profession. I work with a diverse range of clients including individuals, couples and families. I have unique interpersonal skills and I also speak fluent Urdu and Punjabi.
I have experience and specialise in helping clients heal from trauma and adverse childhood events, navigate relationship difficulties (including dating app dilemmas), patterns of attachment and help to build self-esteem and confidence.
My approach is warm, non-judgmental, and insight-driven, helping my clients understand how past experiences may be impacting their life today, and more importantly, what they can do to move forward.
Feeling stuck in life can stop us from being the best version of ourselves, and while we can't change the past, we can most certainly influence what happens next.
I have experience and specialise in helping clients heal from trauma and adverse childhood events, navigate relationship difficulties (including dating app dilemmas), patterns of attachment and help to build self-esteem and confidence.
My approach is warm, non-judgmental, and insight-driven, helping my clients understand how past experiences may be impacting their life today, and more importantly, what they can do to move forward.
Feeling stuck in life can stop us from being the best version of ourselves, and while we can't change the past, we can most certainly influence what happens next.
Throughout my life, I have had numerous encounters and experiences that have shaped my understanding of the human condition and ignited my desire to make a positive difference in people's lives. These encounters, combined with my innate empathy and compassion, have fostered my deep interest in counselling. They have taught me that people seek support not only when they are in crisis, but also when they are trying to make sense of their identity, relationships, and emotional world. This understanding forms the foundation of the work I do and the clients I feel most called to support.
Throughout my life, I have had numerous encounters and experiences that have shaped my understanding of the human condition and ignited my desire to make a positive difference in people's lives. These encounters, combined with my innate empathy and compassion, have fostered my deep interest in counselling. They have taught me that people seek support not only when they are in crisis, but also when they are trying to make sense of their identity, relationships, and emotional world. This understanding forms the foundation of the work I do and the clients I feel most called to support.
Do relationships feel like hard work instead of bringing you joy and being a "safe heaven"? Whether you’re single, dating or in a long-term relationship, you still may feel lonely, confused or stuck. And you start overthinking, feeling anxious, guilty or “not enough”. Maybe you keep arguing about “small things”, avoid intimacy or notice the same painful story repeating with different people.
But deep down, you long for calm, emotional safety and honest conversations – to feel close and wanted, and finally relax and be yourself without losing your independence
Do relationships feel like hard work instead of bringing you joy and being a "safe heaven"? Whether you’re single, dating or in a long-term relationship, you still may feel lonely, confused or stuck. And you start overthinking, feeling anxious, guilty or “not enough”. Maybe you keep arguing about “small things”, avoid intimacy or notice the same painful story repeating with different people.
But deep down, you long for calm, emotional safety and honest conversations – to feel close and wanted, and finally relax and be yourself without losing your independence
Heathwell Therapies is a team of highly experienced, psychotherapists, counsellors and psychologists based in Blackheath Village, SE London and online. We work with adults, couples, and adolescents, offering expert support in ADHD, relational trauma, couples and relationship therapy, psychosexual therapy, and women’s and men’s mental health. Our team combines extensive clinical experience with evidence-based and humanistic approaches, providing a professional, warm, and confidential environment where clients can explore challenges and achieve meaningful, lasting change.
Heathwell Therapies is a team of highly experienced, psychotherapists, counsellors and psychologists based in Blackheath Village, SE London and online. We work with adults, couples, and adolescents, offering expert support in ADHD, relational trauma, couples and relationship therapy, psychosexual therapy, and women’s and men’s mental health. Our team combines extensive clinical experience with evidence-based and humanistic approaches, providing a professional, warm, and confidential environment where clients can explore challenges and achieve meaningful, lasting change.
Maclynn is an international award winning matchmaking agency and dating consultancy service. Our clients are successful men and women who seek a compatible long term partner and do not find dating apps an effective way of finding a partner. We work with clients who are based in the UK or internationally - helping them to find a compatible, long term partner, through our matchmaking and date coaching services.
Maclynn is an international award winning matchmaking agency and dating consultancy service. Our clients are successful men and women who seek a compatible long term partner and do not find dating apps an effective way of finding a partner. We work with clients who are based in the UK or internationally - helping them to find a compatible, long term partner, through our matchmaking and date coaching services.
Integrative Psychotherapist, Highgate · Barnet · Online.
If life feels overwhelming, anxious, or stuck, Maybe you’re scrolling through other people’s careers, relationships, and milestones, feeling pressure. I help to untangle the anxiety, and self‑criticism.
I help you make sense of what’s going on and find a way through. Whether you’re an adult at a crossroads, a parent at capacity, or a young person whose needs don’t fit mainstream approaches.
I’m curious, approachable, creative, and honest. I often use humour and sometimes a touch of colourful language!
Integrative Psychotherapist, Highgate · Barnet · Online.
If life feels overwhelming, anxious, or stuck, Maybe you’re scrolling through other people’s careers, relationships, and milestones, feeling pressure. I help to untangle the anxiety, and self‑criticism.
I help you make sense of what’s going on and find a way through. Whether you’re an adult at a crossroads, a parent at capacity, or a young person whose needs don’t fit mainstream approaches.
I’m curious, approachable, creative, and honest. I often use humour and sometimes a touch of colourful language!
I’m Jacqui, a warm and compassionate psychotherapist who offers a space to talk which feels calm and safe - where you can speak openly about what is troubling you without fear of being judged. I can help you make sense of what you are experiencing and understand yourself in new ways, leading to lasting change over time. We will work together to enable you to overcome difficulties and gain a greater sense of control over your life.
I’m Jacqui, a warm and compassionate psychotherapist who offers a space to talk which feels calm and safe - where you can speak openly about what is troubling you without fear of being judged. I can help you make sense of what you are experiencing and understand yourself in new ways, leading to lasting change over time. We will work together to enable you to overcome difficulties and gain a greater sense of control over your life.
Very often life involves losses, challenges and the inevitable changes that come alongside. Your psychological well being can be tried and tested at such times: Hence an understanding, warm and supportive non judgmental personable professional can make all the difference. Yes life will not be the same again, but it can be good again!
Very often life involves losses, challenges and the inevitable changes that come alongside. Your psychological well being can be tried and tested at such times: Hence an understanding, warm and supportive non judgmental personable professional can make all the difference. Yes life will not be the same again, but it can be good again!
I specialise in helping people navigate distressing or traumatic relationship endings, including breakups, separation and divorce.
My approach is integrative and tailored to your individual needs, aims and preferences. My professional training includes person-centred, psychodynamic and Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), alongside professional training in EMDR Therapy, accredited by EMDR Europe.
I specialise in helping people navigate distressing or traumatic relationship endings, including breakups, separation and divorce.
My approach is integrative and tailored to your individual needs, aims and preferences. My professional training includes person-centred, psychodynamic and Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), alongside professional training in EMDR Therapy, accredited by EMDR Europe.
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How does therapy for people affected by a divorce work?
Individuals may feel a number of emotions following a divorce, such as shock, guilt, grief, anger, and fear. Therapists offer a non-judgmental space for individuals to talk about what they’ve experienced and process their emotions. Therapists will help clients develop coping strategies. They can also help a client rebuild their sense of self and self-worth and talk about what a happier future might look like.
What’s the most common type of therapy following a divorce?
There are several types of therapy that may be useful for divorce, including cognitive behavioural, acceptance and commitment, solution-focused brief, and mindfulness-based therapies. Many therapy types are talk-therapy based, which is typically the most popular option for individuals dealing with divorce. Cognitive behavioural therapy is a widely-used talk therapy, however, there’s no specific therapy type that’s designed to help people with divorce, and different types will work depending on the person.
When should an individual seek help due to a divorce?
When the feelings of a divorced individual, or an individual going through the process of divorce, begin to disrupt healthy daily functioning, it may be a good time to look into therapy. If a person finds that they are not performing at work due to problems with anxiety or motivation, if they’re no longer seeing friends due to feelings of shame, or if they’re not properly taking care of themselves as a result of depression, speaking to a professional could help.
How do you encourage someone to go to therapy due to a divorce?
It’s helpful to express concern and love for the individual while framing therapy as a tool for improving their life. Sharing how the individual appears to be suffering, and what effects it has on them or on their children, should be done with compassion and empathy. It may be useful to devise a game plan—breaking the process down into parts, such as finding a therapist, making appointments, and looking into insurance coverage.