Sex Therapists in Radlett

Elaine Tarsh
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Online Only
I have over 20 years' experience as a relationship and sex therapist, including specialist work with porn and compulsive sexual behaviours.
You may be feeling stuck in a relationship that keeps circling the same arguments, or noticing distance, tension, or a loss of intimacy. You might be worried about sexual behaviour, including porn use, that feels secretive, out of control, or at odds with your values or relationship. Often people come feeling confused, ashamed, or frightened by the impact on themselves or their partner, and unsure who they can talk to. You may simply want to understand what’s going on and whether change is possible.
I have over 20 years' experience as a relationship and sex therapist, including specialist work with porn and compulsive sexual behaviours.
You may be feeling stuck in a relationship that keeps circling the same arguments, or noticing distance, tension, or a loss of intimacy. You might be worried about sexual behaviour, including porn use, that feels secretive, out of control, or at odds with your values or relationship. Often people come feeling confused, ashamed, or frightened by the impact on themselves or their partner, and unsure who they can talk to. You may simply want to understand what’s going on and whether change is possible.
01923 920643 View 01923 920643
Sue Pallenberg
Psychotherapist, MUKCP
Serves Area
Hello, I have been working as a psychotherapist for 35 years, helping people to overcome problems when they are feeling overwhelmed, confused, perhaps depressed and anxious, struggling with relationships, or whatever difficulties life has thrown at them. As a Psychotherapist I can work with you in a unique and individual way that best suits your needs. I offer a safe and reliable therapeutic relationship in which to explore your presenting problems in a comfortable and confidential environment. I am also offering telephone, Skype or Zoom Sessions.
Hello, I have been working as a psychotherapist for 35 years, helping people to overcome problems when they are feeling overwhelmed, confused, perhaps depressed and anxious, struggling with relationships, or whatever difficulties life has thrown at them. As a Psychotherapist I can work with you in a unique and individual way that best suits your needs. I offer a safe and reliable therapeutic relationship in which to explore your presenting problems in a comfortable and confidential environment. I am also offering telephone, Skype or Zoom Sessions.
01727 875212 View 01727 875212
Gordon Wax
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Serves Area
Hi, my name is Gordon. Welcome! I am a full qualified therapist working online and in person from my consulting room in Manchester zone one. Personal therapy helped me to untangle my relationship with myself and my emotions from others. The world alone is a chaotic place to manage our own unknowns, anxieties, and traumas. I understand that everyone experiences the world in different ways, so unique problems require bespoke responses. Our lives are constantly changing, so it’s natural to feel emotions strongly, think differently and respond atypically. I help clients explore all spheres of their life to help build hope and cope
Hi, my name is Gordon. Welcome! I am a full qualified therapist working online and in person from my consulting room in Manchester zone one. Personal therapy helped me to untangle my relationship with myself and my emotions from others. The world alone is a chaotic place to manage our own unknowns, anxieties, and traumas. I understand that everyone experiences the world in different ways, so unique problems require bespoke responses. Our lives are constantly changing, so it’s natural to feel emotions strongly, think differently and respond atypically. I help clients explore all spheres of their life to help build hope and cope
020 3871 8210 View 020 3871 8210
Jennifer Kabelis
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
My therapy room is a safe, non-judgmental space where we address root causes—including emotional or psychological blocks related to sexuality.
Hello, I’m Jennifer. I work with adults—individuals and couples—offering a warm, safe, non-judgmental space to explore your inner world and relationships. My calm, collaborative approach supports you at your own pace, helping you feel truly heard and understood. I’m passionate about guiding people through anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship or psychosexual concerns, and big transitions. Using psychodynamic therapy, we’ll explore patterns and roots of challenges, fostering insight, growth, and lasting positive change unique to your needs. Whether you’re seeking clarity or more connection, I’m here to support you.
My therapy room is a safe, non-judgmental space where we address root causes—including emotional or psychological blocks related to sexuality.
Hello, I’m Jennifer. I work with adults—individuals and couples—offering a warm, safe, non-judgmental space to explore your inner world and relationships. My calm, collaborative approach supports you at your own pace, helping you feel truly heard and understood. I’m passionate about guiding people through anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship or psychosexual concerns, and big transitions. Using psychodynamic therapy, we’ll explore patterns and roots of challenges, fostering insight, growth, and lasting positive change unique to your needs. Whether you’re seeking clarity or more connection, I’m here to support you.
01727 221418 View 01727 221418
Lee Grant
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Serves Area
Waitlist for new clients
My name is Lee Grant. I’m a MBACP registered psychotherapist offering individual therapy, couples therapy, couples counselling, parenting support and online therapy in Welwyn, Hertfordshire and internationally. I work with adults, couples, parents, British expats and English-speaking professionals abroad, including clients in Dubai, the Gulf, Hong Kong and parts of Asia.
My name is Lee Grant. I’m a MBACP registered psychotherapist offering individual therapy, couples therapy, couples counselling, parenting support and online therapy in Welwyn, Hertfordshire and internationally. I work with adults, couples, parents, British expats and English-speaking professionals abroad, including clients in Dubai, the Gulf, Hong Kong and parts of Asia.
01438 903193 View 01438 903193

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Intima Therapy
Psychotherapist, COSRT Reg.
London W4
We provide therapy that is grounded, non-judgemental, inclusive and sex-positive.
We bring together a collective of hand-picked, qualified psychosexual and relationship therapists who are passionate about supporting individuals and couples.
We provide therapy that is grounded, non-judgemental, inclusive and sex-positive.
We bring together a collective of hand-picked, qualified psychosexual and relationship therapists who are passionate about supporting individuals and couples.
020 4652 3839 View 020 4652 3839
Rachel Seymour
Psychotherapist, MA, COSRT General
London E8
I work with people from all backgrounds and walks of life, although most often I work with clients who fall into the category of gender, sexuality or relationship diverse (GSRD), whether that means someone is kinky, polyamorous, a sex worker, queer (or a combination!).
I work in an integrative way. This means I pull from a variety of different therapeutic models, including humanistic, person-centred and existential. I also work through a GSRD lens - for example, I believe that everyone (regardless of relationship style) can benefit from the skills developed through polyamory (for example communication).
I work with people from all backgrounds and walks of life, although most often I work with clients who fall into the category of gender, sexuality or relationship diverse (GSRD), whether that means someone is kinky, polyamorous, a sex worker, queer (or a combination!).
I work in an integrative way. This means I pull from a variety of different therapeutic models, including humanistic, person-centred and existential. I also work through a GSRD lens - for example, I believe that everyone (regardless of relationship style) can benefit from the skills developed through polyamory (for example communication).
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Gillian Beckwith
Psychotherapist, MA, COSRT Accred
Online Only
It can include arousal and desire, orgasm (rapid, delayed, not achieving), erectile sufficiency, pain on penetrative sex, non-consummation, sexual identity, change from the impact of illness, disability, ageing, fertility challenges.
Fully qualified and highly experienced with all sexual and relational dilemmas, and especially when matters are usually fuelled by anxiety/depression which can come with a sense of loneliness or isolation. I happily work with all kinds of couples or individuals on their relationships and also general personal dilemmas, for example, grief, loss, anxiety, depression and I have done so for a long time. Using a clinical supervisor, I maintain regular sessions about my (anonymised) client work to ensure consistently effective therapy. I have industry-standard insurance.
It can include arousal and desire, orgasm (rapid, delayed, not achieving), erectile sufficiency, pain on penetrative sex, non-consummation, sexual identity, change from the impact of illness, disability, ageing, fertility challenges.
Fully qualified and highly experienced with all sexual and relational dilemmas, and especially when matters are usually fuelled by anxiety/depression which can come with a sense of loneliness or isolation. I happily work with all kinds of couples or individuals on their relationships and also general personal dilemmas, for example, grief, loss, anxiety, depression and I have done so for a long time. Using a clinical supervisor, I maintain regular sessions about my (anonymised) client work to ensure consistently effective therapy. I have industry-standard insurance.
01748 902286 View 01748 902286
Adam Nanayakkara
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Online Only
It's understandable that seeking psychological support can feel daunting, especially for those who feel forced to adopt a public persona, are apprehensive about judgement or have a demanding schedule. Many of my clients, including those not familiar with accessing therapy, people concerned about privacy, and those with a public profile, find that online psychotherapy offers a convenient solution. Whether you're considering therapy for the first time or giving it a second chance after a previous experience, I'm here to provide tailored support that fits into your life, including availability of evening sessions if preferred.
It's understandable that seeking psychological support can feel daunting, especially for those who feel forced to adopt a public persona, are apprehensive about judgement or have a demanding schedule. Many of my clients, including those not familiar with accessing therapy, people concerned about privacy, and those with a public profile, find that online psychotherapy offers a convenient solution. Whether you're considering therapy for the first time or giving it a second chance after a previous experience, I'm here to provide tailored support that fits into your life, including availability of evening sessions if preferred.
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Dr Christopher Cartner
Psychologist, DCounsPsych, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
2 Endorsed
Online Only
I have worked with people experiencing depression, stress, anxiety, trauma and concerns with sexuality and sexual health.
Everything we do, however painful or seemingly nonsensical has its roots in something from our experiential life, having served a purpose for us at some point. Though, they may lose their effectiveness over time. Together, we could look at some of these processes, and explore what can be done to start to let these go.
I have worked with people experiencing depression, stress, anxiety, trauma and concerns with sexuality and sexual health.
Everything we do, however painful or seemingly nonsensical has its roots in something from our experiential life, having served a purpose for us at some point. Though, they may lose their effectiveness over time. Together, we could look at some of these processes, and explore what can be done to start to let these go.
020 3872 2472 View 020 3872 2472
Rose Mazillius
Psychotherapist, COSRT Accred
London E2
Accredited member of COSRT College of Sex and Relationship Therapists.
Hello! I'm Rose (she/they) and I am an accredited, queer Psychosexual and Relationship therapist. If you have found your way to my website, it is likely you are wondering about making some changes to your life. Maybe you’re finding things really tough right now, maybe there’s a harmful pattern you can't shift. It can be really hard to see the wood for the trees sometimes. I view therapy as a collaborative process of two human beings working together to help you at a time where you need support. I aim to empower you to make active, conscious steps towards creating more reasons to make life worth living.
Accredited member of COSRT College of Sex and Relationship Therapists.
Hello! I'm Rose (she/they) and I am an accredited, queer Psychosexual and Relationship therapist. If you have found your way to my website, it is likely you are wondering about making some changes to your life. Maybe you’re finding things really tough right now, maybe there’s a harmful pattern you can't shift. It can be really hard to see the wood for the trees sometimes. I view therapy as a collaborative process of two human beings working together to help you at a time where you need support. I aim to empower you to make active, conscious steps towards creating more reasons to make life worth living.
01992 929592 View 01992 929592
Lidia Lee
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
Online Only
I work with adults to navigate through depression, anxiety, relationships, health conditions, and sexuality.
Life may look “fine” on the outside, yet inside it feels different, not quite the feeling that it should be. You may feel weighed down, sinking into depression, emptiness, or even anxiety that may seem to come from nowhere. There is something you can't quite talk to people about. You might enjoy spending time with people, but still feel isolated and can't quite be fully yourself. What you really want is to feel lighter, relaxed, and happy—to have a life that feels meaningful, balanced, and fulfilling. You want to wake up with hope and happiness, feel more present in your relationships, and have a happy life.
I work with adults to navigate through depression, anxiety, relationships, health conditions, and sexuality.
Life may look “fine” on the outside, yet inside it feels different, not quite the feeling that it should be. You may feel weighed down, sinking into depression, emptiness, or even anxiety that may seem to come from nowhere. There is something you can't quite talk to people about. You might enjoy spending time with people, but still feel isolated and can't quite be fully yourself. What you really want is to feel lighter, relaxed, and happy—to have a life that feels meaningful, balanced, and fulfilling. You want to wake up with hope and happiness, feel more present in your relationships, and have a happy life.
01234 860917 View 01234 860917
Becky Crepsley-Fox
Psychotherapist, COSRT Accred
3 Endorsed
Serves Area
My clients often feel disconnected from their desire, sexuality, or relationships and seek a compassionate, non-judgmental space to explore these issues.
I take a flexible, personalised approach, combining EMDR, NLP, hypno-psychotherapy, mindfulness, and sex-positive, trauma-informed strategies. Using a holistic framework with Polyvagal and Attachment theories, I help individuals and couples explore self-discovery, heal emotionally, and navigate relationships with confidence, clarity, and authenticity.
My clients often feel disconnected from their desire, sexuality, or relationships and seek a compassionate, non-judgmental space to explore these issues.
I take a flexible, personalised approach, combining EMDR, NLP, hypno-psychotherapy, mindfulness, and sex-positive, trauma-informed strategies. Using a holistic framework with Polyvagal and Attachment theories, I help individuals and couples explore self-discovery, heal emotionally, and navigate relationships with confidence, clarity, and authenticity.
01273 092069 View 01273 092069
Charisse Peters
Psychotherapist, MBACP
London SE25
As a trained sex therapist, I hold both the relational and the sexual side of these difficulties, including differences in desire and shame.
Relationships are where we most want to feel close, and where it hurts most when we don't. Are you and your partner caught in the same argument on repeat, Or perhaps you're navigating dating, intimacy, and relationships as a neurodivergent adult. I'm a Relationship, Psychosexual and ADHD therapist with 15 years of experience, working with individuals and couples. I offer a warm, authentic space to explore what feels stuck. Together we'll make sense of the patterns underneath, so you can shift the cycles that keep repeating and moving towards a more towards a more connected way of relating, both to yourself and to others.
As a trained sex therapist, I hold both the relational and the sexual side of these difficulties, including differences in desire and shame.
Relationships are where we most want to feel close, and where it hurts most when we don't. Are you and your partner caught in the same argument on repeat, Or perhaps you're navigating dating, intimacy, and relationships as a neurodivergent adult. I'm a Relationship, Psychosexual and ADHD therapist with 15 years of experience, working with individuals and couples. I offer a warm, authentic space to explore what feels stuck. Together we'll make sense of the patterns underneath, so you can shift the cycles that keep repeating and moving towards a more towards a more connected way of relating, both to yourself and to others.
07481 358647 View 07481 358647
Gianluca Failla
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
London NW6
Sex and relationships can be difficult to talk about, particularly when you're feeling anxious, ashamed, disconnected or simply unsure what's happening.
My background includes over 10 years' experience across sexual health, LGBTQIA+ support, addiction and Chemsex services. I work with sexual difficulties, desire, shame and intimacy, and support couples and people in polyamorous, open and ethically non-monogamous relationships.
Sex and relationships can be difficult to talk about, particularly when you're feeling anxious, ashamed, disconnected or simply unsure what's happening.
My background includes over 10 years' experience across sexual health, LGBTQIA+ support, addiction and Chemsex services. I work with sexual difficulties, desire, shame and intimacy, and support couples and people in polyamorous, open and ethically non-monogamous relationships.
020 4634 8128 View 020 4634 8128
Talk Relationships
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
London W1K
My name is Isabelita. I am a fully qualified and experienced Relationship and Psychosexual Therapist. I have over 10 years experience working with neurodivergent and neurotypical clients. I help my clients manage conflict and acknowledge individual differences. When clients struggle to communicate and relate with others, their mental well-being and relationships suffer. Clients and their partners may feel isolated, rejected and/or angry. I work with clients to improve their relationships and mental wellbeing and to help them feel accepted and loved. I also help clients improve their sexual intimacy and sexual interactions.
My name is Isabelita. I am a fully qualified and experienced Relationship and Psychosexual Therapist. I have over 10 years experience working with neurodivergent and neurotypical clients. I help my clients manage conflict and acknowledge individual differences. When clients struggle to communicate and relate with others, their mental well-being and relationships suffer. Clients and their partners may feel isolated, rejected and/or angry. I work with clients to improve their relationships and mental wellbeing and to help them feel accepted and loved. I also help clients improve their sexual intimacy and sexual interactions.
020 4538 2319 View 020 4538 2319
Deborah Sless
Psychotherapist, MUKCP
1 Endorsed
London NW5
I am a fully qualified experienced and accredited psychotherapist working with individuals and couples (since 1992). I am also an accredited COSRT Psychosexual and Relationship therapist. My aim is to build a safe and holding space for a trusting relationship to develop where you can explore and share your thoughts, feelings, behaviours and problems/difficulties. I believe that you have many of the answers you are seeking within yourself.
I am a fully qualified experienced and accredited psychotherapist working with individuals and couples (since 1992). I am also an accredited COSRT Psychosexual and Relationship therapist. My aim is to build a safe and holding space for a trusting relationship to develop where you can explore and share your thoughts, feelings, behaviours and problems/difficulties. I believe that you have many of the answers you are seeking within yourself.
020 3984 7837 View 020 3984 7837
Sarah Bond
Psychotherapist, PsychD, COSRT Reg.
London SE17
I am a sex and relationship therapist who works with individuals, couples ,and groups experiencing physical or psychological distress in their intimate lives.
I bring comprehensive knowledge of sexual health and the mind-body connection to our work. I prefer face to face sessions to build trust and use plain language to discuss complex topics. I am an attentive listener with a sense of humour and the life experience to have heard many stories.
I am a sex and relationship therapist who works with individuals, couples ,and groups experiencing physical or psychological distress in their intimate lives.
I bring comprehensive knowledge of sexual health and the mind-body connection to our work. I prefer face to face sessions to build trust and use plain language to discuss complex topics. I am an attentive listener with a sense of humour and the life experience to have heard many stories.
020 4538 2572 View 020 4538 2572
Louise Styles
Psychologist, PhD, CPsychol
Serves Area
Clients come to me when they are experiencing distress in their relationships, with their sex lives or within themselves.
I can help with relationship issues including romantic, platonic, family and work colleagues; I can advise upon sexual difficulties, exploring sexuality, alternative relationships, kink, shame, jealousy, controlling behaviour, codependency; and I can help clients to process and reframe their own negative core beliefs and change unhelpful coping strategies.
Clients come to me when they are experiencing distress in their relationships, with their sex lives or within themselves.
I can help with relationship issues including romantic, platonic, family and work colleagues; I can advise upon sexual difficulties, exploring sexuality, alternative relationships, kink, shame, jealousy, controlling behaviour, codependency; and I can help clients to process and reframe their own negative core beliefs and change unhelpful coping strategies.
01489 357115 View 01489 357115
Selena Doggett-Jones
Psychotherapist, COSRT Accred
London N6
I work with couples and individuals struggling with their relationships and/or with sex and intimacy issues.
My work with couples focuses on improving communication , listening skills and questioning assumptions. I support partners to better understand the other and improve connection and intimacy. I also work with siblings and other relationships and have enjoyed working in the NHS and privately. I work with disability, chronic illness, cultural and religious differences, infertility, depression, bereavement, sexual dysfunction, perimenopause among other concerns. I also support partners to separate from relationships that are no longer working and those prepairing for marriage, cohabitation, parenting or the choice not to parent.
I work with couples and individuals struggling with their relationships and/or with sex and intimacy issues.
My work with couples focuses on improving communication , listening skills and questioning assumptions. I support partners to better understand the other and improve connection and intimacy. I also work with siblings and other relationships and have enjoyed working in the NHS and privately. I work with disability, chronic illness, cultural and religious differences, infertility, depression, bereavement, sexual dysfunction, perimenopause among other concerns. I also support partners to separate from relationships that are no longer working and those prepairing for marriage, cohabitation, parenting or the choice not to parent.
020 3962 0554 View 020 3962 0554
Sex Therapy Counsellors
Who is sex therapy for?
Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.

Why do people need sex therapy?
Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.

What happens in sex therapy?
People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.

What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?
Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.