Counselling in Pembury
Hi, I am Tammy and I am a qualified, experienced and professional member of the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy. I am an empathic and caring humanistic counsellor who is there for you and can adapt to meet your individual needs. Working therapeutically with you is at the heart of my practice. I am here to listen without judgement and will empower you to feel connected, valued and heard.
Hi, I am Tammy and I am a qualified, experienced and professional member of the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy. I am an empathic and caring humanistic counsellor who is there for you and can adapt to meet your individual needs. Working therapeutically with you is at the heart of my practice. I am here to listen without judgement and will empower you to feel connected, valued and heard.
I offer psychodynamic therapy for people who are carrying the weight of trauma, particularly complex relational trauma and sexual trauma. There are experiences that don't just live in the memory, but live in the body, in relationships, and in parts of you that feel 'too much' or 'not enough'.
I also work with generalised issues such as stress, anxiety, depression. The way I work is gentle, warm and compassionate. Together, we can create a space that feels safe and trustworthy to really explore you as a person, and to find ways of empowering you to explore what feels more aligned to who you really are.
I offer psychodynamic therapy for people who are carrying the weight of trauma, particularly complex relational trauma and sexual trauma. There are experiences that don't just live in the memory, but live in the body, in relationships, and in parts of you that feel 'too much' or 'not enough'.
I also work with generalised issues such as stress, anxiety, depression. The way I work is gentle, warm and compassionate. Together, we can create a space that feels safe and trustworthy to really explore you as a person, and to find ways of empowering you to explore what feels more aligned to who you really are.
If we aren't listened to, aren't heard, how can we be seen? Through our sessions together I provide a space for you to be heard, for you to talk through the challenges that you face, and to support you in finding a way to be. I am also a qualified couples therapist and psychosexual therapist. I work with all areas of couples therapy including communication, sexual issues, and the importance of maintaining a sense of self in a relationship. I am based in Tunbridge Wells and work with clients from all areas and backgrounds.
If we aren't listened to, aren't heard, how can we be seen? Through our sessions together I provide a space for you to be heard, for you to talk through the challenges that you face, and to support you in finding a way to be. I am also a qualified couples therapist and psychosexual therapist. I work with all areas of couples therapy including communication, sexual issues, and the importance of maintaining a sense of self in a relationship. I am based in Tunbridge Wells and work with clients from all areas and backgrounds.
If you are experiencing anxiety, constantly worrying, overthinking things or feeling overwhelmed, then as an experienced counsellor specialising in anxiety, I can help. You may be worrying about things like your health, meeting new people, your relationships or a big change in your life or you may be feeling generally anxious without knowing why. I understand how exhausting and debilitating anxiety can be as I have experienced this myself. Therapy can help you to work through your difficulties, feel calmer and build confidence so that life feels easier.
If you are experiencing anxiety, constantly worrying, overthinking things or feeling overwhelmed, then as an experienced counsellor specialising in anxiety, I can help. You may be worrying about things like your health, meeting new people, your relationships or a big change in your life or you may be feeling generally anxious without knowing why. I understand how exhausting and debilitating anxiety can be as I have experienced this myself. Therapy can help you to work through your difficulties, feel calmer and build confidence so that life feels easier.
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My clients like the informal, friendly approach, tailored to their individual needs. My work is informed by the highly effective Human Givens framework, embodying thorough scientific but holistic understandings of how to help people make good changes. I've been a solution-focused psychotherapist/counsellor and clinical hypnotherapist for more than two decades. For the past four decades, I've also been a professional storyteller, chaired the Society for Storytelling in the 'nineties, often tell appropriate stories as part of therapy sessions with both adults and children.. Clients work with me to achieve specific goals.
My clients like the informal, friendly approach, tailored to their individual needs. My work is informed by the highly effective Human Givens framework, embodying thorough scientific but holistic understandings of how to help people make good changes. I've been a solution-focused psychotherapist/counsellor and clinical hypnotherapist for more than two decades. For the past four decades, I've also been a professional storyteller, chaired the Society for Storytelling in the 'nineties, often tell appropriate stories as part of therapy sessions with both adults and children.. Clients work with me to achieve specific goals.
Hi, How are you? I am a licensed Clinical Psychologist working across NHS services and in private practice for 7 years. I work with adults with a wide range of problems such as trauma, low mood, stress, persistant anxiety, low self-esteem, burnout, and experiences of persistant numbness. I often work with people who are struggling with current difficulties in the context of childhood trauma and adversities.
Growing up in Indonesia, Singapore, US and UK, I hold importance to different identities we hold. I often work with individuals from various minoritized communities and help people feel seen and understood.
Hi, How are you? I am a licensed Clinical Psychologist working across NHS services and in private practice for 7 years. I work with adults with a wide range of problems such as trauma, low mood, stress, persistant anxiety, low self-esteem, burnout, and experiences of persistant numbness. I often work with people who are struggling with current difficulties in the context of childhood trauma and adversities.
Growing up in Indonesia, Singapore, US and UK, I hold importance to different identities we hold. I often work with individuals from various minoritized communities and help people feel seen and understood.
Do you need someone to talk too? Are you lonely, depressed or having relationship issues? Sometimes having an impartial listener can help you to see new ways of coping or overcoming the problems you are facing. As a couples counsellor my job is to help facilitate happier relationships or respectful endings. As a qualified and registered counsellor I am able to provide a safe and supportive environment to explore any issues you feel are causing difficulty in your life. I pride myself on being non-judgmental and welcome everyone, whatever your background may be, to explore ways in which to make your life better.
Do you need someone to talk too? Are you lonely, depressed or having relationship issues? Sometimes having an impartial listener can help you to see new ways of coping or overcoming the problems you are facing. As a couples counsellor my job is to help facilitate happier relationships or respectful endings. As a qualified and registered counsellor I am able to provide a safe and supportive environment to explore any issues you feel are causing difficulty in your life. I pride myself on being non-judgmental and welcome everyone, whatever your background may be, to explore ways in which to make your life better.
Do you feel overwhelmed by anxiety, stress, or low mood? Perhaps you’re navigating relationship difficulties, burnout, or a challenging life transition and finding it hard to prioritise yourself.
Many people reach a point where they feel stuck, exhausted, or unsure how to move forward. You don’t have to face that alone. Therapy offers a supportive space to explore what’s happening, make sense of difficult emotions, and begin creating meaningful change in your life.
Do you feel overwhelmed by anxiety, stress, or low mood? Perhaps you’re navigating relationship difficulties, burnout, or a challenging life transition and finding it hard to prioritise yourself.
Many people reach a point where they feel stuck, exhausted, or unsure how to move forward. You don’t have to face that alone. Therapy offers a supportive space to explore what’s happening, make sense of difficult emotions, and begin creating meaningful change in your life.
Searching for a space where you can slow down and feel deeply understood? I’m a Person-Centred Counsellor and psychotherapist offering a space for you to explore life’s challenges at your own pace, supporting you to reconnect with yourself and listen to your own needs. Online sessions available across the whole of England and face to face sessions based in Colchester.
Searching for a space where you can slow down and feel deeply understood? I’m a Person-Centred Counsellor and psychotherapist offering a space for you to explore life’s challenges at your own pace, supporting you to reconnect with yourself and listen to your own needs. Online sessions available across the whole of England and face to face sessions based in Colchester.
I am a HCPC registered Clinical Psychologist with experience in supporting people with psychological difficulties such as anxiety disorders (e.g. generalized anxiety, OCD, phobia, panic and social anxiety) and low mood, as well as low self-esteem, insecurity and fear of failure.
I am a HCPC registered Clinical Psychologist with experience in supporting people with psychological difficulties such as anxiety disorders (e.g. generalized anxiety, OCD, phobia, panic and social anxiety) and low mood, as well as low self-esteem, insecurity and fear of failure.
I help women who are trying to hold everything together, yet running on empty inside. Often feeling anxious, exhausted, or like they’ve lost touch with themselves beneath all the doing. They may struggle to slow down, set boundaries, or find balance between responsibility and self-care. Therapy offers space to understand recurring patterns, manage stress more effectively, and reconnect with a sense of calm, confidence, and authenticity in their daily lives.
I help women who are trying to hold everything together, yet running on empty inside. Often feeling anxious, exhausted, or like they’ve lost touch with themselves beneath all the doing. They may struggle to slow down, set boundaries, or find balance between responsibility and self-care. Therapy offers space to understand recurring patterns, manage stress more effectively, and reconnect with a sense of calm, confidence, and authenticity in their daily lives.
I work with people who have spent much of their lives showing up for others - thoughtful, capable, and deeply committed. You’re used to carrying responsibility, and now you may be ready to offer that same care to yourself. Many of my clients come to therapy not only because life feels challenging, but because they’re ready to grow, reconnect, and live more authentically. Are you re-evaluating relationships, work, or decisions? Or noticing old patterns, seeking healthier boundaries, feeling burnt out from work, caregiving, parenting, or life changes? I offer a calm, supportive space where you don’t have to figure it out alone.
I work with people who have spent much of their lives showing up for others - thoughtful, capable, and deeply committed. You’re used to carrying responsibility, and now you may be ready to offer that same care to yourself. Many of my clients come to therapy not only because life feels challenging, but because they’re ready to grow, reconnect, and live more authentically. Are you re-evaluating relationships, work, or decisions? Or noticing old patterns, seeking healthier boundaries, feeling burnt out from work, caregiving, parenting, or life changes? I offer a calm, supportive space where you don’t have to figure it out alone.
Specialist in trauma recovery, delivered with compassion and care.
You may feel weighed down by past experiences, stuck in painful relationship patterns, or overwhelmed by anxiety. I offer a compassionate, trauma-sensitive space where you can explore your story safely and at your own pace. Together, we can work toward recovery, helping you reconnect with yourself, find emotional balance, and build healthier, more fulfilling relationships.
Specialist in trauma recovery, delivered with compassion and care.
You may feel weighed down by past experiences, stuck in painful relationship patterns, or overwhelmed by anxiety. I offer a compassionate, trauma-sensitive space where you can explore your story safely and at your own pace. Together, we can work toward recovery, helping you reconnect with yourself, find emotional balance, and build healthier, more fulfilling relationships.
Hi, I'm Zoe - an integrative therapist with a passion for the work that I do. My aim is to help you make steps towards a deeper understanding of yourself and your place in the world. Perhaps you feel stuck, or angry, or hopeless. I am able to provide you with a safe space where your voice is listened to and your story is heard. My integrative approach draws on a range of therapeutic methods that enable you to get the most out of this process. I bring warmth, empathy and acceptance to every client.
Hi, I'm Zoe - an integrative therapist with a passion for the work that I do. My aim is to help you make steps towards a deeper understanding of yourself and your place in the world. Perhaps you feel stuck, or angry, or hopeless. I am able to provide you with a safe space where your voice is listened to and your story is heard. My integrative approach draws on a range of therapeutic methods that enable you to get the most out of this process. I bring warmth, empathy and acceptance to every client.
I’m a Chartered Principal Clinical Psychologist with over 18 years of NHS experience and a background in leading psychological care for trauma, psychosis, and complex mental health problems.
I’m passionate about challenging stigma, supporting people to make sense of their experiences, and finding hopeful paths forward, even when things feel stuck or overwhelming. We will take time to understand what matters to you, work at a pace that feels manageable, and adapt therapy together as your needs change.
I’m a Chartered Principal Clinical Psychologist with over 18 years of NHS experience and a background in leading psychological care for trauma, psychosis, and complex mental health problems.
I’m passionate about challenging stigma, supporting people to make sense of their experiences, and finding hopeful paths forward, even when things feel stuck or overwhelming. We will take time to understand what matters to you, work at a pace that feels manageable, and adapt therapy together as your needs change.
Are you struggling with intimacy, sexual confidence, or feeling disconnected from your partner or your own body?
Difficulties with sex and relationships are incredibly common, but many people feel too ashamed or anxious to talk about them. This can be from a combination of how sex was talked about in your household, your sex education, early sexual experiences and unpleasant sexual experiences. Therapy offers a safe and supportive space to explore what’s going on and begin to move forward.
Are you struggling with intimacy, sexual confidence, or feeling disconnected from your partner or your own body?
Difficulties with sex and relationships are incredibly common, but many people feel too ashamed or anxious to talk about them. This can be from a combination of how sex was talked about in your household, your sex education, early sexual experiences and unpleasant sexual experiences. Therapy offers a safe and supportive space to explore what’s going on and begin to move forward.
I offer CBT therapy sessions and counselling on a short-term or open-ended basis. My aim is to create a warm, supportive and empathic space where people can feel safe, be fully themselves and talk freely about their concerns without fear of being judged.
I offer CBT therapy sessions and counselling on a short-term or open-ended basis. My aim is to create a warm, supportive and empathic space where people can feel safe, be fully themselves and talk freely about their concerns without fear of being judged.
Modern life can be overwhelming. Sometimes all you need is a safe environment to understand your thoughts & feelings. Sometimes you need therapeutic techniques. I offer both, in a confidential space. Your Space.
Modern life can be overwhelming. Sometimes all you need is a safe environment to understand your thoughts & feelings. Sometimes you need therapeutic techniques. I offer both, in a confidential space. Your Space.
Thinking about starting therapy can feel overwhelming, especially if you’re already struggling.
For over 14 years I’ve supported people through periods of change, challenge, and uncertainty in a range of helping roles. I’m an experienced & accredited Psychotherapist, registered with UKCP, BPC, and BACP, and I believe I can potentially help you.
I offer a supportive, open, inclusive, and non-judgemental space where we can explore what’s going on for you, at your own pace. Therapy can help you to understand your issues and where they come from, develop ways of dealing with them, and become a more integrated and self aware person.
Thinking about starting therapy can feel overwhelming, especially if you’re already struggling.
For over 14 years I’ve supported people through periods of change, challenge, and uncertainty in a range of helping roles. I’m an experienced & accredited Psychotherapist, registered with UKCP, BPC, and BACP, and I believe I can potentially help you.
I offer a supportive, open, inclusive, and non-judgemental space where we can explore what’s going on for you, at your own pace. Therapy can help you to understand your issues and where they come from, develop ways of dealing with them, and become a more integrated and self aware person.
Hello. I support adults and young people (16+/Year 12 onwards) with overwhelming anxiety. Anxiety can often be caused by damaging levels of stress, relationship issues, family conflict, bereavement, significant life changes, low self-esteem, feelings of being stuck, shame and anger. My work with young people additionally supports anxiety around exams, fear of failure, low motivation and relationships.
Therapy is a collaborative approach. My approach helps you find the root causes of the disconnect in your life and enables change. We can't alter our past but we can change the influence it has on us.
Hello. I support adults and young people (16+/Year 12 onwards) with overwhelming anxiety. Anxiety can often be caused by damaging levels of stress, relationship issues, family conflict, bereavement, significant life changes, low self-esteem, feelings of being stuck, shame and anger. My work with young people additionally supports anxiety around exams, fear of failure, low motivation and relationships.
Therapy is a collaborative approach. My approach helps you find the root causes of the disconnect in your life and enables change. We can't alter our past but we can change the influence it has on us.
How does your Counsellor compare?
Number of Counsellors in Pembury
< 10
Counsellors in Pembury who prioritize treating:
| 100% | Relationship Issues |
| 100% | Depression |
| 100% | Anxiety |
| 100% | Family Conflict |
| 100% | Self Esteem |
| 100% | Stress |
| 75% | Bereavement |
Average years in practice
6 Years
Gender breakdown
| 75% | Female | |
| 25% | Male |
How Counsellors in Pembury see their clients
| 100% | In Person and Online |
FAQs - About Therapy and Counselling
How can I find a therapist in Pembury?
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Is everyone in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory a licensed therapist?
Counsellors and Psychotherapists listed in the directory are members of the main professional associations, mainly the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and the UK Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP). Most Psychologists in the directory are accredited members of the British Psychological Society (BPS) and/or are registered in the Health and Care Professions Council (HPCP).
Providers whose professional membership or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Given that professional memberships are not a statutory requirement for psychotherapists and counsellors in the UK, certain qualified professionals or organisations may choose not to maintain such memberships despite possessing the necessary qualifications. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
Providers whose professional membership or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Given that professional memberships are not a statutory requirement for psychotherapists and counsellors in the UK, certain qualified professionals or organisations may choose not to maintain such memberships despite possessing the necessary qualifications. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
What’s the difference between a psychologist, a therapist, and a counsellor?
Counsellors, psychotherapists and psychologists can all provide counselling or talking therapy and have credentials and experience that enable them to do so in the UK. Psychologists have earned a degree in psychology and many are members of the British Psychological Society (BPS) and have completed a postgraduate qualification in a specialism. Counsellors and Psychotherapists are not required to have a psychology degree, but to belong to a professional organisation such as the BACP or UKCP, they are required to have completed a training course as well as clinical and supervision hours.
What type of therapy is right for me?
The type of therapy best suited to a particular individual depends on several factors, including their primary reason for seeking therapy, their preferred timeline (some therapy types last for a set number of sessions, while others are open-ended), and their personality and preferences—some may prefer a more structured approach. For many individuals, multiple types of therapy could provide a good fit.
How much does therapy cost?
The cost of therapy depends on a number of variables, including location and the therapist’s experience and training. On average, a therapy session in the UK could be between £30 - £60 when seeing a counsellor and £60 - £150 and up when seeing a clinical psychologist. If you have private insurance, your plan may cover some if not all of your sessions. You should contact your insurance provider to determine if they provide coverage for therapy sessions and to determine what, if any, requirements they might have in order for your sessions to be covered, such as a referral from your GP or medical specialist.
What are more affordable or low cost therapy solutions?
Many therapists offer sliding scale payments, usually on a limited number of slots, which consists in an agreement between the therapist and a client to pay a reduced rate. Therapists who provide such arrangements often consider the client's income or ability to pay, but the extent of the discount is ultimately at the therapist's discretion. Furthermore, while group therapy may have different goals and benefits compared to individual therapy, it can be a more affordable solution to address certain types of issues.
If you are struggling to access therapy due to budget constraints, you could also consider public funded mental health services. The NHS Talking therapies programme offers free of charge counselling for common mental health problems like anxiety and depression. The service is available to anyone registered with a GP, though you do not necessarily need to be referred by your GP and can refer yourself directly to a Talking therapies service. The service will provide different solutions, including group and individual therapy, for a limited number of sessions which are generally up to six.
If you are struggling to access therapy due to budget constraints, you could also consider public funded mental health services. The NHS Talking therapies programme offers free of charge counselling for common mental health problems like anxiety and depression. The service is available to anyone registered with a GP, though you do not necessarily need to be referred by your GP and can refer yourself directly to a Talking therapies service. The service will provide different solutions, including group and individual therapy, for a limited number of sessions which are generally up to six.
Is online therapy cheaper than in-person therapy?
Many therapists charge the same amount for online therapy as they do for in-person therapy—though clients may still find this cost-effective if it cuts down on their transportation costs. Health insurance plans often offer equivalent coverage for online and in-person therapy; indeed, in many places, they are legally required to do so. Text-based or on-demand therapy apps may be cheaper than traditional one-on-one psychotherapy; however, the practice may be less effective and is not likely to be covered by insurance.
Is online therapy a good option?
Therapy conducted online can be just as effective as in-person therapy, as long as there is a strong alliance between the client and the therapist. To find a therapist who provides telehealth services to clients in your area, click “Online Therapy” on the directory homepage and search by your city or town or your postcode.
Are therapy sessions confidential?
Therapists who are part of a professional organisation such as the BACP, the UKCP, or BPS are bound by an ethical framework that requires them to uphold a confidentiality agreement. Confidentiality is a crucial part of the therapeutic relationship and only under specific circumstances, such as when there has been participation in a criminal act or act of terror, or if there is potential or known harm to the client or others, will a therapist be obligated to break the agreement. These exceptions to the confidentiality agreement are usually discussed during the initial consultation.