Photo of Helaina Ashcroft - Helaina Clinical Sexology, Counsellor, COSRT Accred
Helaina Clinical Sexology
Counsellor, COSRT Accred
Verified Verified
Online Only
My service is provided as a specialist sex and relationship therapist. I aim to provide a safe environment in which clients can share their intimate thoughts and problems with no fear of judgement. I honour all sexual orientations, gender identities and sexual preferences. I am kink aware and knowledgable and take a sex positive approach. Specific issues covered include: erection problems, inability to orgasm, low sexual desire, painful intercourse, premature/early ejaculation, problematic porn use, relationship problems–couples/poly, ( sex, gender, erotic, relationship) identity, BDSM, kinks and fetishes, vaginismus
My service is provided as a specialist sex and relationship therapist. I aim to provide a safe environment in which clients can share their intimate thoughts and problems with no fear of judgement. I honour all sexual orientations, gender identities and sexual preferences. I am kink aware and knowledgable and take a sex positive approach. Specific issues covered include: erection problems, inability to orgasm, low sexual desire, painful intercourse, premature/early ejaculation, problematic porn use, relationship problems–couples/poly, ( sex, gender, erotic, relationship) identity, BDSM, kinks and fetishes, vaginismus
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Photo of Leah Spasova - Specialising In Sex Relationships, Psychologist, GMBPsS
Leah Spasova - Specialising In Sex Relationships
Psychologist, GMBPsS
Verified Verified
Online Only
I've been talking, teaching and helping people with their relationships and sexuality since 2007, and no story can faze me.
Whatever sits closest to your heart - we can work with. I help my clients build their skill set, and understanding of themselves and their partners, expand on their sexuality and expression, get out of unhealthy patterns in relationships and build a life full of passion, pleasure, excitement, love, peace and confidence. Curious?
I've been talking, teaching and helping people with their relationships and sexuality since 2007, and no story can faze me.
Whatever sits closest to your heart - we can work with. I help my clients build their skill set, and understanding of themselves and their partners, expand on their sexuality and expression, get out of unhealthy patterns in relationships and build a life full of passion, pleasure, excitement, love, peace and confidence. Curious?
01865 638815 View 01865 638815
Photo of Leah Spasova - Specialising In Sex Relationships, Psychologist, GMBPsS
Leah Spasova - Specialising In Sex Relationships
Psychologist, GMBPsS
Verified Verified
Online Only
I've been talking, teaching and helping people with their relationships and sexuality since 2007, and no story can faze me.
Whatever sits closest to your heart - we can work with. I help my clients to build their skills set, understanding of themselves and their partners, expand on their sexuality and expression, get out of unhealthy patterns in relationships and build a life full of passion, pleasure, excitement, love, peace and confidence. Curious?
I've been talking, teaching and helping people with their relationships and sexuality since 2007, and no story can faze me.
Whatever sits closest to your heart - we can work with. I help my clients to build their skills set, understanding of themselves and their partners, expand on their sexuality and expression, get out of unhealthy patterns in relationships and build a life full of passion, pleasure, excitement, love, peace and confidence. Curious?
01865 638066 View 01865 638066
Photo of Mark Ellis, Counsellor, MA, BACP
Mark Ellis
Counsellor, MA, BACP
Verified Verified
Oxford OX4
While my work encompasses a wide array of issues, such as trauma, anxiety and depression, I have a particular interest in relationships, sex, sexuality and gender.
I have completed a rigorous, four-year postgraduate-level psychotherapy training at Oxford University, where I have also conducted academic research, and now work as a guest lecturer. For over a decade, I have worked in pastoral and therapeutic roles. I bring this wealth of knowledge and experience into my work with each and every client.
While my work encompasses a wide array of issues, such as trauma, anxiety and depression, I have a particular interest in relationships, sex, sexuality and gender.
I have completed a rigorous, four-year postgraduate-level psychotherapy training at Oxford University, where I have also conducted academic research, and now work as a guest lecturer. For over a decade, I have worked in pastoral and therapeutic roles. I bring this wealth of knowledge and experience into my work with each and every client.
01865 587111 View 01865 587111
Photo of Lina Helena Milner, Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Lina Helena Milner
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
Serves Area
My specialism is relationship and sex therapy for couples and individuals.
I am an experienced relationship, psychosexual therapist and clinical supervisor registered with BACP and COSRT. I offer online and face-to-face therapy rooms in North and Central London. My additional specialism is the impact of cancer treatments on sexual response and recovery from sexual abuse.
My specialism is relationship and sex therapy for couples and individuals.
I am an experienced relationship, psychosexual therapist and clinical supervisor registered with BACP and COSRT. I offer online and face-to-face therapy rooms in North and Central London. My additional specialism is the impact of cancer treatments on sexual response and recovery from sexual abuse.
07723 456237 View 07723 456237
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Dr Debbie Lovell
Psychologist, DCounsPsych, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Verified Verified
Serves Area
I am one of a small number of practitioners in the UK who is dually qualified as a chartered psychologist and a clinical sexologist/ sex therapist.
The interplay of mind and body is also central to the common mental health concerns I typically work with such as anxiety, anger, depression, trauma, eating disturbances and difficulties with sleep. I also work with related issues such as body dysmorphia, low self esteem, shame and relationship distress.
I am one of a small number of practitioners in the UK who is dually qualified as a chartered psychologist and a clinical sexologist/ sex therapist.
The interplay of mind and body is also central to the common mental health concerns I typically work with such as anxiety, anger, depression, trauma, eating disturbances and difficulties with sleep. I also work with related issues such as body dysmorphia, low self esteem, shame and relationship distress.
020 3909 9821 View 020 3909 9821
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Shaheen Walker - Counsellor - Relationship And Psychosexual Specialist
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Serves Area
Is sex/intimacy or compulsive sexual behaviour an issue?.
I am BACP, COSRT, NCPS and BAATN accredited and certified with the Association for Autism & Neurodiversity and IFS UK. I also work at Relate as a Specialist, partner with Tavistock using Mentalisation-based Therapy (MBT) helping together and single parents in conflict achieve better communication, trained with CICS and completed the ICEEFT lgbtq+ externship.
Is sex/intimacy or compulsive sexual behaviour an issue?.
I am BACP, COSRT, NCPS and BAATN accredited and certified with the Association for Autism & Neurodiversity and IFS UK. I also work at Relate as a Specialist, partner with Tavistock using Mentalisation-based Therapy (MBT) helping together and single parents in conflict achieve better communication, trained with CICS and completed the ICEEFT lgbtq+ externship.
01895 545137 View 01895 545137
Photo of Dr Robert O'Flaherty - Dr Rob - Clinical Psychologist - Online Therapy, Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Dr Rob - Clinical Psychologist - Online Therapy
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Online Only
Specialising in men’s issues, including sex problems (erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, sex addiction / sexual compulsions, and problematic pornography use / porn addiction); sexual abuse; trauma and PTSD; intrusive sexual thoughts; anger issues; anxiety; depression; adjusting to a physical health condition; relationship issues; stress; sexuality and more.
As a psychologist, I am trained in more than 1 type of therapy & integrate approaches to best help the person I am working with. This may include exploring how the issues might have developed, learning practical strategies to help overcome the issues, processing past trauma, connecting more with oneself, & providing a confidential space to enable change.
Specialising in men’s issues, including sex problems (erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, sex addiction / sexual compulsions, and problematic pornography use / porn addiction); sexual abuse; trauma and PTSD; intrusive sexual thoughts; anger issues; anxiety; depression; adjusting to a physical health condition; relationship issues; stress; sexuality and more.
As a psychologist, I am trained in more than 1 type of therapy & integrate approaches to best help the person I am working with. This may include exploring how the issues might have developed, learning practical strategies to help overcome the issues, processing past trauma, connecting more with oneself, & providing a confidential space to enable change.
01525 659965 View 01525 659965
Photo of Marzena Fiedorczyk - Marzena Penfold Couple & Individual Therapist, Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP
Marzena Penfold Couple & Individual Therapist
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
I also support sex-related issues, sexual identity, sexuality and women's issues, stress, anxiety, depression, abuse, trauma, emotional neglect, addictive or habitual behaviours, gender and identity, grief or loss.
As a dedicated Relationship, Individual and Psychosexual Therapist, I specialise in guiding individuals in improving their relationships. Everyone, whether in a relationship or not, deserves to reach their full potential for contentment and satisfaction in life. Throughout my work, I've discovered that communication gaps and a lack of self-awareness and understanding often strain relationships to breaking point. My mission is to support you in finding that delicate balance – whether in life, relationships, or the realm of intimacy. Don't Let Your Idea Of A Great Relationship Be Just A Dream, Let Me Help You To Make It Your Reality.
I also support sex-related issues, sexual identity, sexuality and women's issues, stress, anxiety, depression, abuse, trauma, emotional neglect, addictive or habitual behaviours, gender and identity, grief or loss.
As a dedicated Relationship, Individual and Psychosexual Therapist, I specialise in guiding individuals in improving their relationships. Everyone, whether in a relationship or not, deserves to reach their full potential for contentment and satisfaction in life. Throughout my work, I've discovered that communication gaps and a lack of self-awareness and understanding often strain relationships to breaking point. My mission is to support you in finding that delicate balance – whether in life, relationships, or the realm of intimacy. Don't Let Your Idea Of A Great Relationship Be Just A Dream, Let Me Help You To Make It Your Reality.
01491 523730 View 01491 523730
Photo of Miranda Christophers, Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Miranda Christophers
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
Serves Area
I am also an Accredited Relationship and Psychosexual ( Sex) Therapist within the practice.
I work with a broad range of issues including: Relationship difficulties, Gender and Sexual Relationship Diversity (includes LGBTQIA+), Infidelity, Communication Problems, Impact of menopause, Intimacy Issues, Low desire, Vulval/vaginal pain, Erectile Dysfunction/Premature Ejaculation, Confidence issues + low self-esteem, Sexual Compulsivity, Kink, Trauma
I am also an Accredited Relationship and Psychosexual ( Sex) Therapist within the practice.
I work with a broad range of issues including: Relationship difficulties, Gender and Sexual Relationship Diversity (includes LGBTQIA+), Infidelity, Communication Problems, Impact of menopause, Intimacy Issues, Low desire, Vulval/vaginal pain, Erectile Dysfunction/Premature Ejaculation, Confidence issues + low self-esteem, Sexual Compulsivity, Kink, Trauma
01494 416280 View 01494 416280
Photo of Paula O'Connor, Counsellor, MBACP
Paula O'Connor
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Oxford OX2
Maybe you are arguing all the time or perhaps someone has been cheating, had an affair or struggles with an addiction to sex or porn.
I have specialist training to help individuals who are struggling with a porn addiction or a sexual compulsion. I recognize these can be really difficult problems to share, but it can be a relief to talk confidentially, rather than keep things bottled up. If you don't even know where to start, don't worry I can help.
Maybe you are arguing all the time or perhaps someone has been cheating, had an affair or struggles with an addiction to sex or porn.
I have specialist training to help individuals who are struggling with a porn addiction or a sexual compulsion. I recognize these can be really difficult problems to share, but it can be a relief to talk confidentially, rather than keep things bottled up. If you don't even know where to start, don't worry I can help.
01865 537646 View 01865 537646
Photo of Ella Tressler, Psychotherapist, COSRT Reg.
Ella Tressler
Psychotherapist, COSRT Reg.
Verified Verified
Oxford OX2
Intimacy, sexuality, and relationships can sometimes feel overwhelming, and it’s not uncommon to face challenges in these deeply personal areas of life.
My approach is integrative, meaning I tailor our work together to suit your unique needs and personality. Drawing from Person centred therapy, CBT (Cognitive Behavioural Therapy) and psychodynamic techniques, I aim to help you uncover what might be holding you back, set meaningful goals, and explore practical steps to support your growth.
Intimacy, sexuality, and relationships can sometimes feel overwhelming, and it’s not uncommon to face challenges in these deeply personal areas of life.
My approach is integrative, meaning I tailor our work together to suit your unique needs and personality. Drawing from Person centred therapy, CBT (Cognitive Behavioural Therapy) and psychodynamic techniques, I aim to help you uncover what might be holding you back, set meaningful goals, and explore practical steps to support your growth.
01865 537718 View 01865 537718
Photo of Susan Lee, Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Susan Lee
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
Oxford OX33
Psychosexual counselling is a talking therapy to support individuals and couples with issues such as difficulties with intimacy, uncomfortable sex or unreliable erections.
When you are facing difficulties I believe that there is real value in talking to someone who has the training and experience to listen in a way that allows you to be fully understood. I am a qualified individual and relationship counsellor and have worked for the NHS as a registered nurse for over thirty years.
Psychosexual counselling is a talking therapy to support individuals and couples with issues such as difficulties with intimacy, uncomfortable sex or unreliable erections.
When you are facing difficulties I believe that there is real value in talking to someone who has the training and experience to listen in a way that allows you to be fully understood. I am a qualified individual and relationship counsellor and have worked for the NHS as a registered nurse for over thirty years.
01865 638120 View 01865 638120
Photo of Katherine Cavallo, Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
Katherine Cavallo
Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Keen to embrace gender, sexuality & relationship diversity, I work with couples and families of all kinds.
Fully insured to provide a worldwide online service including Individual, Couple, Parenting and Family Therapy, as well as Mediation, Coaching and Clinical Supervision. Remote appointments available Tuesdays -Thursday (8am-6pm) and Friday (am) .
Keen to embrace gender, sexuality & relationship diversity, I work with couples and families of all kinds.
Fully insured to provide a worldwide online service including Individual, Couple, Parenting and Family Therapy, as well as Mediation, Coaching and Clinical Supervision. Remote appointments available Tuesdays -Thursday (8am-6pm) and Friday (am) .
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Photo of Sarah Marzillier, Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Sarah Marzillier
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Online Only
I am sex positive and supportive of diverse relationship orientations, sexualities and lifestyles.
I am very experienced in a range of different therapies including Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT) and Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing (EMDR). I have a particular interest in energy psychology, where Eastern energy approaches have been combined with Western psychological therapy.
I am sex positive and supportive of diverse relationship orientations, sexualities and lifestyles.
I am very experienced in a range of different therapies including Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT) and Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing (EMDR). I have a particular interest in energy psychology, where Eastern energy approaches have been combined with Western psychological therapy.
01904 929110 View 01904 929110
Photo of Claudia Kent, Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
Claudia Kent
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Online Only
I aim to create a safe and affirming space for individuals of diverse backgrounds, including LGBTQIA+ individuals, those exploring kink or polyamory, and anyone navigating questions of gender, sexuality, or identity.
I help clients explore the effects of issues such as shame and stigma, particularly those who have faced discrimination or exclusion due to their identities. I strive to honor the complexity of each person's narrative, fostering trust, respect, and a shared commitment to growth.
I aim to create a safe and affirming space for individuals of diverse backgrounds, including LGBTQIA+ individuals, those exploring kink or polyamory, and anyone navigating questions of gender, sexuality, or identity.
I help clients explore the effects of issues such as shame and stigma, particularly those who have faced discrimination or exclusion due to their identities. I strive to honor the complexity of each person's narrative, fostering trust, respect, and a shared commitment to growth.
01273 092301 View 01273 092301
Photo of Harbans Nagpal, Psychotherapist, MBBS
Harbans Nagpal
Psychotherapist, MBBS
Verified Verified
Serves Area
I treat eating disorders such as bulimia, anorexia and obesity, and addictions such as to nicotine, cannabis, gambling, sex, chocolate, tea and coffee.
In addition to my specialisation in eating disorders and addictions, I see patients with many kinds of psychological problems: depression, school problems, sexual difficulties, inhibitions, anxiety...My office is in the 13th arrondissement of Paris, and in Cambridge, UK. I have patients all over the world, by video conference, telephone and email.
I treat eating disorders such as bulimia, anorexia and obesity, and addictions such as to nicotine, cannabis, gambling, sex, chocolate, tea and coffee.
In addition to my specialisation in eating disorders and addictions, I see patients with many kinds of psychological problems: depression, school problems, sexual difficulties, inhibitions, anxiety...My office is in the 13th arrondissement of Paris, and in Cambridge, UK. I have patients all over the world, by video conference, telephone and email.
01223 679756 View 01223 679756
Photo of Rose Andrade Patten, Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP
Rose Andrade Patten
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP
Verified Verified
Online Only
I have a sex-positive approach and have previously worked at an LGBTQI+ charity working with gender, sexuality and identity, at a rape crisis centre.
As a therapist, I aim to support you as an individual or a couple by taking a practical, open mind and down-to-earth approach. My working style is interactive, engaging, and welcoming. I bring warmth and strength while also being appropriately challenging. ​ I truly care about understanding your unique experiences and creating a safe space for you to explore your thoughts and emotions. ​ Looking for the right therapist can be challenging, but I invite you to check out my website. If you believe we could be a good match, book an introductory video call before agreeing to work together.
I have a sex-positive approach and have previously worked at an LGBTQI+ charity working with gender, sexuality and identity, at a rape crisis centre.
As a therapist, I aim to support you as an individual or a couple by taking a practical, open mind and down-to-earth approach. My working style is interactive, engaging, and welcoming. I bring warmth and strength while also being appropriately challenging. ​ I truly care about understanding your unique experiences and creating a safe space for you to explore your thoughts and emotions. ​ Looking for the right therapist can be challenging, but I invite you to check out my website. If you believe we could be a good match, book an introductory video call before agreeing to work together.
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Photo of Imogen Nevard, Psychotherapist, MA, COSRT Reg.
Imogen Nevard
Psychotherapist, MA, COSRT Reg.
Verified Verified
Oxford OX4
Making the decision to begin therapy can be difficult. As such, I offer an initial telephone consultation session so that you can find out more, and get an idea of how we would work together in a therapy context. Here we can explore your difficulties and goals to establish if therapy is right for you. My aim is to help you create and maintain positive change in your life, focused on establishing healthy thinking patterns, emotional states, and relationships. I work with individuals and partnered relationships.
Making the decision to begin therapy can be difficult. As such, I offer an initial telephone consultation session so that you can find out more, and get an idea of how we would work together in a therapy context. Here we can explore your difficulties and goals to establish if therapy is right for you. My aim is to help you create and maintain positive change in your life, focused on establishing healthy thinking patterns, emotional states, and relationships. I work with individuals and partnered relationships.
01865 537390 View 01865 537390
Photo of Sherene Charles - New Life Therapy - Sherene Charles, Counsellor, SNCPS Acc.
New Life Therapy - Sherene Charles
Counsellor, SNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Oxford OX4
Are you tired of going around the same old mountain? Counselling could be the first step in you experiencing the change you desire.
Are you tired of going around the same old mountain? Counselling could be the first step in you experiencing the change you desire.
01865 951480 View 01865 951480
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Sex Therapy Counsellors

Who is sex therapy for?

Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.

Why do people need sex therapy?

Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.

What happens in sex therapy?

People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.

What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?

Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.