Sex Therapists in Oxford
I work in an collaborative, non-judgemental way with clients across gender, sexuality and relationship diversity, and welcome couples and families of all kinds.
Alongside my clinical practice, as UKCP Media Spokesperson, I regularly contribute to the national & international media - including the Guardian, Telegraph & Independent - on a range of relational matters, and support the work of social justice charity Support Through Court, and domestic abuse charity Clean Slate.
I work in an collaborative, non-judgemental way with clients across gender, sexuality and relationship diversity, and welcome couples and families of all kinds.
Alongside my clinical practice, as UKCP Media Spokesperson, I regularly contribute to the national & international media - including the Guardian, Telegraph & Independent - on a range of relational matters, and support the work of social justice charity Support Through Court, and domestic abuse charity Clean Slate.
Are you tired of going around the same old mountain? Counselling could be the first step in you experiencing the change you desire.
Are you tired of going around the same old mountain? Counselling could be the first step in you experiencing the change you desire.
I help my clients build their skill set, and understanding of themselves and their partners, expand on their sexuality and expression, get out of unhealthy patterns in relationships and build a life full of passion, pleasure, excitement, love, peace and confidence.
When will you finally get that dream relationship and intimate life? Another day, month, year passes and it’s all the same - you’re repeating the same relationship patterns no matter how much you try to break them.
I get you, it can feel like you’re trying to find your way through thick fog and keep ending up lost or in the same place.
What is happening for you now?
Are you struggling with intimacy, desire, or confidence? Curious about kink, swinging, or expanding your erotic world? Want to open your relationship safely? Or maybe the starting point is harder: finding a partner, rebuilding trust with yourself and love, or else?
I help my clients build their skill set, and understanding of themselves and their partners, expand on their sexuality and expression, get out of unhealthy patterns in relationships and build a life full of passion, pleasure, excitement, love, peace and confidence.
When will you finally get that dream relationship and intimate life? Another day, month, year passes and it’s all the same - you’re repeating the same relationship patterns no matter how much you try to break them.
I get you, it can feel like you’re trying to find your way through thick fog and keep ending up lost or in the same place.
What is happening for you now?
Are you struggling with intimacy, desire, or confidence? Curious about kink, swinging, or expanding your erotic world? Want to open your relationship safely? Or maybe the starting point is harder: finding a partner, rebuilding trust with yourself and love, or else?
As a UKCP-accredited psychodynamic therapist with a four-year postgraduate training at Oxford University, I provide a private, confidential space for individuals, couples, and polycules. My work focuses on examining the unconscious patterns influencing your life, relationships, and wellbeing. Whether you are dealing with acute distress or seeking to explore long-standing personal dynamics, I offer a professional, contained environment. I believe lasting change is achieved by working through root causes while simultaneously addressing the symptoms—such as anxiety, depression, or relational disconnection—that bring you to therapy.
As a UKCP-accredited psychodynamic therapist with a four-year postgraduate training at Oxford University, I provide a private, confidential space for individuals, couples, and polycules. My work focuses on examining the unconscious patterns influencing your life, relationships, and wellbeing. Whether you are dealing with acute distress or seeking to explore long-standing personal dynamics, I offer a professional, contained environment. I believe lasting change is achieved by working through root causes while simultaneously addressing the symptoms—such as anxiety, depression, or relational disconnection—that bring you to therapy.
My service is provided as a specialist sex and relationship therapist. I aim to provide a safe environment in which clients can share their intimate thoughts and problems with no fear of judgement. I honour all sexual orientations, gender identities and sexual preferences. I am kink aware and knowledgable and take a sex positive approach. Specific issues covered include: erection problems, inability to orgasm, low sexual desire, painful intercourse, premature/early ejaculation, problematic porn use, relationship problems–couples/poly, ( sex, gender, erotic, relationship) identity, BDSM, kinks and fetishes, vaginismus
My service is provided as a specialist sex and relationship therapist. I aim to provide a safe environment in which clients can share their intimate thoughts and problems with no fear of judgement. I honour all sexual orientations, gender identities and sexual preferences. I am kink aware and knowledgable and take a sex positive approach. Specific issues covered include: erection problems, inability to orgasm, low sexual desire, painful intercourse, premature/early ejaculation, problematic porn use, relationship problems–couples/poly, ( sex, gender, erotic, relationship) identity, BDSM, kinks and fetishes, vaginismus
I am also an Accredited Relationship and Psychosexual ( Sex) Therapist within the practice.
I work with a broad range of issues including: Relationship difficulties, Gender and Sexual Relationship Diversity (includes LGBTQIA+), Infidelity, Communication Problems, Impact of menopause, Intimacy Issues, Low desire, Vulval/vaginal pain, Erectile Dysfunction/Premature Ejaculation, Confidence issues + low self-esteem, Sexual Compulsivity, Kink, Trauma
I am also an Accredited Relationship and Psychosexual ( Sex) Therapist within the practice.
I work with a broad range of issues including: Relationship difficulties, Gender and Sexual Relationship Diversity (includes LGBTQIA+), Infidelity, Communication Problems, Impact of menopause, Intimacy Issues, Low desire, Vulval/vaginal pain, Erectile Dysfunction/Premature Ejaculation, Confidence issues + low self-esteem, Sexual Compulsivity, Kink, Trauma
Welcome, my name is Jamie and I am a fully qualified and experienced counsellor. I understand how overwhelming seeking counselling can be and recognise how much of a big step it takes to contact someone like myself to talk about your personal difficulties. I am experienced working with individuals and relationships. My training being person-centred, I focus on respecting your unique experience and supporting you to find your sense of agency and self belief.
Welcome, my name is Jamie and I am a fully qualified and experienced counsellor. I understand how overwhelming seeking counselling can be and recognise how much of a big step it takes to contact someone like myself to talk about your personal difficulties. I am experienced working with individuals and relationships. My training being person-centred, I focus on respecting your unique experience and supporting you to find your sense of agency and self belief.
I offer confidential, client focused psychotherapy, Face-Face & Zoom worldwide . Through dialogue and the shared exploration of your life, you may find relief from recurring problems, live your life more fully and realise your full potential. Therapy is a personal and individual process of change, as well as understanding. This is an opportunity to take time and space to think about yourself and the problems you may be facing. By talking to a trained psychotherapist you may find it easier to understand how past experiences, thought patterns and behaviour, or anxieties about the future are causing difficulties in your daily life.
I offer confidential, client focused psychotherapy, Face-Face & Zoom worldwide . Through dialogue and the shared exploration of your life, you may find relief from recurring problems, live your life more fully and realise your full potential. Therapy is a personal and individual process of change, as well as understanding. This is an opportunity to take time and space to think about yourself and the problems you may be facing. By talking to a trained psychotherapist you may find it easier to understand how past experiences, thought patterns and behaviour, or anxieties about the future are causing difficulties in your daily life.
All relationships experience challenges, but when difficulties persist and affect emotional or sexual wellbeing, professional relationship counselling and sex therapy can help.
I am an experienced relationship therapist, psychosexual therapist, and clinical supervisor, registered with BACP and COSRT. I offer online therapy and face-to-face counselling in North London N3 and Central London (Bloomsbury). My additional specialist areas include the impact of cancer treatment on sexual response, as well as recovery from sexual abuse.
All relationships experience challenges, but when difficulties persist and affect emotional or sexual wellbeing, professional relationship counselling and sex therapy can help.
I am an experienced relationship therapist, psychosexual therapist, and clinical supervisor, registered with BACP and COSRT. I offer online therapy and face-to-face counselling in North London N3 and Central London (Bloomsbury). My additional specialist areas include the impact of cancer treatment on sexual response, as well as recovery from sexual abuse.
Thank you for taking your first steps in counselling with me.
Let me me help you with whatever is troubling you. I am a Relationship Counsellor and Psychosexual and Compulsion Therapist. I have many years experience with Relate and in Private Practice.
If you have an issue that's troubling you. It may involve a partner, family member or a friend I can help you reach your goals, off load your anxieties or assist with a lack of self esteem.
If you have had surgery which gives you anxiety about your appearance.
I am here to help. I will give you a virtual box of tools to help you on your journey of discovery.
Thank you for taking your first steps in counselling with me.
Let me me help you with whatever is troubling you. I am a Relationship Counsellor and Psychosexual and Compulsion Therapist. I have many years experience with Relate and in Private Practice.
If you have an issue that's troubling you. It may involve a partner, family member or a friend I can help you reach your goals, off load your anxieties or assist with a lack of self esteem.
If you have had surgery which gives you anxiety about your appearance.
I am here to help. I will give you a virtual box of tools to help you on your journey of discovery.
I am one of a small number of practitioners in the UK who is dually qualified as a chartered psychologist and a clinical sexologist/ sex therapist.
The interplay of mind and body is also central to the common mental health concerns I typically work with such as anxiety, anger, depression, trauma, eating disturbances and difficulties with sleep. I also work with related issues such as body dysmorphia, low self esteem, shame and relationship distress.
I am one of a small number of practitioners in the UK who is dually qualified as a chartered psychologist and a clinical sexologist/ sex therapist.
The interplay of mind and body is also central to the common mental health concerns I typically work with such as anxiety, anger, depression, trauma, eating disturbances and difficulties with sleep. I also work with related issues such as body dysmorphia, low self esteem, shame and relationship distress.
Is sex/intimacy or compulsive sexual behaviour an issue?
I am BACP, COSRT and NCPS accredited, a Psychosexual Specialist at Relate and partner with Tavistock using Mentalisation-based Therapy (MBT) helping together and single parents with conflict resolution. I am experienced in supporting a diverse range of people so my practice is anti-oppressive, bespoke and welcoming for all backgrounds and identities.
Is sex/intimacy or compulsive sexual behaviour an issue?
I am BACP, COSRT and NCPS accredited, a Psychosexual Specialist at Relate and partner with Tavistock using Mentalisation-based Therapy (MBT) helping together and single parents with conflict resolution. I am experienced in supporting a diverse range of people so my practice is anti-oppressive, bespoke and welcoming for all backgrounds and identities.
Hi, I’m Isobel - a warm, direct and down-to-earth therapist offering a space where you can feel truly heard.
I work with both individuals and couples, supporting people through a wide range of challenges — including anxiety, low self-esteem, relationship difficulties, trauma, and self-defeating patterns.
I'm also experienced working with neurodivergent clients, including those with ADHD, autism, or traits. Whether you’re exploring a recent diagnosis, struggling with masking, burnout, or executive functioning, therapy can help you make sense of your experience and develop more self-compassion and clarity.
Hi, I’m Isobel - a warm, direct and down-to-earth therapist offering a space where you can feel truly heard.
I work with both individuals and couples, supporting people through a wide range of challenges — including anxiety, low self-esteem, relationship difficulties, trauma, and self-defeating patterns.
I'm also experienced working with neurodivergent clients, including those with ADHD, autism, or traits. Whether you’re exploring a recent diagnosis, struggling with masking, burnout, or executive functioning, therapy can help you make sense of your experience and develop more self-compassion and clarity.
Specialising in men’s issues, including sex problems (erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, sex addiction / sexual compulsions, and problematic pornography use / porn addiction); sexual abuse; trauma and PTSD; intrusive sexual thoughts; anger issues; anxiety; depression; adjusting to a physical health condition; relationship issues; stress; sexuality and more.
As a psychologist, I am trained in more than 1 type of therapy & integrate approaches to best help the person I am working with. This may include exploring how the issues might have developed, learning practical strategies to help overcome the issues, processing past trauma, connecting more with oneself, & providing a confidential space to enable change.
Specialising in men’s issues, including sex problems (erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, sex addiction / sexual compulsions, and problematic pornography use / porn addiction); sexual abuse; trauma and PTSD; intrusive sexual thoughts; anger issues; anxiety; depression; adjusting to a physical health condition; relationship issues; stress; sexuality and more.
As a psychologist, I am trained in more than 1 type of therapy & integrate approaches to best help the person I am working with. This may include exploring how the issues might have developed, learning practical strategies to help overcome the issues, processing past trauma, connecting more with oneself, & providing a confidential space to enable change.
Life can present a variety of challenges, and reaching out for support is an important and empowering step. With over 10 years of experience working with both individuals and couples, I offer a safe, confidential, and compassionate space to explore your thoughts, feelings, and experiences without judgment.
I work with clients facing a wide range of mental health issues. My experience allows me to support people from all walks of life, helping them navigate complex emotions and find clarity. Together, we will work at your pace to develop strategies that improve your emotional well-being and support your personal growth.
Life can present a variety of challenges, and reaching out for support is an important and empowering step. With over 10 years of experience working with both individuals and couples, I offer a safe, confidential, and compassionate space to explore your thoughts, feelings, and experiences without judgment.
I work with clients facing a wide range of mental health issues. My experience allows me to support people from all walks of life, helping them navigate complex emotions and find clarity. Together, we will work at your pace to develop strategies that improve your emotional well-being and support your personal growth.
We are in some challenging times and there is opportunity for both support with 'here and now issues' and deeper exploration of being you. I am an experienced and highly trained Integrative Body Psychotherapist, Couples Psychotherapist and Trauma Recovery Specialist having been in the field for over 26 years. I help you experientially with life and relationship challenges in a mind, body and spirit process. I include the neurobiology of relationship, attachment, internal parts systems, transgenerational trauma recovery, birth psychology and transpersonal realms. Professional Supervision, Training and Consultancy available.
We are in some challenging times and there is opportunity for both support with 'here and now issues' and deeper exploration of being you. I am an experienced and highly trained Integrative Body Psychotherapist, Couples Psychotherapist and Trauma Recovery Specialist having been in the field for over 26 years. I help you experientially with life and relationship challenges in a mind, body and spirit process. I include the neurobiology of relationship, attachment, internal parts systems, transgenerational trauma recovery, birth psychology and transpersonal realms. Professional Supervision, Training and Consultancy available.
I am dedicated to creating a compassionate, open space where clients can explore their experiences and address current challenges. By offering personalised strategies and support, I help clients make meaningful progress that aligns with their unique needs. Whether through problem-solving or providing a safe, empathetic environment for reflection, I tailor my approach to each individual. Many clients describe me as warm and easy to talk to. I have experience working with both children (ages 8 and up) and adults, adapting my approach to suit your needs.
I am dedicated to creating a compassionate, open space where clients can explore their experiences and address current challenges. By offering personalised strategies and support, I help clients make meaningful progress that aligns with their unique needs. Whether through problem-solving or providing a safe, empathetic environment for reflection, I tailor my approach to each individual. Many clients describe me as warm and easy to talk to. I have experience working with both children (ages 8 and up) and adults, adapting my approach to suit your needs.
Maybe you are arguing all the time or perhaps someone has been cheating, had an affair or struggles with an addiction to sex or porn.
I have specialist training to help individuals who are struggling with a porn addiction or a sexual compulsion. I recognize these can be really difficult problems to share, but it can be a relief to talk confidentially, rather than keep things bottled up.
If you don't even know where to start, don't worry I can help.
Maybe you are arguing all the time or perhaps someone has been cheating, had an affair or struggles with an addiction to sex or porn.
I have specialist training to help individuals who are struggling with a porn addiction or a sexual compulsion. I recognize these can be really difficult problems to share, but it can be a relief to talk confidentially, rather than keep things bottled up.
If you don't even know where to start, don't worry I can help.
Are you feeling anxious, stressed, down, unmotivated? I understand that it can be difficult to know what to do next. I have experience of helping people make sense of these feelings, and find a path to improve their lives. Whether you are feeling depressed, anxious, or struggling with traumatic events, it can sometimes feel like nobody understands, and there is no clear way forward. This can impact your life, and those you care about. I have worked with many people who feel like this, and there is a way forward. I offer in-person session in Oxford, short bus ride from the centre, and there is plenty of parking. Or sessions online.
Are you feeling anxious, stressed, down, unmotivated? I understand that it can be difficult to know what to do next. I have experience of helping people make sense of these feelings, and find a path to improve their lives. Whether you are feeling depressed, anxious, or struggling with traumatic events, it can sometimes feel like nobody understands, and there is no clear way forward. This can impact your life, and those you care about. I have worked with many people who feel like this, and there is a way forward. I offer in-person session in Oxford, short bus ride from the centre, and there is plenty of parking. Or sessions online.
I provide focused therapy that will help you to see your patterns and emotions as well as moral and ethical challenges arising from interpersonal and social contexts better, to then allow you to change them. Obstacles to change are very subtle, often almost invisible. Self-awareness can redirect your energies to creating more positive states of mind. We will work on how ethical and moral dilemmas arise between people, how this interacts with different life experiences that impact your personality and how that then affects your psychological well being.
I provide focused therapy that will help you to see your patterns and emotions as well as moral and ethical challenges arising from interpersonal and social contexts better, to then allow you to change them. Obstacles to change are very subtle, often almost invisible. Self-awareness can redirect your energies to creating more positive states of mind. We will work on how ethical and moral dilemmas arise between people, how this interacts with different life experiences that impact your personality and how that then affects your psychological well being.
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Sex Therapy Counsellors
Who is sex therapy for?
Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.
Why do people need sex therapy?
Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.
What happens in sex therapy?
People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.
What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?
Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.