Men's Issues Counselling in Oxford
Are you feeling anxious, stressed, down, unmotivated? I understand that it can be difficult to know what to do next. I have experience of helping people make sense of these feelings, and find a path to improve their lives. Whether you are feeling depressed, anxious, or struggling with traumatic events, it can sometimes feel like nobody understands, and there is no clear way forward. This can impact your life, and those you care about. I have worked with many people who feel like this, and there is a way forward. I offer in-person session in Oxford, short bus ride from the centre, and there is plenty of parking. Or sessions online.
Are you feeling anxious, stressed, down, unmotivated? I understand that it can be difficult to know what to do next. I have experience of helping people make sense of these feelings, and find a path to improve their lives. Whether you are feeling depressed, anxious, or struggling with traumatic events, it can sometimes feel like nobody understands, and there is no clear way forward. This can impact your life, and those you care about. I have worked with many people who feel like this, and there is a way forward. I offer in-person session in Oxford, short bus ride from the centre, and there is plenty of parking. Or sessions online.
I work with individuals and couples from a range of backgrounds.
I have a particular interest in:
-Exploring how early life experiences may be affecting you in the present.
-Supporting men with personal, family, role, life challenges.
-Helping couples reconnect and strengthen their relationships.
My aim is to help you build a stronger, more compassionate relationship with yourself, which can in turn improve your connections with others and the world around you.
I will be supportive in helping you meet yourself, connect with your potential, and align with what YOUR specific aims might be
I work with individuals and couples from a range of backgrounds.
I have a particular interest in:
-Exploring how early life experiences may be affecting you in the present.
-Supporting men with personal, family, role, life challenges.
-Helping couples reconnect and strengthen their relationships.
My aim is to help you build a stronger, more compassionate relationship with yourself, which can in turn improve your connections with others and the world around you.
I will be supportive in helping you meet yourself, connect with your potential, and align with what YOUR specific aims might be
People come to me for all sorts of reasons, from low mood, stress, relationship issues, self-esteem issues, to climate and world politics anxiety. In my opinion, most people at some point in their lifetime need some form of talking therapy. You do not need to have a particular symptom or diagnosis to be suitable for therapy.
Before, during and after my training, I worked within the health, social and criminal justice sector. I have worked with organisations specialising in the rehabilitation of drug and alcohol users and prolific offenders.
People come to me for all sorts of reasons, from low mood, stress, relationship issues, self-esteem issues, to climate and world politics anxiety. In my opinion, most people at some point in their lifetime need some form of talking therapy. You do not need to have a particular symptom or diagnosis to be suitable for therapy.
Before, during and after my training, I worked within the health, social and criminal justice sector. I have worked with organisations specialising in the rehabilitation of drug and alcohol users and prolific offenders.
Therapy is an opportunity to do a deep dive into the hopes, fears, frustrations and uncertainties that stand in the way of your personal contentment.
Issues like anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, and self-destructive behaviour make it hard to manage your emotions at home or stress at work. Friendships and relationships suffer, Often there is an underlying trauma - a deep pain - that needs to be processed safely.
Life's inevitable changes - career, money, children, ageing, health - bring their own challenges. Whatever's happening in your world, my aim as a therapist is to help you move forward.
Therapy is an opportunity to do a deep dive into the hopes, fears, frustrations and uncertainties that stand in the way of your personal contentment.
Issues like anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, and self-destructive behaviour make it hard to manage your emotions at home or stress at work. Friendships and relationships suffer, Often there is an underlying trauma - a deep pain - that needs to be processed safely.
Life's inevitable changes - career, money, children, ageing, health - bring their own challenges. Whatever's happening in your world, my aim as a therapist is to help you move forward.
Some people come to therapy with a specific ‘presenting issue’ that they wish to discuss, explore and resolve. Others are not so sure what it is that troubles them - but they do know that change of some sort is vital, and they would like that change to occur sooner rather than later. Some people come to therapy with great enthusiasm. Others (particularly those who see themselves as ‘fighters’ or ‘succeeders’) might feel embarrassed at the prospect of admitting their stuckness. Whatever your current life situation, allow me to reassure you that change is not only possible, but can often occur in just a few sessions.
Some people come to therapy with a specific ‘presenting issue’ that they wish to discuss, explore and resolve. Others are not so sure what it is that troubles them - but they do know that change of some sort is vital, and they would like that change to occur sooner rather than later. Some people come to therapy with great enthusiasm. Others (particularly those who see themselves as ‘fighters’ or ‘succeeders’) might feel embarrassed at the prospect of admitting their stuckness. Whatever your current life situation, allow me to reassure you that change is not only possible, but can often occur in just a few sessions.
Often, we’re so busy keeping the wheels turning that we don't notice the engine is stalling. I help men look 'under the bonnet' to understand what’s driving their stress, anger, or anxiety.
Whether it’s burnout from a high-pressure career or struggling with a sense of loss, I provide a down-to-earth, jargon-free space to figure things out. With 13 years of experience and a background in the corporate world, I understand that you want practical solutions, not just talk.
Often, we’re so busy keeping the wheels turning that we don't notice the engine is stalling. I help men look 'under the bonnet' to understand what’s driving their stress, anger, or anxiety.
Whether it’s burnout from a high-pressure career or struggling with a sense of loss, I provide a down-to-earth, jargon-free space to figure things out. With 13 years of experience and a background in the corporate world, I understand that you want practical solutions, not just talk.
Life can sometimes leave us feeling overwhelmed, stuck, disconnected or unsure of where to turn. I work with adults experiencing anxiety, low self-esteem, shame, relationship difficulties, loss and bereavement, addiction and recovery, trauma, men’s issues and major life transitions. Whether you’re facing a specific challenge or simply feel that something needs to change, together we can create a warm, supportive and non-judgemental space where you feel heard, understood and able to explore whatever is troubling you. I believe that when people feel safe, accepted and genuinely listened to, meaningful change becomes possible.
Life can sometimes leave us feeling overwhelmed, stuck, disconnected or unsure of where to turn. I work with adults experiencing anxiety, low self-esteem, shame, relationship difficulties, loss and bereavement, addiction and recovery, trauma, men’s issues and major life transitions. Whether you’re facing a specific challenge or simply feel that something needs to change, together we can create a warm, supportive and non-judgemental space where you feel heard, understood and able to explore whatever is troubling you. I believe that when people feel safe, accepted and genuinely listened to, meaningful change becomes possible.
Specialising in men’s issues, including sex problems (erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, sex addiction / sexual compulsions, and problematic pornography use / porn addiction); sexual abuse; trauma and PTSD; intrusive sexual thoughts; anger issues; anxiety; depression; adjusting to a physical health condition; relationship issues; stress; sexuality and more. I am a chartered clinical psychologist and EMDR therapist with over 15 years NHS experience of working in mental health and now work full time in private practice online.
Specialising in men’s issues, including sex problems (erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, sex addiction / sexual compulsions, and problematic pornography use / porn addiction); sexual abuse; trauma and PTSD; intrusive sexual thoughts; anger issues; anxiety; depression; adjusting to a physical health condition; relationship issues; stress; sexuality and more. I am a chartered clinical psychologist and EMDR therapist with over 15 years NHS experience of working in mental health and now work full time in private practice online.
I specialise in men's issues.
I specialise in working with men. Many of the men I support come to therapy feeling stuck, under pressure, or unsure how to talk about what’s going on. You may be dealing with stress, low mood, relationship difficulties, anger, or a sense that something isn’t quite right—but finding it hard to put into words.
My practice offers a space where men can speak openly, without judgement . Whether you’re navigating work pressures, family responsibilities, identity questions, or personal challenges, I aim to help you make sense of your experience and move forward with greater clarity and confidence.
I specialise in men's issues.
I specialise in working with men. Many of the men I support come to therapy feeling stuck, under pressure, or unsure how to talk about what’s going on. You may be dealing with stress, low mood, relationship difficulties, anger, or a sense that something isn’t quite right—but finding it hard to put into words.
My practice offers a space where men can speak openly, without judgement . Whether you’re navigating work pressures, family responsibilities, identity questions, or personal challenges, I aim to help you make sense of your experience and move forward with greater clarity and confidence.
There are many reasons people come to counselling. It can be a support during times of trauma, grief, or life crisis. It can also offer a space when we feel stuck — in a relationship, a career, or a loss of direction. Counselling can help bring clarity when our thoughts, feelings, or motivations feel confusing or out of reach.
There are many reasons people come to counselling. It can be a support during times of trauma, grief, or life crisis. It can also offer a space when we feel stuck — in a relationship, a career, or a loss of direction. Counselling can help bring clarity when our thoughts, feelings, or motivations feel confusing or out of reach.
I am an experienced and highly trained Integrative Body Psychotherapist, Couples Psychotherapist and Trauma Recovery Specialist, Supervisor, Consultant and Trainer having been in the field for over 29 years. I help you experientially with life and relationship challenges in a mind, body and spirit process. I include the neurobiology of relationship, attachment, internal parts systems, transgenerational trauma recovery, birth psychology and transpersonal realms.
We are in some challenging times and there is opportunity for both support with 'here and now issues' and deeper exploration of who you are becoming.
I am an experienced and highly trained Integrative Body Psychotherapist, Couples Psychotherapist and Trauma Recovery Specialist, Supervisor, Consultant and Trainer having been in the field for over 29 years. I help you experientially with life and relationship challenges in a mind, body and spirit process. I include the neurobiology of relationship, attachment, internal parts systems, transgenerational trauma recovery, birth psychology and transpersonal realms.
We are in some challenging times and there is opportunity for both support with 'here and now issues' and deeper exploration of who you are becoming.
I offer counselling and therapeutic coaching. Clients will come to me with a range of problems and often feel some confusion and simply need to talk. In our work we will clarify the problem and see what is most challenging for you at the present time. We will discover where this confusion arises in the body and mind and begin to understand where it began: Perhaps this has been triggered in the past: by an environment, people, a person, upbringing etc. The work we do is compassionate and kind. My purpose is to help you find your way out of the confusion and suffering, so you can find purpose, meaning and peace in your life.
I offer counselling and therapeutic coaching. Clients will come to me with a range of problems and often feel some confusion and simply need to talk. In our work we will clarify the problem and see what is most challenging for you at the present time. We will discover where this confusion arises in the body and mind and begin to understand where it began: Perhaps this has been triggered in the past: by an environment, people, a person, upbringing etc. The work we do is compassionate and kind. My purpose is to help you find your way out of the confusion and suffering, so you can find purpose, meaning and peace in your life.
You might be noticing that you’re not quite yourself lately; feeling more irritable than usual, waking up with a heavy feeling, or finding that life feels flat and lacking in joy. When the things you usually rely on to lift your mood no longer seem to help, that's often a sign that something deeper needs attention.
Sometimes difficulties from our past can pile up and need some sorting through so that they no longer cast such a shadow over the present. Talking through what’s going on in your life, along with the past experiences that have shaped you, helps free you up to make changes now that get you back on track.
You might be noticing that you’re not quite yourself lately; feeling more irritable than usual, waking up with a heavy feeling, or finding that life feels flat and lacking in joy. When the things you usually rely on to lift your mood no longer seem to help, that's often a sign that something deeper needs attention.
Sometimes difficulties from our past can pile up and need some sorting through so that they no longer cast such a shadow over the present. Talking through what’s going on in your life, along with the past experiences that have shaped you, helps free you up to make changes now that get you back on track.
Do you find yourself feeling disconnected in relationships, perhaps longing for closeness but somehow ending up feeling misunderstood, alone or caught in the same painful patterns again and again?
Or maybe you've always been the one who looks after everyone else, appearing capable and resilient on the outside, yet privately feel exhausted, anxious, overwhelmed, or unsure who you really are beneath the roles you've learned to play.
Many of the people I work with come to therapy carrying such feelings, and I help them find real change in thier lives.
Do you find yourself feeling disconnected in relationships, perhaps longing for closeness but somehow ending up feeling misunderstood, alone or caught in the same painful patterns again and again?
Or maybe you've always been the one who looks after everyone else, appearing capable and resilient on the outside, yet privately feel exhausted, anxious, overwhelmed, or unsure who you really are beneath the roles you've learned to play.
Many of the people I work with come to therapy carrying such feelings, and I help them find real change in thier lives.
I provide psychodynamic psychotherapy therapy to adult individuals both in-person and online. I practice in a gentle, collaborative way, at all times working in your best interests
I provide psychodynamic psychotherapy therapy to adult individuals both in-person and online. I practice in a gentle, collaborative way, at all times working in your best interests
I offer therapy for people who feel stuck in patterns they can’t seem to shift, especially if you’ve already spent a lot of time trying to understand yourself.
I won’t just sit and nod, I’ll ask questions, reflect what I notice, and challenge you where it feels helpful. The aim is to build a shared understanding of what’s going on for you, while also finding practical ways forward.
I work with a range of issues including anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, and life transitions, focusing on understanding patterns that may be holding you back.
I offer therapy for people who feel stuck in patterns they can’t seem to shift, especially if you’ve already spent a lot of time trying to understand yourself.
I won’t just sit and nod, I’ll ask questions, reflect what I notice, and challenge you where it feels helpful. The aim is to build a shared understanding of what’s going on for you, while also finding practical ways forward.
I work with a range of issues including anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, and life transitions, focusing on understanding patterns that may be holding you back.
I am a qualified relationship therapist. I help couples who have challenges getting along. Maybe you are arguing all the time or intimacy has gone out the window? Perhaps someone has been cheating, had an affair or struggles with an addiction to sex or porn. If your world has been rocked by a discovery about your partner or you are living with secrecy that is weighing you down I can help you work through it.
I am a qualified relationship therapist. I help couples who have challenges getting along. Maybe you are arguing all the time or intimacy has gone out the window? Perhaps someone has been cheating, had an affair or struggles with an addiction to sex or porn. If your world has been rocked by a discovery about your partner or you are living with secrecy that is weighing you down I can help you work through it.
I am dedicated to creating a compassionate, open space where clients can explore their experiences and address current challenges. By offering personalised strategies and support, I help clients make meaningful progress that aligns with their unique needs. Whether through problem-solving or providing a safe, empathetic environment for reflection, I tailor my approach to each individual. Many clients describe me as warm and easy to talk to. I have experience working with both children (ages 8 and up) and adults, adapting my approach to suit your needs.
I am dedicated to creating a compassionate, open space where clients can explore their experiences and address current challenges. By offering personalised strategies and support, I help clients make meaningful progress that aligns with their unique needs. Whether through problem-solving or providing a safe, empathetic environment for reflection, I tailor my approach to each individual. Many clients describe me as warm and easy to talk to. I have experience working with both children (ages 8 and up) and adults, adapting my approach to suit your needs.
I am dedicated to making therapy feel more accessible and less scary. I know it can be difficult to make that first step and to move forward and learn to trust a therapist. I try to work in a way that is sensitive to individual need and preference, as well as being open to constructive criticism from clients so that I can better serve them. I want therapy with me to be a positive experience for you.
I am dedicated to making therapy feel more accessible and less scary. I know it can be difficult to make that first step and to move forward and learn to trust a therapist. I try to work in a way that is sensitive to individual need and preference, as well as being open to constructive criticism from clients so that I can better serve them. I want therapy with me to be a positive experience for you.
Firstly, id like to congratulate you for getting this far on getting help with your difficulties, this can be a scary first step!
As your therapist, I will take time to know you as a person and work together with you to make changes with nothing but encouragement (even if things dont go to plan). I'll celebrate the wins with you, big and small.
I will listen to your perspectives and experience without judgement in order to get to know all of you as a person. Then, ill work together with you to plan putting changes into place to interrupt old and unhelpful cycles of thinking and behaving.
Firstly, id like to congratulate you for getting this far on getting help with your difficulties, this can be a scary first step!
As your therapist, I will take time to know you as a person and work together with you to make changes with nothing but encouragement (even if things dont go to plan). I'll celebrate the wins with you, big and small.
I will listen to your perspectives and experience without judgement in order to get to know all of you as a person. Then, ill work together with you to plan putting changes into place to interrupt old and unhelpful cycles of thinking and behaving.
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Men's Issues Counsellors
Is therapy for men different than it is for women?
Therapeutic treatments and types are the same for men as they are for women, with the same protocols followed and the same strategies employed. Discussing one’s feelings and emotions is an integral part of most therapies, and some men find doing so more challenging. Therapists can help clients through the process; some specialize in treating men for this reason.
How do you encourage a man to go to therapy?
It’s helpful to express your concern and love for the person while framing therapy as a tool for improving their life. Offering specific examples of how an individual’s behavior affected either himself or others should be done with compassion and with empathy. It may be useful to devise a game plan—breaking the process down into parts, such as finding a therapist, making appointments, and looking into insurance coverage.
How can men prepare for therapy?
Men can prepare for therapy by approaching the process with an open mind, being willing to talk about their challenges, and giving treatment the time to work. Before a session, an individual may want to reflect on how they’ve felt since the last session and what’s happened in their lives. It can be useful for men who struggle to recall their emotional states to write down notes between sessions about their response to a given event or how they were feeling at a particular time.
What should men know about the process of therapy?
One of the most common reasons men don’t seek therapy is the notion that there’s something wrong with them if they do. Men should know that just because they’re seeking therapy doesn’t mean they’re mentally ill or damaged in some way. In the same way people work on their bodies through exercise or a craft through practice, therapy can be a way to improve the mental and emotional skills needed to be productive and effective partners, employees, and people in all realms of life.