Men's Issues Counselling in Otley

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Sarah Naylor
Psychotherapist, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Are you feeling, unsettled, overwhelmed or facing things that are difficult to think about on our own? This may be something in your past or something that is very current. Together we can explore these difficulties and gain insight and understanding to bring clarity and a greater sense of peace. You are assured of a warm, compassionate and non-judgemental space where we can explore whatever your difficulty, leading to personal growth through a deeper understanding, acceptance, and change. Talking to people close to us may feel difficult and often working with a therapist can help you to see a clearer path to your future.
Are you feeling, unsettled, overwhelmed or facing things that are difficult to think about on our own? This may be something in your past or something that is very current. Together we can explore these difficulties and gain insight and understanding to bring clarity and a greater sense of peace. You are assured of a warm, compassionate and non-judgemental space where we can explore whatever your difficulty, leading to personal growth through a deeper understanding, acceptance, and change. Talking to people close to us may feel difficult and often working with a therapist can help you to see a clearer path to your future.
0113 519 3584 View 0113 519 3584
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Julia de los Rios
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Serves Area
Reaching out for help takes courage, particularly if your self-esteem and confidence are low. But, if you want to make changes in your life then you may need support. People come to counselling for all sorts of reasons; anxiety, relationship issues, depression, bereavement, trauma etc. Perhaps you feel inhibited, have unhealthy patterns of behaviour or your emotions may be hijacking your ability to respond and keep perspective. Whatever the reason, the chances are you are feeling deeply distressed. You don’t have to keep struggling alone. Together we can work out what is causing you to feel threatened, overwhelmed or empty.
Reaching out for help takes courage, particularly if your self-esteem and confidence are low. But, if you want to make changes in your life then you may need support. People come to counselling for all sorts of reasons; anxiety, relationship issues, depression, bereavement, trauma etc. Perhaps you feel inhibited, have unhealthy patterns of behaviour or your emotions may be hijacking your ability to respond and keep perspective. Whatever the reason, the chances are you are feeling deeply distressed. You don’t have to keep struggling alone. Together we can work out what is causing you to feel threatened, overwhelmed or empty.
0113 320 6027 View 0113 320 6027
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Phil McQuillan
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Serves Area
I am a qualified integrative psychotherapist with previous experience working in an NHS and a university setting. I work with adults and young people 18+. I work with a range of presenting issues, including issues related to anxiety, depression, and trauma, but also have experience working with issues relating to relationships, bereavement, identity, self-criticality, burnout, neurodiversity/neurodivergence (assessed or self-identified), kink, bdsm and non-monogamy, and issues relating to working in the creative arts.
I am a qualified integrative psychotherapist with previous experience working in an NHS and a university setting. I work with adults and young people 18+. I work with a range of presenting issues, including issues related to anxiety, depression, and trauma, but also have experience working with issues relating to relationships, bereavement, identity, self-criticality, burnout, neurodiversity/neurodivergence (assessed or self-identified), kink, bdsm and non-monogamy, and issues relating to working in the creative arts.
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Tamara Hoyton
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Serves Area
Hello, and a warm welcome to my website. I am a very experienced Psychotherapist and Clinical Supervisor who specialises in Anxiety, Depression, Sexual Issues, Relationship Problems and work related stress. I am a highly qualified practioner offering Individual Psychotherapy, Counselling, Psychosexual Therapy and Couples Therapy in the Leeds and Bradford area. I am a registered member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP). Life success indicators show increased relational satisfaction as key to personal happiness and good therapy can improve this. I am proud to have over 20 years of being in practice.
Hello, and a warm welcome to my website. I am a very experienced Psychotherapist and Clinical Supervisor who specialises in Anxiety, Depression, Sexual Issues, Relationship Problems and work related stress. I am a highly qualified practioner offering Individual Psychotherapy, Counselling, Psychosexual Therapy and Couples Therapy in the Leeds and Bradford area. I am a registered member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP). Life success indicators show increased relational satisfaction as key to personal happiness and good therapy can improve this. I am proud to have over 20 years of being in practice.
0113 467 8104 View 0113 467 8104
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Rupert Fishwick
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
You may look capable on the outside — the steady one others rely on — yet privately feel anxious, disconnected, or increasingly strained in your relationships. Often it isn’t just stress, but patterns in communication and attachment that quietly erode closeness over time. Many people begin therapy individually and realise their personal growth is closely linked to their relationships. I offer calm, thoughtful therapy for individuals and couples seeking clarity, depth and lasting change.
You may look capable on the outside — the steady one others rely on — yet privately feel anxious, disconnected, or increasingly strained in your relationships. Often it isn’t just stress, but patterns in communication and attachment that quietly erode closeness over time. Many people begin therapy individually and realise their personal growth is closely linked to their relationships. I offer calm, thoughtful therapy for individuals and couples seeking clarity, depth and lasting change.
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Danielle Robinson
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I’m an accredited BACP Psychotherapist based in Leeds, with over ten years experience working within the mental health sector. What I offer through my practice is professional support, to help you through difficult and challenging times. Therapy can be a safe space, separate from the rest of your life, to make sense of difficult and confusing emotions and reflect on anything you're struggling with, develop better ways of coping and learn how to be comfortable and happy within yourself. My practice is queer & trans welcoming and I specialise in relationship issues and chronic health conditions.
I’m an accredited BACP Psychotherapist based in Leeds, with over ten years experience working within the mental health sector. What I offer through my practice is professional support, to help you through difficult and challenging times. Therapy can be a safe space, separate from the rest of your life, to make sense of difficult and confusing emotions and reflect on anything you're struggling with, develop better ways of coping and learn how to be comfortable and happy within yourself. My practice is queer & trans welcoming and I specialise in relationship issues and chronic health conditions.
0113 519 7159 View 0113 519 7159
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Rachel Northen
Counsellor, COSRT General
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
I specialise in male and female sexual difficulties and in relationship issues and work with couples and individuals. Sexual issues may have a physiological and/or psychological cause and include: loss of intimacy and desire, mismatched libidos, orgasm difficulties, erectile dysfunction, premature and delayed ejaculation, vaginismus, sexual pain, menopause, sexual phobia and anxiety, lack of confidence and issues with porn use. Relationship issues include: infidelity, loss of trust, communication difficulties, lack of intimacy/connection, adjusting to change, conflict, stress and anxiety, separation and different attachment styles.
I specialise in male and female sexual difficulties and in relationship issues and work with couples and individuals. Sexual issues may have a physiological and/or psychological cause and include: loss of intimacy and desire, mismatched libidos, orgasm difficulties, erectile dysfunction, premature and delayed ejaculation, vaginismus, sexual pain, menopause, sexual phobia and anxiety, lack of confidence and issues with porn use. Relationship issues include: infidelity, loss of trust, communication difficulties, lack of intimacy/connection, adjusting to change, conflict, stress and anxiety, separation and different attachment styles.
0113 467 8450 View 0113 467 8450
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Andy Farrell
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
I'm Andy and as a qualified person-centred counsellor, I strongly believe we all have the ability to navigate life's challenges by drawing on our own experience and capabilities. My role is to invite clients to explore whatever they choose in order to gain a deeper understanding of how it's impacting them, enabling them to create positive change. I do this through actively listening and offering useful reflections of themes I may notice, including any changes over time. I ask clients questions that encourage them to think about their experiences in new ways and never judge or lead anyone into talking about something uncomfortable.
I'm Andy and as a qualified person-centred counsellor, I strongly believe we all have the ability to navigate life's challenges by drawing on our own experience and capabilities. My role is to invite clients to explore whatever they choose in order to gain a deeper understanding of how it's impacting them, enabling them to create positive change. I do this through actively listening and offering useful reflections of themes I may notice, including any changes over time. I ask clients questions that encourage them to think about their experiences in new ways and never judge or lead anyone into talking about something uncomfortable.
0113 512 7087 View 0113 512 7087
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Tom Welch
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Serves Area
Not accepting new clients
I am a qualified counselling professional with a lot of experience helping people who are feeling lost, anxious, or overwhelmed. I can support your recovery from childhood trauma, anxiety, depression and many other issues. Many of my clients are men who are looking for a warm and down to earth therapist to help with issues of, for example, anxiety, depression, low self-confidence. I am able to help with strategies to address these problems, as well as providing confidential space to reflect and make sense of things.
I am a qualified counselling professional with a lot of experience helping people who are feeling lost, anxious, or overwhelmed. I can support your recovery from childhood trauma, anxiety, depression and many other issues. Many of my clients are men who are looking for a warm and down to earth therapist to help with issues of, for example, anxiety, depression, low self-confidence. I am able to help with strategies to address these problems, as well as providing confidential space to reflect and make sense of things.
0113 519 5758 View 0113 519 5758

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Chris Thomas
Counsellor, MBACP
Many of my clients grew up feeling unseen or unheard — carrying childhood wounds, family dysfunction, or old patterns that still shape their lives today. Whatever issue has brought you to search for a therapist, I believe the heart of therapy is the relationship itself. When you feel truly seen and accepted, something shifts — old patterns soften, trust grows, and real change becomes possible.
Many of my clients grew up feeling unseen or unheard — carrying childhood wounds, family dysfunction, or old patterns that still shape their lives today. Whatever issue has brought you to search for a therapist, I believe the heart of therapy is the relationship itself. When you feel truly seen and accepted, something shifts — old patterns soften, trust grows, and real change becomes possible.
01422 415336 View 01422 415336
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Simon O'Brien
Counsellor, UKCP Trainee
3 Endorsed
Waitlist for new clients
Hello and welcome. I am able to offer lower cost fees due to my status as an advanced trainee therapist. Do you ever look back on your life and think, "How did I end up here?", or "What has happened to me?" Perhaps you've lost a loved one? Do your daily connections with others leave you feeling drained or unable to be your authentic self. Are you using substances, alcohol or prescription drugs to escape anxiety or societal pressures? Whatever it is you need help with, I offer a safe, impartial, non-judgemental space for you to explore more deeply.
Hello and welcome. I am able to offer lower cost fees due to my status as an advanced trainee therapist. Do you ever look back on your life and think, "How did I end up here?", or "What has happened to me?" Perhaps you've lost a loved one? Do your daily connections with others leave you feeling drained or unable to be your authentic self. Are you using substances, alcohol or prescription drugs to escape anxiety or societal pressures? Whatever it is you need help with, I offer a safe, impartial, non-judgemental space for you to explore more deeply.
01422 412636 View 01422 412636
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Dominic French
Psychotherapist, MUKCP
2 Endorsed
York YO30
I am an integrative counsellor and psychotherapist who offers a safe, non-judgemental and professional space where you can be supported in exploring your past, present and/or future within a therapeutic relationship that you will feel really seen and heard in. There are many reasons why people might seek therapy as everyone is unique with their own lived experiences - sometimes the issue can be described but other times, there might just be a feeling of wanting life or things to be different. I have a depth of understanding to help support you, gained from extensive training and through both personal and professional experience.
I am an integrative counsellor and psychotherapist who offers a safe, non-judgemental and professional space where you can be supported in exploring your past, present and/or future within a therapeutic relationship that you will feel really seen and heard in. There are many reasons why people might seek therapy as everyone is unique with their own lived experiences - sometimes the issue can be described but other times, there might just be a feeling of wanting life or things to be different. I have a depth of understanding to help support you, gained from extensive training and through both personal and professional experience.
01889 227306 View 01889 227306
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Stephen Millward
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Leeds LS1
My approach to psychotherapy integrates findings in attachment theory, neuroscience, trauma studies, relational psychotherapy and mindfulness. The structure of sessions or "where we will put our attention today" is negotiated with you at the beginning of each session and we will try to cultivate a mindful state of mind throughout the session in order to explore issues in more depth. Care will be taken to pace sessions carefully so that there is plenty of time for you to begin "processing" what arises in the session and to ensure that you do not become overwhelmed by what is explored.
My approach to psychotherapy integrates findings in attachment theory, neuroscience, trauma studies, relational psychotherapy and mindfulness. The structure of sessions or "where we will put our attention today" is negotiated with you at the beginning of each session and we will try to cultivate a mindful state of mind throughout the session in order to explore issues in more depth. Care will be taken to pace sessions carefully so that there is plenty of time for you to begin "processing" what arises in the session and to ensure that you do not become overwhelmed by what is explored.
0113 519 5543 View 0113 519 5543
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Gary Wright
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Bradford BD11
Some availability Saturday and Sunday morning. Easily accessible professional counselling service in south Leeds and Bradford areas. I work with an integrative approach that is tailored to your needs and unique circumstances. I will not judge you but will help you make sense of things and understand yourself better. I have over 30 years experience supporting people in overcoming their life challenges. Our work together will help you resolve complicated feelings, or find ways to live with them. We can work face to face, walk and talk, online or telephone- whatever feels right for you.
Some availability Saturday and Sunday morning. Easily accessible professional counselling service in south Leeds and Bradford areas. I work with an integrative approach that is tailored to your needs and unique circumstances. I will not judge you but will help you make sense of things and understand yourself better. I have over 30 years experience supporting people in overcoming their life challenges. Our work together will help you resolve complicated feelings, or find ways to live with them. We can work face to face, walk and talk, online or telephone- whatever feels right for you.
0113 519 4573 View 0113 519 4573
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Dr Caile Gordon
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
6 Endorsed
Serves Area
Are you feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or uncertain about your next steps? With over a decade of experience in mental health, I specialise in helping individuals navigate anxiety, trauma, and relationship challenges. Through a compassionate and collaborative approach, I assist clients in understanding their experiences and developing effective coping strategies. Offering online therapy sessions, I am accessible to clients across the UK, providing flexibility and convenience.
Are you feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or uncertain about your next steps? With over a decade of experience in mental health, I specialise in helping individuals navigate anxiety, trauma, and relationship challenges. Through a compassionate and collaborative approach, I assist clients in understanding their experiences and developing effective coping strategies. Offering online therapy sessions, I am accessible to clients across the UK, providing flexibility and convenience.
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Daryl Pickthall
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Leeds LS17
Are you overwhelmed with events, feelings or relationships? Have you reached the point where you just need some support? You might be struggling with your past, with relationships, a bereavement or feeling a pressure to be something you're not. Many of my clients have had early life experiences that are really difficult to bear, contributing to anxiety, depression or both. They are coping, and surviving, but maybe in ways that they don't want to do any more.
Are you overwhelmed with events, feelings or relationships? Have you reached the point where you just need some support? You might be struggling with your past, with relationships, a bereavement or feeling a pressure to be something you're not. Many of my clients have had early life experiences that are really difficult to bear, contributing to anxiety, depression or both. They are coping, and surviving, but maybe in ways that they don't want to do any more.
0113 519 7114 View 0113 519 7114
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David Stevens
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I am a BACP registered counsellor based in Leeds, UK with experience supporting clients through a wide range of challenges, including stress, anxiety, workplace burnout, men’s mental health, and the difficulties that come with feeling stuck or overwhelmed. I also work with people navigating grief, trauma, and major life decisions. My style is straightforward, down-to-earth, and supportive. I believe counselling should feel like a genuine conversation, not a clinical interview. I offer a safe and respectful space where you can be open without fear of judgement, and together we work at a pace that suits you.
I am a BACP registered counsellor based in Leeds, UK with experience supporting clients through a wide range of challenges, including stress, anxiety, workplace burnout, men’s mental health, and the difficulties that come with feeling stuck or overwhelmed. I also work with people navigating grief, trauma, and major life decisions. My style is straightforward, down-to-earth, and supportive. I believe counselling should feel like a genuine conversation, not a clinical interview. I offer a safe and respectful space where you can be open without fear of judgement, and together we work at a pace that suits you.
020 4572 0345 View 020 4572 0345
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Paul Bramley
Psychotherapist, MA, UKCP Trainee
1 Endorsed
York YO10
Hiya, I'm Paul, a Gestalt Psychotherapist. You are doubtless here because you need affirming support. Gestalt is wonderful as it respects a person's symptoms as creative adjustments rather than illnesses. Your life is always in process and living it is all that's needed to maintain its flow; one way you may not be doing this is by telling yourself, or having been told by others how you should do this. This won't help your sense of self but lose sight of how and what you are. I will work with you to make you feel safe, understood and validated so that through the simple experience of being you do not seek to be what you are not.
Hiya, I'm Paul, a Gestalt Psychotherapist. You are doubtless here because you need affirming support. Gestalt is wonderful as it respects a person's symptoms as creative adjustments rather than illnesses. Your life is always in process and living it is all that's needed to maintain its flow; one way you may not be doing this is by telling yourself, or having been told by others how you should do this. This won't help your sense of self but lose sight of how and what you are. I will work with you to make you feel safe, understood and validated so that through the simple experience of being you do not seek to be what you are not.
01377 319102 View 01377 319102
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James Costigan
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Online Only
I am a genuine, caring, and insightful psychotherapist who offers a safe and supportive therapeutic space for men to explore themselves more honestly. Therapy can help you develop greater self-awareness, understand patterns that may be holding you back, and begin to make meaningful changes in your life. The decision to seek therapy is not always simple. For many people, it takes time, courage, and a real commitment to care for themselves. Once that decision is made, the work can become a space for growth, reflection, and change. I have over 10 years of experience now and work full time.
I am a genuine, caring, and insightful psychotherapist who offers a safe and supportive therapeutic space for men to explore themselves more honestly. Therapy can help you develop greater self-awareness, understand patterns that may be holding you back, and begin to make meaningful changes in your life. The decision to seek therapy is not always simple. For many people, it takes time, courage, and a real commitment to care for themselves. Once that decision is made, the work can become a space for growth, reflection, and change. I have over 10 years of experience now and work full time.
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Ben Phillips
Counsellor, MSc, BACP
Serves Area
My expertise is working with men's issues, anxiety, anger, and self-limiting beliefs.
Struggling with overthinking, stress, or a mind that won’t switch off? If you’re dealing with pressure quietly—pushing through, staying functional, but feeling stuck, frustrated, or overwhelmed underneath—you’re not alone. I offer structured CBT therapy in Leamington Spa and online, focused on helping you understand what’s driving these patterns and giving you practical tools to change them. Whether it’s anxiety, anger, stress, or feeling like you’re not where you should be, we’ll work in a clear, goal-focused way to help you regain control—so you can think more clearly, feel calmer, and function at your best.
My expertise is working with men's issues, anxiety, anger, and self-limiting beliefs.
Struggling with overthinking, stress, or a mind that won’t switch off? If you’re dealing with pressure quietly—pushing through, staying functional, but feeling stuck, frustrated, or overwhelmed underneath—you’re not alone. I offer structured CBT therapy in Leamington Spa and online, focused on helping you understand what’s driving these patterns and giving you practical tools to change them. Whether it’s anxiety, anger, stress, or feeling like you’re not where you should be, we’ll work in a clear, goal-focused way to help you regain control—so you can think more clearly, feel calmer, and function at your best.
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Men's Issues Counsellors
Is therapy for men different than it is for women?
Therapeutic treatments and types are the same for men as they are for women, with the same protocols followed and the same strategies employed. Discussing one’s feelings and emotions is an integral part of most therapies, and some men find doing so more challenging. Therapists can help clients through the process; some specialize in treating men for this reason.

How do you encourage a man to go to therapy?
It’s helpful to express your concern and love for the person while framing therapy as a tool for improving their life. Offering specific examples of how an individual’s behavior affected either himself or others should be done with compassion and with empathy. It may be useful to devise a game plan—breaking the process down into parts, such as finding a therapist, making appointments, and looking into insurance coverage.

How can men prepare for therapy?
Men can prepare for therapy by approaching the process with an open mind, being willing to talk about their challenges, and giving treatment the time to work. Before a session, an individual may want to reflect on how they’ve felt since the last session and what’s happened in their lives. It can be useful for men who struggle to recall their emotional states to write down notes between sessions about their response to a given event or how they were feeling at a particular time.

What should men know about the process of therapy?
One of the most common reasons men don’t seek therapy is the notion that there’s something wrong with them if they do. Men should know that just because they’re seeking therapy doesn’t mean they’re mentally ill or damaged in some way. In the same way people work on their bodies through exercise or a craft through practice, therapy can be a way to improve the mental and emotional skills needed to be productive and effective partners, employees, and people in all realms of life.