Attachment-based Counselling in Oakham

NW Counselling Services
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Oakham LE15
Are you struggling to cope, have you recently experienced a traumatic event, are you in need of emotional support or are you simply looking to make some significant life changes? Life can throw unexpected challenges at you; short term or long term difficulties and experiences can have an adverse impact on your well-being causing any number of emotional disruptions. Asking for help is the first big step towards recovering and finding the right support for your individual needs is instrumental in working through and alleviating these challenges.
Are you struggling to cope, have you recently experienced a traumatic event, are you in need of emotional support or are you simply looking to make some significant life changes? Life can throw unexpected challenges at you; short term or long term difficulties and experiences can have an adverse impact on your well-being causing any number of emotional disruptions. Asking for help is the first big step towards recovering and finding the right support for your individual needs is instrumental in working through and alleviating these challenges.
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Leanne Jones
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Oakham LE15
Waitlist for new clients
Struggling to cope and feeling overwhelmed? I am a BACP registered Counsellor and Psychotherapist, who is dedicated to helping you work through whatever brings you here today. I am an integrative Counsellor and Psychotherapist, having trained in several theoretical approaches. I also have a Pluralistic outlook to therapy, meaning that I consider no two people or their circumstances as the same, and you, as an individual as totally unique. In our work together, I will draw upon my broad skillset and experience for whatever you and your situation need.
Struggling to cope and feeling overwhelmed? I am a BACP registered Counsellor and Psychotherapist, who is dedicated to helping you work through whatever brings you here today. I am an integrative Counsellor and Psychotherapist, having trained in several theoretical approaches. I also have a Pluralistic outlook to therapy, meaning that I consider no two people or their circumstances as the same, and you, as an individual as totally unique. In our work together, I will draw upon my broad skillset and experience for whatever you and your situation need.
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Joan Elizabeth Carter
Psychotherapist, MBACP Snr. Accred
Verified Verified
Oakham LE15
Waitlist for new clients
I am an experienced Registered and Senior Accredited counsellor/psychotherapist I have 25 years experience and over 20,000 hours client sessions. I offer individual and couples counselling. I have extensive experience working for the NHS, heading up a therapy service in one of the largest GP Medical Practices in the UK. I now work from my home near OAKHAM. The first step is to meet me for an initial assessment session so that you ca decide if I am the right therapist for you and if so, we can consider how best to address the issues you are facing. I believe that the relationship is central to our work together.
I am an experienced Registered and Senior Accredited counsellor/psychotherapist I have 25 years experience and over 20,000 hours client sessions. I offer individual and couples counselling. I have extensive experience working for the NHS, heading up a therapy service in one of the largest GP Medical Practices in the UK. I now work from my home near OAKHAM. The first step is to meet me for an initial assessment session so that you ca decide if I am the right therapist for you and if so, we can consider how best to address the issues you are facing. I believe that the relationship is central to our work together.
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James Palfreyman
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Oakham LE15
Do you ever feel like a spectator in your own life? Maybe you feel stuck in a pattern of behaviour and don't know how to change it? Do you feel less deserving of the life you desire than everybody else? If this sounds like you and you are ready to explore it further, then get in touch. I have a keen interest in identity, how we see ourselves, and how we see ourselves in relation to others. I provide a safe, non-judgemental environment where we can work through your issues or concerns at your own pace, focussing on your own personal goals. This is your time!
Do you ever feel like a spectator in your own life? Maybe you feel stuck in a pattern of behaviour and don't know how to change it? Do you feel less deserving of the life you desire than everybody else? If this sounds like you and you are ready to explore it further, then get in touch. I have a keen interest in identity, how we see ourselves, and how we see ourselves in relation to others. I provide a safe, non-judgemental environment where we can work through your issues or concerns at your own pace, focussing on your own personal goals. This is your time!
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Drury Counselling
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Oakham LE15
There are always valid reasons for our difficulties: e.g. anxiety, despair, addiction, isolation, life transitions, anger, grief, trauma, worthlessness, domination, etc,. The counselling process enables us to meet, understand and repair these. It helps us to reclaim and strengthen our true authentic self, perhaps for the first time in a long time or ever. Working in this way with a counsellor allows you to heal in ways that are life enhancing and endure. Whatever causes you fear, harm and/or damage historically and/or now, can actually be harvested to transform your life.
There are always valid reasons for our difficulties: e.g. anxiety, despair, addiction, isolation, life transitions, anger, grief, trauma, worthlessness, domination, etc,. The counselling process enables us to meet, understand and repair these. It helps us to reclaim and strengthen our true authentic self, perhaps for the first time in a long time or ever. Working in this way with a counsellor allows you to heal in ways that are life enhancing and endure. Whatever causes you fear, harm and/or damage historically and/or now, can actually be harvested to transform your life.
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Mindmattersltd
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Oakham LE15
I am a qualified Integrative Psychotherapist. I have over 15 years’ experience working within a mental health and social care settings, working with individuals struggling with anxiety, depression, trauma, self-worth, loneliness, relationship issues, loss and bereavement. Also working within the rehabilitation sector part of the NHS helping people to understand and cope with their behavior whilst exploring deep rooted feelings and belief systems. I hold a particular interest along with experience of working with survivors of domestic abuse and violence and the long term impact this can have on mental and physical health
I am a qualified Integrative Psychotherapist. I have over 15 years’ experience working within a mental health and social care settings, working with individuals struggling with anxiety, depression, trauma, self-worth, loneliness, relationship issues, loss and bereavement. Also working within the rehabilitation sector part of the NHS helping people to understand and cope with their behavior whilst exploring deep rooted feelings and belief systems. I hold a particular interest along with experience of working with survivors of domestic abuse and violence and the long term impact this can have on mental and physical health
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Naomi Murphy
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Oakham LE15
Hi, thanks for stopping by to check me out. It’s not easy to reach out for help and it can be hard to know what you need from the many services and therapists on offer. Like others I work with, you might find it hard to trust in people and open up. You may have gotten good at hiding your hurt and pain? Maybe you’re worried you’re making a big deal over things that you should have moved on from by now? Perhaps you’re ashamed that these things happened in the first place or feel embarrassed that they still bother you? It might feel wrong to feel sad when some things in your life are going well and others have it so much harder?
Hi, thanks for stopping by to check me out. It’s not easy to reach out for help and it can be hard to know what you need from the many services and therapists on offer. Like others I work with, you might find it hard to trust in people and open up. You may have gotten good at hiding your hurt and pain? Maybe you’re worried you’re making a big deal over things that you should have moved on from by now? Perhaps you’re ashamed that these things happened in the first place or feel embarrassed that they still bother you? It might feel wrong to feel sad when some things in your life are going well and others have it so much harder?
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Individual and Couples Psychotherapist (MSc, UKCP)
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Stamford PE9
I am a UKCP senior accredited Individual, Couples and Family Psychotherapist. I have extensive experience and specialise in Relationship issues (conflict, betrayal, separation, divorce, intimacy and sexual problems), family issues and depression, anxiety (social, health and GAD), phobias, low self-esteem, anger, bereavement, trauma, eating disorders, addiction, suicidal ideation, self-harm, PTSD, stress (including work related), ADHD and Autism.
I am a UKCP senior accredited Individual, Couples and Family Psychotherapist. I have extensive experience and specialise in Relationship issues (conflict, betrayal, separation, divorce, intimacy and sexual problems), family issues and depression, anxiety (social, health and GAD), phobias, low self-esteem, anger, bereavement, trauma, eating disorders, addiction, suicidal ideation, self-harm, PTSD, stress (including work related), ADHD and Autism.
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Sarah Cameron
Counsellor, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Stamford PE9
I am an integrative psychotherapeutic counsellor, working in central Peterborough. I provide short and long term counselling and work with individuals via self-referrals, GP referrals, EAP (Employee Assistance Providers for Organisations' Occupational Health Departments) and from other agencies. In addition to working in Private Practice, I work for the NHS as a Counsellor for Women's Health at Peterborough City Hospital. I have previously worked as a volunteer counsellor with the YMCA Counselling Service in Peterborough and with Peterborough Rape Crisis Care Group, working with survivors of historical and current sexual violence.
I am an integrative psychotherapeutic counsellor, working in central Peterborough. I provide short and long term counselling and work with individuals via self-referrals, GP referrals, EAP (Employee Assistance Providers for Organisations' Occupational Health Departments) and from other agencies. In addition to working in Private Practice, I work for the NHS as a Counsellor for Women's Health at Peterborough City Hospital. I have previously worked as a volunteer counsellor with the YMCA Counselling Service in Peterborough and with Peterborough Rape Crisis Care Group, working with survivors of historical and current sexual violence.
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Susan Warner
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Stamford PE9
I am a qualified professional Humanistic, Integrative, Person Centred Counsellor. I work from my own purpose built, confidential, private counselling room. Here I see people who may be struggling to cope with what life has thrown their way. No matter what the problem is, I offer kindness and empathy in a valuing non-judgemental way. I will listen to whatever you fetch to counselling and I will try to empower you to find your own way forward. Together we can uncover your inner thoughts, feelings and emotions to enable you to cope with life and its ups and downs. Be it past, present or future problems, your well-being is important.
I am a qualified professional Humanistic, Integrative, Person Centred Counsellor. I work from my own purpose built, confidential, private counselling room. Here I see people who may be struggling to cope with what life has thrown their way. No matter what the problem is, I offer kindness and empathy in a valuing non-judgemental way. I will listen to whatever you fetch to counselling and I will try to empower you to find your own way forward. Together we can uncover your inner thoughts, feelings and emotions to enable you to cope with life and its ups and downs. Be it past, present or future problems, your well-being is important.
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Chris Meredith
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
Verified Verified
Stamford PE9
I am a qualified psychotherapist working primarily within the existential model. I also use the techniques of CBT, solution-focused brief therapy and transactional analysis where appropriate. My approach is pragmatic rather than theory driven, with the aim of supporting the client in the most effective way possible to explore their situation and bring about positive change. On a personal level, I bring to the therapy room my long experience of life and its difficulties, and a philosophical perspective that draws on existentialism, Buddhism, Taoism, Stoicism and Epicureanism.
I am a qualified psychotherapist working primarily within the existential model. I also use the techniques of CBT, solution-focused brief therapy and transactional analysis where appropriate. My approach is pragmatic rather than theory driven, with the aim of supporting the client in the most effective way possible to explore their situation and bring about positive change. On a personal level, I bring to the therapy room my long experience of life and its difficulties, and a philosophical perspective that draws on existentialism, Buddhism, Taoism, Stoicism and Epicureanism.
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Suni Parmar-Rea
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Stamford PE9
Asking for help is a big step, so it is important to find a person that you feel comfortable with. As an experienced integrative therapist, my main skill is listening without judgement. Usually clients want to work out how best to manage their mind and their emotions with the goal to have a better quality of life. Week by week you may feel a sense of relief, gain awareness of yourself and build positive ways to look after your mental and emotional health. Counselling is not always an easy journey, but by trusting the process and with my support, it is well worth it.
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Be Understood Counselling
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Ketton PE9
Hello, Thank you for reaching out. It takes courage to ask for help and can feel like the most difficult step. I provide a safe, comfortable, nonjudgemental space where you will be heard, understood and valued, perhaps for the first time in your life. If you struggle with anxiety, depression, feeling sad, panic attacks or relationship problems or perhaps you feel emotional, low in mood or you feel no one listens or understands or maybe you simply feel you have lost your way in life, counselling can help you make sense of your struggles, make positive changes and enable you to move forward in life feeling lighter and at peace.
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In Balance
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Stamford PE9
Thank you for viewing this profile. At In Balance we offer a confidential space to explore your issues, worries and concerns through counselling or coaching. You have the choice to work either face to face with your therapist in person at our private, comfortable office, or remotely via video or telephone. We offer male and female counsellors and have appointments from 3pm-7.30pm weekdays and Saturday mornings. Counselling is always at your pace and frequency and duration of sessions can be discussed at your free initial consultation. We look forward to meeting you.
Thank you for viewing this profile. At In Balance we offer a confidential space to explore your issues, worries and concerns through counselling or coaching. You have the choice to work either face to face with your therapist in person at our private, comfortable office, or remotely via video or telephone. We offer male and female counsellors and have appointments from 3pm-7.30pm weekdays and Saturday mornings. Counselling is always at your pace and frequency and duration of sessions can be discussed at your free initial consultation. We look forward to meeting you.
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Jacqueline Jones Sex Therapy
Psychotherapist, MA, COSRT General
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Stamford PE9
Issues with relationships, porn, kink or fetish? Does sex feel addictive, painful or boring? Maybe sex isn't as satisfying as it was or as good as it could be. I offer practical, highly specialist help for relationships & individuals. Due to demand, I have opened a Saturday morning clinic offering sessions. As a Sex Addiction PhD Scholar, I also offer Compulsive Sexual Behaviour Therapy to clients who think their sex life is problematic. I'm able to offer a tailored, unique programme of support using my knowledge and research. I help clients feel less alone, whilst discovering what is going on for them and what to do about it.
Issues with relationships, porn, kink or fetish? Does sex feel addictive, painful or boring? Maybe sex isn't as satisfying as it was or as good as it could be. I offer practical, highly specialist help for relationships & individuals. Due to demand, I have opened a Saturday morning clinic offering sessions. As a Sex Addiction PhD Scholar, I also offer Compulsive Sexual Behaviour Therapy to clients who think their sex life is problematic. I'm able to offer a tailored, unique programme of support using my knowledge and research. I help clients feel less alone, whilst discovering what is going on for them and what to do about it.
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Laura Haughton
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Stamford PE9
Hello, I'm Laura at Juniper Counselling. As a psychotherapeutic counsellor, I can help you by providing a safe and non-judgmental environment in which any concerns, past or present, can be freely discussed.  I offer you a space to help you understand yourself and your situation better; giving you tools to enable you to build your self-esteem.  I'll work with you to empower you to be able to make informed decisions/choices that are right for you as an individual.
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Online Therapists

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Steve Marshall
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
London EC1V
Hi, I’m Steve. I’m a fully qualified and MBACP registered integrative counsellor, and addiction specialist. I have practised as a counsellor for over 10 years, with over 30 years working in health and social care. I have worked therapeutically with individuals and groups who are struggling with anger, shame, addiction, depression, anxiety, stress, bereavement, relationship problems and other issues in a variety of settings in both the voluntary and private sector. I am have worked as clinical manager in a well known therapy service, as manager of an addiction treatment programme, and lecturer for a London university.
Hi, I’m Steve. I’m a fully qualified and MBACP registered integrative counsellor, and addiction specialist. I have practised as a counsellor for over 10 years, with over 30 years working in health and social care. I have worked therapeutically with individuals and groups who are struggling with anger, shame, addiction, depression, anxiety, stress, bereavement, relationship problems and other issues in a variety of settings in both the voluntary and private sector. I am have worked as clinical manager in a well known therapy service, as manager of an addiction treatment programme, and lecturer for a London university.
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Radma Saiyeda Mahmood
Psychotherapist, PhD, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Pinner HA5  (Online Only)
I work using an integrative model which means that my approach is client-centred, attachment-based and interpretive.
I am qualified in Therapeutic Counselling from the Mary Ward Centre, London and an accredited member of the BACP. I adhere to their framework for safe and ethical practice which promotes a genuine, open and respectful therapeutic relationship. I offer one-to-one counselling working with separation, childhood loss and trauma, to both adults and young people.
I work using an integrative model which means that my approach is client-centred, attachment-based and interpretive.
I am qualified in Therapeutic Counselling from the Mary Ward Centre, London and an accredited member of the BACP. I adhere to their framework for safe and ethical practice which promotes a genuine, open and respectful therapeutic relationship. I offer one-to-one counselling working with separation, childhood loss and trauma, to both adults and young people.
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Core Illumination Healing
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Wokingham RG41
Perhaps you're feeling down; depressed, anxious, confused, overwhelmed, stuck or lonely. Maybe you're unsure about a relationship, challenged by life transitions or a relationship breakdown.You might be struggling with childhood trauma, parenting,adoption, infertility, loss and identity issues. Or just feeling that you aren't living the life you deserve. Life gets tough sometimes, yet out of our vulnerabilities lie our strength. Therapy is a process of self-discovery & growth that helps you to understand aspects of your life that may be holding you back, heal and ignite passion and fulfilment. I have faith and welcome you as you are
Perhaps you're feeling down; depressed, anxious, confused, overwhelmed, stuck or lonely. Maybe you're unsure about a relationship, challenged by life transitions or a relationship breakdown.You might be struggling with childhood trauma, parenting,adoption, infertility, loss and identity issues. Or just feeling that you aren't living the life you deserve. Life gets tough sometimes, yet out of our vulnerabilities lie our strength. Therapy is a process of self-discovery & growth that helps you to understand aspects of your life that may be holding you back, heal and ignite passion and fulfilment. I have faith and welcome you as you are
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Dr Fatoumata Jatta (Online Therapy)
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
London SW13
My approach is evidence-based, consisting primarily of Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, complemented by Systemic therapy, Acceptance & Commitment Therapy, Mindfulness, and attachment-based approaches such as Schema Therapy and Emotion Focused Therapy.
Seeking support can be a challenging step to take. I am here to help. As a chartered clinical psychologist registered with the Health & Care Professions Council, I am trained to provide individuals, couples, and groups with evidence-based psychological treatments for a range of difficulties that can affect general well-being and quality of life. You may struggle with low mood and anxiety, and may be affected by issues such as relationship problems, low self-esteem, loss and bereavement, trauma, sexual problems, or substance misuse. It is also common to experience a number of issues at once, making problems seem insurmountable.
My approach is evidence-based, consisting primarily of Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, complemented by Systemic therapy, Acceptance & Commitment Therapy, Mindfulness, and attachment-based approaches such as Schema Therapy and Emotion Focused Therapy.
Seeking support can be a challenging step to take. I am here to help. As a chartered clinical psychologist registered with the Health & Care Professions Council, I am trained to provide individuals, couples, and groups with evidence-based psychological treatments for a range of difficulties that can affect general well-being and quality of life. You may struggle with low mood and anxiety, and may be affected by issues such as relationship problems, low self-esteem, loss and bereavement, trauma, sexual problems, or substance misuse. It is also common to experience a number of issues at once, making problems seem insurmountable.
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Attachment-based Counsellors

Is attachment-based therapy the same as attachment therapy?

Attachment-based therapy may be confused with what is called “attachment therapy” (sometimes called “holding therapy”), a discredited and dangerous approach to treating children with attachment disorders, autism, or other mental health concerns. Attachment therapy—not attachment-based therapy—may involve restraining a child, forcing eye contact, and other coercive or abusive techniques. None of these practices are used in attachment-based therapy and the two modalities are in no way related.

What should I expect from attachment-based therapy?

Attachment-based therapy is based on attachment theory, which posits that children’s early relationships with their caregivers strongly influence their ability to navigate the world later in life. Thus, adults who seek attachment-based therapy should expect to deeply explore their childhood, identifying the dynamics or experiences that disrupted their attachment and the steps necessary to overcome challenges that arose as a result. Parents and children should expect to explore the possible factors that disrupted the parent-child relationship and work toward restoring trust and connection.

How long does attachment-based therapy last?

Certain forms of attachment-based therapy, especially those designed for parents and children, last for a set number of sessions; for example, Attachment and Biobehavioural Catch-Up, a specific attachment-based approach for young children who have undergone early adversity, unfolds over 10 one-hour sessions. When attachment-based therapy is practiced on adults or combined with other modalities, it may not last a specific length of time; clients may wish to ask prospective therapists how long they expect treatment to take.

Does attachment-based therapy work?

Most of the research on attachment-based therapy focuses on children and adolescents. Some of this research shows a positive effect, especially for attachment-based family therapy (ABFT). Other studies, however, have found that attachment-based therapy is no more effective than other approaches to childhood depression, anxiety, or suicidality. Less is known about the therapy’s efficacy on adult populations.