Infidelity Counselling in Nottingham

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Yasmin LAWSON
Counsellor, MBACP
Do you have relationship issues? I am an experienced Relate trained Couples Counsellor and I can help with a wide range of relationship difficulties. I am person centred and work in collaboration with my clients to help them to find a way to improve their relationships. I also work with couples when one partner may be on the Autistic Spectrum, whether diagnosed or not.
Do you have relationship issues? I am an experienced Relate trained Couples Counsellor and I can help with a wide range of relationship difficulties. I am person centred and work in collaboration with my clients to help them to find a way to improve their relationships. I also work with couples when one partner may be on the Autistic Spectrum, whether diagnosed or not.
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Self Made Mental Health
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I am very much committed to helping my clients be the best version of themselves and believe that everyone has arrived at the version of themselves they are today because of what they’ve been through. That means there are always understandable reasons why someone is having a tough time or struggling with something, no matter what that difficulty might be. Because of that belief, I am far more likely to ask what has happened to you, versus what is wrong with you - even if you have a diagnosis. You might already have a clear goal, or you could be reading this wondering where on earth to start. Either way, I’m glad you made it here!
I am very much committed to helping my clients be the best version of themselves and believe that everyone has arrived at the version of themselves they are today because of what they’ve been through. That means there are always understandable reasons why someone is having a tough time or struggling with something, no matter what that difficulty might be. Because of that belief, I am far more likely to ask what has happened to you, versus what is wrong with you - even if you have a diagnosis. You might already have a clear goal, or you could be reading this wondering where on earth to start. Either way, I’m glad you made it here!
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Horizon Oak Therapy
Psychotherapist, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Hi, my name is Chinedu Agu. I am a humanistic and integrative psychotherapist. Adopting a holistic stance, my training allows me to blend different techniques and theories for a bespoke or tailor-made approach to suit your problems. I offer a safe, confidential and non-judgemental space where you can feel free to find your own path and discover your goals.
Hi, my name is Chinedu Agu. I am a humanistic and integrative psychotherapist. Adopting a holistic stance, my training allows me to blend different techniques and theories for a bespoke or tailor-made approach to suit your problems. I offer a safe, confidential and non-judgemental space where you can feel free to find your own path and discover your goals.
0115 647 4787 View 0115 647 4787
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Asa Sanderson
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
I specialise in dating, relationships, and marriage challenges such as intimacy and sexual difficulties, low desire, infidelity, trust issues, sexual/ pornography addiction, ED and performance anxiety.
Whether you’re struggling with dating, relationships or sexual challenges, we’ll work together to create lasting change. I help you shift unhelpful patterns through practical, focused interventions and significant behavioural changes. I lean into a range of therapeutic approaches to create a bespoke approach tailored to your needs.
I specialise in dating, relationships, and marriage challenges such as intimacy and sexual difficulties, low desire, infidelity, trust issues, sexual/ pornography addiction, ED and performance anxiety.
Whether you’re struggling with dating, relationships or sexual challenges, we’ll work together to create lasting change. I help you shift unhelpful patterns through practical, focused interventions and significant behavioural changes. I lean into a range of therapeutic approaches to create a bespoke approach tailored to your needs.
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Naheed Chowdhery
Psychotherapist, MBACP
2 Endorsed
Welcome, my name is Naheed and I am a Humanistic Integrative therapist, working from Nottingham, in-person, and online. We all experience dissatisfaction within our relationships at some period within our lives. Sometimes we need support to understand what we are feeling and struggle with anxiety and depression and feel trapped. I am committed to providing support within a safe, empathic and confidential space where you can explore your experience with respect and understanding. I have an in-depth understanding of the experiences of being a daughter, sister, mother, wife or friend and can offer fresh insight to familiar patterns.
Welcome, my name is Naheed and I am a Humanistic Integrative therapist, working from Nottingham, in-person, and online. We all experience dissatisfaction within our relationships at some period within our lives. Sometimes we need support to understand what we are feeling and struggle with anxiety and depression and feel trapped. I am committed to providing support within a safe, empathic and confidential space where you can explore your experience with respect and understanding. I have an in-depth understanding of the experiences of being a daughter, sister, mother, wife or friend and can offer fresh insight to familiar patterns.
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Fiona Corbett
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
You may be very clear on what you want from therapy, in which case I can offer a place to explore, clarify, understand, observe, feel or identify strategies to support .Or you may feel very fuzzy about what you need, but know things are not right, or that you are struggling. Part of my role here would be to help you untangle the things impacting on you and to find out what you would need to thrive and feel clear.
You may be very clear on what you want from therapy, in which case I can offer a place to explore, clarify, understand, observe, feel or identify strategies to support .Or you may feel very fuzzy about what you need, but know things are not right, or that you are struggling. Part of my role here would be to help you untangle the things impacting on you and to find out what you would need to thrive and feel clear.
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Jo Newstead
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
My name is Jo and I am a BACP accredited therapist and supervisor with over 11 years experience in practice. Using a blend of Person Centred and Solution Focused therapy I can offer short term solution focused therapy (6-8 sessions) and longer term if there are perhaps multiple issues to address. I came into counselling following a difficult period in my own life and felt that I wanted to give something back by helping others who may find themselves struggling in life.
My name is Jo and I am a BACP accredited therapist and supervisor with over 11 years experience in practice. Using a blend of Person Centred and Solution Focused therapy I can offer short term solution focused therapy (6-8 sessions) and longer term if there are perhaps multiple issues to address. I came into counselling following a difficult period in my own life and felt that I wanted to give something back by helping others who may find themselves struggling in life.
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Clare Hillery
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Asking for support can sometimes be difficult, we worry about what people are going to think about us and how they will judge us, our issues may seem too big, too painful, too embarrassing, too weird or the opposite too small , too unimportant to be taken seriously. Those worries can hold you back from seeking support and living the life you want and deserve, I know, I was once there too. Its a scary step trusting someone with your inner most thoughts and feelings but together we can look at your present experience and explore them to see if there is any connection to the past, and identify any changes that can be made.
Asking for support can sometimes be difficult, we worry about what people are going to think about us and how they will judge us, our issues may seem too big, too painful, too embarrassing, too weird or the opposite too small , too unimportant to be taken seriously. Those worries can hold you back from seeking support and living the life you want and deserve, I know, I was once there too. Its a scary step trusting someone with your inner most thoughts and feelings but together we can look at your present experience and explore them to see if there is any connection to the past, and identify any changes that can be made.
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Annette Carney
Counsellor, MBACP
Online Only
Hi, I am Annette i am a member of the BACP as a registered counsellor/ psychotherapist I have had over fifteen years experience working with clients who struggle with issues around addiction both drink and drugs, I also work with clients experiencing bereavement , anxiety, depression or trauma. I work with adults of all ages from students to senior citizens online or by phone which ever is convenient for the client. My approach is calm, non- judgmental and empathetic I try to connect to my client so that together we can explore any issues that are affecting them in a safe environment.
Hi, I am Annette i am a member of the BACP as a registered counsellor/ psychotherapist I have had over fifteen years experience working with clients who struggle with issues around addiction both drink and drugs, I also work with clients experiencing bereavement , anxiety, depression or trauma. I work with adults of all ages from students to senior citizens online or by phone which ever is convenient for the client. My approach is calm, non- judgmental and empathetic I try to connect to my client so that together we can explore any issues that are affecting them in a safe environment.
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Laura J Marler
Counsellor, MBACP
As a registered Person-Centered Counsellor, member of the BACP (British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy). I am UK Counselling and Psychotherapy Central Awarding Body trained and qualified. I have gained many years of experience working with individuals seeking a way forward. I also currently work with a local non-profit counseling charity, with clients seeking to experience some resolve and clarity amidst the noise and confusion. That which you bring to the therapeutic relationship with me will be unique and individual to you.
As a registered Person-Centered Counsellor, member of the BACP (British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy). I am UK Counselling and Psychotherapy Central Awarding Body trained and qualified. I have gained many years of experience working with individuals seeking a way forward. I also currently work with a local non-profit counseling charity, with clients seeking to experience some resolve and clarity amidst the noise and confusion. That which you bring to the therapeutic relationship with me will be unique and individual to you.
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Nick Bealing
Psychotherapist, MBACP
4 Endorsed
Working in all aspects of therapy such as anxiety,depression,trauma,stress and many more has enabled me insight into the specific needs of a client allowing me to offer a bespoke tailor made approach to your therapy. I appreciate reaching out isn't easy. I want you to know that theirs no expectations from me. I want to just offer you a safe, relaxed space to explore whats going on for you, at your own pace,and in doing so together we can look at whats going on at the moment, explore the past and how these relationships have shaped you. no matter what your going through i will start to feel better.
Working in all aspects of therapy such as anxiety,depression,trauma,stress and many more has enabled me insight into the specific needs of a client allowing me to offer a bespoke tailor made approach to your therapy. I appreciate reaching out isn't easy. I want you to know that theirs no expectations from me. I want to just offer you a safe, relaxed space to explore whats going on for you, at your own pace,and in doing so together we can look at whats going on at the moment, explore the past and how these relationships have shaped you. no matter what your going through i will start to feel better.
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Hi, I'm Lorna and thank you for reading my profile. Counselling can be helpful for so many reasons. We all have a lot to deal with, from relationships, family issues and stress - to worries about life in general. Perhaps you have low Self-esteem or feel anxious. Maybe you're struggling in your relationships with others.
Hi, I'm Lorna and thank you for reading my profile. Counselling can be helpful for so many reasons. We all have a lot to deal with, from relationships, family issues and stress - to worries about life in general. Perhaps you have low Self-esteem or feel anxious. Maybe you're struggling in your relationships with others.
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Sharon Campbell
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP
I provide a safe and confidential space for you to talk through whatever brings you to counselling. I believe that you have the full potential to overcome any emotional challenges you may be facing and that together we can untangle the busyness of your thoughts and make sense of everything. With growing awareness comes the element of choice - which in turn will open up a life you want to live. You may have a personal goal that you want to achieve from the sessions or it may just be about having a space to say things out loud and start to own how you are feeling. I will always be led by the client as you are the expert of you.
I provide a safe and confidential space for you to talk through whatever brings you to counselling. I believe that you have the full potential to overcome any emotional challenges you may be facing and that together we can untangle the busyness of your thoughts and make sense of everything. With growing awareness comes the element of choice - which in turn will open up a life you want to live. You may have a personal goal that you want to achieve from the sessions or it may just be about having a space to say things out loud and start to own how you are feeling. I will always be led by the client as you are the expert of you.
0115 647 3837 View 0115 647 3837
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Halfway Tree Therapy Ltd
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
We are all unique and present different ranges of issues requiring highly tailored therapy. As a UKCP & BACP accredited, Clinical Integrative Psychotherapist, qualified (with Distinction), at MSc level. I work in a relational/humanistic way, offering myself, my knowledge, and life experience to an extensive range of clients, to encourage growth and healing. Commissioned to work with the Nottinghamshire Police, BAME Crown Prosecution Service, NHS, whilst supporting Employee Assistance Programmes (EAP) and private patients with issues such as depression, anxiety, trauma and grief, childhood trauma and relationship issues.
We are all unique and present different ranges of issues requiring highly tailored therapy. As a UKCP & BACP accredited, Clinical Integrative Psychotherapist, qualified (with Distinction), at MSc level. I work in a relational/humanistic way, offering myself, my knowledge, and life experience to an extensive range of clients, to encourage growth and healing. Commissioned to work with the Nottinghamshire Police, BAME Crown Prosecution Service, NHS, whilst supporting Employee Assistance Programmes (EAP) and private patients with issues such as depression, anxiety, trauma and grief, childhood trauma and relationship issues.
01332 980834 View 01332 980834
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Harmony Couples Therapy
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
I regularly work with clients to help them make sense of a wide variety of issues such as managing conflict, separation/divorce, infidelity, bereavement, addiction, mental health issues, and I have specialist training in working with couples affected by neurodiversity/autism and depression/anxiety.
I can help you improve communication, to navigate difficult and confusing patterns of behaviour that may keep happening between you, and also to manage life stages and stresses that can put pressure on your relationship. I offer a friendly, supportive and professional service to help you both understand your relationship issues.
I regularly work with clients to help them make sense of a wide variety of issues such as managing conflict, separation/divorce, infidelity, bereavement, addiction, mental health issues, and I have specialist training in working with couples affected by neurodiversity/autism and depression/anxiety.
I can help you improve communication, to navigate difficult and confusing patterns of behaviour that may keep happening between you, and also to manage life stages and stresses that can put pressure on your relationship. I offer a friendly, supportive and professional service to help you both understand your relationship issues.
0115 647 4614 View 0115 647 4614
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Tracy Rowberry
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
2 Endorsed
Welcome, how is everything going for you today? Are you searching for some support, and feeling overwhelmed. Hopefully the information I have provided below will help. In a nutshell, the therapy I offer means we work together, at your pace, to explore and consider the outcomes you feel will support you in making the choices or changes you believe will benefit you going forward. It's your space to talk, consider and explore whatever you want to.
Welcome, how is everything going for you today? Are you searching for some support, and feeling overwhelmed. Hopefully the information I have provided below will help. In a nutshell, the therapy I offer means we work together, at your pace, to explore and consider the outcomes you feel will support you in making the choices or changes you believe will benefit you going forward. It's your space to talk, consider and explore whatever you want to.
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Heather Petcher
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Online Only
At the heart of my practice is the emphasis on building a warm, safe and empathic therapeutic relationship based on acceptance and trust within a non judgemental and nurturing environment. I offer a safe space for you to explore your emotions to what is happening, or what has happened in your life and how this is affecting you in the present. I believe you are the expert of you and have all the capabilities to find your own way through your problems with my support, to build confidence within and facilitate personal growth.
At the heart of my practice is the emphasis on building a warm, safe and empathic therapeutic relationship based on acceptance and trust within a non judgemental and nurturing environment. I offer a safe space for you to explore your emotions to what is happening, or what has happened in your life and how this is affecting you in the present. I believe you are the expert of you and have all the capabilities to find your own way through your problems with my support, to build confidence within and facilitate personal growth.
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Lucy T
Psychotherapist, MBACP
1 Endorsed
I work with acceptance, kindness, empathy, compassion—and a touch of humour and humanity to lighten the load. No chaise longue or leather elbow pads here. I've spent a lot of time supporting survivors of sexual violence, people living with (C)PTSD, BPD and those navigating relationship difficulties. But one of the best parts of being a therapist is working with a wide range of people. So whether you’re struggling to stay hopeful in a difficult world, carrying painful experiences from the past, or trying to get to the bottom of excessive worrying or health anxiety, I’d like to help.
I work with acceptance, kindness, empathy, compassion—and a touch of humour and humanity to lighten the load. No chaise longue or leather elbow pads here. I've spent a lot of time supporting survivors of sexual violence, people living with (C)PTSD, BPD and those navigating relationship difficulties. But one of the best parts of being a therapist is working with a wide range of people. So whether you’re struggling to stay hopeful in a difficult world, carrying painful experiences from the past, or trying to get to the bottom of excessive worrying or health anxiety, I’d like to help.
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April Agustudottir
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP Accred
1 Endorsed
I have worked with issues such as child sexual abuse, infidelity, domestic abuse, childhood trauma, bereavement, PTSD, anxiety and depression.
Using a psychodynamic approach, I offer both comfort and support while working with current issues such as anxiety, depression, stress, or bereavement and traumatic experiences both in childhood and adulthood. I can help you reflect on your past experiences and connect them with current issues— helping you better understand yourself, your thoughts, actions, and the relationships you have in your life. I will offer you a safe space where you can speak freely about your thoughts, feelings and concerns. These issues are reflected within a confidential and empathetic environment, building a safe and non-judgemental space.
I have worked with issues such as child sexual abuse, infidelity, domestic abuse, childhood trauma, bereavement, PTSD, anxiety and depression.
Using a psychodynamic approach, I offer both comfort and support while working with current issues such as anxiety, depression, stress, or bereavement and traumatic experiences both in childhood and adulthood. I can help you reflect on your past experiences and connect them with current issues— helping you better understand yourself, your thoughts, actions, and the relationships you have in your life. I will offer you a safe space where you can speak freely about your thoughts, feelings and concerns. These issues are reflected within a confidential and empathetic environment, building a safe and non-judgemental space.
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Sharon Turner MBACP, MNCS (accred)
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
1 Endorsed
Life brings many challenges. You may be experiencing a range of issues; struggling to understand or come to terms with issues such as health, loss, trauma or family issues which can lead to uncomfortable feelings. Sometimes issues are complex and interlink into many areas of our lives creating anxiety, stress, depressed or grief. I have experience working with all these and the different ways they affect clients. Are difficult feelings affecting work, social and home life? Impacting on health or self esteem and self worth?
Life brings many challenges. You may be experiencing a range of issues; struggling to understand or come to terms with issues such as health, loss, trauma or family issues which can lead to uncomfortable feelings. Sometimes issues are complex and interlink into many areas of our lives creating anxiety, stress, depressed or grief. I have experience working with all these and the different ways they affect clients. Are difficult feelings affecting work, social and home life? Impacting on health or self esteem and self worth?
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Infidelity Counsellors
How does therapy for infidelity work?
A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?
Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?
When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?
Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.