Emotionally Focused Counselling in Nottingham

Ray Cole
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
1 Endorsed
I’m a humanistic and integrative psychotherapist working relationally and developmentally. I believe our past relationships and experiences shape how we see ourselves, others, and the world. I offer a warm, respectful space where all parts of you are welcome. Therapy is unique to each person, and I draw on a range of approaches to meet your needs. Whether we talk, get creative, or simply sit together, I hold the process with care, curiosity, and protection. I understand the importance of being heard without judgment or analysis, and I aim to create a safe space for exploration, healing, and growth.
I’m a humanistic and integrative psychotherapist working relationally and developmentally. I believe our past relationships and experiences shape how we see ourselves, others, and the world. I offer a warm, respectful space where all parts of you are welcome. Therapy is unique to each person, and I draw on a range of approaches to meet your needs. Whether we talk, get creative, or simply sit together, I hold the process with care, curiosity, and protection. I understand the importance of being heard without judgment or analysis, and I aim to create a safe space for exploration, healing, and growth.
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Andrea Mendes Freira
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Regardless of our background we all go through difficult moments in our lives, leaving us overwhelmed and often struggling with feelings that may be hard to understand. It could be because life events are hard to overcome, or you feel exploited and disempowered and would like that to change. Maybe you are sexually unfulfilled or dealing with sexual problems. It could be that you want to build the confidence to come out of the closet or just to find your sexual self and enjoy the intimacy you desire in your romantic relationships. Whatever the reason is that brings you to this point - it is ok to look for someone to talk to.
Regardless of our background we all go through difficult moments in our lives, leaving us overwhelmed and often struggling with feelings that may be hard to understand. It could be because life events are hard to overcome, or you feel exploited and disempowered and would like that to change. Maybe you are sexually unfulfilled or dealing with sexual problems. It could be that you want to build the confidence to come out of the closet or just to find your sexual self and enjoy the intimacy you desire in your romantic relationships. Whatever the reason is that brings you to this point - it is ok to look for someone to talk to.
0115 824 4053 View 0115 824 4053
Realign Psychotherapy: Kirsten Pearse
Psychotherapist, MA, MNCPS Acc.
I offer person-centred talking therapy with exploration of somatic experience through Emotional Freedom Technique ( EFT).
I'm available to support you in your process of self actualisation by providing a safe space to explore, acknowledge and begin to process the challenges that are creating tension between your self concept (how you see, feel and experience things now) and ideal self (where you want to be). The direction of each session will be defined by you without pressure or expectation. I have experience of working with clients who have encountered significant trauma, grief and/or have been medically diagnosed with a range of mental health challenges. Maybe this is you, or maybe you’re just feeling a bit stuck in your current situation.
I offer person-centred talking therapy with exploration of somatic experience through Emotional Freedom Technique ( EFT).
I'm available to support you in your process of self actualisation by providing a safe space to explore, acknowledge and begin to process the challenges that are creating tension between your self concept (how you see, feel and experience things now) and ideal self (where you want to be). The direction of each session will be defined by you without pressure or expectation. I have experience of working with clients who have encountered significant trauma, grief and/or have been medically diagnosed with a range of mental health challenges. Maybe this is you, or maybe you’re just feeling a bit stuck in your current situation.
01773 302201 View 01773 302201
Laura Hutchinson
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Hey, I’m Laura and here’s a little about me. I believe that sometimes life can feel overwhelming, and that having a safe, non-judgemental space to talk can make all the difference. I’m a qualified psychotherapist and counsellor with over 13 years’ experience supporting adults, young people, children and families through a wide range of challenges. Throughout my work, I have supported people experiencing anxiety, depression, suicide, low self-esteem, relationship difficulties, grief, trauma, life changes and many of the challenges that can leave us feeling stuck, overwhelmed or disconnected from ourselves.
Hey, I’m Laura and here’s a little about me. I believe that sometimes life can feel overwhelming, and that having a safe, non-judgemental space to talk can make all the difference. I’m a qualified psychotherapist and counsellor with over 13 years’ experience supporting adults, young people, children and families through a wide range of challenges. Throughout my work, I have supported people experiencing anxiety, depression, suicide, low self-esteem, relationship difficulties, grief, trauma, life changes and many of the challenges that can leave us feeling stuck, overwhelmed or disconnected from ourselves.
01777 809412 View 01777 809412
Valeriia Bobrova
Psychotherapist, MA, MNCPS Acc.
1 Endorsed
You don’t have to have the right words, a clear goal, or even know where to start. I’m Valeriia, a qualified and accredited person-centred psychotherapist. I offer a warm, down-to-earth space where you can show up exactly as you are — messy thoughts, big feelings, uncertainty and all. I don’t believe people need fixing. I believe we all need somewhere safe to be heard. Alongside online and phone sessions, I offer face to face sessions and Walk & Talk therapy in nature. I work with anxiety, grief, low self-esteem, life changes, baby loss, and feeling overwhelmed by life.
You don’t have to have the right words, a clear goal, or even know where to start. I’m Valeriia, a qualified and accredited person-centred psychotherapist. I offer a warm, down-to-earth space where you can show up exactly as you are — messy thoughts, big feelings, uncertainty and all. I don’t believe people need fixing. I believe we all need somewhere safe to be heard. Alongside online and phone sessions, I offer face to face sessions and Walk & Talk therapy in nature. I work with anxiety, grief, low self-esteem, life changes, baby loss, and feeling overwhelmed by life.
0115 647 9478 View 0115 647 9478
Cheryl Morrissey
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Life can be tough at times, can make us feel undervalued, overwhelmed and maybe quite a lonely place to be. Therapy can help us understand ourselves a little better, value our uniqueness that makes us who we are. I strive to support that self awakening, to focus on rediscovery rather than changing who you are. I am passionate about ensuring neuro-divergent people can access therapy and adapt my ways of working to meet their needs. I ensure I complete regular CPD and training in Trauma focused CBT, Theraplay Level 1, DDP Level 1&2, therapeutic parenting and training via PODS specializing in DID. Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy.
Life can be tough at times, can make us feel undervalued, overwhelmed and maybe quite a lonely place to be. Therapy can help us understand ourselves a little better, value our uniqueness that makes us who we are. I strive to support that self awakening, to focus on rediscovery rather than changing who you are. I am passionate about ensuring neuro-divergent people can access therapy and adapt my ways of working to meet their needs. I ensure I complete regular CPD and training in Trauma focused CBT, Theraplay Level 1, DDP Level 1&2, therapeutic parenting and training via PODS specializing in DID. Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy.
0115 647 1880 View 0115 647 1880
Ruthf.Therapies
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
1 Endorsed
I’m a qualified Counsellor/Psychotherapist. Have you reached a turning point wanting to move forward, but find yourself unable to? I aim to provide a safe, non-judgemental, compassionate space for Clients to explore their issues and challenges. Sometimes the first step is the hardest step! I have a special interest in working with individuals who have experienced trauma,  or struggle with cultural heritage and identity. I  also have an interest in Couples therapy.  Applying an empathetic approach, my goal is to create an environment where we can explore issues together, and work towards greater clarity and emotional freedom.
I’m a qualified Counsellor/Psychotherapist. Have you reached a turning point wanting to move forward, but find yourself unable to? I aim to provide a safe, non-judgemental, compassionate space for Clients to explore their issues and challenges. Sometimes the first step is the hardest step! I have a special interest in working with individuals who have experienced trauma,  or struggle with cultural heritage and identity. I  also have an interest in Couples therapy.  Applying an empathetic approach, my goal is to create an environment where we can explore issues together, and work towards greater clarity and emotional freedom.
0115 647 4503 View 0115 647 4503
Leigh Manning
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
I am a fully qualified psychotherapist, educated to MA level, and with 20 years experience. I offer in person & online counselling and psychotherapy for individuals and couples experiencing a range of difficulties including, but not limited to, abandonment, addiction, anxiety, bereavement, depression, complex trauma, PTSD, ADHD/autism, relationship problems, and victims/perpetrators of abuse. I am a registered member of the British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy (MBACP).
I am a fully qualified psychotherapist, educated to MA level, and with 20 years experience. I offer in person & online counselling and psychotherapy for individuals and couples experiencing a range of difficulties including, but not limited to, abandonment, addiction, anxiety, bereavement, depression, complex trauma, PTSD, ADHD/autism, relationship problems, and victims/perpetrators of abuse. I am a registered member of the British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy (MBACP).
0115 647 7098 View 0115 647 7098
Rajan Rai
Psychotherapist, MUKCP
Hello! I’m Raj, and I am psychosexually-informed UKCP-registered psychotherapist. I offer face-to-face individual & couples counselling sessions in Beeston, Nottingham as well as online. With individuals, I work with (but not limited to): Depression & Anxiety; Relationship Issues; LGBTQIA+ - related Issues; Racial and cultural issues/conflicts; Low self-esteem; Lack of fulfilment. With couples, typical issues include:  affairs; conflict & anger; poor communication; life transitions; sexual difficulties; separation & divorce.
Hello! I’m Raj, and I am psychosexually-informed UKCP-registered psychotherapist. I offer face-to-face individual & couples counselling sessions in Beeston, Nottingham as well as online. With individuals, I work with (but not limited to): Depression & Anxiety; Relationship Issues; LGBTQIA+ - related Issues; Racial and cultural issues/conflicts; Low self-esteem; Lack of fulfilment. With couples, typical issues include:  affairs; conflict & anger; poor communication; life transitions; sexual difficulties; separation & divorce.
01777 809417 View 01777 809417
Sarah Avis
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Online Only
Life is full of experiences which can cause us to struggle, feel unsettled, overwhelmed and at odds with our true self. When we feel like this, taking the time to reflect upon our experiences, feelings and emotional responses in therapy can help understand more about ourselves and then develop a way forward that is true to our own needs, aims and desires for the life we wish to live.
Life is full of experiences which can cause us to struggle, feel unsettled, overwhelmed and at odds with our true self. When we feel like this, taking the time to reflect upon our experiences, feelings and emotional responses in therapy can help understand more about ourselves and then develop a way forward that is true to our own needs, aims and desires for the life we wish to live.
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Hannah Barclay
Psychotherapist, MUKCP
My therapy practice centres around a belief in the transformative potential of experiencing connection and understanding with self and other. I believe one of the ways this can be achieved is through building an authentic professional therapeutic relationship based on qualities such as trust, acceptance and understanding. I prioritise the importance of working collaboratively at your pace and by your direction. My practice is informed by my person-centred and experiential training, and by my interest in working with the body, neuroscience, and through creative expression.
My therapy practice centres around a belief in the transformative potential of experiencing connection and understanding with self and other. I believe one of the ways this can be achieved is through building an authentic professional therapeutic relationship based on qualities such as trust, acceptance and understanding. I prioritise the importance of working collaboratively at your pace and by your direction. My practice is informed by my person-centred and experiential training, and by my interest in working with the body, neuroscience, and through creative expression.
0115 647 1064 View 0115 647 1064
Sharon Campbell
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP
I provide a safe and confidential space for you to talk through whatever brings you to counselling. I believe that you have the full potential to overcome any emotional challenges you may be facing and that together we can untangle the busyness of your thoughts and make sense of everything. With growing awareness comes the element of choice - which in turn will open up a life you want to live. You may have a personal goal that you want to achieve from the sessions or it may just be about having a space to say things out loud and start to own how you are feeling. I will always be led by the client as you are the expert of you.
I provide a safe and confidential space for you to talk through whatever brings you to counselling. I believe that you have the full potential to overcome any emotional challenges you may be facing and that together we can untangle the busyness of your thoughts and make sense of everything. With growing awareness comes the element of choice - which in turn will open up a life you want to live. You may have a personal goal that you want to achieve from the sessions or it may just be about having a space to say things out loud and start to own how you are feeling. I will always be led by the client as you are the expert of you.
0115 647 3837 View 0115 647 3837
Jennifer Hamilton
Psychotherapist, MNCPS Acc.
2 Endorsed
You might look like you’re coping on the outside. You’re the person everyone relies on, but inside your mind rarely switches off. You replay conversations, put other people’s needs first and often wonder why you’re so exhausted. If that sounds familiar, therapy can help you understand why these patterns developed and begin to change them. I support people who feel overwhelmed, anxious or stuck in patterns of self-doubt, helping them build confidence, understand themselves and navigate life transitions.
You might look like you’re coping on the outside. You’re the person everyone relies on, but inside your mind rarely switches off. You replay conversations, put other people’s needs first and often wonder why you’re so exhausted. If that sounds familiar, therapy can help you understand why these patterns developed and begin to change them. I support people who feel overwhelmed, anxious or stuck in patterns of self-doubt, helping them build confidence, understand themselves and navigate life transitions.
0115 647 8603 View 0115 647 8603
Ian Hibberson
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Welcome. If you’re feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure where to turn, you’re not alone. Many of my clients come with a desire for clarity, self-understanding, and lasting change. I’m a person-centred counsellor / psychotherapist with 22 years’ experience supporting adults (18+) across private and corporate settings. Taking that first step can feel daunting, but it’s also an act of courage. I offer a safe, supportive space to explore who you are, what you need, and where you want to go.
Welcome. If you’re feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure where to turn, you’re not alone. Many of my clients come with a desire for clarity, self-understanding, and lasting change. I’m a person-centred counsellor / psychotherapist with 22 years’ experience supporting adults (18+) across private and corporate settings. Taking that first step can feel daunting, but it’s also an act of courage. I offer a safe, supportive space to explore who you are, what you need, and where you want to go.
01328 803457 View 01328 803457
Polly Dexter
Psychotherapist, MUKCP
Hello, I’m a fully qualified Psychotherapist working with adults and young people to help improve well-being and quality of life. I offer short or longer term therapy depending on your needs and wants. If you are feeling low in mood, anxious, overwhelmed or stuck in some way, psychotherapy can help. I firmly believe that we each have the potential to change, grow and heal when we are offered the right support. I have worked with a broad range of people on the issues that are important to them. Themes have included anxiety, depression, complex trauma, loss, neurodiversity, relationship difficulties, addiction, among many others.
Hello, I’m a fully qualified Psychotherapist working with adults and young people to help improve well-being and quality of life. I offer short or longer term therapy depending on your needs and wants. If you are feeling low in mood, anxious, overwhelmed or stuck in some way, psychotherapy can help. I firmly believe that we each have the potential to change, grow and heal when we are offered the right support. I have worked with a broad range of people on the issues that are important to them. Themes have included anxiety, depression, complex trauma, loss, neurodiversity, relationship difficulties, addiction, among many others.
0115 647 8191 View 0115 647 8191
Isabel Ponce
Counsellor, MA, MBACP Accred
1 Endorsed
Feeling low, confused, anxious, stuck, or overwhelmed can be incredibly isolating. Even when we have people around us who want to help, their support may not always feel helpful, we may feel misunderstood or we may feel like a burden. If any of this resonates with you, I want you to know that you’re not alone. I warmly welcome you to a space where you can feel truly heard and supported. I can help with challenges such as Low mood, Anxiety, Stress, Burnout, Bereavement & Loss, Low confidence, Trauma, Life transitions, Cultural identity matters, Relationships & Family issues (I only work with individuals, no couples or families).
Feeling low, confused, anxious, stuck, or overwhelmed can be incredibly isolating. Even when we have people around us who want to help, their support may not always feel helpful, we may feel misunderstood or we may feel like a burden. If any of this resonates with you, I want you to know that you’re not alone. I warmly welcome you to a space where you can feel truly heard and supported. I can help with challenges such as Low mood, Anxiety, Stress, Burnout, Bereavement & Loss, Low confidence, Trauma, Life transitions, Cultural identity matters, Relationships & Family issues (I only work with individuals, no couples or families).
01777 801561 View 01777 801561
Laiba Zaigham
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Online Only
I’m Laiba, an MBACP integrative counsellor working with adults and young people. Many people come to therapy not because something is “wrong,” but because they’re exhausted from coping alone: overthinking, self-doubting, people-pleasing, or quietly struggling while appearing fine to everyone else. I provide a supportive space where you can slow down, feel heard, and explore your experiences at your own pace I work with clients from diverse backgrounds and experiences. If you’d like to explore whether working together feels right for you, you can arrange a free 15-minute introductory call or contact me via email or WhatsApp
I’m Laiba, an MBACP integrative counsellor working with adults and young people. Many people come to therapy not because something is “wrong,” but because they’re exhausted from coping alone: overthinking, self-doubting, people-pleasing, or quietly struggling while appearing fine to everyone else. I provide a supportive space where you can slow down, feel heard, and explore your experiences at your own pace I work with clients from diverse backgrounds and experiences. If you’d like to explore whether working together feels right for you, you can arrange a free 15-minute introductory call or contact me via email or WhatsApp
01777 801678 View 01777 801678
Natalie West
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP Accred
1 Endorsed
Waitlist for new clients
Life constantly reminds us that we don't know what's coming; we are multifaceted, complex beings and we cannot always face the things we need to, on our own. We all have our individual histories, and sometimes we need to look at this to help with how we are dealing with the world today. It is my intention to help you find the best way forward for you, using integrative therapeutic methods in a confidential, warm, non-judgemental, authentic, and safe space. If you are asking yourself questions such as why is this happening, how did I get here, why me, what do I do now?, then please reach out to someone who might be able to help.
Life constantly reminds us that we don't know what's coming; we are multifaceted, complex beings and we cannot always face the things we need to, on our own. We all have our individual histories, and sometimes we need to look at this to help with how we are dealing with the world today. It is my intention to help you find the best way forward for you, using integrative therapeutic methods in a confidential, warm, non-judgemental, authentic, and safe space. If you are asking yourself questions such as why is this happening, how did I get here, why me, what do I do now?, then please reach out to someone who might be able to help.
07853 389122 View 07853 389122
Preya Samrai
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Hello, I’m Preya, and I’m here to support you on your therapeutic journey. Whether you are new to therapy or continuing your journey, I will work alongside you with compassion and respect for your unique story. Together, we will create a safe, supportive space where you can share your feelings openly, explore difficult experiences, and begin to understand why certain patterns keep repeating in your life. I believe you are the expert of your own life, and together we can build resilience, navigate challenges, and move towards the personal growth and change you seek.
Hello, I’m Preya, and I’m here to support you on your therapeutic journey. Whether you are new to therapy or continuing your journey, I will work alongside you with compassion and respect for your unique story. Together, we will create a safe, supportive space where you can share your feelings openly, explore difficult experiences, and begin to understand why certain patterns keep repeating in your life. I believe you are the expert of your own life, and together we can build resilience, navigate challenges, and move towards the personal growth and change you seek.
0115 647 8656 View 0115 647 8656
John James Nicol
Counsellor, MBACP
Working from private rooms in the Beeston / Chilwell NG9 area of Nottingham. Working with you on strategies to help you understand and manage the conditions impacting your life, whilst exploring the causes and together, finding solutions. I offer counselling to adults and adolescents ( 18 or over ) I also welcome students studying Counselling . I am listed on the University of Nottingham approved Counsellors for staff and students. I work online with international clients , the sessions are carried out under UK law and ethical framework regardless of the clients location.
Working from private rooms in the Beeston / Chilwell NG9 area of Nottingham. Working with you on strategies to help you understand and manage the conditions impacting your life, whilst exploring the causes and together, finding solutions. I offer counselling to adults and adolescents ( 18 or over ) I also welcome students studying Counselling . I am listed on the University of Nottingham approved Counsellors for staff and students. I work online with international clients , the sessions are carried out under UK law and ethical framework regardless of the clients location.
0115 697 1223 View 0115 697 1223

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Emotionally Focused Counsellors
Who is emotionally focused therapy for?
Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.

Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?
People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.

What happens in emotionally focused therapy?
Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.

What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?
EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.