Polyamory and ENM Counselling in Luton

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Rafal Jan Komorowski
Psychologist, MSc, GMBPsS
Online Only
I am a Psychologist specializing in Clinical Psychology. I graduated Master of Sciences (MSC), (mgr) from the Institute of Psychology at the Adam Mickiewicz University in Poznań. I also completed a psychotherapy course at PCI College in Dublin. I am a certified CBT Psychotherapist with a Professional Certificate CBT Therapy. I also completed a professional course in Neurolinguistic Therapy at the Institute of Neurolinguistics in Warsaw. I participated in many additional courses and workshops to improve my interests and professional qualifications. I am currently in the HCPC registration process. I am member of The BPS and The PTP.
I am a Psychologist specializing in Clinical Psychology. I graduated Master of Sciences (MSC), (mgr) from the Institute of Psychology at the Adam Mickiewicz University in Poznań. I also completed a psychotherapy course at PCI College in Dublin. I am a certified CBT Psychotherapist with a Professional Certificate CBT Therapy. I also completed a professional course in Neurolinguistic Therapy at the Institute of Neurolinguistics in Warsaw. I participated in many additional courses and workshops to improve my interests and professional qualifications. I am currently in the HCPC registration process. I am member of The BPS and The PTP.
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Lyn O'Callaghan
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Luton LU3
As an Integrative Counsellor, I tailor therapy to each client, as well as talking therapy, I draw from a diverse toolbox of techniques, such as CBT, EMDR and hypnosis. Having completed training specific to trauma and trauma-informed approaches, I am confident in my skills to scaffold clients while they learn ways to overcome obstacles, develop coping skills, and enhance their overall well-being. Through collaboration with my clients, they are able to explore concerns, build resilience and cultivate positive lasting change.
As an Integrative Counsellor, I tailor therapy to each client, as well as talking therapy, I draw from a diverse toolbox of techniques, such as CBT, EMDR and hypnosis. Having completed training specific to trauma and trauma-informed approaches, I am confident in my skills to scaffold clients while they learn ways to overcome obstacles, develop coping skills, and enhance their overall well-being. Through collaboration with my clients, they are able to explore concerns, build resilience and cultivate positive lasting change.
01582 297259 View 01582 297259
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Imran Khan
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Luton LU3
I offer you my heartfelt presence, warmth, and a judgement-free space for self exploration, healing, and growth. I am a psychotherapist who draws on different methods suitable for a range of psychological distresses. I have previously worked in the NHS, and have specific training using ACT. Grounded in the belief that we are mind, body, heart and soul, I support you in living true to your values, even through life’s challenges; exploring the roots of emotional distress in your relationships and experiences (past and present). Through my guided study of Islamic spirituality, I can bring holistic support through mercy and wisdom.
I offer you my heartfelt presence, warmth, and a judgement-free space for self exploration, healing, and growth. I am a psychotherapist who draws on different methods suitable for a range of psychological distresses. I have previously worked in the NHS, and have specific training using ACT. Grounded in the belief that we are mind, body, heart and soul, I support you in living true to your values, even through life’s challenges; exploring the roots of emotional distress in your relationships and experiences (past and present). Through my guided study of Islamic spirituality, I can bring holistic support through mercy and wisdom.
07344 140903 View 07344 140903
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Chiltern Talking Therapies / Chiltern ADHD Clinic
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBABCP
Serves Area
Hi, I'm Jennie! I'm a CBT/EMDR Therapist and owner of Chiltern TT/ADHD Clinic. My Associates and I offer face to face or virtual CBT, EMDR, Counselling, Schema, Coaching and Art Therapy sessions and ADHD Assessments. We can support adults and young people with a wide range of difficulties. We are non-judgemental and have a wealth of experience between us, from working with addictions, offenders, children, clients with brain injuries and couples. I pride our team on being non-judgemental and accepting of individuals from a wide range of backgrounds. We all hold DBS checks and indemnity insurance, which you can view at any time.
Hi, I'm Jennie! I'm a CBT/EMDR Therapist and owner of Chiltern TT/ADHD Clinic. My Associates and I offer face to face or virtual CBT, EMDR, Counselling, Schema, Coaching and Art Therapy sessions and ADHD Assessments. We can support adults and young people with a wide range of difficulties. We are non-judgemental and have a wealth of experience between us, from working with addictions, offenders, children, clients with brain injuries and couples. I pride our team on being non-judgemental and accepting of individuals from a wide range of backgrounds. We all hold DBS checks and indemnity insurance, which you can view at any time.
01442 971728 View 01442 971728
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Ina Spellings
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Online Only
I am a Clinical Trauma Therapist specialising in helping adult survivors of childhood abuse. As a Certified Clinical Anxiety Specialist and Integrative Therapeutic Counsellor, I offer support through a blend of neuroscience, grounding techniques, and psychoeducation. Additionally, I work with individuals diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder, utilising Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) techniques. My approach is holistic and empathetic, dedicated to fostering healing and resilience in a safe and supportive environment. I work bilingually in English and Romanian.
I am a Clinical Trauma Therapist specialising in helping adult survivors of childhood abuse. As a Certified Clinical Anxiety Specialist and Integrative Therapeutic Counsellor, I offer support through a blend of neuroscience, grounding techniques, and psychoeducation. Additionally, I work with individuals diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder, utilising Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) techniques. My approach is holistic and empathetic, dedicated to fostering healing and resilience in a safe and supportive environment. I work bilingually in English and Romanian.
020 4538 0219 View 020 4538 0219
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Carrie Pollard
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Serves Area
Hello and welcome. I'm Carrie. I wonder why now feels the right time for you to start your therapy? Does life feel heavy? Or relationships feel difficult? Perhaps you are finding you are experiencing anxiety in your day to day life. Or experiences from your past feel so difficult. Whatever has prompted you to make your way here today, rest assured I provide a non judgemental, confidential and safe space to explore emotions, relationships and life experiences. We can think about your past and present, creating a feeling of safety and processing the pain.
Hello and welcome. I'm Carrie. I wonder why now feels the right time for you to start your therapy? Does life feel heavy? Or relationships feel difficult? Perhaps you are finding you are experiencing anxiety in your day to day life. Or experiences from your past feel so difficult. Whatever has prompted you to make your way here today, rest assured I provide a non judgemental, confidential and safe space to explore emotions, relationships and life experiences. We can think about your past and present, creating a feeling of safety and processing the pain.
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Oliver John Whitefield
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Serves Area
Sometimes life’s challenges can feel like too much to handle alone. At those times it can help to have someone professional to talk to in confidence - I offer an understanding, supportive space in which we can work through lifes challenges together. My approach to psychotherapy is both affirming and challenging; supporting you to feel valued and heard whilst enabling you to move past avoidance and fear. I can help you explore elements of your life that are unsatisfactory and work towards making changes and choices that are more true to who you are now.
Sometimes life’s challenges can feel like too much to handle alone. At those times it can help to have someone professional to talk to in confidence - I offer an understanding, supportive space in which we can work through lifes challenges together. My approach to psychotherapy is both affirming and challenging; supporting you to feel valued and heard whilst enabling you to move past avoidance and fear. I can help you explore elements of your life that are unsatisfactory and work towards making changes and choices that are more true to who you are now.
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More Therapists Nearby

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Naomi Segal
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
London W1W
Online Couples Therapy, Marriage Counselling & Relationship Therapy - Are you searching for online relationship therapy because communication keeps breaking down? Trying to recover from an affair or betrayal and unsure whether trust can be rebuilt? Struggling with sexual difficulties that are creating distance or resentment? When arguments repeat, intimacy fades, or trust is damaged, it can feel exhausting and uncertain. You may be wondering, “Can we fix this?” or “Are we going to make it?”
Online Couples Therapy, Marriage Counselling & Relationship Therapy - Are you searching for online relationship therapy because communication keeps breaking down? Trying to recover from an affair or betrayal and unsure whether trust can be rebuilt? Struggling with sexual difficulties that are creating distance or resentment? When arguments repeat, intimacy fades, or trust is damaged, it can feel exhausting and uncertain. You may be wondering, “Can we fix this?” or “Are we going to make it?”
020 3984 9676 View 020 3984 9676
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Laura Jayne Nice
Counsellor, MBACP
2 Endorsed
London W5
Hi I'm Laura. I have experience working with clients from gender, sexual & relationship diverse backgrounds. I'm sex positive, sex worker allied and have experience of kink dynamics. Importantly I wont assume anything about you or your experiences, I listen to You as we work together to uncover patterns, develop insights, and build strategies for healing & growth.
Hi I'm Laura. I have experience working with clients from gender, sexual & relationship diverse backgrounds. I'm sex positive, sex worker allied and have experience of kink dynamics. Importantly I wont assume anything about you or your experiences, I listen to You as we work together to uncover patterns, develop insights, and build strategies for healing & growth.
020 3828 7396 View 020 3828 7396
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Rebecca Goldie
Psychotherapist, MSc, BACP
London N13
I would like to help you. As a bisexual woman, I know the challenges of navigating identity and sexuality. That is why I approach every story with an open mind and empathic curiosity. I will engage you from a non-pathologizing, sex-positive, gender-affirming stance, so that you may embrace every part of yourself. I provide individual and couples therapy, as well as sessions for those in alternative relationships. Together we can navigate our way through your relationship and personal challenges, overcome cultural limitations that seek to restrict us, and ultimately find inner joy during times when it appears out of reach.
I would like to help you. As a bisexual woman, I know the challenges of navigating identity and sexuality. That is why I approach every story with an open mind and empathic curiosity. I will engage you from a non-pathologizing, sex-positive, gender-affirming stance, so that you may embrace every part of yourself. I provide individual and couples therapy, as well as sessions for those in alternative relationships. Together we can navigate our way through your relationship and personal challenges, overcome cultural limitations that seek to restrict us, and ultimately find inner joy during times when it appears out of reach.
020 8016 3381 View 020 8016 3381
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Late-Diagnosed ADHD & Autism | LGBTQ+ Inclusive
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
4 Endorsed
Online Only
Have you been diagnosed with ADHD or autism as an adult and found that, instead of clarity, it has brought confusion, grief, or shame? Many of the people I work with are in their 30s and beyond, navigating the impact of late diagnosis on identity, self-worth, and relationships.
Have you been diagnosed with ADHD or autism as an adult and found that, instead of clarity, it has brought confusion, grief, or shame? Many of the people I work with are in their 30s and beyond, navigating the impact of late diagnosis on identity, self-worth, and relationships.
020 3823 6649 View 020 3823 6649
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Tabitha Bast: Relationship and Sex Therapy
Counsellor, MSc, COSRT General
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I work with monogamous as well as open/ polyamorous relationships.
Focusing on your goals and using a collaborative approach we will identify what your blocks are to happier relationships and satisfying sex, making changes in the here and now to thoughts, behaviours and patterns. Through agreed tasks outside of therapy, and safe space within therapy we will explore your past and your now to get to the future you desire.
I work with monogamous as well as open/ polyamorous relationships.
Focusing on your goals and using a collaborative approach we will identify what your blocks are to happier relationships and satisfying sex, making changes in the here and now to thoughts, behaviours and patterns. Through agreed tasks outside of therapy, and safe space within therapy we will explore your past and your now to get to the future you desire.
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Irina Aron
Psychotherapist, PhD, MBACP
1 Endorsed
London W1W
My clients are typically people with intercultural background - individuals, couples or groups. They might be facing challenges related to significant change – moving between different countries/cultures, change in their relationship status or professional roles. They might be going through challenging times in life and facing difficult choices: infidelity, separation, opening their relationship, empty nest syndrome. We work in their first or second language - English, Russian or Bulgarian. And even if I don’t speak your native tongue, as someone who is multilingual, I understand the challenges and gifts that come with bilingualism.
My clients are typically people with intercultural background - individuals, couples or groups. They might be facing challenges related to significant change – moving between different countries/cultures, change in their relationship status or professional roles. They might be going through challenging times in life and facing difficult choices: infidelity, separation, opening their relationship, empty nest syndrome. We work in their first or second language - English, Russian or Bulgarian. And even if I don’t speak your native tongue, as someone who is multilingual, I understand the challenges and gifts that come with bilingualism.
01748 901751 View 01748 901751
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Ansell Cizic
Counsellor, MBACP
London NW3
From a humanistic perspective and specifically a person centred frame of reference, our work will always be steered by you. Whether it be a lack of confidence or repetitive behaviours that have undermined your path and progression, whether you are experiencing a bereavement or other form of life transition, whether you are struggling with neurodiversity, sexual identity, or power dynamics, or whether you have simply not been seen or heard and have reached the point where you would like to see change, then I am here to actively listen, without judgement.
From a humanistic perspective and specifically a person centred frame of reference, our work will always be steered by you. Whether it be a lack of confidence or repetitive behaviours that have undermined your path and progression, whether you are experiencing a bereavement or other form of life transition, whether you are struggling with neurodiversity, sexual identity, or power dynamics, or whether you have simply not been seen or heard and have reached the point where you would like to see change, then I am here to actively listen, without judgement.
020 3835 3629 View 020 3835 3629
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Ro Brown
Counsellor, MBACP
Online Only
Perhaps you're exploring ethical non-monogamy (ENM), polyamory, or questioning monogamy, and want relationships that feel honest and sustainable.
I offer queer-affirming, sex-positive & kink-aware therapy online across the UK, with particular experience in ENM / polyamory. My approach is integrative and depth-oriented: we explore present-day challenges alongside attachment patterns and early relational experiences, working collaboratively toward lasting change alongside day-to-day challenges.
Perhaps you're exploring ethical non-monogamy (ENM), polyamory, or questioning monogamy, and want relationships that feel honest and sustainable.
I offer queer-affirming, sex-positive & kink-aware therapy online across the UK, with particular experience in ENM / polyamory. My approach is integrative and depth-oriented: we explore present-day challenges alongside attachment patterns and early relational experiences, working collaboratively toward lasting change alongside day-to-day challenges.
01273 110523 View 01273 110523
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Gianluca Failla
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
London NW6
A warm, culturally aware therapist supporting anxiety, neurodiversity, relationships and intimacy. You may be living with anxiety, panic, or a constant sense of being on edge. You might be autistic or neurodivergent and feel misunderstood in relationships, work, or intimacy. Perhaps you’re struggling with sexual concerns, shame, or feeling disconnected from your partner, especially within a cross-cultural relationship. You want a space where you don’t have to explain yourself or fit in. Your hope is to feel calmer, more confident, and able to build relationships that feel safe, authentic, and fulfilling.
A warm, culturally aware therapist supporting anxiety, neurodiversity, relationships and intimacy. You may be living with anxiety, panic, or a constant sense of being on edge. You might be autistic or neurodivergent and feel misunderstood in relationships, work, or intimacy. Perhaps you’re struggling with sexual concerns, shame, or feeling disconnected from your partner, especially within a cross-cultural relationship. You want a space where you don’t have to explain yourself or fit in. Your hope is to feel calmer, more confident, and able to build relationships that feel safe, authentic, and fulfilling.
020 4634 8128 View 020 4634 8128
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Bjorn Ventris
Psychotherapist, COSRT General
1 Endorsed
London N16
Hello, my name is Bjorn Ventris (he/him). I am a relationship and sex therapist based in Hackney. I work with individuals, couples & polycules from all backgrounds and orientations to help them improve their relationships and sex lives. Some issues I help clients with include: open relationships & consensual non-monogamy, mismatched desire, improving communication, conflict, long term commitment, infidelity and rebuilding trust, improving intimacy, relationship endings & separation, step families, erectile dysfunction, rapid or retarded ejaculation, vaginismus, sexual trauma, compulsive sexual behaviour and problematic porn use.
Hello, my name is Bjorn Ventris (he/him). I am a relationship and sex therapist based in Hackney. I work with individuals, couples & polycules from all backgrounds and orientations to help them improve their relationships and sex lives. Some issues I help clients with include: open relationships & consensual non-monogamy, mismatched desire, improving communication, conflict, long term commitment, infidelity and rebuilding trust, improving intimacy, relationship endings & separation, step families, erectile dysfunction, rapid or retarded ejaculation, vaginismus, sexual trauma, compulsive sexual behaviour and problematic porn use.
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Clara Peiro-Timoner
Psychotherapist, MA, MNCPS Acc.
Online Only
Being neurodivergent myself, I've been drawn to work with autism, ADHD and other neurotypes, as well as the gender, sexuality, kink, and relationship diversity ( polyamory/non-monogamy) community, including sex workers.
I believe that every person has the inner wisdom and potential to create a fulfilling life for themselves. However, at some point, most of us will find that we need external perspective and a space to explore issues that might make us feel stuck or hopeless. To me, counselling is a collaborative and creative relational process, and my role within it is to help people find their own personal power and joy, no matter their circumstances. I'm an energetic practitioner who will laugh and get excited with you, but also respect your rhythm and create space for grief, pain and stuckness, for as long as it's needed.
Being neurodivergent myself, I've been drawn to work with autism, ADHD and other neurotypes, as well as the gender, sexuality, kink, and relationship diversity ( polyamory/non-monogamy) community, including sex workers.
I believe that every person has the inner wisdom and potential to create a fulfilling life for themselves. However, at some point, most of us will find that we need external perspective and a space to explore issues that might make us feel stuck or hopeless. To me, counselling is a collaborative and creative relational process, and my role within it is to help people find their own personal power and joy, no matter their circumstances. I'm an energetic practitioner who will laugh and get excited with you, but also respect your rhythm and create space for grief, pain and stuckness, for as long as it's needed.
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Kostana Banjac
Counsellor, COSRT Accred
London NW1
I work pluralistically from a contemporary biopsychosocial framework that incorporates all aspects of self and I believe that you have many of the answers you are seeking within yourself. My objective is to build a safe and holding space for a trusting relationship where you can explore and share your thoughts, feelings, behaviours, and problems/difficulties. Clients often seek therapy because of symptoms affecting their everyday life. However, they are often unaware of the root cause of their self-sabotaging behaviours, relationship issues, and emotional numbness. I also provide a more focused work as a single-session therapy (SST)
I work pluralistically from a contemporary biopsychosocial framework that incorporates all aspects of self and I believe that you have many of the answers you are seeking within yourself. My objective is to build a safe and holding space for a trusting relationship where you can explore and share your thoughts, feelings, behaviours, and problems/difficulties. Clients often seek therapy because of symptoms affecting their everyday life. However, they are often unaware of the root cause of their self-sabotaging behaviours, relationship issues, and emotional numbness. I also provide a more focused work as a single-session therapy (SST)
020 3835 5391 View 020 3835 5391
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TalkItOut Therapy
Counsellor, MBACP
3 Endorsed
London W1U
Counselling can help you move forward when anxiety, stress, depression, trauma or relationship difficulties begin to feel overwhelming. As an experienced integrative counsellor, I tailor therapy to your individual needs, offering a professional and supportive space where you can feel heard, understood and respected. Whether you are seeking individual or couples therapy, our work together can help you gain clarity, build resilience and improve your overall mental health & wellbeing. Experienced in supporting men’s mental health, providing a professional space to talk openly, build insight & move forward with greater confidence.
Counselling can help you move forward when anxiety, stress, depression, trauma or relationship difficulties begin to feel overwhelming. As an experienced integrative counsellor, I tailor therapy to your individual needs, offering a professional and supportive space where you can feel heard, understood and respected. Whether you are seeking individual or couples therapy, our work together can help you gain clarity, build resilience and improve your overall mental health & wellbeing. Experienced in supporting men’s mental health, providing a professional space to talk openly, build insight & move forward with greater confidence.
01202 125933 View 01202 125933
Open Relationships Non-Monogamy Counsellors
Why might an individual want to see a therapist specialising in open relationships and consensual non-monogamy?
A client seeking help with an open or consensually non-monogamous relationship will prefer to talk with a professional whom they can count on to be nonjudgmental. Talking with a supportive therapist may on its own help relieve some of the stigma and challenges partners face. That said, the most important factor in the success of any type of therapy is the ability of the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond. For this reason, an individual or couple could find success with a therapist who does not specialise in non-monogamous relationships but with whom they can build trust.

When should open or consensually non-monogamous partners seek counselling?
Like other couples, polyamorous partners typically seek counseling when they face relationship challenges they can’t solve themselves. In non-monogamous relationships, this could include breaches of trust, including infidelity; unclear rules or violations of boundaries; jealousy of outside partners; the stress of juggling the needs of multiple partners; or the effect of high partner turnover on children. Like those of other couples, polyamorous bonds can be threatened by increasingly frequent arguments, poor or dysfunctional communication, diminished emotional or physical intimacy, or the feeling that something is wrong, even if they don’t know what it is.

Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in open relationships and consensual non-monogamy?
No, but individuals seeking help with non-monogamous relationships would most likely consult a licensed professional with specific training in couples counseling or couples therapy. Couples counselling and couples therapy both involve teaching concrete strategies to navigate conflict in relationships. A good therapist can engage both partners as they explain these approaches but can also work with a single partner.

How long does therapy for consensually non-monogamous couples typically last?
Couples therapy for any type of couple, tends to be relatively time-limited, lasting around 12 weeks on average. A good therapist will tailor sessions to the individual partners’ emotions and sometimes their past, along with patterns found to be repeating in the relationship. In many cases, clients should expect their therapist to assign “homework” between weekly sessions.