Narcissistic Personality (NPD) Counselling in London

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Zehavit Milo
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I also have experience with helping those recovering from toxic and or narcissistic abuse in parental/romantic relationships.
I draw on a range of approaches including Humanistic, Psychodynamic, Attachment theory and CBT. I offer a bespoke service, tailored to meet the client’s individual needs. I will work in a way that follows the client’s pace but also allows for challenge and creativity.
I also have experience with helping those recovering from toxic and or narcissistic abuse in parental/romantic relationships.
I draw on a range of approaches including Humanistic, Psychodynamic, Attachment theory and CBT. I offer a bespoke service, tailored to meet the client’s individual needs. I will work in a way that follows the client’s pace but also allows for challenge and creativity.
020 8175 1589 View 020 8175 1589
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Forest Therapy Wellness Centre
Psychotherapist, DCounsPsych, MBACP Snr. Accred
1 Endorsed
London E18
I specialise in treating anxiety, panic attacks, neurodivergencies (ASD, ADHD), personality disorders ( NPD, BPD), and childhood trauma.
Are you struggling with anxiety, panic attacks? Alternatively are you feeling overwhelmed by neurodivergent traits such as ASD or ADHD? Perhaps you're dealing with relationship challenges, anger management, or childhood trauma. You might feel misunderstood or trapped in patterns of self-doubt or emotional pain. Your goal is to break free from these struggles, find clarity, and regain control of your life. You're seeking support, understanding, and tools to help you create lasting change and emotional freedom. I believe my 30 years of experience will enable me or one of my trusted colleagues to be able to help you.
I specialise in treating anxiety, panic attacks, neurodivergencies (ASD, ADHD), personality disorders ( NPD, BPD), and childhood trauma.
Are you struggling with anxiety, panic attacks? Alternatively are you feeling overwhelmed by neurodivergent traits such as ASD or ADHD? Perhaps you're dealing with relationship challenges, anger management, or childhood trauma. You might feel misunderstood or trapped in patterns of self-doubt or emotional pain. Your goal is to break free from these struggles, find clarity, and regain control of your life. You're seeking support, understanding, and tools to help you create lasting change and emotional freedom. I believe my 30 years of experience will enable me or one of my trusted colleagues to be able to help you.
020 3917 4054 View 020 3917 4054
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Valdete Kapedani
Psychotherapist, MBACP
London NW3
I work with:Couples & Individuals who present with: Narcissistic Personality, Borderline Personality, Bipolar, Trauma, PTSD, ADHD, Impulsivity, Infidelity, Marital Conflict, Divorce, Addictions in a caring, confidential & non-judgmental space.
Using Psychodynamic and CBT approach. In our therapeutic work together I will help you explore & navigate your emotional difficulties, relationship challenges, your past & present unconscious rooted patterns. This will help you develop self-awareness, personal growth, and you will build healthier ways of relating to yourself and others.
I work with:Couples & Individuals who present with: Narcissistic Personality, Borderline Personality, Bipolar, Trauma, PTSD, ADHD, Impulsivity, Infidelity, Marital Conflict, Divorce, Addictions in a caring, confidential & non-judgmental space.
Using Psychodynamic and CBT approach. In our therapeutic work together I will help you explore & navigate your emotional difficulties, relationship challenges, your past & present unconscious rooted patterns. This will help you develop self-awareness, personal growth, and you will build healthier ways of relating to yourself and others.
020 3856 4178 View 020 3856 4178
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Mark Pharoah
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP
London SE9
Your issues might have been triggered by recent events or could stretch far back to past abuse or narcissistic control.
As a face-to-face & online integrative counsellor and psychotherapist I provide therapy for a range of issues, big and small, over the short (6-12 sessions), medium (18-24 sessions) and long term (1+ years). I call on a variety of approaches which include the person-centred, existential, cognitive, psychodynamic, and relational.
Your issues might have been triggered by recent events or could stretch far back to past abuse or narcissistic control.
As a face-to-face & online integrative counsellor and psychotherapist I provide therapy for a range of issues, big and small, over the short (6-12 sessions), medium (18-24 sessions) and long term (1+ years). I call on a variety of approaches which include the person-centred, existential, cognitive, psychodynamic, and relational.
020 3004 1059 View 020 3004 1059
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Laura Hart
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
London SE19
It's important to get the right support when life isn't going so well... I qualified as a counsellor and psychotherapist in 2009. I enjoy working in an integrative and collaborative way which allows me to tailor my approach to my clients needs. I believe that the most healing factor in therapy is the therapeutic relationship. I provide a safe, supportive and non-judgemental space to facilitate exploration and/or change. My sessions will help you to recognise your patterns, help you to heal from the past and empower you to create a happier and healthier self.
It's important to get the right support when life isn't going so well... I qualified as a counsellor and psychotherapist in 2009. I enjoy working in an integrative and collaborative way which allows me to tailor my approach to my clients needs. I believe that the most healing factor in therapy is the therapeutic relationship. I provide a safe, supportive and non-judgemental space to facilitate exploration and/or change. My sessions will help you to recognise your patterns, help you to heal from the past and empower you to create a happier and healthier self.
020 3984 7550 View 020 3984 7550
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Rivka Mennesson
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
London NW8
I also work with victims of Narcissistic abuse, Bereavement, Anxiety and Depression and fear of Abandonment
My approach to therapy is based on psychoanalysis as much as on Attachment and Person centered theories of the mind. I borrow techniques from EFF therapy for the here and now and work with my intuition and countertransference feelings towards the client. Childhood experiences might of might not come into the work based on its necessity.
I also work with victims of Narcissistic abuse, Bereavement, Anxiety and Depression and fear of Abandonment
My approach to therapy is based on psychoanalysis as much as on Attachment and Person centered theories of the mind. I borrow techniques from EFF therapy for the here and now and work with my intuition and countertransference feelings towards the client. Childhood experiences might of might not come into the work based on its necessity.
020 3962 0581 View 020 3962 0581
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Muby Oztabay
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
1 Endorsed
London NW3
I have a clinical interest in Boarding School Survivors (Also known as Privileged Abandonment) and Adult Children of Narcissistic Parents.
I have 20 years of experience as an Integrative counsellor/psychotherapist. Throughout my career, I have provided over 8500 hours of psychotherapy sessions, working with Children, Adolescents and Adults in Higher Education, the Third Sector/NGOs, and Tier 3 services across the United Kingdom.
I have a clinical interest in Boarding School Survivors (Also known as Privileged Abandonment) and Adult Children of Narcissistic Parents.
I have 20 years of experience as an Integrative counsellor/psychotherapist. Throughout my career, I have provided over 8500 hours of psychotherapy sessions, working with Children, Adolescents and Adults in Higher Education, the Third Sector/NGOs, and Tier 3 services across the United Kingdom.
0161 524 3931 View 0161 524 3931
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Christian Counselling Online
Counsellor, ACC Reg
Online Only
I offer counselling mainly to those who suffer from depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, family issues, mental, physical, emotional, spiritual or sexual abuse including trauma. My goal is to help the individual to find their own solutions to their problems through active listening, help the person to see the situation more clearly and objectively and enable the client to take responsibility for their own lives and make their own decisions. I have a passion for helping marriages in crisis and have a heart for victims of all sorts of abuse, mainly emotional, sexual and spiritual. I also counsel in French.
I offer counselling mainly to those who suffer from depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, family issues, mental, physical, emotional, spiritual or sexual abuse including trauma. My goal is to help the individual to find their own solutions to their problems through active listening, help the person to see the situation more clearly and objectively and enable the client to take responsibility for their own lives and make their own decisions. I have a passion for helping marriages in crisis and have a heart for victims of all sorts of abuse, mainly emotional, sexual and spiritual. I also counsel in French.
020 4538 9427 View 020 4538 9427
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Jessica Tortosa Encinas
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Online Only
Don’t let trauma drive your relationships in life, they will take you down a beaten track, instead become a conscious driver and set your destination to healthy and happy relationships where you can be your true self and grow. When thinking about relationships, most people seem to overlook the fact that our traumas inform how we relate to other people, this means that any trauma that hasn’t been processed and healed, will be determining what kind of person comes into your life, which ones stay and which ones leave.  At a practical level these traumas show up in day-to-day interactions with others in countless & often subtle ways:
Don’t let trauma drive your relationships in life, they will take you down a beaten track, instead become a conscious driver and set your destination to healthy and happy relationships where you can be your true self and grow. When thinking about relationships, most people seem to overlook the fact that our traumas inform how we relate to other people, this means that any trauma that hasn’t been processed and healed, will be determining what kind of person comes into your life, which ones stay and which ones leave.  At a practical level these traumas show up in day-to-day interactions with others in countless & often subtle ways:
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Ruth Ann Harpur
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Online Only
The focus in my private practice is on difficult relationships be that in the workplace, with friends or romantic relationships. I work with individuals and couples who are in or have been in relationships where there is control, excessive criticism, contempt or betrayal. I work with people who have tended to be more harmed by and those who have caused harm in their relationships. I help people develop a sense of compassion for themselves, building a sense of strength to advocate for their own needs in a constructive way so as to develop genuine, lasting intimacy with others.
The focus in my private practice is on difficult relationships be that in the workplace, with friends or romantic relationships. I work with individuals and couples who are in or have been in relationships where there is control, excessive criticism, contempt or betrayal. I work with people who have tended to be more harmed by and those who have caused harm in their relationships. I help people develop a sense of compassion for themselves, building a sense of strength to advocate for their own needs in a constructive way so as to develop genuine, lasting intimacy with others.
01798 305150 View 01798 305150
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Viviana Meloni
Psychologist, MA, CPsychol
London SW5
I am a multilingual Chartered Principal Psychologist (English, Italian and Spanish speaking) recognised by the professional bodies Health and Care Professions Council and British Psychology Society, currently offering both online therapy (which consistently shows itself to be as effective as traditional therapy) and face to face therapy at Kensington, Wimbledon, Chiswick and West Hampstead. I work both for the NHS and as a Director of my own psychology company. With over 15 years’ experience, I provide a range of evidence based psychological therapies in line with NICE guidelines guarantying a confidential and non-judgmental space.
I am a multilingual Chartered Principal Psychologist (English, Italian and Spanish speaking) recognised by the professional bodies Health and Care Professions Council and British Psychology Society, currently offering both online therapy (which consistently shows itself to be as effective as traditional therapy) and face to face therapy at Kensington, Wimbledon, Chiswick and West Hampstead. I work both for the NHS and as a Director of my own psychology company. With over 15 years’ experience, I provide a range of evidence based psychological therapies in line with NICE guidelines guarantying a confidential and non-judgmental space.
07901 163611 View 07901 163611
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Ryszard Salmanowicz
Psychologist, MSc, GMBPsS
London W1W
I welcome all survivors of violence and abuse, but especially those historically silenced or pathologised: people diagnosed with what psychiatry calls personality disorders (especially BPD), survivors of colonial violence, and those dismissed as “insane” or materialistically reduced into being owners of a "faulty" brain or genes. My work bridges three domains: psychology, life sciences, and post-colonial criticism of abusive power structures - be it at home, at work, or in the nation, and in this sense isn't therapy, but psychological formulation towards autonomy and self-authority.
I welcome all survivors of violence and abuse, but especially those historically silenced or pathologised: people diagnosed with what psychiatry calls personality disorders (especially BPD), survivors of colonial violence, and those dismissed as “insane” or materialistically reduced into being owners of a "faulty" brain or genes. My work bridges three domains: psychology, life sciences, and post-colonial criticism of abusive power structures - be it at home, at work, or in the nation, and in this sense isn't therapy, but psychological formulation towards autonomy and self-authority.
020 3949 8404 View 020 3949 8404
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Jake Freedman
Psychotherapist, MSc, BPC
London W1W
I have a particular clinical and theoretical interest in states of depersonalisation, derealisation, trauma-related dissociation, and narcissistic personality structures.
Psychodynamic psychotherapy involves helping you to identify and understand recurring themes and patterns in your relationships. Although certain ways of relating may have been conducive to your survival at one point, you may now be experiencing their cost. Psychotherapy aims to make these relational patterns conscious and thus more amenable to change.
I have a particular clinical and theoretical interest in states of depersonalisation, derealisation, trauma-related dissociation, and narcissistic personality structures.
Psychodynamic psychotherapy involves helping you to identify and understand recurring themes and patterns in your relationships. Although certain ways of relating may have been conducive to your survival at one point, you may now be experiencing their cost. Psychotherapy aims to make these relational patterns conscious and thus more amenable to change.
020 3597 6659 View 020 3597 6659
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Kirit Vadgama
Counsellor, MBACP
London SW2
Feeling anxious? Stuck? Struggling with loss? Having difficulties with a relationship? Wanting to move on but not sure where to turn? Counselling can provide relief, helping you to explore your feelings and make sense of the past and present to help you move forward. I have experience working with adults and teenagers facing a range of issues including stress, anxiety, depression, difficulties with relationships, family issues, sexual abuse, affairs and betrayals. Through a series of sessions we work together to make sense of your problems, and help you find some relief.
Feeling anxious? Stuck? Struggling with loss? Having difficulties with a relationship? Wanting to move on but not sure where to turn? Counselling can provide relief, helping you to explore your feelings and make sense of the past and present to help you move forward. I have experience working with adults and teenagers facing a range of issues including stress, anxiety, depression, difficulties with relationships, family issues, sexual abuse, affairs and betrayals. Through a series of sessions we work together to make sense of your problems, and help you find some relief.
020 3962 0878 View 020 3962 0878
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Su Grant - Forest Therapy Centre
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
London E18
Hi, I’m one of the most experienced counsellors in our area, having 30 years experience to date. Generally clients pay as they go. I also work privately through insurance company referrals such as AXA PPP/Bupa/Aviva Etc. Professional yet approachable and friendly practitioner. Proud to be known as challenging when circumstances require this! Many clients whom I have worked with said this was exactly what they needed from a counselling psychotherapist, especially if previous experience of practitioners whom have been overtly passive. Together we shall access an implement YOUR inner wisdom! FTC also have many alternatives for you!
Hi, I’m one of the most experienced counsellors in our area, having 30 years experience to date. Generally clients pay as they go. I also work privately through insurance company referrals such as AXA PPP/Bupa/Aviva Etc. Professional yet approachable and friendly practitioner. Proud to be known as challenging when circumstances require this! Many clients whom I have worked with said this was exactly what they needed from a counselling psychotherapist, especially if previous experience of practitioners whom have been overtly passive. Together we shall access an implement YOUR inner wisdom! FTC also have many alternatives for you!
020 3856 7847 View 020 3856 7847
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Pat Reynolds
Counsellor, MBACP
2 Endorsed
Online Only
Training includes working with narcissistic abuse, complex trauma, internal family systems, race, sexuality & gender identities.
What if life could be different and you were no longer stuck in unhelpful patterns of thinking, feeling and behaving? What if issues such as trauma, abuse, neglect, depression, anxiety and stress no longer hindered your growth and healing? What if you could acknowledge the hurts of past experiences and find ways of letting them go? What kind of life could you choose to live instead? Could you dare to dream of a different way of being and reach for what currently feels impossible? By seeking help at this time, you have an awareness that there is more to life. If you are ready to embrace a different future, I am available Mon-Wed.
Training includes working with narcissistic abuse, complex trauma, internal family systems, race, sexuality & gender identities.
What if life could be different and you were no longer stuck in unhelpful patterns of thinking, feeling and behaving? What if issues such as trauma, abuse, neglect, depression, anxiety and stress no longer hindered your growth and healing? What if you could acknowledge the hurts of past experiences and find ways of letting them go? What kind of life could you choose to live instead? Could you dare to dream of a different way of being and reach for what currently feels impossible? By seeking help at this time, you have an awareness that there is more to life. If you are ready to embrace a different future, I am available Mon-Wed.
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Ruth Lewis Clarke
Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
London SW19
Hello! I am a qualified and accredited psychotherapist, working from a lovely studio in Wimbledon Village. I work with clients facing a range of difficult issues in their lives. This can be long or short-term work. I accompany my clients along their the journey of deeper self-knowledge, understanding how adverse childhood circumstances left their mark. I help people to discover lost parts of themselves, so they can show up more fully in the world. This involves finding new qualities, taking back projections, reconciling opposites in the psyche and finding balance.
Hello! I am a qualified and accredited psychotherapist, working from a lovely studio in Wimbledon Village. I work with clients facing a range of difficult issues in their lives. This can be long or short-term work. I accompany my clients along their the journey of deeper self-knowledge, understanding how adverse childhood circumstances left their mark. I help people to discover lost parts of themselves, so they can show up more fully in the world. This involves finding new qualities, taking back projections, reconciling opposites in the psyche and finding balance.
020 8059 4336 View 020 8059 4336
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Dr April Haesler
Psychologist, DCounsPsych, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
London SW5
I am a qualified Counselling Psychologist with experience in private practice, specialist charities and the NHS. I am an integrative practitioner, which means I draw on different therapeutic models to tailor the therapy to you and your goals. Therapy should be a collaborative experience where we work together to enable you to become the person you want to be. I have experience working with a diverse range of presentations and difficulties, including trauma, anxiety, depression, narcissism, addiction, relationship difficulties, etc. I offer a safe and reflective space where you can explore your inner and external experiences.
I am a qualified Counselling Psychologist with experience in private practice, specialist charities and the NHS. I am an integrative practitioner, which means I draw on different therapeutic models to tailor the therapy to you and your goals. Therapy should be a collaborative experience where we work together to enable you to become the person you want to be. I have experience working with a diverse range of presentations and difficulties, including trauma, anxiety, depression, narcissism, addiction, relationship difficulties, etc. I offer a safe and reflective space where you can explore your inner and external experiences.
020 3667 9675 View 020 3667 9675
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Anastasiia Hunter Makarova
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
Online Only
I also work with those in relationships with people who have narcissistic traits, helping them manage relational stress and conflict.
I provide psychological interventions to adults dealing with a range of challenges, including anxiety, depression, self-esteem issues, complex trauma, work-related stress, and relationship difficulties. I tailor my approach to work effectively with diverse learning styles, attention levels, and processing differences.
I also work with those in relationships with people who have narcissistic traits, helping them manage relational stress and conflict.
I provide psychological interventions to adults dealing with a range of challenges, including anxiety, depression, self-esteem issues, complex trauma, work-related stress, and relationship difficulties. I tailor my approach to work effectively with diverse learning styles, attention levels, and processing differences.
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Lynn Hyde
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP
1 Endorsed
London WC1N
I have expertise in the field of Relationship Issues, Boarding School Syndrome, trust and affairs, Narcissistic Personality Disorder( NPD), Codependency, attachment styles, self esteem issues.
I have been counselling individuals and couples for over 18 years in Bristol, London and online. My passion lies in working with people to improve the quality of their life experience, helping people to relate better, gain confidence to have a more prosperous life, look at blocks in their lives which may be a result of unresolved childhood issues, resolving conflict in relationships, and recovery from traumatic relationships.
I have expertise in the field of Relationship Issues, Boarding School Syndrome, trust and affairs, Narcissistic Personality Disorder( NPD), Codependency, attachment styles, self esteem issues.
I have been counselling individuals and couples for over 18 years in Bristol, London and online. My passion lies in working with people to improve the quality of their life experience, helping people to relate better, gain confidence to have a more prosperous life, look at blocks in their lives which may be a result of unresolved childhood issues, resolving conflict in relationships, and recovery from traumatic relationships.
020 4538 3299 View 020 4538 3299

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Narcissistic Personality (NPD) Counsellors

What type of therapy is best for narcissistic personality disorder?

Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is best treated with talk therapy, which could involve cognitive behavioral therapy, dialectical behavior therapy, schema therapy, gestalt therapy, or similar approaches. A therapist will help a patient uncover the feelings that may drive their behavior and discover how to engage with themselves and those around them with greater empathy and understanding, fewer demands, and less defensiveness, with the goal of developing a more authentic sense of self that enables healthier relationships.

How do therapists treat NPD?

By developing a strong therapeutic relationship, and continually focusing patients on relationships, community, and connection, a therapist, through talk therapy, may be able to help someone with NPD change. In sessions, a therapist will help an individual achieve relief from their current stressors, including the treatment of co-occurring conditions such as anxiety or depression. A therapist may also help an individual to recognize unhealthy coping mechanisms, learn new ways of interacting with others, and eventually become able to feel and display empathy.

Can a narcissist be cured with therapy?

Therapy can be effective. After a serious setback or great loss, someone with NPD may be forced to recognize that they are not immune to life’s challenges. That can spur feelings of melancholy and depression that lead them to seek professional help. Once an individual decides to seek help, they have already taken a step that the majority of those with NPD never will. Still, people with NPD often quit therapy as they naturally resist feeling vulnerable, being challenged, or admitting to flaws.

How can you get narcissistic personality disorder treatment for someone?

It is notoriously difficult to convince someone with NPD to seek help. With their feelings of superiority, they may be unlikely to recognize or acknowledge that they have a problem, or that their problem is narcissism. Sometimes, they are aware that they are arrogant and that others resent them but they don’t see it as a problem because they are convinced of their superiority. People with NPD have trouble maintaining relationships, but family members and others who do feel close to them, and whose presence they value, may be able to encourage them to seek therapy.