Men's Issues Counselling in London
you have ended up here... so let me just say that whatever you are going through can be surmounted... whatever need, issue or goal you have, you have all the resources you need to reach there... and I am confident that I can collaborate with you and help you get to that 'place' on the other side whereas this need, issue or goal can either be gone, managed or achieved...
you have ended up here... so let me just say that whatever you are going through can be surmounted... whatever need, issue or goal you have, you have all the resources you need to reach there... and I am confident that I can collaborate with you and help you get to that 'place' on the other side whereas this need, issue or goal can either be gone, managed or achieved...
You appear steady. You get things done. People rely on you. Yet inside it may feel very different. You might feel tense, anxious, or overwhelmed, replaying conversations and questioning your choices. You tell yourself to keep going, but something deeper is asking to be heard, and you are unsure how to begin. I work with men who seem capable outwardly, yet feel stuck internally. I help you understand the patterns behind anxiety, overthinking, and relationship strain so life feels less pressured and more fulfilling.
You appear steady. You get things done. People rely on you. Yet inside it may feel very different. You might feel tense, anxious, or overwhelmed, replaying conversations and questioning your choices. You tell yourself to keep going, but something deeper is asking to be heard, and you are unsure how to begin. I work with men who seem capable outwardly, yet feel stuck internally. I help you understand the patterns behind anxiety, overthinking, and relationship strain so life feels less pressured and more fulfilling.
While I work effectively with individuals from all walks of life, I have found a particular calling in supporting males. I recognise that some men may find it challenging to access or express their emotions, and I take pride in creating a space where these feelings can be safely explored. To support this, I often use creative techniques in therapy, such as using art-based activities, which can help uncover and express emotions that may feel difficult to articulate in words.
While I work effectively with individuals from all walks of life, I have found a particular calling in supporting males. I recognise that some men may find it challenging to access or express their emotions, and I take pride in creating a space where these feelings can be safely explored. To support this, I often use creative techniques in therapy, such as using art-based activities, which can help uncover and express emotions that may feel difficult to articulate in words.
I’m a BACP registered integrative psychodynamic counsellor. I see clients as individuals with your own unique issues & life experiences, so draw on a wide range of humanistic, psychodynamic & CBT approaches to tailor therapy to your specific needs. I provide a safe, reliable & confidential space where we can develop a trusting relationship to help you feel supported in therapy & free to talk about the issues affecting your life without fear of judgement. Together we can explore the aspects of your life that are troubling you, helping you increase self-awareness & process difficult feelings in order to live in a more satisfying way.
I’m a BACP registered integrative psychodynamic counsellor. I see clients as individuals with your own unique issues & life experiences, so draw on a wide range of humanistic, psychodynamic & CBT approaches to tailor therapy to your specific needs. I provide a safe, reliable & confidential space where we can develop a trusting relationship to help you feel supported in therapy & free to talk about the issues affecting your life without fear of judgement. Together we can explore the aspects of your life that are troubling you, helping you increase self-awareness & process difficult feelings in order to live in a more satisfying way.
Is there something preventing you from doing what you want or from behaving in the way that you want? Taking the next step to speak about experiences, thoughts, feelings, and deeply held beliefs is a game changing, reviving experience. Emotional stress can get in the way of your life, job, relationships and your future. Whether its anger, sadness, grief or anxiety, feeling disconnected can also lead to physical stress on your body. It’s often a solitary existence. Please feel free to contact me for an initial no-obligation online chat.
Is there something preventing you from doing what you want or from behaving in the way that you want? Taking the next step to speak about experiences, thoughts, feelings, and deeply held beliefs is a game changing, reviving experience. Emotional stress can get in the way of your life, job, relationships and your future. Whether its anger, sadness, grief or anxiety, feeling disconnected can also lead to physical stress on your body. It’s often a solitary existence. Please feel free to contact me for an initial no-obligation online chat.
Are you struggling with relationship issues? Are you experiencing anxiety, depression, stress, panic attacks, emotional pain, challenging life transitions, workplace conflict, or loss? Do you feel stuck? Do you have unresolved family or boundary issues? Do you want to bring about positive change by identifying the tensions and negative thought patterns holding you back, as well as identifying any unhelpful ways of relating to oneself, others and the rest of the world? You are not alone - Talking to a psychotherapeutic counsellor can help.
Are you struggling with relationship issues? Are you experiencing anxiety, depression, stress, panic attacks, emotional pain, challenging life transitions, workplace conflict, or loss? Do you feel stuck? Do you have unresolved family or boundary issues? Do you want to bring about positive change by identifying the tensions and negative thought patterns holding you back, as well as identifying any unhelpful ways of relating to oneself, others and the rest of the world? You are not alone - Talking to a psychotherapeutic counsellor can help.
I can help with anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, trauma, and men's issues, all whilst considering factors related to identity.
Hi I'm Obss. As a Clinical Psychologist and CBT therapist I understand that life can bring many challenges at once, such as relationship changes, work pressures, or uncertainty about your sense of purpose. You may feel stuck, overwhelmed or disconnected from what matters most to you. In therapy, I provide a space to reconnect with yourself, explore your goals, and examine aspects of your identity including race, gender, religion, ethnicity, and class and how these shape both challenges and strengths. Reaching out for therapy can be daunting, and I aim to support you in exploring and moving towards your goals safely and sensitively.
I can help with anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, trauma, and men's issues, all whilst considering factors related to identity.
Hi I'm Obss. As a Clinical Psychologist and CBT therapist I understand that life can bring many challenges at once, such as relationship changes, work pressures, or uncertainty about your sense of purpose. You may feel stuck, overwhelmed or disconnected from what matters most to you. In therapy, I provide a space to reconnect with yourself, explore your goals, and examine aspects of your identity including race, gender, religion, ethnicity, and class and how these shape both challenges and strengths. Reaching out for therapy can be daunting, and I aim to support you in exploring and moving towards your goals safely and sensitively.
I help high-performing professionals/entrepreneurs, they are often driven by logic and working in tech/finance/law/media/arts. I specialise in helping people develop a relationship with their body, and to understand the impact of their feelings and emotions on the body and vice versa. I often work with those with experience of living life on the edge, and/or complex, troubled relationships. I work well with people for whom talking about personal matters feels very difficult. I am not easily shocked and I also understand the need for taking things slowly and sensitively. My approach is kind, practical, down-to-earth and creative.
I help high-performing professionals/entrepreneurs, they are often driven by logic and working in tech/finance/law/media/arts. I specialise in helping people develop a relationship with their body, and to understand the impact of their feelings and emotions on the body and vice versa. I often work with those with experience of living life on the edge, and/or complex, troubled relationships. I work well with people for whom talking about personal matters feels very difficult. I am not easily shocked and I also understand the need for taking things slowly and sensitively. My approach is kind, practical, down-to-earth and creative.
Often past experiences, unconscious thoughts and conflicting inner forces can affect our mental well-being in a negative way, causing symptoms such as stress, anxiety, detachment or depression. Through exploring patterns of thought, feelings and relationships, we can understand and resolve these issues leading to greater self-awareness, personal growth and change. Together we will speak freely about whatever comes to mind with the aim of addressing defences and removing blockages that may have developed over time and are hindering your ability to feel whole and lead a fulfilling life.
Often past experiences, unconscious thoughts and conflicting inner forces can affect our mental well-being in a negative way, causing symptoms such as stress, anxiety, detachment or depression. Through exploring patterns of thought, feelings and relationships, we can understand and resolve these issues leading to greater self-awareness, personal growth and change. Together we will speak freely about whatever comes to mind with the aim of addressing defences and removing blockages that may have developed over time and are hindering your ability to feel whole and lead a fulfilling life.
Do you feel stuck, lost or like you’re living on autopilot – things look fine on the outside, but inside, something feels off? Maybe you’re functioning, but not fulfilled. Or you’ve been wearing a mask for so long, you’re unsure what’s underneath. It’s not a crisis, but you’re wondering: is this really it? If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone. I work with people who feel conflicted about questioning their identity, career, relationships or purpose when everything looks good on paper. I help you make sense of what's happening, get clarity about what you actually want, and take steps toward a life that feels genuinely yours.
Do you feel stuck, lost or like you’re living on autopilot – things look fine on the outside, but inside, something feels off? Maybe you’re functioning, but not fulfilled. Or you’ve been wearing a mask for so long, you’re unsure what’s underneath. It’s not a crisis, but you’re wondering: is this really it? If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone. I work with people who feel conflicted about questioning their identity, career, relationships or purpose when everything looks good on paper. I help you make sense of what's happening, get clarity about what you actually want, and take steps toward a life that feels genuinely yours.
You’re here because something isn’t working. You feel stuck, like no matter what you do, you keep falling into the same patterns. Maybe anxiety, self-doubt, or overthinking are taking over, and you’re fucking tired of it. You want change, but it feels impossible to break free from the cycle.
That’s where I come in. I’m a qualified psychotherapist, and I help people to break this cycle. Therapy with me isn’t about nonsense advice or forced positivity. It’s about real conversations that help you understand yourself and make genuine changes to be the person you’re proud of. If you feel ready, let's have a chat!
You’re here because something isn’t working. You feel stuck, like no matter what you do, you keep falling into the same patterns. Maybe anxiety, self-doubt, or overthinking are taking over, and you’re fucking tired of it. You want change, but it feels impossible to break free from the cycle.
That’s where I come in. I’m a qualified psychotherapist, and I help people to break this cycle. Therapy with me isn’t about nonsense advice or forced positivity. It’s about real conversations that help you understand yourself and make genuine changes to be the person you’re proud of. If you feel ready, let's have a chat!
Specialising in men’s issues, including sex problems (erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, sex addiction / sexual compulsions, and problematic pornography use / porn addiction); sexual abuse; trauma and PTSD; intrusive sexual thoughts; anger issues; anxiety; depression; adjusting to a physical health condition; relationship issues; stress; sexuality and more. I am a chartered clinical psychologist and EMDR therapist with over 15 years NHS experience of working in mental health and now work full time in private practice online.
Specialising in men’s issues, including sex problems (erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, sex addiction / sexual compulsions, and problematic pornography use / porn addiction); sexual abuse; trauma and PTSD; intrusive sexual thoughts; anger issues; anxiety; depression; adjusting to a physical health condition; relationship issues; stress; sexuality and more. I am a chartered clinical psychologist and EMDR therapist with over 15 years NHS experience of working in mental health and now work full time in private practice online.
Gay Men’s Therapy is a psychotherapy service for gay men provided by gay men. Reaching out to a therapist can be daunting. However, we are not just therapist – we are a group of people who share the diverse backgrounds and experiences you may have, which gives us a deeper understanding of your needs. We offer a specialist service by a group of therapists that come together regularly to learn from each other about how best to serve your psychological needs. We aim to create a safe, understanding environment in which you can explore, understand and unfold yourself to become who you truly feel you are.
Gay Men’s Therapy is a psychotherapy service for gay men provided by gay men. Reaching out to a therapist can be daunting. However, we are not just therapist – we are a group of people who share the diverse backgrounds and experiences you may have, which gives us a deeper understanding of your needs. We offer a specialist service by a group of therapists that come together regularly to learn from each other about how best to serve your psychological needs. We aim to create a safe, understanding environment in which you can explore, understand and unfold yourself to become who you truly feel you are.
Are you struggling with challenges related to men's issues, sexuality, or relationship concerns that feel overwhelming or isolating?
I bring more than 15 years of experience helping men and couples navigate men's issues, sex therapy, and relationship challenges. Together, we focus on practical ways to improve communication, rebuild trust, and nurture intimacy. My approach centers on supporting your unique journey toward healthier connections and personal strength.
Are you struggling with challenges related to men's issues, sexuality, or relationship concerns that feel overwhelming or isolating?
I bring more than 15 years of experience helping men and couples navigate men's issues, sex therapy, and relationship challenges. Together, we focus on practical ways to improve communication, rebuild trust, and nurture intimacy. My approach centers on supporting your unique journey toward healthier connections and personal strength.
I specialize in the emotional world of men navigating masculinity, fatherhood, and partnerships while carrying high levels of responsibility. If you're reading this, you're likely capable and outwardly functioning well. But internally something feels off: disconnection, repeating patterns, distance in your close relationships. You want deeper connection, renewed intimacy and a grounded way of relating that's real, not performed, without losing your strength, identity or edge. You may be navigating painful patterns you can't break, balancing leadership demands with emotional presence at home or rebuilding after years of drift.
I specialize in the emotional world of men navigating masculinity, fatherhood, and partnerships while carrying high levels of responsibility. If you're reading this, you're likely capable and outwardly functioning well. But internally something feels off: disconnection, repeating patterns, distance in your close relationships. You want deeper connection, renewed intimacy and a grounded way of relating that's real, not performed, without losing your strength, identity or edge. You may be navigating painful patterns you can't break, balancing leadership demands with emotional presence at home or rebuilding after years of drift.
I know how nerve-racking it can be to seek help. But I've also experienced relief that comes from finally feeling listened to and understood. "Healing through meeting" is my mantra. Whatever you're going through, I'm committed to meeting you with acceptance, openness and dignity. Together we can explore what it is like to be you and discover lasting ways of living better. I work with a range of clients but my lived experience has given me particular insight into the challenges faced by men, and LGBTQ+ issues. Isolation, relationship problems, low self-worth, phone addiction, porn/sex obsession and AI anxiety are common themes.
I know how nerve-racking it can be to seek help. But I've also experienced relief that comes from finally feeling listened to and understood. "Healing through meeting" is my mantra. Whatever you're going through, I'm committed to meeting you with acceptance, openness and dignity. Together we can explore what it is like to be you and discover lasting ways of living better. I work with a range of clients but my lived experience has given me particular insight into the challenges faced by men, and LGBTQ+ issues. Isolation, relationship problems, low self-worth, phone addiction, porn/sex obsession and AI anxiety are common themes.
I am a trauma-trained and neurodiversity-informed therapist who works with people who may seem like they’re managing on the outside but feel overwhelmed or stuck inside. You might be facing trauma, grief, relationship challenges, burnout, or major life changes such as moving, career shifts, pregnancy, or parenthood. You may feel caught between cultures or exhausted from navigating neurodivergence. I offer a safe, understanding space to explore your feelings, uncover patterns, build confidence, and reconnect with a sense of yourself and what matters most.
I am a trauma-trained and neurodiversity-informed therapist who works with people who may seem like they’re managing on the outside but feel overwhelmed or stuck inside. You might be facing trauma, grief, relationship challenges, burnout, or major life changes such as moving, career shifts, pregnancy, or parenthood. You may feel caught between cultures or exhausted from navigating neurodivergence. I offer a safe, understanding space to explore your feelings, uncover patterns, build confidence, and reconnect with a sense of yourself and what matters most.
I am a psychotherapist offering therapy sessions for adults from my private practice irooms in 85 Wimpole Street, London, W1G 9RJ and 26/28 Bartholomew Square, London, EC1V 3QH. My approach allows clients to engage in either short-term therapy (up to 12 weeks) or longer-term work, with sessions available both face-to-face and online. Therapy presents a unique opportunity to pause from the distractions of everyday life, grapple with emotional challenges, and reflect on what truly matters to you. Through this exploration, clients can gain clarity and awareness, which may offer the possibility for change.
I am a psychotherapist offering therapy sessions for adults from my private practice irooms in 85 Wimpole Street, London, W1G 9RJ and 26/28 Bartholomew Square, London, EC1V 3QH. My approach allows clients to engage in either short-term therapy (up to 12 weeks) or longer-term work, with sessions available both face-to-face and online. Therapy presents a unique opportunity to pause from the distractions of everyday life, grapple with emotional challenges, and reflect on what truly matters to you. Through this exploration, clients can gain clarity and awareness, which may offer the possibility for change.
Distress is not inevitable or permanent. To move away from distress, something needs to change. Together we can explore that something. Distress can be: anxiety, anger, depression and loss. But you are not a piece of paper to be filed, a case to be studied or a collection of symptoms to be diagnosed. You are a unique. An individual to be fully heard and supported in a safe confidential space or exploration. I counsel change in: response through choice, vulnerability through resilience, resolve through strategy. I work: with compassion and skill, without labels or judgement, but always with a passion for change.
Distress is not inevitable or permanent. To move away from distress, something needs to change. Together we can explore that something. Distress can be: anxiety, anger, depression and loss. But you are not a piece of paper to be filed, a case to be studied or a collection of symptoms to be diagnosed. You are a unique. An individual to be fully heard and supported in a safe confidential space or exploration. I counsel change in: response through choice, vulnerability through resilience, resolve through strategy. I work: with compassion and skill, without labels or judgement, but always with a passion for change.
Sexual Compulsion Reset (21 Days). If porn, compulsive sex, or relapse cycles are running your life, it’s usually not a “willpower” problem, it’s a nervous system pattern. In 21 days, I help men reduce urge intensity from a 10 to a 3 by targeting the emotional driver underneath the behaviour. We track your urge score (0–10) each week so progress is measurable.
Sexual Compulsion Reset (21 Days). If porn, compulsive sex, or relapse cycles are running your life, it’s usually not a “willpower” problem, it’s a nervous system pattern. In 21 days, I help men reduce urge intensity from a 10 to a 3 by targeting the emotional driver underneath the behaviour. We track your urge score (0–10) each week so progress is measurable.
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Men's Issues Counsellors
Is therapy for men different than it is for women?
Therapeutic treatments and types are the same for men as they are for women, with the same protocols followed and the same strategies employed. Discussing one’s feelings and emotions is an integral part of most therapies, and some men find doing so more challenging. Therapists can help clients through the process; some specialize in treating men for this reason.
How do you encourage a man to go to therapy?
It’s helpful to express your concern and love for the person while framing therapy as a tool for improving their life. Offering specific examples of how an individual’s behavior affected either himself or others should be done with compassion and with empathy. It may be useful to devise a game plan—breaking the process down into parts, such as finding a therapist, making appointments, and looking into insurance coverage.
How can men prepare for therapy?
Men can prepare for therapy by approaching the process with an open mind, being willing to talk about their challenges, and giving treatment the time to work. Before a session, an individual may want to reflect on how they’ve felt since the last session and what’s happened in their lives. It can be useful for men who struggle to recall their emotional states to write down notes between sessions about their response to a given event or how they were feeling at a particular time.
What should men know about the process of therapy?
One of the most common reasons men don’t seek therapy is the notion that there’s something wrong with them if they do. Men should know that just because they’re seeking therapy doesn’t mean they’re mentally ill or damaged in some way. In the same way people work on their bodies through exercise or a craft through practice, therapy can be a way to improve the mental and emotional skills needed to be productive and effective partners, employees, and people in all realms of life.