Infidelity Counselling in London

I am a professionally qualified Integrative Counsellor and Psychotherapist, experienced working with individuals with a wide range of issues. I have a special interest in helping people who struggle in their relationships, whether that is after a betrayal or infidelity or having trouble communicating and getting your needs met, or dealing with a dramatic life change, such as the end of a relationship or divorce. I use my extensive experience as a therapist to help my clients understand how the past may have impacted the way they relate to others and to help them grow towards more fulfilling relationships with themselves and others.
I am a professionally qualified Integrative Counsellor and Psychotherapist, experienced working with individuals with a wide range of issues. I have a special interest in helping people who struggle in their relationships, whether that is after a betrayal or infidelity or having trouble communicating and getting your needs met, or dealing with a dramatic life change, such as the end of a relationship or divorce. I use my extensive experience as a therapist to help my clients understand how the past may have impacted the way they relate to others and to help them grow towards more fulfilling relationships with themselves and others.

I am an experienced relationship therapist. I hold Masters Degree (MA) in Relationship Therapy. I provide short and long term counselling and psychotherapy for couples, families and individuals with relationship issues. In addition to my private practice I also work for Relate. I specialise in relationship issues such as; communication problems, trust issues, affairs, intimacy issues, low self-esteem, past relationship difficulties, separation and divorce, difficulty forming relationship, family and parenting style issues, anger issues, porn addiction and sexual difficulties.
I am an experienced relationship therapist. I hold Masters Degree (MA) in Relationship Therapy. I provide short and long term counselling and psychotherapy for couples, families and individuals with relationship issues. In addition to my private practice I also work for Relate. I specialise in relationship issues such as; communication problems, trust issues, affairs, intimacy issues, low self-esteem, past relationship difficulties, separation and divorce, difficulty forming relationship, family and parenting style issues, anger issues, porn addiction and sexual difficulties.

co uk about Intimacy, Affairs & Talking about Sex in therapy and Having a partner who is an alcoholic.
Welcome to my page. If you and your partner arguing or have deafening silence due to unresolved issues, please call! I'm a couple’s psychotherapist who has worked with Relate and now focuses solely on relationships and some sexual difficulties. Whether your partner has had an affair, or you've realised that you no longer have the connection /intimacy, from before, therapy can help. Maybe you're single and have been struggling to meet someone whom you can share your life with. Sometimes it's our families or friends we are struggling with. I am based near Brixton Station and happy to do online sessions, I'm here to help.
co uk about Intimacy, Affairs & Talking about Sex in therapy and Having a partner who is an alcoholic.
Welcome to my page. If you and your partner arguing or have deafening silence due to unresolved issues, please call! I'm a couple’s psychotherapist who has worked with Relate and now focuses solely on relationships and some sexual difficulties. Whether your partner has had an affair, or you've realised that you no longer have the connection /intimacy, from before, therapy can help. Maybe you're single and have been struggling to meet someone whom you can share your life with. Sometimes it's our families or friends we are struggling with. I am based near Brixton Station and happy to do online sessions, I'm here to help.

Are you feeling overwhelmed or out of control with food or your relationship? Many of my clients come to me searching for a way to understand and heal from intense experiences. Whether it’s the shock and betrayal of infidelity or the complicated emotions around food and body image, they’re often seeking clarity, healing, and a path forward that feels authentic and compassionate. With a focus on both eating disorders and relationship challenges like infidelity, I offer a safe, non-judgmental space to help you make sense of what you’re going through.
Are you feeling overwhelmed or out of control with food or your relationship? Many of my clients come to me searching for a way to understand and heal from intense experiences. Whether it’s the shock and betrayal of infidelity or the complicated emotions around food and body image, they’re often seeking clarity, healing, and a path forward that feels authentic and compassionate. With a focus on both eating disorders and relationship challenges like infidelity, I offer a safe, non-judgmental space to help you make sense of what you’re going through.

I can help you with: 1) communication and differences, 2) sex and ageing, 3) conflicts, 4) dealing with affairs.
I can help you with: 1) communication and differences, 2) sex and ageing, 3) conflicts, 4) dealing with affairs.

I work with people who might be struggling with sexual or relationship difficulties such as erectile dysfunction, rapid or delayed ejaculation, anxiety around sex, relationships and intimacy issues, sexual abuse or assault, sexual health issues, compulsive sexual behaviours, vulval pain conditions, vaginismus, dyspareunia (pain during intercourse), sexual orientation questions or insecurities, pornography issues, orgasmic or anorgasmic problems, sexual phobias or aversions, fears around lack of sexual experience, loss of desire, affairs, marital break ups, open relationships, kinks, bdsm, polyamory, addictions, codependency, trauma.
I work with people who might be struggling with sexual or relationship difficulties such as erectile dysfunction, rapid or delayed ejaculation, anxiety around sex, relationships and intimacy issues, sexual abuse or assault, sexual health issues, compulsive sexual behaviours, vulval pain conditions, vaginismus, dyspareunia (pain during intercourse), sexual orientation questions or insecurities, pornography issues, orgasmic or anorgasmic problems, sexual phobias or aversions, fears around lack of sexual experience, loss of desire, affairs, marital break ups, open relationships, kinks, bdsm, polyamory, addictions, codependency, trauma.

I offer a confidential, warm, empathic and non-judgemental space to explore your problems and help you work towards feeling happier. I work with individuals to address a range of issues including confidence/self esteem, loneliness, stress/anxiety, dating and relationship challenges, body image, low desire, compulsive sexual behaviours, recovery from abuse and sexual function problems (erection, pain and penetration difficulties). I also work with couples on issues such as communication, sex, open relationships, infidelity and divorce. I identify as a heterosexual woman and practise in an LGBTQ+ affirmative and kink-friendly way.
I offer a confidential, warm, empathic and non-judgemental space to explore your problems and help you work towards feeling happier. I work with individuals to address a range of issues including confidence/self esteem, loneliness, stress/anxiety, dating and relationship challenges, body image, low desire, compulsive sexual behaviours, recovery from abuse and sexual function problems (erection, pain and penetration difficulties). I also work with couples on issues such as communication, sex, open relationships, infidelity and divorce. I identify as a heterosexual woman and practise in an LGBTQ+ affirmative and kink-friendly way.

Hello i'm Lizzy, an integrative therapist. Have you experienced a bereavement, break up, infidelity, anxiety or depression? You could be coming to terms with addiction or just need to make sense of life. Embarking on a therapeutic journey with me provides you with space to think, speak, feel and be heard. You will have autonomy in your space to hear your words, experience your feelings and begin your own independent journey to a more fulfilled and resilient existence. Together you and I will explore your goals and aspirations at a pace that works for you.
Hello i'm Lizzy, an integrative therapist. Have you experienced a bereavement, break up, infidelity, anxiety or depression? You could be coming to terms with addiction or just need to make sense of life. Embarking on a therapeutic journey with me provides you with space to think, speak, feel and be heard. You will have autonomy in your space to hear your words, experience your feelings and begin your own independent journey to a more fulfilled and resilient existence. Together you and I will explore your goals and aspirations at a pace that works for you.

I also work with: Infidelity, Co-dependency, Rejection, Heartbreak, Love and Loss.
Are you living alone together? Is Your Relationship/Marriage in Crisis or facing difficult challenges at this time? Rekindle emotional closeness, trust and warmth. Do you have Marital Problems? I offer Couples Therapy, Marriage Counselling & Individual Relationship Therapy and Coaching. My sessions include two Communication & Empathy PDFs which I will send to you after our session. – My sessions will help you both to strengthen appreciation, trust and emotional closeness by recognising the triggers and dynamics that are at play between you. I am passionate about the work I do with relationships and know I can help you both.
I also work with: Infidelity, Co-dependency, Rejection, Heartbreak, Love and Loss.
Are you living alone together? Is Your Relationship/Marriage in Crisis or facing difficult challenges at this time? Rekindle emotional closeness, trust and warmth. Do you have Marital Problems? I offer Couples Therapy, Marriage Counselling & Individual Relationship Therapy and Coaching. My sessions include two Communication & Empathy PDFs which I will send to you after our session. – My sessions will help you both to strengthen appreciation, trust and emotional closeness by recognising the triggers and dynamics that are at play between you. I am passionate about the work I do with relationships and know I can help you both.

I am an experienced BACP accredited relationship therapist with 19 years of clinical practice experience working with Individuals, couples and families with relationship-based issues. They may have difficulty with communication; conflict resolution; separation; attachment; infidelity and mental health, amongst others. They need an experienced accredited professional using a safe, secure, evidenced-based approach. This enables them to explore their material in confidence whilst gaining core insight and tools.
I am an experienced BACP accredited relationship therapist with 19 years of clinical practice experience working with Individuals, couples and families with relationship-based issues. They may have difficulty with communication; conflict resolution; separation; attachment; infidelity and mental health, amongst others. They need an experienced accredited professional using a safe, secure, evidenced-based approach. This enables them to explore their material in confidence whilst gaining core insight and tools.

Nicola J Foster
Psychotherapist, COSRT General
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
My name is Nicola, I'm a qualified relationship and psychosexual therapist. For the foreseeable future I am working online. I am also a qualified NLP coach. I see couples and individuals for short or long-term psychosexual and relationship therapy. My approach is integrative. I help with rebuilding intimacy, mismatched desire, affairs and betrayals, loss, relationship difficulties, , open-relating, sexual problems, self esteem and confidence.
My name is Nicola, I'm a qualified relationship and psychosexual therapist. For the foreseeable future I am working online. I am also a qualified NLP coach. I see couples and individuals for short or long-term psychosexual and relationship therapy. My approach is integrative. I help with rebuilding intimacy, mismatched desire, affairs and betrayals, loss, relationship difficulties, , open-relating, sexual problems, self esteem and confidence.
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I have 6 years of experience working for Relate across a number of different relationship issues including communication, infidelity, conflict and sex.
I'm a goal orientated, solution focused counsellor for individuals and couples. I provide short term intervention counselling (30minute and 60minute one off sessions) as well as ongoing work. Sessions are delivered over the phone or on Zoom.
I have 6 years of experience working for Relate across a number of different relationship issues including communication, infidelity, conflict and sex.
I'm a goal orientated, solution focused counsellor for individuals and couples. I provide short term intervention counselling (30minute and 60minute one off sessions) as well as ongoing work. Sessions are delivered over the phone or on Zoom.

Although most people turn to therapy due to significant turning points like loss or bereavement, betrayal, conflict or a perceived defeat, others recognise their need to begin psychotherapeutic treatment due to feeling bewildered, unable to deal with unexpected low mood or experiencing anxiety. Most notice changes in their behaviours, including more frequent arguments, increased avoidance of tasks or proximity to others, or sudden inability to control their routine and schedule. No matter how you encounter change, ego therapy offers a bespoke approach to supporting your emotional development and personal transformation.
Although most people turn to therapy due to significant turning points like loss or bereavement, betrayal, conflict or a perceived defeat, others recognise their need to begin psychotherapeutic treatment due to feeling bewildered, unable to deal with unexpected low mood or experiencing anxiety. Most notice changes in their behaviours, including more frequent arguments, increased avoidance of tasks or proximity to others, or sudden inability to control their routine and schedule. No matter how you encounter change, ego therapy offers a bespoke approach to supporting your emotional development and personal transformation.

Dr Rhiannon King Couples & Relationship Therapy
Psychologist, DCounsPsych, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Verified Verified
Online Only
Your relationship matters! Are you struggling with relationship, marital or family issues? Are you wanting to improve or enhance your relationship? Perhaps you’re both at a crossroads where your future as a couple seems uncertain? Maybe you’re considering separating or divorce? Are you feeling hurt, disconnected, stuck, anxious, frustrated, angry, lonely, misunderstood, overwhelmed, sad or scared? Are you struggling to communicate, connect, manage conflicts or difficult emotions, heal from loss of trust or an infidelity, establish or maintain healthy boundaries, manage family issues or adapt to change, life events or transitions?
Your relationship matters! Are you struggling with relationship, marital or family issues? Are you wanting to improve or enhance your relationship? Perhaps you’re both at a crossroads where your future as a couple seems uncertain? Maybe you’re considering separating or divorce? Are you feeling hurt, disconnected, stuck, anxious, frustrated, angry, lonely, misunderstood, overwhelmed, sad or scared? Are you struggling to communicate, connect, manage conflicts or difficult emotions, heal from loss of trust or an infidelity, establish or maintain healthy boundaries, manage family issues or adapt to change, life events or transitions?

I specialise in working with couples struggling with communication, healing from affairs, emotional intimacy, & conflict.
Do you feel despair or a growing distance in your relationship no matter what you do? Are you struggling to communicate with your partner? My clients often tell me they miss warmth & affection and wish they could turn back the clock to happier times. Perhaps your partner had an affair and you're both scared and don't know what to do now. Either way, one thing's for sure: you’re desperate for some relief. It might be hard to imagine your relationship could be full of fun and laughter again but this has happened with my clients. Together we can move you from anxiety and stuckness to feeling happy again.
I specialise in working with couples struggling with communication, healing from affairs, emotional intimacy, & conflict.
Do you feel despair or a growing distance in your relationship no matter what you do? Are you struggling to communicate with your partner? My clients often tell me they miss warmth & affection and wish they could turn back the clock to happier times. Perhaps your partner had an affair and you're both scared and don't know what to do now. Either way, one thing's for sure: you’re desperate for some relief. It might be hard to imagine your relationship could be full of fun and laughter again but this has happened with my clients. Together we can move you from anxiety and stuckness to feeling happy again.

I have experience working with couples on communication issues, infidelity and relationship satisfaction.
I am an individual and work with couples offering support for a range of difficulties. I offer an integrative approach to counselling that allows for specific treatment based on you as an individual or couple. I work with clients on issues including self-esteem, anxiety, depression, relationship issues, stress, ADHD and many more. I work with individuals with ADHD, Autism and many others or those in relationships with neurodivergent individuals.
I have experience working with couples on communication issues, infidelity and relationship satisfaction.
I am an individual and work with couples offering support for a range of difficulties. I offer an integrative approach to counselling that allows for specific treatment based on you as an individual or couple. I work with clients on issues including self-esteem, anxiety, depression, relationship issues, stress, ADHD and many more. I work with individuals with ADHD, Autism and many others or those in relationships with neurodivergent individuals.

I work with adults facing a range of challenges, including anxiety, depression, trauma, loss, and relationship difficulties. I support clients through major life transitions, identity exploration, self-esteem issues, and personal growth. Additionally, I specialise in addressing relationship-related challenges such as breakups, divorce, infidelity recovery, and attachment patterns.
I work with adults facing a range of challenges, including anxiety, depression, trauma, loss, and relationship difficulties. I support clients through major life transitions, identity exploration, self-esteem issues, and personal growth. Additionally, I specialise in addressing relationship-related challenges such as breakups, divorce, infidelity recovery, and attachment patterns.

I understand how overwhelming it can feel to face challenges like infidelity, insecurity, or the search for your true self.
Finding a therapist who truly resonates with you, makes you feel safe, and values your time can be incredibly reassuring. I offer compassionate support and actionable solutions to help you navigate insecurities, fears, and deep emotional bonds that may still affect you. Together, we’ll set clear goals, work through painful aspects of your past, and create strategies for self-love and healthier relationships. My mission is to nurture your growth, ignite your inner joy, and be a source of light when the world feels overwhelming. Let’s connect and illuminate your path forward.
I understand how overwhelming it can feel to face challenges like infidelity, insecurity, or the search for your true self.
Finding a therapist who truly resonates with you, makes you feel safe, and values your time can be incredibly reassuring. I offer compassionate support and actionable solutions to help you navigate insecurities, fears, and deep emotional bonds that may still affect you. Together, we’ll set clear goals, work through painful aspects of your past, and create strategies for self-love and healthier relationships. My mission is to nurture your growth, ignite your inner joy, and be a source of light when the world feels overwhelming. Let’s connect and illuminate your path forward.

I work with a broad range of issues including, but not limited to, relationship difficulties, infidelity, communication issues, low sexual desire, orgasmic issues, erectile dysfunction, premature or delayed ejaculation, vaginal pain, understanding sexual practices/preferences, reducing anxiety around sex and improving relationships and intimacy.
I'm passionate about helping individuals and couples create fulfilling relationships. As an Integrative Sex & Relationship Therapist, I provide a safe, non-judgmental space where we can work together on relationship challenges and intimate concerns. My journey includes a Psychology degree, specialised training in Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy from Middlesex University, advanced studies in Couples Therapy, and expertise in Compulsive Sexual Behaviour. This blend of knowledge allows me to offer compassionate, effective support tailored to your unique situation. Whether you're facing relationship difficulties, sexual concerns,
I work with a broad range of issues including, but not limited to, relationship difficulties, infidelity, communication issues, low sexual desire, orgasmic issues, erectile dysfunction, premature or delayed ejaculation, vaginal pain, understanding sexual practices/preferences, reducing anxiety around sex and improving relationships and intimacy.
I'm passionate about helping individuals and couples create fulfilling relationships. As an Integrative Sex & Relationship Therapist, I provide a safe, non-judgmental space where we can work together on relationship challenges and intimate concerns. My journey includes a Psychology degree, specialised training in Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy from Middlesex University, advanced studies in Couples Therapy, and expertise in Compulsive Sexual Behaviour. This blend of knowledge allows me to offer compassionate, effective support tailored to your unique situation. Whether you're facing relationship difficulties, sexual concerns,

Relational problems that we can work on are: conflict and re-current arguments, loss of trust, affairs, dealing with the end of the relationship, adapting to change (immigration, buying property, having children); sexual difficulties: loss of desire, sexual pain, problems with erection/ejaculation, difficulty in reaching orgasm, unconsummated marriage.
My specialism is relationship and sex therapy for couples and individuals. Every relationship has a challenge, but if you feel that the problem has persisted for too long and caused a lot of distress for you, do contact me and we can have a conversation about the type of counselling that will suit your needs. I also work with individuals who are trying to get over break up or have difficulties in forming or ending relationships. I offer an empathetic, safe and professional environment within which we can work together to facilitate the potential for change in the relationship and work towards sexual health, happiness and well-being
Relational problems that we can work on are: conflict and re-current arguments, loss of trust, affairs, dealing with the end of the relationship, adapting to change (immigration, buying property, having children); sexual difficulties: loss of desire, sexual pain, problems with erection/ejaculation, difficulty in reaching orgasm, unconsummated marriage.
My specialism is relationship and sex therapy for couples and individuals. Every relationship has a challenge, but if you feel that the problem has persisted for too long and caused a lot of distress for you, do contact me and we can have a conversation about the type of counselling that will suit your needs. I also work with individuals who are trying to get over break up or have difficulties in forming or ending relationships. I offer an empathetic, safe and professional environment within which we can work together to facilitate the potential for change in the relationship and work towards sexual health, happiness and well-being
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- Beckenham
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- Edgware
- Ilford
- Mitcham
- Morden
- Richmond
- Thornton Heath
- Wembley
- Woodford Green
Infidelity Counsellors
How does therapy for infidelity work?
A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.
How long does therapy for infidelity take?
Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.
How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?
When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.
How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?
Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.