Infidelity Counselling in London
Affairs: I work with couples where an affair has taken place.
Welcome to my page. If you and your partner arguing or have deafening silence due to unresolved issues, please call! I'm a couple’s psychotherapist who has worked with Relate and now focuses solely on relationships and some sexual difficulties. Whether your partner has had an affair, or you've realised that you no longer have the connection /intimacy, from before, therapy can help. Maybe you're single and have been struggling to meet someone whom you can share your life with. Sometimes it's our families or friends we are struggling with. I am based near Brixton Station and happy to do online sessions, I'm here to help.
Affairs: I work with couples where an affair has taken place.
Welcome to my page. If you and your partner arguing or have deafening silence due to unresolved issues, please call! I'm a couple’s psychotherapist who has worked with Relate and now focuses solely on relationships and some sexual difficulties. Whether your partner has had an affair, or you've realised that you no longer have the connection /intimacy, from before, therapy can help. Maybe you're single and have been struggling to meet someone whom you can share your life with. Sometimes it's our families or friends we are struggling with. I am based near Brixton Station and happy to do online sessions, I'm here to help.
Welcome. Finding a therapist can be a daunting task, particularly finding someone who will understand you. I am an experienced psychotherapist working with individuals and couples. Are you tired of repeating old patterns? Do you find that relationships are hard work? Are you sick of feeling stuck and unhappy? Does change feel frightening? Is it difficult to speak about sex and desire? Do you want to open up your relationship but struggle with feelings of jealousy? I get it.
Welcome. Finding a therapist can be a daunting task, particularly finding someone who will understand you. I am an experienced psychotherapist working with individuals and couples. Are you tired of repeating old patterns? Do you find that relationships are hard work? Are you sick of feeling stuck and unhappy? Does change feel frightening? Is it difficult to speak about sex and desire? Do you want to open up your relationship but struggle with feelings of jealousy? I get it.
Are you experiencing challenges with your relationships, difficult feelings, such as anxiety or depression, or feeling stuck in unhelpful patterns in your life? Perhaps you deal with your pressures so that others around you don’t seem to notice yet inwardly feel troubled or unsettled. Or you might have had a difficult recent life event or yet to deal fully with early life experiences that are impacting you now? I’m a Senior Counselling Psychologist and accredited Mentalisation Based Therapist. I can help you, as an individual or couple, to understand what is happening at a deeper level, so you can find new ways of moving forward.
Are you experiencing challenges with your relationships, difficult feelings, such as anxiety or depression, or feeling stuck in unhelpful patterns in your life? Perhaps you deal with your pressures so that others around you don’t seem to notice yet inwardly feel troubled or unsettled. Or you might have had a difficult recent life event or yet to deal fully with early life experiences that are impacting you now? I’m a Senior Counselling Psychologist and accredited Mentalisation Based Therapist. I can help you, as an individual or couple, to understand what is happening at a deeper level, so you can find new ways of moving forward.
I can help you with: 1) communication and differences, 2) sex and ageing, 3) conflicts, 4) dealing with affairs.
I have a solid background in couples counselling and over 17 years of experience helping people.
I can help you with: 1) communication and differences, 2) sex and ageing, 3) conflicts, 4) dealing with affairs.
I have a solid background in couples counselling and over 17 years of experience helping people.
Have you experienced a bereavement, break up, infidelity, anxiety or depression?
Successful therapy is the relationship between the client and therapist where there is trust, openness and the opportunity to explore your whole self where you can feel safe and brave to talk. I offer a professional, non-judgemental, empathic counselling relationship where you can become the expert in your life story and journey to emotional confidence.
Have you experienced a bereavement, break up, infidelity, anxiety or depression?
Successful therapy is the relationship between the client and therapist where there is trust, openness and the opportunity to explore your whole self where you can feel safe and brave to talk. I offer a professional, non-judgemental, empathic counselling relationship where you can become the expert in your life story and journey to emotional confidence.
I work with people who might be struggling with sexual or relationship difficulties such as erectile dysfunction, rapid or delayed ejaculation, anxiety around sex, relationships and intimacy issues, sexual abuse or assault, sexual health issues, compulsive sexual behaviours, vulval pain conditions, vaginismus, dyspareunia (pain during intercourse), sexual orientation questions or insecurities, pornography issues, orgasmic or anorgasmic problems, sexual phobias or aversions, fears around lack of sexual experience, loss of desire, affairs, marital break ups, open relationships, kinks, bdsm, polyamory, addictions, codependency, trauma.
Psychosexual issues are not just purely physical dysfunctions but also both psychological and emotional. My goal is to help you come to a better understanding of you sexual and relationship difficulties and to work together facilitating the changes that will get you the sex life that you want.
I work with people who might be struggling with sexual or relationship difficulties such as erectile dysfunction, rapid or delayed ejaculation, anxiety around sex, relationships and intimacy issues, sexual abuse or assault, sexual health issues, compulsive sexual behaviours, vulval pain conditions, vaginismus, dyspareunia (pain during intercourse), sexual orientation questions or insecurities, pornography issues, orgasmic or anorgasmic problems, sexual phobias or aversions, fears around lack of sexual experience, loss of desire, affairs, marital break ups, open relationships, kinks, bdsm, polyamory, addictions, codependency, trauma.
Psychosexual issues are not just purely physical dysfunctions but also both psychological and emotional. My goal is to help you come to a better understanding of you sexual and relationship difficulties and to work together facilitating the changes that will get you the sex life that you want.
I am a fully qualified, experienced and accredited psychotherapist, specialist in psychosexual & relationship therapy, couples therapy, and the treatment of compulsive sexual behaviours. I am a clinical traumatologist specialist in providing therapy for survivors of sexual abuse. I offer clinical supervision to psychotherapists, psychologists, counsellors and other mental health professionals. I hold a full professional insurance.
I am a fully qualified, experienced and accredited psychotherapist, specialist in psychosexual & relationship therapy, couples therapy, and the treatment of compulsive sexual behaviours. I am a clinical traumatologist specialist in providing therapy for survivors of sexual abuse. I offer clinical supervision to psychotherapists, psychologists, counsellors and other mental health professionals. I hold a full professional insurance.
If your relationships have left you feeling unlike yourself — raw, unsure, or stuck — you’re not alone.
I support people navigating dating, long-term partnerships, breakups, divorce, and complex family dynamics.
You might notice thoughts like, “I can’t stop thinking about my ex,” “I keep choosing the wrong people,” “I’m scared to end this,” or “My family drains me.” Or you may simply find yourself thinking, “I don’t recognise myself anymore,” “I feel betrayed and heartbroken,” or “I can’t manage this any longer and don’t know how to move forward.”
If your relationships have left you feeling unlike yourself — raw, unsure, or stuck — you’re not alone.
I support people navigating dating, long-term partnerships, breakups, divorce, and complex family dynamics.
You might notice thoughts like, “I can’t stop thinking about my ex,” “I keep choosing the wrong people,” “I’m scared to end this,” or “My family drains me.” Or you may simply find yourself thinking, “I don’t recognise myself anymore,” “I feel betrayed and heartbroken,” or “I can’t manage this any longer and don’t know how to move forward.”
I specialise in mental health challenges such as anxiety, depression, stress and men's related issues. Men's issues include ED, low sex drive, pornography addiction, alcohol addiction and relationship or social challenges. In psychotherapy sessions I provide a supportive setting that encourages you to reflect. We will explore the feelings, emotions and impact significant events have had on your life and their on the way you experience day-to-day life. We will work through your thought process moving towards the version of you that you've always wanted to be. Who is that person? Do they allow themselves to smile, laugh and be happy?
I specialise in mental health challenges such as anxiety, depression, stress and men's related issues. Men's issues include ED, low sex drive, pornography addiction, alcohol addiction and relationship or social challenges. In psychotherapy sessions I provide a supportive setting that encourages you to reflect. We will explore the feelings, emotions and impact significant events have had on your life and their on the way you experience day-to-day life. We will work through your thought process moving towards the version of you that you've always wanted to be. Who is that person? Do they allow themselves to smile, laugh and be happy?
I also work with couples on issues such as communication, sex, open relationships, infidelity and divorce.
I am a qualified Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist, registered with the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists (COSRT). I have a post-graduate diploma in clinical sexology and relationship therapy and a foundation certificate in counselling skills and practice from the Contemporary Institute for Clinical Sexology (CICS).
I also work with couples on issues such as communication, sex, open relationships, infidelity and divorce.
I am a qualified Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist, registered with the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists (COSRT). I have a post-graduate diploma in clinical sexology and relationship therapy and a foundation certificate in counselling skills and practice from the Contemporary Institute for Clinical Sexology (CICS).
I work with couples in crisis wanting to re-establish an emotional connection with each other, or perhaps repair and re-establish trust after an affair.
I also work with individuals experiencing high levels of anxiety and stress in their lives, relationship difficulties, depression, isolation and meaninglessness, loss, as well as people recovering from traumatic events, including narcissistic abuse.
I have a specialism in working with cross-cultural couples and expats (abroad and in the UK); I also have first-hand experience, being part of a cross-cultural family and having moved from Italy to the UK as young adult.
I work with couples in crisis wanting to re-establish an emotional connection with each other, or perhaps repair and re-establish trust after an affair.
I also work with individuals experiencing high levels of anxiety and stress in their lives, relationship difficulties, depression, isolation and meaninglessness, loss, as well as people recovering from traumatic events, including narcissistic abuse.
I have a specialism in working with cross-cultural couples and expats (abroad and in the UK); I also have first-hand experience, being part of a cross-cultural family and having moved from Italy to the UK as young adult.
I have worked deeply with clients presenting with infidelity, on either side.
Hi! I’m Shuchi, a qualified counsellor who works online, primarily with adults and teenagers. I am not your typical "nod and smile" counsellor - in my work with my clients, I empathise, support and also challenge you unequivocally. I aim to engage fully with you in our sessions, consciously choosing to limit the number of clients I see every week so as to be fully present with you. Sessions with me are honest, emotional, deep and sometimes even a tad humorous since I truly believe that humour, when used correctly, can be extremely therapeutic. I always work to provide you with an absolutely safe, non-judgemental space.
I have worked deeply with clients presenting with infidelity, on either side.
Hi! I’m Shuchi, a qualified counsellor who works online, primarily with adults and teenagers. I am not your typical "nod and smile" counsellor - in my work with my clients, I empathise, support and also challenge you unequivocally. I aim to engage fully with you in our sessions, consciously choosing to limit the number of clients I see every week so as to be fully present with you. Sessions with me are honest, emotional, deep and sometimes even a tad humorous since I truly believe that humour, when used correctly, can be extremely therapeutic. I always work to provide you with an absolutely safe, non-judgemental space.
I specialise in relationship issues such as; communication problems, trust issues, affairs, intimacy issues, low self-esteem, past relationship difficulties, separation and divorce, difficulty forming relationship, family and parenting style issues, anger issues, porn addiction and sexual difficulties.
Through the years of practice I have developed my own integrative approach to the relationship therapy. I have been trained in a range of relationship therapy approaches including psychodynamic, systemic, humanistic and cognitive behavioural therapy traditions. In my work, I prioritise my client's needs and we work together to achieve their goals.
I specialise in relationship issues such as; communication problems, trust issues, affairs, intimacy issues, low self-esteem, past relationship difficulties, separation and divorce, difficulty forming relationship, family and parenting style issues, anger issues, porn addiction and sexual difficulties.
Through the years of practice I have developed my own integrative approach to the relationship therapy. I have been trained in a range of relationship therapy approaches including psychodynamic, systemic, humanistic and cognitive behavioural therapy traditions. In my work, I prioritise my client's needs and we work together to achieve their goals.
I have a special interest in helping people who struggle in their relationships, whether that is after a betrayal or infidelity or having trouble communicating and getting your needs met, or dealing with a dramatic life change, such as the end of a relationship or divorce.
My manner has been described as deeply empathetic and compassionate. I offer a safe, accepting non-judgemental and grounded space to help support you focus on what you need in our sessions. I have experience of working with a wide range of clients and issues and of working with long term clients as well as short time focused work.
I have a special interest in helping people who struggle in their relationships, whether that is after a betrayal or infidelity or having trouble communicating and getting your needs met, or dealing with a dramatic life change, such as the end of a relationship or divorce.
My manner has been described as deeply empathetic and compassionate. I offer a safe, accepting non-judgemental and grounded space to help support you focus on what you need in our sessions. I have experience of working with a wide range of clients and issues and of working with long term clients as well as short time focused work.
Or perhaps you’re facing betrayal, sexual difficulties, ongoing conflict, major life changes, or growing differences in values.
I'm a specialised Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist working from a Gestalt perspective, an approach that starts with awareness. In our work together, we’ll explore what gets in the way of feeling connected or at ease, and begin to shift the patterns that keep showing up in your relationships. My style is warm, direct, non-judgemental and challenging.
Or perhaps you’re facing betrayal, sexual difficulties, ongoing conflict, major life changes, or growing differences in values.
I'm a specialised Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist working from a Gestalt perspective, an approach that starts with awareness. In our work together, we’ll explore what gets in the way of feeling connected or at ease, and begin to shift the patterns that keep showing up in your relationships. My style is warm, direct, non-judgemental and challenging.
As a Psychosexual and Relationship Psychotherapist, I specialise in addressing complex and sensitive concerns including difficulties with sexual functions, arousal, desire, orgasm; pornography use, kink, BDSM, compulsive sexual behaviours, sexual trauma; consensual non-monogamy; relationship problems; low self-esteem, body image issues, anxiety and depression. With over 25 years professional experience across the NHS, private healthcare and charity sector, I am able to offer a deeply informed perspective on the pressures of high performance environments and the impact these can have on emotional wellbeing and relationships.
As a Psychosexual and Relationship Psychotherapist, I specialise in addressing complex and sensitive concerns including difficulties with sexual functions, arousal, desire, orgasm; pornography use, kink, BDSM, compulsive sexual behaviours, sexual trauma; consensual non-monogamy; relationship problems; low self-esteem, body image issues, anxiety and depression. With over 25 years professional experience across the NHS, private healthcare and charity sector, I am able to offer a deeply informed perspective on the pressures of high performance environments and the impact these can have on emotional wellbeing and relationships.
Specialism areas: Couple Relationships ( infidelity, communication barriers, emotional reactivity), Anxiety, Self Worth & Self Esteem, Complex Childhood Trauma, Depression.
Therapy can feel daunting at first, yet in my experience it is the most progressive approach to lasting change. It equips you with in-depth understanding and can effectively repair negative patterns to restore connection and support you into building meaningful and lasting change.
Specialism areas: Couple Relationships ( infidelity, communication barriers, emotional reactivity), Anxiety, Self Worth & Self Esteem, Complex Childhood Trauma, Depression.
Therapy can feel daunting at first, yet in my experience it is the most progressive approach to lasting change. It equips you with in-depth understanding and can effectively repair negative patterns to restore connection and support you into building meaningful and lasting change.
I can help with sexual dysfunction & exploration, couples therapy, communication & conflict, trust & infidelity, as well as other relational issues, IVF/loss, compulsive behaviours, kinks, LGBTQ topics etc.
As a Psychosexual & Relationship Therapist, I help individuals and couples overcome the barriers that hold them back from living satisfying, sex-positive lives, and from having meaningful, deeply connective relationships.
I can help with sexual dysfunction & exploration, couples therapy, communication & conflict, trust & infidelity, as well as other relational issues, IVF/loss, compulsive behaviours, kinks, LGBTQ topics etc.
As a Psychosexual & Relationship Therapist, I help individuals and couples overcome the barriers that hold them back from living satisfying, sex-positive lives, and from having meaningful, deeply connective relationships.
Imagine what would be possible if you freed yourself from trauma, fear and loss; and instead, there were a possibility of hope and growth?
How would it feel if you enjoyed your sex life again after rape or sexual assault?
What would it be like if you let go of the grief you have for a loved one, and thought of them with appreciation and love instead of feeling pain and distress?
What would happen to your life if you could manage the loss of your baby, or your dearly hoped for child?
How would it feel if you were supported as a professional under investigation, or be guided to adjust after a traumatic event in your workplace?
Imagine what would be possible if you freed yourself from trauma, fear and loss; and instead, there were a possibility of hope and growth?
How would it feel if you enjoyed your sex life again after rape or sexual assault?
What would it be like if you let go of the grief you have for a loved one, and thought of them with appreciation and love instead of feeling pain and distress?
What would happen to your life if you could manage the loss of your baby, or your dearly hoped for child?
How would it feel if you were supported as a professional under investigation, or be guided to adjust after a traumatic event in your workplace?
I am trained in and have extensive experience in working with Depression, Anxiety, Loneliness, Rejection Sensitivity, Relationship Problems, Couple Therapy, ADHD, Infidelity, Affair, Divorce, Separation, Life transition, Stress, Trauma and Loss.
Psychodynamic – how your past experiences create your current experience and influence your decisions. Person-Centred – explore where you are now and where you want to be by becoming a better version of yourself. CBT - making sense of the connection of thoughts, beliefs, emotions and behaviour Attachment Therapy – demystifying pattern in your relationships.
I am trained in and have extensive experience in working with Depression, Anxiety, Loneliness, Rejection Sensitivity, Relationship Problems, Couple Therapy, ADHD, Infidelity, Affair, Divorce, Separation, Life transition, Stress, Trauma and Loss.
Psychodynamic – how your past experiences create your current experience and influence your decisions. Person-Centred – explore where you are now and where you want to be by becoming a better version of yourself. CBT - making sense of the connection of thoughts, beliefs, emotions and behaviour Attachment Therapy – demystifying pattern in your relationships.
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Infidelity Counsellors
How does therapy for infidelity work?
A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.
How long does therapy for infidelity take?
Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.
How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?
When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.
How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?
Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.