Bisexual Counselling in London
Many people come to therapy with me carrying something familiar — anxiety, self-doubt, a sense of pressure, or an ongoing unease — even if they’re not sure why it keeps showing up or why it doesn’t seem to shift. Often, people can recognise what’s happening for them, yet feel frustrated that it continues despite their best efforts. In our work together, how you relate to yourself often comes into focus first, alongside patterns such as overthinking, people-pleasing, or holding yourself to high standards, and questions about identity, belonging, and expectations around how life is supposed to look, and why it no longer fits.
Many people come to therapy with me carrying something familiar — anxiety, self-doubt, a sense of pressure, or an ongoing unease — even if they’re not sure why it keeps showing up or why it doesn’t seem to shift. Often, people can recognise what’s happening for them, yet feel frustrated that it continues despite their best efforts. In our work together, how you relate to yourself often comes into focus first, alongside patterns such as overthinking, people-pleasing, or holding yourself to high standards, and questions about identity, belonging, and expectations around how life is supposed to look, and why it no longer fits.
Sexual Compulsion Reset (21 Days). If porn, compulsive sex, or relapse cycles are running your life, it’s usually not a “willpower” problem, it’s a nervous system pattern. In 21 days, I help men reduce urge intensity from a 10 to a 3 by targeting the emotional driver underneath the behaviour. We track your urge score (0–10) each week so progress is measurable.
Sexual Compulsion Reset (21 Days). If porn, compulsive sex, or relapse cycles are running your life, it’s usually not a “willpower” problem, it’s a nervous system pattern. In 21 days, I help men reduce urge intensity from a 10 to a 3 by targeting the emotional driver underneath the behaviour. We track your urge score (0–10) each week so progress is measurable.
My name is Saboor, effective therapy requires a good professional relationship between therapist and client. It can also be a difficult process to start therapy. I, therefore, offer a FREE initial telephone consultation to help us both diagnose if I am the right therapist for you. I am flexible in my treatment, I try to create a space of openness and safety to allow my clients to explore. I work within the humanistic models as well as using techniques from CBT, DBT, PTSD, ADHD, and PHOBIA.
My name is Saboor, effective therapy requires a good professional relationship between therapist and client. It can also be a difficult process to start therapy. I, therefore, offer a FREE initial telephone consultation to help us both diagnose if I am the right therapist for you. I am flexible in my treatment, I try to create a space of openness and safety to allow my clients to explore. I work within the humanistic models as well as using techniques from CBT, DBT, PTSD, ADHD, and PHOBIA.
Hello, I am Bonnie. I am a bilingual, queer Chartered Clinical Psychologist passionate about creating a safe and affirming space. Whether you want to explore how your early life experiences have impacted your present attachments and relationships or seek support for major life changes, self-esteem issues, or challenges related to living with HIV, my aim is to support and guide you through an unflinching exploration of your experiences and helping you lay down some of the burdens you carry.
Hello, I am Bonnie. I am a bilingual, queer Chartered Clinical Psychologist passionate about creating a safe and affirming space. Whether you want to explore how your early life experiences have impacted your present attachments and relationships or seek support for major life changes, self-esteem issues, or challenges related to living with HIV, my aim is to support and guide you through an unflinching exploration of your experiences and helping you lay down some of the burdens you carry.
I often work with people who are feeling anxious, depressed, stuck, or overwhelmed. Many have developed creative ways of coping that once kept them safe, but now feel painful or limiting. For some, this can involve pushing feelings aside, holding parts of themselves back, staying busy or avoiding looking too closely at what feels uncomfortable, leaving them feeling disconnected from themselves or others.
A central part of my work is supporting people to navigate opposing truths, as both therapy and life can involve balancing hope and despair, comfort and challenge, fragility and strength, safety and risk, holding on and letting go.
I often work with people who are feeling anxious, depressed, stuck, or overwhelmed. Many have developed creative ways of coping that once kept them safe, but now feel painful or limiting. For some, this can involve pushing feelings aside, holding parts of themselves back, staying busy or avoiding looking too closely at what feels uncomfortable, leaving them feeling disconnected from themselves or others.
A central part of my work is supporting people to navigate opposing truths, as both therapy and life can involve balancing hope and despair, comfort and challenge, fragility and strength, safety and risk, holding on and letting go.
I’m Oliver, a humanistic and integrative psychotherapist based in South London. I provide a warm, reflective, and collaborative space to explore the challenges, questions, and experiences that shape your life.
My approach is rooted in the belief that we make sense of ourselves through our relationships with others, with the world, and with our own experience, and that therapy can be a space to understand and transform the patterns which may be holding us back.
I’m Oliver, a humanistic and integrative psychotherapist based in South London. I provide a warm, reflective, and collaborative space to explore the challenges, questions, and experiences that shape your life.
My approach is rooted in the belief that we make sense of ourselves through our relationships with others, with the world, and with our own experience, and that therapy can be a space to understand and transform the patterns which may be holding us back.
Hi, I am Ursula (she/her). I am an integrative, LGBTQIA+ affirmative therapist with an additional certification in Sex Counselling and a Master's degree in Sexuality Studies. I am currently undertaking an additional training in Autism & Mental Health.
If you are thinking about having therapy in order to talk about your relationship(s), navigating relationship models (e.g. open relationships, ethical non-monogamy, polamory), dating and being on the apps, sex, sexual issues, your sexual self, your sexual orientation or identity, your gender journey, experiences of non-consent, trauma, etc. I might be the right therapist for you.
Hi, I am Ursula (she/her). I am an integrative, LGBTQIA+ affirmative therapist with an additional certification in Sex Counselling and a Master's degree in Sexuality Studies. I am currently undertaking an additional training in Autism & Mental Health.
If you are thinking about having therapy in order to talk about your relationship(s), navigating relationship models (e.g. open relationships, ethical non-monogamy, polamory), dating and being on the apps, sex, sexual issues, your sexual self, your sexual orientation or identity, your gender journey, experiences of non-consent, trauma, etc. I might be the right therapist for you.
There are many ways people seek help, from addressing a particular event or behaviour to a more general sense that things are not right. I provide an open and confidential space to express whatever is on your mind.
My practice covers mental health (such as depression, shame and anxiety), sexuality and relationships, neurodiversity, addiction, loss, change and more. In the messy reality of life, I find these issues usually overlap.
We'll start wherever you are and work towards where you would like to be.
There are many ways people seek help, from addressing a particular event or behaviour to a more general sense that things are not right. I provide an open and confidential space to express whatever is on your mind.
My practice covers mental health (such as depression, shame and anxiety), sexuality and relationships, neurodiversity, addiction, loss, change and more. In the messy reality of life, I find these issues usually overlap.
We'll start wherever you are and work towards where you would like to be.
At times, we all face obstacles that leave us feeling stuck, lost, or weighed down by the emotional burdens we carry. Whether you’re struggling with low mood, anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, or unresolved grief, I believe in your innate capacity to heal and grow.
At times, we all face obstacles that leave us feeling stuck, lost, or weighed down by the emotional burdens we carry. Whether you’re struggling with low mood, anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, or unresolved grief, I believe in your innate capacity to heal and grow.
Hello, I’m Timi. I’m an integrative relational therapist offering a space where you can explore your life with curiosity and care. With over five years’ experience, I help you make sense of what has brought you to therapy. My work looks at how early attachment shapes thinking, feelings and relationships. I support people with relationship difficulties, identity and belonging, anxiety, low mood, burnout, addiction and shame. Alongside care, I offer gentle challenge. I offer therapy in person and online.
Hello, I’m Timi. I’m an integrative relational therapist offering a space where you can explore your life with curiosity and care. With over five years’ experience, I help you make sense of what has brought you to therapy. My work looks at how early attachment shapes thinking, feelings and relationships. I support people with relationship difficulties, identity and belonging, anxiety, low mood, burnout, addiction and shame. Alongside care, I offer gentle challenge. I offer therapy in person and online.
Hello, I am Sinisa. I am an experienced therapist and Lecturer in Counselling at the University of East London. Working with me, you will find a warm and safe environment to explore your thoughts, feelings, and beliefs. I am here to empower you to help yourself to create meaningful and lasting change. No matter what your background is, I am here to listen and help. I support people with a range of issues, some of which include: anxiety, depression, relationship issues, stress, low moods, sexuality and gender identity issues, low self-esteem, sadness, separation, divorce, middle-life crisis, procrastination, spiritual issues, etc.
Hello, I am Sinisa. I am an experienced therapist and Lecturer in Counselling at the University of East London. Working with me, you will find a warm and safe environment to explore your thoughts, feelings, and beliefs. I am here to empower you to help yourself to create meaningful and lasting change. No matter what your background is, I am here to listen and help. I support people with a range of issues, some of which include: anxiety, depression, relationship issues, stress, low moods, sexuality and gender identity issues, low self-esteem, sadness, separation, divorce, middle-life crisis, procrastination, spiritual issues, etc.
We provide decolonial, intersectional and anti-oppressive talking therapy to racially minoritised clients. We believe in our right to heal away from the white gaze and to have a safer space where we don't have to explain who we are or the different aspects of our culture or identity. We also believe that therapy should be a space where all identities are welcomed and understood including LGBTQ+ identities, gender diversity, neurodivergence and beyond.
We provide decolonial, intersectional and anti-oppressive talking therapy to racially minoritised clients. We believe in our right to heal away from the white gaze and to have a safer space where we don't have to explain who we are or the different aspects of our culture or identity. We also believe that therapy should be a space where all identities are welcomed and understood including LGBTQ+ identities, gender diversity, neurodivergence and beyond.
Welcome to my profile. I'm Andrea and I believe that everyone deserves to be truly heard and seen, without needing to leave parts of themselves behind.
My approach is warm, thoughtful, and collaborative. I work integratively, drawing from Person-Centred, Psychodynamic, ACT, and Transactional Analysis models to support my clients in a way that meets them where they are and with what they need.
Navigating a life transition? Struggling in relationships? Questioning aspects of your identity, or carrying emotions that feel too heavy to manage alone? I offer a space where you can bring your full self, without judgement or pressure.
Welcome to my profile. I'm Andrea and I believe that everyone deserves to be truly heard and seen, without needing to leave parts of themselves behind.
My approach is warm, thoughtful, and collaborative. I work integratively, drawing from Person-Centred, Psychodynamic, ACT, and Transactional Analysis models to support my clients in a way that meets them where they are and with what they need.
Navigating a life transition? Struggling in relationships? Questioning aspects of your identity, or carrying emotions that feel too heavy to manage alone? I offer a space where you can bring your full self, without judgement or pressure.
I’m Wendy, an HCPC-registered psychologist and believe that we all have the capacity to make changes in the direction we desire with the right support, even when it can feel overwhelmingly difficult.
I work with people experiencing many different types of issues related to life experiences, which may be causing them anxiety and low mood. As an integrative practitioner, I use a range of approaches to provide therapy responsive to the individual, tailored to their specific needs. A person-centred philosophy is at the heart of my work and I always aim to provide a warm, empathic and effective therapeutic space.
I’m Wendy, an HCPC-registered psychologist and believe that we all have the capacity to make changes in the direction we desire with the right support, even when it can feel overwhelmingly difficult.
I work with people experiencing many different types of issues related to life experiences, which may be causing them anxiety and low mood. As an integrative practitioner, I use a range of approaches to provide therapy responsive to the individual, tailored to their specific needs. A person-centred philosophy is at the heart of my work and I always aim to provide a warm, empathic and effective therapeutic space.
Are you experiencing anxiety or stress, perhaps feeling isolated by shame, trauma, or societal pressures? I offer an inclusive, compassionate, affirming space to reflect on your experiences and explore what feels meaningful or true for you. Our conversations may open space to reconnect with silenced parts of yourself, ease distress, or wonder about ways you could live more authentically despite cultural expectations. Sessions are relational, supportive, and gently challenging, always shaped around your unique journey.
Are you experiencing anxiety or stress, perhaps feeling isolated by shame, trauma, or societal pressures? I offer an inclusive, compassionate, affirming space to reflect on your experiences and explore what feels meaningful or true for you. Our conversations may open space to reconnect with silenced parts of yourself, ease distress, or wonder about ways you could live more authentically despite cultural expectations. Sessions are relational, supportive, and gently challenging, always shaped around your unique journey.
I am an HCPC registered Clinical Psychologist, working in both private practice and academia. When offering therapy, I strive to be non-judgmental, compassionate and warm. I see therapy as a collaborative process, where both you and I come together to mutually agree on your goals for therapy. I take special care to be aware of the intersections in our identities such as gender, ethnicity, race, sexuality, neurodivergence and ability levels. I also value being receptive to your needs and aim to help you navigate any difficulties you are experiencing and come out the other side.
I am an HCPC registered Clinical Psychologist, working in both private practice and academia. When offering therapy, I strive to be non-judgmental, compassionate and warm. I see therapy as a collaborative process, where both you and I come together to mutually agree on your goals for therapy. I take special care to be aware of the intersections in our identities such as gender, ethnicity, race, sexuality, neurodivergence and ability levels. I also value being receptive to your needs and aim to help you navigate any difficulties you are experiencing and come out the other side.
I specialise in working with professional women and LGBTQ+ clients(looking at systemic/legacy oppressions), as well as people who feel drawn to an embodied, relational and depth-oriented approach. Many of the people I work with are living with the impact of trauma, complex trauma, or long-standing emotional patterns. I have particular experience supporting survivors of sexual abuse and sexual violence, alongside clients navigating anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, family and relationship difficulties, bereavement and loss, identity-related distress, shame, chronic stress and dissociation.
I specialise in working with professional women and LGBTQ+ clients(looking at systemic/legacy oppressions), as well as people who feel drawn to an embodied, relational and depth-oriented approach. Many of the people I work with are living with the impact of trauma, complex trauma, or long-standing emotional patterns. I have particular experience supporting survivors of sexual abuse and sexual violence, alongside clients navigating anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, family and relationship difficulties, bereavement and loss, identity-related distress, shame, chronic stress and dissociation.
Right now you may feel desperate, lost, empty, stressed, anxious or fed up. Whatever difficulty has prompted you to seek Counselling does not define who are you are and the journey you want to take in life. Together we will explore your feelings of being stuck, alone or in darkness as you strengthen your own resources to create greater wellbeing, resilience and satisfaction. No person is the same or brings identical experiences but frequent issues I work with include depression, anxiety, loss & bereavement, trauma, suicidal thoughts, work or school stress and relationship tensions. I work with clients aged 13+ and with Couples.
Right now you may feel desperate, lost, empty, stressed, anxious or fed up. Whatever difficulty has prompted you to seek Counselling does not define who are you are and the journey you want to take in life. Together we will explore your feelings of being stuck, alone or in darkness as you strengthen your own resources to create greater wellbeing, resilience and satisfaction. No person is the same or brings identical experiences but frequent issues I work with include depression, anxiety, loss & bereavement, trauma, suicidal thoughts, work or school stress and relationship tensions. I work with clients aged 13+ and with Couples.
I believe that we tend to access therapy when it’s no longer possible for us to travel alone on our journey, hidden from ourselves and others, stuck in familiar and/or unfamiliar patterns that can no longer contain us, and when the way in which we are relating (or not relating) to ourselves, others and the world around us, is no longer making us feel fully alive. Something tells us it's time to look inwards. Looking inwards can feel daunting but it is necessary in order to instigate meaningful and lasting changes ( both external and internal ).
I believe that we tend to access therapy when it’s no longer possible for us to travel alone on our journey, hidden from ourselves and others, stuck in familiar and/or unfamiliar patterns that can no longer contain us, and when the way in which we are relating (or not relating) to ourselves, others and the world around us, is no longer making us feel fully alive. Something tells us it's time to look inwards. Looking inwards can feel daunting but it is necessary in order to instigate meaningful and lasting changes ( both external and internal ).
I work with people experiencing trauma, depression, anxiety; I offer an initial consultation of Clinical assessment and further recommendations and referrals if needed; Besides, I offer a short-term EMDR therapy, Stress management and Clinical hypnosis
I work with people experiencing trauma, depression, anxiety; I offer an initial consultation of Clinical assessment and further recommendations and referrals if needed; Besides, I offer a short-term EMDR therapy, Stress management and Clinical hypnosis
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Bisexual Counsellors
What is bisexual-affirming therapy?
Bisexual-affirming therapy is a type of mental health support that fully affirms and reflects a client’s bisexual identity. It is rooted in acceptance and does not attempt to change or question an individual’s orientation. In this type of therapy, clients work with a therapist who understands the unique experiences of bisexual people. This support is especially important, as research shows that bisexual individuals face higher rates of anxiety, depression, and suicidal ideation compared to other groups. Bisexual-affirming therapy acknowledges that bisexual individuals may encounter specific stressors—such as invalidation, relationship challenges, and minority stress—that require specialised understanding and intervention. Many therapists also provide couples therapy for bisexual partners, helping them navigate relationship dynamics, communication challenges, or external stressors that may impact their relationship. While not required, some clients prefer working with bisexual therapists who may bring personal insight to the therapeutic relationship. However, a non-bisexual therapist with strong training and a genuine commitment to affirmation can be equally effective. The most important factor is finding a therapist who understands how identity impacts mental health and can create a space of trust and respect.
What can a bisexual therapist help with?
Bisexual-affirming therapists can provide support across a wide range of concerns relevant to bisexual individuals. Whether through personal or professional experience, they often have specialised knowledge in areas such as the coming out process, navigating stereotypes, and dealing with common stressors. Relationship support is another key area of focus, as bisexual clients may face unique challenge when dating or maintaining relationships across genders. Affirming therapists can also help clients build coping strategies for managing discrimination or stigma. Additionally, many bisexual-affirming therapists can connect clients to other providers or community-based resources—such as bisexual support groups or LGBTQ+ organisations—that offer additional affirming spaces for connection. It's important to note that therapists provide can talk therapy and counseling services but do not prescribe medication—if medication is needed for conditions like depression or anxiety, they will coordinate care with a psychiatrist or primary care physician who can provide psychiatric medication management alongside therapeutic support.
How do I find a bisexual therapist?
The Psychology Today online directory is a helpful tool for finding bisexual-affirming therapists. You can use search filters to identify therapists who specialise in LGBTQ+ care and work specifically with bisexual clients. You can also filter by clinical specialties, therapeutic approaches, accepted insurance, session costs, and languages spoken to find the right fit. During initial consultations or early sessions, ask potential therapists about their specific training in bisexual-affirming care, their experience with LGBTQ+ clients, and their therapeutic approach to identity-related concerns. An effective bisexual-affirming therapist will demonstrate genuine understanding of bisexual experiences, including awareness of the unique challenges facing bisexual individuals. You can also look for credentials or continuing education in areas such as LGBTQ+ mental health, trauma-informed care, and intersectionality.