Infidelity Counselling in West London, London

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The Journey Psychotherapy Msc Mbacp
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
West London, London W1G
I specialise in mental health challenges such as anxiety, depression, stress and men's related issues. Men's issues include ED, low sex drive, pornography addiction, alcohol addiction and relationship or social challenges. In psychotherapy sessions I provide a supportive setting that encourages you to reflect. We will explore the feelings, emotions and impact significant events have had on your life and their on the way you experience day-to-day life. We will work through your thought process moving towards the version of you that you've always wanted to be. Who is that person? Do they allow themselves to smile, laugh and be happy?
I specialise in mental health challenges such as anxiety, depression, stress and men's related issues. Men's issues include ED, low sex drive, pornography addiction, alcohol addiction and relationship or social challenges. In psychotherapy sessions I provide a supportive setting that encourages you to reflect. We will explore the feelings, emotions and impact significant events have had on your life and their on the way you experience day-to-day life. We will work through your thought process moving towards the version of you that you've always wanted to be. Who is that person? Do they allow themselves to smile, laugh and be happy?
020 3835 3369 View 020 3835 3369
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theyxologist
Psychotherapist, MSc, COSRT Reg.
1 Endorsed
West London, London W1T
I can help with sexual dysfunction & exploration, couples therapy, communication & conflict, trust & infidelity, as well as other relational issues, IVF/loss, compulsive behaviours, kinks, LGBTQ topics etc.
As a Psychosexual & Relationship Therapist, I help individuals and couples overcome the barriers that hold them back from living satisfying, sex-positive lives, and from having meaningful, deeply connective relationships.
I can help with sexual dysfunction & exploration, couples therapy, communication & conflict, trust & infidelity, as well as other relational issues, IVF/loss, compulsive behaviours, kinks, LGBTQ topics etc.
As a Psychosexual & Relationship Therapist, I help individuals and couples overcome the barriers that hold them back from living satisfying, sex-positive lives, and from having meaningful, deeply connective relationships.
020 4538 1695 View 020 4538 1695
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Silva Neves
Psychotherapist, COSRT Accred
3 Endorsed
West London, London W1S
I am a fully qualified, experienced and accredited psychotherapist, specialist in psychosexual & relationship therapy, couples therapy, and the treatment of compulsive sexual behaviours. I am a clinical traumatologist specialist in providing therapy for survivors of sexual abuse. I offer clinical supervision to psychotherapists, psychologists, counsellors and other mental health professionals. I hold a full professional insurance.
I am a fully qualified, experienced and accredited psychotherapist, specialist in psychosexual & relationship therapy, couples therapy, and the treatment of compulsive sexual behaviours. I am a clinical traumatologist specialist in providing therapy for survivors of sexual abuse. I offer clinical supervision to psychotherapists, psychologists, counsellors and other mental health professionals. I hold a full professional insurance.
020 3974 1463 View 020 3974 1463
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Katja Brodt de Sousa
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
West London, London W4
I am trained in and have extensive experience in working with Depression, Anxiety, Loneliness, Rejection Sensitivity, Relationship Problems, Couple Therapy, ADHD, Infidelity, Affair, Divorce, Separation, Life transition, Stress, Trauma and Loss.
Psychodynamic – how your past experiences create your current experience and influence your decisions. Person-Centred – explore where you are now and where you want to be by becoming a better version of yourself. CBT - making sense of the connection of thoughts, beliefs, emotions and behaviour Attachment Therapy – demystifying pattern in your relationships.
I am trained in and have extensive experience in working with Depression, Anxiety, Loneliness, Rejection Sensitivity, Relationship Problems, Couple Therapy, ADHD, Infidelity, Affair, Divorce, Separation, Life transition, Stress, Trauma and Loss.
Psychodynamic – how your past experiences create your current experience and influence your decisions. Person-Centred – explore where you are now and where you want to be by becoming a better version of yourself. CBT - making sense of the connection of thoughts, beliefs, emotions and behaviour Attachment Therapy – demystifying pattern in your relationships.
07481 345940 View 07481 345940
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Dr Alan Flynn
Psychologist, PsychD, CPsychol
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
Are you experiencing challenges with your relationships, difficult feelings, such as anxiety or depression, or feeling stuck in unhelpful patterns in your life? Perhaps you deal with your pressures so that others around you don’t seem to notice yet inwardly feel troubled or unsettled. Or you might have had a difficult recent life event or yet to deal fully with early life experiences that are impacting you now? I’m a Senior Counselling Psychologist and accredited Mentalisation Based Therapist. I can help you, as an individual or couple, to understand what is happening at a deeper level, so you can find new ways of moving forward.
Are you experiencing challenges with your relationships, difficult feelings, such as anxiety or depression, or feeling stuck in unhelpful patterns in your life? Perhaps you deal with your pressures so that others around you don’t seem to notice yet inwardly feel troubled or unsettled. Or you might have had a difficult recent life event or yet to deal fully with early life experiences that are impacting you now? I’m a Senior Counselling Psychologist and accredited Mentalisation Based Therapist. I can help you, as an individual or couple, to understand what is happening at a deeper level, so you can find new ways of moving forward.
020 3835 5896 View 020 3835 5896
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Nicola Toye Relationship Therapy
Counsellor, MSc, COSRT General
Serves Area
Do you feel you would like your relationship to be in a better place? Perhaps you're going through a life transition, such as becoming parents, or you're raising a family and you would love to find that spark between you as a couple again. Have you noticed a distance between you, and that you miss the closeness and intimacy you once shared? Maybe your relationship has reached a crisis point such as an affair and you're looking to help your relationship heal. Or maybe communication has become an issue, leaving you feeling that your true needs are not being met and you would like to understand each other better.
Do you feel you would like your relationship to be in a better place? Perhaps you're going through a life transition, such as becoming parents, or you're raising a family and you would love to find that spark between you as a couple again. Have you noticed a distance between you, and that you miss the closeness and intimacy you once shared? Maybe your relationship has reached a crisis point such as an affair and you're looking to help your relationship heal. Or maybe communication has become an issue, leaving you feeling that your true needs are not being met and you would like to understand each other better.
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Suzanne Lunn
Psychotherapist, MA
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
I also work with couples on issues such as communication, sex, open relationships, infidelity and divorce.
I am a qualified Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist, registered with the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists (COSRT). I have a post-graduate diploma in clinical sexology and relationship therapy and a foundation certificate in counselling skills and practice from the Contemporary Institute for Clinical Sexology (CICS).
I also work with couples on issues such as communication, sex, open relationships, infidelity and divorce.
I am a qualified Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist, registered with the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists (COSRT). I have a post-graduate diploma in clinical sexology and relationship therapy and a foundation certificate in counselling skills and practice from the Contemporary Institute for Clinical Sexology (CICS).
020 3597 6612 View 020 3597 6612
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CoupleTherapistLondon
Psychotherapist, MNCPS Acc.
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
I can help you with: 1) communication and differences, 2) sex and ageing, 3) conflicts, 4) dealing with affairs.
I have a solid background in couples counselling and over 17 years of experience helping people.
I can help you with: 1) communication and differences, 2) sex and ageing, 3) conflicts, 4) dealing with affairs.
I have a solid background in couples counselling and over 17 years of experience helping people.
020 4572 2488 View 020 4572 2488
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Working Through
Counsellor, MA, COSRT General
Serves Area
I work with people who might be struggling with sexual or relationship difficulties such as erectile dysfunction, rapid or delayed ejaculation, anxiety around sex, relationships and intimacy issues, sexual abuse or assault, sexual health issues, compulsive sexual behaviours, vulval pain conditions, vaginismus, dyspareunia (pain during intercourse), sexual orientation questions or insecurities, pornography issues, orgasmic or anorgasmic problems, sexual phobias or aversions, fears around lack of sexual experience, loss of desire, affairs, marital break ups, open relationships, kinks, bdsm, polyamory, addictions, codependency, trauma.
Psychosexual issues are not just purely physical dysfunctions but also both psychological and emotional. My goal is to help you come to a better understanding of you sexual and relationship difficulties and to work together facilitating the changes that will get you the sex life that you want.
I work with people who might be struggling with sexual or relationship difficulties such as erectile dysfunction, rapid or delayed ejaculation, anxiety around sex, relationships and intimacy issues, sexual abuse or assault, sexual health issues, compulsive sexual behaviours, vulval pain conditions, vaginismus, dyspareunia (pain during intercourse), sexual orientation questions or insecurities, pornography issues, orgasmic or anorgasmic problems, sexual phobias or aversions, fears around lack of sexual experience, loss of desire, affairs, marital break ups, open relationships, kinks, bdsm, polyamory, addictions, codependency, trauma.
Psychosexual issues are not just purely physical dysfunctions but also both psychological and emotional. My goal is to help you come to a better understanding of you sexual and relationship difficulties and to work together facilitating the changes that will get you the sex life that you want.
020 8103 5619 View 020 8103 5619
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Alex Iga Golabek
Verified Verified
Online Only
Although most people turn to therapy due to significant turning points like loss or bereavement, betrayal, conflict or a perceived defeat, others recognise their need to begin psychotherapeutic treatment due to feeling bewildered, unable to deal with unexpected low mood or experiencing anxiety.
I offer an integrative approach to psychotherapy, both individual and relationship.
Although most people turn to therapy due to significant turning points like loss or bereavement, betrayal, conflict or a perceived defeat, others recognise their need to begin psychotherapeutic treatment due to feeling bewildered, unable to deal with unexpected low mood or experiencing anxiety.
I offer an integrative approach to psychotherapy, both individual and relationship.
01789 339330 View 01789 339330
Sinéad Ní Mhaoileoin
Psychotherapist, COSRT General
Serves Area
I am a highly qualified Relationship & Sex Therapist with 15 years experience. I am also trained in 2 evidence-based treatment models, each grounded in decades of research, Emotionally Focused Therapy and The Gottman Method. These provide us with deeper understandings and knowledge of what is required to help couples build more secure, resilient and loving bonds. Often, couples in distress don't know how to respond to each other in the face of emotional turmoil as a result of not getting the love they need and want from each other. Unlocking these co-created patterns of dis-connection with a relationship therapist is often required.
I am a highly qualified Relationship & Sex Therapist with 15 years experience. I am also trained in 2 evidence-based treatment models, each grounded in decades of research, Emotionally Focused Therapy and The Gottman Method. These provide us with deeper understandings and knowledge of what is required to help couples build more secure, resilient and loving bonds. Often, couples in distress don't know how to respond to each other in the face of emotional turmoil as a result of not getting the love they need and want from each other. Unlocking these co-created patterns of dis-connection with a relationship therapist is often required.
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Dr Sarah Enderby
Psychotherapist, PhD, MBACP
2 Endorsed
Online Only
You may be coming to counselling because you are in crisis, unable to see a way through a situation or feeling lost or alone. You might be seeking the 'right' answer around a difficult life decision. It may have taken many years to find the courage to seek help for issues which run deep, perhaps stemming from difficult, early experiences in childhood or from trauma. I specialise in working with self esteem and anxiety, relationship issues, and LGBTQ+ folks, however, everybody is welcome.
You may be coming to counselling because you are in crisis, unable to see a way through a situation or feeling lost or alone. You might be seeking the 'right' answer around a difficult life decision. It may have taken many years to find the courage to seek help for issues which run deep, perhaps stemming from difficult, early experiences in childhood or from trauma. I specialise in working with self esteem and anxiety, relationship issues, and LGBTQ+ folks, however, everybody is welcome.
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Dr Emma Jartell
Psychologist, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Online Only
I have experience of a wide variety of therapeutic settings, working with loss and bereavement, work-related stress, migration, anxiety, depression and relationship issues. In therapy I will provide a safe, confidential and non-judgemental space where we can explore the challenges in your life and how you can make the choices that are right for you at this point in your life. I provide therapy in English and in Swedish.
I have experience of a wide variety of therapeutic settings, working with loss and bereavement, work-related stress, migration, anxiety, depression and relationship issues. In therapy I will provide a safe, confidential and non-judgemental space where we can explore the challenges in your life and how you can make the choices that are right for you at this point in your life. I provide therapy in English and in Swedish.
01707 938063 View 01707 938063
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Rita Fawcett
Counsellor, MA, BACP
West London, London W11
I am an integrative and humanistic counselling psychotherapist working at HQ Therapy in Hackney and also in West London. I hold an MA in Psychotherapy and counselling, an advanced diploma in psychotherapy and counselling (PGCIP), from Regent’s University, complimented with a BA in psychology. As an integrative therapist, I draw on a range of theories from different schools of thought to best meet your individual needs and situation. I don’t believe in a one-size-fits-all method; instead, I work collaboratively and holistically to tailor the therapeutic process to you.
I am an integrative and humanistic counselling psychotherapist working at HQ Therapy in Hackney and also in West London. I hold an MA in Psychotherapy and counselling, an advanced diploma in psychotherapy and counselling (PGCIP), from Regent’s University, complimented with a BA in psychology. As an integrative therapist, I draw on a range of theories from different schools of thought to best meet your individual needs and situation. I don’t believe in a one-size-fits-all method; instead, I work collaboratively and holistically to tailor the therapeutic process to you.
020 4572 1934 View 020 4572 1934
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Naomi Aston
Psychologist, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
West London, London W1W
Waitlist for new clients
As a Chartered Counselling Psychologist (CPsychol), I guide driven individuals like you to rediscover their inner strength and create a life of greater meaning and joy. I can help you feel understood and connected to your true self, regain a sense of inner stability and strength, and be sure of your next steps and how to move forward.
As a Chartered Counselling Psychologist (CPsychol), I guide driven individuals like you to rediscover their inner strength and create a life of greater meaning and joy. I can help you feel understood and connected to your true self, regain a sense of inner stability and strength, and be sure of your next steps and how to move forward.
020 4572 2923 View 020 4572 2923
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Dr Cristian A Nica
Psychologist, MSc, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
West London, London W2
The loss avoidance game becomes a finite cycle, where the pursuit of pleasure "always" wins. Progress means change, rehearsing new ways of thinking or a range of strategies to iterate development safely. The result: a genuine approach for you to find a better way forward. My goal is to enable a strong mental foundation where mindful skills will help you keep life within reach. I am HCPC-registered in clinical, counselling, health, and occupational psychology. Supervisor, providing services beginning from eclectic CBT interventions (ACT, DBT, or ST), the most effective and intuitive psychological framework.
The loss avoidance game becomes a finite cycle, where the pursuit of pleasure "always" wins. Progress means change, rehearsing new ways of thinking or a range of strategies to iterate development safely. The result: a genuine approach for you to find a better way forward. My goal is to enable a strong mental foundation where mindful skills will help you keep life within reach. I am HCPC-registered in clinical, counselling, health, and occupational psychology. Supervisor, providing services beginning from eclectic CBT interventions (ACT, DBT, or ST), the most effective and intuitive psychological framework.
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Bill Adlard
Psychotherapist, MBACP
West London, London W2
Do you need someone to talk to? Do you need some emotional support, and help understanding what’s going on? There can be times when you feel overwhelmed and powerless, and now you’ve taken the decision to reach out for help. My priority is to make you feel safe and supported enough in the session to talk freely about whatever is bothering you, about whatever you’re feeling, and that can be quite a daunting prospect. Maybe you’ve never really had the opportunity to explain your innermost thoughts and feelings to someone who cares. You’ll find it liberating, and it will be the start of a major journey of healing and self-discovery.
Do you need someone to talk to? Do you need some emotional support, and help understanding what’s going on? There can be times when you feel overwhelmed and powerless, and now you’ve taken the decision to reach out for help. My priority is to make you feel safe and supported enough in the session to talk freely about whatever is bothering you, about whatever you’re feeling, and that can be quite a daunting prospect. Maybe you’ve never really had the opportunity to explain your innermost thoughts and feelings to someone who cares. You’ll find it liberating, and it will be the start of a major journey of healing and self-discovery.
020 3389 6057 View 020 3389 6057
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Ana Cooper
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
West London, London W3
I am a fully qualified BACP Accredited Integrative Psychotherapist, with nearly 30 years' experience, who worked in frontline NHS services (Hospitals and GP surgeries) for most of my career, and now works exclusively in Private Practice. The three issues I am most proficient in treating are anxiety, depression, and relationship difficulties. (I count myself in the number of people I have helped out of those dark places.)
I am a fully qualified BACP Accredited Integrative Psychotherapist, with nearly 30 years' experience, who worked in frontline NHS services (Hospitals and GP surgeries) for most of my career, and now works exclusively in Private Practice. The three issues I am most proficient in treating are anxiety, depression, and relationship difficulties. (I count myself in the number of people I have helped out of those dark places.)
01748 902517 View 01748 902517
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Patricia Sandford Therapy
Psychotherapist, MBACP
West London, London W14
Waitlist for new clients
Feeling alone in your relationship? Can't figure out why your relationships aren't working out and you end up alone? You are not alone. If your relationships aren't working, are unhappy, are unsatisfying your quality of life isn't all it could be. It's sad. It's exhausting. It feels hopeless sometimes. You are already taking the first step looking for someone to help you. I hear from so many couples and individuals who felt ashamed or frustrated they couldn't figure it out for themselves. That it means their marriage must be over or somethings wrong with them if they need to see a relationship therapist. You are not alone.
Feeling alone in your relationship? Can't figure out why your relationships aren't working out and you end up alone? You are not alone. If your relationships aren't working, are unhappy, are unsatisfying your quality of life isn't all it could be. It's sad. It's exhausting. It feels hopeless sometimes. You are already taking the first step looking for someone to help you. I hear from so many couples and individuals who felt ashamed or frustrated they couldn't figure it out for themselves. That it means their marriage must be over or somethings wrong with them if they need to see a relationship therapist. You are not alone.
020 4538 2580 View 020 4538 2580
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Karen Hartley
Psychotherapist, MBACP
West London, London W1W
Life can feel like a relentless sprint to keep up with everything and everyone. But what if you gave yourself permission to slow down and do the deep, grounding work required to become the best version of you? My approach to therapy is like building a timeless wardrobe: we'll identify the core, classic pieces of your identity while compassionately editing out what no longer serves you. I believe that nurturing your inner self is the ultimate form of self-care. As a therapist with a background featured in publications like The Guardian and The Telegraph, I offer a supportive space that is both insightful and refreshingly authentic.
Life can feel like a relentless sprint to keep up with everything and everyone. But what if you gave yourself permission to slow down and do the deep, grounding work required to become the best version of you? My approach to therapy is like building a timeless wardrobe: we'll identify the core, classic pieces of your identity while compassionately editing out what no longer serves you. I believe that nurturing your inner self is the ultimate form of self-care. As a therapist with a background featured in publications like The Guardian and The Telegraph, I offer a supportive space that is both insightful and refreshingly authentic.
023 8214 9366 View 023 8214 9366

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Infidelity Counsellors

How does therapy for infidelity work?

A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?

Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?

When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?

Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.