Sex Therapy Counselling in West End, London
My approach is inclusive, sex-positive, and affirming of all identities and relationship styles.
I work with individuals and couples, often supporting those facing issues such as anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, relationship struggles, and a sense of disconnection. I offer a warm, non-judgemental space where you can explore what’s holding you back and begin to reconnect with yourself and others.
My approach is inclusive, sex-positive, and affirming of all identities and relationship styles.
I work with individuals and couples, often supporting those facing issues such as anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, relationship struggles, and a sense of disconnection. I offer a warm, non-judgemental space where you can explore what’s holding you back and begin to reconnect with yourself and others.
My special interest and expertise is in gender, sexuality, relationship diversity, ADHD, and Equity Diversity & Inclusion.
I work collaboratively, integrating various models including CBT, Systemic & Narrative therapy. My clinical work is framed within Existentialism and a Person Centric approach. I draw upon spirituality, learnings from Eastern traditions and holistic practices when they resonate with the client’s world view.
My special interest and expertise is in gender, sexuality, relationship diversity, ADHD, and Equity Diversity & Inclusion.
I work collaboratively, integrating various models including CBT, Systemic & Narrative therapy. My clinical work is framed within Existentialism and a Person Centric approach. I draw upon spirituality, learnings from Eastern traditions and holistic practices when they resonate with the client’s world view.
I recognise the importance of cultural difference and diversity in the helping relationship, with respect to age, disability, gender, sexuality & ethnicity.
I work with a variety of issues such as erectile reliability, premature ejaculation, delayed ejaculation, vaginismus, chronic painful penetrative sex, anorgasmia, low desire, & sexually compulsive behaviour. I also work with couples whose issues are not sexual in nature but rather relational, such as communication, conflict, ethical non-monogamy & infidelity
I recognise the importance of cultural difference and diversity in the helping relationship, with respect to age, disability, gender, sexuality & ethnicity.
I work with a variety of issues such as erectile reliability, premature ejaculation, delayed ejaculation, vaginismus, chronic painful penetrative sex, anorgasmia, low desire, & sexually compulsive behaviour. I also work with couples whose issues are not sexual in nature but rather relational, such as communication, conflict, ethical non-monogamy & infidelity
I also have expertise in working with LGBTQ+ communities and in Gender Sexuality & Relationship Diversity.
I practice integrative therapy which means that I work with a range of different therapeutic models depending on what you need. I use a combination of therapeutic models, including IFS (Internal Family Systems), CFT (Compassion Focus Therapy), CBT (Cognitive Analytical Therapy) and Psychodynamic therapy.
I also have expertise in working with LGBTQ+ communities and in Gender Sexuality & Relationship Diversity.
I practice integrative therapy which means that I work with a range of different therapeutic models depending on what you need. I use a combination of therapeutic models, including IFS (Internal Family Systems), CFT (Compassion Focus Therapy), CBT (Cognitive Analytical Therapy) and Psychodynamic therapy.
Others are struggling with identity or relationship difficulties, including issues around confidence, shame, sexuality, sex or intimacy.
As a qualified Counselling Psychologist and sex and relationship therapist working in the NHS and private practice, I bring a specialist understanding of emotional, relational, and sexual wellbeing.
Furthermore, my training as an Osteopath, has shaped the holistic way I think about and work with the connection between the body and mind.
Others are struggling with identity or relationship difficulties, including issues around confidence, shame, sexuality, sex or intimacy.
As a qualified Counselling Psychologist and sex and relationship therapist working in the NHS and private practice, I bring a specialist understanding of emotional, relational, and sexual wellbeing.
Furthermore, my training as an Osteopath, has shaped the holistic way I think about and work with the connection between the body and mind.
Experiencing an issue with sex or sexuality can be enormously upsetting and damaging to self esteem.
I welcome you to share your uncensored-self and express feelings or thoughts that might feel difficult to share in other areas of your life. We may look into your past in order to unpack and organise what has led you to this point, but I am equally focused on what you experience in the present and would like from the future.
Experiencing an issue with sex or sexuality can be enormously upsetting and damaging to self esteem.
I welcome you to share your uncensored-self and express feelings or thoughts that might feel difficult to share in other areas of your life. We may look into your past in order to unpack and organise what has led you to this point, but I am equally focused on what you experience in the present and would like from the future.
Are you feeling overwhelmed by physical or mental health problems or weight? Does your body or mind feel out of your control? Perhaps you've been diagnosed with a new condition or can't get your head round an existing one? Are any of these issues impacting on your emotions or relationships with others? I can help. I value supporting people with finding their own path, standing out from the crowd, building connection and relationships. I am not a fixer and I don't have all the answers, although I know that I am OK to sit with people in chaos. I strongly believe people can be empowered to find their own way, on their own terms.
Are you feeling overwhelmed by physical or mental health problems or weight? Does your body or mind feel out of your control? Perhaps you've been diagnosed with a new condition or can't get your head round an existing one? Are any of these issues impacting on your emotions or relationships with others? I can help. I value supporting people with finding their own path, standing out from the crowd, building connection and relationships. I am not a fixer and I don't have all the answers, although I know that I am OK to sit with people in chaos. I strongly believe people can be empowered to find their own way, on their own terms.
I work with people who might be struggling with sexual or relationship difficulties such as erectile dysfunction, rapid or delayed ejaculation, anxiety around sex, relationships and intimacy issues, sexual abuse or assault, sexual health issues, compulsive sexual behaviours, vulval pain conditions, vaginismus, dyspareunia (pain during intercourse), sexual orientation questions or insecurities, pornography issues, orgasmic or anorgasmic problems, sexual phobias or aversions, fears around lack of sexual experience, loss of desire, affairs, marital break ups, open relationships, kinks, bdsm, polyamory, addictions, codependency, trauma.
Psychosexual issues are not just purely physical dysfunctions but also both psychological and emotional. My goal is to help you come to a better understanding of you sexual and relationship difficulties and to work together facilitating the changes that will get you the sex life that you want.
I work with people who might be struggling with sexual or relationship difficulties such as erectile dysfunction, rapid or delayed ejaculation, anxiety around sex, relationships and intimacy issues, sexual abuse or assault, sexual health issues, compulsive sexual behaviours, vulval pain conditions, vaginismus, dyspareunia (pain during intercourse), sexual orientation questions or insecurities, pornography issues, orgasmic or anorgasmic problems, sexual phobias or aversions, fears around lack of sexual experience, loss of desire, affairs, marital break ups, open relationships, kinks, bdsm, polyamory, addictions, codependency, trauma.
Psychosexual issues are not just purely physical dysfunctions but also both psychological and emotional. My goal is to help you come to a better understanding of you sexual and relationship difficulties and to work together facilitating the changes that will get you the sex life that you want.
Shana Laffy - Sex and Relationship Therapist
Psychotherapist, MSc, COSRT Reg.
4 Endorsed
Serves Area
People may come to therapy to talk about their sexuality or sexual challenges, communication blocks or trust issues.
I am a qualified sex and relationship therapist working with individuals and those in relationships. I specialise in working with partners to enhance communication and rekindle loving connections and intimacy. My therapeutic approach is trauma-informed & based on cutting-edge neuroscience. I have completed a Master's (MSc) in Psychosexual Therapy.
People may come to therapy to talk about their sexuality or sexual challenges, communication blocks or trust issues.
I am a qualified sex and relationship therapist working with individuals and those in relationships. I specialise in working with partners to enhance communication and rekindle loving connections and intimacy. My therapeutic approach is trauma-informed & based on cutting-edge neuroscience. I have completed a Master's (MSc) in Psychosexual Therapy.
I am a qualified sex and relationship therapist with over 15 years experience of working with individual and couples wanting to improve, repair or develop their relationships.
I work with all aspects of relationship difficulties including communication issues, arguing, conflict over parenting or life changes and sexual difficulties . Common sexual issues such as desire (not feeling it, feeling too much of it or feeling uncomfortable with it) to difficulties having sex or difficulties feeling fulfilment through sex.
I am a qualified sex and relationship therapist with over 15 years experience of working with individual and couples wanting to improve, repair or develop their relationships.
I work with all aspects of relationship difficulties including communication issues, arguing, conflict over parenting or life changes and sexual difficulties . Common sexual issues such as desire (not feeling it, feeling too much of it or feeling uncomfortable with it) to difficulties having sex or difficulties feeling fulfilment through sex.
Do you ever feel detached from your true self and what matters to you? Are you engaging in behaviors that no longer benefit you? Do you find it hard to build meaningful relationships with others? I am a highly experienced trauma therapist and I am here to walk alongside you on your journey to recovery and well-being. My passion lies in treating clients who struggle with trauma, eating disorders, addictions, compulsive sexual behaviours, gender related and psychosexual difficulties. My aim is to help you tap into your inner strength and make tangible changes in your way of being, in relation to yourself, others and your wider world.
Do you ever feel detached from your true self and what matters to you? Are you engaging in behaviors that no longer benefit you? Do you find it hard to build meaningful relationships with others? I am a highly experienced trauma therapist and I am here to walk alongside you on your journey to recovery and well-being. My passion lies in treating clients who struggle with trauma, eating disorders, addictions, compulsive sexual behaviours, gender related and psychosexual difficulties. My aim is to help you tap into your inner strength and make tangible changes in your way of being, in relation to yourself, others and your wider world.
I'm a sex and relationship therapist with over 5 years experience in empowering people through sex education.
My therapy style is interactive and compassionate. I believe we all deserve to have agency over how and if you want sex and relationships. My role is to provide a caring space for you to explore what works for you, moving beyond shame and stigma. My approach integrates psychosexual, relational, existential, Gestalt and transactional analysis therapies.
I'm a sex and relationship therapist with over 5 years experience in empowering people through sex education.
My therapy style is interactive and compassionate. I believe we all deserve to have agency over how and if you want sex and relationships. My role is to provide a caring space for you to explore what works for you, moving beyond shame and stigma. My approach integrates psychosexual, relational, existential, Gestalt and transactional analysis therapies.
I am also able to support clients with psychological and emotional issues around sex, love, relationships (of all kinds), as well as sex/porn addictions, sexual abuse, BDSM/Kink, ENM/Poly and affairs.
I offer psychotherapy/counselling to individuals and couples/partnerships of all sexual orientations with a supportive and non judgemental approach. I work from an integrative perspective using a range of theories and strategies to suit the specific needs of the client and I specialise in Psychosexual and Relationship issues. I have a 25 year background in Education and Teaching. Together we can work on things to allow you to live the best life possible
I am also able to support clients with psychological and emotional issues around sex, love, relationships (of all kinds), as well as sex/porn addictions, sexual abuse, BDSM/Kink, ENM/Poly and affairs.
I offer psychotherapy/counselling to individuals and couples/partnerships of all sexual orientations with a supportive and non judgemental approach. I work from an integrative perspective using a range of theories and strategies to suit the specific needs of the client and I specialise in Psychosexual and Relationship issues. I have a 25 year background in Education and Teaching. Together we can work on things to allow you to live the best life possible
I am what is known a Psychotherapist and Sex Therapist.
By gaining insight into how significant relationships and events have shaped your feelings, communication, and actions, you'll develop a deeper understanding of yourself. I don’t offer quick fixes or surface-level solutions, but instead work with clients to gradually understand the deeper patterns and meanings in their emotional lives. Since 2006, I have been committed to helping individuals and couples strengthen their relationships, and improve their mental and sexual health.
Therapy puts words to the feelings, that would otherwise remain painful or unresolved.
I am what is known a Psychotherapist and Sex Therapist.
By gaining insight into how significant relationships and events have shaped your feelings, communication, and actions, you'll develop a deeper understanding of yourself. I don’t offer quick fixes or surface-level solutions, but instead work with clients to gradually understand the deeper patterns and meanings in their emotional lives. Since 2006, I have been committed to helping individuals and couples strengthen their relationships, and improve their mental and sexual health.
Therapy puts words to the feelings, that would otherwise remain painful or unresolved.
With over two decades of experience as an integrative therapist, I have dedicated my career to helping individuals and couples navigate the complexities of fertility, reproductive health, pregnancy, psychosexual challenges, and relationship issues. In 2003, I established a groundbreaking clinic in London that specialised in these fields using a variety of modalities. My therapeutic style is rooted in empathy, holism, rational emotional behavioural therapy (CBT model) and a person-centred approach. I draw upon a diverse range of techniques to delve into the underlying roots of any issue. I am also certified hypnotherapist.
With over two decades of experience as an integrative therapist, I have dedicated my career to helping individuals and couples navigate the complexities of fertility, reproductive health, pregnancy, psychosexual challenges, and relationship issues. In 2003, I established a groundbreaking clinic in London that specialised in these fields using a variety of modalities. My therapeutic style is rooted in empathy, holism, rational emotional behavioural therapy (CBT model) and a person-centred approach. I draw upon a diverse range of techniques to delve into the underlying roots of any issue. I am also certified hypnotherapist.
Specialist Qualifications as a Psychosexual ( Sex) & Relationship Therapist and trauma support were completed to support clients with sexual functioning, Identity, trauma, desires, expression, and a myriad of concerns.
As an Integrative Counsellor, Psychosexual & Relationship/Marriage therapist, I weave different therapies to support clients in their uniqueness to manage and heal from struggles that affect their emotional, and mental health & happiness.
Ruptures in one's mental wellness can lead to stress, depression, anxiety, addiction, and sexual functioning/ identity concerns that hinder emotional self-esteem and ongoing happiness within and in our relationship with ourselves and others. Therapy is a gift on the journey of self-development..Is 2025 the year?
Specialist Qualifications as a Psychosexual ( Sex) & Relationship Therapist and trauma support were completed to support clients with sexual functioning, Identity, trauma, desires, expression, and a myriad of concerns.
As an Integrative Counsellor, Psychosexual & Relationship/Marriage therapist, I weave different therapies to support clients in their uniqueness to manage and heal from struggles that affect their emotional, and mental health & happiness.
Ruptures in one's mental wellness can lead to stress, depression, anxiety, addiction, and sexual functioning/ identity concerns that hinder emotional self-esteem and ongoing happiness within and in our relationship with ourselves and others. Therapy is a gift on the journey of self-development..Is 2025 the year?
I specialise as a psychosexual / sex therapist working with individuals and couples experiencing difficulties engaging in or enjoying, sex, struggling with communication, embarrassment, shame, sexuality, sexual self-esteem, body image and desire.
I have worked as a psychotherapist for over 15 years. I work with a range of people presenting with complex difficulties. Such as ADHD , bipolar disorder, BPD, Anxeity, Depression, relationship difficulties, sexual problems , low self esteem, self doubt , imposter syndrome. I'm here to help you understand the lables given by yourself and others, and how they form part of your self-belief system and which can be supportive or undermining. I love seeing how clients thrive by having a confidential space to express themselves honestly and gain a deep perspective on their life.
I specialise as a psychosexual / sex therapist working with individuals and couples experiencing difficulties engaging in or enjoying, sex, struggling with communication, embarrassment, shame, sexuality, sexual self-esteem, body image and desire.
I have worked as a psychotherapist for over 15 years. I work with a range of people presenting with complex difficulties. Such as ADHD , bipolar disorder, BPD, Anxeity, Depression, relationship difficulties, sexual problems , low self esteem, self doubt , imposter syndrome. I'm here to help you understand the lables given by yourself and others, and how they form part of your self-belief system and which can be supportive or undermining. I love seeing how clients thrive by having a confidential space to express themselves honestly and gain a deep perspective on their life.
If you are looking for a specialist therapist who can help you with issues related to sex, intimacy and relationships then you have come to the right place.
I have experience working with (not limited to): erection and ejaculation difficulties, sexual desire/arousal changes, orgasm disorders, difficulties/pain and penetration, sexuality, sexual trauma/abuse, Chemsex, sexual risk taking, sexual health/STI's, anxiety related to sex, compulsive sexual behaviour ( sex/porn addiction). See website for more info
If you are looking for a specialist therapist who can help you with issues related to sex, intimacy and relationships then you have come to the right place.
I have experience working with (not limited to): erection and ejaculation difficulties, sexual desire/arousal changes, orgasm disorders, difficulties/pain and penetration, sexuality, sexual trauma/abuse, Chemsex, sexual risk taking, sexual health/STI's, anxiety related to sex, compulsive sexual behaviour ( sex/porn addiction). See website for more info
I am a Psychoanalytic Psychotherapist holding an accreditation with Pink Therapy as a Gender, Sexuality and Relationship Diversity (GSRD) therapist.
I work with people that are looking to explore their Gender, Sex and Relationship Diversity. I specialise in Compulsive Sexual Behaviours (CSB) of people, including an interest in Clinical Sexology for Men who have Sex with Men (MSM), men who are questioning or confused about their sexuality
I am a Psychoanalytic Psychotherapist holding an accreditation with Pink Therapy as a Gender, Sexuality and Relationship Diversity (GSRD) therapist.
I work with people that are looking to explore their Gender, Sex and Relationship Diversity. I specialise in Compulsive Sexual Behaviours (CSB) of people, including an interest in Clinical Sexology for Men who have Sex with Men (MSM), men who are questioning or confused about their sexuality
I am a Cognitive Behavioural Psychotherapist (PGDip University of Dundee) as well as a sex and relationship therapist (PGDip/University of Hull/RELATE).
As a sex and relationship therapist I support couples and individuals to repair, improve, and enrich their relationships. I specialise in treating sexual issues, including compulsive sexual behaviour. I have a PGDip in Couple Counselling and a PGDip in Psychosexual Therapy.
I am a Cognitive Behavioural Psychotherapist (PGDip University of Dundee) as well as a sex and relationship therapist (PGDip/University of Hull/RELATE).
As a sex and relationship therapist I support couples and individuals to repair, improve, and enrich their relationships. I specialise in treating sexual issues, including compulsive sexual behaviour. I have a PGDip in Couple Counselling and a PGDip in Psychosexual Therapy.
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Who is sex therapy for?
Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.
Why do people need sex therapy?
Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.
What happens in sex therapy?
People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.
What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?
Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.