Sexual Addiction Counselling in Southwark
If you are looking for a specialist therapist who can help you with issues related to intimacy, sex and relationships then you have come to the right place. I know it can be difficult opening up about issues related to sex, sexuality and sexual function and the impact this can have on you and your relationships. I am a Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist with extensive experience working in the NHS and Private Practice. Difficulties with intimacy can be caused by many different factors that may overlap. Together we can work holistically to help you gain greater understanding and give you strategies to make positive changes.
If you are looking for a specialist therapist who can help you with issues related to intimacy, sex and relationships then you have come to the right place. I know it can be difficult opening up about issues related to sex, sexuality and sexual function and the impact this can have on you and your relationships. I am a Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist with extensive experience working in the NHS and Private Practice. Difficulties with intimacy can be caused by many different factors that may overlap. Together we can work holistically to help you gain greater understanding and give you strategies to make positive changes.
You may be feeling stuck - perhaps you're battling addiction, past traumas, struggling with identity, low esteem, relationships, or simply sensing that something in life isn’t working or is missing. You may appear to have it all together, yet carry an inner burden you can no longer ignore. You might be seeking to understand yourself, get clarity, build connection, and make lasting change. If that resonates with you then get in touch, I have supported many clients in breaking free from old patterns, and begin living a life that feels meaningful, authentic, and whole.
You may be feeling stuck - perhaps you're battling addiction, past traumas, struggling with identity, low esteem, relationships, or simply sensing that something in life isn’t working or is missing. You may appear to have it all together, yet carry an inner burden you can no longer ignore. You might be seeking to understand yourself, get clarity, build connection, and make lasting change. If that resonates with you then get in touch, I have supported many clients in breaking free from old patterns, and begin living a life that feels meaningful, authentic, and whole.
You may be feeling down, unmotivated, anxious, angry or misunderstood, needing a safe, impartial space to work through what's troubling you or holding you back to find a clearer perspective on behaviour patterns, core beliefs and coping mechanisms that no longer serve you. Balancing nurture that is reparative and challenge that is transformative, I will guide you in your process to reflect deeply on your concerns and gain insight into your subconscious drives to discover the change and growth that will enable you to re-write your story to move forward as your authentic self in your life and your relationships.
You may be feeling down, unmotivated, anxious, angry or misunderstood, needing a safe, impartial space to work through what's troubling you or holding you back to find a clearer perspective on behaviour patterns, core beliefs and coping mechanisms that no longer serve you. Balancing nurture that is reparative and challenge that is transformative, I will guide you in your process to reflect deeply on your concerns and gain insight into your subconscious drives to discover the change and growth that will enable you to re-write your story to move forward as your authentic self in your life and your relationships.
Most of us have compulsions and addictions to varying degrees, and recognise the feelings of frustration and stuckness that accompany them. Sometimes they are obvious, such as drinking despite negative consequences. Others are more subtle. There are protective masks we’ve learned to wear that we don't know how to put down, limiting beliefs heaped on us by the world that we carry as if we chose them, and behaviours we can’t explain yet can’t stop. All these possibly once provided a sense of safety. But with time, they limit and trap us. Working together I can help you uncover a new, freer path, allowing more of you to breathe.
Most of us have compulsions and addictions to varying degrees, and recognise the feelings of frustration and stuckness that accompany them. Sometimes they are obvious, such as drinking despite negative consequences. Others are more subtle. There are protective masks we’ve learned to wear that we don't know how to put down, limiting beliefs heaped on us by the world that we carry as if we chose them, and behaviours we can’t explain yet can’t stop. All these possibly once provided a sense of safety. But with time, they limit and trap us. Working together I can help you uncover a new, freer path, allowing more of you to breathe.
I work with adults and couples experiencing sexual, intimacy, and relationship difficulties. Alongside my counselling practice, I am currently completing advanced postgraduate training in Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy (Student Member of COSRT).
I support clients with concerns including low or mismatched desire, sexual anxiety, performance anxiety, erectile difficulties, premature (early) ejaculation, orgasm difficulties, painful sex, intimacy challenges, communication difficulties, infidelity, relationship conflict, compulsive sexual behaviours, sexual shame, sexual identity exploration, and consensual non-monogamy.
I work with adults and couples experiencing sexual, intimacy, and relationship difficulties. Alongside my counselling practice, I am currently completing advanced postgraduate training in Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy (Student Member of COSRT).
I support clients with concerns including low or mismatched desire, sexual anxiety, performance anxiety, erectile difficulties, premature (early) ejaculation, orgasm difficulties, painful sex, intimacy challenges, communication difficulties, infidelity, relationship conflict, compulsive sexual behaviours, sexual shame, sexual identity exploration, and consensual non-monogamy.
I am a UKCP qualified Integrative Psychotherapist (UKCP) and Chartered Counselling Psychologist (DCPsych, CPsychol., AFBPsS). Everyone deserves to have someone in their lives who can listen compassionately and hold a space of non-judgemental understanding. I try to offer that space, first and foremost. While doing this, I seek to understand where things may have been difficult and hold in mind your potential for growth and change. The underlying core of my approach is based on respecting your needs and safety, as well as helping you bring out your innate wisdom and strengths.
I am a UKCP qualified Integrative Psychotherapist (UKCP) and Chartered Counselling Psychologist (DCPsych, CPsychol., AFBPsS). Everyone deserves to have someone in their lives who can listen compassionately and hold a space of non-judgemental understanding. I try to offer that space, first and foremost. While doing this, I seek to understand where things may have been difficult and hold in mind your potential for growth and change. The underlying core of my approach is based on respecting your needs and safety, as well as helping you bring out your innate wisdom and strengths.
I am an integrative psychotherapist who can help with addictions, anxiety, depression, relationship issues and life changes. I will help you to make sense of life choices and to develop clearer thinking about your future decisions. I attune my way of working to the needs of my clients and adopt the most effective tools and techniques. You will benefit from clearer thinking and greater insight from working with me. I encourage my clients to bring about behavioural change in their lives by helping them to manifest positive qualities and stepping out of comfort zones.
I am an integrative psychotherapist who can help with addictions, anxiety, depression, relationship issues and life changes. I will help you to make sense of life choices and to develop clearer thinking about your future decisions. I attune my way of working to the needs of my clients and adopt the most effective tools and techniques. You will benefit from clearer thinking and greater insight from working with me. I encourage my clients to bring about behavioural change in their lives by helping them to manifest positive qualities and stepping out of comfort zones.
You can have a full life and still feel unfulfilled. I work with high-performing individuals who appear confident and capable yet struggle with self-doubt, burnout, or relationship patterns that repeat. My approach bridges insight with practical change - helping you understand yourself, build healthier connections, and live with greater calm and authenticity.
You can have a full life and still feel unfulfilled. I work with high-performing individuals who appear confident and capable yet struggle with self-doubt, burnout, or relationship patterns that repeat. My approach bridges insight with practical change - helping you understand yourself, build healthier connections, and live with greater calm and authenticity.
I am a qualified Integrative Counsellor and Psychosexual & Relationship Psychotherapist experienced in delivering face to face and online counselling.
I am a qualified Integrative Counsellor and Psychosexual & Relationship Psychotherapist experienced in delivering face to face and online counselling.
You may feel stuck in patterns in your relationships or emotional life that are difficult to change, no matter how hard you try. Perhaps you feel anxious, low, or unsure of your place in the world, especially if you are living away from your country of origin. I work with adults, including many international clients and men, who want to better understand themselves, their relationships, and the roots of their difficulties.
You may feel stuck in patterns in your relationships or emotional life that are difficult to change, no matter how hard you try. Perhaps you feel anxious, low, or unsure of your place in the world, especially if you are living away from your country of origin. I work with adults, including many international clients and men, who want to better understand themselves, their relationships, and the roots of their difficulties.
Are you experiencing anxiety or stress, perhaps feeling isolated by shame, trauma, or societal pressures? I offer an inclusive, compassionate, affirming space to reflect on your experiences and explore what feels meaningful or true for you. Our conversations may open space to reconnect with silenced parts of yourself, ease distress, or wonder about ways you could live more authentically despite cultural expectations. Sessions are relational, supportive, and gently challenging, always shaped around your unique journey.
Are you experiencing anxiety or stress, perhaps feeling isolated by shame, trauma, or societal pressures? I offer an inclusive, compassionate, affirming space to reflect on your experiences and explore what feels meaningful or true for you. Our conversations may open space to reconnect with silenced parts of yourself, ease distress, or wonder about ways you could live more authentically despite cultural expectations. Sessions are relational, supportive, and gently challenging, always shaped around your unique journey.
After qualifying thirteen years ago I worked for City & Hackney Mind (Mental Health Charity) for seven years as the Clinical Services Manager of the Psychological Therapies Team as well as the Clinical Supervisor for a large team of trainee/qualified counsellors/psychotherapists. My approach mainly draws on Psychoanalysis, Somatic & Neurobiological approaches along with Philosophy & Critical Theory. My approach is GSRD (Gender, Sexuality, Relationship Diversity) affirmative meaning i have a passion for and extensive experience supporting Queer & LGBTQI+ as well as other non-heteronormative ways of living/being.
After qualifying thirteen years ago I worked for City & Hackney Mind (Mental Health Charity) for seven years as the Clinical Services Manager of the Psychological Therapies Team as well as the Clinical Supervisor for a large team of trainee/qualified counsellors/psychotherapists. My approach mainly draws on Psychoanalysis, Somatic & Neurobiological approaches along with Philosophy & Critical Theory. My approach is GSRD (Gender, Sexuality, Relationship Diversity) affirmative meaning i have a passion for and extensive experience supporting Queer & LGBTQI+ as well as other non-heteronormative ways of living/being.
Difficulties around sex can be an isolating experience affecting many areas of your life - especially relationships and self-esteem. Sex is complex! Problems may occur with desire, arousal, pleasure and orgasm. You may struggle with managing your sexual health or sexual behaviours. Difficulties can be present alone or whilst in a relationship.
Difficulties around sex can be an isolating experience affecting many areas of your life - especially relationships and self-esteem. Sex is complex! Problems may occur with desire, arousal, pleasure and orgasm. You may struggle with managing your sexual health or sexual behaviours. Difficulties can be present alone or whilst in a relationship.
I specialize in working with couples. Whether you’re navigating conflict, rebuilding trust, or feeling disconnected, counselling offers a space for both of you to explore challenges and create meaningful change together. Relationships are complex, shaped by shared history, individual experiences, and the way we respond to one another. Sometimes, uncovering patterns from the past can lead to powerful breakthroughs in the present.
I also work with individuals, helping to address a wide range of issues. The act of naming and exploring a challenge in a safe, non-judgmental space can bring relief and open the door to lasting growth.
I specialize in working with couples. Whether you’re navigating conflict, rebuilding trust, or feeling disconnected, counselling offers a space for both of you to explore challenges and create meaningful change together. Relationships are complex, shaped by shared history, individual experiences, and the way we respond to one another. Sometimes, uncovering patterns from the past can lead to powerful breakthroughs in the present.
I also work with individuals, helping to address a wide range of issues. The act of naming and exploring a challenge in a safe, non-judgmental space can bring relief and open the door to lasting growth.
I work with couples and individuals who are interested in resolving issues from early life. You might have a clear idea about the problems or trauma you want to work on, or you may feel stuck, anxious, or angry without knowing what is causing you to feel this way. You may be looking for long term therapy to increase your self understanding or have a specific trauma you would like to work on in EMDR therapy.
You or your partner might have a sexual issue which is keeping you from a fulfilling sex life together, or you may want to work through conflicts that have arisen in your relationship.
I work with couples and individuals who are interested in resolving issues from early life. You might have a clear idea about the problems or trauma you want to work on, or you may feel stuck, anxious, or angry without knowing what is causing you to feel this way. You may be looking for long term therapy to increase your self understanding or have a specific trauma you would like to work on in EMDR therapy.
You or your partner might have a sexual issue which is keeping you from a fulfilling sex life together, or you may want to work through conflicts that have arisen in your relationship.
Hi, I'm Rachel. I am a psychosexual and relationship therapist. I work with people from all backgrounds and walks of life, although most often I work with clients who fall into the category of gender, sexuality or relationship diverse (GSRD), whether that means someone is kinky, polyamorous, a sex worker, queer (or a combination!). I work with people on a wide variety of issues: I see couples who want to work on improving communication in their relationship; I see individuals who are struggling to identify what they want sexually; I see people who want a space to process their feelings more generally.
Hi, I'm Rachel. I am a psychosexual and relationship therapist. I work with people from all backgrounds and walks of life, although most often I work with clients who fall into the category of gender, sexuality or relationship diverse (GSRD), whether that means someone is kinky, polyamorous, a sex worker, queer (or a combination!). I work with people on a wide variety of issues: I see couples who want to work on improving communication in their relationship; I see individuals who are struggling to identify what they want sexually; I see people who want a space to process their feelings more generally.
Troubling thoughts, feelings, emotions, & repetitive behaviors can be safely explored & understood with the help of an experienced therapist. I work with individuals, couples & run workshops. I help people who are experiencing a broad range of issues such as low mood, anxiety, low self esteem, anger, loneliness, rejection, infidelity, dependency, stuckness, eating disorders, abusive relationships, & seeking meaning in life. I use the psychodynamic model & CBT when necessary. Apart from being a therapist, I am a lecturer at the Institute of Couples Therapy where l teach on the postgrad course. Visit www.citysanctuarytherapy.com
Troubling thoughts, feelings, emotions, & repetitive behaviors can be safely explored & understood with the help of an experienced therapist. I work with individuals, couples & run workshops. I help people who are experiencing a broad range of issues such as low mood, anxiety, low self esteem, anger, loneliness, rejection, infidelity, dependency, stuckness, eating disorders, abusive relationships, & seeking meaning in life. I use the psychodynamic model & CBT when necessary. Apart from being a therapist, I am a lecturer at the Institute of Couples Therapy where l teach on the postgrad course. Visit www.citysanctuarytherapy.com
Welcome to a safe place to talk. There are many reasons why people reach out for help. It may be connected with relationship difficulties, feeling lonely, suffering a bereavement, experiencing anxiety, panic attacks, struggling with depression, trauma, anger, low self-esteem, or work issues. Sometimes there is nothing specific to name. I am a qualified, registered and experienced therapist, holding a degree in psychology and I have been professionally trained in psychodynamic psychotherapy. I am a member of the professional bodies UKCP and FPC.
Welcome to a safe place to talk. There are many reasons why people reach out for help. It may be connected with relationship difficulties, feeling lonely, suffering a bereavement, experiencing anxiety, panic attacks, struggling with depression, trauma, anger, low self-esteem, or work issues. Sometimes there is nothing specific to name. I am a qualified, registered and experienced therapist, holding a degree in psychology and I have been professionally trained in psychodynamic psychotherapy. I am a member of the professional bodies UKCP and FPC.
Life is difficult. Do more, be more. Be what others want. I offer a space where we examine where you are in life, what's brought you here, what it's like being you and you in relation to others, and how you're contributing to where you're at. How will we do this? Through our relationship, where I'll offer support, care, empathy and challenge to help you examine life.
Life is difficult. Do more, be more. Be what others want. I offer a space where we examine where you are in life, what's brought you here, what it's like being you and you in relation to others, and how you're contributing to where you're at. How will we do this? Through our relationship, where I'll offer support, care, empathy and challenge to help you examine life.
Hello, I’m Josh, a Gestalt trainee psychotherapist and have been working with clients now for 5 years.
I work with clients who are struggling with their sexuality, gender, relationships, self-confidence and self-esteem, substance use, trauma, childhood abuse, eating disorders, depression and anxiety. Whatever it is you are bringing, I imagine you are bringing it to therapy because there is a want or need to change, to do something differently. This may feel scary, humans are creatures of habit after all, and stepping outside of our comfort zones can be challenging. I hope to be able to support you to do just this.
Hello, I’m Josh, a Gestalt trainee psychotherapist and have been working with clients now for 5 years.
I work with clients who are struggling with their sexuality, gender, relationships, self-confidence and self-esteem, substance use, trauma, childhood abuse, eating disorders, depression and anxiety. Whatever it is you are bringing, I imagine you are bringing it to therapy because there is a want or need to change, to do something differently. This may feel scary, humans are creatures of habit after all, and stepping outside of our comfort zones can be challenging. I hope to be able to support you to do just this.
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Sexual Addiction Counsellors
When should someone seek treatment for sex addiction?
People should seek treatment for sex addiction if they cannot control their sexual thoughts or behaviours to the point that it disrupts their ability to function in daily life, for example by threatening their finances, career, or relationships. This may include spending an excessive amount of time obsessing over sex, planning sex, watching pornography, or masturbating, as well as consistently engaging in risky sexual activities, using sex to escape distressing feelings, or attempting yet failing to control sexual behaviour.
What are the most common treatment options for sex addiction?
Psychotherapy is the most common treatment for sex addiction; therapy helps patients better understand their compulsive thoughts and behaviours and develop strategies to manage their desires. Therapy may be supplemented by medications, such as antidepressants, mood stabilizers, anti-androgens, alcohol and substance use medications, as well as support groups, such as 12-step programs.
How long does therapy take for sex addiction?
Recovering from compulsive behaviour takes time and effort. There’s no precise timeline for treatment, but research suggests 12 therapy sessions may be enough to see change. Treatment for sexual compulsions requires honesty in therapy, a commitment to understanding triggers and developing coping skills, and potential lifestyle changes such as cutting out alcohol or drugs.
What if sex addiction is left untreated?
Compulsive sexual behaviour can have serious repercussions if left unaddressed. For example, if sexual obsessions consume the vast majority of a person’s time, they may lose their job. If they can’t stop paying for sex, their finances may suffer. If they’re dishonest in their relationships, their partner may leave them. If they consistently feel shame, they may struggle with anxiety, depression, or loneliness. Therapy can help people develop the tools to manage sexual thoughts and behaviours that feel uncontrollable.