Sexual Addiction Counselling in Southwark, London

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Anthony Furlong
Psychotherapist, PhD, BACP
Serves Area
I am trained to work across different areas such as anxiety, depression, attachment, sexual health, sexual addiction, gender, sexuality body image and relationships.
Psychotherapy literally means to 'walk alongside' and my goal is to be with you, even if this means exploring difficult topics. My approach to therapy is collaborative, so together we will create therapy that works for you to heal. One-to-one online therapy will help you better understand yourself and your relationships to others.
I am trained to work across different areas such as anxiety, depression, attachment, sexual health, sexual addiction, gender, sexuality body image and relationships.
Psychotherapy literally means to 'walk alongside' and my goal is to be with you, even if this means exploring difficult topics. My approach to therapy is collaborative, so together we will create therapy that works for you to heal. One-to-one online therapy will help you better understand yourself and your relationships to others.
020 4538 8527 View 020 4538 8527
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Susi Halley
Psychotherapist, COSRT Accred
2 Endorsed
Southwark, London SE1
If you are looking for a specialist therapist who can help you with issues related to sex and intimacy then you have come to the right place. I know it can be difficult opening up about issues related to sex, sexuality and sexual function and the impact this can have on you and your relationships. I am an accredited Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist with extensive experience working in the NHS and Private Practice. I have worked in sexual health for the majority of my career and it's my job to make you feel at ease straight away. I am hugely passionate about my work and helping you make the changes you desire.
If you are looking for a specialist therapist who can help you with issues related to sex and intimacy then you have come to the right place. I know it can be difficult opening up about issues related to sex, sexuality and sexual function and the impact this can have on you and your relationships. I am an accredited Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist with extensive experience working in the NHS and Private Practice. I have worked in sexual health for the majority of my career and it's my job to make you feel at ease straight away. I am hugely passionate about my work and helping you make the changes you desire.
020 8059 8388 View 020 8059 8388
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David Olubuyide
Psychotherapist, MSc, MNCPS Acc.
Serves Area
You may be feeling stuck—perhaps battling addiction, struggling with identity, relationships, or simply sensing that something in life isn’t working or is missing. You may appear to have it all together, yet carry an inner burden you can no longer ignore. You might be seeking to understand yourself, get clarity, connection, and lasting change. If that resonates with you then get in touch, I have helped many like you break free from old patterns, and begin living a life that feels meaningful, authentic, and whole.
You may be feeling stuck—perhaps battling addiction, struggling with identity, relationships, or simply sensing that something in life isn’t working or is missing. You may appear to have it all together, yet carry an inner burden you can no longer ignore. You might be seeking to understand yourself, get clarity, connection, and lasting change. If that resonates with you then get in touch, I have helped many like you break free from old patterns, and begin living a life that feels meaningful, authentic, and whole.
020 3835 5261 View 020 3835 5261
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Rachel Seymour
Psychotherapist, MA, COSRT General
Southwark, London SE1
Hi, I'm Rachel. I am a psychosexual and relationship therapist. I work with people from all backgrounds and walks of life, although most often I work with clients who fall into the category of gender, sexuality or relationship diverse (GSRD), whether that means someone is kinky, polyamorous, a sex worker, queer (or a combination!). I work with people on a wide variety of issues: I see couples who want to work on improving communication in their relationship; I see individuals who are struggling to identify what they want sexually; I see people who want a space to process their feelings more generally.
Hi, I'm Rachel. I am a psychosexual and relationship therapist. I work with people from all backgrounds and walks of life, although most often I work with clients who fall into the category of gender, sexuality or relationship diverse (GSRD), whether that means someone is kinky, polyamorous, a sex worker, queer (or a combination!). I work with people on a wide variety of issues: I see couples who want to work on improving communication in their relationship; I see individuals who are struggling to identify what they want sexually; I see people who want a space to process their feelings more generally.
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Dr Joyline Gozho
Psychotherapist, PsychD, MUKCP
1 Endorsed
Southwark, London SE1
Troubling thoughts, feelings, emotions, & repetitive behaviors can be safely explored & understood with the help of an experienced therapist. I work with individuals, couples & run workshops. I help people who are experiencing a broad range of issues such as low mood, anxiety, low self esteem, anger, loneliness, rejection, infidelity, dependency, stuckness, eating disorders, abusive relationships, & seeking meaning in life. I use the psychodynamic model & CBT when necessary. Apart from being a therapist, I am a lecturer at the Institute of Couples Therapy where l teach on the postgrad course. Visit www.citysanctuarytherapy.com
Troubling thoughts, feelings, emotions, & repetitive behaviors can be safely explored & understood with the help of an experienced therapist. I work with individuals, couples & run workshops. I help people who are experiencing a broad range of issues such as low mood, anxiety, low self esteem, anger, loneliness, rejection, infidelity, dependency, stuckness, eating disorders, abusive relationships, & seeking meaning in life. I use the psychodynamic model & CBT when necessary. Apart from being a therapist, I am a lecturer at the Institute of Couples Therapy where l teach on the postgrad course. Visit www.citysanctuarytherapy.com
020 3962 1808 View 020 3962 1808
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Silvi Neykova
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP
2 Endorsed
Southwark, London SE1
Changing old patterns of behavior and core beliefs is often challenging and not immediately apparent. As the saying goes, "you can’t read the label from inside the jar," meaning it can be difficult to identify or solve your own problems when you are too close to them. I am here to help, support, and encourage you on your journey to self-healing and self-discovery, whether you are experiencing depression or anxiety, grieving a loss, wondering if a relationship will work out, or just do not feel like you are living the life you were meant to live.
Changing old patterns of behavior and core beliefs is often challenging and not immediately apparent. As the saying goes, "you can’t read the label from inside the jar," meaning it can be difficult to identify or solve your own problems when you are too close to them. I am here to help, support, and encourage you on your journey to self-healing and self-discovery, whether you are experiencing depression or anxiety, grieving a loss, wondering if a relationship will work out, or just do not feel like you are living the life you were meant to live.
020 3973 5104 View 020 3973 5104
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Andrew Christodoulou
Counsellor, MBACP
2 Endorsed
Southwark, London SE1
Hi, I’m Andrew, a dedicated and compassionate counsellor with experience working with, but not limited to, addiction & recovery, sex, relationships and couples, and the queer community. My practice is built on a foundation of empathy, respect, and a commitment to offer support through unique challenges. My approach is client-centered, meaning that I view you as the expert in your own life. Whether you’re navigating the complexities of addiction, seeking guidance on sexual health and relationships, or looking to strengthen your partnership, I’m here to offer a safe, non-judgmental space.
Hi, I’m Andrew, a dedicated and compassionate counsellor with experience working with, but not limited to, addiction & recovery, sex, relationships and couples, and the queer community. My practice is built on a foundation of empathy, respect, and a commitment to offer support through unique challenges. My approach is client-centered, meaning that I view you as the expert in your own life. Whether you’re navigating the complexities of addiction, seeking guidance on sexual health and relationships, or looking to strengthen your partnership, I’m here to offer a safe, non-judgmental space.
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Ildiko Victoria Szatmari
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Southwark, London SE1
Welcome to a safe place to talk. There are many reasons why people reach out for help. It may be connected with relationship difficulties, feeling lonely, suffering a bereavement, experiencing anxiety, panic attacks, struggling with depression, trauma, anger, low self-esteem, or work issues. Sometimes there is nothing specific to name. I am a qualified, registered and experienced therapist, holding a degree in psychology and I have been professionally trained in psychodynamic psychotherapy. I am a member of the professional bodies UKCP and FPC.
Welcome to a safe place to talk. There are many reasons why people reach out for help. It may be connected with relationship difficulties, feeling lonely, suffering a bereavement, experiencing anxiety, panic attacks, struggling with depression, trauma, anger, low self-esteem, or work issues. Sometimes there is nothing specific to name. I am a qualified, registered and experienced therapist, holding a degree in psychology and I have been professionally trained in psychodynamic psychotherapy. I am a member of the professional bodies UKCP and FPC.
020 3870 2948 View 020 3870 2948
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Simon A Hudson
Psychotherapist, MUKCP
Southwark, London SE1
To meet In therapy is to face your fears and vulnerability in a safe and non judgemental space. I love to create an alliance with you as a client to discover and challenge what lies Inside you, aim to have a deep understanding of your world, your hopes and your needs. Often people need to find their own truth and for this we may need to find questions that need answering , uncover pathways that feel blocked and make choices that can unlock you towards freedom and a more loving space for your self and your life.
To meet In therapy is to face your fears and vulnerability in a safe and non judgemental space. I love to create an alliance with you as a client to discover and challenge what lies Inside you, aim to have a deep understanding of your world, your hopes and your needs. Often people need to find their own truth and for this we may need to find questions that need answering , uncover pathways that feel blocked and make choices that can unlock you towards freedom and a more loving space for your self and your life.
020 3893 3503 View 020 3893 3503
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Gillian Carmichael
Counsellor, MBACP
Southwark, London SE1
I specialize in working with couples. Whether you’re navigating conflict, rebuilding trust, or feeling disconnected, counselling offers a space for both of you to explore challenges and create meaningful change together. Relationships are complex, shaped by shared history, individual experiences, and the way we respond to one another. Sometimes, uncovering patterns from the past can lead to powerful breakthroughs in the present. I also work with individuals, helping to address a wide range of issues. The act of naming and exploring a challenge in a safe, non-judgmental space can bring relief and open the door to lasting growth.
I specialize in working with couples. Whether you’re navigating conflict, rebuilding trust, or feeling disconnected, counselling offers a space for both of you to explore challenges and create meaningful change together. Relationships are complex, shaped by shared history, individual experiences, and the way we respond to one another. Sometimes, uncovering patterns from the past can lead to powerful breakthroughs in the present. I also work with individuals, helping to address a wide range of issues. The act of naming and exploring a challenge in a safe, non-judgmental space can bring relief and open the door to lasting growth.
020 4538 5965 View 020 4538 5965
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Lucy Dows
Counsellor, MBACP
Southwark, London SE1
We're currently living in volatile, complex and uncertain times. Our senses are increasingly overloaded with external stimuli and our internal world is often the first to suffer the consequences. In the digital age amidst a culture of comparison you may find yourself feeling stressed, depressed and anxious. Together we’ll tackle the question of how you can live as a 21st century human being in better health, balance and happiness.
We're currently living in volatile, complex and uncertain times. Our senses are increasingly overloaded with external stimuli and our internal world is often the first to suffer the consequences. In the digital age amidst a culture of comparison you may find yourself feeling stressed, depressed and anxious. Together we’ll tackle the question of how you can live as a 21st century human being in better health, balance and happiness.
020 3958 4309 View 020 3958 4309
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Craig Schorn
Counsellor, MBACP
3 Endorsed
Southwark, London SE1
You may be feeling down, unmotivated, anxious, angry or misunderstood, needing a safe, impartial space to work through what's troubling you or holding you back to find a clearer perspective on behaviour patterns, core beliefs and coping mechanisms that no longer serve you. Balancing nurture that is reparative and challenge that is transformative, I will guide you in your process to reflect deeply on your concerns and gain insight into your subconscious drives to discover the change and growth that will enable you to re-write your story to move forward as your authentic self in your life and your relationships.
You may be feeling down, unmotivated, anxious, angry or misunderstood, needing a safe, impartial space to work through what's troubling you or holding you back to find a clearer perspective on behaviour patterns, core beliefs and coping mechanisms that no longer serve you. Balancing nurture that is reparative and challenge that is transformative, I will guide you in your process to reflect deeply on your concerns and gain insight into your subconscious drives to discover the change and growth that will enable you to re-write your story to move forward as your authentic self in your life and your relationships.
020 8629 9135 View 020 8629 9135
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Sally-Anne Soameson
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Southwark, London SE1
As a psychodynamic therapist I offer once weekly face-to-face therapy in a supportive, understanding environment. My approach encourages self-reflection and self-examination, allowing you to understand the influence of the past on present behaviour and feelings. This enables you to examine unresolved conflicts and their consequences, giving you back more control in daily life. Working within the ethical framework of the British Association of Counsellors and Psychotherapists, I provide confidential and non-judgemental counselling to individuals looking for short term and open ended therapy on a variety of issues, offering you space to take a positive step towards insight and awareness.
As a psychodynamic therapist I offer once weekly face-to-face therapy in a supportive, understanding environment. My approach encourages self-reflection and self-examination, allowing you to understand the influence of the past on present behaviour and feelings. This enables you to examine unresolved conflicts and their consequences, giving you back more control in daily life. Working within the ethical framework of the British Association of Counsellors and Psychotherapists, I provide confidential and non-judgemental counselling to individuals looking for short term and open ended therapy on a variety of issues, offering you space to take a positive step towards insight and awareness.
020 3974 1023 View 020 3974 1023
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Nakita Jangra
Counsellor, MBACP
Southwark, London SE1
Experienced Counsellor for Individuals and Couples Over 10 Years Supporting Clients Through Life’s Challenges Whatever may be troubling you, I’m here to help. With over a decade of experience working with both individuals and couples, I offer a supportive, confidential space where you can explore whatever difficulty you’re facing.
Experienced Counsellor for Individuals and Couples Over 10 Years Supporting Clients Through Life’s Challenges Whatever may be troubling you, I’m here to help. With over a decade of experience working with both individuals and couples, I offer a supportive, confidential space where you can explore whatever difficulty you’re facing.
020 3871 8591 View 020 3871 8591
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Dan Skili - Creative Psychotherapy
Verified Verified
Southwark, London SE1
I’m a registered Creative Psychotherapist who works extensively with talking therapy. I have 25 years experience working with individuals &groups. Some of the issues I help people with are stuckness, anxiety, depression, identity, relationships and loneliness. I offer my therapy service online and face to face at my practice in London Bridge, as well as walk & talk. I offer you a comfortable and confidential environment where you will feel respected, safe and not judged. I work with you as an individual working towards a more settled and fulfilling life. I see each person as a unique being and I work with people, not with problems.
I’m a registered Creative Psychotherapist who works extensively with talking therapy. I have 25 years experience working with individuals &groups. Some of the issues I help people with are stuckness, anxiety, depression, identity, relationships and loneliness. I offer my therapy service online and face to face at my practice in London Bridge, as well as walk & talk. I offer you a comfortable and confidential environment where you will feel respected, safe and not judged. I work with you as an individual working towards a more settled and fulfilling life. I see each person as a unique being and I work with people, not with problems.
020 3974 2397 View 020 3974 2397
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Dr Stewart Neill
Psychologist, DCounsPsych, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Online Only
I’m a devoted and passionate therapist with significant experience supporting people with diverse intersecting identities navigate difficulties with sex, sexuality, gender, identity and relationship diversity. I believe the therapeutic relationship to be an anchor for positive and meaningful change. Therefore, my aim is to provide a space that is accessible, compassionate, non-judgmental and affirmative.
I’m a devoted and passionate therapist with significant experience supporting people with diverse intersecting identities navigate difficulties with sex, sexuality, gender, identity and relationship diversity. I believe the therapeutic relationship to be an anchor for positive and meaningful change. Therefore, my aim is to provide a space that is accessible, compassionate, non-judgmental and affirmative.
020 4572 5118 View 020 4572 5118
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Mirabela Osadci
Verified Verified
Online Only
Online psychotherapist with an eclectic and inventive approach. Practicing Internal Family Systems Therapy (IFS) and Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT). I believe that people already have within themselves what they need in order to overcome their struggles. All it takes is a bit of guidance and someone to ask the right questions. My wish for my clients is that they find the inner freedom to live the life that they want. I mostly work with expats, travelers, digital nomads, burners - I can relate to the lifestyle and can appreciate the need for flexibility and rescheduling sessions when necessary, however, anyone is welcome.
Online psychotherapist with an eclectic and inventive approach. Practicing Internal Family Systems Therapy (IFS) and Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT). I believe that people already have within themselves what they need in order to overcome their struggles. All it takes is a bit of guidance and someone to ask the right questions. My wish for my clients is that they find the inner freedom to live the life that they want. I mostly work with expats, travelers, digital nomads, burners - I can relate to the lifestyle and can appreciate the need for flexibility and rescheduling sessions when necessary, however, anyone is welcome.
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Anthony Richard Fletcher Clarke
Psychotherapist, MBACP Snr. Accred
Southwark, London SE1
Extreme trauma exists in PTSD but in some way all of us experience trauma from the school bully to the manager who does not listen. We all have states of anxiety and depression. What is a normal state and how do we know if we are heading for a breakdown. What is a balanced happy life? We can have control of some things in our life and other things come along and smack us in the face. What therapy with me does is give you a space for observation without personal judgement or criticism , just questions from me so that I understand your motivations and help shape your goals. Sometimes your answers are in the past, often in the present.
Extreme trauma exists in PTSD but in some way all of us experience trauma from the school bully to the manager who does not listen. We all have states of anxiety and depression. What is a normal state and how do we know if we are heading for a breakdown. What is a balanced happy life? We can have control of some things in our life and other things come along and smack us in the face. What therapy with me does is give you a space for observation without personal judgement or criticism , just questions from me so that I understand your motivations and help shape your goals. Sometimes your answers are in the past, often in the present.
020 8059 2297 View 020 8059 2297
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Dr Elvis Langley
Psychologist, DCounsPsych, CPsychol
1 Endorsed
Southwark, London SE1
I am a UKCP qualified Integrative Psychotherapist (UKCP) and Chartered Counselling Psychologist (DCPsych, CPsychol., AFBPsS). Everyone deserves to have someone in their lives who can listen compassionately and hold a space of non-judgemental understanding. I try to offer that space, first and foremost. While doing this, I seek to understand where things may have been difficult and hold in mind your potential for growth and change. The underlying core of my approach is based on respecting your needs and safety, as well as helping you bring out your innate wisdom and strengths.
I am a UKCP qualified Integrative Psychotherapist (UKCP) and Chartered Counselling Psychologist (DCPsych, CPsychol., AFBPsS). Everyone deserves to have someone in their lives who can listen compassionately and hold a space of non-judgemental understanding. I try to offer that space, first and foremost. While doing this, I seek to understand where things may have been difficult and hold in mind your potential for growth and change. The underlying core of my approach is based on respecting your needs and safety, as well as helping you bring out your innate wisdom and strengths.
020 3984 9270 View 020 3984 9270
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Daniel Dennehy
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Southwark, London SE1
Hi I'm Daniel (He/Him). I'm a counsellor who provides support for people that are struggling with feelings of depression, anxiety and grief. I work with people seeking support with difficult life decisions and challenges in their relationships. Often people attend because they are feeling 'stuck'; finding themselves arriving at the same place, despite trying really hard to change. Perhaps they are drinking, shopping or eating to cope or escape. The sex and relationships they're having has stopped feeling safe or fulfilling. They're doing things to 'feel better' while avoiding people, places or decisions due to fear or shame.
Hi I'm Daniel (He/Him). I'm a counsellor who provides support for people that are struggling with feelings of depression, anxiety and grief. I work with people seeking support with difficult life decisions and challenges in their relationships. Often people attend because they are feeling 'stuck'; finding themselves arriving at the same place, despite trying really hard to change. Perhaps they are drinking, shopping or eating to cope or escape. The sex and relationships they're having has stopped feeling safe or fulfilling. They're doing things to 'feel better' while avoiding people, places or decisions due to fear or shame.
020 3879 4294 View 020 3879 4294
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Sexual Addiction Counsellors

When should someone seek treatment for sex addiction?

People should seek treatment for sex addiction if they cannot control their sexual thoughts or behaviours to the point that it disrupts their ability to function in daily life, for example by threatening their finances, career, or relationships. This may include spending an excessive amount of time obsessing over sex, planning sex, watching pornography, or masturbating, as well as consistently engaging in risky sexual activities, using sex to escape distressing feelings, or attempting yet failing to control sexual behaviour.

What are the most common treatment options for sex addiction?

Psychotherapy is the most common treatment for sex addiction; therapy helps patients better understand their compulsive thoughts and behaviours and develop strategies to manage their desires. Therapy may be supplemented by medications, such as antidepressants, mood stabilizers, anti-androgens, alcohol and substance use medications, as well as support groups, such as 12-step programs.

How long does therapy take for sex addiction?

Recovering from compulsive behaviour takes time and effort. There’s no precise timeline for treatment, but research suggests 12 therapy sessions may be enough to see change. Treatment for sexual compulsions requires honesty in therapy, a commitment to understanding triggers and developing coping skills, and potential lifestyle changes such as cutting out alcohol or drugs.

What if sex addiction is left untreated?

Compulsive sexual behaviour can have serious repercussions if left unaddressed. For example, if sexual obsessions consume the vast majority of a person’s time, they may lose their job. If they can’t stop paying for sex, their finances may suffer. If they’re dishonest in their relationships, their partner may leave them. If they consistently feel shame, they may struggle with anxiety, depression, or loneliness. Therapy can help people develop the tools to manage sexual thoughts and behaviours that feel uncontrollable.