Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Counselling in Southwark, London
I am also kink-aware and sex positive.
Hello, I’m Rebecca. I will be by your side as you explore whatever you wish to share, accepting all parts of you and bringing all parts of myself. As a person-centred therapist I offer a space that is non-judgemental, open and supportive. I offer you space that is just for you, to have the time to be heard and express yourself. I'm passionate about social justice and embed this in my practice, curious about how your identities and life experiences are felt and perceived. It feels like a really hard time to be queer and/or trans at the moment, I'm here to hold you and have understanding and experience.
I am also kink-aware and sex positive.
Hello, I’m Rebecca. I will be by your side as you explore whatever you wish to share, accepting all parts of you and bringing all parts of myself. As a person-centred therapist I offer a space that is non-judgemental, open and supportive. I offer you space that is just for you, to have the time to be heard and express yourself. I'm passionate about social justice and embed this in my practice, curious about how your identities and life experiences are felt and perceived. It feels like a really hard time to be queer and/or trans at the moment, I'm here to hold you and have understanding and experience.
I work with a wide variety of people, but people who have seen me include queer people, trans and non-binary people, neurodivergent people (especially ADHD and autistic women and afab people), people who are non-monogamous, people from a working class background, people of colour, sex workers, and people who practice kink/BDSM.
I am an Integrative psychotherapist which means my training covered a variety of approaches and modalities which I am now able to synthesise and utilise depending on the individual. I am interested in anti-oppressive and decolonial frameworks and aim to make my counselling practice an inclusive space where we can work deeply together.
I work with a wide variety of people, but people who have seen me include queer people, trans and non-binary people, neurodivergent people (especially ADHD and autistic women and afab people), people who are non-monogamous, people from a working class background, people of colour, sex workers, and people who practice kink/BDSM.
I am an Integrative psychotherapist which means my training covered a variety of approaches and modalities which I am now able to synthesise and utilise depending on the individual. I am interested in anti-oppressive and decolonial frameworks and aim to make my counselling practice an inclusive space where we can work deeply together.
They are of many nationalities, faiths, LGBTQ+ & kink communities
Whether your concern is with communication, sex, power dynamics, money, emotional connection, anxiety, depression, dating, an affair or something unresolved and long past, I offer a safe and supportive environment where couples & individuals can openly discuss their issues and find ways to overcome the difficulties. Couples are enabled to consciously take charge of their relationship - to create it as you want it to be. This may be towards a happier and healthier relationship, or indeed to positively manage separation & the practicalities of divorce.
They are of many nationalities, faiths, LGBTQ+ & kink communities
Whether your concern is with communication, sex, power dynamics, money, emotional connection, anxiety, depression, dating, an affair or something unresolved and long past, I offer a safe and supportive environment where couples & individuals can openly discuss their issues and find ways to overcome the difficulties. Couples are enabled to consciously take charge of their relationship - to create it as you want it to be. This may be towards a happier and healthier relationship, or indeed to positively manage separation & the practicalities of divorce.
I offer a supportive and affirming space for those navigating shame, trauma, LGBTQIA+ identities, kink, ENM, neurodivergence, and the layered complexities of living within racialised or minoritised identities.
Whether you are feeling stuck, overwhelmed, alone, or struggling within a relationship, therapy can offer a space to come home to yourself. You might be carrying shame, low self-worth, or a deep sense of disconnection. Together, we will explore these experiences with care—making sense of what weighs you down, gently untangling what no longer serves you.
I offer a supportive and affirming space for those navigating shame, trauma, LGBTQIA+ identities, kink, ENM, neurodivergence, and the layered complexities of living within racialised or minoritised identities.
Whether you are feeling stuck, overwhelmed, alone, or struggling within a relationship, therapy can offer a space to come home to yourself. You might be carrying shame, low self-worth, or a deep sense of disconnection. Together, we will explore these experiences with care—making sense of what weighs you down, gently untangling what no longer serves you.
I am Kalvin at Sexuality Space, a modern therapy practice that specialises in mental health, sexual identity, relationships, LGBTQIA+, kink, confidence building, sexual health, non-monogamy, sex worker support and so much more.
As a GSRD (Gender, Sexuality & Relationship Diversities) therapist, my practice is integrative and responsive to your unique experiences and needs. My approach draws from various models and is rooted in the belief that sexuality and relationship dynamics are central to everyone's identity, shaping our interactions with the world and ourselves.
I am Kalvin at Sexuality Space, a modern therapy practice that specialises in mental health, sexual identity, relationships, LGBTQIA+, kink, confidence building, sexual health, non-monogamy, sex worker support and so much more.
As a GSRD (Gender, Sexuality & Relationship Diversities) therapist, my practice is integrative and responsive to your unique experiences and needs. My approach draws from various models and is rooted in the belief that sexuality and relationship dynamics are central to everyone's identity, shaping our interactions with the world and ourselves.
I work with individuals facing attachment and relational challenges, anxiety, OCD, sexual anxiety, erectile and ejaculation issues, problematic porn or sex use, kink, LGBTQ concerns, problematic sex involving drugs and living with STIs like HIV.
As a gay man I bring a deep, empathetic and sensitive perspective to sex and relationships. With this perspective, I employ a wide range of techniques that best suit each individual or couple. My goal is to empower individuals and couples to gain insight into their behaviours, help them understand the underlying reasons, and to facilitate positive change.
I work with individuals facing attachment and relational challenges, anxiety, OCD, sexual anxiety, erectile and ejaculation issues, problematic porn or sex use, kink, LGBTQ concerns, problematic sex involving drugs and living with STIs like HIV.
As a gay man I bring a deep, empathetic and sensitive perspective to sex and relationships. With this perspective, I employ a wide range of techniques that best suit each individual or couple. My goal is to empower individuals and couples to gain insight into their behaviours, help them understand the underlying reasons, and to facilitate positive change.
I identify as a heterosexual woman and practise in an LGBTQ+ affirmative and kink-friendly way.
I am a qualified Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist, registered with the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists (COSRT). I have a post-graduate diploma in clinical sexology and relationship therapy and a foundation certificate in counselling skills and practice from the Contemporary Institute for Clinical Sexology (CICS).
I identify as a heterosexual woman and practise in an LGBTQ+ affirmative and kink-friendly way.
I am a qualified Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist, registered with the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists (COSRT). I have a post-graduate diploma in clinical sexology and relationship therapy and a foundation certificate in counselling skills and practice from the Contemporary Institute for Clinical Sexology (CICS).
I work with a wide range of presenting needs and can help if you are dealing with: Anxiety, Cancer, Childhood Abuse, Chronic Health, Confidence, Co-Morbid Health Needs, Depression, Disability, Faith Abuse, Grief, Health Based Issues, HIV and Hepatitis, Identity Fragility, Intergenerational Trauma, Intersectionality, Intimacy, Islamophobia, Loss, Kink, Neurodiversity, Neurological Conditions, Personal Development, Relationships, Self-Care, Sex, Sexual Health, Shame, Social Anxiety, Stress, Transcultural, Trauma, Well-Being and Youth Counselling Aged 15-21.
I am a Relational Body and Trauma Psychotherapist and Clinical Supervisor, I offer therapy to youth and adult clients aged 15+, relationship therapy, group-therapy and group-work. I am based in north London and provide sessions online via Zoom. My specialisms include body psychotherapy; gender, sexuality and relationship diversity (GSRD) and trauma therapy.
I work with a wide range of presenting needs and can help if you are dealing with: Anxiety, Cancer, Childhood Abuse, Chronic Health, Confidence, Co-Morbid Health Needs, Depression, Disability, Faith Abuse, Grief, Health Based Issues, HIV and Hepatitis, Identity Fragility, Intergenerational Trauma, Intersectionality, Intimacy, Islamophobia, Loss, Kink, Neurodiversity, Neurological Conditions, Personal Development, Relationships, Self-Care, Sex, Sexual Health, Shame, Social Anxiety, Stress, Transcultural, Trauma, Well-Being and Youth Counselling Aged 15-21.
I am a Relational Body and Trauma Psychotherapist and Clinical Supervisor, I offer therapy to youth and adult clients aged 15+, relationship therapy, group-therapy and group-work. I am based in north London and provide sessions online via Zoom. My specialisms include body psychotherapy; gender, sexuality and relationship diversity (GSRD) and trauma therapy.
Swani Yip - Counselling And Psychotherapy
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Southwark, London SE1
Welcome! I'm Swani and I support people with anxiety, low mood, burnout, confidence building, self image, identity, family and relationships issues. Let's work together to support you to make sense of life and achieve conscious and choiceful living.
Welcome! I'm Swani and I support people with anxiety, low mood, burnout, confidence building, self image, identity, family and relationships issues. Let's work together to support you to make sense of life and achieve conscious and choiceful living.
Life can feel like a battlefield when childhood wounds, complex trauma, and the scars of abusive relationships leave their mark. You may find yourself stuck in painful cycles of overthinking every interaction, doubting your self-worth, or repeating patterns that no longer serve you. Perhaps you carry the weight of people-pleasing, emotional overwhelm, or an inner voice that never seems to quieten. You might wonder, “Why can’t I just move on?” You’re not alone.
Life can feel like a battlefield when childhood wounds, complex trauma, and the scars of abusive relationships leave their mark. You may find yourself stuck in painful cycles of overthinking every interaction, doubting your self-worth, or repeating patterns that no longer serve you. Perhaps you carry the weight of people-pleasing, emotional overwhelm, or an inner voice that never seems to quieten. You might wonder, “Why can’t I just move on?” You’re not alone.
At the heart of my work, I strive to create a warm and compassionate space for clients from all walks of life. I work with clients presenting with various challenges including relationship difficulties, self-esteem issues, anxiety and low mood. I also have experience working with complex mental health and co-morbid difficulties, including trauma and childhood abuse. Whether your issue feels vague or specific, therapy can help you understand how the past informs current patterns, develop coping skills to process difficult feelings, and nurture the internal strengths and resources that we all hold.
At the heart of my work, I strive to create a warm and compassionate space for clients from all walks of life. I work with clients presenting with various challenges including relationship difficulties, self-esteem issues, anxiety and low mood. I also have experience working with complex mental health and co-morbid difficulties, including trauma and childhood abuse. Whether your issue feels vague or specific, therapy can help you understand how the past informs current patterns, develop coping skills to process difficult feelings, and nurture the internal strengths and resources that we all hold.
Meet Our Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Counsellors
Anthony Richard Fletcher Clarke
Psychotherapist, MBACP Snr. Accred
Verified Verified
Southwark, London SE1
Extreme trauma exists in PTSD but in some way all of us experience trauma from the school bully to the manager who does not listen. We all have states of anxiety and depression. What is a normal state and how do we know if we are heading for a breakdown. What is a balanced happy life? We can have control of some things in our life and other things come along and smack us in the face. What therapy with me does is give you a space for observation without personal judgement or criticism , just questions from me so that I understand your motivations and help shape your goals. Sometimes your answers are in the past, often in the present.
Extreme trauma exists in PTSD but in some way all of us experience trauma from the school bully to the manager who does not listen. We all have states of anxiety and depression. What is a normal state and how do we know if we are heading for a breakdown. What is a balanced happy life? We can have control of some things in our life and other things come along and smack us in the face. What therapy with me does is give you a space for observation without personal judgement or criticism , just questions from me so that I understand your motivations and help shape your goals. Sometimes your answers are in the past, often in the present.
Dr Juli Jolly
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Southwark, London SE1
Trauma-, neurodiversity-, and attachment-informed practitioner. Whether you are struggling with complex mental or emotional difficulties or want to gain a better understanding of yourself and your existence, I aim to provide an inviting, encouraging, and confidential space for us to make sense of your present situation. Sessions are focused on on gaining a holistic understanding of your past and present experiences, with the initial aim of identifying relational patterns that may have served you well in the past but may be holding you back now.
Trauma-, neurodiversity-, and attachment-informed practitioner. Whether you are struggling with complex mental or emotional difficulties or want to gain a better understanding of yourself and your existence, I aim to provide an inviting, encouraging, and confidential space for us to make sense of your present situation. Sessions are focused on on gaining a holistic understanding of your past and present experiences, with the initial aim of identifying relational patterns that may have served you well in the past but may be holding you back now.
After qualifying thirteen years ago I worked for City & Hackney Mind (Mental Health Charity) for seven years as the Clinical Services Manager of the Psychological Therapies Team as well as the Clinical Supervisor for a large team of trainee/qualified counsellors/psychotherapists. My approach mainly draws on Psychoanalysis, Somatic & Neurobiological approaches along with Philosophy & Critical Theory. My approach is GSRD (Gender, Sexuality, Relationship Diversity) affirmative meaning i have a passion for and extensive experience supporting Queer & LGBTQI+ as well as other non-heteronormative ways of living/being.
After qualifying thirteen years ago I worked for City & Hackney Mind (Mental Health Charity) for seven years as the Clinical Services Manager of the Psychological Therapies Team as well as the Clinical Supervisor for a large team of trainee/qualified counsellors/psychotherapists. My approach mainly draws on Psychoanalysis, Somatic & Neurobiological approaches along with Philosophy & Critical Theory. My approach is GSRD (Gender, Sexuality, Relationship Diversity) affirmative meaning i have a passion for and extensive experience supporting Queer & LGBTQI+ as well as other non-heteronormative ways of living/being.
People seek counselling for many reasons. There is no rule for what you should and should not attend counselling for. Whether you are facing a challenging phase in your life, suffer from anxiety or depression, want to improve your emotional health, change recurring patterns of thought or behaviour, have relationship or sexual issues or perhaps need to talk to someone in a non-judgemental and confidential environment - counselling can help.
People seek counselling for many reasons. There is no rule for what you should and should not attend counselling for. Whether you are facing a challenging phase in your life, suffer from anxiety or depression, want to improve your emotional health, change recurring patterns of thought or behaviour, have relationship or sexual issues or perhaps need to talk to someone in a non-judgemental and confidential environment - counselling can help.
I’m a devoted and passionate therapist with significant experience supporting people with diverse intersecting identities navigate difficulties with sex, sexuality, gender, identity and relationship diversity. I believe the therapeutic relationship to be an anchor for positive and meaningful change. Therefore, my aim is to provide a space that is accessible, compassionate, non-judgmental and affirmative.
I’m a devoted and passionate therapist with significant experience supporting people with diverse intersecting identities navigate difficulties with sex, sexuality, gender, identity and relationship diversity. I believe the therapeutic relationship to be an anchor for positive and meaningful change. Therefore, my aim is to provide a space that is accessible, compassionate, non-judgmental and affirmative.
I am a qualified person-centred therapist. I work with individuals who are straight, gay, queer, bi, asexual, questioning and all genders including cis, trans, intersex, non-binary, genderqueer and gender questioning people. There are no issues I cannot support you with. I have experience of a wide variety of different problems such as; anxiety, low mood, end of life, chronic illness, disability, parenting, break up, trauma, sexual abuse, addictions, low self esteem and relationship issues. The people I have helped have had feelings that range from mild upset or worry, through intense levels of distress and despair.
I am a qualified person-centred therapist. I work with individuals who are straight, gay, queer, bi, asexual, questioning and all genders including cis, trans, intersex, non-binary, genderqueer and gender questioning people. There are no issues I cannot support you with. I have experience of a wide variety of different problems such as; anxiety, low mood, end of life, chronic illness, disability, parenting, break up, trauma, sexual abuse, addictions, low self esteem and relationship issues. The people I have helped have had feelings that range from mild upset or worry, through intense levels of distress and despair.
Hi I'm Daniel (He/Him). I'm a counsellor who provides support for people that are struggling with feelings of depression, anxiety and grief. I work with people seeking support with difficult life decisions and challenges in their relationships. Often people attend because they are feeling 'stuck'; finding themselves arriving at the same place, despite trying really hard to change. Perhaps they are drinking, shopping or eating to cope or escape. The sex and relationships they're having has stopped feeling safe or fulfilling. They're doing things to 'feel better' while avoiding people, places or decisions due to fear or shame.
Hi I'm Daniel (He/Him). I'm a counsellor who provides support for people that are struggling with feelings of depression, anxiety and grief. I work with people seeking support with difficult life decisions and challenges in their relationships. Often people attend because they are feeling 'stuck'; finding themselves arriving at the same place, despite trying really hard to change. Perhaps they are drinking, shopping or eating to cope or escape. The sex and relationships they're having has stopped feeling safe or fulfilling. They're doing things to 'feel better' while avoiding people, places or decisions due to fear or shame.
Hi, I'm Rachel. I am a psychosexual and relationship therapist. I work with people from all backgrounds and walks of life, although most often I work with clients who fall into the category of gender, sexuality or relationship diverse (GSRD), whether that means someone is kinky, polyamorous, a sex worker, queer (or a combination!). I work with people on a wide variety of issues: I see couples who want to work on improving communication in their relationship; I see individuals who are struggling to identify what they want sexually; I see people who want a space to process their feelings more generally.
Hi, I'm Rachel. I am a psychosexual and relationship therapist. I work with people from all backgrounds and walks of life, although most often I work with clients who fall into the category of gender, sexuality or relationship diverse (GSRD), whether that means someone is kinky, polyamorous, a sex worker, queer (or a combination!). I work with people on a wide variety of issues: I see couples who want to work on improving communication in their relationship; I see individuals who are struggling to identify what they want sexually; I see people who want a space to process their feelings more generally.
Are you confused, stuck and/or curious about developing your authentic self, fostering healthier and more adequate relationships or finding ways to manifest purposeful life changes & realise your true potential? Do you need a Therapist who is experienced with LGBTQ+, neurodiversity, cultural identity, ENM/CNM/polyamory matters? A facilitator for your own individual process or a mediator for you and your partner(s), friends and/or polycule? If this speaks to you, I can help. I provide an online tailored humanistic & existential counselling, psychotherapy and coaching to individuals & small groups; both in English and in French.
Are you confused, stuck and/or curious about developing your authentic self, fostering healthier and more adequate relationships or finding ways to manifest purposeful life changes & realise your true potential? Do you need a Therapist who is experienced with LGBTQ+, neurodiversity, cultural identity, ENM/CNM/polyamory matters? A facilitator for your own individual process or a mediator for you and your partner(s), friends and/or polycule? If this speaks to you, I can help. I provide an online tailored humanistic & existential counselling, psychotherapy and coaching to individuals & small groups; both in English and in French.
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Why might an individual want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
A sex-positive or kinky individual may want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist because the client may feel safer and more supported discussing their experiences and challenges. A therapist who identifies as kink-friendly will have experience with clients having diverse sexual preferences and will likely be nonjudgmental and supportive about issues brought to the table. It is important to note that sex-positive, kink-allied individuals may find equal success with therapists who do not have such specialised knowledge and background. The most important factor in the success of therapy is for the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond.
Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in sex-positive, kink-allied treatment?
Generally, no. There are limited training programs and unofficial accreditations that therapists can pursue, but a therapist’s expertise will ultimately come from their previous experience with similar clients, their engagement with organisations that promote sex positivity or kink-allied lifestyles, and the importance they place on safety and cultural sensitivity.
How can individuals recognise a good sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
An experienced therapist is able to help clients explore their sexual identity and expression and relieve any discomfort or stigma attached to discussing such matters and the client’s overall challenges. A therapist who is sex-positive and kink-allied is able to create an environment that honors a client’s experience and sexual preferences. To recognise a good therapist, clients can simply ask directly about topics and issues important to them and gauge their comfort level and connection with a clinician based on the responses.
Can clients benefit from having a therapist with a focus on sex positivity and alternative sexual lifestyles?
Some individuals may feel most comfortable knowing that the clinician they’re working with has a commitment to creating an atmosphere of sex positivity and has experience with relationship diversity and alternative relationship structures. Working with a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist may help clients respect their own challenges and improve identity-affirming treatment.