Infidelity Counselling in Southwark

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Suzanne Lunn
Psychotherapist, MA
3 Endorsed
Serves Area
I also work with couples on issues such as communication, sex, open relationships, infidelity and divorce.
I am a qualified Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist, registered with the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists (COSRT). I have a post-graduate diploma in clinical sexology and relationship therapy and a foundation certificate in counselling skills and practice from the Contemporary Institute for Clinical Sexology (CICS).
I also work with couples on issues such as communication, sex, open relationships, infidelity and divorce.
I am a qualified Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist, registered with the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists (COSRT). I have a post-graduate diploma in clinical sexology and relationship therapy and a foundation certificate in counselling skills and practice from the Contemporary Institute for Clinical Sexology (CICS).
020 3597 6612 View 020 3597 6612
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Dr Alan Flynn
Psychologist, PsychD, CPsychol
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
Are you experiencing challenges with your relationships, difficult feelings, such as anxiety or depression, or feeling stuck in unhelpful patterns in your life? Perhaps you deal with your pressures so that others around you don’t seem to notice yet inwardly feel troubled or unsettled. Or you might have had a difficult recent life event or yet to deal fully with early life experiences that are impacting you now? I’m a Senior Counselling Psychologist and accredited Mentalisation Based Therapist. I can help you, as an individual or couple, to understand what is happening at a deeper level, so you can find new ways of moving forward.
Are you experiencing challenges with your relationships, difficult feelings, such as anxiety or depression, or feeling stuck in unhelpful patterns in your life? Perhaps you deal with your pressures so that others around you don’t seem to notice yet inwardly feel troubled or unsettled. Or you might have had a difficult recent life event or yet to deal fully with early life experiences that are impacting you now? I’m a Senior Counselling Psychologist and accredited Mentalisation Based Therapist. I can help you, as an individual or couple, to understand what is happening at a deeper level, so you can find new ways of moving forward.
020 3835 5896 View 020 3835 5896
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RJUTherapy
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
They may have difficulty with communication; conflict resolution; separation; attachment; infidelity and mental health, amongst others.
I offer a safe space to explore complex relationship issues, based on 18 years of clinical experience working with individuals, couples and families. I enable meaningful change through the development of improved communication skills, advanced self-awareness and core psychological tools, which help the people I work with to move forwards.
They may have difficulty with communication; conflict resolution; separation; attachment; infidelity and mental health, amongst others.
I offer a safe space to explore complex relationship issues, based on 18 years of clinical experience working with individuals, couples and families. I enable meaningful change through the development of improved communication skills, advanced self-awareness and core psychological tools, which help the people I work with to move forwards.
01905 672311 View 01905 672311
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Mihai Diaconescu
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Southwark, London SE1
Many difficulties people bring to therapy don’t stem from conscious thought, but from how past experience lives on in the mind and body. Early or overwhelming experiences, along with beliefs shaped by social and cultural conditioning, can form patterns of reactivity and ways of behaving that operate outside awareness. Yet these patterns show up here and now, where they can be met, explored, and responded to differently. In therapy, we work with this living process so new understanding, choice, and more integrated change across safety, belonging, authenticity, value, freedom, and meaning can emerge, not just cognitive insight.
Many difficulties people bring to therapy don’t stem from conscious thought, but from how past experience lives on in the mind and body. Early or overwhelming experiences, along with beliefs shaped by social and cultural conditioning, can form patterns of reactivity and ways of behaving that operate outside awareness. Yet these patterns show up here and now, where they can be met, explored, and responded to differently. In therapy, we work with this living process so new understanding, choice, and more integrated change across safety, belonging, authenticity, value, freedom, and meaning can emerge, not just cognitive insight.
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Thomas Noonan-Ganley
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Southwark, London SE1
I’m an integrative transpersonal therapist based in Borough/London Bridge. I draw on various psychotherapeutic disciplines, including Jungian, psychodynamic, Gestalt, and nervous-system focused approaches. I consider not only your life circumstance and history, but also the “bigger picture” of your life and the wider context in which you live, such as society, generational influence, hopes and ambitions.
I’m an integrative transpersonal therapist based in Borough/London Bridge. I draw on various psychotherapeutic disciplines, including Jungian, psychodynamic, Gestalt, and nervous-system focused approaches. I consider not only your life circumstance and history, but also the “bigger picture” of your life and the wider context in which you live, such as society, generational influence, hopes and ambitions.
020 3597 3874 View 020 3597 3874
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Sarah McKenzie
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Southwark, London SE1
I work with couples and individuals who are interested in resolving issues from early life. You might have a clear idea about the problems or trauma you want to work on, or you may feel stuck, anxious, or angry without knowing what is causing you to feel this way. You may be looking for long term therapy to increase your self understanding or have a specific trauma you would like to work on in EMDR therapy. You or your partner might have a sexual issue which is keeping you from a fulfilling sex life together, or you may want to work through conflicts that have arisen in your relationship.
I work with couples and individuals who are interested in resolving issues from early life. You might have a clear idea about the problems or trauma you want to work on, or you may feel stuck, anxious, or angry without knowing what is causing you to feel this way. You may be looking for long term therapy to increase your self understanding or have a specific trauma you would like to work on in EMDR therapy. You or your partner might have a sexual issue which is keeping you from a fulfilling sex life together, or you may want to work through conflicts that have arisen in your relationship.
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Eleanor Koike
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Southwark, London SE1
Counselling is a space to talk, think and be listened to in confidence with a trained professional who will respect you and your experiences. Life can be challenging especially when we are dealing with difficult or overwhelming feelings. It is often hard to understand the root of one's own pain and perhaps talking to friends and family is too difficult or does not seem to bring about the change and acceptance you seek. For those feeling stuck or isolated, counselling will improve your emotional wellbeing and help you feel more in control of your life, and with the right counsellor it will lead to positive and lasting change.
Counselling is a space to talk, think and be listened to in confidence with a trained professional who will respect you and your experiences. Life can be challenging especially when we are dealing with difficult or overwhelming feelings. It is often hard to understand the root of one's own pain and perhaps talking to friends and family is too difficult or does not seem to bring about the change and acceptance you seek. For those feeling stuck or isolated, counselling will improve your emotional wellbeing and help you feel more in control of your life, and with the right counsellor it will lead to positive and lasting change.
020 3823 6816 View 020 3823 6816
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Rebecca Bogue
Counsellor, MBACP
Southwark, London SE1
I believe therapy is transformative. I provide a holding and supportive space where all feelings, thoughts and experiences are welcome. I am an integrative counsellor: I draw on a variety of therapeutic approaches depending on your needs. Exploring integration can also mean where our socio-political-cultural context shapes or meets our inner narratives. I adopt an intersectional perspective that invites GSRD and cross-cultural experiences. I maintain a creative, somatic practice and this can feature in therapy when the talking cure feels limited: where the non-verbal feels prevalent or when a ‘rehearsal for life’ feels useful.
I believe therapy is transformative. I provide a holding and supportive space where all feelings, thoughts and experiences are welcome. I am an integrative counsellor: I draw on a variety of therapeutic approaches depending on your needs. Exploring integration can also mean where our socio-political-cultural context shapes or meets our inner narratives. I adopt an intersectional perspective that invites GSRD and cross-cultural experiences. I maintain a creative, somatic practice and this can feature in therapy when the talking cure feels limited: where the non-verbal feels prevalent or when a ‘rehearsal for life’ feels useful.
01992 662430 View 01992 662430
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Cara Lester
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Southwark, London SE1
Are you experiencing anxiety or stress, perhaps feeling isolated by shame, trauma, or societal pressures? I offer an inclusive, compassionate, affirming space to reflect on your experiences and explore what feels meaningful or true for you. Our conversations may open space to reconnect with silenced parts of yourself, ease distress, or wonder about ways you could live more authentically despite cultural expectations. Sessions are relational, supportive, and gently challenging, always shaped around your unique journey.
Are you experiencing anxiety or stress, perhaps feeling isolated by shame, trauma, or societal pressures? I offer an inclusive, compassionate, affirming space to reflect on your experiences and explore what feels meaningful or true for you. Our conversations may open space to reconnect with silenced parts of yourself, ease distress, or wonder about ways you could live more authentically despite cultural expectations. Sessions are relational, supportive, and gently challenging, always shaped around your unique journey.
020 4572 7202 View 020 4572 7202
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Dr Kayode Akinsulire
Psychologist, DCounsPsych, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Southwark, London SE1
Welcome! My Name is Kay and I am a Counselling Psychologist registered with the HCPC. I base my practice in an integrative approach using Narrative, CBT, psychodynamic and person-centred interventions where appropriate. The healing power of the therapeutic relationship is crucial to my practice. I aim for this relationship to be restorative, in support of safety, learning and creativity. I have accrued experience of therapeutic work in different settings within the NHS and community-based charities. I provide therapy to everyone including clients of Asian and Black African/African-Caribbean heritage.
Welcome! My Name is Kay and I am a Counselling Psychologist registered with the HCPC. I base my practice in an integrative approach using Narrative, CBT, psychodynamic and person-centred interventions where appropriate. The healing power of the therapeutic relationship is crucial to my practice. I aim for this relationship to be restorative, in support of safety, learning and creativity. I have accrued experience of therapeutic work in different settings within the NHS and community-based charities. I provide therapy to everyone including clients of Asian and Black African/African-Caribbean heritage.
020 4538 8563 View 020 4538 8563
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Dr Elvis Langley
Psychologist, DCounsPsych, CPsychol
1 Endorsed
Southwark, London SE1
I am a UKCP qualified Integrative Psychotherapist (UKCP) and Chartered Counselling Psychologist (DCPsych, CPsychol., AFBPsS). Everyone deserves to have someone in their lives who can listen compassionately and hold a space of non-judgemental understanding. I try to offer that space, first and foremost. While doing this, I seek to understand where things may have been difficult and hold in mind your potential for growth and change. The underlying core of my approach is based on respecting your needs and safety, as well as helping you bring out your innate wisdom and strengths.
I am a UKCP qualified Integrative Psychotherapist (UKCP) and Chartered Counselling Psychologist (DCPsych, CPsychol., AFBPsS). Everyone deserves to have someone in their lives who can listen compassionately and hold a space of non-judgemental understanding. I try to offer that space, first and foremost. While doing this, I seek to understand where things may have been difficult and hold in mind your potential for growth and change. The underlying core of my approach is based on respecting your needs and safety, as well as helping you bring out your innate wisdom and strengths.
020 3984 9270 View 020 3984 9270
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Dan Skili - Creative Psychotherapy
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Southwark, London SE1
I’m a registered Psychotherapist who works extensively with talking therapy. I have 25 years’ experience working with individuals and groups. Some of the issues I help people with are stress, anxiety, depression, identity, relationships, loneliness, burnout and feeling stuck. I offer therapy online and face to face at my practice in London Bridge, as well as walk & talk sessions. I provide a comfortable and confidential environment where you will feel respected, safe and free from judgement. While I primarily offer talking therapy, I can also draw on creative approaches where helpful and if you choose to explore them.
I’m a registered Psychotherapist who works extensively with talking therapy. I have 25 years’ experience working with individuals and groups. Some of the issues I help people with are stress, anxiety, depression, identity, relationships, loneliness, burnout and feeling stuck. I offer therapy online and face to face at my practice in London Bridge, as well as walk & talk sessions. I provide a comfortable and confidential environment where you will feel respected, safe and free from judgement. While I primarily offer talking therapy, I can also draw on creative approaches where helpful and if you choose to explore them.
020 3974 2397 View 020 3974 2397
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Bernie Bane
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Southwark, London SE1
I am a qualified, BACP-accredited integrative therapist with a warm and collaborative approach. I have a wide range of experience working in the charity sector, LGBTQIA community and HE. I can offer support with relationship difficulties, anxiety, depression, identity or sexuality issues, and much more. I see therapy as a co-operative venture between therapist & client and I endeavour to provide a safe and confidential space for you to explore the issues that are important to you. I can support you in accepting and understanding yourself as a whole person, with the power and freedom to make choices.
I am a qualified, BACP-accredited integrative therapist with a warm and collaborative approach. I have a wide range of experience working in the charity sector, LGBTQIA community and HE. I can offer support with relationship difficulties, anxiety, depression, identity or sexuality issues, and much more. I see therapy as a co-operative venture between therapist & client and I endeavour to provide a safe and confidential space for you to explore the issues that are important to you. I can support you in accepting and understanding yourself as a whole person, with the power and freedom to make choices.
020 4538 8506 View 020 4538 8506
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Ben Scanlan
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Southwark, London SE1
Life is difficult. Do more, be more. Be what others want. I offer a space where we examine where you are in life, what's brought you here, what it's like being you and you in relation to others, and how you're contributing to where you're at. How will we do this? Through our relationship, where I'll offer support, care, empathy and challenge to help you examine life.
Life is difficult. Do more, be more. Be what others want. I offer a space where we examine where you are in life, what's brought you here, what it's like being you and you in relation to others, and how you're contributing to where you're at. How will we do this? Through our relationship, where I'll offer support, care, empathy and challenge to help you examine life.
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Josh Brostoff
Psychotherapist, MBBS, MBACP Accred
1 Endorsed
Southwark, London SE1
Hi, I'm Josh, a BACP accredited integrative psychotherapist and counsellor. I provide a safe, supportive, engaging space where we can work together to examine the things that are troubling you. I have worked extensively with people dealing with: anxiety, depression, addiction, relationship challenges, low self-esteem, loss and bereavement, ADHD and neurodiversity, gender and sexuality, and trauma. I’m someone who has been on their own journey of self-discovery, which has been at times painful and at times beautiful.
Hi, I'm Josh, a BACP accredited integrative psychotherapist and counsellor. I provide a safe, supportive, engaging space where we can work together to examine the things that are troubling you. I have worked extensively with people dealing with: anxiety, depression, addiction, relationship challenges, low self-esteem, loss and bereavement, ADHD and neurodiversity, gender and sexuality, and trauma. I’m someone who has been on their own journey of self-discovery, which has been at times painful and at times beautiful.
020 4572 1389 View 020 4572 1389
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Helen Broughton
Psychotherapist, MA, HCPC-Drama Therap.
Southwark, London SE1
I am a HCPC registered psychotherapist with 10 years experience of working with adults, young people and groups. I work with a psychodynamic, creative approach and offer you a space that is non-judgemental, empathic and safe. Clients come to therapy with me for many and varied reasons: sometimes for support to address a specific mental health problem, such as anxiety or low mood; sometimes because of a dilemma or difficult experience: the end of a relationship, a bereavement, becoming a parent, struggling at work; sometimes for support with relationship or attachment issues.
I am a HCPC registered psychotherapist with 10 years experience of working with adults, young people and groups. I work with a psychodynamic, creative approach and offer you a space that is non-judgemental, empathic and safe. Clients come to therapy with me for many and varied reasons: sometimes for support to address a specific mental health problem, such as anxiety or low mood; sometimes because of a dilemma or difficult experience: the end of a relationship, a bereavement, becoming a parent, struggling at work; sometimes for support with relationship or attachment issues.
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Chui-Yee Cheung
Psychotherapist, COSRT Reg.
Southwark, London SE1
Embarking on therapy for the first time can feel daunting, especially when navigating the deeply personal terrain of sex and relationships. Taking the first step is often the most difficult part, but within that initial apprehension lies the profound potential for transformation and healing. As a sex & relationship therapist, and a qualified Yoga teacher, I work with individuals & couples on their mind-body connection, through somatic awareness and psychosexual therapy, to help foster greater wellbeing in sexual expression and pleasure. I offer a flexible, tailor-made approach that evolves alongside you.
Embarking on therapy for the first time can feel daunting, especially when navigating the deeply personal terrain of sex and relationships. Taking the first step is often the most difficult part, but within that initial apprehension lies the profound potential for transformation and healing. As a sex & relationship therapist, and a qualified Yoga teacher, I work with individuals & couples on their mind-body connection, through somatic awareness and psychosexual therapy, to help foster greater wellbeing in sexual expression and pleasure. I offer a flexible, tailor-made approach that evolves alongside you.
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Lindsay Rowan
Counsellor, MBACP
Southwark, London SE1
Do you feel anxious, overwhelmed, emotionally numb or stuck in patterns you can’t seem to change? You may be struggling with health anxiety, worrying about physical symptoms, or experiencing panic, dissociation, or chronic tension in the body. I work with individuals and couples, supporting people navigating anxiety, relationship difficulties, intimacy issues and life transitions. I also have extensive experience working with young people and students, having previously served as Head Therapist within a London college counselling service, supporting clients through anxiety, identity development and emotional overwhelm.
Do you feel anxious, overwhelmed, emotionally numb or stuck in patterns you can’t seem to change? You may be struggling with health anxiety, worrying about physical symptoms, or experiencing panic, dissociation, or chronic tension in the body. I work with individuals and couples, supporting people navigating anxiety, relationship difficulties, intimacy issues and life transitions. I also have extensive experience working with young people and students, having previously served as Head Therapist within a London college counselling service, supporting clients through anxiety, identity development and emotional overwhelm.
020 7870 1898 View 020 7870 1898
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Jo Shaw
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP Accred
Southwark, London SE1
I work with people who are in some way feeling inner distress. Perhaps they've faced something painful or traumatising in the past and the emotional residue of it remains inside. Perhaps they have experienced loss, or are facing grief - for a loved one, for a time, even for themselves (that feeling of who you really are in your own life). They might be struggling with a situation that feels difficult, even overwhelming, (anything from a relationship or a work problem, to an inner understanding of their own sexual or gender identity). They might wake each day to a feeling of anxiety or dread, drained of energy and facing depression.
I work with people who are in some way feeling inner distress. Perhaps they've faced something painful or traumatising in the past and the emotional residue of it remains inside. Perhaps they have experienced loss, or are facing grief - for a loved one, for a time, even for themselves (that feeling of who you really are in your own life). They might be struggling with a situation that feels difficult, even overwhelming, (anything from a relationship or a work problem, to an inner understanding of their own sexual or gender identity). They might wake each day to a feeling of anxiety or dread, drained of energy and facing depression.
020 3805 6870 View 020 3805 6870
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Sonya Waller
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Southwark, London SE1
During our lives we may have experience difficulties from early childhood that continue to impact into our adulthood, having someone to listen your problems with an understanding on life experiences and the expertise will benefit greatly to take you safely through a journey to confront and overcome these challenges towards a positive future. The most important support to give to someone is allowing them to feel safe, secure and a non -judgemental space to explore their problems through listening.
During our lives we may have experience difficulties from early childhood that continue to impact into our adulthood, having someone to listen your problems with an understanding on life experiences and the expertise will benefit greatly to take you safely through a journey to confront and overcome these challenges towards a positive future. The most important support to give to someone is allowing them to feel safe, secure and a non -judgemental space to explore their problems through listening.
020 3870 4089 View 020 3870 4089
Infidelity Counsellors
How does therapy for infidelity work?
A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?
Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?
When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?
Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.