Couples Counselling in Southwark
Hi, I’m Andrew, a dedicated and compassionate counsellor with experience working with, but not limited to, addiction & recovery, sex, relationships and couples, and the queer community.
I also have a deep understanding of the diverse experiences within the queer community, and I strive to provide affirming and inclusive support. In our sessions, you can expect a warm and supportive environment where we work collaboratively to explore your concerns and goals through a variety of therapeutic techniques.
Hi, I’m Andrew, a dedicated and compassionate counsellor with experience working with, but not limited to, addiction & recovery, sex, relationships and couples, and the queer community.
I also have a deep understanding of the diverse experiences within the queer community, and I strive to provide affirming and inclusive support. In our sessions, you can expect a warm and supportive environment where we work collaboratively to explore your concerns and goals through a variety of therapeutic techniques.
Our relationships and health can suffer as a result.
I provide therapy and counselling from a peaceful and tucked away consulting room, minutes away from London Bridge station. In this safe and non-judgemental space, we can talk about and make sense of what troubles you. I am a qualified and experienced psychodynamic psychotherapist, have experience working in NHS, private sector and higher education sector.
Our relationships and health can suffer as a result.
I provide therapy and counselling from a peaceful and tucked away consulting room, minutes away from London Bridge station. In this safe and non-judgemental space, we can talk about and make sense of what troubles you. I am a qualified and experienced psychodynamic psychotherapist, have experience working in NHS, private sector and higher education sector.
Selin Akarsu - OCD Specialist & Couples Therapist
Psychotherapist, MA, MBABCP
1 Endorsed
Southwark, London SE1
Many of the people I work with arrive feeling like they've been struggling for longer than they should have, caught in cycles of intrusive thoughts and anxiety they can't seem to reason their way out of, or in relationships where the same painful patterns keep resurfacing despite their best efforts.
I am an experienced and accredited CBT and Couples Psychotherapist with over a decade of NHS, schools and the third sector. I act as a guest lecturer part-time on graduate university programmes and offer supervision for qualified and trainee therapists. I specialise in couples therapy, OCD, self esteem, body image, anxiety disorders and trauma.
Many of the people I work with arrive feeling like they've been struggling for longer than they should have, caught in cycles of intrusive thoughts and anxiety they can't seem to reason their way out of, or in relationships where the same painful patterns keep resurfacing despite their best efforts.
I am an experienced and accredited CBT and Couples Psychotherapist with over a decade of NHS, schools and the third sector. I act as a guest lecturer part-time on graduate university programmes and offer supervision for qualified and trainee therapists. I specialise in couples therapy, OCD, self esteem, body image, anxiety disorders and trauma.
I am Kalvin at Sexuality Space, a modern therapy practice that specialises in mental health, sexual identity, relationships, LGBTQIA+, kink, confidence building, sexual health, non-monogamy, sex worker support and so much more.
As a GSRD (Gender, Sexuality & Relationship Diversities) therapist, my practice is integrative and responsive to your unique experiences and needs. My approach draws from various models and is rooted in the belief that sexuality and relationship dynamics are central to everyone's identity, shaping our interactions with the world and ourselves.
I am Kalvin at Sexuality Space, a modern therapy practice that specialises in mental health, sexual identity, relationships, LGBTQIA+, kink, confidence building, sexual health, non-monogamy, sex worker support and so much more.
As a GSRD (Gender, Sexuality & Relationship Diversities) therapist, my practice is integrative and responsive to your unique experiences and needs. My approach draws from various models and is rooted in the belief that sexuality and relationship dynamics are central to everyone's identity, shaping our interactions with the world and ourselves.
My work involves providing therapeutic support to individuals, couples and groups dealing with personal, social, or psychological issues.
You might be feeling stuck or wondering whether you've made the right decision. You might not even know what the right decision is. You might even want to explore who it is that you are, why you do the things that you do, or why you're in the situation that you're in. If that is you, then consider what it is that counselling and psychotherapy might be able to do in helping you to consider all these questions that you might have about yourself and your situation.
My work involves providing therapeutic support to individuals, couples and groups dealing with personal, social, or psychological issues.
You might be feeling stuck or wondering whether you've made the right decision. You might not even know what the right decision is. You might even want to explore who it is that you are, why you do the things that you do, or why you're in the situation that you're in. If that is you, then consider what it is that counselling and psychotherapy might be able to do in helping you to consider all these questions that you might have about yourself and your situation.
I'm Fiona, a qualified and experienced therapist specialising in working with adults, couples, young people and children.
Specialisations: Childhood Trauma, Self-Esteem and Identity, Addiction, Relationship Issues, Anger Management. In our sessions, you can expect a warm, empathetic, and confidential environment. I work collaboratively with you, helping you gain insight, develop effective coping strategies, and make meaningful changes in your life.
I'm Fiona, a qualified and experienced therapist specialising in working with adults, couples, young people and children.
Specialisations: Childhood Trauma, Self-Esteem and Identity, Addiction, Relationship Issues, Anger Management. In our sessions, you can expect a warm, empathetic, and confidential environment. I work collaboratively with you, helping you gain insight, develop effective coping strategies, and make meaningful changes in your life.
Relationship issues?
Life happens, and the majority of the time we seem to find a way to "happen" with it. We find a way to navigate through the motions of "doing" and get to a place of "being". Being excited, being present, being happy - but sometimes along the way it can get confusing, blurry and we can feel a bit lost. As a certified counsellor, I work with you through the confusion, to get to a place of clarity. I explore the past and present with you using an integrated therapeutic approach - blending the different skills I've learnt in practice to assist you with where you are right now. Many therapists talk about the varying styles of therapy
Relationship issues?
Life happens, and the majority of the time we seem to find a way to "happen" with it. We find a way to navigate through the motions of "doing" and get to a place of "being". Being excited, being present, being happy - but sometimes along the way it can get confusing, blurry and we can feel a bit lost. As a certified counsellor, I work with you through the confusion, to get to a place of clarity. I explore the past and present with you using an integrated therapeutic approach - blending the different skills I've learnt in practice to assist you with where you are right now. Many therapists talk about the varying styles of therapy
I work with couples and individuals who are interested in resolving issues from early life.
I specialise in sex and relationship issues and also have extensive experience with EMDR, a trauma-focused therapy. I can offer couples who feel that trauma is a significant obstacle to intimacy a safe space to process and understand one another.
I work with couples and individuals who are interested in resolving issues from early life.
I specialise in sex and relationship issues and also have extensive experience with EMDR, a trauma-focused therapy. I can offer couples who feel that trauma is a significant obstacle to intimacy a safe space to process and understand one another.
I help people who feel anxious, emotionally disconnected, or stuck in unfulfilling patterns in themselves, their relationships, or their sense of direction.
Many difficulties people bring to therapy don’t stem from conscious thought, but from how past experience lives on in the mind and body. Early or overwhelming experiences, along with beliefs shaped by social and cultural conditioning, can form patterns of reactivity and ways of behaving that operate outside awareness. Yet these patterns show up here and now, where they can be met, explored, and responded to differently. In therapy, we work with this living process so new understanding, choice, and more integrated change across safety, belonging, authenticity, value, freedom, and meaning can emerge, not just cognitive insight.
I help people who feel anxious, emotionally disconnected, or stuck in unfulfilling patterns in themselves, their relationships, or their sense of direction.
Many difficulties people bring to therapy don’t stem from conscious thought, but from how past experience lives on in the mind and body. Early or overwhelming experiences, along with beliefs shaped by social and cultural conditioning, can form patterns of reactivity and ways of behaving that operate outside awareness. Yet these patterns show up here and now, where they can be met, explored, and responded to differently. In therapy, we work with this living process so new understanding, choice, and more integrated change across safety, belonging, authenticity, value, freedom, and meaning can emerge, not just cognitive insight.
If you are looking for a specialist therapist who can help you with issues related to intimacy, sex and relationships then you have come to the right place.
I have experience working with (not limited to): erection and ejaculation difficulties, sexual desire/arousal changes, orgasm disorders, difficulties/pain and penetration, sexuality, sexual trauma/abuse, Chemsex, sexual risk taking, sexual health/STI's, anxiety related to sex, compulsive sexual behaviour (sex/porn addiction) See website for more info
If you are looking for a specialist therapist who can help you with issues related to intimacy, sex and relationships then you have come to the right place.
I have experience working with (not limited to): erection and ejaculation difficulties, sexual desire/arousal changes, orgasm disorders, difficulties/pain and penetration, sexuality, sexual trauma/abuse, Chemsex, sexual risk taking, sexual health/STI's, anxiety related to sex, compulsive sexual behaviour (sex/porn addiction) See website for more info
I work with both individuals and couples in person and online.
I bring to the table a comprehensive training, along with a wide variety of experience drawn from many realms of life and it would be rare for me to come across an issue which I feel unable to work with. I am interested in what lies beneath the surface. How you are in your everyday life is usually an adaptation which can be unhelpful as life progresses.
I work with both individuals and couples in person and online.
I bring to the table a comprehensive training, along with a wide variety of experience drawn from many realms of life and it would be rare for me to come across an issue which I feel unable to work with. I am interested in what lies beneath the surface. How you are in your everyday life is usually an adaptation which can be unhelpful as life progresses.
I work with a variety of difficulties such as: conflicts around identity (including race, religion and culture, gender and sexuality), self-esteem (including concerns about stigma associated with accessing mental health support), negotiating life events (such as work related stress, trauma, abuse, loss and bereavement), mood and anxiety, interpersonal relationships, personality disorders and medically unexplained symptoms.
I am a consultant psychiatrist in medical psychotherapy registered with the General Medical Council (GMC) and the British Psychoanalytic Council (BPC) as a Medical Psychodynamic Psychotherapist. I offer psychoanalytic /psychodynamic psychotherapy and Mentalisation Based Treatment (MBT) & couples therapy. I also offer supervision to clinicians and trainees.
I work with a variety of difficulties such as: conflicts around identity (including race, religion and culture, gender and sexuality), self-esteem (including concerns about stigma associated with accessing mental health support), negotiating life events (such as work related stress, trauma, abuse, loss and bereavement), mood and anxiety, interpersonal relationships, personality disorders and medically unexplained symptoms.
I am a consultant psychiatrist in medical psychotherapy registered with the General Medical Council (GMC) and the British Psychoanalytic Council (BPC) as a Medical Psychodynamic Psychotherapist. I offer psychoanalytic /psychodynamic psychotherapy and Mentalisation Based Treatment (MBT) & couples therapy. I also offer supervision to clinicians and trainees.
I offer a steady thoughtful and confidential space where you can safely explore trauma abuse and violence, depressive states, anxiety identity life transitions relationship difficulties and challenges around sex intimacy and sexuality.
These concerns are more common than we often admit, yet they can feel isolating. My approach integrates psychodynamic, humanistic and trauma-informed therapy somatic awareness and creative work within a 3 Body framework, connecting mind body and soul to support deeper self enquiry emotional regulation and a more compassionate relationship with yourself.
I offer a steady thoughtful and confidential space where you can safely explore trauma abuse and violence, depressive states, anxiety identity life transitions relationship difficulties and challenges around sex intimacy and sexuality.
These concerns are more common than we often admit, yet they can feel isolating. My approach integrates psychodynamic, humanistic and trauma-informed therapy somatic awareness and creative work within a 3 Body framework, connecting mind body and soul to support deeper self enquiry emotional regulation and a more compassionate relationship with yourself.
It may be connected with relationship difficulties, feeling lonely, suffering a bereavement, experiencing anxiety, panic attacks, struggling with depression, trauma, anger, low self-esteem, or work issues.
I can offer sessions in the morning, during the day and evenings in my private practice located at London Bridge within close proximity of public transport links. I provide both long-term open ended psychotherapy and short-term focussed therapy (12 sessions).
It may be connected with relationship difficulties, feeling lonely, suffering a bereavement, experiencing anxiety, panic attacks, struggling with depression, trauma, anger, low self-esteem, or work issues.
I can offer sessions in the morning, during the day and evenings in my private practice located at London Bridge within close proximity of public transport links. I provide both long-term open ended psychotherapy and short-term focussed therapy (12 sessions).
Some of the issues I help people with are stress, anxiety, depression, identity, relationships, loneliness, burnout and feeling stuck.
I work with professionals from a wide range of backgrounds, including those managing demanding careers, workplace pressures and significant life changes. I work with you as an individual, supporting you towards a more settled and fulfilling life. I see each person as unique and work with people, not problems. Therapy is always client-led.
Some of the issues I help people with are stress, anxiety, depression, identity, relationships, loneliness, burnout and feeling stuck.
I work with professionals from a wide range of backgrounds, including those managing demanding careers, workplace pressures and significant life changes. I work with you as an individual, supporting you towards a more settled and fulfilling life. I see each person as unique and work with people, not problems. Therapy is always client-led.
All is welcome to be explored in the therapy room, such as your anxiety, depression, grief, relationship issues or loneliness.
I particularly can relate to the challenges of being born as 1st generation immigrant child and the confusion it may bring about your sense of identity and belonging. Therefore, I particularly enjoy working with clients who want to explore cultural, self-esteem or identity issues and/or traumas.
All is welcome to be explored in the therapy room, such as your anxiety, depression, grief, relationship issues or loneliness.
I particularly can relate to the challenges of being born as 1st generation immigrant child and the confusion it may bring about your sense of identity and belonging. Therefore, I particularly enjoy working with clients who want to explore cultural, self-esteem or identity issues and/or traumas.
Whether you’re feeling overwhelmed, carrying shame, feeling stuck, relationship challenges or simply curious about yourself, we can gently work together to make sense of what you’re going through.
A central part of my work is the relationship we build together. In an attachment-based approach, this becomes a safe space where patterns from past and present relationships can emerge. Experiencing a steady, attuned relationship can help you connect, communicate, and relate more securely to others and yourself.
Whether you’re feeling overwhelmed, carrying shame, feeling stuck, relationship challenges or simply curious about yourself, we can gently work together to make sense of what you’re going through.
A central part of my work is the relationship we build together. In an attachment-based approach, this becomes a safe space where patterns from past and present relationships can emerge. Experiencing a steady, attuned relationship can help you connect, communicate, and relate more securely to others and yourself.
I work with individuals and couples, supporting people navigating anxiety, relationship difficulties, intimacy issues and life transitions.
As an integrative therapist, I draw on humanistic, relational and psychodynamic approaches. I have a particular interest in the mind–body connection, and how unresolved emotion and stress can manifest as physical symptoms. Rather than fighting anxiety, numbness or dissociation, we gently explore them with curiosity so the nervous system can begin to settle.
I work with individuals and couples, supporting people navigating anxiety, relationship difficulties, intimacy issues and life transitions.
As an integrative therapist, I draw on humanistic, relational and psychodynamic approaches. I have a particular interest in the mind–body connection, and how unresolved emotion and stress can manifest as physical symptoms. Rather than fighting anxiety, numbness or dissociation, we gently explore them with curiosity so the nervous system can begin to settle.
Life can feel overwhelming at times—whether it’s the relentless pressure of a high-stakes career, grappling with stress, anxiety, loss, or struggling to fully accept yourself. Everyone faces moments of uncertainty, anxiety, and challenge. Whatever you're going through, you don’t have to navigate it alone.
I understand the emotional weight of seeking belonging and the courage it takes to move towards self-acceptance. I can help you understand yourself better, break free from limiting beliefs and empower yourself to embrace a more joyful, balanced life.
Life can feel overwhelming at times—whether it’s the relentless pressure of a high-stakes career, grappling with stress, anxiety, loss, or struggling to fully accept yourself. Everyone faces moments of uncertainty, anxiety, and challenge. Whatever you're going through, you don’t have to navigate it alone.
I understand the emotional weight of seeking belonging and the courage it takes to move towards self-acceptance. I can help you understand yourself better, break free from limiting beliefs and empower yourself to embrace a more joyful, balanced life.
I understand it is important for people to know they are accepted, in a safe place and respected by their counsellor to help develop a trusting positive relationship.
During our lives we may have experience difficulties from early childhood that continue to impact into our adulthood, having someone to listen your problems with an understanding on life experiences and the expertise will benefit greatly to take you safely through a journey to confront and overcome these challenges towards a positive future. The most important support to give to someone is allowing them to feel safe, secure and a non -judgemental space to explore their problems through listening.
I understand it is important for people to know they are accepted, in a safe place and respected by their counsellor to help develop a trusting positive relationship.
During our lives we may have experience difficulties from early childhood that continue to impact into our adulthood, having someone to listen your problems with an understanding on life experiences and the expertise will benefit greatly to take you safely through a journey to confront and overcome these challenges towards a positive future. The most important support to give to someone is allowing them to feel safe, secure and a non -judgemental space to explore their problems through listening.
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FAQ - About Couples Therapy
Does couples counseling work?
Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.
When should a couple seek counseling?
Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.
How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?
The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.
How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?
The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.