Narcissistic Personality (NPD) Counselling in South West London

Dr April Haesler
Psychologist, DCounsPsych, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
South West London, London SW5
I am a qualified Counselling Psychologist with experience in private practice, specialist charities and the NHS. I am an integrative practitioner, which means I draw on different therapeutic models to tailor the therapy to you and your goals. Therapy should be a collaborative experience where we work together to enable you to become the person you want to be. I have experience working with a diverse range of presentations and difficulties, including trauma, anxiety, depression, narcissism, addiction, relationship difficulties, etc. I offer a safe and reflective space where you can explore your inner and external experiences.
I am a qualified Counselling Psychologist with experience in private practice, specialist charities and the NHS. I am an integrative practitioner, which means I draw on different therapeutic models to tailor the therapy to you and your goals. Therapy should be a collaborative experience where we work together to enable you to become the person you want to be. I have experience working with a diverse range of presentations and difficulties, including trauma, anxiety, depression, narcissism, addiction, relationship difficulties, etc. I offer a safe and reflective space where you can explore your inner and external experiences.
020 3667 9675 View 020 3667 9675
Ruth Ann Harpur
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Online Only
The focus in my private practice is on difficult relationships be that in the workplace, with friends or romantic relationships. I work with individuals and couples who are in or have been in relationships where there is control, excessive criticism, contempt or betrayal. I work with people who have tended to be more harmed by and those who have caused harm in their relationships. I help people develop a sense of compassion for themselves, building a sense of strength to advocate for their own needs in a constructive way so as to develop genuine, lasting intimacy with others.
The focus in my private practice is on difficult relationships be that in the workplace, with friends or romantic relationships. I work with individuals and couples who are in or have been in relationships where there is control, excessive criticism, contempt or betrayal. I work with people who have tended to be more harmed by and those who have caused harm in their relationships. I help people develop a sense of compassion for themselves, building a sense of strength to advocate for their own needs in a constructive way so as to develop genuine, lasting intimacy with others.
01798 305150 View 01798 305150
Kirit Vadgama
Counsellor, MBACP
South West London, London SW2
Feeling anxious? Stuck? Struggling with loss? Having difficulties with a relationship? Wanting to move on but not sure where to turn? Counselling can provide relief, helping you to explore your feelings and make sense of the past and present to help you move forward. I have experience working with adults and teenagers facing a range of issues including stress, anxiety, depression, difficulties with relationships, family issues, sexual abuse, affairs and betrayals. Through a series of sessions we work together to make sense of your problems, and help you find some relief.
Feeling anxious? Stuck? Struggling with loss? Having difficulties with a relationship? Wanting to move on but not sure where to turn? Counselling can provide relief, helping you to explore your feelings and make sense of the past and present to help you move forward. I have experience working with adults and teenagers facing a range of issues including stress, anxiety, depression, difficulties with relationships, family issues, sexual abuse, affairs and betrayals. Through a series of sessions we work together to make sense of your problems, and help you find some relief.
020 3962 0878 View 020 3962 0878
Dr Tracy Chery-Nicolls
Psychologist, DCounsPsych, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
South West London, London SW19
Therapy offers a space for you to explore what matters most to you, and to reflect on experiences, feelings, and thoughts that may be making life feel challenging. As an integrative practitioner with strong humanistic values, I work holistically and tailor therapy to each client’s individual needs. I am committed to co-creating a therapeutic space that is culturally sensitive, collaborative, and led by the client, supporting meaningful personal change and growth.
Therapy offers a space for you to explore what matters most to you, and to reflect on experiences, feelings, and thoughts that may be making life feel challenging. As an integrative practitioner with strong humanistic values, I work holistically and tailor therapy to each client’s individual needs. I am committed to co-creating a therapeutic space that is culturally sensitive, collaborative, and led by the client, supporting meaningful personal change and growth.
01883 779580 View 01883 779580
Anastasiia Hunter Makarova
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
Online Only
I also work with those in relationships with people who have narcissistic traits, helping them manage relational stress and conflict.
I provide psychological interventions to adults dealing with a range of challenges, including anxiety, depression, self-esteem issues, complex trauma, work-related stress, and relationship difficulties. I tailor my approach to work effectively with diverse learning styles, attention levels, and processing differences.
I also work with those in relationships with people who have narcissistic traits, helping them manage relational stress and conflict.
I provide psychological interventions to adults dealing with a range of challenges, including anxiety, depression, self-esteem issues, complex trauma, work-related stress, and relationship difficulties. I tailor my approach to work effectively with diverse learning styles, attention levels, and processing differences.
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Viviana Meloni
Psychologist, MA, CPsychol
South West London, London SW5
I am a multilingual Chartered Principal Psychologist (English, Italian and Spanish speaking) recognised by the professional bodies Health and Care Professions Council and British Psychology Society, currently offering both online therapy (which consistently shows itself to be as effective as traditional therapy) and face to face therapy at Kensington, Wimbledon, Chiswick and West Hampstead. I work both for the NHS and as a Director of my own psychology company. With over 15 years’ experience, I provide a range of evidence based psychological therapies in line with NICE guidelines guarantying a confidential and non-judgmental space.
I am a multilingual Chartered Principal Psychologist (English, Italian and Spanish speaking) recognised by the professional bodies Health and Care Professions Council and British Psychology Society, currently offering both online therapy (which consistently shows itself to be as effective as traditional therapy) and face to face therapy at Kensington, Wimbledon, Chiswick and West Hampstead. I work both for the NHS and as a Director of my own psychology company. With over 15 years’ experience, I provide a range of evidence based psychological therapies in line with NICE guidelines guarantying a confidential and non-judgmental space.
07901 163611 View 07901 163611
Ruth Lewis Clarke
Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
South West London, London SW19
Hello! I am a qualified and accredited psychotherapist, working from a lovely studio in Wimbledon Village. I work with clients facing a range of difficult issues in their lives. This can be long or short-term work. I accompany my clients along their the journey of deeper self-knowledge, understanding how adverse childhood circumstances left their mark. I help people to discover lost parts of themselves, so they can show up more fully in the world. This involves finding new qualities, taking back projections, reconciling opposites in the psyche and finding balance.
Hello! I am a qualified and accredited psychotherapist, working from a lovely studio in Wimbledon Village. I work with clients facing a range of difficult issues in their lives. This can be long or short-term work. I accompany my clients along their the journey of deeper self-knowledge, understanding how adverse childhood circumstances left their mark. I help people to discover lost parts of themselves, so they can show up more fully in the world. This involves finding new qualities, taking back projections, reconciling opposites in the psyche and finding balance.
020 8059 4336 View 020 8059 4336
Brenda Denise Clarke-Wills
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Online Only
My offer of help is inclusive, no matter your nationality or ethnicity, I can help with abuse, anxiety, bereavement, cultural issues, depression, loss, post-traumatic stress, relationships (couples), trauma, low mood, sense of self, self-esteem and confidence. Also, developing resilience, personal growth and transformation; healing from trauma and emotional hurts; overcoming stress, burnout; anxiety; overcoming negative life patterns, developing healthy boundaries; stopping the intergenerational transmission of negative emotional patterns, combating negative relationship dynamics; connecting more deeply with your inner self, etc.
My offer of help is inclusive, no matter your nationality or ethnicity, I can help with abuse, anxiety, bereavement, cultural issues, depression, loss, post-traumatic stress, relationships (couples), trauma, low mood, sense of self, self-esteem and confidence. Also, developing resilience, personal growth and transformation; healing from trauma and emotional hurts; overcoming stress, burnout; anxiety; overcoming negative life patterns, developing healthy boundaries; stopping the intergenerational transmission of negative emotional patterns, combating negative relationship dynamics; connecting more deeply with your inner self, etc.
020 4538 9131 View 020 4538 9131
Flora de Quincey
Counsellor, MA, MNCPS Acc.
Serves Area
I can assist you in gaining insight & understanding into your history to help you make clearer decisions about your future. As we work together to understand the way you are, the easier it will be for you to make decisions to make your life, career and relationships happier, more balanced and more empowered. In therapy you will have a unique chance to be authentic without self-censorship or consideration of others; where the focus is solely on you. As there are so few chances to encounter this kind of interaction, this acts as a powerful catalyst for change and transformation.
I can assist you in gaining insight & understanding into your history to help you make clearer decisions about your future. As we work together to understand the way you are, the easier it will be for you to make decisions to make your life, career and relationships happier, more balanced and more empowered. In therapy you will have a unique chance to be authentic without self-censorship or consideration of others; where the focus is solely on you. As there are so few chances to encounter this kind of interaction, this acts as a powerful catalyst for change and transformation.
07403 936922 View 07403 936922
Jessica Tortosa Encinas
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Online Only
Don’t let trauma drive your relationships in life, they will take you down a beaten track, instead become a conscious driver and set your destination to healthy and happy relationships where you can be your true self and grow. When thinking about relationships, most people seem to overlook the fact that our traumas inform how we relate to other people, this means that any trauma that hasn’t been processed and healed, will be determining what kind of person comes into your life, which ones stay and which ones leave.  At a practical level these traumas show up in day-to-day interactions with others in countless & often subtle ways:
Don’t let trauma drive your relationships in life, they will take you down a beaten track, instead become a conscious driver and set your destination to healthy and happy relationships where you can be your true self and grow. When thinking about relationships, most people seem to overlook the fact that our traumas inform how we relate to other people, this means that any trauma that hasn’t been processed and healed, will be determining what kind of person comes into your life, which ones stay and which ones leave.  At a practical level these traumas show up in day-to-day interactions with others in countless & often subtle ways:
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Muby Oztabay
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
I have a clinical interest in Boarding School Survivors (Also known as Privileged Abandonment) and Adult Children of Narcissistic Parents.
I have 20 years of experience as an Integrative counsellor/psychotherapist. Throughout my career, I have provided over 10,000 hours of psychotherapy sessions, working with Children, Adolescents and Adults in Higher Education, the Third Sector/NGOs and Tier 3 services across United Kingdom.
I have a clinical interest in Boarding School Survivors (Also known as Privileged Abandonment) and Adult Children of Narcissistic Parents.
I have 20 years of experience as an Integrative counsellor/psychotherapist. Throughout my career, I have provided over 10,000 hours of psychotherapy sessions, working with Children, Adolescents and Adults in Higher Education, the Third Sector/NGOs and Tier 3 services across United Kingdom.
0161 524 3931 View 0161 524 3931
Zoë Ross
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
Serves Area
Are you a successful professional looking for support to recover from narcissistic abuse, emotional abuse and/or coercive control?
I specialise in helping people recover from narcissistic/emotional abuse and coercive control (and other relationship-based trauma). I combine several evidence-based therapeutic approaches to help you make sense of what has happened to you, find practical ways to reduce the symptoms you are experiencing and understand how you can move forward in your life.
Are you a successful professional looking for support to recover from narcissistic abuse, emotional abuse and/or coercive control?
I specialise in helping people recover from narcissistic/emotional abuse and coercive control (and other relationship-based trauma). I combine several evidence-based therapeutic approaches to help you make sense of what has happened to you, find practical ways to reduce the symptoms you are experiencing and understand how you can move forward in your life.
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Monika Bakonyi Therapy Ltd.
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
Serves Area
I have experience working with depression, stress, anxiety, relationship problems, attachment, trauma, narcissistic abuse, emotional abuse, existential issues, grief, sexuality, transition.
I am a BACP Accredited Humanistic Counsellor (BSc (Hons), Metanoia Institute, London) working with adults. I am a relational therapist and I believe that it is the trusting relationship between myself and my clients that is the vehicle of therapeutic change. I work in both long and short term contracts. I work both online and face to face in Leeds city centre. During your first session we will establish the goal and approximate length of your counselling and discuss the framework of our work, which will keep our therapeutic relationship safe.
I have experience working with depression, stress, anxiety, relationship problems, attachment, trauma, narcissistic abuse, emotional abuse, existential issues, grief, sexuality, transition.
I am a BACP Accredited Humanistic Counsellor (BSc (Hons), Metanoia Institute, London) working with adults. I am a relational therapist and I believe that it is the trusting relationship between myself and my clients that is the vehicle of therapeutic change. I work in both long and short term contracts. I work both online and face to face in Leeds city centre. During your first session we will establish the goal and approximate length of your counselling and discuss the framework of our work, which will keep our therapeutic relationship safe.
01748 902212 View 01748 902212
Mila Palma - Psychotherapist & Clinical Supervisor
Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
I also work with individuals experiencing high levels of anxiety and stress in their lives, relationship difficulties, late diagnosed ADHD, as well as people recovering from traumatic events, including narcissistic abuse.
One of a few in the UK to be certified by ICEEFT as Emotionally Focused Therapist for couples (EFCT) and individuals (EFIT). EFT is a very effective, evidence-based approach informed by attachment theory and is so successful in helping people become more aware of their emotional experience and get better at self-regulating and navigating difficult feelings.
I also work with individuals experiencing high levels of anxiety and stress in their lives, relationship difficulties, late diagnosed ADHD, as well as people recovering from traumatic events, including narcissistic abuse.
One of a few in the UK to be certified by ICEEFT as Emotionally Focused Therapist for couples (EFCT) and individuals (EFIT). EFT is a very effective, evidence-based approach informed by attachment theory and is so successful in helping people become more aware of their emotional experience and get better at self-regulating and navigating difficult feelings.
020 4572 1395 View 020 4572 1395
Ashleen Neeson
Psychotherapist, MBACP
1 Endorsed
South West London, London SW7
Sometimes life can be challenging and we don’t know where to turn. Maybe you and your loved ones are fighting a lot or perhaps not communicating at all? Do you always think the worst about a situation or yourself? Are you comfortable in your own skin? You may want to become more confident or assertive in expressing yourself, saying what you really think without fear. Maybe past events or traumas are preventing you from moving forward and living the happy life that you want. No matter what your situation is, counselling can help create a safe space for you to feel free and help you through even the most difficult of times.
Sometimes life can be challenging and we don’t know where to turn. Maybe you and your loved ones are fighting a lot or perhaps not communicating at all? Do you always think the worst about a situation or yourself? Are you comfortable in your own skin? You may want to become more confident or assertive in expressing yourself, saying what you really think without fear. Maybe past events or traumas are preventing you from moving forward and living the happy life that you want. No matter what your situation is, counselling can help create a safe space for you to feel free and help you through even the most difficult of times.
020 3984 9661 View 020 3984 9661
Aliona Lebed
Counsellor, MSc
South West London, London SW1X
Are you feeling overwhelmed, stuck, lonely — or simply not yourself anymore? Are you tired of being misunderstood, taken for granted, or repeating the same painful patterns in relationships? Are you facing a major life change — separation, divorce, a new career, relocation — and quietly wondering, “How will I cope?” You don’t have to navigate this alone. Aliona is a highly experienced Relationship and Trauma Counsellor based in London, UK, offering compassionate, results-focused therapy for individuals, couples, families, professionals, students and parents. She specialises in helping clients heal emotional wounds.
Are you feeling overwhelmed, stuck, lonely — or simply not yourself anymore? Are you tired of being misunderstood, taken for granted, or repeating the same painful patterns in relationships? Are you facing a major life change — separation, divorce, a new career, relocation — and quietly wondering, “How will I cope?” You don’t have to navigate this alone. Aliona is a highly experienced Relationship and Trauma Counsellor based in London, UK, offering compassionate, results-focused therapy for individuals, couples, families, professionals, students and parents. She specialises in helping clients heal emotional wounds.
020 3962 1958 View 020 3962 1958
Shahnaz Akhtar
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
1 Endorsed
South West London, London SW4
I have significant experience working within the NHS, supporting individuals who present with self-harm and suicidal behaviours. I have worked extensively with clients experiencing addiction, including alcohol, cocaine, nicotine, cannabis, opioids, and prescribed pain medication, as well as supporting reductions in harmful behaviours and improvements in quality of life. I also have substantial experience supporting neurodivergent clients, helping them develop strategies to manage emotional overwhelm, executive dysfunction, and difficulties with daily functioning.
I have significant experience working within the NHS, supporting individuals who present with self-harm and suicidal behaviours. I have worked extensively with clients experiencing addiction, including alcohol, cocaine, nicotine, cannabis, opioids, and prescribed pain medication, as well as supporting reductions in harmful behaviours and improvements in quality of life. I also have substantial experience supporting neurodivergent clients, helping them develop strategies to manage emotional overwhelm, executive dysfunction, and difficulties with daily functioning.
020 4538 9526 View 020 4538 9526
Andre de Trichateau
Psychotherapist, PsychD, MBACP
South West London, London SW7
I am an experienced psychotherapist, psychosexual and couples psychotherapist based in South Kensington, with a strong history in assisting individuals and couples in navigating various challenges in their lives. Together with private practice, I have also worked at the Homerton University Hospital - NHS Foundation Trust in the Cliveden Centre – specialising in sexual dysfunctions/STI’s/living with HIV/sexual trauma as well as psychosexual dysfunctions and relationship conflict. I work with both individuals and couples . I spent two years on the Neurological Rehabilitation Ward – UCLH – Queen Square. Over the course of five
I am an experienced psychotherapist, psychosexual and couples psychotherapist based in South Kensington, with a strong history in assisting individuals and couples in navigating various challenges in their lives. Together with private practice, I have also worked at the Homerton University Hospital - NHS Foundation Trust in the Cliveden Centre – specialising in sexual dysfunctions/STI’s/living with HIV/sexual trauma as well as psychosexual dysfunctions and relationship conflict. I work with both individuals and couples . I spent two years on the Neurological Rehabilitation Ward – UCLH – Queen Square. Over the course of five
020 4538 9593 View 020 4538 9593
Dr Keren Smith
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
3 Endorsed
South West London, London SW1W
Dr Keren Smith worked for the NHS at South London and Maudsley Foundation Trust from 2009 until 2022 where she and her colleagues set up the pioneering National and Specialist DBT service for adolescents. Keren has seen clients independently since 2012, working with both adults and adolescents with a range of difficulties and complexity. She has a particular interest in working with people with a history of trauma and symptoms associated with PTSD and CPTSD; she has completed further training in specialist trauma focused models including EMDR (Parts 1, 2 and 3) and DBT-PE.
Dr Keren Smith worked for the NHS at South London and Maudsley Foundation Trust from 2009 until 2022 where she and her colleagues set up the pioneering National and Specialist DBT service for adolescents. Keren has seen clients independently since 2012, working with both adults and adolescents with a range of difficulties and complexity. She has a particular interest in working with people with a history of trauma and symptoms associated with PTSD and CPTSD; she has completed further training in specialist trauma focused models including EMDR (Parts 1, 2 and 3) and DBT-PE.
020 8106 4754 View 020 8106 4754
Marielle Albers
Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
South West London, London SW18
I am an experienced psychotherapist, drawing on a range of psychological and creative theories to try and meet your specific concern and needs. When you engage in psychotherapy or counselling with me, I listen carefully to what you say, to help you make sense of and gain a deeper insight into your problems. I believe we are all unique and need different things at different times in our lives, and in you setting the pace of our work together. I see psychotherapy as a creative process, facilitating finding new ways of expanding, growing and adapting to present life or circumstances.
I am an experienced psychotherapist, drawing on a range of psychological and creative theories to try and meet your specific concern and needs. When you engage in psychotherapy or counselling with me, I listen carefully to what you say, to help you make sense of and gain a deeper insight into your problems. I believe we are all unique and need different things at different times in our lives, and in you setting the pace of our work together. I see psychotherapy as a creative process, facilitating finding new ways of expanding, growing and adapting to present life or circumstances.
020 3962 0909 View 020 3962 0909

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Narcissistic Personality (NPD) Counsellors
What type of therapy is best for narcissistic personality disorder?
Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is best treated with talk therapy, which could involve cognitive behavioral therapy, dialectical behavior therapy, schema therapy, gestalt therapy, or similar approaches. A therapist will help a patient uncover the feelings that may drive their behavior and discover how to engage with themselves and those around them with greater empathy and understanding, fewer demands, and less defensiveness, with the goal of developing a more authentic sense of self that enables healthier relationships.

How do therapists treat NPD?
By developing a strong therapeutic relationship, and continually focusing patients on relationships, community, and connection, a therapist, through talk therapy, may be able to help someone with NPD change. In sessions, a therapist will help an individual achieve relief from their current stressors, including the treatment of co-occurring conditions such as anxiety or depression. A therapist may also help an individual to recognize unhealthy coping mechanisms, learn new ways of interacting with others, and eventually become able to feel and display empathy.

Can a narcissist be cured with therapy?
Therapy can be effective. After a serious setback or great loss, someone with NPD may be forced to recognize that they are not immune to life’s challenges. That can spur feelings of melancholy and depression that lead them to seek professional help. Once an individual decides to seek help, they have already taken a step that the majority of those with NPD never will. Still, people with NPD often quit therapy as they naturally resist feeling vulnerable, being challenged, or admitting to flaws.

How can you get narcissistic personality disorder treatment for someone?
It is notoriously difficult to convince someone with NPD to seek help. With their feelings of superiority, they may be unlikely to recognize or acknowledge that they have a problem, or that their problem is narcissism. Sometimes, they are aware that they are arrogant and that others resent them but they don’t see it as a problem because they are convinced of their superiority. People with NPD have trouble maintaining relationships, but family members and others who do feel close to them, and whose presence they value, may be able to encourage them to seek therapy.