Divorce Counselling in South West London, London

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Payal Kumar
Psychologist, MSc, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
South West London, London SW4
They can be struggling to cope with life transitions like parenthood, divorce, redundancy, relationship difficulties and cultural transitions.
I have over 15 years experience working, in the U.K. and abroad, with adult and families. In addition to my private work, I practice in the NHS. I draw on a range of evidence-based approaches such as CBT, Systemic & Family therapy, Solution Focussed Therapy and Compassion Focussed Therapy.
They can be struggling to cope with life transitions like parenthood, divorce, redundancy, relationship difficulties and cultural transitions.
I have over 15 years experience working, in the U.K. and abroad, with adult and families. In addition to my private work, I practice in the NHS. I draw on a range of evidence-based approaches such as CBT, Systemic & Family therapy, Solution Focussed Therapy and Compassion Focussed Therapy.
020 3962 1301 View 020 3962 1301
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Sandra Harewood
Counsellor, MUKCP
South West London, London SW1V
Feeling unhappy, disconnected, or unsure where your marriage is heading? Many midlife couples reach a point where communication breaks down, resentment builds, and the relationship starts to feel lonely. If you’re lying awake at 3:17 am thinking about your future, you don’t have to face this alone. Support can help you understand what’s happening between you and find a clearer way forward. Alongside couples work, I also support individuals with anxiety, stress, self-esteem and relationship-related concerns.
Feeling unhappy, disconnected, or unsure where your marriage is heading? Many midlife couples reach a point where communication breaks down, resentment builds, and the relationship starts to feel lonely. If you’re lying awake at 3:17 am thinking about your future, you don’t have to face this alone. Support can help you understand what’s happening between you and find a clearer way forward. Alongside couples work, I also support individuals with anxiety, stress, self-esteem and relationship-related concerns.
020 3962 1880 View 020 3962 1880
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Mark Ryan
Psychotherapist, MBACP
South West London, London SW8
Many of the couples and partners I work with feel like they’ve lost their way together. Arguments may repeat in familiar cycles, or silence has replaced communication. Some arrive in crisis — after betrayal or distance has grown — while others simply want to feel closer again but aren’t sure how. My clients often describe feeling unheard, unseen, or caught in patterns they can’t shift, no matter how hard they try. Beneath the surface conflict, there’s usually a longing to reconnect, to understand each other better, and to feel emotionally safe again. Some couples hope to rebuild and move forward together; others are unsure whether
Many of the couples and partners I work with feel like they’ve lost their way together. Arguments may repeat in familiar cycles, or silence has replaced communication. Some arrive in crisis — after betrayal or distance has grown — while others simply want to feel closer again but aren’t sure how. My clients often describe feeling unheard, unseen, or caught in patterns they can’t shift, no matter how hard they try. Beneath the surface conflict, there’s usually a longing to reconnect, to understand each other better, and to feel emotionally safe again. Some couples hope to rebuild and move forward together; others are unsure whether
020 4572 3665 View 020 4572 3665
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Anna Davydova
Psychotherapist, MSc, UKCP Trainee
1 Endorsed
South West London, London SW17
I support people navigating dating, long-term partnerships, breakups, divorce, and complex family dynamics.
Together we’ll slow down, make sense of your patterns, and help you rebuild trust in your own instincts. Over time, clients often discover greater clarity, steadiness, and confidence in who they are and what they need — so relationships can become more mutual, reliable, and emotionally fulfilling.
I support people navigating dating, long-term partnerships, breakups, divorce, and complex family dynamics.
Together we’ll slow down, make sense of your patterns, and help you rebuild trust in your own instincts. Over time, clients often discover greater clarity, steadiness, and confidence in who they are and what they need — so relationships can become more mutual, reliable, and emotionally fulfilling.
020 4572 4964 View 020 4572 4964
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Dr Caroline Douglas-Pennant
Psychologist, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
South West London, London SW3
My systemic training as well as Terry Neal, Ester Perel and Dr Sue Johnson's Emotionally Focused Therapy informs my practice when working with couples, including co-parenting post- divorce.
I have worked in the NHS for 25 years, across a variety of settings and am currently undertaking an MA in Family Therapy. Neuro-biology and Somatic psychology are also areas that inform my practice. This includes helping individuals to understand choices around mental health medication, how the body and mind are 'one' and are both informed by the 'fight or flight' response, attachment styles and survival strategies. I use NVR (Non-Violent Resolution) to support families and young people with challenging behaviours.
My systemic training as well as Terry Neal, Ester Perel and Dr Sue Johnson's Emotionally Focused Therapy informs my practice when working with couples, including co-parenting post- divorce.
I have worked in the NHS for 25 years, across a variety of settings and am currently undertaking an MA in Family Therapy. Neuro-biology and Somatic psychology are also areas that inform my practice. This includes helping individuals to understand choices around mental health medication, how the body and mind are 'one' and are both informed by the 'fight or flight' response, attachment styles and survival strategies. I use NVR (Non-Violent Resolution) to support families and young people with challenging behaviours.
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Rachel Spence
Counsellor, MBACP
Online Only
I work with a wide range of problems including communication difficulties, anxiety, depression, divorce, affairs, self esteem, grief, issues of trust, difficulties with the wider family, cultural differences, and changes in the relationship such as a new baby, illness and retirement .
I am a Relate trained counsellor experienced at working with both couples and individuals. I offer a down-to-earth, forward thinking, non-directive approach. I endeavour to create a warm, non-judgemental therapeutic relationship where we can focus on you and your situation. I will work with you to understand your concerns, your deeper needs and how they are affecting your life and relationships.I see my role as supportive of your change, offering change to explore feelings and experiences in a safe, confidential space. I have worked with clients from the LGBT community and from diverse backgrounds.
I work with a wide range of problems including communication difficulties, anxiety, depression, divorce, affairs, self esteem, grief, issues of trust, difficulties with the wider family, cultural differences, and changes in the relationship such as a new baby, illness and retirement .
I am a Relate trained counsellor experienced at working with both couples and individuals. I offer a down-to-earth, forward thinking, non-directive approach. I endeavour to create a warm, non-judgemental therapeutic relationship where we can focus on you and your situation. I will work with you to understand your concerns, your deeper needs and how they are affecting your life and relationships.I see my role as supportive of your change, offering change to explore feelings and experiences in a safe, confidential space. I have worked with clients from the LGBT community and from diverse backgrounds.
0113 467 9116 View 0113 467 9116
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Robert Holman
Counsellor, BACP
Serves Area
There are many reasons why people seek time and space to talk and reflect. You might want to talk about thoughts and feelings that are difficult to discuss with others, or consider what has happened to bring you to this point in your life. This can be a space for exploration and discovery, a protected hour in which you will be listened to. My focus is on listening openly, without judgment, to whatever you bring. I will listen to your experiences and your point of view and together we can look at different perspectives which can help you to live more freely.
There are many reasons why people seek time and space to talk and reflect. You might want to talk about thoughts and feelings that are difficult to discuss with others, or consider what has happened to bring you to this point in your life. This can be a space for exploration and discovery, a protected hour in which you will be listened to. My focus is on listening openly, without judgment, to whatever you bring. I will listen to your experiences and your point of view and together we can look at different perspectives which can help you to live more freely.
020 3984 8654 View 020 3984 8654
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Katerina Furman
Psychologist, MSc, GMBPsS
3 Endorsed
Serves Area
Do relationships feel like hard work instead of bringing you joy and being a "safe heaven"? Whether you’re single, dating or in a long-term relationship, you still may feel lonely, confused or stuck. And you start overthinking, feeling anxious, guilty or “not enough”. Maybe you keep arguing about “small things”, avoid intimacy or notice the same painful story repeating with different people. But deep down, you long for calm, emotional safety and honest conversations – to feel close and wanted, and finally relax and be yourself without losing your independence
Do relationships feel like hard work instead of bringing you joy and being a "safe heaven"? Whether you’re single, dating or in a long-term relationship, you still may feel lonely, confused or stuck. And you start overthinking, feeling anxious, guilty or “not enough”. Maybe you keep arguing about “small things”, avoid intimacy or notice the same painful story repeating with different people. But deep down, you long for calm, emotional safety and honest conversations – to feel close and wanted, and finally relax and be yourself without losing your independence
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Nicole Henry
Counsellor, BACP
Serves Area
I help children, teens and adults feel more settled, confident and connected. With young people, I use creative and relational approaches to build emotional awareness and resilience. For adults, especially teachers and caregivers, I offer space to manage stress, burnout and identity shifts. My approach is calm, compassionate and focused on helping you (or your child) feel heard and supported. My clients are often capable people who feel overwhelmed or disconnected. For children and teens, it’s anxiety, school stress or confidence struggles. For adults, it’s burnout, boundaries and finding balance again.
I help children, teens and adults feel more settled, confident and connected. With young people, I use creative and relational approaches to build emotional awareness and resilience. For adults, especially teachers and caregivers, I offer space to manage stress, burnout and identity shifts. My approach is calm, compassionate and focused on helping you (or your child) feel heard and supported. My clients are often capable people who feel overwhelmed or disconnected. For children and teens, it’s anxiety, school stress or confidence struggles. For adults, it’s burnout, boundaries and finding balance again.
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Maria Hampton
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
You may be feeling unheard, disconnected, or anxious in your relationship. wondering how things got here and unsure how to move forward. Maybe there’s been a breakdown of trust, a repeating pattern, or emotional distance that’s hard to bridge. Whether you’re an individual or a couple, you’re longing for clarity, connection, and a calmer space to explore your relationship. If that sounds like you, I can help.
You may be feeling unheard, disconnected, or anxious in your relationship. wondering how things got here and unsure how to move forward. Maybe there’s been a breakdown of trust, a repeating pattern, or emotional distance that’s hard to bridge. Whether you’re an individual or a couple, you’re longing for clarity, connection, and a calmer space to explore your relationship. If that sounds like you, I can help.
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Seema Desai
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
I specialise in domestic abuse, child-to-parent violence (CAPVA), and relationship breakdown, including divorce, separation, family court, or workplace stress.
Life can feel overwhelming at times—whether from anxiety, grief, relationship struggles, cultural pressures, or simply feeling “stuck.” Counselling offers a confidential, non-judgemental space to slow down, reflect, and begin making sense of things. Like the Japanese art of kintsugi—where broken pottery is repaired with gold—therapy can help us see that our cracks are part of our story. Healing doesn’t mean erasing what has happened, but instead finding new strength and meaning in the patterns we may have carried for too long. With support, those places of pain can become places of resilience, authenticity, and growth.
I specialise in domestic abuse, child-to-parent violence (CAPVA), and relationship breakdown, including divorce, separation, family court, or workplace stress.
Life can feel overwhelming at times—whether from anxiety, grief, relationship struggles, cultural pressures, or simply feeling “stuck.” Counselling offers a confidential, non-judgemental space to slow down, reflect, and begin making sense of things. Like the Japanese art of kintsugi—where broken pottery is repaired with gold—therapy can help us see that our cracks are part of our story. Healing doesn’t mean erasing what has happened, but instead finding new strength and meaning in the patterns we may have carried for too long. With support, those places of pain can become places of resilience, authenticity, and growth.
020 3828 7069 View 020 3828 7069
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Linda Clark
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
1 Endorsed
South West London, London SW11
Looking for someone who can help you explore your issues or challenges in a non-judgemental and genuine manner? I support clients in making positive changes, building resilience and achieving personal growth. Going to counselling can be daunting: I hope to offer clients a place of safety and compassion, and a therapeutic relationship instilled with warmth, energy and humour. I tailor my approach to each client’s needs. I’m an integrative counsellor meaning I believe you’ve the skills to overcome the challenges you’re facing and I draw on multiple therapeutic approaches to help unpick your patterns and flourish.
Looking for someone who can help you explore your issues or challenges in a non-judgemental and genuine manner? I support clients in making positive changes, building resilience and achieving personal growth. Going to counselling can be daunting: I hope to offer clients a place of safety and compassion, and a therapeutic relationship instilled with warmth, energy and humour. I tailor my approach to each client’s needs. I’m an integrative counsellor meaning I believe you’ve the skills to overcome the challenges you’re facing and I draw on multiple therapeutic approaches to help unpick your patterns and flourish.
020 8138 8449 View 020 8138 8449
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Ashleen Neeson
Psychotherapist, MBACP
1 Endorsed
South West London, London SW7
Sometimes life can be challenging and we don’t know where to turn. Maybe you and your loved ones are fighting a lot or perhaps not communicating at all? Do you always think the worst about a situation or yourself? Are you comfortable in your own skin? You may want to become more confident or assertive in expressing yourself, saying what you really think without fear. Maybe past events or traumas are preventing you from moving forward and living the happy life that you want. No matter what your situation is, counselling can help create a safe space for you to feel free and help you through even the most difficult of times.
Sometimes life can be challenging and we don’t know where to turn. Maybe you and your loved ones are fighting a lot or perhaps not communicating at all? Do you always think the worst about a situation or yourself? Are you comfortable in your own skin? You may want to become more confident or assertive in expressing yourself, saying what you really think without fear. Maybe past events or traumas are preventing you from moving forward and living the happy life that you want. No matter what your situation is, counselling can help create a safe space for you to feel free and help you through even the most difficult of times.
020 3984 9661 View 020 3984 9661
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Clarendon Psychotherapy and Counselling
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
South West London, London SW1V
Oftentimes having suffered trauma such as a loss or bereavement, perhaps a divorce or other confusing relationship issues in the distant past, we become blocked, needing effective strategies and techniques to continue.
I enjoy and am experienced working with a very diverse range of issues including anxiety, depression, low self esteem, trauma through emotional, physical and sexual abuse, loss, divorce, abandonment, and attachment issues. My Adult clients (18+) include those from the LGBTQ+ and BAME communities and those with personality disorders. I use EMDR.
Oftentimes having suffered trauma such as a loss or bereavement, perhaps a divorce or other confusing relationship issues in the distant past, we become blocked, needing effective strategies and techniques to continue.
I enjoy and am experienced working with a very diverse range of issues including anxiety, depression, low self esteem, trauma through emotional, physical and sexual abuse, loss, divorce, abandonment, and attachment issues. My Adult clients (18+) include those from the LGBTQ+ and BAME communities and those with personality disorders. I use EMDR.
020 4538 0602 View 020 4538 0602
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Natalia Balaban
Verified Verified
Online Only
If you’re struggling with anxiety, depression, trauma, or childhood wounds, feeling lost in your professional or personal life, or facing the challenges of separation or single parenting, and all you want is to rebuild your life, you’re not alone—and this is a safe place to begin that journey.
If you’re struggling with anxiety, depression, trauma, or childhood wounds, feeling lost in your professional or personal life, or facing the challenges of separation or single parenting, and all you want is to rebuild your life, you’re not alone—and this is a safe place to begin that journey.
020 3910 6073 View 020 3910 6073
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Dr Misbah Hussain
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
South West London, London SW5
I’m Dr Misbah Hussain, a Clinical Psychologist, an experienced and skilled therapist, with several years experience of working with adults, children/adolescents and families within NHS, private and third sector services. I have a particular interest in supporting people to manage the impact of trauma, physical health conditions, anxiety, depression, race-related difficulties, relationship difficulties and work-related issues. I recognise the importance of each client’s individual experiences and hopes, which is why I pride myself on tailoring therapy to create a meaningful and authentic space to explore your goals together.
I’m Dr Misbah Hussain, a Clinical Psychologist, an experienced and skilled therapist, with several years experience of working with adults, children/adolescents and families within NHS, private and third sector services. I have a particular interest in supporting people to manage the impact of trauma, physical health conditions, anxiety, depression, race-related difficulties, relationship difficulties and work-related issues. I recognise the importance of each client’s individual experiences and hopes, which is why I pride myself on tailoring therapy to create a meaningful and authentic space to explore your goals together.
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Charlotte Roxy Stoneman
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Online Only
My hope is to create a therapeutic space for us to reflect upon what influences your experiences of the world and I hope to support you through any dilemmas you are experiencing. Time to time we all come across bumps in the road and it is helpful to talk these through. Our connections with others past and present can create both opportunities, but can also create barriers in how we see the world. I hold in mind intersectionality and how our similarities and differences influences our relationships.
My hope is to create a therapeutic space for us to reflect upon what influences your experiences of the world and I hope to support you through any dilemmas you are experiencing. Time to time we all come across bumps in the road and it is helpful to talk these through. Our connections with others past and present can create both opportunities, but can also create barriers in how we see the world. I hold in mind intersectionality and how our similarities and differences influences our relationships.
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Suzanne Lunn
Psychotherapist, MA
3 Endorsed
South West London, London SW1W
I also work with couples on issues such as communication, sex, open relationships, infidelity and divorce.
I am a qualified Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist, registered with the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists (COSRT). I have a post-graduate diploma in clinical sexology and relationship therapy and a foundation certificate in counselling skills and practice from the Contemporary Institute for Clinical Sexology (CICS).
I also work with couples on issues such as communication, sex, open relationships, infidelity and divorce.
I am a qualified Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist, registered with the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists (COSRT). I have a post-graduate diploma in clinical sexology and relationship therapy and a foundation certificate in counselling skills and practice from the Contemporary Institute for Clinical Sexology (CICS).
020 3597 6612 View 020 3597 6612
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Bettina Salzmann CBT Therapist
Psychotherapist, MBACP
South West London, London SW14
I am an experienced CBT therapist and integrative counsellor/psychotherapist working in private practice for Anxiety, Trauma, Personality Disorder using DBT, Depression. I use mindfulness with my clients to help them to become more aware of the present moment and in acknowledging feelings and thoughts as they come and go.It’s been accepted as a useful therapy for anxiety and depression for years, and research suggests it's effective when practising reflection on yourself, switching off your auto pilot in order to discover your real feelings, and this can have an positive influence on our well being.
I am an experienced CBT therapist and integrative counsellor/psychotherapist working in private practice for Anxiety, Trauma, Personality Disorder using DBT, Depression. I use mindfulness with my clients to help them to become more aware of the present moment and in acknowledging feelings and thoughts as they come and go.It’s been accepted as a useful therapy for anxiety and depression for years, and research suggests it's effective when practising reflection on yourself, switching off your auto pilot in order to discover your real feelings, and this can have an positive influence on our well being.
01748 900742 View 01748 900742
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Madelene Louw
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
South West London, London SW14
Sometimes, you feel that you can talk to trusted family or friends. However, at this moment, a private, secluded space may be what you need because you feel depressed, low, anxious, scared, or hopeless because of a current situation or something that happened in previous relationships. As a result unwanted thoughts or images keep feeding overwhelming feelings and unwanted behaviours. These feelings, thoughts, and behaviours feel too difficult to understand, manage, or share with anyone, leaving you feeling alone or misunderstood. I offer privacy and a trusted space where you can share your experiences at your own pace.
Sometimes, you feel that you can talk to trusted family or friends. However, at this moment, a private, secluded space may be what you need because you feel depressed, low, anxious, scared, or hopeless because of a current situation or something that happened in previous relationships. As a result unwanted thoughts or images keep feeding overwhelming feelings and unwanted behaviours. These feelings, thoughts, and behaviours feel too difficult to understand, manage, or share with anyone, leaving you feeling alone or misunderstood. I offer privacy and a trusted space where you can share your experiences at your own pace.
01748 905905 View 01748 905905

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Divorce Counsellors

How does therapy for people affected by a divorce work?

Individuals may feel a number of emotions following a divorce, such as shock, guilt, grief, anger, and fear. Therapists offer a non-judgmental space for individuals to talk about what they’ve experienced and process their emotions. Therapists will help clients develop coping strategies. They can also help a client rebuild their sense of self and self-worth and talk about what a happier future might look like.

What’s the most common type of therapy following a divorce?

There are several types of therapy that may be useful for divorce, including cognitive behavioural, acceptance and commitment, solution-focused brief, and mindfulness-based therapies. Many therapy types are talk-therapy based, which is typically the most popular option for individuals dealing with divorce. Cognitive behavioural therapy is a widely-used talk therapy, however, there’s no specific therapy type that’s designed to help people with divorce, and different types will work depending on the person.

When should an individual seek help due to a divorce?

When the feelings of a divorced individual, or an individual going through the process of divorce, begin to disrupt healthy daily functioning, it may be a good time to look into therapy. If a person finds that they are not performing at work due to problems with anxiety or motivation, if they’re no longer seeing friends due to feelings of shame, or if they’re not properly taking care of themselves as a result of depression, speaking to a professional could help.

How do you encourage someone to go to therapy due to a divorce?

It’s helpful to express concern and love for the individual while framing therapy as a tool for improving their life. Sharing how the individual appears to be suffering, and what effects it has on them or on their children, should be done with compassion and empathy. It may be useful to devise a game plan—breaking the process down into parts, such as finding a therapist, making appointments, and looking into insurance coverage.