Self Esteem Counselling in South London
I am a group analytic psychotherapist offering both group and individual psychotherapy. I work from London Bridge and various spots around South East London and kent Borders and of course through Zoom and Teams if that is what you prefer.
My work is grounded in the belief that emotional difficulties are shaped within relationships, social contexts, and the wider world we live in—and that healing often happens from there too.
I offer a thoughtful, collaborative space to explore distress, patterns of relating, and questions of meaning, whether these show up in your personal life, work, or relationships.
I am a group analytic psychotherapist offering both group and individual psychotherapy. I work from London Bridge and various spots around South East London and kent Borders and of course through Zoom and Teams if that is what you prefer.
My work is grounded in the belief that emotional difficulties are shaped within relationships, social contexts, and the wider world we live in—and that healing often happens from there too.
I offer a thoughtful, collaborative space to explore distress, patterns of relating, and questions of meaning, whether these show up in your personal life, work, or relationships.
Every individual has their own unique journey towards self-acceptance. In our work together, I will help you gain deeper insight into the challenges you are facing and consider ways to bring about meaningful change. We will mutually agree on a pace that feels right for you to start looking more deeply into what is causing you to suffer. Together, we'll explore ways to challenge negative or harmful patterns and identify healthier alternatives. My approach is primarily person-centered, though I may also draw from other therapeutic styles using a holisitic/psychospiritual lens to support the shift towards healing the whole self.
Every individual has their own unique journey towards self-acceptance. In our work together, I will help you gain deeper insight into the challenges you are facing and consider ways to bring about meaningful change. We will mutually agree on a pace that feels right for you to start looking more deeply into what is causing you to suffer. Together, we'll explore ways to challenge negative or harmful patterns and identify healthier alternatives. My approach is primarily person-centered, though I may also draw from other therapeutic styles using a holisitic/psychospiritual lens to support the shift towards healing the whole self.
As a result, clients seek support because they struggle with anxiety, low mood, low self-esteem, and/or physical health issues.
Sometimes you may feel able to talk to trusted family or friends. However, at this moment, a private, secluded space may be what you need if you feel depressed, low, anxious, scared, or hopeless because of a current situation or something that happened in previous relationships. As a result, unwanted thoughts or images keep feeding overwhelming feelings and unwanted behaviours. These feelings, thoughts, and behaviours can feel too difficult to understand, manage, or share with anyone, leaving you feeling alone or misunderstood. I offer privacy and a trusted space where you can share your experiences at your own pace.
As a result, clients seek support because they struggle with anxiety, low mood, low self-esteem, and/or physical health issues.
Sometimes you may feel able to talk to trusted family or friends. However, at this moment, a private, secluded space may be what you need if you feel depressed, low, anxious, scared, or hopeless because of a current situation or something that happened in previous relationships. As a result, unwanted thoughts or images keep feeding overwhelming feelings and unwanted behaviours. These feelings, thoughts, and behaviours can feel too difficult to understand, manage, or share with anyone, leaving you feeling alone or misunderstood. I offer privacy and a trusted space where you can share your experiences at your own pace.
Clarity Psychotherapy & Transformational Coaching
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
South London, London SE9
Do you currently feel stuck or confused, anxious or fearful, emotionally numb, frustrated or restrained, under achieving, without clear identity, low in self-confidence or esteem, lacking purpose, grief or regret, depressed or hopeless, anger, lost or trapped in the past?
I am a deeply committed & motivated professional who believes strongly in the potential in us all to find happiness, peace, success and self-growth. My psychotherapy & coaching create the space & opportunity to transform your life & enable you to feel full of clarity, hope & achieve success.
Do you currently feel stuck or confused, anxious or fearful, emotionally numb, frustrated or restrained, under achieving, without clear identity, low in self-confidence or esteem, lacking purpose, grief or regret, depressed or hopeless, anger, lost or trapped in the past?
I am a deeply committed & motivated professional who believes strongly in the potential in us all to find happiness, peace, success and self-growth. My psychotherapy & coaching create the space & opportunity to transform your life & enable you to feel full of clarity, hope & achieve success.
Have you been struggling with anxiety, low mood, stress, low self-esteem or relationship difficulties?
Alongside private practice, I completed my clinical placement with NHS Talking Therapies, supporting adults experiencing anxiety, depression and stress. I offer a person-centered foundation built on empathy, openness, and understanding supporting clients to make sense of their experiences and find more constructive ways of relating to themselves and others.
Have you been struggling with anxiety, low mood, stress, low self-esteem or relationship difficulties?
Alongside private practice, I completed my clinical placement with NHS Talking Therapies, supporting adults experiencing anxiety, depression and stress. I offer a person-centered foundation built on empathy, openness, and understanding supporting clients to make sense of their experiences and find more constructive ways of relating to themselves and others.
I provide supportive and empathic therapy, focusing on you as a unique individual with your own experiences in a wide range of areas including low mood, relationship difficulties, stress, anxiety, addiction, low self-esteem, lack of confidence and feelings of worthlessness.
I am Richard Schafer, a professionally trained registered counsellor (MBACP). I practice in London, Clapham SW4. In 2003 I qualified as a psychodynamic counsellor and began private practice in 2004. I also spent over 12 years working in the field of talking therapies as a clinical lead within statutory sector therapeutic residential settings.
I am a long term registered member (No. 107865 ) of the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and adhere to their code of conduct & ethics.
I provide supportive and empathic therapy, focusing on you as a unique individual with your own experiences in a wide range of areas including low mood, relationship difficulties, stress, anxiety, addiction, low self-esteem, lack of confidence and feelings of worthlessness.
I am Richard Schafer, a professionally trained registered counsellor (MBACP). I practice in London, Clapham SW4. In 2003 I qualified as a psychodynamic counsellor and began private practice in 2004. I also spent over 12 years working in the field of talking therapies as a clinical lead within statutory sector therapeutic residential settings.
I am a long term registered member (No. 107865 ) of the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and adhere to their code of conduct & ethics.
IFS-informed counselling sessions support you in cultivating self-compassion, self-worth, and nurturing self-attunement; navigating relationships; reducing anxiety and stress; deepening self-awareness; improving emotional and mental well-being; integrating expansive or psychedelic experiences; accessing inner wisdom; and healing old patterns, ancestral wounds, and unresolved inner conflicts.
I offer a creative, integrative and feminine approach to therapeutic inner work. My IFS-informed counselling sessions provide a sacred, confidential and safe space for the gentle yet empowering unfolding of your becoming. The cultivation of self-awareness, self-understanding and belonging to the self is at the heart of my work. Cultivating nurturing self-attunement and getting to know the depth of our inner landscape can be a deeply meaningful experience that has the potential to improve our mental, emotional and physical well-being, while also enhancing the quality of our relationships.
IFS-informed counselling sessions support you in cultivating self-compassion, self-worth, and nurturing self-attunement; navigating relationships; reducing anxiety and stress; deepening self-awareness; improving emotional and mental well-being; integrating expansive or psychedelic experiences; accessing inner wisdom; and healing old patterns, ancestral wounds, and unresolved inner conflicts.
I offer a creative, integrative and feminine approach to therapeutic inner work. My IFS-informed counselling sessions provide a sacred, confidential and safe space for the gentle yet empowering unfolding of your becoming. The cultivation of self-awareness, self-understanding and belonging to the self is at the heart of my work. Cultivating nurturing self-attunement and getting to know the depth of our inner landscape can be a deeply meaningful experience that has the potential to improve our mental, emotional and physical well-being, while also enhancing the quality of our relationships.
I specialise in supporting individuals who feel stuck, disconnected, or unsure of who they truly are. You may find yourself wanting to move forward in life, yet something keeps holding you back – whether that is chronic procrastination, self-doubt, or a fear of getting it wrong.
You might struggle to trust yourself, question your decisions, or feel overwhelmed by the pressure to meet expectations – your own or others’. Over time, this can leave you feeling lost, lacking confidence, and disconnected from your authentic self.
I specialise in supporting individuals who feel stuck, disconnected, or unsure of who they truly are. You may find yourself wanting to move forward in life, yet something keeps holding you back – whether that is chronic procrastination, self-doubt, or a fear of getting it wrong.
You might struggle to trust yourself, question your decisions, or feel overwhelmed by the pressure to meet expectations – your own or others’. Over time, this can leave you feeling lost, lacking confidence, and disconnected from your authentic self.
Hello and welcome to my practice! There might be so many reasons you're looking for help right now. You may be having difficulties in a romantic relationship or in a relationship with a family member. Perhaps you're struggling with overwhelming emotions or maybe your emotions feel blocked. You might want to talk through a difficult experience you had or perhaps you just want to understand yourself better and sort through your thoughts and feelings. Whatever the reason you're looking for help, you're very welcome.
Hello and welcome to my practice! There might be so many reasons you're looking for help right now. You may be having difficulties in a romantic relationship or in a relationship with a family member. Perhaps you're struggling with overwhelming emotions or maybe your emotions feel blocked. You might want to talk through a difficult experience you had or perhaps you just want to understand yourself better and sort through your thoughts and feelings. Whatever the reason you're looking for help, you're very welcome.
I work with women who feel stuck beneath the surface; navigating quiet overwhelm, difficult relationship patterns, or a loss of connection with themselves. Women who want to stop living by everyone else’s expectations and start reconnecting with themselves.
You may experience difficulties in your relationship, or navigate complex family dynamics. You recognise patterns of behaviour or relationships you long to understand and find freedom from. You feel disconnected from your voice, and want to relate to yourself with more trust and compassion. You have spent so much time caring for others you're not sure how to care for yourself.
I work with women who feel stuck beneath the surface; navigating quiet overwhelm, difficult relationship patterns, or a loss of connection with themselves. Women who want to stop living by everyone else’s expectations and start reconnecting with themselves.
You may experience difficulties in your relationship, or navigate complex family dynamics. You recognise patterns of behaviour or relationships you long to understand and find freedom from. You feel disconnected from your voice, and want to relate to yourself with more trust and compassion. You have spent so much time caring for others you're not sure how to care for yourself.
You may find yourself feeling stuck in recurring relationship patterns, struggling with self-worth, or questioning your identity and sense of belonging.
My name is Lexie. I am an Integrative Counsellor offering online therapy for adults of all ages and nationalities, with both short- and long-term support available.
I have supported clients with self-worth, identity and belonging; anxiety, low mood and emotional overwhelm; relationships, boundaries and repeating patterns; trauma and difficult life experience
You may find yourself feeling stuck in recurring relationship patterns, struggling with self-worth, or questioning your identity and sense of belonging.
My name is Lexie. I am an Integrative Counsellor offering online therapy for adults of all ages and nationalities, with both short- and long-term support available.
I have supported clients with self-worth, identity and belonging; anxiety, low mood and emotional overwhelm; relationships, boundaries and repeating patterns; trauma and difficult life experience
Whether you are struggling with a specific issue, or are just looking for more meaning, psychotherapy can help you make sense of your past and present situation, approach your life and relationships with more awareness, self-esteem, direction and purpose, and let go of the pain of the past.
I am a UKCP qualified Integrative Psychotherapist (UKCP) and Chartered Counselling Psychologist (DCPsych, CPsychol., AFBPsS). Everyone deserves to have someone in their lives who can listen compassionately and hold a space of non-judgemental understanding. I try to offer that space, first and foremost. While doing this, I seek to understand where things may have been difficult and hold in mind your potential for growth and change. The underlying core of my approach is based on respecting your needs and safety, as well as helping you bring out your innate wisdom and strengths.
Whether you are struggling with a specific issue, or are just looking for more meaning, psychotherapy can help you make sense of your past and present situation, approach your life and relationships with more awareness, self-esteem, direction and purpose, and let go of the pain of the past.
I am a UKCP qualified Integrative Psychotherapist (UKCP) and Chartered Counselling Psychologist (DCPsych, CPsychol., AFBPsS). Everyone deserves to have someone in their lives who can listen compassionately and hold a space of non-judgemental understanding. I try to offer that space, first and foremost. While doing this, I seek to understand where things may have been difficult and hold in mind your potential for growth and change. The underlying core of my approach is based on respecting your needs and safety, as well as helping you bring out your innate wisdom and strengths.
I am an Integrative counsellor and psychotherapist working online in Peckham and Brighton. I offer a space that is warm, respectful and empathetic. Sharing what's going on for you can be a relief. I will listen to you carefully, provide honest observations and feedback, and ask questions to gently guide your exploration. This process will offer you new perspectives and new ways of thinking, feeling and being.
I am an Integrative counsellor and psychotherapist working online in Peckham and Brighton. I offer a space that is warm, respectful and empathetic. Sharing what's going on for you can be a relief. I will listen to you carefully, provide honest observations and feedback, and ask questions to gently guide your exploration. This process will offer you new perspectives and new ways of thinking, feeling and being.
As a Clinical Psychologist, I offer a thoughtful, evidence-based and personalised approach, specialising in self-esteem, anxiety and trauma.
I listen to your needs and develop a shared understanding, offering the right evidence-based approach for you, such as EMDR, Compassion-Focused Therapy, and CBT (see my website to learn more). Together, we will make sense of how your experiences shaped you. I will support you to overcome limiting beliefs about yourself, learn new skills and become unstuck.
As a Clinical Psychologist, I offer a thoughtful, evidence-based and personalised approach, specialising in self-esteem, anxiety and trauma.
I listen to your needs and develop a shared understanding, offering the right evidence-based approach for you, such as EMDR, Compassion-Focused Therapy, and CBT (see my website to learn more). Together, we will make sense of how your experiences shaped you. I will support you to overcome limiting beliefs about yourself, learn new skills and become unstuck.
I am an Integrative Counsellor, which means I may choose an approach from several different modalities depending on each client's needs. I provide a safe, confidential space where you can explore and give voice to your thoughts, experiences, and emotions without judgement. I am committed to helping clients to grow in self-awareness and to develop healthy and effective coping strategies to help to successfully navigate life's challenges. I offer both short-term and long-term counselling.
I am an Integrative Counsellor, which means I may choose an approach from several different modalities depending on each client's needs. I provide a safe, confidential space where you can explore and give voice to your thoughts, experiences, and emotions without judgement. I am committed to helping clients to grow in self-awareness and to develop healthy and effective coping strategies to help to successfully navigate life's challenges. I offer both short-term and long-term counselling.
Over the years I have helped people with numerous different presentations including Social anxiety, Low- self esteem, PTSD, Depression, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, Health anxiety, Generalised Anxiety Disorder, Specific phobias, Panic disorder, Perfectionism and Low Self-Worth.
Hi there, thank you for taking the time to view my profile. My name is Jack Langley and I am a registered Cognitive Behavioural Psychotherapist (CBT). I have significant experience in helping clients identify unhelpful thinking patterns, manage difficult emotions and break cycles of behaviour through the evidence-based approach of CBT. You may notice self-critical or anxious thoughts getting in the way of your life, or perhaps you are tired of feeling stressed, low, and anxious? Maybe you notice that you avoid difficult situations? maybe you spend much of your time worrying about the past or future? this can all be worked through.
Over the years I have helped people with numerous different presentations including Social anxiety, Low- self esteem, PTSD, Depression, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, Health anxiety, Generalised Anxiety Disorder, Specific phobias, Panic disorder, Perfectionism and Low Self-Worth.
Hi there, thank you for taking the time to view my profile. My name is Jack Langley and I am a registered Cognitive Behavioural Psychotherapist (CBT). I have significant experience in helping clients identify unhelpful thinking patterns, manage difficult emotions and break cycles of behaviour through the evidence-based approach of CBT. You may notice self-critical or anxious thoughts getting in the way of your life, or perhaps you are tired of feeling stressed, low, and anxious? Maybe you notice that you avoid difficult situations? maybe you spend much of your time worrying about the past or future? this can all be worked through.
I have extensive experience supporting clients with a wide range of issues, including anxiety, trauma, grief and loss, relationship difficulties and breakdown, low self-esteem, life changes, self-harm, suicidal thoughts, and experiences of abuse.
Grounded in the Humanistic approach, my work emphasises empathy, genuine curiosity, care, connection and respect. I offer a collaborative and authentic space, providing a safe, open and confidential environment where you are truly listened to and supported in exploring your thoughts, feelings and experiences freely.
I have extensive experience supporting clients with a wide range of issues, including anxiety, trauma, grief and loss, relationship difficulties and breakdown, low self-esteem, life changes, self-harm, suicidal thoughts, and experiences of abuse.
Grounded in the Humanistic approach, my work emphasises empathy, genuine curiosity, care, connection and respect. I offer a collaborative and authentic space, providing a safe, open and confidential environment where you are truly listened to and supported in exploring your thoughts, feelings and experiences freely.
I am interested in your unique experience. You may be feeling stuck, lost or overwhelmed. You may recognise repeating patterns that you are struggling to break out of. You may be grappling with a painful event or change in your current situation that you feel you need space to explore and work through. I offer a safe, open, non-judgemental and confidential environment in which you will feel supported to explore what is concerning you.
I am interested in your unique experience. You may be feeling stuck, lost or overwhelmed. You may recognise repeating patterns that you are struggling to break out of. You may be grappling with a painful event or change in your current situation that you feel you need space to explore and work through. I offer a safe, open, non-judgemental and confidential environment in which you will feel supported to explore what is concerning you.
I deliver evidenced based CBT for a range of mental health disorders such as depression, health anxiety, OCD, generalised anxiety disorder, panic disorder, social anxiety, phobias, BDD, low self esteem, perfectionism and PTSD.
I specialise in perinatal mental health and take a compassionate focused approach to enable expecting, new and existing parents to overcome the challenges that accompany parenthood. I guide treatment with an aim to ensure individuals feel emotionally contained, enhancing their ability to tolerate difficult experiences on a daily basis.
I deliver evidenced based CBT for a range of mental health disorders such as depression, health anxiety, OCD, generalised anxiety disorder, panic disorder, social anxiety, phobias, BDD, low self esteem, perfectionism and PTSD.
I specialise in perinatal mental health and take a compassionate focused approach to enable expecting, new and existing parents to overcome the challenges that accompany parenthood. I guide treatment with an aim to ensure individuals feel emotionally contained, enhancing their ability to tolerate difficult experiences on a daily basis.
Taking that first step to therapy can feel daunting, but talking to someone who isn't involved with your everyday life can help you untangle your thoughts and feelings and find much needed space to reflect and make changes in your life. Through counselling, I believe we learn to access the innate knowledge of what we each need to heal and engage in life more fully. My approach is collaborative and down to earth and along side traditional talking therapies, I use the creative imagination, the body and mindfulness techniques to create a way of working that best suits you.
Taking that first step to therapy can feel daunting, but talking to someone who isn't involved with your everyday life can help you untangle your thoughts and feelings and find much needed space to reflect and make changes in your life. Through counselling, I believe we learn to access the innate knowledge of what we each need to heal and engage in life more fully. My approach is collaborative and down to earth and along side traditional talking therapies, I use the creative imagination, the body and mindfulness techniques to create a way of working that best suits you.
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Self Esteem Counsellors
When should a person seek therapy for low self-esteem?
When self-esteem problems begin to disrupt the healthy daily functioning of an individual, it may be a good time to look into therapy. If a person finds that they are not engaging with friends for fear of being judged, not completing work assignments because they don’t think they’re capable, or not finding romantic love because they don’t feel they’re worthy of it, a therapist may be able to help.
What are the signs of low self-esteem?
Low self-esteem is a common issue that can affect a person's mental and emotional well-being. Some common signs of low self-esteem include negative self-talk, perfectionism, social anxiety, difficulty making decisions, an inability to set boundaries, people-pleasing, and others. A lack of belief in oneself or one’s abilities and a feeling of not being worthy or deserving underlie most of these characteristics.
What causes low self-esteem?
Feelings of low self-worth can begin in childhood or adulthood. Being raised by a highly critical parent or growing up feeling constant disapproval can stay with a person well into adulthood. Specific issues in adulthood may also be a cause of low self-esteem. An unhappy relationship, a dysfunctional work or school experience can impact a person’s feelings of self-worth.
How can therapy improve self-esteem?
Therapists can help identify negative thought patterns that keep the client stuck in a loop of destructive self-talk and develop coping skills to change the voice in their head. A therapist can help with goal-setting, so that clients are better able to stay on task and build confidence from successfully completing work they’re proud of. Coaching a client on how to better communicate can improve relationships. These skills can result in someone with low self-esteem feeling empowered and living with less fear.
