Infidelity Counselling in South London, London

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Couple's Counsellor @ Islington & Brixton
Psychotherapist, MBACP
South London, London SW2
Affairs: I work with couples where an affair has taken place.
Welcome to my page. If you and your partner arguing or have deafening silence due to unresolved issues, please call! I'm a couple’s psychotherapist who has worked with Relate and now focuses solely on relationships and some sexual difficulties. Whether your partner has had an affair, or you've realised that you no longer have the connection /intimacy, from before, therapy can help. Maybe you're single and have been struggling to meet someone whom you can share your life with. Sometimes it's our families or friends we are struggling with. I am based near Brixton Station and happy to do online sessions, I'm here to help.
Affairs: I work with couples where an affair has taken place.
Welcome to my page. If you and your partner arguing or have deafening silence due to unresolved issues, please call! I'm a couple’s psychotherapist who has worked with Relate and now focuses solely on relationships and some sexual difficulties. Whether your partner has had an affair, or you've realised that you no longer have the connection /intimacy, from before, therapy can help. Maybe you're single and have been struggling to meet someone whom you can share your life with. Sometimes it's our families or friends we are struggling with. I am based near Brixton Station and happy to do online sessions, I'm here to help.
020 3962 0928 View 020 3962 0928
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Suzanne Lunn
Psychotherapist, MA
2 Endorsed
South London, London SW1W
I also work with couples on issues such as communication, sex, open relationships, infidelity and divorce.
I am a qualified Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist, registered with the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists (COSRT). I have a post-graduate diploma in clinical sexology and relationship therapy and a foundation certificate in counselling skills and practice from the Contemporary Institute for Clinical Sexology (CICS).
I also work with couples on issues such as communication, sex, open relationships, infidelity and divorce.
I am a qualified Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist, registered with the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists (COSRT). I have a post-graduate diploma in clinical sexology and relationship therapy and a foundation certificate in counselling skills and practice from the Contemporary Institute for Clinical Sexology (CICS).
020 3597 6612 View 020 3597 6612
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Gloria Sankey
Psychotherapist, COSRT Reg.
South London, London SW3
As a Psychosexual and Relationship Psychotherapist, I specialise in addressing complex and sensitive concerns including difficulties with sexual functions, arousal, desire, orgasm; pornography use, kink, BDSM, compulsive sexual behaviours, sexual trauma; consensual non-monogamy; relationship problems; low self-esteem, body image issues, anxiety and depression. With over 25 years professional experience across the NHS, private healthcare and charity sector, I am able to offer a deeply informed perspective on the pressures of high performance environments and the impact these can have on emotional wellbeing and relationships.
As a Psychosexual and Relationship Psychotherapist, I specialise in addressing complex and sensitive concerns including difficulties with sexual functions, arousal, desire, orgasm; pornography use, kink, BDSM, compulsive sexual behaviours, sexual trauma; consensual non-monogamy; relationship problems; low self-esteem, body image issues, anxiety and depression. With over 25 years professional experience across the NHS, private healthcare and charity sector, I am able to offer a deeply informed perspective on the pressures of high performance environments and the impact these can have on emotional wellbeing and relationships.
020 3897 7326 View 020 3897 7326
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Shuchi Thakur
Counsellor, MBACP
Online Only
I have worked deeply with clients presenting with infidelity, on either side.
Hi! I’m Shuchi, a qualified counsellor who works online, primarily with adults and teenagers. I am not your typical "nod and smile" counsellor - in my work with my clients, I empathise, support and also challenge you unequivocally. I aim to engage fully with you in our sessions, consciously choosing to limit the number of clients I see every week so as to be fully present with you. Sessions with me are honest,  emotional, deep and sometimes even a tad humorous since I truly believe that humour, when used correctly, can be extremely therapeutic. I always work to provide you with an absolutely safe, non-judgemental space.
I have worked deeply with clients presenting with infidelity, on either side.
Hi! I’m Shuchi, a qualified counsellor who works online, primarily with adults and teenagers. I am not your typical "nod and smile" counsellor - in my work with my clients, I empathise, support and also challenge you unequivocally. I aim to engage fully with you in our sessions, consciously choosing to limit the number of clients I see every week so as to be fully present with you. Sessions with me are honest,  emotional, deep and sometimes even a tad humorous since I truly believe that humour, when used correctly, can be extremely therapeutic. I always work to provide you with an absolutely safe, non-judgemental space.
020 4634 0839 View 020 4634 0839
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Tony Clark
Psychotherapist, COSRT Reg.
South London, London SW7
Or perhaps you’re facing betrayal, sexual difficulties, ongoing conflict, major life changes, or growing differences in values.
I'm a specialised Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist working from a Gestalt perspective, an approach that starts with awareness. In our work together, we’ll explore what gets in the way of feeling connected or at ease, and begin to shift the patterns that keep showing up in your relationships. My style is warm, direct, non-judgemental and challenging.
Or perhaps you’re facing betrayal, sexual difficulties, ongoing conflict, major life changes, or growing differences in values.
I'm a specialised Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist working from a Gestalt perspective, an approach that starts with awareness. In our work together, we’ll explore what gets in the way of feeling connected or at ease, and begin to shift the patterns that keep showing up in your relationships. My style is warm, direct, non-judgemental and challenging.
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Anna Davydova
Psychotherapist, MSc, UKCP Trainee
1 Endorsed
South London, London SW17
If your relationships have left you feeling unlike yourself — raw, unsure, or stuck — you’re not alone. I support people navigating dating, long-term partnerships, breakups, divorce, and complex family dynamics. You might notice thoughts like, “I can’t stop thinking about my ex,” “I keep choosing the wrong people,” “I’m scared to end this,” or “My family drains me.” Or you may simply find yourself thinking, “I don’t recognise myself anymore,” “I feel betrayed and heartbroken,” or “I can’t manage this any longer and don’t know how to move forward.”
If your relationships have left you feeling unlike yourself — raw, unsure, or stuck — you’re not alone. I support people navigating dating, long-term partnerships, breakups, divorce, and complex family dynamics. You might notice thoughts like, “I can’t stop thinking about my ex,” “I keep choosing the wrong people,” “I’m scared to end this,” or “My family drains me.” Or you may simply find yourself thinking, “I don’t recognise myself anymore,” “I feel betrayed and heartbroken,” or “I can’t manage this any longer and don’t know how to move forward.”
020 4572 4964 View 020 4572 4964
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Sem Dogan
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
South London, London SW4
At depth, I have experience working with relationships (communication barriers, infidelity, emotional reactivity), trauma, complex child-hood trauma, depression, anxiety, stress and communication issues, as well as in other areas.
I am committed to offering a safe, non-judgemental, caring and professional relationship that holds the needs of my client as central. With a willingness to journey your experience alongside you, together we can identify, better understand and actively address your difficulties. You may sense something’s not right in your life, you may feel anxious or want to explore events in your personal relationships or from your childhood. Whatever it is, we can find ways to ease your distress and heal what's hurting.
At depth, I have experience working with relationships (communication barriers, infidelity, emotional reactivity), trauma, complex child-hood trauma, depression, anxiety, stress and communication issues, as well as in other areas.
I am committed to offering a safe, non-judgemental, caring and professional relationship that holds the needs of my client as central. With a willingness to journey your experience alongside you, together we can identify, better understand and actively address your difficulties. You may sense something’s not right in your life, you may feel anxious or want to explore events in your personal relationships or from your childhood. Whatever it is, we can find ways to ease your distress and heal what's hurting.
020 4538 7241 View 020 4538 7241
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Katja Brodt de Sousa
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
South London, London SW5
I am trained in and have extensive experience in working with Depression, Anxiety, Loneliness, Rejection Sensitivity, Relationship Problems, Couple Therapy, ADHD, Infidelity, Affair, Divorce, Separation, Life transition, Stress, Trauma and Loss.
Psychodynamic – how your past experiences create your current experience and influence your decisions. Person-Centred – explore where you are now and where you want to be by becoming a better version of yourself. CBT - making sense of the connection of thoughts, beliefs, emotions and behaviour Attachment Therapy – demystifying pattern in your relationships.
I am trained in and have extensive experience in working with Depression, Anxiety, Loneliness, Rejection Sensitivity, Relationship Problems, Couple Therapy, ADHD, Infidelity, Affair, Divorce, Separation, Life transition, Stress, Trauma and Loss.
Psychodynamic – how your past experiences create your current experience and influence your decisions. Person-Centred – explore where you are now and where you want to be by becoming a better version of yourself. CBT - making sense of the connection of thoughts, beliefs, emotions and behaviour Attachment Therapy – demystifying pattern in your relationships.
07481 345940 View 07481 345940
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Sahibzada Rabbani
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
Serves Area
Additionally, I specialise in addressing relationship-related challenges such as breakups, divorce, infidelity recovery, and attachment patterns.
I'm a psychodynamic counsellor offering online therapy to clients worldwide. Alongside my private practice, I work as a therapist at Relationships Scotland, the country's largest provider of counselling and family mediation. In my private practise I work with a lot of Muslim individuals and couples who are facing issues including addictions, infidelity etc.
Additionally, I specialise in addressing relationship-related challenges such as breakups, divorce, infidelity recovery, and attachment patterns.
I'm a psychodynamic counsellor offering online therapy to clients worldwide. Alongside my private practice, I work as a therapist at Relationships Scotland, the country's largest provider of counselling and family mediation. In my private practise I work with a lot of Muslim individuals and couples who are facing issues including addictions, infidelity etc.
0141 673 5042 View 0141 673 5042
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Jane Brown
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP
Online Only
I have 6 years of experience working for Relate across a number of different relationship issues including communication, infidelity, conflict and sex.
I'm a goal orientated, solution focused counsellor for individuals and couples. I provide short term intervention counselling (30minute and 60minute one off sessions) as well as ongoing work. Sessions are delivered over the phone or on Zoom.
I have 6 years of experience working for Relate across a number of different relationship issues including communication, infidelity, conflict and sex.
I'm a goal orientated, solution focused counsellor for individuals and couples. I provide short term intervention counselling (30minute and 60minute one off sessions) as well as ongoing work. Sessions are delivered over the phone or on Zoom.
01380 711189 View 01380 711189
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Dr Rhiannon King Couples & Relationship Therapy
Psychologist, DCounsPsych, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Online Only
Are you struggling to communicate, connect, manage conflicts or difficult emotions, heal from loss of trust or an infidelity, establish or maintain healthy boundaries, manage family issues or adapt to change, life events or transitions?
Are you looking for a relationship MOT? From surviving to thriving, I specialise in providing highly collaborative, bespoke, fair, balanced & safe experiences where both partners feel understood, valued & supported. My therapeutic style is flexible, dynamic & creative focusing on the expectations, needs, personalities of the individuals & couple.
Are you struggling to communicate, connect, manage conflicts or difficult emotions, heal from loss of trust or an infidelity, establish or maintain healthy boundaries, manage family issues or adapt to change, life events or transitions?
Are you looking for a relationship MOT? From surviving to thriving, I specialise in providing highly collaborative, bespoke, fair, balanced & safe experiences where both partners feel understood, valued & supported. My therapeutic style is flexible, dynamic & creative focusing on the expectations, needs, personalities of the individuals & couple.
0131 381 8066 View 0131 381 8066
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Silva Neves
Psychotherapist, COSRT Accred
3 Endorsed
Serves Area
I am a fully qualified, experienced and accredited psychotherapist, specialist in psychosexual & relationship therapy, couples therapy, and the treatment of compulsive sexual behaviours. I am a clinical traumatologist specialist in providing therapy for survivors of sexual abuse. I offer clinical supervision to psychotherapists, psychologists, counsellors and other mental health professionals. I hold a full professional insurance.
I am a fully qualified, experienced and accredited psychotherapist, specialist in psychosexual & relationship therapy, couples therapy, and the treatment of compulsive sexual behaviours. I am a clinical traumatologist specialist in providing therapy for survivors of sexual abuse. I offer clinical supervision to psychotherapists, psychologists, counsellors and other mental health professionals. I hold a full professional insurance.
020 3974 1463 View 020 3974 1463
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Richard Absalom
Psychotherapist, DCounsPsych, MBACP Accred
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
I have particular experience of supporting people with; ​​​​​​A lack of Self love , Infidelity, A difficulty in trusting others, Limiting thoughts , Problems within relationships, , Thoughts that cant be got rid off, Sexual Anxiety, An interest in kink fetish or alternative relationships, Problematic Internet use, Low Sexual Desire and Managing Anger
By gaining insight into how significant relationships and events have shaped your feelings, communication, and actions, you'll develop a deeper understanding of yourself. I don’t offer quick fixes or surface-level solutions, but instead work with clients to gradually understand the deeper patterns and meanings in their emotional lives. Since 2006, I have been committed to helping individuals and couples strengthen their relationships, and improve their mental and sexual health. Therapy puts words to the feelings, that would otherwise remain painful or unresolved.
I have particular experience of supporting people with; ​​​​​​A lack of Self love , Infidelity, A difficulty in trusting others, Limiting thoughts , Problems within relationships, , Thoughts that cant be got rid off, Sexual Anxiety, An interest in kink fetish or alternative relationships, Problematic Internet use, Low Sexual Desire and Managing Anger
By gaining insight into how significant relationships and events have shaped your feelings, communication, and actions, you'll develop a deeper understanding of yourself. I don’t offer quick fixes or surface-level solutions, but instead work with clients to gradually understand the deeper patterns and meanings in their emotional lives. Since 2006, I have been committed to helping individuals and couples strengthen their relationships, and improve their mental and sexual health. Therapy puts words to the feelings, that would otherwise remain painful or unresolved.
01872 304527 View 01872 304527
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Dr Alan Flynn
Psychologist, PsychD, CPsychol
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
Are you experiencing challenges with your relationships, difficult feelings, such as anxiety or depression, or feeling stuck in unhelpful patterns in your life? Perhaps you deal with your pressures so that others around you don’t seem to notice yet inwardly feel troubled or unsettled. Or you might have had a difficult recent life event or yet to deal fully with early life experiences that are impacting you now? I’m a Senior Counselling Psychologist and accredited Mentalisation Based Therapist. I can help you, as an individual or couple, to understand what is happening at a deeper level, so you can find new ways of moving forward.
Are you experiencing challenges with your relationships, difficult feelings, such as anxiety or depression, or feeling stuck in unhelpful patterns in your life? Perhaps you deal with your pressures so that others around you don’t seem to notice yet inwardly feel troubled or unsettled. Or you might have had a difficult recent life event or yet to deal fully with early life experiences that are impacting you now? I’m a Senior Counselling Psychologist and accredited Mentalisation Based Therapist. I can help you, as an individual or couple, to understand what is happening at a deeper level, so you can find new ways of moving forward.
020 3835 5896 View 020 3835 5896
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RJUTherapy
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
They may have difficulty with communication; conflict resolution; separation; attachment; infidelity and mental health, amongst others.
I offer a safe space to explore complex relationship issues, based on 18 years of clinical experience working with individuals, couples and families. I enable meaningful change through the development of improved communication skills, advanced self-awareness and core psychological tools, which help the people I work with to move forwards.
They may have difficulty with communication; conflict resolution; separation; attachment; infidelity and mental health, amongst others.
I offer a safe space to explore complex relationship issues, based on 18 years of clinical experience working with individuals, couples and families. I enable meaningful change through the development of improved communication skills, advanced self-awareness and core psychological tools, which help the people I work with to move forwards.
01905 672311 View 01905 672311
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Mila Palma | EFT Therapist | Clinical Supervisor
Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
Online Only
I work with couples in crisis wanting to re-establish an emotional connection with each other, or perhaps repair and re-establish trust after an affair. I also work with individuals experiencing high levels of anxiety and stress in their lives, relationship difficulties, depression, isolation and meaninglessness, loss, as well as people recovering from traumatic events, including narcissistic abuse. I have a specialism in working with cross-cultural couples and expats (abroad and in the UK); I also have first-hand experience, being part of a cross-cultural family and having moved from Italy to the UK as young adult.
I work with couples in crisis wanting to re-establish an emotional connection with each other, or perhaps repair and re-establish trust after an affair. I also work with individuals experiencing high levels of anxiety and stress in their lives, relationship difficulties, depression, isolation and meaninglessness, loss, as well as people recovering from traumatic events, including narcissistic abuse. I have a specialism in working with cross-cultural couples and expats (abroad and in the UK); I also have first-hand experience, being part of a cross-cultural family and having moved from Italy to the UK as young adult.
020 4572 1395 View 020 4572 1395
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Working Through
Counsellor, MA, COSRT General
Serves Area
I work with people who might be struggling with sexual or relationship difficulties such as erectile dysfunction, rapid or delayed ejaculation, anxiety around sex, relationships and intimacy issues, sexual abuse or assault, sexual health issues, compulsive sexual behaviours, vulval pain conditions, vaginismus, dyspareunia (pain during intercourse), sexual orientation questions or insecurities, pornography issues, orgasmic or anorgasmic problems, sexual phobias or aversions, fears around lack of sexual experience, loss of desire, affairs, marital break ups, open relationships, kinks, bdsm, polyamory, addictions, codependency, trauma.
Psychosexual issues are not just purely physical dysfunctions but also both psychological and emotional. My goal is to help you come to a better understanding of you sexual and relationship difficulties and to work together facilitating the changes that will get you the sex life that you want.
I work with people who might be struggling with sexual or relationship difficulties such as erectile dysfunction, rapid or delayed ejaculation, anxiety around sex, relationships and intimacy issues, sexual abuse or assault, sexual health issues, compulsive sexual behaviours, vulval pain conditions, vaginismus, dyspareunia (pain during intercourse), sexual orientation questions or insecurities, pornography issues, orgasmic or anorgasmic problems, sexual phobias or aversions, fears around lack of sexual experience, loss of desire, affairs, marital break ups, open relationships, kinks, bdsm, polyamory, addictions, codependency, trauma.
Psychosexual issues are not just purely physical dysfunctions but also both psychological and emotional. My goal is to help you come to a better understanding of you sexual and relationship difficulties and to work together facilitating the changes that will get you the sex life that you want.
020 8103 5619 View 020 8103 5619
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Akeesha Perera
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Serves Area
• Couples & Individual Therapy, BACP Registered • Helping partners reconnect and individuals find clarity • In-person in King’s Cross, London, or online • Free 15-minute introductory video call
• Couples & Individual Therapy, BACP Registered • Helping partners reconnect and individuals find clarity • In-person in King’s Cross, London, or online • Free 15-minute introductory video call
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Dr Jose Lopez
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Online Only
You may be struggling with a clearly defined issue or general 'stuckness in life'. Maybe you need to understand what it is. You may have experienced it for long or a new difficulty intruding in your life. Possibly something you are keeping from others or maybe someone has suggested you seek help for it. It may affect only you or your relationship with loved ones. Maybe you are seeking help with a couple issue you've tried to work on with your partner. You may feel hopeless, having tried everything to solve it. In any case, therapy can be used to make sense of the situation and think of a strategy to move forward towards your goals.
You may be struggling with a clearly defined issue or general 'stuckness in life'. Maybe you need to understand what it is. You may have experienced it for long or a new difficulty intruding in your life. Possibly something you are keeping from others or maybe someone has suggested you seek help for it. It may affect only you or your relationship with loved ones. Maybe you are seeking help with a couple issue you've tried to work on with your partner. You may feel hopeless, having tried everything to solve it. In any case, therapy can be used to make sense of the situation and think of a strategy to move forward towards your goals.
020 3870 2508 View 020 3870 2508
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Valerie Teller
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP Accred
South London, London SW19
I help people with a broad range of difficulties, and specialise in addition in adult ADHD and the difficulties that come with living in a neurotypical society. Clients may be struggling with issues from anxiety and relationship difficulties through to bereavement and life transitions - all can be worked through using my existential therapy approach. By reflecting and exploring difficult and troubling feelings and experiences I can help guide you through to a place where you can decide what to accept and what to change in order to move forwards in a more knowing manner.
I help people with a broad range of difficulties, and specialise in addition in adult ADHD and the difficulties that come with living in a neurotypical society. Clients may be struggling with issues from anxiety and relationship difficulties through to bereavement and life transitions - all can be worked through using my existential therapy approach. By reflecting and exploring difficult and troubling feelings and experiences I can help guide you through to a place where you can decide what to accept and what to change in order to move forwards in a more knowing manner.
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Infidelity Counsellors

How does therapy for infidelity work?

A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?

Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?

When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?

Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.