Infidelity Counselling in South East London, London

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Dr Alan Flynn
Psychologist, PsychD, CPsychol
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
Are you experiencing challenges with your relationships, difficult feelings, such as anxiety or depression, or feeling stuck in unhelpful patterns in your life? Perhaps you deal with your pressures so that others around you don’t seem to notice yet inwardly feel troubled or unsettled. Or you might have had a difficult recent life event or yet to deal fully with early life experiences that are impacting you now? I’m a Senior Counselling Psychologist and accredited Mentalisation Based Therapist. I can help you, as an individual or couple, to understand what is happening at a deeper level, so you can find new ways of moving forward.
Are you experiencing challenges with your relationships, difficult feelings, such as anxiety or depression, or feeling stuck in unhelpful patterns in your life? Perhaps you deal with your pressures so that others around you don’t seem to notice yet inwardly feel troubled or unsettled. Or you might have had a difficult recent life event or yet to deal fully with early life experiences that are impacting you now? I’m a Senior Counselling Psychologist and accredited Mentalisation Based Therapist. I can help you, as an individual or couple, to understand what is happening at a deeper level, so you can find new ways of moving forward.
020 3835 5896 View 020 3835 5896
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RJUTherapy
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
They may have difficulty with communication; conflict resolution; separation; attachment; infidelity and mental health, amongst others.
I offer a safe space to explore complex relationship issues, based on 18 years of clinical experience working with individuals, couples and families. I enable meaningful change through the development of improved communication skills, advanced self-awareness and core psychological tools, which help the people I work with to move forwards.
They may have difficulty with communication; conflict resolution; separation; attachment; infidelity and mental health, amongst others.
I offer a safe space to explore complex relationship issues, based on 18 years of clinical experience working with individuals, couples and families. I enable meaningful change through the development of improved communication skills, advanced self-awareness and core psychological tools, which help the people I work with to move forwards.
01905 672311 View 01905 672311
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Richard Absalom
Psychotherapist, DCounsPsych, MBACP Accred
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
I have particular experience of supporting people with; ​​​​​​A lack of Self love , Infidelity, A difficulty in trusting others, Limiting thoughts , Problems within relationships, , Thoughts that cant be got rid off, Sexual Anxiety, An interest in kink fetish or alternative relationships, Problematic Internet use, Low Sexual Desire and Managing Anger
By gaining insight into how significant relationships and events have shaped your feelings, communication, and actions, you'll develop a deeper understanding of yourself. I don’t offer quick fixes or surface-level solutions, but instead work with clients to gradually understand the deeper patterns and meanings in their emotional lives. Since 2006, I have been committed to helping individuals and couples strengthen their relationships, and improve their mental and sexual health. Therapy puts words to the feelings, that would otherwise remain painful or unresolved.
I have particular experience of supporting people with; ​​​​​​A lack of Self love , Infidelity, A difficulty in trusting others, Limiting thoughts , Problems within relationships, , Thoughts that cant be got rid off, Sexual Anxiety, An interest in kink fetish or alternative relationships, Problematic Internet use, Low Sexual Desire and Managing Anger
By gaining insight into how significant relationships and events have shaped your feelings, communication, and actions, you'll develop a deeper understanding of yourself. I don’t offer quick fixes or surface-level solutions, but instead work with clients to gradually understand the deeper patterns and meanings in their emotional lives. Since 2006, I have been committed to helping individuals and couples strengthen their relationships, and improve their mental and sexual health. Therapy puts words to the feelings, that would otherwise remain painful or unresolved.
01872 304527 View 01872 304527
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Suzanne Lunn
Psychotherapist, MA
3 Endorsed
Serves Area
I also work with couples on issues such as communication, sex, open relationships, infidelity and divorce.
I am a qualified Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist, registered with the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists (COSRT). I have a post-graduate diploma in clinical sexology and relationship therapy and a foundation certificate in counselling skills and practice from the Contemporary Institute for Clinical Sexology (CICS).
I also work with couples on issues such as communication, sex, open relationships, infidelity and divorce.
I am a qualified Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist, registered with the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists (COSRT). I have a post-graduate diploma in clinical sexology and relationship therapy and a foundation certificate in counselling skills and practice from the Contemporary Institute for Clinical Sexology (CICS).
020 3597 6612 View 020 3597 6612
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Sahibzada Rabbani
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
Serves Area
Additionally, I specialise in addressing relationship-related challenges such as breakups, divorce, infidelity recovery, and attachment patterns.
I'm a psychodynamic counsellor offering online therapy to clients worldwide. Alongside my private practice, I work as a therapist at Relationships Scotland, the country's largest provider of counselling and family mediation. In my private practise I work with a lot of Muslim individuals and couples who are facing issues including addictions, infidelity etc.
Additionally, I specialise in addressing relationship-related challenges such as breakups, divorce, infidelity recovery, and attachment patterns.
I'm a psychodynamic counsellor offering online therapy to clients worldwide. Alongside my private practice, I work as a therapist at Relationships Scotland, the country's largest provider of counselling and family mediation. In my private practise I work with a lot of Muslim individuals and couples who are facing issues including addictions, infidelity etc.
0141 673 5042 View 0141 673 5042
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Akeesha Perera
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Serves Area
• Couples & Individual Therapy, BACP Registered • Helping partners reconnect and individuals find clarity • In-person in King’s Cross, London, or online • Free 15-minute introductory video call
• Couples & Individual Therapy, BACP Registered • Helping partners reconnect and individuals find clarity • In-person in King’s Cross, London, or online • Free 15-minute introductory video call
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Milton Sattler Therapy
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP Accred
1 Endorsed
South East London, London SE1
FREE Initial ONLINE 30-Minute Session. I am an experienced counsellor and psychotherapist with more than 10 years of experience in working with people of different sexual orientations, races, economic, social and cultural backgrounds and of different ages. I offer psychodynamic therapy, CBT, Gender Sexuality and Relationship Diverse (GSRD) Therapy, Intimate Partner Therapy (IPT) & Psychosexual Therapy or a combination of them tailored accordingly to the client’s needs or a combination of them tailored accordingly to the client’s needs. I am a Attachment Based Psychoanalytic supervisor trainee at the Bowlby Centre.
FREE Initial ONLINE 30-Minute Session. I am an experienced counsellor and psychotherapist with more than 10 years of experience in working with people of different sexual orientations, races, economic, social and cultural backgrounds and of different ages. I offer psychodynamic therapy, CBT, Gender Sexuality and Relationship Diverse (GSRD) Therapy, Intimate Partner Therapy (IPT) & Psychosexual Therapy or a combination of them tailored accordingly to the client’s needs or a combination of them tailored accordingly to the client’s needs. I am a Attachment Based Psychoanalytic supervisor trainee at the Bowlby Centre.
020 4538 5750 View 020 4538 5750
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Charlotte Scholey
Psychotherapist, MA, HCPC-Art Therap.
6 Endorsed
South East London, London SE15
I believe the therapeutic journey is something that we create together. There is not a "one size that fits all" or one method that works for every person. It is important that the therapy is tailored and beneficial to you as an individual. It can be really challenging to even reach out or look for support, I offer a free consultation call with all enquiries, please feel free to drop me an email to organise yours.
I believe the therapeutic journey is something that we create together. There is not a "one size that fits all" or one method that works for every person. It is important that the therapy is tailored and beneficial to you as an individual. It can be really challenging to even reach out or look for support, I offer a free consultation call with all enquiries, please feel free to drop me an email to organise yours.
020 3818 1053 View 020 3818 1053
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Victoria Jane Kirby
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP Accred
South East London, London SE15
I integrate psychodynamic and person-centred therapy and Internal Family systems. I work with couples and individuals and specialise in sex and relationships therapy. I see clients of all genders and sexual orientations, including LGBTQAI+ clients. I work with clients in diverse sexual and romantic relationships, including those practising consensual non-monogamy and kink.
I integrate psychodynamic and person-centred therapy and Internal Family systems. I work with couples and individuals and specialise in sex and relationships therapy. I see clients of all genders and sexual orientations, including LGBTQAI+ clients. I work with clients in diverse sexual and romantic relationships, including those practising consensual non-monogamy and kink.
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Elena Miari
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP Accred
South East London, London SE3
I am BACP Accredited Psychotherapist and Counsellor who works with individuals and couples. My specialisms are in ADHD, narcissistic abuse, binge eating, anxiety, depression, relationship problems and life transitions. I provide therapy both online and from my office in Blackheath. My approach is primarily Existential. The starting point of Existential Psychotherapy is your experience; this means that I focus on your unique experience of yourself and the world, and your meaning-making processes. I work with teenagers, couples and adults, offering long term, short term and Single Session Therapy interventions.
I am BACP Accredited Psychotherapist and Counsellor who works with individuals and couples. My specialisms are in ADHD, narcissistic abuse, binge eating, anxiety, depression, relationship problems and life transitions. I provide therapy both online and from my office in Blackheath. My approach is primarily Existential. The starting point of Existential Psychotherapy is your experience; this means that I focus on your unique experience of yourself and the world, and your meaning-making processes. I work with teenagers, couples and adults, offering long term, short term and Single Session Therapy interventions.
020 3871 0532 View 020 3871 0532
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Kate Scruby
Psychologist, DCounsPsych, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
South East London, London SE1
Hi, I'm a Counselling Psychologist registered with the Health Professions Council (HCPC) and have worked in the NHS and University settings for many years. I am based in London Bridge and online. I work with individuals and couples on a range of issues around anxiety, stress, low mood, low self esteem, eating disorders and trauma. I am trained in a range of psychological therapies. I most often work using cognitive behavioural therapy, schema therapy, narrative/systemic therapy, compassion focused therapy, EMDR or IFS. I will always tailor my consultations to an individual's needs and wishes.
Hi, I'm a Counselling Psychologist registered with the Health Professions Council (HCPC) and have worked in the NHS and University settings for many years. I am based in London Bridge and online. I work with individuals and couples on a range of issues around anxiety, stress, low mood, low self esteem, eating disorders and trauma. I am trained in a range of psychological therapies. I most often work using cognitive behavioural therapy, schema therapy, narrative/systemic therapy, compassion focused therapy, EMDR or IFS. I will always tailor my consultations to an individual's needs and wishes.
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Simone Huber
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
South East London, London SE1
People come to me usually when the circumstances of their life have moved them beyond their usual coping strategies and they are no longer able to orient themselves in their world. Together we make meaning so they can find their true North again and understand what is happening in their life. Usually, such crisis take us deeper into who we are and force us to get to know ourselves at a more profound level, and during this process self-compassion and self-love grow, as we get to know ourselves better and honour the process of maturation and growth we are on. So the pain tells us what we need to hear and integrate.
People come to me usually when the circumstances of their life have moved them beyond their usual coping strategies and they are no longer able to orient themselves in their world. Together we make meaning so they can find their true North again and understand what is happening in their life. Usually, such crisis take us deeper into who we are and force us to get to know ourselves at a more profound level, and during this process self-compassion and self-love grow, as we get to know ourselves better and honour the process of maturation and growth we are on. So the pain tells us what we need to hear and integrate.
020 4572 9885 View 020 4572 9885
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Dr Elvis Langley
Psychologist, DCounsPsych, CPsychol
1 Endorsed
South East London, London SE1
I am a UKCP qualified Integrative Psychotherapist (UKCP) and Chartered Counselling Psychologist (DCPsych, CPsychol., AFBPsS). Everyone deserves to have someone in their lives who can listen compassionately and hold a space of non-judgemental understanding. I try to offer that space, first and foremost. While doing this, I seek to understand where things may have been difficult and hold in mind your potential for growth and change. The underlying core of my approach is based on respecting your needs and safety, as well as helping you bring out your innate wisdom and strengths.
I am a UKCP qualified Integrative Psychotherapist (UKCP) and Chartered Counselling Psychologist (DCPsych, CPsychol., AFBPsS). Everyone deserves to have someone in their lives who can listen compassionately and hold a space of non-judgemental understanding. I try to offer that space, first and foremost. While doing this, I seek to understand where things may have been difficult and hold in mind your potential for growth and change. The underlying core of my approach is based on respecting your needs and safety, as well as helping you bring out your innate wisdom and strengths.
020 3984 9270 View 020 3984 9270
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Mewstone Counselling
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
South East London, London SE13
Life can sometimes feel overwhelming, especially when you’re navigating anxiety, depression, grief, relationship difficulties, or the challenges and strengths that come with neurodiversity such as ADHD or autism. Even finding the right counsellor can feel like another burden. I work with both individuals and couples, offering a safe, non-judgemental space to explore whatever is on your mind. For some people, that means ongoing therapy. For others, it’s a single, focused session to talk something through without committing to a longer process. If you’re unsure whether counselling is right for you, I’m happy to talk it through first.
Life can sometimes feel overwhelming, especially when you’re navigating anxiety, depression, grief, relationship difficulties, or the challenges and strengths that come with neurodiversity such as ADHD or autism. Even finding the right counsellor can feel like another burden. I work with both individuals and couples, offering a safe, non-judgemental space to explore whatever is on your mind. For some people, that means ongoing therapy. For others, it’s a single, focused session to talk something through without committing to a longer process. If you’re unsure whether counselling is right for you, I’m happy to talk it through first.
020 3835 2457 View 020 3835 2457
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Katarina Machatova
Counsellor, MBACP
South East London, London SE10
I am a fully qualified Humanistic counsellor and a member of the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP). I offer short-term and long-term support to adults using a blend of person-centred, gestalt and transactional analysis approaches. I work holistically, considering and connecting emotions, mind and body, as well as considering the environment we live in, as I believe that this is the only way to truly understand ourselves.
I am a fully qualified Humanistic counsellor and a member of the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP). I offer short-term and long-term support to adults using a blend of person-centred, gestalt and transactional analysis approaches. I work holistically, considering and connecting emotions, mind and body, as well as considering the environment we live in, as I believe that this is the only way to truly understand ourselves.
020 3872 2256 View 020 3872 2256
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Shane Mackay
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
South East London, London SE1
After qualifying thirteen years ago I worked for City & Hackney Mind (Mental Health Charity) for seven years as the Clinical Services Manager of the Psychological Therapies Team as well as the Clinical Supervisor for a large team of trainee/qualified counsellors/psychotherapists. My approach mainly draws on Psychoanalysis, Somatic & Neurobiological approaches along with Philosophy & Critical Theory. My approach is GSRD (Gender, Sexuality, Relationship Diversity) affirmative meaning i have a passion for and extensive experience supporting Queer & LGBTQI+ as well as other non-heteronormative ways of living/being.
After qualifying thirteen years ago I worked for City & Hackney Mind (Mental Health Charity) for seven years as the Clinical Services Manager of the Psychological Therapies Team as well as the Clinical Supervisor for a large team of trainee/qualified counsellors/psychotherapists. My approach mainly draws on Psychoanalysis, Somatic & Neurobiological approaches along with Philosophy & Critical Theory. My approach is GSRD (Gender, Sexuality, Relationship Diversity) affirmative meaning i have a passion for and extensive experience supporting Queer & LGBTQI+ as well as other non-heteronormative ways of living/being.
020 3870 4138 View 020 3870 4138
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Isabella Nicol
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Hello and welcome, My name is Isabella and I work with adults of all ages and backgrounds. I am experienced working with students as well as adults, on a wide range of themes from work stress to depression to addiction. I pride myself on being kind, compassionate and non-judgmental and I am here to help you process whatever is on your mind and walk alongside you on your journey towards growing and fulfilling your full potential. Sessions will be conducted on Zoom, so you can be in the comfort of your own home. Please don't hesitate to ask if you have any questions.
Hello and welcome, My name is Isabella and I work with adults of all ages and backgrounds. I am experienced working with students as well as adults, on a wide range of themes from work stress to depression to addiction. I pride myself on being kind, compassionate and non-judgmental and I am here to help you process whatever is on your mind and walk alongside you on your journey towards growing and fulfilling your full potential. Sessions will be conducted on Zoom, so you can be in the comfort of your own home. Please don't hesitate to ask if you have any questions.
01322 952342 View 01322 952342
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Darren Neal
Counsellor, MBACP
Online Only
Being understood and accepted, without judgement and with compassion, is the most important experience we can receive from another person. I have a extensive experience working with trauma(PTSD&CPTSD), bereavement, anxiety (fear), abuse, mental health issues, depression as well as general feelings of hopelessness and sadness and I will offer my experience and knowledge to help empower you to experience yourself, understand yourself and feel more confidant and emotionally connected. I am a registered member of the BACP (British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy) and I can be found on their website.
Being understood and accepted, without judgement and with compassion, is the most important experience we can receive from another person. I have a extensive experience working with trauma(PTSD&CPTSD), bereavement, anxiety (fear), abuse, mental health issues, depression as well as general feelings of hopelessness and sadness and I will offer my experience and knowledge to help empower you to experience yourself, understand yourself and feel more confidant and emotionally connected. I am a registered member of the BACP (British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy) and I can be found on their website.
020 3917 4037 View 020 3917 4037
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Dania Akondo
Psychotherapist, MBACP
South East London, London SE25
My vision is to empower clients and help them achieve inner peace. I am a qualified Croydon psychotherapist and counsellor, who adheres to the BACP ethical framework. I have a particular interest in issues of racism and relational patterns in adults who have experienced trauma. Together, we can explore past life events to gain a better understanding of what might have gone wrong. I can help you implement strategies and techniques in your day- to-day life in order to: enhance your quality of life; rid yourself of maladaptive behaviours and/or negative thinking patterns; ameliorate your communication skills; navigate conflict.
My vision is to empower clients and help them achieve inner peace. I am a qualified Croydon psychotherapist and counsellor, who adheres to the BACP ethical framework. I have a particular interest in issues of racism and relational patterns in adults who have experienced trauma. Together, we can explore past life events to gain a better understanding of what might have gone wrong. I can help you implement strategies and techniques in your day- to-day life in order to: enhance your quality of life; rid yourself of maladaptive behaviours and/or negative thinking patterns; ameliorate your communication skills; navigate conflict.
01260 541343 View 01260 541343
Photo of Leon James - Leon James - Men’s Life Coach for Sexual Recovery, Counsellor, ACC Reg
You’re not alone carrying habits you keep completely hidden. Things like porn, compulsive sex, or urges that don’t line up with the man you know you are. I’ve been through this myself, carrying that same heavy weight day after day, knowing exactly how exhausting and isolating it feels. I’m Leon James, Counsellor and Mind Shifting Coach. My method works directly with the subconscious emotional roots, often releasing the charge right there in the session, so the pull starts to loosen and you get your control back without the constant weight.
You’re not alone carrying habits you keep completely hidden. Things like porn, compulsive sex, or urges that don’t line up with the man you know you are. I’ve been through this myself, carrying that same heavy weight day after day, knowing exactly how exhausting and isolating it feels. I’m Leon James, Counsellor and Mind Shifting Coach. My method works directly with the subconscious emotional roots, often releasing the charge right there in the session, so the pull starts to loosen and you get your control back without the constant weight.
01785 904906 View 01785 904906

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Infidelity Counsellors

How does therapy for infidelity work?

A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?

Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?

When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?

Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.