Sex Therapy Counselling in North London, London

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Tegan Andrea Hecht
Psychotherapist, COSRT General
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Sex and relationships are relevant to all of us and although it can feel daunting we all need support at some point or another.
I am deeply passionate about this work personally & professionally and it's an honour to accompany my clients on their relationship/ sex journey. I believe to have sex and relate authentically we have to connect mind, body & sex. I have a somatic and trauma informed approach and I include creative interventions, parts work and inner child work where relevant.
Sex and relationships are relevant to all of us and although it can feel daunting we all need support at some point or another.
I am deeply passionate about this work personally & professionally and it's an honour to accompany my clients on their relationship/ sex journey. I believe to have sex and relate authentically we have to connect mind, body & sex. I have a somatic and trauma informed approach and I include creative interventions, parts work and inner child work where relevant.
020 3984 9539 View 020 3984 9539
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Gareth Prosser
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Online Only
I am a Psychoanalytic Psychotherapist holding an accreditation with Pink Therapy as a Gender, Sexuality and Relationship Diversity (GSRD) therapist.
I work with people that are looking to explore their Gender, Sex and Relationship Diversity. I specialise in Compulsive Sexual Behaviours (CSB) of people, including an interest in Clinical Sexology for Men who have Sex with Men (MSM), men who are questioning or confused about their sexuality
I am a Psychoanalytic Psychotherapist holding an accreditation with Pink Therapy as a Gender, Sexuality and Relationship Diversity (GSRD) therapist.
I work with people that are looking to explore their Gender, Sex and Relationship Diversity. I specialise in Compulsive Sexual Behaviours (CSB) of people, including an interest in Clinical Sexology for Men who have Sex with Men (MSM), men who are questioning or confused about their sexuality
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Selena Doggett-Jones
Psychotherapist, COSRT Accred
North London, London N6
I work with couples and individuals struggling with their relationships and or with sex and intimacy issues.
It can be daunting to approach a therapist about personal problems in your relationships or the fact that you aren't in one or find it hard to sustain one.    Speaking about your concerns with an experienced and empathetic listener can disempower the anxiety so the work of recovery can begin.  I specialise in relationship and sexual problems and have enjoyed working in the NHS and privately over many years. I work with communication problems, disability, chronic illness, cultural and religious differences, infertility, depression, bereavement, sexual dysfunction, perimenopause among many other concerns that affect relationships.
I work with couples and individuals struggling with their relationships and or with sex and intimacy issues.
It can be daunting to approach a therapist about personal problems in your relationships or the fact that you aren't in one or find it hard to sustain one.    Speaking about your concerns with an experienced and empathetic listener can disempower the anxiety so the work of recovery can begin.  I specialise in relationship and sexual problems and have enjoyed working in the NHS and privately over many years. I work with communication problems, disability, chronic illness, cultural and religious differences, infertility, depression, bereavement, sexual dysfunction, perimenopause among many other concerns that affect relationships.
020 3962 0554 View 020 3962 0554
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Bankole Jaiyeoba
Psychotherapist, MBACP
1 Endorsed
North London, London N1
I am a fully qualified psychotherapist and counsellor and registered member of COSRT as a Psychosexual & Relationship Therapist offering counselling and sex therapy for individuals or couples in the Kensington, Camden & Islington areas or online.
I see clients with common problems such as lack of desire, erectile difficulties, sexual pain and pornography. I have extensive experience working with anger, trauma, abuse and relationships, I believe that our early childhood relationships hold keys to how we navigate the world. I offer both short term and open ended therapy either face to face or virtual.
I am a fully qualified psychotherapist and counsellor and registered member of COSRT as a Psychosexual & Relationship Therapist offering counselling and sex therapy for individuals or couples in the Kensington, Camden & Islington areas or online.
I see clients with common problems such as lack of desire, erectile difficulties, sexual pain and pornography. I have extensive experience working with anger, trauma, abuse and relationships, I believe that our early childhood relationships hold keys to how we navigate the world. I offer both short term and open ended therapy either face to face or virtual.
020 4538 5097 View 020 4538 5097
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Rosalind Simpson
Psychotherapist, COSRT Accred
2 Endorsed
North London, London N16
My approach is inclusive, trauma-informed, attachment-based, and sex-positive.
Rosalind Simpson works with all mental health issues including sex, relationship, PTSD, trauma, anxiety, depression and abuse, stress in the work place and addiction. City Dynamic Therapy also offers bespoke 2 or 3 day weekend intensive therapy for individual couples worldwide Rosalind Simpson is LGBTQ+ friendly and open to polyamory, kink/ consensual BDSM.
My approach is inclusive, trauma-informed, attachment-based, and sex-positive.
Rosalind Simpson works with all mental health issues including sex, relationship, PTSD, trauma, anxiety, depression and abuse, stress in the work place and addiction. City Dynamic Therapy also offers bespoke 2 or 3 day weekend intensive therapy for individual couples worldwide Rosalind Simpson is LGBTQ+ friendly and open to polyamory, kink/ consensual BDSM.
020 3856 8640 View 020 3856 8640
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Bjorn Ventris
Psychotherapist, COSRT General
1 Endorsed
North London, London N16
I am a relationship and sex therapist based in Hackney.
You are the expert on you and your relationships, and it is my job to help you solve your own problems. In therapy we will work collaboratively to explore unhelpful patterns of thought and behaviour and uncover what is causing them. With that increased awareness you then have the choice to do something different and lead a happier and more fulfilled life.
I am a relationship and sex therapist based in Hackney.
You are the expert on you and your relationships, and it is my job to help you solve your own problems. In therapy we will work collaboratively to explore unhelpful patterns of thought and behaviour and uncover what is causing them. With that increased awareness you then have the choice to do something different and lead a happier and more fulfilled life.
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Alexandra Lowe
Psychotherapist, COSRT Reg.
1 Endorsed
North London, London N8
I am a qualified Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist working with individuals, couples, and polycules, with issues around communication, desire/arousal, orgasm, erectile difficulties, vaginal discomfort/pain, trauma, body image, gender and sexuality related issues, menopause, affairs, non monogamous, polyamorous relationships, porn addiction, kink, and bdsm.
My aim is to help you explore your feelings, thoughts and emotions and the affect they have on your behaviour and mood. I see the therapeutic process as a collaborative one, with us working side-by-side to develop your inner resources, communication skills, improve awareness of yourself, your body and your relationships with others.
I am a qualified Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist working with individuals, couples, and polycules, with issues around communication, desire/arousal, orgasm, erectile difficulties, vaginal discomfort/pain, trauma, body image, gender and sexuality related issues, menopause, affairs, non monogamous, polyamorous relationships, porn addiction, kink, and bdsm.
My aim is to help you explore your feelings, thoughts and emotions and the affect they have on your behaviour and mood. I see the therapeutic process as a collaborative one, with us working side-by-side to develop your inner resources, communication skills, improve awareness of yourself, your body and your relationships with others.
020 3879 4641 View 020 3879 4641
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Mia Zur-Szpiro
Psychotherapist, COSRT Reg.
North London, London N7
I work with individuals and couples on issues related to sex, sexuality, and relationships.
As a pluralistic therapist I draw on a variety of therapeutic approaches to honour each person's unique needs, including Psychodynamic, CBT, Gestalt, Human Givens, Person Centred & Mindfulness, as well as using Psychoeducation, Somatic Awareness and offer practices to clients to work on. I work with individuals & couples on psychosexual & relationship themes
I work with individuals and couples on issues related to sex, sexuality, and relationships.
As a pluralistic therapist I draw on a variety of therapeutic approaches to honour each person's unique needs, including Psychodynamic, CBT, Gestalt, Human Givens, Person Centred & Mindfulness, as well as using Psychoeducation, Somatic Awareness and offer practices to clients to work on. I work with individuals & couples on psychosexual & relationship themes
020 3960 5054 x44 View 020 3960 5054 x44
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Olga Salodini
Psychotherapist
2 Endorsed
Online Only
As an Integrative Sex & Relationship Therapist, I provide a safe, non-judgmental space where we can work together on relationship challenges and intimate concerns.
I tailor all treatments to suit my client’s specific needs. I am eclectic in my approach to therapy to help facilitate a stronger bond between partners, to help clients develop alternative ways of thinking and behaving to reduce psychological distress or help clients to achieve different perspectives and discover new meaning in their lives.
As an Integrative Sex & Relationship Therapist, I provide a safe, non-judgmental space where we can work together on relationship challenges and intimate concerns.
I tailor all treatments to suit my client’s specific needs. I am eclectic in my approach to therapy to help facilitate a stronger bond between partners, to help clients develop alternative ways of thinking and behaving to reduce psychological distress or help clients to achieve different perspectives and discover new meaning in their lives.
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Sophie Bryson
Counsellor, MBABCP
North London, London N1
Psycho-sexual therapy can enhance relationships and sex life.
I work with clients of any gender on issues such as orgasm issues, erection problems, premature/early ejaculation, delayed ejaculation, low desire, pain and penetration problems (e.g. vaginismus, vestibulodynia, vulvodynia), compulsive sexual behaviour, kink and fetish exploration, this list isn't exhaustive so please reach out to hear more.
Psycho-sexual therapy can enhance relationships and sex life.
I work with clients of any gender on issues such as orgasm issues, erection problems, premature/early ejaculation, delayed ejaculation, low desire, pain and penetration problems (e.g. vaginismus, vestibulodynia, vulvodynia), compulsive sexual behaviour, kink and fetish exploration, this list isn't exhaustive so please reach out to hear more.
0131 381 3520 View 0131 381 3520
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Lina Helena Milner
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
North London, London N3
My specialism is relationship and sex therapy for couples and individuals.
I am an experienced relationship, psychosexual therapist and clinical supervisor registered with BACP and COSRT. I offer online and face-to-face therapy rooms in North and Central London. My additional specialism is the impact of cancer treatments on sexual response and recovery from sexual abuse.
My specialism is relationship and sex therapy for couples and individuals.
I am an experienced relationship, psychosexual therapist and clinical supervisor registered with BACP and COSRT. I offer online and face-to-face therapy rooms in North and Central London. My additional specialism is the impact of cancer treatments on sexual response and recovery from sexual abuse.
07723 456237 View 07723 456237
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The Psychosexual Hub
Counsellor, COSRT Reg.
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
For sex therapy, these include support with compulsive sexual behaviours, porn addiction, sexual desire differences, but also support focused on issues like pain during sex, problems with erections or ejaculation.
My name is Rossella (she/they), I am a dedicated and compassionate psychosexual and relationship therapist, deeply committed to helping individuals navigate challenges that can arise in intimate relationships. As a trauma informed therapist with over 16 years experience, I offer individual and partnered sessions, and adapt my practice to your needs.
For sex therapy, these include support with compulsive sexual behaviours, porn addiction, sexual desire differences, but also support focused on issues like pain during sex, problems with erections or ejaculation.
My name is Rossella (she/they), I am a dedicated and compassionate psychosexual and relationship therapist, deeply committed to helping individuals navigate challenges that can arise in intimate relationships. As a trauma informed therapist with over 16 years experience, I offer individual and partnered sessions, and adapt my practice to your needs.
01707 247144 View 01707 247144
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Deirdre MacGinley
Counsellor, MA, MBACP Accred
Serves Area
Do you feel frightened that your world might fall apart if you look at your sexuality or gender?
Imagine feeling less anxious and able to live your life peacefully. To know that you’re normal and that these feelings are not something to be scared of. That there is someone you can talk to. I have over 40 years’ life experience of being a member of the LGBTQ+ community, as well as working with heterosexual people and been a counsellor for 7.
Do you feel frightened that your world might fall apart if you look at your sexuality or gender?
Imagine feeling less anxious and able to live your life peacefully. To know that you’re normal and that these feelings are not something to be scared of. That there is someone you can talk to. I have over 40 years’ life experience of being a member of the LGBTQ+ community, as well as working with heterosexual people and been a counsellor for 7.
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Jordan Karis Dixon
Psychotherapist, COSRT Accred
Serves Area
Waitlist for new clients
I believe there are no limits in our awareness and growth towards achieving optimal sexuality.
Working alongside clients, I regard my role as empowering clients. I feel therapy should help clients connect to their own power within to access the insight to identify the tools required to work through underlying root causes. I guide clients through that process, who achieve sustainable internal changes and expansive growth as a result.
I believe there are no limits in our awareness and growth towards achieving optimal sexuality.
Working alongside clients, I regard my role as empowering clients. I feel therapy should help clients connect to their own power within to access the insight to identify the tools required to work through underlying root causes. I guide clients through that process, who achieve sustainable internal changes and expansive growth as a result.
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www.tri-therapy.com
Psychotherapist, DCounsPsych, COSRT General
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Specialist Qualifications as a Psychosexual ( Sex) & Relationship Therapist and trauma support were completed to support clients with sexual functioning, Identity, trauma, desires, expression, and a myriad of concerns.
As an Integrative Counsellor, Psychosexual & Relationship/Marriage therapist, I weave different therapies to support clients in their uniqueness to manage and heal from struggles that affect their emotional, and mental health & happiness. Ruptures in one's mental wellness can lead to stress, depression, anxiety, addiction, and sexual functioning/ identity concerns that hinder emotional self-esteem and ongoing happiness within and in our relationship with ourselves and others. Therapy is a gift on the journey of self-development..Is 2025 the year?
Specialist Qualifications as a Psychosexual ( Sex) & Relationship Therapist and trauma support were completed to support clients with sexual functioning, Identity, trauma, desires, expression, and a myriad of concerns.
As an Integrative Counsellor, Psychosexual & Relationship/Marriage therapist, I weave different therapies to support clients in their uniqueness to manage and heal from struggles that affect their emotional, and mental health & happiness. Ruptures in one's mental wellness can lead to stress, depression, anxiety, addiction, and sexual functioning/ identity concerns that hinder emotional self-esteem and ongoing happiness within and in our relationship with ourselves and others. Therapy is a gift on the journey of self-development..Is 2025 the year?
020 8103 3827 View 020 8103 3827
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Honor Clapp
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP
Online Only
I work with clients with a variety of problems: OCD & other anxiety difficulties, relationship & sex difficulties, and issues pertaining to self esteem, sexuality & gender identity.
Hi, I'm Honor. I work with clients who have been experiencing a wide range of issues including anxiety, OCD, depression, stress, relationship, gender and sexual difficulties. I believe each and every client is unique and I feel strongly about providing a space where you feel seen and understood. I am passionate about helping you work towards achieving your own personal goals as well as providing a safe space where you feel comfortable to express yourself and continue your journey to healing. I can support you to change unwanted behaviours that might be impacting your life negatively.
I work with clients with a variety of problems: OCD & other anxiety difficulties, relationship & sex difficulties, and issues pertaining to self esteem, sexuality & gender identity.
Hi, I'm Honor. I work with clients who have been experiencing a wide range of issues including anxiety, OCD, depression, stress, relationship, gender and sexual difficulties. I believe each and every client is unique and I feel strongly about providing a space where you feel seen and understood. I am passionate about helping you work towards achieving your own personal goals as well as providing a safe space where you feel comfortable to express yourself and continue your journey to healing. I can support you to change unwanted behaviours that might be impacting your life negatively.
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Erik Rusowicz
Psychologist, MSc, GMBPsS
Online Only
My work focuses on helping individuals and couples explore their sexual concerns without shame or judgment, whether it’s low desire, pain during sex, erection or orgasm issues, compulsive sexual behavior, or challenges around sexual identity or trauma.
In our sessions, you’ll gain a deeper understanding of how your thoughts and emotions work. You’ll learn practical strategies to manage anxiety, improve communication, and resolve relationship and sexual issues. Each session offers clear, actionable tools to help you cope, grow, and thrive emotionally, mentally, and sexually.
My work focuses on helping individuals and couples explore their sexual concerns without shame or judgment, whether it’s low desire, pain during sex, erection or orgasm issues, compulsive sexual behavior, or challenges around sexual identity or trauma.
In our sessions, you’ll gain a deeper understanding of how your thoughts and emotions work. You’ll learn practical strategies to manage anxiety, improve communication, and resolve relationship and sexual issues. Each session offers clear, actionable tools to help you cope, grow, and thrive emotionally, mentally, and sexually.
020 4572 4519 View 020 4572 4519
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Giorgia C Bertoni
Counsellor, MBACP
Online Only
I'm a psychodynamic therapist working primarily with issues related to sex, intimacy and relationships.
As a psychodynamic counsellor I can offer you a safe, confidential and non-judgemental space in which we can address whatever issues you're struggling with. Together we can journey into your inner world, make sense of your difficulties, find and create ways of coping, healing and thriving. My aim is to enable you to speak and live your own truth.
I'm a psychodynamic therapist working primarily with issues related to sex, intimacy and relationships.
As a psychodynamic counsellor I can offer you a safe, confidential and non-judgemental space in which we can address whatever issues you're struggling with. Together we can journey into your inner world, make sense of your difficulties, find and create ways of coping, healing and thriving. My aim is to enable you to speak and live your own truth.
020 8106 0714 View 020 8106 0714
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Emese Taylor
Counsellor, MA, COSRT Reg.
1 Endorsed
North London, London N22
If you're facing challenges in your sex life or relationships, or if dating feels daunting and low self-confidence is holding you back, I want to extend a warm welcome to you.
Here’s a list of areas where I can offer support, drawing from my extensive experience, including my time at Homerton Hospital: - Male sexual issues - Female sexual issues - Relationship issues - Virginity in later life - Dating skills - Sexual confidence - Overcoming depression - Overcoming anxiety - Personal confidence Traumas /ptsd and much more .
If you're facing challenges in your sex life or relationships, or if dating feels daunting and low self-confidence is holding you back, I want to extend a warm welcome to you.
Here’s a list of areas where I can offer support, drawing from my extensive experience, including my time at Homerton Hospital: - Male sexual issues - Female sexual issues - Relationship issues - Virginity in later life - Dating skills - Sexual confidence - Overcoming depression - Overcoming anxiety - Personal confidence Traumas /ptsd and much more .
020 4572 5819 View 020 4572 5819
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Chris Dudgeon
Psychotherapist, MA, MNCPS Acc.
North London, London N1
This also involves relationship issues, problematic patterns of thinking and behaviour, body image, sex, shame and guilt.
I have outlined below my training, qualifications and the modalities I practise. However, the most important element of your therapy is our relationship. I specialise in helping clients to speak openly and confidently about issues which they have kept hidden. My practice is focused on making you feel safe and understood.
This also involves relationship issues, problematic patterns of thinking and behaviour, body image, sex, shame and guilt.
I have outlined below my training, qualifications and the modalities I practise. However, the most important element of your therapy is our relationship. I specialise in helping clients to speak openly and confidently about issues which they have kept hidden. My practice is focused on making you feel safe and understood.
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Sex Therapy Counsellors

Who is sex therapy for?

Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.

Why do people need sex therapy?

Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.

What happens in sex therapy?

People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.

What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?

Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.